NEWS LETTER April, 2013 to June, 2013 Volume-4 Special Edition Patron: Prof. Dr. Azra Asghar Ali Chief Editor: Dr.Javed Salyana Coordinator: Kamran Ishfaq Editors Saadia Naz Haider Shahzad Mahmood Department of Gender Studies Bahauddin Zakariya University Multan Message from Chairperson It is a great contentment to reach out to students, parents and faculty members through the 4th issue of News Letter of Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University, Multan along with the glimpses of many activities in academic, co-curricular enterprises and workshops. This News Letter reflects the diverse dimensions and faculties of our students. This issue is an expression of the spirit of the Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University Multan to encompass views, feelings and creativity of the students, motivated by their teachers. I congratulate the teaching and non-teaching staff of Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University Multan for their tireless efforts, fervor and determination to groom the students for their all round development personality. I am confident that the Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University Multan in future will accomplish greater heights of success and will soon achieve a higher status of gratitude and reputation. I also congratulate the Editorial board for bringing out this wonderful issue of “NewsLetter”. Prof.Dr. Azra Asghat Ali Note by Chief Editor Welcome to the readers of Newsletter! We have devoted this Newsletter to the Project of the USAID and Aurat Foundation with the name of “Strengthening the Academic Capacities of the Gender Studies Department and Adding to the Body of Research on GBV in Southern Punjab”. It is my sturdy belief that positive results for the Newsletter circulation and for the dissemination of news concerning the Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University, Multan activities and a part of the benefit for the Society, will give us a tool of greater flexibility regarding the topics and length of each issue. Highlighting the issues of different concern will carry on to cover all aspects of the Society’s interests, and at the same time will provide us with the opportunity to present articles and news according to our members’ interests and suggestions. It goes without saying that, to be successful with this effort, we will need an actual feedback from all Newsletter. Their suggestions and contributions are not only welcomed but rather sought and requested. Dr.Javed Akhtar Salyana April, 2013 to June, 2013 VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4 GREAT WOMEN’S OF WORLD Hazrat Fatima (R.A) Hazrat Fatima (R.A) was daughter of Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W) and Hazrat Khadijah (R.A), wife of Hazrat Ali (R.A) and mother of Hazrat Hasan (R.A) and Hazrat Hussain (R.A), and one of the five members of Ahl al-Bayt. She became the object of great veneration by all Muslims, because she lived closest to her father and supported him in his difficulties.. She is the only member of Hazrat Muhammad's (S.A.W.W) family establish lineage, numerously spread through the Islamic world. For Muslims, Hazrat Fatima (R.A) is an inspiring example throughout the Muslim world. Hazrat Fatima (R.A) was the model of Prophet’s teaching among women. Hazrat Fatima (SA) was a symbol of womanhood in Islam. How a daughter, a wife and a mother should behave in their ordinary lives. She was devoted to her father, looked after him when he was in distress by the hands of the non-believers of Makka. She was the exemplary wife, queen of her household, she was a devout wife and the most loving mother to her children. Muslims regard Fatimah as a loving and devoted daughter, mother, wife, a sincere Muslim, and an exemplar for women. It is believed that she was very close to her father and her distinction from other women is mentioned in many hadith. After Hazrat Khadijah (R.A), Muslims regard Fatimah as the most significant historical figure, considered to be the leader (Arabic: Sayyidih) of all women in this world and in Paradise. It is because of her moral purity that she occupies an analogous position in Islam. She died a few months after her father's death, and was buried in Jannat Al-Baqi'. Interaction with Civil Society Organizations A Project of USAID and Aurat Foundation Dated: 23-05-2013 This was the second round of interaction with civil society organizations working on the issues of gender based violence in the region of South Punjab. Eight different organizations like CHOPAL, SPO, AWAZ Foundation, CRESCENT LION CLUB,RAAS, DARUL AMAN Multan and News Paper Daily Express sent their representatives for their discussion to evolve a pragmatic perspective on the violence against female gender. Faculty of the Department and students of M.Phil participated in discussion and shared the views given by both the academic and civil society members. More or less there were similar views of all participants about the referral system to address the needs of the affectee. The involvement of academia, media, civil society and civil administration was hinged upon this felt need. It was realized in the discussion that gap between theory and practice to address the issue of GBV could be met by introducing the structural changes in the legal aid network and law enforcement agencies along with expansion of socio-economic bases to generate the opportunities for wage work for the emerging female labor force. Delete text and place photo here. Delete text and place photo here. Dr.Javeed salyana April, 2013 to June, 2013 VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4 Bitter Sweet Realities As soon as someone hears that your admission is accepted in some prestigious university, people have different reactions, some are exuberant, some are envious, some are over protective always giving their wise share of advice, while some are neutral who don’t bother at all and some get worried especially when it comes to girls where they know co-education will be part of the mix. Overall university life is considered to be a remarkable and memorable lifetime experience where one meets new people from diverse backgrounds, becomes careless, bunks classes, hangs around canteens and other favorite spots, ogles and comments at every other girl passing by, betting on ridiculous things along with their penalties, try different tricks to get their class fellow’s contact numbers etc. This is just a brief overview of the fun side of things, but there is always a dark side to everything. Many girls enter the university with high hopes, an aim to achieve the unthinkable and try to make everything right from day one, but sometimes they are unable to enjoy the glitz of university life due to various reasons, either they are entrapped in the wrong company by their so-called friends who are full of envy and make it a mission to ruin their reputation by all means, or they may be a target of some student political group, they may be stalked by some rejected lovelorn, constantly harassed via text messages, blackmailed in the academic domain, some girls who even talk or sit with a group of class fellows become the target of rumors, some girls have complexes regarding their dressing and try to alter themselves due to peer pressure and some innocent girls are tactfully persuaded into getting in unethical activities which has no turning back. In such situations girls do not have much moral support and no one to turn to, they cannot even confide in their parents or family due to the fear of their severe reaction of discontinuing their education or getting the blame on themselves as girls are the first to be blamed by their own families, even their friends are useless in such situations rather they tend to make it part of their juicy gossip. Personally I think there should be a female student counselor in each department of every university where girls have someone to seek help and guidance before it is too late, the girls should build a strong bond with their parents to be able to discuss everything and anything without any hesitation. Many families lack cohesion within their relations, people should change their mind-set, fill in the missing gaps and the educational institutions should inculcate gender sensitization in both boys and girls as it is the need of the hour and pivotal for the society to progress holistically. Saadia Haider April, 2013 to June, 2013 E-Portal Workshop in Karachi 19 June 2013 to 21 June 2013 By the efforts of USAID and Aurat Foundation, an E-Portal facility has been developed for the sharing of knowledge among different universities all over Pakistan. This Linkage of E-Portal is held in the second quarter of the project “Gender Based Violence”, assigned to the Department of Gender Studies Bahauddin Zakariya University Multan. On the 20th of June 2013 at the University of Karachi, Center of Excellence Department of Women Studies a workshop held, the participants from Aurat Foundation and the faculty of Department of Women Studies, University of Karachi and Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University, Multan. A presentation was given to us by an I.T specialist who gave us some very handy software tools and showed how to encrypt our data by using them to upload the data on the web. This website was to be developed till March 2013 Basit Habib VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4 Field Visit DG Khan & Rajan Pur GENDER DISCRIMINATION IN PRINT MEDIA 3 to 5 July,2013 Department of Gender Studies, Bahauddin Zakariya University, Multan organized a field study visit to DG Khan and Rajanpur on July 3 to 5, 2013. These areas, already mentioned in the thematic scheme of “Strengthening the capacities of Department of Gender Studies and Adding the Body of Research on GBV in South Punjab’’, to highlight the prevailing trends of gender based violence by unveiling the structural constraints which are reflected in patriarchy, embedded in customary practices. In this segment of study two of the groups related to Social Welfare Department and its affiliated body’s i.e Dar-Ul-Aman and the other one was legal community to explore their working parameters in the realm of those issues which had directly influenced the lives of women in the region of South Punjab. This step is formulated to observe and examine the cases that had been sheltered in Dar-ulAman in lieu of their litigation. This strategy in part The aim of Media is to provide lot of information to the newsletter text entertainments, here. masses in the form of advertisements, and news through different medium like electronic media (TV, films, internet), and print media (newspaper, magazines, newsletters, brochures, posters, banners, and billboard). We can say that media has power to create awareness in society. By shaping public opinions, personal perception and personal beliefs, media influences the process of socialization and shapes ideology and thinking. The negative stereotype have been identified as: a woman place is in the home, the most important and valuable asset of a woman is physical beauty, women energies and intellectual qualities are determined by negative stereotype thinking, Woman are dependent, submissive and women themselves consider for indignities and even to physical violence, A good woman is the traditional house wife, long suffering, pious and submissive. Women are looked upon as house maker rather than independent. In mainstream advertisements, they are either testing a new detergent or frying kebabs which have negative effects on the self-esteem and personal interpretation of women. The positive sides of women’s progress and their contribution for national development have not discussed in the media. They only emphasize on the negative stories of women which destroy their self-esteem. The actual message to audience still is that the society opposes the liberation of women. Stereotypical judgments and patriarchal understanding lead us to think what a male out to do and what women should do. Hence it is not uncommon for us to watch women being inside the house cooking, cleaning and men going out for earning. provided direct access to vulnerable segment of the society, and the views of survivors about their affected lives generally throw light on cultural lag along with economic deprivation. From print media, it is analyzed that media’s content is highly biased when it comes to female gender. Therefore, if we look at the media, gender inequalities biases and prejudices show women in following ways: When women do appear in the media, they are most oftenly portrayed as sex objects, beauty objects, as home makers, as victims( of violence, poverty, natural disasters) or they become front-page and headline (main story) news when they engage in activities which are not in line with society’s prescription of what women ‘should’ and ‘should not’ do. News on the violations of women’s human rights and discrimination against women are few and far between. When the media does cover gender issues such as violence, sexual and reproductive health, women in decision making, these articles are often confined to special pages and segments in the media and tagged as “women’s issues” rather than being placed on the news pages as issues of concerns to everyone. Asia Mushtaq April, 2013 to June, 2013 VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4 STATUS OF BENIFICIERY: MUHAMMAD IJAZ Muhammad Ijaz who is a Bus Conductor in Bahauddin In the workshop of Gender Sensitization Ijaz learnt to Zakariya University, Multan and also a student of M.A motivate social mobilization and he is implementing it Gender Studies session 2012-2014, is a traditional male of in his village as well as his work surroundings. He South Punjab who had no such awareness of women and said that sometimes people make fun of him but he the status of women in our society. will keep on motivating people. Ijaz also shared his Ijaz before his marriage was used to verbal abuse and experiences of his professional life that during his behaved badly with his sisters and after marriage he duty time in the bus, it’s very common that the boys thought of his wife just as a traded thing bought by him to sit on girls seats and they don’t get off even when be used and treated as a slave under his ownership. asked, along with this they hoot at girls and mentally By the progressive achievement of Department of Gender harass them. Studies B.Z University Multan, two professional seats Ijaz told that he stops the boys and even reserves seats were announced for the admission in M.A and Ijaz for the girls which are their right. But he is also managed to get admission, for the improvement of his worried that these are the students who are going to education. take over Pakistan as an educational class and if they After his admission Ijaz got awareness regarding Gender, do such things what will be the future of illiterates? Gender Discrimination, Gender Equality, and Gender Ijaz has two children and both are boys and he desires Sensitization. Ijaz who used to think of a woman as to have a girl so that he can educate her, treat her nothing more than his shoe felt a change in his mindset, equally and give her full respect a woman deserves. and respect and equality began to flourish inside him. Ijaz believes that gender awareness should be given to After the education of Gender and workshop of Gender every person especially to the people who are getting Sensitization, Ijaz had developed some things in his mind educated and will be the elite of our society. By this as Respect of Women, Education of Women, and Equal the respect and dignity can be achieved for every behavior with women. Ijaz shared his personal experience personnel. As women are the builders of nations that his Uncle had six daughters and after a long period he had a son. His uncle due to many daughters had an inappropriate attitude towards his wife and daughters. Basit Habib After the birth of his son he decided to educate him. Ijaz being his relative preached his Uncle that education is equally important for both the genders and if a girl does not get education then we cannot produce a better society. His Uncle got slightly convinced and also accepted the offer by Ijaz for the funding of education of his daughters. April, 2013 to June, 2013 VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4 Ways to Stop Sexual Abuse There are ways to stop sexual abuse, as well as ways to prevent sexual abuse. If you watch certain news magazine shows, and certain day-time talk shows, you will have a warped view of the current picture of sexual abuse in this nation. Most children who are sexually abused are not attacked by strangers, or by strange men on the Internet, or the creepy guy at the park. They are attacked by social neighborhood Fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, grandparents, community leaders, cousins, siblings and stepsiblings are more likely to be the culprits when it comes to sexual abuse. But you are not helpless to stop them. The first way to stop sexual abuse is to be vigilant. If your child began exhibiting classic signs of sexual abuse-odd or unaccounted for injuries, ripped clothing, depression, alcohol and drug abuse, hyper-sexuality, withdrawal-then you should investigate immediately. The second way to stop sexual abuse is to listen to your children and remove them from a dangerous situation. The third way to stop sexual abuse is to provide a safe environment for children who are in danger can go to. Children will not tell anybody what is happening to them unless they can find an adult they can trust completely. One who will believe them? One who will not blame the child for the situation? Another way to stop sexual abuse is through education. This article is a good start, but it simply cannot give you all the information you need about signs and symptoms of sexual abuse. It also cannot provide an in depth look at the people who are typically predators. For example, most cases of sexual abuse or perpetuated by men, and most of those are men the child knows. However, men are not the only people who are capable of sexual abuse, or who are found guilty of sexual abuse. Women can sexually abuse boys and girls, and that is often a crime that is overlooked or ignored. Another way to stop sexual abuse isn't just to educate yourself, but to educate your children as well. Teach your children what are appropriate and inappropriate ways of touching. Also, educate your children about trusted adults in the community who they can seek out for help, if their parents are not available. The biggest and best way to stop sexual abuse is to talk about it. Predators thrive on silence. Predators will not survive without silence. Do not let the predators have the silence they need to manipulate, groom, and rape children. Shahzad Mahmood Feedback & Suggestion Your Feedback & Suggestion highly required for the betterment of this effort of News-Letter. You may contact on address. Dr.Javed Salayna Assistant Professor Department of Gender Studies Bahauddin Zakariya Univeristy, Multan Mob: 0300-6305737 April, 2013 to June, 2013 VOL # 4 ISSUE # 4