Yeah, Me Too Deliberation rarely occurs in the world at large and nor did it occur in room 308 Boucke the past few classes. For a successful deliberation, a group must have a personal stake in the problem, have a larger knowledge base of the topic, each person should not conform to everyone else, and less focus on following the “rules” set out by our teachers or any higher up (sorry Kyle). The group did not fit any of these guidelines for deliberation, making it unsuccessful. At the start of the deliberation, the group went around and told everyone his or her personal stake with sustainability. The circle went around saying, “ I am kind of like everyone else; I recycle when convenient but don’t really do too much.” These remarks set the tone for the entire discussion on days one and two, and this happened in the first five minutes of conversation. The teacher pointed this out to the group on the second day; however, this did not change the direction of conversation. With the same stake, each person had similar ideas and did not honestly care where the direction was headed because after the discussion was over, they could each go back to their semiwasteful/semi-sustainable life. In a deliberation where some of the parties involved have a personal stake, they are more willing to argue their points or have an idea they adapt to meet all needs. Without any stake, conformity became a part of the sustainability deliberation. Along with lack of stake, the participants also had a lack of knowledge. Without a personal stake in the subject of sustainability, no one had any motivation to seek further knowledge into the subject. A deliberation requires each person to do some research and to obtain as much information as possible on a stance. Once a stake is found, a person will seek more knowledge about that stake to defend it. No one in the deliberation had a personal stake or an exceptional amount of knowledge. Everyone’s knowledge stopped at the end of the National Issues Forum and this caused the entire group to agree with every comment made in the discussion. Conformity occurs in everything save deliberation. Conformity is a term often used in the same sentence as peer pressure, not in a conversation where the best possible solution must be picked. While ideas must conform together to create the best solution, each person does not have to have the same idea as every other person in the discussion. Just as everyone else’s stake claimed the same thing, ideas being shared were always agreed upon and rarely opposed by others in the room. For good conversation, new and different ideas must be added otherwise the conversation stagnates. This problem comes directly from the personal stakes everyone carries. If there were varying stakes in the room, there will be new ideas and counter arguments at everyone’s points. This would allow a moderator to continue the conversation until an idea is agreed upon by the masses in the deliberation. This lack of stake and the conformity to ideas occurred because no one had any other ideas than the few being said. Anyone could have come up with a new idea, but with the lack of care, any idea sounded great. This attitude was present in every person in the sustainability deliberation and this greatly impacted the moderator’s job. The moderator needs new ideas to create questions to sift through each idea and form a new idea that everyone agrees with. This is impossible if everyone has the same thought. Most of the time, the moderators just asked a question, and then everyone answered in a similar version or elaboration of the first person’s thought. The moderator then proceeded to ask a new question and the same thing occurred. These repetitions of ask, answer, and agree occurred every time discussion took place as if it were a rule. The three rules of deliberation are: do not be rude to anyone, allow everyone’s voice to be heard, and come up with the best possible solution at the end. In these terms alone, our class had a two out of three on good deliberation. Unfortunately, there were other rules in place that hindered our deliberation. After the personal stakes were covered, a student went through a list of rules that everyone had to follow. These rules were clearly written by or guided by a teacher for they were not the words of a college student ready to deliberate their point of view. There were two rules in particular that really hindered the deliberative process: do not debate or argue any points (this was followed by a point stating that if the moderator did not stop it, the person reading the rules would) and on day one we would only discuss stance one, on day two only stance two for the first part, and stance three for the second part of day two. These two rules alone hindered our entire deliberation. The “no argumentation” rule was the main reason why conformity was such a key part in the deliberation. Without the ability to argument, students were forced to agree in fear that they would be shut down from talking. Who wants to be the one person who was told to calm down in a classroom because they got too passionate about sustainability? Not one person disagreed or debated points in fear of this. Deliberation must be peaceful but deliberation can have disagreements in a civil manner. The second rule also hindered discussion. Moderators were forced to stick to only their stance, which hindered their ability to begin forming conclusions and solutions in people’s heads. A solution that fits everyone’s wants must be compared along the way. Moderators (not to pick sides but it was from our class) made several attempts to compare/contrast ideas from two or all three of the stances. Each time, a student (from the other class) restated the rule, which ended the conversation right then and there. It may have been a class rivalry in this case, however, in a general sense, this rule should not be in place for a deliberation. Comparisons must be made or no solution will be possible because otherwise, the deliberation consists of people saying their points and that’s it. In no ways did this classroom deliberation reflect how democracy works. For one, the participants in a democratic forum have a stake in what they are doing, even if it is to get reelected, they have a way larger stake than the classroom. These participants are also expected to have a large knowledge base because their jobs rely on the fact that they can defend their points and get their goals into action. These two elements of democracy were not in place in the classroom. Since a democratic setting contains stakes, conformity would not be an issue. Each person attempts to reach their goal and whoever comes out the victor is happy. In this arena, there are no rules stating when something can be discussed or to not argue your points. A lot of time, arguing is the only way to get your point out. Democracy has a lot to add to the process of deliberation in our classroom but it can not be considered deliberation because it usually does not partake in peaceful exchange and everyone’s say being heard. While the classroom was effective in peaceful conversation and equality in voicing (key proponents in deliberation), there was no real deliberation that occurred. While some aspects were present, there was no final solution at the end, partially because no one really cared because it was not going to affect our daily lives and partially because we were forced to pick one solution by the “rules” set out and no one liked that idea. As a whole, the deliberation was pitiful in the classroom; no one held a personal stake or had a large knowledge base over the issue. Everyone conformed to the first ideas being stated and the rules held back our conversation. Thusly, deliberation cannot occur as long as lack of stake, lack of knowledge, conformity, and rules hold back discussion; if all deliberations would follow these characteristics, a “yeah, me too” attitude would plague all of them.