Comms Quotes of Notes When asked, through the Exchange Listserve to share some of their pithiest, most compelling, incredibly inspiring quotes about communications, here is how members of The Exchange responded. As Author Julio Cortázar said in his book, Around the Day in Eighty Worlds, “In quoting others, we cite ourselves.” Shared by Tracy Benson, Kathryn Yates: The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. George Bernard Shaw Shared by Ted Pile It was impossible to get a conversation going; everybody was talking too much. Yogi Berra Shared by Beth Swanson: When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen. Ernest Hemingway The difference between the right word and the almost right word is the difference between lightning and a lightning bug. Mark Twain Think like a wise man but communicate in the language of the people. William Butler Yeats The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them. Stephen King Shared by Michael Zimet, who found this quote in a fortune cookie after starting his first job at IBM: Communication is the lifeblood of all relationships. Shared by Jacqueline Bucher: We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak. Epictetus Shared by Ron Fuchs: The art of communication is the language of leadership. James Humes 1 Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after. Anne Morrow Lindbergh Two monologues do not make a dialogue. Jeff Daly Shared by Susan Bradbury: Keep it simple, interactive, timely, and relevant. Unknown Shared by Rich Jefferson: The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it. Chinese proverb Shared by Hannah Bauer: You want to know what’s wrong with your email? Hit send. Eric Witchey Shared by Jennefer Witter: What we've got here is a failure to communicate. Cool Hand Luke Shared by Heather Rim, who said this is a quote often cited at Avery Dennison: Create a movement, not a moment. Unknown Shared by Helen Cameron: Not communicating is a very loud, powerful form of communication. Unknown Shared by Barry Mike: The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said. Peter Drucker Shared by Rebecca Carter: You can have it quick, good or cheap. Pick any two, but you can't have all three. Unknown Shared by Michelle Ghorbanian: 2 No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world. Robin Williams Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. Mother Teresa Shared by Alexandra Gallo: The void created by a failure to communicate is soon filled with poison, drivel and misrepresentation. C.N. Parkinson Next week there can’t be a crisis. My calendar is already full. Henry Kissinger Communication is everyone’s panacea for everything. Tom Peters WARNING: Dates in a project plan are closer than they appear. Unknown When someone says, “it’s not the money, it’s the principle,” it’s the money. Unknown We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are. A Nin Before you inspire with emotion, you must be swamped with it yourself. Before you can move them to tears, your own must flow. To convince them, you must yourself believe. W. Church The problem is this. No spreadsheet, no bibliography, and no list of resources is sufficient proof to someone who chooses not to believe. The skeptic will always find a reason, even if the rest of us don’t think it is a good one. Relying too much on proof distracts you from the real mission – which is emotional connection. Seth Godin The audience does not need to tune themselves to you – you need to tune your message to them. Nancy Duarte More than any time in history mankind faces a cross roads. One path leads to despair and utter hopelessness, the other to total extinction. Let us pray we have the wisdom to choose correctly. Woody Allen 3 Shared by Rob Hallam, who cited it as a recent quote from his boss to the company’s leadership team: Don't tell me all you know. Tell me what I need to know. Shared by Zachary Johnson: People overestimate what we can accomplish in one year, but underestimate what we can accomplish in 10. Unknown Shared by Tina Hrevus, who said this was an employee’s reply of what they expected from internal communications: Be brief, be brilliant, be gone. Shared by Cari Rutkoskie: I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Maya Angelou Shared by Jim Shaffer: Nobody buys communication. One of my early bosses said this to point out that people don’t buy communication any more than they buy gasoline for their cars. In both cases – fuel for the car and communication – people are really buying the ability to get to a destination. That inspired me to focus on the results well managed communication can deliver – not the process. You can’t not communicate. Unknown Shared by Matt Evans: Trying to get a message across to every employee in an organization is a lot like trying to control kids in a school bus: some will listen; some will hear but misunderstand the message; and some will ignore the message altogether and later complain, “But nobody told me.” Paul Chin Shared by Fred Droz: An imperfect execution today is better than a perfect execution next week. Unknown 4 Shared by Les Landes: The use of buzzwords anesthetizes you to the truth. Warren Bennis Dialogue is the oxygen of change. Jim Haudan Propaganda ends where dialogue begins. Marshall McLuhan An individual without information cannot take responsibility. An individual with information cannot help but take responsibility. Jan Carlzon Shared by Chris Mykrantz: Half the world is composed of people who have something to say and can't, and the other half who have nothing to say and keep on saying it. Robert Frost The two words ‘information’ and ‘communication’ are often used interchangeably, but they signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through. Sydney Harris Shared by Liz Guthridge: Actions speak louder than words. Unknown Shared by Mark Schumann: Start with truth (and then edit). Unknown Shared by Jeff Brooke: If the words of command are not clear and distinct, if orders are not thoroughly understood, the general is to blame. Sun Tzu Shared by John Clemons: NOTHING can be accomplished without communication. Unknown 5 Shared by John Jensen: If Stupidity got us into this mess, then why can’t it get us out? Will Rogers If you want to be successful it’s just this simple. Know what you are doing. Love what you are doing. And believe in what you are doing. 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