THE PSYCHOLOGY OF PERSUASION Robert B Cialdini Aristotle Persuasion by logic, emotion and character Central Route – deep thinking – stable and resistant to competing messages – rhetoric - logic Peripheral Route – Heuristics character sincerity Storytelling – transportation – emotion empathy CICERO If you wish to persuade me, you must think my thoughts, feel my feelings and speak my words. Persuasion – Preaching to the converted Audience Analysis What do they Want and Need to Hear PASSION Belief Make a logical argument for their existing beliefs Understanding Tie your arguments to their logical and reenforced beliefs Attention Appeal to their emotions to reenforce their existing beliefs Persuasion – Changing someone’s mind Audience Analysis What do they Want and Need to Hear PASSION Belief Audience involvement rhetorical questions – deep thinking Understanding Use emotion to convince them of the new beliefs. Attention Combine familiarity and surprise – deep thinking Who was the most successful American President in the last 50 years? Reaganomics, Cold War The government’s view of the economy could be summed up in a few short phrases: If it moves, tax it. If it keeps moving, regulate it. And if it stops moving, subsidize it. Information is the oxygen of the modern age. It seeps through the walls topped by barbed wire, it wafts across the electrified borders. The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government and I’m here to help.’ Coercion, after all, merely captures man. Freedom captivates him. Above all, we must realize that no arsenal, or no weapon in the arsenals of the world is so formidable as the will and moral courage of free men and women. It is a weapon our adversaries in today’s world do not have. . I have left orders to be awakened at any time in case of national emergency, even if I’m in a cabinet meeting. Persuasion by logic, emotion and character – can we combine all three? Central Route – deep thinking – stable and resistant to competing messages – rhetoric - logic Peripheral Route – Heuristics character sincerity Storytelling – transportation – emotion empathy Character – how we look and sound. Rhetoric – startling arguments - power of three Emotion – Soaring Oratory and pictures SIX PILLARS OF PERSUASION CIALDINI Reciprocation Scarcity Commitment consistency Authority Social proof Liking RECIPROCATION In negotiation ask for a big favour they decline, then ask for a smaller favour - they grant it as long as the initial request is not seen as ludicrous. People who agree with the lesser demand are found to have a greater commitment to the bargain and a greater satisfaction with the deal. Lyndon Johnson Succeeded – Carter did not Negotiating a money split UCLA Extreme first demand and stuck hard Moderate demand and stuck hard Extreme first demand and then gradually retreated to the moderate demand Produced the best result Felt more responsibility Felt more satisfaction and therefore more likely to agree to other requests Commitment and Consistency 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Racetrack – more confident after you bet – once you commit you try and act consistently Beach experiment – get them to commit and they will risk all Friedman and Fraser – 3” sign to 10’ sign Even signing a petition changed it. Our deeds define us even to ourselves. Deutsch & Gerard length of lines written down. Written down and erased and just kept in mind Commitments are stronger when they are public and effort-full – boot-camps. Once made we see ourselves differently and will act consistent with the new commitment even if the original reason is removed – doghouse approach SOCIAL PROOFS THE WERTHER EFFECT DAVID PHILLIPS FOLLOWED PUBLICISED SUICIDES AND FOUND AN ADDITIONAL 58 SUICIDES AFTER EACH ONE AND ADDITIONAL CAR AND PLANE CRASHES HEAVYWEIGHT FIGHTS PROMPT INCREASES IN HOMICIDES LIKING Attractiveness Similarity – mirror and match - NLP Compliments – don’t even have to be accurate Contact and co-operation – jigsaw schooling Association Association AUTHORITY THE MILGRAM STUDY AUTHORITY TITLE, CLOTHES, POSTURE JAY WALKING 350% TRAPPINGS ETC SCARCITY – PSYCHOLOGICAL REACTANCE WE HATE TO LOSE OUR FREEDOM OF CHOICE • • • • • • Terrible twos Teenage rebellion Parental interference in love affairs 140 couples Dade County Florida banned phosphates Censorship – we value what has been censored Normal 100% becoming scarce 200% becoming scarce and not many people know this 600% • Newly scarce more valued than always scarce SIX PILLARS OF PERSUASION CIALDINI Reciprocation Commitment consistency Scarcity Social proof Authority Liking – attractiveness, similarity, compliments, co-operation, association.