Chapter Two Listeners and Speakers Chapter Two Table of Contents Understanding the Listening Process Barriers to Active Listening Becoming a More Active Listener Active Listening and Critical Thinking Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations* Listeners and Speakers It is the listener and speaker together who truly make a speech. The continual feedback between speaker and listener is called circular response.* Understanding the Listening Process Hearing is the physiological process of perceiving sounds. Listening is the conscious act of recognizing, understanding, and accurately interpreting communicated messages. While hearing is largely reflexive or automatic, listening is selective and discriminating.* Understanding the Listening Process Listening is Selective Bridging the Message-Perception Gap* Understanding the Listening Process: Listening is Selective Selective perception is the process by which people pay attention to certain messages and ignore others. We pay attention to what we hold to be important. We pay attention to information that touches our experience and background. We sort and filter information on the basis of what we already know.* Understanding the Listening Process: Bridging the Message-Perception Gap The fact that no two people will interpret a message in exactly the same way can lead to misunderstandings, or a message-perception gap.* Barriers to Active Listening Active listening is focused, purposeful thinking which is a multi-step process of gathering and evaluating information.* Barriers to Active Listening Obstacles to active listening: Inattentiveness and distractions External distractions Internal distractions* Barriers to Active Listening Scriptwriting and Defensive Listening Laziness and Overconfidence Cultural Barriers Listening Anxiety (Receiver Apprehension)* Barriers to Active Listening: Scriptwriting and Defensive Listening People who are “scriptwriters” are thinking about what they, and not the speaker, will say next. Defensive listening usually occurs when we sense that our attitudes and opinions are being challenged.* Barriers to Active Listening: Laziness and Overconfidence Laziness and overconfidence can occur when we expect too little from speakers, ignore important information, or display an arrogant attitude.* Barriers to Active Listening: Cultural Barriers Differences in dialects, accents, nonverbal cues, word choice, and even physical appearance can serve as barriers to listening. Do not judge speakers on their appearances, but rather on the content of what they are saying.* Barriers to Active Listening: Listening Anxiety (Receiver Apprehension) Just as speech anxiety hampers one’s ability to prepare and deliver a speech, listening anxiety reduces our own ability to concentrate on and recall information. Listening anxiety usually occurs when people feel insecure.* Becoming a More Active Listener Active listeners use their eyes as well as their ears.* Becoming a More Active Listener Set Listening Goals Listen for Main Ideas Watch for Nonverbal Cues* Becoming a More Active Listener: Set Listening Goals Why are you listening? What do you need and expect?* Becoming a More Active Listener: Listen for Main Ideas Listen for the speaker’s organizational pattern. Listen for introductions, transitions, and conclusions. Watch for a direct eye gaze. Take notes of the speaker’s main points.* Becoming a More Active Listener: Watch for Nonverbal Cues Much of a speaker’s message is communicated nonverbally through: Body language Facial expressions Stance and posture* Active Listening and Critical Thinking Critical thinking is the ability to evaluate claims on the basis of well-supported reasons.* Active Listening and Critical Thinking Evaluate the evidence. Analyze assumptions and biases. Resist false dilemmas, overgeneralizations, and either-or thinking. Consider multiple perspectives. Assess an argument’s logic. Summarize and judge.* Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations By critically evaluating the speeches of others, you’ll be able to better assess your own strengths and weaknesses as a speaker.* Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations Be Honest and Fair in Your Evaluation Adjust to the Speaker’s Style Be Compassionate in Your Criticism* Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations: Be Honest and Fair in Your Evaluation It is important to remain open to ideas and beliefs that differ from your own.* Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations: Adjust to the Speaker’s Style Maintaining respect for all types and styles of speakers is a sign of good listening.* Guidelines for Evaluating Speeches and Presentations: Be Compassionate in Criticizing Be constructive: Start by saying something positive. Focus on the speech, not the speaker. Target your criticism.*