Persuasion Dale Walker University of Wyoming College of Arts & Sciences ALADN 2005 – New Orleans Persuasion I. Social Psychology II. Ethos III. Myth Persuasion Q: What about logic and reason? A: That’s what you studied in college, and you know that’s only a small part. So let’s look at other things. Persuasion I. Social Psychology II. Ethos III. Myth I. Social Psychology 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Reciprocity Consistency Social proof Authority Likeability Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) 1. Reciprocity One of the most potent weapons of influence and compliance: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us Cialdini 1. Reciprocity One of the most potent weapons of influence and compliance: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us Cialdini 1. Reciprocity I.e.: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us E.g: • give a flower then ask for a donation • LBJ called in favors; Carter had none to call in; political patronage • send prospect pre-printed return address labels with solicitation letter • small gifts and comped meals Cialdini 1. Reciprocity • I.e.: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us • Technique 1: If someone makes a concession, we are obligated to respond with a concession • Making a concession gives the other party a feeling of responsibility for the outcome and greater satisfaction with resolution Cialdini 1. Reciprocity • I.e.: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us • Technique 1: If someone makes a concession, we are obligated to respond with a concession • Making a concession gives the other party a feeling of responsibility for the outcome and greater satisfaction with resolution •Technique 2: Rejection then retreat: exaggerated request rejected, desired lesser request acceded to Cialdini 1. Reciprocity • I.e.: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us • Technique 1: If someone makes a concession, we are obligated to respond with a concession • Making a concession gives the other party a feeling of responsibility for the outcome and greater satisfaction with resolution • Technique 2: Rejection then retreat: exaggerated request rejected, desired lesser request acceded to •Technique 3: Contrast principle: sell the costly item first; or present the undesirable option first Cialdini 1. Reciprocity • I.e.: We want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us • Technique 1: If someone makes a concession, we are obligated to respond with a concession • Making a concession gives the other party a feeling of responsibility for the outcome and greater satisfaction with resolution • Technique 2: Rejection then retreat: exaggerated request rejected, desired lesser request acceded to • Technique 3: Contrast principle: sell the costly item first; present undesirable option first Cialdini 2. Consistency • Our nearly obsessive desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done • Consistency is usually associated with strength, inconsistency as weak; we want to look virtuous Cialdini 2. Consistency • Our nearly obsessive desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done • Consistency is usually associated with strength, inconsistency as weak; we want to look virtuous Cialdini 2. Consistency • Technique 1: Elicit a commitment, then expect consistency • Technique 2: Public, active, effortful commitments tend to be lasting commitments • Technique 3: Get a large favor by first getting a small one (small commitments manipulate a person’s self-image and position them for large commitment) Cialdini 2. Consistency • Technique 1: Elicit a commitment, then expect consistency • Technique 2: Public, active, effortful commitments tend to be lasting commitments • Technique 3: Get a large favor by first getting a small one (small commitments manipulate a person’s self-image and position them for large commitment) Cialdini 2. Consistency • Technique 1: Elicit a commitment, then expect consistency • Technique 2: Public, active, effortful commitments tend to be lasting commitments • Technique 3: Get a large favor by first getting a small one (small commitments begin to shape a person’s self-image and position them for large commitment) Cialdini 2. Consistency • Outcome 1: Commitments people own, take inner responsibility for, are profound • Outcome 2: Commitments lead to inner change and grow their own legs Cialdini 2. Consistency • Outcome 1: Commitments people own, take inner responsibility for, are profound • Outcome 2: Commitments lead to inner change and grow their own legs Cialdini 2. Consistency Examples: • negotiating a car price • “Hi, how are you?” • Howard Dean’s campaign (meet ups and volunteers writing letters) • have customers not salespeople fill out sale agreements • testimonials Cialdini • campaign leadership 3. Social Proof • One means we use to determine what is correct is to find out what other people think is correct. • The greater number of people who find an idea correct, the more the idea will be correct. • Pluralistic ignorance: each person decides that since nobody is concerned, nothing is wrong • Similarity: social proof operates most powerfully when we observe people just like us Cialdini 3. Social Proof • One means we use to determine what is correct is to find out what other people think is correct. • The greater number of people who find an idea correct, the more the idea will be correct. • Pluralistic ignorance: each person decides that since nobody is concerned, nothing is wrong • Similarity: social proof operates most powerfully when we observe people just like us Cialdini 3. Social Proof Examples: • • • • • • • laugh tracks faith communities mob behavior inaction toward crime or emergency Jonestown applause testimonials Cialdini 4. Authority • We have a deep-seated sense of duty to authority • Tests demonstrate that adults will do extreme things when instructed to do so by an authority figure Cialdini 4. Authority • We have a deep-seated sense of duty to authority • Tests demonstrate that adults will do extreme things when instructed to do so by an authority figure Cialdini 4. Authority • • • • Titles Uniforms Clothes Trappings of status Cialdini 5. Likeability We prefer to say yes to someone we know and like Cialdini 5. Likeability We prefer to say yes to someone we know and like Cialdini 5. Likeability Compliance factors: • similarity of opinion, life-style, background, personality traits • familiarity and contact • cooperation in shared goals Cialdini 5. Likeability Compliance factors: • physical attractiveness • compliments • association with positive things (beauty, what’s hip, food) • success • smile Cialdini 5. Likeability Examples: • • • • • Tupperware parties peer solicitation good cop / bad cop eating together celebrity endorsements Cialdini 6. Scarcity • Opportunities seem more valuable to us when their availability is limited • We want it even more when we are in competition for it • E.g.: final $4.4 million in matching funds disappeared in one week Cialdini 6. Scarcity • Opportunities seem more valuable to us when their availability is limited • We want it even more when we are in competition for it • E.g.: final $4.4 million in matching funds disappeared in one week Cialdini I. Social Psychology 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Reciprocity Consistency Social proof Authority Likeability Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency 3. Social proof 4. Authority 5. Likeability 6. Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof 4. Authority 5. Likeability 6. Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof: to determine what is correct find out what other people think is correct 4. Authority 5. Likeability 6. Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof: to determine what is correct find out what other people think is correct 4. Authority: deep-seated sense of duty to authority 5. Likeability 6. Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof: to determine what is correct find out what other people think is correct 4. Authority: deep-seated sense of duty to authority 5. Likeability: we say yes to someone we like 6. Scarcity Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof: to determine what is correct find out what other people think is correct 4. Authority: deep-seated sense of duty to authority 5. Likeability: we say yes to someone we like 6. Scarcity: limitation enhances desirability Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) I. Social Psychology 1. Reciprocity: we want to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us 2. Consistency: desire to be (and to appear) consistent with what we have already done 3. Social proof: to determine what is correct find out what other people think is correct 4. Authority: deep-seated sense of duty to authority 5. Likeability: we say yes to someone we like 6. Scarcity: limitation enhances desirability Robert B. Cialdini, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (revised; New York: Quill, 1993) Persuasion I. Social Psychology II. Ethos III. Myth Ethos • The type of person that a writer or speaker projects. • Goal = credibility • Personae: expert, friend, genuine Ethos • Definition: the type of person that a writer or speaker projects • Aristotle: demonstrate trustworthiness within one’s speech Ethos • Definition: the type of person that a writer or speaker projects • Aristotle: demonstrate trustworthiness within one’s speech Ethos • Definition: The type of person that a writer or speaker projects. • Lysias: provide words appropriate to the speaker • E.g., the simple rustic Ethos • Definition: The type of person that a writer or speaker projects. • Lysias: provide words appropriate to the speaker • E.g., the simple rustic Ethos Ethos Ethos Ethos Ethos Comedy thrives on • • • • • • personality types. the absentminded professor the overbearing school principal the precocious child the immature father the rich snob the bimbo Ethos Variable elements of institutional ethos: • simplicity or sophistication • elitism or egalitarianism • emphasis on faculty or students, research or teaching • careers and professionalism or the liberal arts • athletics or academics • regional or national or global Ethos Ethos Common elements of institutional ethos: • • • • • • diversity, tolerance, and openness inquiry and discovery heritage and history location, region and campus community sports Ethos • The type of person that a writer or speaker projects. • What is the ethos of your school? It’s defining characteristics and values? • What is the ethos you bring to your writing and speaking? • What is the ethos you wish to project? Persuasion I. Social Psychology II. Ethos III.Myth Myth • Popular meaning = lies • Greek muqo (mythos) = story • Greek muqo (mythos) opposes λογος (logos), i.e., reason • Goal: frame or define a situation to create common ground • Benefit: enliven rhetoric Myth • some myths / stories explain why and how we do the things we do (the first Thanksgiving); • some reinforce the values we share in common (Horatio Alger); • some frame the way we view the world (manifest destiny) What is your story? • Help your donors see themselves in a story, especially a meaningful story • Touch big ideas • Make the story sensory • Fill it with shared values (ethos) • Provide meaning to your donors’ lives and their philanthropy • Create their self-image as donors Persuasion I. Social Psychology II. Ethos III. Myth Persuasion ddwalker@uwyo.edu