SEXUAL ADDICTION Connye V. Robinson, LMSW October 3, 2013 LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX (OR SEX ADDICTION)! WHAT IS SEXUAL ADDICTION? A recurring pattern of sexual fantasies, urges and behaviors lasting six months or longer, which are not caused by other issues like substance abuse, another medical condition or manic episodes associated with bipolar disorder; A pattern of sexual activity in response to unpleasant mood states, such as feeling depressed, or a pattern of repeatedly using sex as a way of coping with stress; A lack of ability to reduce or stop sexual activities the patient believes are problematic; and Evidence of "personal distress" caused by the behavior, like interference with work or relationships. http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2012-10/science-says-sex-addiction-real-disorder-andhere%E2%80%99s-how-diagnose-it Sexual Addiction goes beyond REALLY enjoying sex! MERRY-GO-ROUND OF ADDICTION Negative Mood State Repeat Fantasy/ Guilt/shame Trigger Consummation/ Pleasure “THE LITTLE PRINCE” EXUPERY BY DE SAINT- The Little Prince: Why do you drink? The Tippler: Because I am ashamed. The Little Prince: Why are you ashamed? The Tippler: Because I drink. EXAMPLES OF SEXUAL ADDICTIVE BEHAVIORS Pornography Voyeurism Exhibitionism Compulsive Masturbation Prostitution/multiple partners w/o emotional attachment Phone and/or cybersex LET’S TALK NUMBERS 17 to 37 million Americans are sexually addicted (Hagedorn, 2009). Every second, $3075.62 is spent. This makes the revenue from the pornography industry LARGER than the revenues of Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo!, Apple, Netflix and Earthlink…(and FIVERchamp) combined. (Olivas, Liu & Wallitsch, 2008) A sexually addicted individual spends and estimated18-48 hours/week on the internet compared to 5-20 hours for a non-addicted individual. (Jones & Hertlein, 2012) CONSEQUENCES OF SEXUAL ADDICTION Social Emotional Physical Legal Financial and/or occupational Spiritual Generally speaking a sex addict would suffer the consequences in multiple categories. FACES OF THE SEXUALLY ADDICTED J e n n i f e r FACES OF THE SEXUALLY ADDICTED J a m e s FACES OF THE SEXUALLY ADDICTED N i c o l e FACES OF THE SEXUALLY ADDICTED P h i l THE CLINICIAN AND THE SEXUALLY ADDICTED TREATMENT Frame of reference (Religious, political, medical etc.) Research DSM classification (or lack thereof) Gaps ASSESSMENT TOOLS Sexual Addiction Scale of the Disorders Screening Inventory (SAS). Compulsive Sexual Behavior Inventory (CSBI). Sexual Dependency Inventory-Revised (SDI-R). Perceived Sexual Control Scale (PSCS). Geros Sexual Behavior Index (GSBI). Sexual Compulsivity Scale (SCS). Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST). Sexual Addiction Screening Test-Women (WSAST). RESOURCES-BOOKS Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes Contrary to Love by Patrick Carnes Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction by Dr. Mark Laaser The Pornography Trap by Dr. Mark Lasser and Ralph Earle When You Love Too Much by Stephen Arterburn I Surrender All by Clay & Renee Crosse RESOURCES CONT. (TEXAS) Sex Addicts Anonymous: Meetings in Texas http://saarecovery.org/Meetings/UnitedStates/meeting.php?state=TX State of Texas: Behavioral and Mental Health http://www.texas.gov/en/discover/Pages/topic.aspx?topicid=/ health/mental REFERENCES Family Safe Media. http://www.familysafemedia.com/pornography_statistics.html Ford, J., Durtschi, J., Franklin, D. (2012). Structural Therapy with a Couple Battlling Pornography Addiction. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 40: 336-348. Hagedorn, W. B. (2009). Sexual Addiction Counseling Competencies: Empirically-Based Tools for Preparing Clinicians to Recognize, Assess, and Treat Sexual Addiction. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity,16:190-209. Hook, J. , Hook, J., Davis, D., Worthington, E., & Penberthy, J.K. (2010). Measuring Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity: A Critical Review of Instruments. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 36:227-260. Levine, S. (2010) . What is Sexual Addiction? Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 36:261-275. Olivas, M., Liu, N. & Wallitsch, L. (2008). The Study of Men and Sexual Addictions. Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew, http://www.vh1.com/shows/sex_rehab_with_dr_drew/series.jhtml UCLA study http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2012-10/science-says-sex-addiction-real-disorder-andhere%E2%80%99s-how-diagnose-it THANK YOU! (FOR NOT HAVING QUESTIONS )