Role Playing with Wimba Michael Milburn Psychology Department UMass/Boston The Course • Psych 337—Communication and Society • Narrated PowerPoints • Interpersonal Communication – Non-verbal Communication – Gender and Communication • Systems of Communication – Paul Watzlavick—Pragmatics of Human Communication • • • • First to apply systems theory to communication in the family Relational/Content aspects of communication Meta-communication Feedback loops – Positive: escalation – Negative: thermostat • Counterfeit questions • Punctuation – “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” The Discussion • What is the setting of the film? • What is the tone set in the opening couple of minutes of the film? How does it change? • What counterfeit questions did you observe? • What are the “games”? • What is the purpose of the games? The Discussion • Who is to blame in the conflict? – Is George a victim? – What about when he refused to kiss her? • What kind of feedback characterizes the system? • What role does the myth of the son play in the family system? • What examples of metacommunication did you see? • How is Relational Control Theory relevant? The Assignment • In your group, you are to take the role of a family therapist to whom George and Martha have come for help with their marital difficulties. You have just viewed their interactions for 2 hours. • 1) From what you have learned about Relational Control Theory, do an analysis of George and Martha’s relationship • 2) Make recommendations for George and Martha to improve their relationship Doing it Online--Wimba • Enter Wimba • Create Breakout Rooms – Drag instructor’s name into rooms to move from room to room – Setup eBoard • Designate a student to have control – Use “Enable” command – Make sure students know how to use Whiteboard • Keep track of points in discussion on Whiteboard – Students do a “Save” that sends screenshot to Main Room – Slides saved into BOR folder • End Breakout rooms, bring students back to Main Room • Go over different rooms’ discussions Relational Control Theory Michael Milburn Psych 337 Watzlavick, Beavin & Jackson (1967) Pragmatics of Human Communication • Fox and rabbits • Psychopathology • Carnap – Syntactics – Semantics – Pragmatics Feedback • • • • • • • Cybernetics Positive or negative Positive—change Negative—stability Interpersonal systems Metacommunication Circularity of communication patterns Axioms of Communication • • • • Impossible not to communicate Content and relationship aspects Healthy/sick relationships Punctuation of communication Axioms of Communication • • • • Impossible not to communicate Content and relationship aspects Healthy/sick relationships Punctuation of communication Axioms of Communication • • • • Impossible not to communicate Content and relationship aspects Healthy/sick relationships Punctuation of communication Healthy/Sick Relationships Content Information communicated Relationship Sick Healthy Axioms of Communication • • • • Impossible not to communicate Content and relationship aspects Healthy/sick relationships Punctuation of communication Punctuation Husband 1 3 nags withdraws Wife 2 5 7 9 11 nags nags nags nags withdraws withdraws withdraws withdraws 4 6 8 10 Punctuation--Husband Husband 1 3 nags withdraws Wife 2 5 7 9 11 nags nags nags nags withdraws withdraws withdraws withdraws 4 6 8 10 Punctuation--Wife Husband 1 3 nags withdraws Wife 2 5 7 9 11 nags nags nags nags withdraws withdraws withdraws withdraws 4 6 8 10 Relational Control Theory • Frank Millar/Edna Rogers • Main question: “who controls this relationship?” • Control may vary • Couples negotiate Counterfeit Questions • Make up a list of types of questions • Come up with an example from your own experience of different types Counterfeit Questions • • • • • Questions that trap speaker Questions that make a statement Questions that carry hidden agendas Questions that seek “correct” answer Questions based on unchecked assumptions