13, 14 October 2012 *Fifth Sunday After Holy Cross St. Joseph Maronite Catholic Church 3 Appleton Street, Waterville, ME 04901-6630 Office: Phone: 207-872-8515 E-Mail: stjoesinmaine@yahoo.com Pastor: The Rev. Larry Jensen Deacon: Rev. Mr. Peter P. Joseph 872-2225 Subdeacon: Mr. Stephen C. Crate 872-9257 NEW Web Site Address: http://www.sjmaronite.org “The Eastern Rites are the Treasure of the Catholic Church” XXIII Pope John Liturgies: Saturday 4:00 p.m., * Sunday 10:00 a.m. * Tuesday - Friday 9:00 a.m. in the St. Jude Chapel The Miraculous Medal and the St Jude Novenas are on Tuesday following the 9 a.m. Liturgy Sick Calls: To receive the Eucharist and/or the Anointing of the Sick, Please call Fr. Larry. Confessions: A Half-hour before all scheduled Liturgies, emergencies, and by appointment. Baptisms: Call the Office Marriage: Call the Office 6 months before you finalize a date for your wedding and book your reception. *Suggested donation for the Sanctuary Candles, St. Jude Chapel $20, St Joseph Church $20, for the Altar Bread, $25, and the Wine, $25 . Suggested offering for Liturgies: $10 for weekdays - $15 for weekends. Choir Director: Sacristans: Fefa Deeb Theresa Nemer and Yvonne Nemer Laurie Nale Matthew 25:1-13 The kingdom of heaven will be like this. Ten bridesmaids took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. When the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a shout, ‘Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ Then all those bridesmaids got up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise replied, ‘No! there will not be enough for you and for us; you had better go to the dealers and buy some for yourselves.’ And while they went to buy it, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went with him into the wedding banquet; and the door was shut. Later the other bridesmaids came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I do not know you.’ Keep awake therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.” Dear Parishioners and Friends: The news this week says that 1 out 5 people are not affiliated with a church, synagogue or mosque. That is a dramatic change from just over 20 years ago. I DRE: Teachers 3-5 K-1 2 Lenore Boles Rosanna Joseph Jane Lee think it would be reasonable to believe that in the next 20 years it will be substantially even higher because there are a number of people who are still affiliated but are already rarely attending even a few “holy days” and a few social events. It seems unlikely their children will have any affiliation. For them this Gospel is stripped of any significance. It begins with decreasing knowledge of the Scriptures and Traditions of the Apostles. Who is the bridegroom, who is the bridesmaids in this story? Why do they need oil? What does it mean to keep the lamps trimmed and burning? What are the doors? Why were the doors shut? Why didn’t the Bridegroom know them? Why keep awake? Society is moving from at least coming up with alternative explanations from what was believed in the past not being even interested in knowing the story exists. The fundamental issue is the believability of Apostolic Christian Scripture. A trend is developing in which there is no need to be ready and prepared because there is no “door that is closed” or no “door to be opened”. This is to say, no sin happened that the gates of heaven was ever closed, and it was not necessary for a redeemer to die to open the door back open. The story of a Groom, Jesus, coming to meet the Bride, the church, is increasingly becoming unknown and rejected. The use of oil lamps is symbolic of the internal light of the Christian living a life shaped by the teachings of Christ, specifically that Jesus is the Light of the World, the illumination in the Kingdom of God. Jesus is being demoted from being the Son of God, who brings salvation to a minor prophet among many religions. Long held beliefs can be quickly weakened. Even though there are thousands of Icons of the Last Supper, a painting by DE Vinci in the middle ages is somehow considered by some to hold a secrete code in which all other Apostolic Traditions and icons can be rejected. Or an anonymous donor of a piece of papyrus possibly dating to the 4th century becomes a challenge of Apostolic Scripture and Tradition of the first 400 years. Verbal and written opposition of disbelief in who Jesus is and what His followers believed about began from the day Jesus started forgiving and healing. Jesus believes that He is the King of this heavenly Kingdom. At the beginning of every Liturgy we sing this truth because the Divine Liturgy is where heaven meets earth. Where the groom comes to us the church, His bride, through the Scriptures and the Eucharist. We are offered enough grace and mercy to make it to the day of light, the day we are to meet Jesus. We as members of the church, His bride, are given all the gifts necessary for our salvation. We also can make decisions that block the oil of grace He offers to us. Christianity does not remove accountability and responsibility from what is rightfully to be expected of us. Grace is not immunity, but the treatment for the repentant and who seek forgiveness through a forgiving heart. Aboona Church Etiquette Refrain from long and loud conversations, no food or drinks in church, no leaving of pews during the reading of the Gospel and the Consecration of the Bread and Wine, Check to see if your cell phone is off. Modest clothing is expected and appreciated. PRAY FOR THE SICK OF THE PARISH Heal Your servants, who are sick, O Lord, and send them help And comfort from Your holy place. Those who seek our prayers: Grace Crowther, Dianne Fjeldheim, Herb Jabar, Albert Joseph, Kendra Maroon, Hope Murphy, Tala Poulin, and John Trinward. Be sure to let Aboona know if you would like a name added or removed. Be sure your cell phone is off or silenced 2nd Collection Liturgy Starts p62 - Creed p67 – Anaphora –p69 Sat 13 4:00 p.m. † Madeline Joseph By Brent & Lea Williams Sun 14 10:00 a.m. † Mary B. Maroon By Freda Maroon Nassar & Judie Lynn Nassar & Family When the servers go to the side altar, those who will be carrying the gifts may go at this time. 15 Father’s day off for prayer, reflection, and relaxation Tue 16 9:00 a.m. † Norman C. Burton By Lisa Purell Wed 17 9:00 a.m. † Ann Joseph By Mary Gallant & Family Thu 18 9:00 a.m. † Ann Joseph By George Peters Fri 19 9:00 a.m. † Caroline Nale By Mark & Laurie Nale Sat 20 4:00 p.m. † Thelma Hanson By Herbert W. Joseph, Sr. Sun 21 10:00 a.m. † Kathleen Hawes By her Family Mon “The Catholic Church, East and West, breaths as two lungs in the same body” Blessed John Paul II October Devotions Sanctuary Candles St. Joseph 14 day Sanctuary Candle In Memory of the Joseph Family By Deacon Peter Joseph St. Jude 7 Day Sanctuary Candle In Memory of the Joseph Family By Deacon Peter Joseph Altar Bread and Wine: For Christopher Henry By Louise Saleim Last Weeks Collection Regular Collection $1,931.00 God bless you for your generosity Deepest Sympathy Our prayers and thoughts go out to Mark Joseph on the loss of mother Ann recently. May she rest in peace. Our prayers and thoughts go out to Katrina Plourde, on the loss of her mother, Marion. A Liturgy for the Faithful departed will be celebrated here at St. Joseph Maronite Cathollic Chuch on Friday, November 2nd at 9:30 a.m. Birthdays in October 3 8 8 9 9 13 11 15 15 16 16 Herbert Joseph Sr. Cathi Lee Paula Mitchell Ruth Joseph Ralph Cogswell Kadee Ann Joseph Robert Mitchell Jr. Brea Williams Doris Poirier DJ Constable Beth Hallowell 16 16 18 18 18 19 25 27 31 31 Michael Nale Robert Sturtevant Mary Nader Lila Hallowell Linda Joseph Joseph Nale Joseph Sturtevant Stephen Nale Prinella Mitchell Deacon Peter Anniversaries for October 3 7 7 9 9 John & Rita Karter Jeff & Maureen Lee Mary & Charles Maroon James & Lenore Boles Tom & Donna Nale Let Aboona know if you would like your name added to the Birthday and/or Anniversary list. Parish Pictorial Directory You Are Strongly encouraged to sign up to be a part of this project. Five years ago St. Joseph Maronite Church had their first Pictorial Directory made. It is time for a new one to be made in order to include the many wonderful people who have joined the church since then, and those who missed out on the first one. We will provide further details soon. The Directory is free, and to have your picture taken for the Directory is free. You may purchase pictures. This is a good time to have a Family Portrait taken. You can sign up in after Liturgy. See Events for the days pictures will be taken. READERS SCHEDULE Fifth Sunday of the Holy Cross Philemon 2:12-18 Matthew 25:1-13 4 p.m. 13 Lila Hallowell 10 a.m. 14 Mary Jo Hodgkin Sixth Sunday of the Holy Cross Galatians 6:1-10 Matthew 25:14-30 4 p.m. 20 Lenore Boles 10 a.m. 21 Lauraine Mansur EVENTS FOR OCTOBER Sun 14 11-1 Fall Harvest Dinner – Ham, Potatoes, Carrots, Cabbage, Biscuit, Pumpkin Cheese Cake. Wed 17 6 p.m. Finance Council Sun 21 Rosary Sodality Meeting S/S 20,21 Pie and Baked Good Sale by the Daughters of Isabella – after Liturgy. EVENTS FOR NOVEMBER All Saints Day – Holy Day of Obligation Thu 1 9:00 a.m. Liturgy – the children from Mount Merci will be joining us! Thu 1 2 - 8:40 Picture Taking Fri 2 2 - 8:40 Picture Taking Sat 3 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Picture Taking Sun 4 Religious Education and MYO Wed 7 Parish Council Meeting Sat 10 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Christmas Bazaar Coffee Schedule 10/14 Jane Lee and Jody Veilleux Future Events Weekend of March 17th for the 25th Anniversary of Fr. Larry Jensen (Aboona). Temple Beth Israel Congregation will host an evening of Israeli and Middle Eastern Dancing on Thursday November 1 at 6 pm at the Temple, 291 Main Street, in Waterville. Check poster for more details. Parish Vision for the future Your Pastoral Council has adopted a new vision for the future of St. Joseph’s and you can be a part of it! In the pews you will find a copy of the document called “Our Vision For Greater Parish Involvement” Please take a look at this document and in particular, pray and meditate on where you think you could best serve our Parish family. We will have seven new Commissions here in the Parish, with membership open to all parishioners. Check them out and in a few weeks we will have a parish town hall type meeting to get the ball rolling. We look forward to your input in all we do here at St. Joseph’s. If you have any questions please feel free to speak with a Council member. “Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them….” Romans 12:6 E-Mail Bulletins – New Web Address The Weekly Bulletin is sent out by email. If you have Internet service and would like to have the bulletin sent to you this way, send an email to the church. The email address is on the front of the bulletin. Food Pantry - October Ketchup and mustard Mayonnaise Baking mix (Bisquick) Canned carrots or beets Thank you for caring! Explaining the Catholic Faith These articles are from the following link: http://www.biblechristiansociety.com/apologetics We need to understand why we ask others to pray for us, and why we are willing to pray for others. We don’t believe God gets mad that we pray for others, why would He get mad if a Saint in heaven prayed for us? Aboona The answers to the questions are not for us to confront and antagonize others, but to be able to offer biblical insight and explanations when we are aggressively pressured by those who question and want us to abandon the Catholic Faith. In 1 Timothy it says that Jesus is our sole mediator, yet we pray to Mary and the Saints. Is that going against the Bible? 1 Tim 2:5 reads as follows: "For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus..." "You see," we Catholics are told, "there is only one mediator between God and men, Jesus Christ. Therefore, praying to the saints goes against the Bible because you are making them mediators between God and man, you are diminishing Jesus' role as the sole mediator!" Is that an appropriate interpretation of that passage? No, it's not and let us see why not. In the O.T. we see that Moses, Abraham, and Job interceded on behalf of others... that's mediating between God and man. We know that it is okay to ask others here on earth to pray and intercede for us.... that's mediating between God and man. So, I think, once again, we have a situation where a passage of the Bible is being misinterpreted and misunderstood. There is only one mediator between God and man, the man Jesus Christ, but as members of the Body of Christ, He allows us to share in His mediation. Also, Scripture tells us that we have only one foundation, Jesus Christ (1 Cor 3:11); but, Scripture tells us that there is more than one foundation (Eph 2:19-20). Scripture tells us that we have only Lord, Jesus Christ (Eph 4:4-5); but, Scripture tells us there is more than one lord (Rev 19:16). Scripture tells us that we have only one Judge, Jesus Christ (James 4:12); but, Scripture tells us there is more than one judge (1 Cor 6:2). Contradictions in Scripture? No! Not when these passages are all properly understood in context. Jesus is the only foundation; Jesus is the only Lord; and Jesus is the only Judge. But, we are members of Jesus' Body. Therefore, we are able, according to the graces given by Christ, to share in Jesus' role as foundation, as lord, and as judge, and in other aspects of Christ, as well. Another example, as a father I share in God's role as Father, by His grace. 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