Treatment Foster Parent Handbook

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SAN MAR TREATMENT FOSTER CARE

FOSTER PARENT HANDBOOK

Revised

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Description of Handbook- pg.4

Brief History of San Mar- pg. 5-7

San Mar Programs- pg.8

San Mar Treatment Philosophy- pg.9

The San Mar Team- pgs. 10-11

Who is the Foster Child? - pg. 12

Services to the Biological Parent(s)/Legal Guardian- pg. 13

Who is the Biological Parent? - pg. 14

What should you tell your family, your friends and the community? - pg. 15

What should you tell your children and the foster child?

Procedure for acceptance of children into treatment foster care- pgs. 16-19

State Requirements for Treatment Foster Parents- pg. 20

Recruitment, Selection and Qualifications of Treatment Foster Care Parents - pg. 21

San Mar Adoptions Program- pg. 22

Treatment Foster Care Parent Responsibilities- pgs. 23-25

School enrollment

Meals

Religious Involvement

Mail Procedures

Liability Insurance

Treatment Foster Care Parent Grievance Procedures- pgs. 26-27

Pre-Service and Annual Training- pgs. 28-30

Maintaining your license

Monthly support groups

Facebook Page

Treatment Foster Parent Annual Evaluation

Rate of Reimbursement for Care Provided- pgs. 31-35

Use of monthly board payments

Example of monthly board payment budget- pg. 36

On Call emergency service- pg. 37

Incident reporting guidelines- pgs. 38-40

Critical incidents

General guidelines

Respite Care- pg. 41

Record of free respite

Behavioral Management Policy for Treatment foster care providers - pgs. 42-48

Foster Youth Earnings- pg. 49

Recommended Money Management Plan

Responsibilities of Working TFC Children- pg. 50

Payment of Health Care Costs- pg. 51

Health examinations

Universal Precautions- pgs. 52-61

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Infections- pgs. 52-54

Influenza- pgs. 55-56

Hepatitis B- pgs. 56-59

Tuberculosis- pgs. 59-61

Use of Tobacco and Alcohol- pg. 62

Use of Weapons- pg. 62

Use of Motorcycles- pg. 62

Driving Licenses and Driving of Vehicles- pg. 63

Staff Contact List- pg. 64

Appendices- pgs. 65

Foster parent job description- pgs. 66-69

Purchase of care agreement- pgs. 70-73

Pre-service training letter- pg. 74

Pre-service training requirements- pgs.75-77

Weekly Allowance- pg. 78

Monthly Clothing Allowance - pg. 79

Minimum Clothing Guidelines- pg. 80

Confidentiality Agreement- pg. 81

State Requirements for Reporting Incidents- pg. 82

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Treatment Foster Parent Handbook

Take a minute and think about why you want to become a

Professional Treatment Foster Parent :

Reasons not to proceed are :

You want a child to be a companion for your child or children

You want a permanent addition to the family

Reasons to continue are:

You have the time to work with a child or children

You have a willingness to learn how to care for difficult children

You have strength, enthusiasm and a great sense of humor

You have a love for children and have a desire to help a child in

You have lots and lots of patience crisis

This handbook has been developed to aid you in providing Treatment Foster Care in your home.

It contains the agency policies you will need to follow. We hope that your work as a Treatment

Foster Parent will be both a fulfilling and satisfying experience. We know that it will be the hardest job you will ever love.

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HISTORY OF SAN MAR

1883-During the years following the Civil War, concern was expressed throughout the

Washington County community for the orphaned children. With no apparent place to live other than the County Almshouses, children were living among the homeless adults.

Rather than a charitable institute, almshouses were meant as punishment for “vagrants, beggars, vagabonds, and other offenders.” And those sentenced to the almshouse were required to wear badges adorned with a “P” for pauper and essentially work as inmates. According to historians, almshouses persisted in our state until after 1940.

By 1883 an action plan was implemented as a group of prominent citizens came together to form a new non-profit corporation, The Washington County Orphan’s Home. Together, they were able to raise enough funds to purchase the property at 355 South Potomac Street in Hagerstown, and to hire a superintendent and several other staff. In a report to the board of managers in 1918 then superintendent, Walter Esmer noted “It was the first successful attempt in the State of Maryland of the people of a county, without state financial assistance, to care for their county’s dependent children.”

On November 8, 1883, the first two children moved out of the

Almshouse and into the safety of the new orphanage, seven year old Eddie and his five year old sister Edith. They were to become the first of thousands to follow.

That first year welcomed 69 children into care.

1885-Only two years later it became clear the majority of children in need were not orphans. In the first of a series of adaptations to changing times and needs, the home changed its name to “The Washington County Home for Orphan and Friendless Children” and amended its charter, expanding its purpose to provide children who came under the for orphans and destitute organization’s care.

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1927-For the next 44 years the Home continued to provide care for children at the original location in Hagerstown. Then in 1927 a move was made from the aging facility to a newly constructed modern building located on 60 acres in the rural community of San Mar located ten miles away.

1981-The name was officially changed to reflect the move to the community of San Mar.

1987-In March, 1987 the board of managers made the decision to specialize care to adolescent girls and to increase the services offered. At the same time an extensive renovation of the facility was completed.

1990-The Edward and Pauline Anderson Transitional Living Home is opened for girls successfully completing the program in the main group home.

1991-San Mar is licensed as a Child Placement

Agency.

1992-Operating under the Child Placement Agency a program of Treatment Foster Care is begun; whereas the original intention of the program is to provide an additional resource to girls completing the group home. Children and youth may be placed into homes without ever having been in any other San Mar program. Once again through the foster care program, San Mar is able to provide care for both girls and boys.

1993- The Maryland State Department of Education licenses the San Mar Educational

Program.

1994-The San Mar Educational Program is upgraded to status as the San Mar School.

1997-On August 1, 1997 the Jack E. Barr Therapeutic Group Home opens. The program has a capacity for 8 girls. By November 21, 1997 the program is operating at full capacity where it will remain for a long time.

2002-On February 28, 2002, San Mar receives national accreditation from the Council on Accreditation for all residential, educational, and treatment foster care programs operated by the organization.

2003-San Mar is full certified as meeting the Standards of

Excellence.

2004-The Maryland Department of Human Resources grants San Mar a license to operate

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as an Adoption agency. The organization is offered a $400,000 grant from the Department of Juvenile Services to construct and operate a Shelter Care program for girls. The board commits to conducting a capital campaign to raise 1.2 million dollars for matching funds for the shelter and for a multi-purpose center to serve all the girls in care.

2005-San Mar is licensed as an Adoption Agency.

2006-On July 26, 2006 the Graff House opens and the first girl moves in. In September, the organization is re-accredited by COA.

2010-San Mar’s Teen Mother and Infant program is licensed.

2011-Allegany Girl’s Home located in Cumberland, MD joins the San Mar Continuum of

Care.

San Mar honors former residents with a luminary display with each one representing a child that we have served since 1883.

They now number over

3000 .

References:

Curtis, Jennifer. The Almshouse. http://www.marylandlife.com/articles/the-almshouse . May

2010

San Mar Children’s Home. http://www.sanmarhome.org/history.html

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SAN MAR PROGRAMS

The San Mar Group Home for girls:

Founded in 1883 as an orphanage for boys and girls in need, the home has provided care to hundreds of children and youth. Today, the home operates to provide care to adolescent and preadolescent girls who have experienced the traumas of abuse, molestation, and general family dysfunction. It is San Mar’s mission to enable these girls to understand and address the issues they are facing and move forward to become successful and productive members of society. The large group home provides care for 23 girls.

The Jack E. Barr Therapeutic Group Home for girls:

Opened in August 1997, this home for eight girls has quickly established a reputation for addressing the needs of those girls needing more structure than what is available in the large group home. Services are very intense.

Girls completing this program may move directly into any of San Mar’s other programs as is deemed appropriate by the treatment team.

The Edward and Pauline Anderson Transitional Living Home:

Opened in 1990, this Home serves three of the older girls who have completed the main residential program. It is designed to prepare girls for life on their own, when they leave San Mar.

The San Mar Educational Program:

It is the intention of San Mar for each girl to be afforded a mainstream education in the public school system whenever possible. When such participation is not possible or feasible due to either academic problems or behavioral difficulties, the girl is then educated in San Mar’s on-grounds school program. San Mar is licensed by the Maryland State Department of Education as a Type III school. Girls in the program receive individual attention to their educational and behavioral needs.

The San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program for Boys and Girls:

In 1991, San

Mar was licensed by the Department of Human Resources as a Licensed Child Placement

Agency. Shortly thereafter, a program of Treatment Foster Care was begun as a means of initially providing nurturing and caring homes to girls no longer needing the high level of structure provided by the group home. This quickly expanded to serve boys and younger girls who had never been in residential care. San Mar recruits, trains, licenses, supports, and encourages families willing to open their home and share their family with a child in need.

The Dr. Henry F. and Florence Hill Graff Shelter:

(Name changed to Graff Home in June 2012)

San Mar’s newest program of shelter care provides a safe, temporary home for adolescent girls while they await a pending court hearing or a more permanent placement. Girls will attend school at the shelter while in care.

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SAN MAR TREATMENT PHILOSOPHY

PURPOSE

The purpose of all services at the San Mar Children’s Home is to provide a community of care to girls and boys, from infancy to age 21 , who have experienced the traumas of physical abuse, sexual abuse , neglect, mental injury and/or general family dysfunction to face the issues of their past and move towards becoming responsible and productive members of society.

PHILOSOPHY OF CARING

We believe that the family is God’s design for the rearing of children. When children and families have difficulties, help must be given. Whenever possible, children should remain with their parents. Only after every effort is made to work out the problems, and after it is determined that the child’s welfare is in jeopardy if he or she continues to live with the family, should a separation be made.

At the time of separation we believe that each child must have his or her total needs met.

Because of the traumatic experiences separation involves, professional help is needed to allow a healthy processing of personal feelings and fears. We believe that a therapeutic family living experience can provide an alternative to larger group living settings and offers a great potential to effect positive change within a child. We further believe that most healthy families, with strong training and ongoing support, are capable of learning how to provide a therapeutic

(healing) environment for a child in need..

Because of the significance of each child’s family unit, we believe that it should receive every possible support to remain intact. Except in certain unusual circumstances, children and their families should be helped to reunite. A youth is more likely to succeed in placement if it is clearly understood where he or she will be living on a permanent basis. All of us have a need to belong and children are no exception. Each child needs to be free to make permanent relationships with caring people

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The San Mar Team

Ellen Savoy, LCSW-C, Program Director since August 2004. She has had the privilege of being with the TFC program every day since its beginning in 1991. She’s worn all the hats - recruiter/trainer, and case manager. Additionally she and her husband became adoptive parents in

1979 and foster parents in 1990. She is ready to support you in any way that she can. Ellen is a graduate of the University of Maryland, School of Social Work.

Joel Bowers, LGSW, has been our first person of contact for new foster parents since the summer of 2005. Coming to us with 25 years experience working in Child Protective Services in

Frederick County, MD, Joel is eager to stimulate your curiosity and make sure you get an overview of the work we do and the tools you will need. He will spend the majority of time with you as you get prepared to serve. He is a 1987 graduate of the University of Maryland, School of

Social Work.

Becky Carpenter, LSWA, is our Senior Case Manager and client intake coordinator. Working with San Mar since 1998, Becky knows how to connect children with providers with similar interests. Becky will help you understand the process we use to match children with families.

She’s our expert on the pre-placement process. Becky is a 1986 graduate of Mansfield

University, Mansfield, PA, with a degree in Social Work.

Stephen Pittman, LSWA, is a 2010 graduate of Shepherd University. He completed his internship through San Mar and was hired on as a full time case manager in May of 2010. As the resident male case manager, Stephen spends much of his time with the male clients of TFC. He has organized father/son outings and always tries to remind us of the male role in this field and the importance in incorporating the male clients into a historically female program.

Tiffany Pittman, LGSW, is a 2011 Masters graduate from Salisbury University. Tiffany has been an employee with San Mar since May 2010 and also completed her Master’s level internship at TFC.

Margaret Paul, LSWA, is a 2010 graduate of Shippensburg University with a degree in Social

Work. Before becoming an employee, Margaret was a student intern with us from January of

2010 until May of 2010 when she joined our staff as a valued team member.

Amanda James, LSWA, is a 2011 graduate of Shepherd University in Shepherdstown, WV, with a degree in Social Work. She was also a student intern with San Mar Treatment Foster Care during her senior year of college. She has been working with the TFC team as an employee since early 2012.

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Dominic Gianninoto, LSWA, is a 2009 graduate of Shepherd University with a degree in Social

Work. He was a student intern in the foster care unit at the Washington County Department of

Social Services in Hagerstown before joining the San Mar Treatment Foster Care team on a parttime basis in 2012. As our census grows, we expect Dom to be joining us full-time. He also works one-on-one with some of the young men in our program.

Bruce T. Anderson, LCSW, is the President and Chief Executive Officer of the San Mar

Children’s Home. It was Bruce who had the vision for San Mar to become a licensed child placement agency. Since 1986 Bruce has been at the helm overseeing all of the unique programs that San Mar offers to children and their families. Bruce continues to be a powerful advocate and change agent, operating not only on our local campus but at the state level as well. Should you ever have a concern or just desire to go up to the next level, don’t hesitate to contact Bruce.

Support Staff: Other very vital team members are our administrative personnel. Paul

Leatherman oversees our budget, Mary Clark pays our bills and Bobsy Price will pay you for the valuable service you will provide a child through the San Mar Children’s Home, Treatment

Foster Care Program.

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WHO IS THE FOSTER CHILD?

A foster child can be male or female, any race, an infant or a teenager, of gifted or below average intelligence, emotionally stable or emotionally disturbed, physically healthy or medically needy. In other words, in many ways a foster child is a child like other children you know.

A child becomes a foster child usually because one or both parents temporarily cannot provide for his or her basic needs or cannot provide a safe home environment. In essence, a foster child may be a child who is caught up in unstable life circumstances. A foster child lives with a family, a foster family, to whom he/she is not related and who is being paid to provide temporary care. The foster child therefore has two families and often feels emotionally torn between these families.

A foster child is in the care of not only a foster family but of agencies, institutions, courts, bureaucracies, and social workers. Sometimes this situation becomes both confusing and frightening to the child. A foster child may feel lost in the midst of the “system” or that no one really cares. A child in these circumstances often feels that he/she has done something so wrong that his/her parents no longer want to be his/her parents. This may or may not be true. A foster child may feel like a second class person. In fact, most foster children, because of their unique situation, intensely feel all the negatives that contribute to the stigma associated with their foster child status.

In response to the past emotional hurts from abuse, neglect or abandonment, and the present feelings of conflict which arise due to separation from family, each child needs a tremendous amount of skillful care, daily support, and genuine attention. Frequently, children in foster care have difficulty trusting adults. They may feel that you will not want to allow them to stay in your home if they do not perform well. Some children may test your commitment to care for them by challenging or intentionally not following your rules. Uncertainty about your motives and loss of control over their own life circumstances may cause foster children to feel insecure and worry about the future. In response to these many natural but negative feelings, a foster child may act in ways that appear rejecting of your family, which may be upsetting to you and your family members.

It is important to remember that we, as members of a treatment foster care team, are “sowing seeds of hope.” Through the daily giving of structure, nurture, stability, and guidance, we give to children something that cannot be taken away from them. It is through the experience of living in a skilled, caring family, who are part of a caring community, which we add to the chapters of each child’s life. We may have a little, or a profound, effect on the outcome of their life story, but it is certain that we will have no effect if we do not take the risk to try.

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Services to the Biological Parent(s)/Legal Guardian:

It is the responsibility of San Mar staff and the placing agency worker to support children’s relationships with their parents and other family members throughout the period of placement, unless such efforts are expressly and legally prohibited. The biological parent(s) / legal guardian are a key member of the treatment team and efforts will be made by San Mar to encourage and invite his/her participation.

The procedure for acceptance of children into program outlines the initial communication between the case manager and the biological parent/legal guardian. During this conversation, the parent will be given an introduction to the program. The case manager will discuss with the biological parent/legal guardian issues such as the parent’s feels towards separation, permanency, participation in the treatment team and services available. Communication between the case manager and the parent are coordinated through the case manager and will continue on a monthly basis to ensure effective communication of all aspects of the child’s case.

Additional services to the biological parent/legal guardian, including parenting classes, substance abuse counseling, clinical counseling, transportation, housing assistance, home health, medical, dental, or day care will be outlined in the service plan recommended by the placing agency worker. In support of this plan, San Mar treatment foster care staff will assist with securing services, if necessary. These services will be coordinated in the community where the parent resides, by the placing agency worker.

The treatment team including the biological parent/legal guardian, if appropriate, will meet on a quarterly basis to review the child’s individual treatment plan. It is a goal of the program that this process empowers the parent/legal guardian while they assist in determining the plan for their child. The placing agency worker will alert the parent of scheduled court hearings where the permanency plan is determined. This hearing takes place every six months.

Similar to the service provided to the child, visitation between the parent(s)/legal guardian and their child will be scheduled through the placing agency worker and the case manager as recommended in the individual treatment plan.

Depending upon each child’s history and current emotional state, the treatment team may recommend that it would not be in the best interest of the child to maintain contact with their parent(s). Recommendations for any limitation will be directed from San Mar to the placing agency for request of court approval. Only in an instance where a child would not be safe or where his/her treatment at San Mar would be compromised, would a biological parent not be included in the treatment process.

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WHO IS THE BIOLOGICAL PARENT?

Note: The following description may apply to any member of a child’s extended family or to any person designated as the child’s reunification resource or permanency plan.

At times it may seem that it is the fault of biological parents that children are in foster care.

Their inability to adequately care for their child is the reason that the child needs a stable home.

Biological parents may appear weak, irresponsible, uncaring, selfish, or cruel and therefore entitled to few rights regarding their children. This is just not true. Even though at the time of placement a parent may appear overwhelmed, immobilized, depressed, or emotionally unstable, he or she may have shown significant strength in the past. Each of us has something we must overcome, and for many biological parents of foster children this may include a life filled with: early responsibilities; a difficult marriage; sexual abuse; a physically abusive father, mother or spouse; unreasonable demands of other family members; limited education or vocational training; inadequate housing; ill health; alcoholism; substance abuse; mental illness; or little or no community resources for counseling or support.

The biological parents of foster children are persons who are experiencing difficult life circumstances. Conflict within their own life, their family life, or their living situation, may temporarily reduce their ability to provide care for their own child. Although the greatest majority of the foster children who are referred to San Mar are court ordered into treatment foster care, some are voluntarily placed by their biological parents who recognize their inability to care for their child. The actual placement of the child can be a painful yet loving act for the biological parent whether it is a voluntary or involuntary placement. At a time of extreme family stress, it is somewhat of a comfort to know that their child will be skillfully cared for by a treatment foster family.

If the parent is hospitalized, incarcerated, or simply does not visit the child, this does not affect his or her “parental rights.” Intensive efforts should be made by the social service agency and

San Mar staff to determine the potential of the parent for future involvement in the life of the child. The knowledge of the identity of the biological parent is not just a legal requirement, but a necessity to the child’s identity and future personal growth.

In most cases, all contacts between biological parents and foster parents should be reported to the child’s case manager to ensure proper documentation. Generally, contact between the biological parent and child will be prearranged and confirmed in terms of location, time of visit, and transportation arrangements. An aid to establishing a professional relationship with biological parents is to imagine yourself in their exact life circumstances, and respect the honest efforts they make to assert positive changes on their life situation.

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WHAT SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR FAMILY, YOUR

FRIENDS AND THE COMMUNITY?

As foster parents you will probably find that your neighbors, friends, relatives, and the playmates of your foster child will be curious about the “new” child in your home. You may be uncertain about how to answer questions or what to suggest to the child as appropriate responses to such questions. Frequently, questions arise at school or other places in the community.

An honest and direct explanation is best. You can share your personal desire and motivation to work as a treatment foster parent. You may want to share, in a general way, why San Mar asked your specific family to work with this special child. There will be times and places where you will be asked to give specific factual information regarding your foster child. Please refer all such inquiries to your child’s case manager to avoid violating the confidentiality of certain information regarding your child.

In some instances, it is very difficult to understand a child’s complicated family situation.

Knowing just what to say that will be helpful and reassuring can be tricky. Some children become uncomfortable or even embarrassed when trying to answer delicate questions alone. The child should be encouraged to turn to you or the case manager for assistance. Many foster children need help to understand how their biological parents “fit into the picture” and the reasons for their continued need for placement in treatment foster care.

WHAT SHOULD YOU TELL YOUR CHILDREN AND

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THE FOSTER CHILD?

This is not always an easy question to answer. The recommended approach is to follow these suggested guidelines:

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Make it clear to your own children that the new addition to your family has not arrived to take anyone’s place. The child is living with your family because you have chosen to be foster parents.

2. Without violating confidentiality, and in an age appropriate way, share as much information about the new foster child with your children as they can handle.

Assure the foster child that he/she may tell others that he/she lives with you, but does not have to answer other’s questions about his or her circumstances.

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PROCEDURE FOR ACCEPTANCE OF CHILDREN

INTO TREATMENT FOSTER CARE

Children that are accepted into Treatment Foster Care are in need of a higher level of treatment in a family setting. Children that are referred to TFC have not been or would not be successful in a regular foster care setting due to serious emotional, behavioral or psychological issues that they are experiencing. They may be referred from a higher level of care such as a group home where they have been experiencing sufficient success to warrant placement into a family setting. These children are in need of structured daily schedules that are determined by trained TFC parents. All of the children admitted into TFC have a DSM-IV diagnosis, but are able to safely participate in family and community settings. Children from any portion of Maryland may be served although

State policy promotes the placement of children as close to their biological families as possible.

Children who receive chemical support, i.e., prescription medications to maintain behaviors are appropriate placements.

The biological parents/legal guardians are important parts of the treatment team at San Mar.

They are encouraged to participate in the activities of the TFC program and treatment team. If the treatment team suggests that it is appropriate, the case managers will assist the placing agency worker in coordinating services to the biological parents/legal guardians. In some instances, the treatment team will recommend that it be in the best interest of the child for parental rights to be terminated, visitations to be ended or whatever else may be in the best interest of the child.

Referrals to the program will be received from the different Departments of Social Services throughout the state of Maryland and from Juvenile Justice and Mental Health agencies in

Maryland who have made the determination that the child is eligible for and suitable for placement into TFC.

Referrals for possible placement are received by the TFC program and are reviewed to determine if the referral is appropriate for the San Mar TFC program. Designated TFC staff will consider culture, religion, language, biological children, distance of the foster home from the biological family, race, ethnicity, experience of the TFC family, and the child’s conditions and behavior in

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delineating placement possibilities. Siblings are kept together as appropriate.

Per COMAR regulations, designated TFC staff will respond to the referring source within 14 working days as to the availability of an appropriate San Mar TFC family. If an appropriate TFC is not available, designated TFC staff will so inform the referring source in writing. If an appropriate TFC family is available, designated TFC staff will request, if not already received, a

Purchase of Care Referral, a current case plan, relevant medical records, psychological and/or psychiatric evaluations, education information, an updated permanency plan and visitation plan.

Designated TFC staff will then contact the child’s placing agency and make arrangements to meet with and interview the child. In such an interview the designated TFC staff will:

 Assess the child’s appropriateness for placement in the San Mar TFC program

 Provide the child with general information about the San Mar Children’s Home and TFC program

The method of how a prospective TFC family is sought for the child

 The types of TFC homes currently available for the child’s placement

The expectations that the child would adhere to while in the TFC program

Any other areas that the child may be interested in while considering the TFC home.

Should there be other children in the TFC home and if so, should they be younger or older

Should the TFC home be located in a rural, suburban or urban setting

Should the home be a one or two parent TFC family

Should there be any pets or animals in the TFC home

When a TFC family has been deemed appropriate for the placement of a particular child, designated TFC staff will meet with the prospective TFC family. At this meeting, TFC’s full and complete knowledge of the child and his or her situation shall be shared with the prospective family, including their right to fully review all written materials, to hear staff observations and recommendations, to ask any questions they may have and to request additional information.

When a child is referred to your home, you are entitled to all the known background information about them and their family relevant to the care of the child. If the background information includes, for example, a child’s history of making false allegations of abuse, their social worker tells you. The same is true if the parents or extended family are known to make false allegations or seek inappropriate contact with foster parents. If the child is not previously known to the San

Mar TFC, the information may be limited. You may want to list additional questions you might want to ask the social worker if you need more information.

The successful placement of a child in your home depends on all of us working together as a team. It is good to view yourselves as becoming “professional foster parents” by becoming parents who are able, as part of a team, to deal with children who express significant behavioral and emotional issues. Foster parents, children’s DSS social workers, TFC case managers, parents and the community all have important roles to play. It is essential to remember that the child is also entitled to be involved and consulted as much as possible. To reach the goals set for the child’s care, all the players must be involved in the planning and decision-making process.

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Planning is important because it focuses everyone involved on the issues, concerns and problems, and because it ensures that the child’s needs are addressed fully and in a timely fashion. Planning also helps to manage transition periods and to maintain continuity and consistency in the child’s life and care.

Foster families should be realistic when deciding whether a child would prosper in their family, and what supports or adjustments would be required. Your family should also recognize their strengths and limitations. For example, some families are good at fostering older children, while others do best with children who have particular types of interests or personality. The preplacement period is crucial to the success of the placement. This is the time for you to be open with yourselves, the child’s social worker and your case manager about feelings and possible doubts regarding the proposed placement. The decision to accept a child should involve all members of your family. You will need sufficient time—particularly when there are special issues involved such as aboriginal, disability or family concerns—to consider the adjustments needed in your personal and family routines.

Keep in mind that you can say no to a placement, and you can discuss any concerns about a particular placement with San Mar TFC. Such a discussion might lead to a decision not to place a particular child in your home, or it could mean that further planning is needed prior to such a placement.

If the TFC family chooses to move forward with the placement, after gaining the approval of the placing agency, designated TFC staff will arrange for the TFC family to meet with the child at his or her current location. The first visit with occur in conjunction with TFC staff.

If all parties are in agreement, a series of visits between the prospective TFC family and child will occur. These will include day visits, overnight visits, and weekend visits as deemed appropriate. The TFC family, TFC staff and placing agency staff will be in regular contact during this phase so as to assess progress and the continuing appropriateness of the placement.

When all parties are in agreement, a date will be set for the child’s placement into the TFC home and program.

The stronger the attachment between the child and the previous caregiver, the more important the process of transferring attachment to the new caregiver becomes. In some instances, contact with the previous caregiver is an important part of the process with the goal in mind of minimizing the trauma to the child being placed. It is best if children are not moved while still in a state of shock and denial. Pre-placement visits help to encourage a smoother transition by diminishing the fears of the child. It also can have the necessary effect of initiating the child’s grieving process over the loss of his or her previous placement. This can be manifested in various negative ways such as non-compliance, anger, and so forth. It is also the beginning of the process of transferring the child’s attachment from the previous caregiver to the present one. It is the time in which the child begins to develop trust in his or her new caregiver. For foster children who have issues with both trust and attachment, the pre-placement process is where the foundation of the treatment foster care begins, the place where it is important that you be a professional foster parent who works as a part of the team to begin the work of healing in the child.

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For similar reasons, TFC parents must be empowered to take on the full parental role from the outset of the placement. Set rules and boundaries from the outset of the placement. Children may be “stepped-down” from group care and are coming from environments with clear and consistent rules, regulations and expectations and are best served by keeping a good structure in place.

Children being “stepped-up” in placement from the community or from regular foster care are often in need of the structure and boundaries available to them in TFC from professional foster parents.

The following are required for placement to take place:

Medical Care Consent and Medical Care consent form-generic

Consent for Release of Information

Board of Education Release of Information

Publicity Consent Form

HIPAA form

As appropriate, during the visitation and transition phases, designated TFC staff will endeavor to establish contact with the child’s biological family/reunification resource. Designated TFC staff will share the following with them:

A description of the San Mar TFC program

The importance of their on-going participation in the treatment process and team

 Both their rights and their children’s rights while placed in TFC

A description of the foster family that is a placement resource for their child

Service Delivery:

All children, biological parents(s)/legal guardians, and treatment foster parents, regardless of the child’s permanency plan, will be provided the same services outlined above, as part of the San

Mar treatment foster care program.

Language spoken:

At least one Treatment Foster Parent will demonstrate effective communication in the language of the child placed in care, and if this is not possible, the organization will provide an interpreter to meet the child’s language needs, as needed.

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STATE REQUIREMENTS FOR

TREATMENT FOSTER CARE PARENTS

1. QUALIFICATIONS

- Compliance with all foster family approval regulations as specified in The Maryland

Code of Regulations 07.02.13.07.

- At least one Treatment Foster Care Provider must be available to the child on a twentyfour (24) hour basis or available to respond to the child’s needs in case of an emergency .

- Minimum of a high school diploma or equivalent including, but not limited to, life experiences.

- Special training and/or work experience related to the problems of the specific foster child placed.

- Access to reliable transportation.

- An operable telephone.

-Criminal Background Clearance and Child Protective Service Clearance

- A copy of the Treatment Foster Care Provider’s driving record

- A Child Support Services clearance

- At least 21 years of age

- Maryland resident

- Physical examination and TB test

- Fire Marshal inspection and approval of foster home

- Environmental Health approval of water and septic systems

- Proof of marriage and/or divorce status

- If married, must be married for at least 6 months

- CPR and First Aid certification

- Proof of adequate income

- Proof of home and auto insurance

- Four total references, including one by telephone, one in person and one reference from school personnel if the family has a minor child enrolled in a public or private school

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RECRUITMENT, SELECTION AND QUALIFICATIONS

OF TREATMENT FOSTER CARE PARENTS

TFC parents play a number of roles while working with the children in the program—parent, teacher, confidante, nurse, and advocate. The recruitment of qualified TFC providers is an ongoing effort performed by the San Mar TFC program. The goal of recruitment is to find and train people willing to become “professional foster parents”, parents who are willing and able to work as part of a team in dealing with children with traumatic pasts, attachment issues, and emotional and behavioral problems. Recruitment is focused on the needs of the children currently in and being referred to the TFC program. Medical, cultural, and geographic needs of children are considered during the recruitment process. The program makes every effort to place children in the homes of TFC providers who are of the same religion, culture, race, and language when appropriate. The San Mar TFC program will recruit without regard to race, color, marital status, religion, national origin, ancestry, gender, and physical handicap or medical condition within the context of state and federal regulations.

San Mar TFC recognizes that current foster families and San Mar staff are invaluable resources for finding new TFC families. These individuals are familiar with our agency and its policies and goals. They are excellent ambassadors and recruiters for the program.

In order to reward the valuable contribution that current TFC families and San Mar staff can make in the recruitment of new families, San Mar offers a $500 bonus to those who successfully refer new foster families. The following guidelines must be followed in order to receive the bonus:

The referring party must either be a current San Mar employee or current San Mar

TFC provider. TFC staff is not eligible for the bonus.

The referred family must clearly identify the current staff or provider as the source of the referral

If the referred family indicates more than one appropriate referring source, the bonus will be equally divided among them.

The total of the referral bonus is $500. After the referred family successfully completes the pre-service training phase and is certified, San Mar will award $300 to the referring source. On the six month anniversary of the referred families’ certification, the remainder of the bonus will be paid to the referring source.

The family referred to San Mar TFC cannot be a current employee of any of the programs of the San Mar Children’s Home.

Per COMAR regulations, San Mar TFC will not recruit foster families who are active with other private or public foster care agencies. If such a family were to inquire about being certified with the San Mar TFC program, they would be required to resign from whatever program had previously certified them as TFC providers. This prohibition extends to adult foster care programs such as Project Home.

The State of Maryland has very specific regulations when it comes to any citizen of the State

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providing care to a child who is not their own. If a person is regularly caring for an unrelated child in a residence other than the child’s own for any kind of payment, then that person must be licensed as a child care provider by the Office of Child Care of the State of Maryland. This is true whether the person receives money as payment or if one swaps child care with a friend, etc, etc. Also, the State is quite clear in prohibiting Treatment Foster Care providers from being licensed as child care providers whatsoever. This prohibition is based upon the needs of the TFC child and the possible liability and safety issues with the day care child. In essence, this means that a TFC provider cannot provide child care in their home, period. State law actually allows for a $1000 per day fine for any violation of this regulation.

TFC providers will be selected based upon their ability to accept and carry out San Mar’s treatment values and philosophy. TFC parents will also be selected based upon their ability and agreement to uphold their responsibilities as outlined in the Treatment Foster Parent Job

Description and The Purchase of Care Agreement. Such qualities as commitment, “positiveness”,

“teachability”, willingness to work as part of the treatment team, sense of humor, enjoyment of children/youth, flexibility, patience, the ability to adjust to challenging situations and “teachability” will be considered.

SAN MAR ADOPTIONS PROGRAM

The San Mar Children’s Home, in addition to be licensed as a Treatment Foster Care Program, is fully licensed as an adoption agency. In accordance with state regulation, whenever a Treatment

Foster Care provider is licensed or certified by the San Mar TFC program, that family is simultaneously licensed as an adoptive home. Permanency for children is the over arching goal of the child welfare system and the San Mar Children’s Home Treatment Foster Care program.

Under certain circumstances, adoption by the Treatment Foster Care Provider(s) can be the

Permanency Plan of choice for a child in placement. The San Mar Treatment Foster Care

Program will provide adoption home studies, adoptive home safety inspections, and other relevant documentation in pursuance of the permanency plan as a free service to the Treatment

Foster Family and TFC child. We will assist the family in their transition from Treatment Foster

Care providers to Adoptive Parents with case management services.

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TREATMENT FOSTER CARE PARENT

RESPONSIBILITIES

Treatment Foster Parents fulfill all “routine” parental functions and do so as part of a professionally designed treatment plan. They serve the dual functions of foster parents and treatment parents. The Treatment Foster Parent(s) are the primary change agents in the treatment process and perform the following tasks:

- Assist in the development of treatment plans and assume primary responsibility for implementing the in-home treatment specified in the treatment plan.

- Attend team meetings and training sessions.

- Demonstrate accountability for services through record keeping.

- Record child’s behavior and progress in targeted areas on a daily or weekly basis.

- Develop and maintain positive working relationships with resources in the community such as schools, social service agencies, mental health professionals, and recreational outlets.

- Assist in reunification efforts as specified by the treatment team in accordance with the permanency plan.

- Assure the child’s access to medical care.

- Assist the child in maintaining contact and visitation with biological family, unless otherwise indicated in the child’s treatment plan.

- Encourage a positive relationship between biological parents and child unless otherwise indicated in the child’s treatment plan.

- Assist in family reunification efforts specified by the treatment team.

- Provide consultative services to the biological family regarding effective child behavior management and the use of behavior management techniques.

- Provide information on community resources and services to the child’s biological family.

- Provide transportation to therapy and psychiatry appointments and participate when indicated.

Foster Parents are to provide:

Nutritious meals and snacks;

A pleasant, safe, and nurturing family atmosphere;

An orderly daily schedule that promotes positive participation in appropriate school and community activities;

Basic personal needs and an allowance, as appropriate;

The opportunity for religious observance in the faith of his/her choice; and

Opportunities to participate in activities consistent with his/her ethnic and cultural heritage.

SCHOOL ENROLLMENT

All children placed in treatment foster care will be involved in an educational program. Most

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children will attend the public school in the area of the foster home. The staff involved in the enrollment procedure for a child will vary, depending on the child’s individual educational needs. The treatment foster parents, the child’s case manager, the San Mar Director of

Education, and the Director of Treatment Foster Care may all need to be involved in the enrollment process.

If the TFC provider wishes to enroll a child in a private school, permission must be obtained from the child’s DSS agency and the provider will be responsible for the payment of any tuition.

After a review of a child’s school records, a decision will be made concerning how the child’s school enrollment will be handled. It is important that treatment foster parents participate in this process as directed. Do not proceed in any manner, however, without the authorization of the child’s case manager or the Director of Treatment Foster Care.

MEALS

All children in treatment foster care should be served three meals each day. Generally, mealtimes should be within one hour of 8:00 a.m., 12:00 noon, and 6:00 p.m. Children who are unable to eat during these times should make other arrangements with their foster parents. A light snack should be provided either after school or in the evening. Meals should be nutritionally balanced. The food offered to foster children should be the same as the food eaten by other members of the foster family. Foster parents should not consume any type of food in front of the foster children that foster children are “not allowed” to eat.

In cases where a child requires a special diet, foster parents will be advised before making a decision to work with the child .

REMEMBER, food cannot be withheld as a discipline at any time.

RELIGIOUS INVOLVEMENT

Children and youth admitted into any program of the San Mar Children’s Home, Inc. (San Mar) are encouraged to participate in religious activities. San Mar is built upon the value base of the

Judeo-Christian ethic. Practices that flow from values that are antithetical to those of the organization and are destructive to the individual will not be allowed (e.g. Satanism).

As surrogate, or alternate, families for children in treatment foster care, program staff and treatment foster parents accept the responsibility to guide and support a child’s growth and development. This includes intellectual, physical, emotional, social, and spiritual growth and development. All children in treatment foster care should be encouraged to become involved in a fellowship through the church of their choice. Religious involvement allows a child the opportunity to connect with a caring community and form appropriate peer relationships.

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All treatment foster families are encouraged to attend church services with foster children to allow the experience of participating in worship as a family unit.

MAIL PROCEDURES

All children in San Mar Treatment Foster Care homes will be allowed to send and receive mail.

San Mar TFC encourages children to be in contact with family and friends in the community.

Mail is not opened or censored unless therapeutically indicated. Receiving and sending mail to family members, etc., is subject to structures applied by the local DSS or DJS or court system as therapeutically indicated.

LIABILITY INSURANCE

The Department of Human Resources and/or the Social Services Administration of Maryland does not provide liability insurance for treatment foster parents. TFC providers are required to maintain such liability insurance on their own. This is in the form of homeowner’s or renter’s insurance.

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TREATMENT FOSTER CARE PARENT GRIEVANCE

PROCEDURES

The San Mar Children’s Home understands that Treatment Foster Parents may have questions or concerns regarding the Home’s actions involving the foster children placed in their care. The San

Mar Children’s Home provides the following grievance procedures to any treatment foster parent who believes that he/she has been treated unjustly or who has a concern regarding service delivery. The following procedures shall be followed:

1.

Within 10 days of the problem’s occurrence, the foster parent shall first attempt to speak directly with the case manager for the foster child involved in the grievance. The foster parent shall communicate his/her point of view calmly and clearly. The case manager must respond in kind to the person within 5 working days of the filing of the grievance. If the foster parent does not feel comfortable speaking directly to the case manager involved, he/she may go directly to the Director of Treatment Foster Care.

2. If the grievance is not resolved by the actions of step 1, the foster parent may request, in writing on the grievance request form, (see attached), a conference with the program coordinator.

The Director of Treatment Foster Care must receive the request within 10 days of the onset of the grievance procedure. All areas of the grievance form must be completed before it is submitted to the Director of Treatment Foster Care.

3. The Director of Treatment Foster Care must meet with the foster parent within 5 days of receipt of the grievance form. A written response from the Director of Treatment Foster Care concerning the grievance shall be given to the foster parent and case manager involved within 5 working days of the meeting with the foster parent.

4. If the previous step does not adequately resolve the grievance, the foster parent may request in writing a meeting with the Executive Director of the San Mar Children’s Home. This written request must be made within 5 days of the receipt of the written report completed by the

Director of Treatment Foster Care. It should contain all written reports in the possession of the foster parent relevant to the grievance.

5. The Executive Director may use whatever means he/she deems appropriate (e.g., meeting with all or some of the staff involved in the grieved problem, reading available reports, meeting with the foster parent) that would assist in reaching a decision regarding the grieved matter.

6. In the event that the grievance involves the Executive Director, the foster parent may ask that the matter be brought instead to the attention of the Personnel Committee of the San Mar

Children’s Home Inc., Board of Managers. Any issues brought before this Committee must be done in writing and done so through the office of the Executive Director in able to ensure that proper procedures have been and are being followed.

7. The Personnel Committee shall meet with the foster parent as soon as possible, but no longer than 30 days from the submission to them of the written request for such a meeting. The

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foster parent must be sure to outline in detail and in writing the substance of the grievance prior to the meeting in order to ensure a clear understanding of the problem by all committee members. All previous listed material pertinent to the grievance shall be included in the request.

8. After investigating the grievance brought before them, the Personnel Committee will render a final decision on behalf of the Board of Directors. The Board of Directors is the ultimate and final authority within the organizational structure of the San Mar Children’s Home.

9.

There is no further appeal within the San Mar Children’s Home.

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PRE-SERVICE AND ANNUAL TRAINING

Each prospective treatment foster parent shall complete a minimum of 30 hours of pre-service training to achieve certification.

Each treatment foster parent shall complete a minimum of 24 hours of in-service training annually. Each treatment foster parent shall document 2 hours of in-service training per month.

Maintaining Your License

To maintain your certification continuing education is mandatory . You will be required to complete two hours of training every month that you are certified. Don’t panic….. Opportunities for training are all around you. We will help you complete this training in the following ways:

Case Specific Training; learning with your case manager about how to deal with placement specific issues.

Foster Parent Support Groups-these are held on the second Thursday of every month.

Book study groups sponsored by TFC.

Web-training (you can Google topics like: child development, foster parenting, parenting hurting teens, health, children and recreation) – simply complete a summary report of the material you studied with date and time.

Case Manager – individualized training materials related to the child placed in your home- one hour per month

Books and videos in the San Mar library which is located in the hallway of the

TFC offices. Please let someone on the staff know if you are borrowing a book or video. If there is a specific area you would like to know more about, let us know and we will attempt to locate a resource for you.

Community based trainings sponsored by other local agencies can be used but must be approved on a case by case basis.

Internet resources such as Youtube.com as approved by San Mar.

Movie nights at San Mar

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MONTHLY SUPPORT GROUPS FOR FOSTER

PARENTS

On the second Thursday of each month throughout the year, we hold support group meetings for our TFC providers in which they can come together and share with each of their experiences. It is a great learning opportunity to learn from your peers and to network with them. Attendance and participation also counts towards yearly training requirements.

SAN MAR TFC PARENT GROUP

San Mar TFC has initiated a Facebook group that is confidential and available only through invitation. This group provides access to staff and other foster parents for training topics and group discussion.

Policy Regarding Non-Completed Hours

TREATMENT FOSTER PARENT ANNUAL

PERFORMANCE EVALUATION

All Treatment Foster Parents will participate in an annual performance evaluation process. Many of the skills needed to provide effective treatment foster care services are learned “on-the-job”. A review of each provider’s progress and development provides documentation of performance strengths, performance weaknesses, and an agreed upon plan for ongoing professional grown, development, and improvement. The purpose of the evaluation is always to take inventory of the past and to plan for the future. A Treatment Foster Parent’s willing and honest input into this process can greatly enhance his or her own professional advancement and ability to help children in need. All TFC providers will be asked to provide annual proof of auto insurance, home insurance, and proof of income. Every two years, they will be asked to provide proof of physical examinations and PPD tests and CPR and First Aid certification. Every three years, proof of rabies vaccines for all pets is required.

At any time there is a significant change in the family’s status that may reflect upon their ability to continue to meet eligibility requirements, an additional evaluation can be implemented by San

Mar staff.

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RATE OF REIMBURSEMENT FOR CARE PROVIDED

Each treatment foster family is reimbursed at the rates listed below as of April 2011. About one half of this amount ($850.00) is the payment from the Board of Childcare. This money is to be used to meet the needs of the child. This includes, but is not limited to, food, housing, utilities used by the foster youth in the home, over-the-counter medication, transportation, fees required for extracurricular activities (school trips), bedding, gifts for special occasions, toiletry and personal care items, and allowances. Foster parents are expected to cover normal transportation costs and any routine auxiliary costs relevant to the child’s well being

. The other portion of the reimbursement is the “difficulty of care” stipend ($700.00) for the specific treatment provided to meet the individual child’s needs. This portion is considered your paycheck.

These reimbursement rates are subject to change without notice.

Each treatment foster family must submit a “Time-In-Care-Log” to San Mar each month. These forms can be given to the case manager. The Time-In-Care-Log sheet must be postmarked no later than the fifth business day of month for the logging of the child’s time in care for the previous month in order to facilitate timely payment to the foster parent.

Foster payments are posted for direct deposit on approximately the 20th of the month for services rendered during the previous month. If the 20th falls on a weekend or a holiday, foster payments will be posted earlier, when possible. San Mar Children’s Home makes payment to its

TFC parents by direct deposit only.

A merit increase in the “difficulty of care” stipend is given to foster parents who have shown professional growth, positive performance, and have been certified for twelve (12) months. Rates will be determined annually by San Mar in response to State funding availability.

USE OF MONTHLY BOARD PAYMENTS

The San Mar Children’s Home acts in accordance with State of Maryland regulations as they pertain to clothing allowances and weekly allowances. Below is a copy of the directive we have received from the State. In the appendix, you will find the forms used by San Mar to track these requirements. They are the Weekly Allowance Ledger and the Clothing Allowance Form.

Purpose

This policy directive details the guidelines for foster providers (regular, intermediate, treatment foster parents, and group providers) to utilize the monthly board rate payment paid on behalf of foster youth. This policy directive includes specific requirements for the clothing allowance to meet the basic needs of youth and requirements for a weekly allowance for youth.

Background

Foster parents are partners of the Local Departments of Social Services in providing the necessary care for children in need of a safe and stable home. During the 30 hours of pre-service training, treatment foster parents are taught about their responsibilities in meeting the material needs of the children in their care. COMAR 07.02.25.08 states that foster parents are to “provide

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daily essentials that are required for health, comfort, and good grooming of a child, including proper clothing for the season.” The board rate amount has been increased over the past few years to allow the foster parent to meet the actual costs of providing for the child(ren) in their care. The United States Department of Agriculture estimates that it will cost $7,560 annually

($630.00 monthly) to raise a child.

Private foster care agencies (group providers and private treatment foster care agencies) submit an annual budget to the DHR Office of Licensing and Monitoring and the Maryland Interagency

Rate Committee which outlines the cost for all services provided for each child in the program including the cost for a clothing allowance. Private agencies provide clothing allowances to their foster parents or youth on either a monthly or quarterly basis. Private agencies are provided sufficient funds within their monthly payment amount as established by the IRC to cover the approved clothing allowance for placements in their programs and are not eligible to receive additional funds for this purpose from the local department.

Clothing allowances are set as a standardized portion of the monthly board rates issued to public foster providers so that they may provide for the garments/personal care items required for each child. The regular monthly foster care rate is expected to provide for the room, board, and clothing needs of every child placed with a foster care provider. While Maryland does not continually monitor the spending of the monthly board rate, it is expected that, at minimum, the identified clothing allowance is used to provide the child with clothing and personal care items.

In addition to the monthly board rate, there is also an initial one-time clothing allowance, categorized by the age of the child, which is available at the time of the initial removal and placement to assist with meeting the clothing needs of the child upon initial entry into out-ofhome placement. This is only available to public resource parents. There may be special circumstances such as graduation, proms, or medically-related circumstances when special planning or even further assistance may be warranted and flex funds may be expended for these situations.

Monthly Board Rate

Foster parents (including treatment foster parents) and group home providers receive a monthly board rate for the care of the foster youth which is negotiated and established by the Maryland

Interagency Rates Committee. Per COMAR, the board rate is to be used to provide care for the foster youth. Included in the monthly board rate are the following:

Food (including infant formula);

Housing;

Utilities used by the foster youth in the home;

Over-the-counter medication;

Transportation (not long distances specific to foster youth) and bus pass for older youth;

Fees required for extracurricular activities (school trips);

Bedding (pillow, sheets, comforter);

Gifts for special occasions (birthday and Christmas);

Toiletry and personal care items (hair care and styling, and feminine hygiene products, diapers);

Allowance.

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Clothing Allowance

The local department of social services is required to visit the child in the placement on a regular basis per policy directive SSA# 09-9 Caseworker Visitation with Child in OHP. These inplacement visitations shall include a review by the caseworker of the clothing items available for the child. Many foster parents go above and beyond the clothing allowance in providing for the clothing and personal care needs of the child. While they are under no obligation to utilize the other portion of the monthly board rate in this manner, they should be commended for prioritizing the direct needs of the child in utilizing monetary support provided by the agency.

If the child is placed in a Residential Treatment Center, the RTC may bill the local department for a monthly clothing allowance not to exceed $75. The caseworker must ensure that the funds are expended for this purpose.

A. Entry

The case worker shall conduct an inventory of the child’s clothing at the time of entry into Out of- Home Placement. The case worker shall use the Minimum Clothing and Personal Care

Guidelines (found in Appendix of this Handbook) when completing the inventory. After completing the clothing inventory, the case worker shall communicate with the foster parents on what items of clothing require purchasing.

At the time of placement in a foster home, the caseworker shall provide the foster parent with a copy of the Minimum Clothing and Personal Care Guidelines. The caseworker shall also inform the foster parent that meeting those guidelines will be discussed after a 60 day period .

A suitcase or canvas bag (such as a large duffel bag) to transport clothing is considered an essential part of the things children in foster care should have. Plastic trash bags are not acceptable under any circumstances. The local department shall ensure that every child that enters out-of-home placement has a suitcase or duffel bag. This suitcase or bag shall travel with the youth to each placement.

Private Foster Care Agencies shall provide initial clothing to youth that are placed through their agency. Private agencies do not receive the one time clothing allowance . The local department may use their own discretion to purchase clothing for youth placed in private foster care agencies through the utilization of flex funds.

B. 60 Days in the Placement

At the first home visit after the child has been in the placement for at least 60 days, the caseworker shall review the child’s available clothing items to determine if the child’s minimum clothing needs have been addressed. If it is determined that minimum clothing needs are not being met, the caseworker shall work with the foster parent to develop a Plan to meet Minimum

Clothing Guidelines. The plan covers a 90 day period which gives the foster parent up to 3 months of clothing allowance with which to satisfy the guidelines, if necessary.

While the foster parent shall be encouraged to meet these guidelines as soon as possible, consideration shall be given to staying within the monthly clothing allowance.

C. General Standards

• Child Ownership of Clothing and Personal Items:

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Any item of clothing, personal hygiene or toys/electronics purchased for the foster youth belong to the foster youth. These items may have been purchased by the foster family (including extended family), donated or gifted. Regardless of how the child received the items, they are the property/belongings of the youth and travel with the youth when a change in placement occurs . At no time may a provider hold items belonging to the foster youth in exchange for damages. The case worker when possible shall be equipped to move all items the day the placement changes.

• Continual Replacement:

When a foster youth requires continuous replacements, all belongings are to travel with the youth to each placement. At no time, for any reason, shall a case worker not allow a youth to bring all belongings. If the youth has clothing or items that no longer fit or age appropriate it is the youth’s discretion whether the items should be discarded.

• Encouragement of Specified Place for Clothing:

Foster providers are required to have the necessary furniture and sleeping arrangements for each foster youth. Appropriate space for the youth to store clothing is required. At no time may the youth store clothing worn on a regular basis in suitcases, laundry baskets or plastic containers.

• Discourage Hand Me Downs or Thrift Shop Items for Regular Clothing/Personal Needs:

Foster providers are discouraged from purchasing a foster youth’s clothing from thrift shops or providing hand-me-down clothing. The Monthly Clothing Allowance which is part of the monthly board payment allows the foster parent monies to purchase new items for the youth. A foster provider may purchase a few items of used clothing for the foster youth, but this cannot be the majority of the child’s wardrobe. All personal items shall be purchased new for the foster youth and not shared by other members of the household or placement.

• All children shall be allowed to assist in picking out the clothing, as developmentally appropriate. Older youth should be primarily responsible for the management and purchase of clothing and personal care items as part of their independent living service agreement. All youth should be permitted to select clothing that meets their own specific needs or ethnic or religious requirements, including pregnant youth, Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Questioning,

(LGBTQ) youth.

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Spending Money / Allowances / Savings

Each child / youth shall be given a minimum weekly allowance based on their age.

5 to 7 = $2

8 to 11 = $5

12 to 13 = $10

14 to 16 = $15

17 and above = $20

These amounts are minimum guidelines and may be increased depending on the child’s/youth’s maturity, circumstances, and participation in household chore activities. The child’s case worker shall be consulted as to the appropriate allowance amount. The Weekly Allowance Ledger can be found in the Appendix of this handbook.

Allowances are not intended to cover items that would normally come out of the board rate such as toiletries. Foster parents are encouraged to establish savings accounts for children and youth.

Monies in the accounts will accompany the child /youth upon their return home or to another foster placement.

Foster parents are encouraged to assist the child /youth to purchase special occasion gifts for their foster family and birth family, i.e. Mother’s/Father’s Day, religious holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions.

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Example of Monthly Board Payment Budget

Providers are given a monthly board rate of $850.00 to meet the needs of the child/youth in care.

This breaks down to $28.00 per day. Below is an example of the typical expenditures that routinely are made from the board payment by a TFC provider, (this is exclusive of the

Difficulty of Care Payment):

Food & Personal Hygiene

(Hair cuts, over the counter medication) $300.00

Shelter

(Provision of safe & clean environment,

Furnished bedroom, laundry services, food preparation etc.)

___________

$100.00

Utilities

Heat

Water

Disposal

Telephone

Computer Service

Cable

$25.00

$10.00

$5.00

$20.00

$20.00

$20.00

___________

Subtotal: $400.00

Insurances (home & auto) $25.00

Transportation $100.00

Subtotal: $100.00

School Supplies

Entertainment

$50.00

$50.00

$75.00 (required amount) Clothing

Allowance (based on age) $50.00 (required amount based on age)

______________

Subtotal: $350.00

Total: $850.00

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ON CALL EMERGENCY SERVICE

When a treatment foster parent has a question, a problem, or a concern on a weekday between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m., the case manager for your foster child or the Director of Treatment Foster Care can be contacted at the San Mar office (240-625-9445) or directly at their cell phone number.

Cell phone numbers for all staff member are listed on the On Call Schedule. It is important that we, as members of a treatment team, provide support to one another, especially in times of crisis.

Monday through Thursday you should contact your case manager at any time needed. On a weekend or holiday, a Treatment Foster Care Staff person is assigned on call duty in the event of an emergency. If the assigned worker cannot be reached, please call another worker on the list until you are able to reach someone in person. Please make sure that you have been given a copy of the On- Call Schedule telling you who the staff person assigned for that period of time is. The On-Call schedule will be mailed to you and will also emailed to all those with email addresses. On weekends, the person who is on call will be able to be reached by calling the 240-

625-9445, ext 200 number. Your call will be automatically forwarded to the on-call worker.

When to Call:

Treatment foster parents are expected to contact the office during regular business hours or the on call staff when the office is not open when any of the following situations occur:

1.

A foster child runs away or is missing for any reason.

2.

A major medical problem exists.

3.

A foster child requires emergency medical services.

4.

A foster child is involved with the police or other legal authorities.

5.

A foster child fails to return from a home visit.

6.

A foster child returns from a home visit with bruises, injuries, or reports of physical or sexual abuse or neglect.

7.

An emergency, unusual or major problem develops.

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Incident Reporting Guidelines

The following circular letter is from the State of Maryland which lists the guidelines for reporting critical incidents:

“The Office of Licensing and Monitoring (OLM) has been experiencing frequent errors and problems in reviewing incident reports. This information is a reminder of your responsibilities regarding the reporting of Agency Emergencies as outlined in COMAR 07.01.05.08 A, which states that the agency is to notify OLM by phone immediately and in writing within 48 hours of the occurrence, of any of the following emergencies:

(a) The death of a child in foster care or receiving adoption services;

(b) Accident, assault, illness, or psychiatric episode of a child which requires hospitalization or emergency medical care;

(c) Suspected incident of child abuse or neglect, including mental injury;

(d) Illegal activity leading to the incarceration of a child, parent, foster parent, guardian, or adoptive parent; or

(e) Other occurrences which may affect the health, safety, or well-being of children in care or receiving adoption services.”

The following list, which is also from the State of Maryland, lists the responsibilities of the placement agency following a critical incident.

1.

If the youth involved in the critical incident is a Department of Juvenile Justice (DJJ) youth, a DJJ Incident Reporting Form must be completed within an hour of the incident and faxed to the Investigations and Child Advocacy Unit at 410-333-4194. At the same time, the form must also be faxed to the agency’s DJJ advocate, Bill Hoyle at 301-777-5976.

2.

Any critical incident involving a Department of Social Services (DSS) youth must be sent to the agency’s licensing agent, within 24 hours of the critical incident.

3.

All critical incidents should have a Critical Incident Form (cover sheet) attached to the

Incident Form with the Executive Director’s, Director of Treatment Foster Care’s and the case manager’s signature on it before the incident report is sent and filed in the youth’s file

(see attached).

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Copies of critical incident report should be made.

The original goes to the administration office or the Executive Director to sign. After being signed, copied and send to the State, the original should be placed in the youth’s file.

A second copy is entered into the CQI matrix and filed for CQI purposes.

A third copy is given to the appropriate Program Coordinator for internal review.

Therefore, it is imperative that you report critical incidents to your case manager and/or the Director so that we can remain in compliance.

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Critical Incidents:

1. Critical incidents include:

Any occurrence that could endanger or require the immediate removal of the youth for reasons of health or safety.

The death of a child or staff.

Medical or psychiatric hospitalization of a youth or staff on duty.

Arrest of a youth.

Life threatening injury or illness of youth or staff on duty.

Employee charged with criminal behavior, including DUI (DJJ guidelines)

Sexual offense committed by youth.

Illegal use or possession of firearms by a youth, staff, or other individual involved with the agency.

Physical or sexual assault on or by youth.

Physical, sexual or emotional abuse allegations (staff also must complete a child abuse form and report allegation to Child Protective Services)

Physical plant problem that renders a facility uninhabitable

Riot or disturbance that results in bodily harm or property damage.

Suicidal behavior by youth or staff on duty including attempts, gestures, and ideations.

 Suspected illegal substance or paraphernalia discovered in/on youth or staff’s possession.

Use of force by youth or staff on duty.

Incident involving law enforcement, fire department, or other emergency services at school, work or San Mar property.

Restraint. If a client is involved in a restraint, staff should note on the incident report that proper restraint techniques were followed and that a life space interview occurred or will occur.

Locked door seclusion.

Contraband – youth having cigarettes, matches, sharp objects, etc.

Medication administration errors: o Purposefully not taking medication – a youth has this right, but it must be documented that a recommended dosage is not taken. o Medication not available for the youth to take the prescribed dose. o Youth takes the wrong medication. o Youth takes the wrong dose of medication.

Runaway from San Mar, school, work or while on a home visit.

Property damage – fire, broken glass or furniture, etc.

General Guidelines:

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Please make sure that program staff has given you copies of blank incident report forms. The necessary forms can also be emailed to you for use on your home computer. Completed forms can be submitted by email.

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2.

Foster parents and program staff must write all incident reports in bold print with black ink.

No colored pens or pencils can be used on any document that becomes part of the permanent client record. The forms mail also be completed on a computer and emailed or faxed to San

Mar at 240-625-9446.

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All reports need to be written legibly and neatly. Persons should write only in the space given for reporting and then turn the sheet over if more space is required. The writer should not write below the line where signatures go.

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Foster parents and staff must print and sign their name on the designated lines. All reports must be dated with the month, day and year. The time of the incident must also be noted on the form in the space provided.

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Foster parents and staff must indicate, by checking the box, if the incident is a daily or critical incident.

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Foster parents and staff must indicate, with a circle, the incident type and the consequence given on the left side of the form.

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If a youth receives chair time as a consequence for her/his behavior, an incident review form

(see attached) must be completed by the youth and attached to the completed incident report.

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Incident reports should describe the event, what was said by staff /treatment foster parents and clients and the consequence(s) given. If no consequence was given, then the report should document that a consequence was not given. Staff should write enough details to answer who, what, why, where, and what consequences were given. Staff do not have to write a book, but should write enough that someone doesn’t have to go back to them for more information.

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Incident reports should not include statements by staff regarding what they think the client’s issue or problem may be. Staff should never write, “I think (client) had an attitude because she doesn’t like me.”

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Only one client’s name can appear on each report. When writing the report, staff should use initials only for clients. This way the report can be copied and not rewritten for each youth involved. On the copy, staff can then write the client’s name at the top of the form and place it in the appropriate file. Staff may use staff names on the forms.

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If staff should make a mistake on the form, they should draw a single line through the word so the word can still be seen. It is important that staff do not scribble or completely cover up the mistake, just simply draw a line. Then, they should write error above the line to note why this was done and initial the error. Staff should not use white out.

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If foster parents or staff should have any questions, they should consult with the program supervisor.

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RESPITE CARE

Respite care is available to all treatment foster parents as temporary leave from treatment foster parenting responsibilities. It is available for either scheduled or emergency reasons. Each foster family accrues two days of free respite time per month for each San Mar treatment foster child in the home. Children in regular foster care do not accrue free respite time. Respite time will accrue over time unless utilized. It is transferable from one placement to the next. If you need more respite than the free respite time you have accrued, you can take unpaid respite time.

A request for scheduled respite time should be made, in writing, to your case manager or the

Director of Treatment Foster Care two weeks in advance, except in the event of an emergency or other extenuating circumstance. Respite will be provided on a care-available basis at the discretion of San Mar. Respite care is a break from the responsibilities of caring for a treatment foster child. Please note that respite is not to be used as a form of discipline for the treatment foster child. It is a time for you to take a scheduled break from caring for the child(ren) or to fulfill other responsibilities (e.g., attending a wedding, medical appointments, etc).

The respite provider is paid at a rate of $2.50 per hour or $50.00 for a 24 hour period. If a TFC provider uses more than their total of accrued free respite hours, their monthly stipend will be affected at the rates cited above.

The Director maintains a record of earned, free respite for each family. Consult with the Director to ascertain how much such respite you have accrued. A similar record has been created for you to monitor your free respite hours.

Record of Free Respite Hours:

Please remember you do not earn free respite until the youth has been in your home for a full month. For example, if the child enters your home on May15 th

, you would begin receiving free blocks for the month of June. This is not to say that you cannot use respite, it just will not be free.

Note: Respite hours are calculated per child . If you are caring for two treatment foster children, you will earn two days of free respite each month for each child. When a child leaves your home and you still have a balance of free days, they can be applied to the next child that enters your home.

Again, you can use any amount of respite time needed. If you choose not to use it, that is okay. It just does not get redeemed ( like a coupon from your favorite grocery store ).

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Behavior Management Policy for Treatment Foster Care Providers

Behavior modification is the form of discipline that is used in the Treatment Foster Care

Program.

It is important that discipline or behavior modification is viewed as a building-up process, a process of ego development.

The goal of all discipline or behavior modification is to help children develop self-discipline. Discipline should not be given in a disrespectful, hurtful, vindictive or harmful manner. Foster parents should always treat each individual as having intrinsic worth. Physical discipline of foster children is prohibited by State of Maryland policy .

It is the philosophy of San Mar that all children benefit from clear, consistent expectations and limits. The first step in establishing good discipline is to make the limits and expectations within your family clearly known to your foster child.

Appropriate discipline takes into account the natural and logical consequences of behavior. It is helpful to look at what may be causing the child to act inappropriately before determining the consequences for the inappropriate actions. A child who behaves inappropriately because he/she is feeling upset may need to sit time-out; if frustration is the cause, work-time may be beneficial; if manipulative, loss of privileges may be most effective; and when a child is deeply upset or troubled, listening to his/her concerns and offering gentle guidance may be most needed.

It is very important that any behavioral consequences given be short-term and not physically or emotionally hurt the child or appear demeaning to the child’s self image. Sarcasm and degrading or backhanded comments which are intended to embarrass the child, will tear a person down and should not be part of the discipline process, which is focused on building up the child. Many children who enter our treatment foster care program have been emotionally hardened through their life experiences. They can be capable of enduring physical and emotional pain without much outward effect. It is through clear expectations, natural and logical consequences, commitment to consistent discipline, and a sincere attitude of forgiveness of the person while maintaining accountability for behavior, that the process of healing can begin.

Children are not permitted to carry out discipline on another child. Disagreements between children cannot be resolved by allowing them to “fight it out.” Fighting only leads to more fighting and, since children have a need to feel “safe,” fear and insecurity result when children feel unprotected by the adults in their world. For the same reasons, youth are not allowed to act out their aggressions on inanimate objects such as hitting pillows or punching bags. Studies have shown that acting act violence contributes to continued violent actions.

PHYSICAL, CRUEL, AND VINDICTIVE PUNISHMENTS MAY NOT BE USED WITH

CHILDREN IN TREATMENT FOSTER CARE.

Such types of punishment are strictly prohibited by state regulation. Physical punishment includes any act that makes a child feel any type of pain or discomfort. The following are examples of punishments that simply may NOT be used:

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Hitting, slapping or spanking with either a hand or an object of any sort.

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Placing a strong substance in a child’s mouth such as pepper, soap, or Tabasco sauce.

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Tying or handcuffing a child.

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Standing in one position for more than fifteen minutes at a time.

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Making a child assume an uncomfortable position such as standing on one leg or bending over.

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Remaining in “time-out” for more that one-half hour at a time or confinement to a bedroom for more than fifty minutes.

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Physical exercise or calisthenics used solely as punishment.

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Excessive work that is too strenuous for the child or demeaning such as “scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush.”

9. Any punishment for bed-wetting or behavior related to toilet training.

10. * Denial of meals, clothing, or shelter.

Meals cannot be withheld or be different from the meals being consumed by the foster family unless a special diet is medically recommended. Desserts cannot be withheld as a form of discipline. If the family is having dessert, the foster child also is given dessert.

11. Denial of communication or visits with the child’s biological family members .

(A violation of this policy can result in a report of possible abuse or neglect being made to the local Child Protective Services by San Mar staff.)

Appropriate consequences for behavior:

All foster parents are trained to use a variety of behavior management techniques in order to maintain structure in the home and to teach correct behavior in a positive atmosphere. There is an emphasis placed on holding a youth responsible for his/her own behavior. The type of behavior management used will vary depending on the age, maturity level, need and trust of the individual.

The following are board-approved behavior management and disciplinary practices which may be used:

There are times when children will not obey directions. Touching a youth who is upset (for example, putting a hand on a shoulder to direct) may often inflame and worsen a situation.

Therefore, Treatment Foster Parents are taught not to touch a youth in distress. However, should the behavior of an individual youth endanger either himself/herself or others, it may be necessary to physically restrain him/her. In such instances it is important for properly trained foster parents to hold him/her in a way that will not be degrading, and in a way that they can control his/her movement without causing harm to the youth, themselves, or others. Holding an out-of-control youth in a safe but firm manner may be reassuring and beneficial to the youth who has lost control of his/her behavior. Youth often need to know that they are going to be all right and that they will not be able to hurt anyone or anything. Physical restraint, when necessary, must always be applied passively and for only the time period needed for the youth to regain control. Foster parents must never take on the role of an aggressor when attempting to restrain a youth.

Treatment Foster Parents or treatment foster care staffs with satisfactory completion of the appropriate training are the only ones who may perform restraints.

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Time-Out:

Sometimes children need a cooling-off period. During time-out, the youth spends a set period of time in an area with limited distractions, thereby eliminating those variables which may have been reinforcing negative behavior. This technique is used for youth who may have difficulty controlling anger and may need “space” to regain control. This technique allows the chance to gain control for himself/herself without the intervention of others. A child should never be isolated, locked in a room, or placed in an enclosed area such as a closet. Time-out may be assigned by foster parents, or a youth may request a time-out period himself/herself. Time-out should be limited to one minute for every year of age for a child (i.e., no more than seven minutes for a seven-year-old.)

Work Time:

Youth may be given an amount of time to work around the house (over and beyond the normal daily chores) after a significant behavior incident. Work time may also be given to offset restitution charges (if the youth is not employed). Restitution for non-accidental damage or defacing of property is required as it teaches accountability and responsibility for behavior.

When giving work time, foster parents must be clear and specific as to what is expected. Foster parents will be responsible for checking the chore afterwards and at times may need to work along with the youth or monitor the work as it is being done. Caution should be exercised when giving work time if the foster parents have no intention of following through with checking the chore, or accepting anything goes with the assigned task. This gives the youth the opportunity to develop an unhealthy approach to expectations and follow-through.

Early Bedtime:

Early bedtime may be an appropriate intervention to modify behavior. Generally, children should not be sent to bed more that one hour earlier that usual. A caution to be recognized by treatment foster parents is that overuse of early bedtime may result in chaotic conditions at night until others in the treatment foster home go to bed, or in the morning when children who have gone to bed early are ready to arise earlier than usual.

Supervision:

Sometimes it is helpful to place a child on supervision for the day. This means that the child must stay with the adult for the entire day. This technique can aid an unstable child to maintain control and provide assurance that someone will be available to give help if needed.

Contracting:

Foster parents, with or without the assistance of foster care staff, may write a contract to address particular behavior(s) or to “spell out” rules or guidelines. There should be concrete measurable goals with incentives or “benchmarks” indicating progress. Contracts should be made by including the youth in the process as much as possible. Contracts must be shared with the case manager and/or other program staff.

Problem Solving:

Treatment foster care staff will work with foster parents to utilize specific problem solving techniques in the event of a crisis or need for immediate decision-making. Problem-solving

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techniques help one identify options, partialize tasks, and make informed decisions, encouraging the youth to think of alternative solutions and their possible effects.

Awarding/Withholding Privileges:

Behavior may be modified by awarding or withholding privileges. Either technique should be given in a consistent and immediate manner. All disciplinary actions taken to assist the child must be logged in the treatment foster parent’s weekly observation log. When it seems appropriate, privileges may be withheld as a consequence for violation of trust or other safety violations. If a child is “grounded” (no privileges outside the home), it is important that the time period be long enough to be meaningful to a child, but short enough for the child, given his or her abilities, to complete. “Grounding” may not exceed two weeks without permission of the child’s case manager or the Director of Treatment Foster Care. The terms must be clearly explained to the child

Written Assignments:

Youth may be assigned to write essays as a consequence, as decided by their foster parents or treatment foster care staff. Written assignments should be age-appropriate and geared to the cognitive level of the child. Sentence writing may be given to younger children (no more than

100 sentences per assignment).

Summary of Discipline Techniques by Age:

Birth to 4 months: No discipline necessary

4 to 8 months: Mild verbal disapproval

8 months to 18 months: Structuring the home environment, distracting, ignoring, redirecting, verbal and nonverbal disapproval, physically moving or escorting, short-term time out

3 years to 5 years: The preceding techniques with temporary time-out in a room, plus natural consequences, restricting places where the child can misbehave, logical consequences.

5 years to adolescence: The preceding techniques plus delay of a privilege, “I” statements, and negotiation via family conferences

 Adolescence: Logical consequences, “I” messages, family conferences about house rules

Natural consequences: Your child can learn good behavior from the natural laws of the physical world, e.g., not dressing properly for the weather means the child may get cold or wet; breaking a toy means it isn’t fun to play with anymore.

Discontinue any yelling: Yelling and screaming teach the child to yell back, you are thereby legitimizing shouting matches. The child will respond better in the long run to a pleasant, respectful tone of voice and words of diplomacy.

Guidelines for Giving Consequences:

Be un-ambivalent, mean what you say and follow through

Correct with love, talk to the child the way you want people to speak to you

Apply the consequences immediately

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Make a one sentence comment about the rule when you punish the child

 Ignore your child’s arguments while you are correcting him or her

Make the punishment brief

Follow the consequence with love and trust

Direct the punishment against the misbehavior, not the person

Paying Attention to Ignoring:

What is it? It is not looking at or talking to the child when the goal of the child’s behavior is to create a reaction in the parent, usually a manipulative attempt to gain attention

Why ignore it? To avoid reinforcing dysfunctional/unacceptable behavior, to communicate disapproval nonverbally

How to ignore it. 1. Identify the behavior you want to ignore

2. Give no attention whatsoever as long as this behavior

Continues

3. Acknowledge the child as soon as the behavior becomes acceptable

4. If the child has a limited repertoire of acceptable behaviors, with which to attract positive attention, then the

TFC parent must teach the child how to get needs met through positive behavior

Limits to Ignoring: Never ignore behaviors that present the risk of harm to the child or others and never ignore behaviors that threaten destruction of property.

Look to see what the child is doing and wait for a natural pause

Get the child’s attention

Give the instruction in short and simple language

 Gently hold the child’s arm while you and/or the child complete the task without talking

If the child does not move to do it in 10 seconds, go to the child without talking

Praise any cooperation.

This does not reward the behavior but also does not make a big deal about the behavior and does reward any effort the child makes toward cooperation

The following information was gained from the University of Maryland School of Social Work.

References are unavailable.

TEMPER TANTRUM MANAGEMENT:

1. Keep in mind this is not willful behavior, the child also does not like what he/she is doing, behavior may be related to hunger, fatigue, illness or physical discomfort

Assess the present way you’re handling the tantrums, if a developmental delay exists, seek help, evaluation and treatment

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Reduce stress in the child’s life

Maximize choices when possible

Child proof the environment fully

Praise and attend to cooperative behavior or any piece of behavior you can praise

Safeguard the child during the incident, stand by silently, and give the message of “I can tolerate anger. Feelings are okay but I’m not going to give in”

Comfort or distract afterward

SPECIAL TIME:

Parent picks time every day to devote exclusively to the child

Child picks activity

 Parent labels it “special time” to child

Pick a short enough period for it to be emotionally and practically possible and positive

Do it daily even on special dates

End on time, children have to learn how to stop

Activity should be interactive.

If child refuses, parent still sets time aside and follows child around. Child will eventually interact during “special time”

TIME OUT:

Use only for selected behaviors, generally aggressive behavior

Do use for minor infractions of family rules or for normal accidents

Pick a time-out place without interesting things to do or to look at

One warning of ten words or less

When aggression is the issue, no warnings issued

Cite offense simply and clearly

No discussion or negotiation

 Time out implies loss of freedom, interest and parent’s attention

Use an objective time, shorter is better. One minute per year of age up to five minutes

Do not spank, do not talk

Afterwards, do not discuss it, clean slate

Two purposes of time-out: to teach the child he has to learn to control his behavior if he wants to be around others and to give you a chance to keep control of your own behavior and emotions.

GIVING CHOICES:

Always select choices you like. Never provide one you like and one you don’t because the child will usually select the negative one

Never give a choice unless you are willing to allow the child to experience the consequences of that choice

Never give choices when a child is in danger

Never give choices unless you are willing to make the choice for the child in the event

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he/she does not choose

 Try to start your sentence with: “You are welcome to…….. or…….”

Feel free to …….. or……………..”

“Would you rather…………or……”

LOGICAL CONSEQUENCES: Are the result of going against the rules of social cooperation.

Express the rules of social living

Are related to the misbehavior

Separate the deed from the doer

Are concerned with what will happen in the present

Are given in a friendly way

Permit choices

Guidelines: o With repeated misbehavior, increase the time of the consequence o Phrase the choice respectfully o Respect the child’s choice o Say as little as possible, the goal is to let the child choose o Make it clear when there is no choice o Keep hostility out of your consequences

REFLECTIVE LISTENING

Establish eye contact

Listen to and define the feelings. Ask yourself what the child is feeling.

State the feeling back to the child

If you are not sure what the child is feeling, make an educated guess

Once you understand reflective listening, you may want to use less structured statements

Reflecting feelings in this way lets your child know you have heard the feelings and meaning behind the words, the child’s underlying feelings are recognized, expressed and accepted

DISCIPLINE SUMMARY :

Fair, firm, and consistent discipline is one of the most beneficial experiences a treatment foster parent can give to a child. Holding a youth accountable to a known standard, while seeking to help him/her accept responsibility for his/her actions, is an important aspect of the treatment process. A large portion of a foster parent’s energies are directed to confronting inappropriate behaviors and teaching the concept that all behavior results in consequences…positive behavior results in positive consequences, negative behavior in negative consequences. Behavior management is often very therapeutic.

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FOSTER YOUTH EARNINGS

A challenge faced by all parents, including Treatment Foster Parents, is teaching children the value of money and helping children to experience the wise use of their earnings. Delaying the immediate gratification of a “spending spree” when money is available can be difficult for any child, especially a child who may have experienced either a deprived or a “free spending” family environment. Learning the careful use of money is essential for adolescents who are preparing for eventual independence. The following guidelines are intended to help children to develop a healthy attitude towards the use of their earnings.

Money which a child earns through employment shall not be applied to the general care of the child.

Recommended Money Management Plan

A youth is encouraged to obtain employment, so that he/she can begin saving for their future.

When receiving income, San Mar recommends that 10% be kept by the youth, 45% be placed in short term savings, and 45% be placed in long term savings.

All deposits and withdrawals from the youth’s accounts shall be recorded on a financial ledger.

The youth and foster parents will sign this form witnessing any changes in the financial status to insure an accurate accounting of each youth’s finances.

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RESPONSIBILITIES OF WORKING TFC CHILDREN

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The TFC youth should receive permission to become employed from the TFC Case

Manager

The TFC youth may work only on weekends and holidays during the school year. A summer schedule is subject to approval by the TFC parents and Case Manager’

The child may work no earlier than 7:30 am or later than 10:00 pm unless approval is given.

It is necessary to schedule working hours around therapy appointments, court dates,

Treatment Team Reviews and other necessary appointments

The TFC youth must work the schedule assigned by the job and must remain at the job site during hours of employment

Transportation to and from the work site must be worked out with the TFC parents. TFC youth may not ride in a motor vehicle driven by someone under the age of 21.

TFC youth may not quit a job without approval from the Case Manager and TFC parents.

Once approved, the TFC youth must give two weeks notice.

The majority of monies earned will be placed into a joint savings account with the name of the TFC youth and Case Manager both on the account. The amount of savings will be worked out with the Case Manager and TFC providers.

Money earned by the child in employment is not be used for the general care of the child.

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PAYMENT OF HEALTH CARE COSTS

It is expected that ALL medical, dental, and optical services will be provided by a licensed health professional who accept the HMO plan authorized by Medical Assistance for payment. San Mar will not assume responsibility for payment of medical bills to professionals who do not accept

Medical Assistance.

Cash payment shall not be made to the service provider since Medical Assistance WILL NOT reimburse cash payments. On a case by case basis, the local Department of Social Services may choose to reimburse such costs. San Mar Children’s Home ordinarily is unable to reimburse for any of these costs.

Exceptions to these procedures may only be granted by the Chief Executive Officer of San Mar or his/her designee. In the case of an emergency, the on-call person must be contacted if time and circumstances allow. However, the most important task in an emergency is to get the child the required medical care as quickly as possible.

When a child is not eligible for Medical Assistance, it is usually because the child is covered by another health-care plan. Frequently the child’s coverage is as a dependent on the plan of a biological parent. Generally, such plans have some restrictions. The case manager for the child will discuss the limitations of a child’s specific coverage with you. It is important that treatment foster parents access all health care benefits available to each child .

HEALTH EXAMINATIONS

There are certain required health examinations for all children, in treatment foster care. The following is the schedule for mandated routine exams:

ROUTINE PHYSICAL: Once every year

ROUTINE DENTAL: Once every six months, for children ages 3 and older

EYE EXAM: Once every year

SECOND MMR IMMUNIZATION (Measles, mumps, rubella): Upon admission if not received prior to admission.

Since each child will have had some of the above examinations prior to placement with San Mar, each treatment foster parent must contact their child’s case manager to determine which examinations are needed. All health exams must be scheduled in a timely manner. Each child should have all routine health exams completed within the first sixty days of placement.

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Universal Precautions

Definition:

Universal precautions are those practices performed to prevent and control the transmission of blood-borne pathogens. Universal precautions apply to tissue, blood and other body fluids containing blood. Potential infections body fluids are referred to as sputum, vomits, sweat, tears, urine, nasal secretions, feces, saliva that may not have visible blood, but offers the potential for disease transmission.

Compliance Statement:

Universal precautions should be observed to prevent contact with blood or other potentially infectious body fluids. All blood or other potential infectious body fluids should be considered infectious.

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All body fluids shall be considered infectious material.

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The use of gloves is recommended any time you may come in contact with body fluids.

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Hands must be washed before donning and after removal of gloves. Any other potentially contaminated skin areas must immediately be washed with soap and water.

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All body fluid spill or contaminated areas should be cleaned and disinfected immediately.

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All contaminated items are to be bagged. Double bagging may be necessary to prevent soak through or leakage of fluid.

HOW ARE INFECTIONS SPREAD?

Infections can be transmitted from person to person through physical contact or just from being in the same room. When children from different families attend child care, infections spread easily. Children’s normal affectionate behavior is part of the reason. Toy sharing, hugging and

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kissing are all quick ways to pass germs, but shouldn’t be discouraged. What should be encouraged is better hygiene, especially hand washing.

We find three common kinds of infections in child care settings: respiratory infections, intestinal tract infections and skin infections.

Respiratory infections are the most common childhood illnesses. These viruses and bacteria live in the respiratory tract (lungs, nose, mouth, throat and connected passages). They’re in saliva and nose secretions. Respiratory germs float through the air and are inhaled or settle in the eyes, nose or mouth.

Colds and flu are examples of infections caused by germs that spread this way. Ear infections are also caused by respiratory tract germs. Strep throat germs are spread when you sneeze or cough.

Runny noses also spread respiratory infections, especially if caregivers don’t wash their hands after wiping noses.

Often, you don’t feel sick for the first few days of having a respiratory infection. However, during that time, you can spread germs to others. For this reason, it’s best to practice good hygiene all the time, not just when you or others are sick.

Intestinal infections include diarrhea and other illnesses. You can be infected by the intestinal tract germs in bowel movements (or infect someone else!) if you don’t wash your hands after you use the bathroom, after you change diapers or before handling or eating food. Unclean hands easily pass germs along to food, toys or water.

The risk of spreading these germs (and the frequency of diarrhea) is greater in child care setting where children are in diapers. Preventing the spread of these intestinal infections requires strict hygiene practices.

Skin and scalp infections are caused by germs, fungus or parasites. They are spread by direct physical contact and by using other people’s clothing or brushes and combs. Ringworm (which is a fungus, not a worm), impetigo (a bacterial infection that causes crusty red sores on the face and hands), and scabies and head lice (both small parasites) are spread by person-to-person contact.

HOW WE CAN PREVENT INFECTIONS

Everyone’s help is important to control infectious diseases. Parents, children, and caregivers must work together to stop germs from spreading.

The first step to control infectious diseases is setting clear policies for the child care setting.

These policies should include:

Immunization: Children’s and adult’s immunizations should be up to date. Staff and children’s files need to include this information. Children should be immunized against: diphtheria, whooping cough (pertussis), tetanus, polio, measles, mumps, chicken pox, German measles

(rubella), and Haemophilus influenzae type b or Hib (which causes bacterial meningitis and epiglottitis).

Illness: Neither children nor adults should be in the childcare setting when they are sick. The program’s policies should clearly set out guidelines for when caregivers, center staff or children are required to stay home. Guidelines help parents decide if their children should go to childcare.

Parents should arrange in advance to have alternative childcare available.

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Communication: Both caregivers and parents should keep each other informed about the health of each child, every day. In this way, infectious diseases can sometimes be stopped from spreading.

Hygiene: Every setting needs clear policies and practices for infection control. These should include hand washing, sanitation and food safety requirements.

Hand washing is the best defense against spreading germs. Everyone should wash their hands after going to the toilet, changing a diaper, after caring for or cleaning up after someone who is sick, and before preparing or eating food.

Hygienic diaper-changing routines prevent passing germs around. Their importance should be clear to all those working with children in the child care setting, including parents.

Cleaning and sanitization of food preparation areas, bathrooms and toys with a recommended sanitizing solution such as bleach/water are important. Staff and caregivers should understand food safety practices to prevent food-borne illness.

Comprehensive HIV Prevention Messages for Young People:

HIV-related illness and death now have the greatest impact on young people. AIDS is a leading cause of death among Americans 25- to 44-years-old. In this same age group, AIDS now accounts on average for 1 in every 3 deaths among African-American men and 1 in 5 deaths in

African-American women. Between 1990 and 1995, AIDS incidence among people 13- to 25- years-old rose nearly 20%. While AIDS incidence among both young gay and bisexual men and young injecting drug users was relatively constant during this time period, AIDS incidence among young heterosexual men and women rose more than 130%.

A study by the National Cancer Institute, confirms existing data that reveal that as each generation comes of age, there is a substantial increase in the rate of infection as individuals enter their late teens and early twenties, with infection rates peaking in the mid-to-late twenties.

Sustained and targeted prevention for each group entering young adulthood is what will keep these waves from developing. As the lead federal agency for HIV prevention, CDC is responsible for implementing public education programs to help stop the spread of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

A Balance of Prevention Messages is Needed--Including Abstinence and Condom Use

Behavioral science has shown that a balance of prevention messages is important for young people. Total abstinence from sexual activity is the only sure way to prevent sexual transmission of HIV infection. Despite all efforts, some young people may still engage in sexual intercourse that puts them at risk for HIV and other STDs. For these individuals, the correct and consistent use of latex condoms has been shown to be highly effective in preventing the transmission of

HIV and other STDs. Data clearly show that many young people are sexually active and that they are placing themselves and their partners at risk for infection with HIV and other STDs.

These young people must be provided the skills and support they need to protect themselves.

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Influenza

What is influenza?

Influenza , commonly called “the flu,” is a highly contagious infection of the nose, throat, bronchial tubes, and lungs.

What is the infectious agent that causes influenza?

Influenza is caused by viruses that infect the respiratory tract. Two main types of influenza viruses -- influenza type A and influenza type B -- cause the outbreaks and epidemics of respiratory illness that occur almost every winter.

Influenza viruses are unusual because they are always changing. Influenza viruses can undergo two types of changes. “Antigenic drift” is a series of changes, over time, which causes a gradual evolution of the virus. Antigenic drift results in the emergence of new influenza strains. Different strains circulating during each influenza season give rise to yearly outbreaks and epidemics.

“Antigenic shift” is an abrupt change that results in new forms (subtypes) of the virus. Antigenic shift occurs only occasionally. When it does occur, large numbers of people, and sometimes the entire population, are without protective immunity. This can result in a catastrophic worldwide epidemic, called a pandemic, such as those that occurred in 1918, 1957, and 1968.

How do people get influenza?

Influenza viruses spread through the air, most often when an infected person sneezes, coughs, or speaks. Influenza is highly contagious and is easily spread from person to person by droplets from the nose or throat of an infected person.

What are the signs and symptoms of influenza?

Compared with most other viral infections of the respiratory tract, such as the common cold, influenza infection often causes a more severe illness. Typical symptoms are:

 Abrupt fever

 Muscle aches

 Severe tiredness

 Cough

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 Sore throat

 Runny or stuffy nose

 Headache

Influenza also lingers longer than most other common respiratory infections, often lasting a week or more. Influenza should not be confused with the so-called “stomach flu,” which is a catch-all term for various digestive system problems caused by other microorganisms.

Who is at risk for influenza?

Anyone can get influenza, but the risk of complications is highest in these groups:

 Persons aged 65 years and older

 Residents of nursing homes and other long-term care facilities

 Adults and children with long-lasting disorders of the lungs or heart, including children with asthma

 Adults and children with diabetes, kidney disease, or weakened immune systems

 Women who will be in the second or third trimester of pregnancy during influenza season

 Health-care workers, household members, and others who are in contact with persons at high risk for influenza and influenza-related complications

How can influenza be prevented?

The best way to prevent influenza is to get a yearly flu vaccination. Influenza viruses change over time, and each year the vaccine is updated to include the viruses that are most likely to circulate in the upcoming influenza season. Therefore, people who need to be protected against influenza should get a flu shot every year. Flu shots are 70%-90% effective in preventing influenza in healthy adults. In elderly or chronically ill persons, influenza vaccine may be less effective in preventing illness than in preventing serious complications and death.

Who should get vaccinated against influenza?

Anyone who wants to avoid influenza can get a flu shot. Flu shots are particularly recommended for persons who are at high risk of having a serious complication when they get influenza. These include:

 All persons age 65 years and older

 Persons of any age with certain long-term health problems that put them at increased risk of influenza-related complications, hospitalization, and death

 Care givers of high-risk persons and persons who live with persons at high risk

The best time to get a flu shot is between October and mid-November every year. However, vaccinations can be given as early as September and well into December, even after influenza begins appearing in a community.

Hepatitis B

What is hepatitis B?

Hepatitis B is a serious infection of the liver.

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How do people get hepatitis B infection?

Hepatitis B virus is easily spread by direct contact with the blood or body fluids of an infected person. For example, hepatitis B can be transmitted from an infected mother to her baby at birth, through unprotected sex with an infected person, by sharing drug paraphernalia, and by occupational contact with blood in a health-care setting. Hepatitis B is not spread through food or water or by casual contact.

People can have hepatitis B (and spread the disease) without knowing it. Sometimes, people who are infected with hepatitis B virus never recover fully from the infection. They carry the virus and can infect others for the rest of their lives.

What are the signs and symptoms of hepatitis B?

Many persons who are infected with hepatitis B virus have no symptoms. Others become ill with these symptoms:

 Loss of appetite

 Tiredness

Pain in muscles, joints, or stomach

Diarrhea or vomiting

Jaundice (yellowing of the skin and whites of the eyes)

What complications can result from hepatitis B?

Most infected persons clear the hepatitis B virus out of their systems completely in a few months. In some people, especially infants and children, hepatitis B virus can cause chronic

(lifelong) liver infection. Chronic infection can lead to liver damage (cirrhosis), liver cancer, and death.

How is hepatitis B diagnosed?

Hepatitis B can be diagnosed by a blood test.

Who is at risk for hepatitis B?

Anyone can get hepatitis B, but the risk is higher if a person:

 Has sex with someone infected with hepatitis B virus

 Has sex with more than one partner

 Is a man who has sex with another man

 Lives in the same house with someone who has lifelong hepatitis B virus infection

 Has a job that involves contact with human blood

Injects illegal drugs

Is a patient or worker in a home for the developmentally disabled

Has hemophilia

Moves or travels often to areas where hepatitis B is common

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Persons whose parents were born in some parts of China, Southeast Asia, Africa, the Amazon

Basin in South America, the Pacific islands, and the Middle East are also at high risk.

What is the treatment for hepatitis B?

There is no cure for hepatitis B. Treatment includes rest and proper diet.

How can hepatitis B be prevented?

Hepatitis B vaccine is the best protection against hepatitis B virus. The vaccine prevents both hepatitis B virus infection and the chronic diseases related to hepatitis B. Three shots are needed for complete protection. Hepatitis B vaccine is recommended for:

 All newborn babies

All children 11-12 years of age who have not been vaccinated

Persons of any age whose behavior or job puts them at high risk for hepatitis B virus infection

All pregnant women should be tested for hepatitis B virus early in their pregnancy. If the blood test is positive, the baby should receive hepatitis B vaccine at birth, along with another shot

(hepatitis B immune globulin). If the blood test shows that the mother is not infected, vaccination of the baby can be delayed until age 2-6 months. This delay responds to concerns that the small amounts of mercury in the vaccine preservative thimerosal could pose a theoretical risk to newborn infants, although no scientific evidence of harm caused by this level of exposure has been reported. When a new hepatitis B vaccine that does not contain the preservative thimerosal becomes available, newborn hepatitis B vaccination does not need to be delayed and can start at birth.

Hepatitis B vaccine has been available since 1982 and has been shown to be very safe when given to infants, children, and adults. More than 200 million doses of hepatitis B vaccine have been administered in the United States, including more than 50 million doses administered to infants and young children. The most common side effect from hepatitis B vaccination is temporary pain at the injection site, occurring in about 3%-9% of children and adolescents and

13%-29% of adults. The second most commonly reported side effect is mild to moderate fever, occurring in about 4%-7% of children and 1% of adults. Studies show that these side effects are reported no more often among vaccinated persons than among persons not receiving vaccine.

There is no confirmed scientific evidence that hepatitis B vaccine causes chronic illness. Largescale hepatitis B immunization programs in the United States and abroad have observed no associated between vaccination and serious adverse events, and surveillance in the United States has shown no association between hepatitis B vaccination and the occurrence of serious adverse events.

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Tuberculosis (TB)

 Tuberculosis (TB) is a serious, re-emerging bacterial illness that usually affects the lungs.

 TB bacteria are spread from person to person through the air.

 There are two forms of TB: 1) TB infection, and 2) TB disease (active TB). Most people with TB have infection. People with TB infection have no symptoms and cannot spread

TB to others. People with TB disease have symptoms and can spread TB to others.

 People with TB infection can take medicine to keep them from getting TB disease.

People with TB disease can usually be cured with anti-TB drugs. To be effective, the drugs must be taken exactly as prescribed. Some new strains of TB are resistant to many anti-TB drugs.

 Preventing TB involves: 1) keeping people from becoming infected with TB, 2) keeping people with TB infection from getting TB disease, 3) treating people with TB disease, and 4) implementing precautions in institutional settings to reduce the risk of TB transmission.

What is tuberculosis (TB)?

Tuberculosis, or TB, is an infectious disease that usually affects the lungs but that can attack other parts of the body. There are two forms of TB: TB infection and TB disease (or active TB).

Most people with TB have TB infection.

Where is tuberculosis found?

Tuberculosis can be found everywhere worldwide.

How do people get tuberculosis?

Tuberculosis is spread from person to person through the air. People with TB disease of the lung spray the bacteria into the air when they cough, sneeze, talk, or laugh. People nearby can breathe in the bacteria and become infected. To become infected, a person usually needs to be exposed for a long time to air containing many TB bacteria.

When a person breathes in TB bacteria, they lodge in the lungs and begin to multiply. From there, the bacteria sometimes move through the blood to other parts of the body, such as the kidneys, joints, and brain. In most cases, the infection is kept in check by the body’s immune system. In about 10% of cases, however, the infection breaks out into active TB disease at some point during the life of the infected person.

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What is the difference between TB infection and TB disease?

In most people who become infected, the body’s immune system is able to fight the TB bacteria and stop them from multiplying. The bacteria are not killed, but they become inactive and are stored harmlessly in the body. This is TB infection. People with TB infection have no symptoms and cannot spread the infection to others. However, the bacteria remain alive in the body and can become active again later.

If an infected person’s immune system cannot stop the bacteria from multiplying, the bacteria eventually cause symptoms of active TB, or TB disease. To spread TB to others, a person must have TB disease.

Most people who have TB infection never develop TB disease. But some infected people are more likely to develop TB disease than others. They include babies and children, persons with weak immune systems, and persons with some other kinds of lung disease. These people should take medicine to keep from developing TB disease. This is called preventive therapy.

What are the signs and symptoms of TB disease?

Symptoms of TB disease depend on where in the body the TB bacteria are multiplying. TB bacteria usually multiply in the lungs. TB in the lungs can cause:

 A bad cough that lasts longer than 2 weeks

 Chest pain

 Coughing up blood or sputum (phlegm from deep inside the lungs)

 Other symptoms are: weakness or tiredness, weight loss, chills, fever, and night sweats

How soon after exposure do tuberculosis symptoms appear?

Most persons infected with TB bacteria never develop TB disease. If TB disease does develop, it can occur 2 to 3 months after infection or years later. The chances of TB infection developing into TB disease lessen as time passes.

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How is tuberculosis diagnosed? TB infection is diagnosed by a skin test. A small needle is used to put some fluid, called tuberculin, under the skin on the inside of the arm. After 2 to 3 days, the amount of skin swelling around the test area is measured. A positive reaction usually means that the person has TB infection. TB disease is diagnosed by a chest x-ray or a test of a sputum sample.

Who is at risk for TB infection?

Anyone can get TB infection, but some groups are more likely than others to be exposed and thus get TB infection:

 Persons with HIV infection or other diseases that weaken the immune system

 Persons in close contact with someone who has TB disease

Homeless persons

 Persons from countries were TB is common

Persons in nursing homes

 Persons in prisons

 Persons who inject drugs

 Persons with medical conditions such as diabetes and certain types of cancer

What is the relationship between TB and HIV infection?

In many parts of the world, TB is a leading cause of death in persons with HIV infection. HIV infection weakens the immune system and makes it harder to keep the TB infection in check.

Therefore, people with both TB infection and HIV infection are at very high risk of developing

TB disease. All HIV-infected persons need to find out if they have TB infection. If they do, they need therapy to prevent the development of TB disease. If they have TB disease, they need anti-

TB medicine.

What complications can result from tuberculosis?

Complications include chronic weakening of the lungs, damage to other organs, and death.

What is the treatment for tuberculosis?

In most cases, TB disease can be cured with anti-TB drugs. To be effective, the drugs must be taken exactly as prescribed. Treatment usually involves a combination of several different drugs.

Because TB bacteria die very slowly, anti-TB drugs must be taken for 6 months or longer.

Persons with TB disease must continue to take their medicine until all the bacteria are killed, even if the symptoms of disease go away and they start to feel better. Not completing the full TB treatment can be very dangerous. The disease will last longer, the person can continue to spread the disease to others, and the rate of transmission will increase. Also, the TB bacteria can become resistant to the drugs being used to kill them.

How can tuberculosis be prevented?

 High-risk persons with TB infection must complete their preventive therapy medicines.

 Persons with TB disease must take all of their anti-TB medicine exactly as prescribed.

Institutions must implement precautions to reduce the risk of TB transmission

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USE OF TOBACCO AND ALCOHOL PRODUCTS

Use of tobacco products by foster children is prohibited as it is a violation of Maryland State

Law for any minor child to use or possess either tobacco or alcohol products. Any adult, including a TFC provider, who purchases alcohol or tobacco products for a minor, or provides tobacco products to a minor, can be criminally charged for those actions. As adult authority figures and parents both program staff and treatment foster parents must be a positive role model and support the law.

San Mar Children’s Home reserves the right to require alcohol or drug testing, on an as needed basis and without prior notice.

USE OF WEAPONS

For the purpose of this policy, the term “weapon” includes, but is not limited to, the following:

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pistols, pellet and BB guns, air guns, bows and arrows, crossbows, slingshots, rifles and pistols of any caliber, shotguns, hunting knives, and martial arts paraphernalia such as “numchucks” and throwing stars. All weapons are dangerous when not handled properly and with respect. Youth may not handle weapons or have weapons in their possession. Any weapons that are brought into treatment foster home by a youth must be immediately confiscated and held by the case manager. Children who have completed a certified hunter safety course and who have proper supervision may be allowed to use weapons for hunting purposes. This will be judged on a case by case basis.

USE OF MOTORCYCLES

Because of the unusual danger and severe liability that motorcycle riding presents, for youth placed in a San Mar Program, the riding of any two or three wheeled motorized vehicle, as an operator or passenger, is expressly forbidden unless special permission is received from the placing agency. All staff must make a reasonable effort to assure that no youth is permitted to operate or ride as a passenger on any two or three-wheeled motorized vehicle or a “four wheeler”

ATV vehicle. This policy should also be seen to apply to the use of snowmobiles and water craft.

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DRIVING LICENSES AND DRIVING OF VEHICLES

GUIDELINES

1.

A youth in treatment foster care will be encouraged to save enough money to purchase a vehicle and insurance before he or she obtains the actual drivers license.

Consideration may be given to waive this policy for a youth who will be discharged from treatment foster care upon high school graduation.

2.

No mini bikes, mopeds, or motorcycles may be purchased by youth in treatment foster care.

3.

In most cases, parents’ permission will be required.

4.

In all cases, permission from the Department of Social Services will be required.

5.

Foster parents are responsible to verify that any vehicle operated by a foster child is insured to cover the foster child. A copy of the insurance policy must be submitted to San

Mar to provide this verification.

6.

Foster children are not allowed to drive vehicles owned by the TFC family

7.

Any exception to the above outlined procedure must be granted IN WRITING by the

Program Director.

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STAFF CONTACT LIST

Phone: 301-733-9067 Fax: 240-625-9446

Ellen Savoy, Director of Treatment Foster Care:

Extension 220 esavoy@sanmarhome.org

Cell: 240-675-7150

Joel Bowers, Foster Home Care Recruiter/Trainer:

Extension 234 jbowers@sanmarhome.org

Cell: 240- 500-4646

Becky Carpenter, TFC Case Manager:

Extension 310 bcarpenter@sanmarhome.org

Cell: 301-302-3344

Tiffany Pittman, TFC Case Manager:

Extension 235 tpittman@sanmarhome.org

301-331-6883

Stephen Pittman, TFC Case Manager

Extension 231 spittman@sanmarhome.org

240-625-2228

Margaret Paul, TFC Case Manager

Extension 232 mpaul@sanmarhome.org

240-675-7195

Amanda James, TFC case manager

Extension 238 ajames@sanmarhome.org

240-500-4649

Dominic Gianninoto, TFC Case Manager

Extension 210 dgianninoto@sanmarhome.org

301-964-5556

Francie Hickerson, Clinical Supervisor:

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APPENDICES

Foster parent job description- pgs. 65-68

Purchase of care agreement- pgs. 69-72

Pre-service training letter- pg. 73

Pre-service training requirements- pgs.74-76

Weekly Allowance- pg. 77

Monthly Clothing Allowance - pg. 78

Minimum Clothing Guidelines- pg. 79

Confidentiality Agreement- pg. 80

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FOSTER PARENT JOB DESCRIPTION

TITLE: TREATMENT FOSTER PARENT

SUPERVISOR: Treatment Foster Care Case Manager

POSITION SUMMARY :

The role of the treatment foster parent is central to the Treatment Foster Care Program at San

Mar Children’s Home, Inc. Treatment foster parents are viewed as colleagues and team members by program staff. The role of a treatment foster parent is to serve as an in-home treatment agent and implement strategies that are specific to each child as determined by that child’s individual treatment plan. Treatment foster parents also perform basic parenting responsibilities such as the provision of nutrition, clothing, shelter, physical care, nurturance and acceptance of the child into their family, supervision of the child, transportation to needed services, and compliance with federal and state regulations pertaining to Treatment Foster Care.

QUALIFICATIONS & REQUIREMENTS:

Treatment foster parents must be at least 21 years of age. Single or married persons may apply for treatment foster parent approval. Treatment foster parents must have an income that can support their family without the additional income from Treatment Foster Care. Treatment foster parents must have good communication and interpersonal skills, and openness to receiving supervision in their own homes. Treatment foster parents must complete 30 hours of pre-service training and 24 hours of annual training, and be able to work with the biological families of children. An awareness of resources in the community for the child they are serving and a clear ability to work cooperatively as partners with children, families, Placement Agency Workers and

San Mar Treatment Foster Care staff is required. Additionally, treatment foster parents must have reliable transportation, an operable telephone, four personal references who have known the couple for at least three years, criminal history clearance and Board of Health certification.

KNOWLEDGE, SKILLS & ABILITIES:

Treatment foster parents should demonstrate an ability to provide physical and emotional care to children and adolescents. They should have knowledge of child and adolescent developmental stages and the impact of abuse and neglect on maturation. Treatment foster parents should have the ability to recognize and meet each child’s individual needs based on their experience in providing care and supervision to children. They need to have knowledge of the importance of accepting a child into their own home, as well as, letting the child go when treatment ends or is completed. Treatment foster parents must have ability and a willingness to work as a team member with other agency staff, biological parents/legal guardians, school personnel, therapists, etc. They must have adequate physical and mental health, and display an ability to manage stress that is inherent in the treatment foster parent profession. At least one of the treatment foster parents in each couple must have adequate written skills to complete periodic evaluations of the

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foster children in their home and on-going record keeping tasks for each child.

TEAM RESPONSIBILITIES:

Treatment foster parents will be expected to participate in treatment planning . Treatment parents contribute vital input into treatment plans based on their observations of the child in the environment of their treatment foster home. Treatment foster parents shall assume primary responsibility for implementing the in-home treatment strategies specified in the youth’s comprehensive treatment plan. It is expected that at least one treatment parent will attend team meetings and other appointments required by the program or the child’s treatment plan. Both treatment parents shall attend at least 24 hours of training annually. It is expected that treatment foster parents will keep accurate and orderly records that will allow the tracking and evaluation of the services provided in the treatment home. Treatment parents shall systematically record information and document activities as required by the treatment team. When relevant to the treatment plan, the treatment parent shall also keep a systematic record of the child’s behavior and progress in targeted areas on at least a weekly, and preferably a daily, basis.

INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBILITIES:

Treatment foster parents will be expected to fulfill the following responsibilities:

1.

Provide a system of privileges, responsibilities and consequences through which children can grow and develop self-control;

2.

Provide a structured, secure environment designed to meet the child’s need for safety and security;

3.

Provide discipline and guidance that does not involve corporal punishment;

4.

Help each child deal with the adjustment process and their feelings of separation from their prior living environment;

5.

Observe confidentiality of all information regarding children and the biological family history;

6.

Assist the case manager and other team members in the development of treatment plans for a child or youth in their care and assume primary responsibility for implementing the in-home treatment specified in the treatment plan;

7.

Guide the child toward an achievement of goals as outlined in the child’s individual treatment plan;

8.

Attend team meetings and training sessions;

9.

Keep a systematic record of a child’s behavior and progress in targeted areas on a daily basis;

10.

Ensure a child access to medical and dental care, including accompanying the child to medical and dental appointments and carrying out treatment prescribed by health care providers, recording all medications administered in the child’s medication log as they are given, and reporting significant information about the child’s health to San Mar staff as necessary;

11.

Maintain the child’s medical passport;

12.

Provide for each child’s physical and emotional needs;

13.

Provide recreational and enrichment activities that will promote the healthy development of each child;

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14.

Monitor a child’s school attendance and progress, and attend parental conferences and activities (note: foster parents cannot sign IEP’s as the child’s guardian unless they have been officially appointed as the child’s surrogate school representative by the Board of Education);

15.

Provide transportation services to and from medical, dental, and therapy appointments, work, appropriate social events, scheduled meetings with relatives and friends, school functions, and events scheduled by the agency; and ensure that the child has legal and safe transportation to school;

16.

Develop and maintain positive working relationships with resources in the community such as schools, social service agencies, mental health professionals, and recreational outlets;

17.

Attend and provide information at court hearings as requested by placement agency;

18.

Demonstrate accountability for services provided through keeping all records required by

San Mar policy and submitting them to the child’s San Mar case manager according to the agreed-upon schedule for such forms;

19.

Assist a child in maintaining contact and visitation with the child’s biological family unless otherwise indicated in the treatment plan, including helping the child visit with parents, maintaining respect toward the child’s parents, and informing the child’s parents about events and happenings in the child’s daily life;

20.

Assist in reunification efforts as specified by the treatment team in accordance with the permanency plan;

21.

Support the cultural and religious heritage of the foster child, as appropriate;

22.

Report any suspected child abuse or neglect immediately to the child’s San Mar TFC case manager, on-call case manager, or other San Mar staff in accordance with agency policy; cooperate in any investigation or review concerning such reports of abuse or neglect; and give formal testimony if so required;

23.

When a child’s whereabouts are unknown for two hours, notify the local law enforcement authority and San Mar TFC staff immediately by phone call and within 48 hours by written report; when the whereabouts of a younger child are unknown, notify San Mar immediately

24.

Immediately notify San Mar TFC staff of all critical incidents including a foster child’s injury, serious illness, incarceration, runaway, death, or suspected physical abuse, neglect, or mental injury;

25.

Within 48 hours, notify San Mar TFC staff of any changes in the foster parent’s household, including: employment and child care arrangements, household composition, residence and telephone number, health status, and stressful conditions which may affect the child’s placement;

26.

Obtain approval from the San Mar case manager and/or Director of Treatment Foster Care for other adults to supervise the child when the foster parent is employed or otherwise not available;

27.

Whenever possible, offer at least 30 days’ written notice when requesting removal of a child from the treatment foster home;

28.

Comply with all state regulations and agency policies and procedures as outlined in the treatment foster family Purchase of Care Agreement;

29.

Provide swimming pool and hot tub safety, supervision, and security as required by law and

San Mar policy;

30.

Secure all dangerous items within the home: prescription and non-prescription drugs, dangerous household supplies, tools, and any other household items which are potentially

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life-threatening or injurious to children, so that they are not accessible to children, and secure all firearms in a locked cabinet with the key located in a place inaccessible to children;

31.

If there is a pet in the home, educate the child as age-appropriate regarding the care and grooming of the pet and provide for the safety of the child around the pet;

32.

With the assistance of the case manager, maintain the financial ledger for the foster child;

33.

Help maintain a record (scrapbook) for each child of his or her time in residence in their treatment foster home (photographs, report cards, etc.);

34.

Maintain their usual lifestyle and relationships within their own family while providing care for a child;

35.

Help all treatment foster parents understand the impact that Treatment Foster Care may have on the household routines and overall home environment.

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PURCHASE OF CARE AGREEMENT

This is an agreement dated between the San Mar Treatment Foster Care

(TFC) Program, licensed by the Maryland Department of Human Resources to provide

Treatment Foster Care, and herein referred to as the Treatment

Family.

Whereas , the San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program wishes to purchase and the Treatment foster family wishes to furnish the services listed below; and

Whereas, the services to be provided are 24 -hour treatment foster care including room, food, clothing, transportation, parental guidance, treatment implementation; and

Whereas, the services referred to are professional in nature; and

Whereas, the treatment foster family will furnish the services described herein at the location of their home which they own or lease at _____________________________________________, herein called the premises, and found suitable for the operation of a treatment foster care home; and

Whereas, the treatment foster family desires to establish and maintain a treatment foster home for such child(ren) in said premises; and

Whereas, the San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program desires to utilize the services and facilities of the treatment foster family by placing a child(ren) with them through the Treatment

Foster Care Program on the premises;

Now, therefore, San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program and the treatment foster family, in consideration of the above statements and the further considerations set forth below; mutually agree, each in consideration with the promises of the other, as follows:

I.

GENERAL POLICIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE TREATMENT

FOSTER FAMILY

1. LIVING ARRANGEMENT

The treatment foster family agrees to make available necessary living space to accommodate the children placed by San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program.

The accommodation to be provided shall include bedroom space, bathroom, and home living areas.

2. HEALTH CARE

The treatment foster family shall assume the responsibility for the day-to-day medical care of the child. The managed care organization, to which the child is assigned, in most cases, will cover the cost of the child’s medical needs. The need for, and payment for, additional non-reimbursable services will be decided on a pre-authorization basis by San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program.

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3. PROVIDING ORDINARY NEEDS

The treatment foster family agrees to provide the child(ren) in the treatment foster home with all ordinary needs, including but not limited to, food, clothing, transportation, recreation, and cash allowances as they would their own children, and in accordance with San Mar Treatment Foster Program policy.

4.

SUPERVISION

TFC children cannot be left in the care of anyone under the age of 18 at any time.

Any adult who will be caring for a foster child must be approved by the San Mar case manager in advance. TFC children, regardless of age, are not permitted to babysit for any other child at any time.

5.

PUNISHMENT

The treatment foster family agrees that corporal, degrading, vindictive punishment or verbal abuse will not be used and that no child, including their own, shall be placed in a position of administering discipline or regulating privileges of another child.

To participate in any of the above can result in immediate termination of this agreement. The treatment foster family will abide by the discipline policies of San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program and any and all State/Federal regulations on discipline.

6. TRAINING

The treatment foster family agrees to participate in individual and group training sessions to meet the minimum agency requirement of 30 hours of pre-service training and 24 hours of annual training. Training requirements can be met by attending group sessions, supervisor-approved community training sessions, or by individual (in home) approved sessions or self-guided study experiences.

The treatment foster family understands that families not meeting the Agency requirements at the time of their annual evaluation will be subject to a conditional approval status.

Treatment families are encouraged to attend as much training as possible. In addition to the positive learning experiences, a great deal of networking between families is accomplished at group trainings. This networking is beneficial to the families and children served through the San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program.

7. TRANSPORTATION

The treatment foster family agrees to make themselves and their foster child/ren available for all appointments with San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program staff deemed necessary either on the premises or at the Agency. The treatment foster family is required to provide transportation for all necessary appointments including physical and dental exams, school meetings, office visits, etc. San Mar

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Treatment Foster Care Program staff will work in conjunction with the family to see that each child’s needs are met.

8. IMPLEMENTATION OF TREATMENT PLAN

The treatment foster family is expected to participate in the development of the

Comprehensive Treatment Plan. The treatment foster family shall adhere to the goals put forth in the plan and shall implement the methods of the treatment process as outlined in the plan. A copy of the Comprehensive Treatment Plan will be provided to each treatment foster family by the San Mar Treatment Foster Care

Staff.

9.

REQUEST TERMINATING PLACEMENT

When the treatment foster family judges a placement situation to be unworkable, they are requested to give 30 days written notice of termination of a placement, circumstances permitting.

10. PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

No professional services shall be scheduled or obtained for the child in care except those authorized by San Mar Treatment Foster Care staff.

11.

DOCUMENTATION/LOG

The treatment foster family agrees to maintain a medical log on the children placed in their care; monthly medication logs will be issued for this purpose. The treatment foster family also agrees to maintain a weekly log on the children in their care describing children’s behaviors, attitudes, and other areas of importance as related to the treatment goals and the child’s overall adjustment to the program.

12.

INSURANCE

The treatment foster family shall keep in force, at all times, insurances for public liability and auto liability with minimal limits of liability of one hundred thousand dollars per occurrence, and shall annually provide the San Mar Treatment Foster

Care Program with updated certificate of insurance for the same. The homeowner’s insurance of the treatment foster family covers damages caused by foster children in their home. San Mar is not responsible for such damages.

13. CONFIDENTIALITY

The treatment foster family agrees to abide by all policies and regulations regarding client confidentiality as outlined by the San Mar Children’s Home, Inc. policy.

14. CHANGE IN FAMILY STATUS

This agreement is entered into under the assumption that the treatment foster family’s size or number remains the same as at the time of the signing of this agreement. Should there by any change in the family (i.e. size, address,

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employment, finances, etc.), it shall be reported immediately to the Treatment

Foster Care case manager so that the change in status may be evaluated.

15.

CRIMINAL RECORD UPDATE

The treatment foster family agrees to keep the San Mar Treatment Foster Care

Program informed of any arrests or abuse allegations which involve family members while this agreement is in force.

16.

INVOLVEMENT WITH OTHER AGENCIES

Treatment foster families who have entered into an agreement to provide professional services with the San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program are prohibited from contracting with any other agency for the purpose of providing foster care services. The treatment foster family agrees that all contact with referring agencies will be coordinated by a San Mar Treatment Foster Care representative.

17. STATEMENT OF RESPONSIBILITY

The treatment foster family agrees to act in accordance with these policies. It is agreed that there will be no negligent, abusive, or detrimental actions toward any foster child placed on their premises. In the event that such actions occur, the treatment foster family must assume responsibility.

18.

REGULATORY COMPLIANCE

The treatment foster family agrees to comply with all regulations governing the delivery of Treatment Foster Care services including, but not limited to, guidelines of Maryland Department of Human Resources, Department of Social

Services, Department of Juvenile Services, and the San Mar Treatment Foster

Care Program.

19.

EVALUATION

The treatment foster family agrees to be evaluated annually to assess their ongoing compliance with this agreement.

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San Mar Children’s Home: Treatment Foster Care

8504 Mapleville Road, Boonsboro, Maryland 21713

________________________________________________________________

Name of Treatment Foster Family

Greetings Friends,

Date

We at San Mar are excited that you desire to become a Professional Parent for the San Mar

Treatment Foster Care Program. Since day one, January 1, 1992, I’ve been involved in some aspect of this program. I’ve had the privilege of working with dynamic folks who have touched the lives of children and families. One of our first providers described this effort as “the hardest job you will ever love”. Some days it will feel wonderful. Other times you will wonder what you’ve gotten yourself into !

This year is an especially challenging time. At the state level the focus is to keep children at their biological family’s home or at the least restrictive level of regular foster care. A big attempt is being made to move children out of group care facilities. All of these efforts are changing the work we do. Children being referred now have an extensive background of trauma.

Older children (14 and over) are returning to a family environment with few skills to help them succeed. The amount of time we have to work with children is unpredictable. Young ones often return home suddenly and we have no authority to stop them. Yet, our effort is needed. We are each given a time to make a strong impression in the lives of these children and youth, memories they will take into their adulthood, life-changing opportunities . If you are ready to push your sleeves up and prepare for the challenge we welcome you.

When children enter care many systems are in place to assure their safety; placement agencies, the court, and special advocates. Maryland watches over these children by establishing and monitoring regulations for foster care, treatment foster care and all other levels of care. San Mar assures that all care givers comply with these state regulations.

San Mar believes that the required pre-service training is most effective when it is done one on one with families

. In doing so… you learn about us, and we learn about you

. But… this approach can be cumbersome and requires us all to work together to assure that we’ve given you the information you need to begin. I very much look forward to meeting you!

Ellen Savoy

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PRE-SERVICE TRAINING REQUIREMENTS

Pre- Service Training Requirements: Thirty hours of training are needed before you become a licensed Professional Parent. This consists of 6 hours- Overview, philosophy, education, legal documentation for TFC providers, foster parent job description, abuse & neglect definitions, purchase of service agreement, grievance process, and SAFE Families Home Study Questionnaires.

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[Tiffany Buckingham & Joel Bowers]

4 hours- Pre-Service Training Manual and completing answer booklet (individual assignment)

5 hours- TFC Handbook as a continuous resource. (Individual reading & on-going reference)

½ hour- Introducing the TFC Handbook [Dominic Gianninoto]

1 hour- Working as a team [Stephen Pittman]

1 hour-Policies & regulations; court involvement; permanency planning. [Margaret Paul]

1 hour- Documentation [Tiffany Buckingham] e you ready to begin? Great! Your job now is to begin. The time it will take to complete the

1 hour- Referrals, matching children to families, pre-placement visits.

Respite care, what it is, how to secure it, incident reporting. [Becky Carpenter] you’ll need. non-reimbursements for property damage. [Amanda James]

One of the most important jobs of Professional Providers is to document the work you do. You will begin now by documenting your own pre-service training process. You will give this

1 hour- Mandated reporting, crisis response, endings, and grievances. [Ellen Savoy] completed document to me at the end of your pre-service training.

6 hours- Attachment, managing challenging behaviors, & trauma. [Written material, DVD’s, and website instruction]

1 hour- Professional Parenthood booklet [Individual reading]

1 hour- Last hour in your home. Types of children and youth that you hope to serve, looking at the bedroom, understanding who resides in your home, reminder about changes to your household.

The process is set up with the following steps:

Step 1: Plan to meet with Joel at least three times for the purpose of…

Gaining a greater understanding of the work, the overview of care through the completion of the pre-service training manual and the overview of legal documents.

Abuse & neglect reporting, confidentiality, job description and purchase of service agreement.

Introduction to the provider handbook.

Joel will give you documents to be completed– physicals, background investigations, insurances and such.

Brenda Resh will set up your file as these documents are submitted.

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Joel Bowers 301-733-9067 ext. 234 JBowers@sanmarhome.org

Orientation Meeting Date: ________________________

___________________

1 st

session Date

_______________

Place

_______________

Joel’s Signature

Questions or Comments:

___________________

2 nd session Date

Questions or Comments:

_______________

Place

_______________

Joel’s Signature

___________________

3 rd

session Date

Questions or Comments:

_______________

Place

_______________

Joel’s Signature

Step 2: You can meet with the staff in any order.

They each have a vital training topic for you.

After each session please have them sign and date your pre-service training record.

Becky Carpenter 301-733-9067 ext.310 BCarpenter@sanmarhome.org

Training Topic: Types of children being referred, matching children with families, the pre-placement process, respite.

Date of Meeting: _____________________ Staff Signature: ________________

Tiffany Pittman : 301-733-9067, ext 235 TPittman@sanmarhome.org

Training Topic: Documentation, all the paperwork that goes with our job.

Date of Meeting: _____________________ Staff Signature: ________________

Stephen Pittman: 301-733-9067 ext. 231 SPittman@sanmarhome.org

Training Topic: Working as a Team- who are the members / roles and responsibilities.

Date of Meeting: _____________________ Staff Signature: ________________

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Margaret Paul: 301-733-9067, ext 232 MPaul@sanmarhome.org

Training Topic: Policies and regulations, all of the state requirements for what we do: the laws, regulations and policies that govern what we do.

Date of Meeting: _____________________ Staff Signature: ________________

Amanda James: 301-733-9067, ext238 AJames@sanmarhome.org

Training topic: Finances: getting paid, board of child care/difficulty of care payments, allowances.

Date of Meeting: _____________________Staff Signature:___________________

Dominic Gianninoto: 301-733-9067, ext210 DGianninoto@sanmarhome.org

Training topic: Introduction of the TFC Foster Parent Handbook

Date of Meeting: _____________________ Staff signature: ___________________

Ellen Savoy 301-733-9067 ext. 220 ESavoy@sanmarhome.org

Training Topic: Crisis response, mandating reporting, on-call support

Date of Meeting: ___________________ Staff Signature: ________________

Remember: Bring your completed pre-service training record with everyone’s signatures.

________________________________________________________________________

Feeling bogged down ? At any time if it feels that the process has slowed down, appointments have been cancelled, and /or sessions have not being completed, please contact Joel Bowers or Ellen Savoy.

When all of your pre-service training has been completed and all of the other required documents have been secured, San Mar will award you a certificate of licensure as a San Mar Professional

Treatment Parent!

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Treatment Foster Care Program

8504 Mapleville Road, Boonsboro, Maryland 21713

301-733-9067 Fax (240) 625-9446

Weekly Allowance Ledger for children and youth in care

The DHR recommendation for allowances is: Age 5-7 = $2.00; 8-11 + $5.00; 12-13 = $10.00; 14-16 + $15.00 and 17 and above = $20.00

Please complete the following ledger on a monthly basis and turn it in to the case manager. Thank you.

Clients Name:

Date Deposit Withdraw/Items Purchased Total Signature

Parent

Signature child

Age: Week of:

Comments or concerns:

Signature of Case Manager: ______________________________ Date:_____

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Treatment Foster Care Program

8504 Mapleville Road, Boonsboro, Maryland 21713

301-733-9067 Fax (240) 625-9446

Monthly Clothing Allowance

Of the board payment, seventy-five dollars is to be used as a clothing allowance. Please document how the $75.00 was spent or set aside for clothing purchases. Call your case manager or the program director should you have any questions. Please complete this form monthly and turn it in to the case manager.

Clients Name:

Date Starting amount

Withdraw/Items Purchased

Month of:

Total Signature

Parent

Signature

Child

Comments or concerns:

Signature of Case Manager: _________________________________ Date:

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Minimum Clothing and Personal Care Guidelines

BOYS

8 sets of underwear 8 undergarments

5 pairs of school pants or uniforms 2 dresses

5 sets of play clothes

1 pair dress pants, shirt, (tie if age applicable)

& belt

8 pair of socks

6 shirts (not undershirts)

1 pair tennis shoes – 1 pair non-canvas/dress shoes

– 1 pair of everyday school shoes

2 sets of sleepwear, 1 robe, 1 pair of slippers

GIRLS

4 bras (as needed) and 8 underwear

5 pair’s pants for school or uniforms

3 sets of play clothes

1 dress or pants outfit suitable for a special event

6 blouses, light sweater or tops

8 pair of socks / stockings as appropriate

1 pair tennis shoes – 1 pair non-canvas/dress shoes

- 1 pair of everyday school shoes

2 sets of sleepwear, 1 robe, 1 pair of slippers

1 bathing suit 1 bathing suit

Seasonal Wear

1 winter coat

1 light weight jacket

1 pair gloves & hat

1 pair boots

Rain gear / coat

Shorts, “T” shirts, sandals

1 winter coat

1 light weight jacket

1 pair gloves & hat

1 pair boots

Rain gear / coat

Shorts, “T” shirts, sandals

Minimum Clothing and Equipment Items for Infants Ages Birth to One Year

Equipment

2-4 Receiving Blankets

2 Regular Blankets

Crib

4 – 6 Crib Sheets

1 Stroller

1 Car seat

8 Bibs

2 Rattles and toys to stimulate the infant

Clothing

6 - 8 Undershirts

6– 8 Pajamas / Sleepers

6 Shirts

8 Pair socks

5 Every-day outfits

2 Dress-up outfits

2 Sweaters

1 Hat, scarf, and mittens

1 Sun hat

1 Snow suit

1 Pair shoes

1 Pair winter footwear

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San Mar Children’s Home, Inc

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Confidentiality Agreement

This agreement is made on the ______ day of _____________, 2012, by and between the San Mar Children’s Home and

______________________________________________________

1. CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION: During my period of service as a treatment foster parent, San Mar may disclose or cause to be disclosed to me, confidential information relating to the history of a foster child and his or her biological families that is of a personal and sensitive nature. I recognize such information to be the property of San Mar and

I agree to hold such information in trust and solely for San Mar’s benefit and not to disclose such information to those inside or outside of the organization, either during or after my service as a treatment foster parent, without the written consent of an officer of San Mar.

I further understand that said confidential information may not be shared on any forms of Social Media.

2. TERMINATION OF SERVICE: This agreement shall continue to be in effect after the termination of my role as a

Treatment Foster Parent with the San Mar Children’s Home and shall remain in effect in perpetuity.

Upon leaving the San Mar Treatment Foster Care Program, I agree not to take with me, without first obtaining the written consent of an officer of San Mar, any document or tangible evidence of confidential information or data belonging to or under the control of San Mar, whether on disk, CD, recorded or hard copy, whether an original or a reproduction.

3. FORMER OBLIGATIONS: I will strictly adhere to any obligations, which I may have with former and current employers insofar as the use or disclosure of confidential information is concerned.

4. CONSEQUENCES OF BREACH: I understand that any breach of this agreement is grounds for corrective action, up to and including immediate dismissal by San Mar Children’s Home Treatment Foster Care Program.

Date Treatment Foster Parent

Treatment Foster Parent

Foster Home Trainer

Date

Date

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State requirements for Reporting Incidents

All Treatment Foster Care agencies are required by the Code of Maryland to submit Critical Incidents to the Department of Human Resources within specific time periods.

San Mar must report the following incidents immediately by telelphone and within 48 hours with documentation.

Accident, assault, illness or psychiatric episide of the child that requires hospitalization or emergency medical care;

Suspected incident of child abuse or neglect; including mental injury;

Illegal activity leading to the incarceration of a child, parent, foster parent, guardian, or adoptive

Parent;

Other occurrences which may affect the health, safety, or well-being of children in care or receiving adoption services; or

The death of a child in foster care.

Below is a list of ALL incidents that are considered CRITICAL. If the incident occurs during the week and after hours call your case manager to report the incident either by leaving a message or speaking directly with your case manager. If the incident occurs on the weekend call the on-call worker. You can do this by calling their cell phone directly or calling the office (240-625-9445 ext 200) and you will be redirected to the on call worker.

Assault On Other Youth

Death Of Child

Injury To Youth Subject Of The Incident

Injury To Foster Parent/Staff

Theft

Automobile Accident

Assault On Foster Parent/Staff

Death Of Staff /Foster Parent While On Duty

Injury To Other Youth

Police Involvement

Arrest

Property Damage

Possible Violation Of Youth’s Rights

Awol

Sexual Misconduct

Possession Of Contraband

Fire Setting

Gang Involvement

Suicidal Ideation

Alcohol Use/Posession

Emergency Medical Treatment

School Suspension (> 3days)

Injury To Self

Suicidal Attempt

Drug Use/Possession

Emergency Hospitalization

Medical Event (Significant but Non-Emergency)

Ingestion Of Harmful Substance

Homicidal Attempt

Suspected abuse and/or neglect of youth

Emergency Petition

Homicidal Ideation

Restraint of youth

Fire Setting

PLEASE DO NOT DELAY IN CALLING SAN MAR!

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