“We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads.” Herman Melville, novelist Social Psychology Schemas • What are they? – Organized beliefs and knowledge about people, objects, events, and situations • Schematic processing – Searching in memory for the schema that is most consistent with the oncoming data Jim • Jim left the house to get some stationery. He walked out into the sun-filled street with two of his friends, basking in the sun as he walked. Jim entered the stationery store, which was full of people. Jim talked with an acquaintance while he waited to catch the clerk’s eye. On his way out, he stopped to chat with a school friend who was just coming into the school. On his way he met the girl to whom he had been introduced the night before. They talked for a short while, and then Jim left for school. After school Jim left the classroom alone. Leaving the school, he started on his long walk home. The street was brilliantly filled with sunshine. Jim walked down the street on the shady side. Coming down the street toward him, he saw the pretty girl whom he had met on the previous evening. Jim crossed the street and entered a candy store. The store was crowded with students, and he noticed a few familiar faces. Jim waited quietly until he caught the counterman’s eye and then gave his order. Taking his drink, he sat down at a side table. When he had finished his drink he went home. Jim, continued • • • • What impression do you have of Jim? Friendly, outgoing? Shy, introverted? Up to the sentence “After school…”, Jim is portrayed in several situations as fairly friendly • From then on, a nearly identical set of situations shows him to be much more of a loner. Whereas 95% of the people who were shown only the first part saw Jim as friendly, only 3% of those shown the second half thought so. In the combined passage, Jim’s friendliness dominates. When combined passage order is switched, only 18% rated him friendly. Primacy effect • First impression • When we are first attempting to form our impressions of a person, we actively search in memory for the person schema or schemas that best match the incoming information. • It takes a lot to change an existing schema. • Existing schemas are the foundation for stereotyping. Social Perception Social Psychology scientific study of how we think about, influence, and relate to one another Attribution Theory tendency to give a causal explanation for someone’s behavior, often by crediting either the situation or the person’s disposition Funny Why is Suzanne acting like a dork? Situational “She’s under pressure” Dispositional “She’s clueless and self-involved” Social Perception Fundamental Attribution Error tendency for observers, when analyzing another’s behavior, to underestimate the impact of the situation and to overestimate the impact of personal disposition Attitude belief and feeling that predisposes one to respond in a particular way to objects, people and events Social Perception How we explain someone’s behavior affects how we react to it. Tolerant reaction Situational attribution “Maybe that driver is ill.” (proceed cautiously, allow driver a wide berth) Dispositional attribution “Crazy driver!” Unfavorable reaction (speed up and race past the other driver, give a dirty look) Negative behavior Social Perception Our behavior is affected by our inner attitudes as well as by external social influences. Internal attitudes External influences Behavior Social Thinking Attitudes follow behavior Cooperative actions feed mutual liking Social Perception Foot-in-the-Door Phenomenon tendency for people who have first agreed to a small request to comply later with a larger request Role set of expectations about a social position defines how those in the position ought to behave Examples: Gender role Adult role Student role Parent role Child role Foot-in-the door phenomenon A group of housewives were asked if they would answer a few questions about the household products they used. Three days later, they were called again. This time, they were asked if five or six men could come into the house to go through cupboards and storage places as part of a 2-hour enumeration of household products. The investigators found these women were more than twice as likely to agree to the 2-hour request than a group of housewives asked only the larger request.[ Foot-in-the-door phenomenon Get a person to agree to a rather minor request prior to asking for a much larger request “go for a test drive” “try it on” “run a few numbers” Foot-in-the-door phenomenon People were asked to either sign a petition or place a small card in a window in their home or car about keeping California beautiful or supporting safe driving. About two weeks later, the same people were asked by a second person to put a large sign advocating safe driving in their front yard. Many people who agreed to the first request now complied with the second, far more intrusive request. Foot-in-the-door phenomenon "Can I go over to Suzy's house for an hour? followed by “Can I stay the night?” “Can I borrow the car to go to the store?” followed by “Can I borrow the car for the weekend? “May I turn in the paper a few hours late (after school)?” followed by “May I turn it in next week?” Social Thinking Cognitive Dissonance Theory we act to reduce the discomfort (dissonance) we feel when two of our thoughts (cognitions) are inconsistent example- when we become aware that our attitudes and our actions clash, we can reduce the resulting dissonance by changing our attitudes Social Thinking Cognitive dissonance http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b p39qSdyTc4&safety_mode=true&p ersist_safety_mode=1&safe=active Social Influence Conformity adjusting one’s behavior or thinking to coincide with a group standard Obedience Authority 3 Asch Milgram Zimbardo Social Influence Asch’s conformity experiments Social Influence This particular participant, leans forward anxiously to look at the exhibit in question. What he found: • Conformity increases when – – – – – – One is made to feel incompetent or insecure. Group has at least three people. The group is unanimous. One admires the group’s status/attractiveness. One has made no prior commitment to any response. One’s culture strongly encourages respect for social standards. – Others in the group observe one’s behavior. Obedience “acting under orders” • Nazi Germany • My Lai – Vietnam • Stanley Milgram, 1963, 1974 Obedience In Milgram’s study, when the “teacher” had to administer shock directly to the learner, most subjects refused – but this one continued to obey. Milgram So when do we disobey? • When the experimenter left the room. • When the victim was right there in the room. • When 2 experimenters issued conflicting demands. • When the person ordering to continue was an ordinary man. • When the subject worked with peers who refused to go further. Social Influence Milgram’s follow-up obedience experiment Heart condition Cries of protest 65% Social Influence – FBI job opening The FBI had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews and testing were done, there were 3 finalists, two men and a woman. For the final test, the FBI agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun "We must know that you will follow your instructions no matter what the circumstances. Inside the room you will find your wife sitting in a chair. Kill her!!" Moral: Women are evil. The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the Don't them. room. All was quiet for about 5mess minutes.with The man came out with tears in his eyes, "I The man said, "You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife.“ The agent said, "Then you're not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home." tried, but I can't kill my wife." The agent said, "You don't have what it takes. Take your wife and go home." Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instruction, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were heard, one after another. They heard screaming, crashing and banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman, wiping the sweat from her brow. "The gun is loaded with blanks," she said, "so I had to beat him to death with the chair." Zimbardo’s Prison Study Why prisons tend to become abusive, degrading, violent environments? The participants were college students recruited for a study of prison life through a newspaper ad. (24 ) Guards and Prisoners (random) Quiz time a. Lines ____Foot-in-the d. door b. Study on roles of guards and prisoners ____Role f. c. Adjusting one’s behavior or thinking to coincide with a group standard ____Attribution e. theory d. The tendency for people who have first agreed to a small request to comply later with a larger request e. Theory that we tend to give a causal explanation for someone’s behavior, often by crediting either the situation or the person’s disposition ____Zimbardo b. study f. Play-acting until it becomes you ____Asch a. study g. We act to reduce discomfort when two of our thoughts are inconsistent h. Obedience. ____Cognitive g. dissonance ____Conformity c. ____Milgram h. study Comply or not? funny Groups • Features of groups (2) • 1. Interdependence – Everyone with round faces and freckles make up a category but they’re not a group, i.e. athletes, entertainers, roommates • 2. Share common goals – Task element = get the job done – Social element = emotional support Social Influence Social Facilitation improved performance of tasks in the presence of others occurs with simple or well-learned tasks but not with tasks that are difficult or not yet mastered Yerkes-Dodson study Social Loafing tendency for individuals in a group to exert less effort when pooling their efforts toward attaining a common goal than when individually accountable Social Facilitation Social Influence Deindividuation loss of self-awareness and self-restraint in group situations that foster arousal and anonymity Social Influence Group Polarization enhancement of a group’s prevailing attitudes through discussion within the group Groupthink mode of thinking that occurs when the desire for harmony in a decision-making group overrides realistic appraisal of alternatives – Challenger, Bay of Pigs, Pearl Harbor http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xV25olNedQ&feature=related&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mod e=1&safe=active Social Influence If a group is like-minded, discussion strengthens its prevailing opinions Social Relations Prejudice an unjustifiable (and usually negative) attitude toward a group and its members involves stereotyped beliefs, negative feelings, and a predisposition to discriminatory action Stereotype a generalized (sometimes accurate, but often overgeneralized) belief about a group of people Stereotyping – Are you guilty? • Easterners 1. ___________________ are cold and arrogant. A. B. C. D. Southerners Westerners Easterners Midwesterners Stereotyping – Are you guilty? Italians • 2. ___________________ are great lovers. A. B. C. D. Canadians Italians Eskimos Nigerians Stereotyping – Are you guilty? The Chinese • 3. ___________________ are industrious and obedient. A. B. C. D. The Chinese Americans Australians The Irish Stereotyping – Are you guilty? • 4. A. B. C. D. Women _____________ are moody Men Women Australians Children Stereotyping – Are you guilty? wear glasses • 5. People who _________________ are intelligent. A. Wear glasses B. Wear jewelry C. Drive American cars D. Are tall Social Relations Does perception change with race? Skin color and facial features are the visible frosting on the physiological cake. On average, any two randomly chosen humans are 99.8 % alike in the alphabetic sequence of their genetic code. Only 6% of their 0.2 % difference – .012 % in all - is racial. Social Relations Americans today express much less racial and gender prejudice Social Relations Ingroup “Us”- people with whom one shares a common identity Outgroup “Them”- those perceived as different or apart from one’s ingroup Social Relations Ingroup Bias tendency to favor one’s own group Scapegoat Theory theory that prejudice provides an outlet for anger by providing someone to blame Just-World Phenomenon tendency of people to believe the world is just people get what they deserve and deserve what they get Social Relations Vivid cases (9/11 terrorists) feed stereotypes Social Relations Aggression any physical or verbal behavior intended to hurt or destroy Frustration-Aggression Principle principle that frustration – the blocking of an attempt to achieve some goal – creates anger, which can generate aggression Social Relations Social Relations Conflict perceived incompatibility of actions, goals, or ideas Social Trap a situation in which the conflicting parties, by each rationally pursuing their self-interest, become caught in mutually destructive behavior – When might this be true? Quiz time ____prejudice c ____group g think a. a generalized belief about a group of people b.“Us” ____social j loafing c. an unjustifiable attitude toward a group and its members ____deindividuation f d. group ____polarization i e.“Them” ____in b group ____social h facilitation ____stereotype a f. loss of self-awareness and self-restraint occurring in group situations g. thinking that occurs when the desire for harmony overrides a realistic appraisal of alternatives ____out e group h. home field advantage ____interdependence, d share common goals i. enhancement of a group’s prevailing attitudes through discussion within the group j. exerting less effort while in a group vs. individual activity Social Relations Attractiveness Mere Exposure Effect repeated exposure to novel stimuli increases liking of them Conceptions of attractiveness vary by culture Personal Relationships • 1. Parent-Child – home environment forms basis for trust relationships later (Trust vs. Mistrust) • 2. Love relationships – Liking – respect and high regard – Loving – includes the above - plus: • Great attachment to dependency on the person • Desire for an exclusive, intimate relationship Relationships & Gender • 1. • 2. • 3. Carol Gilligan believes that social relationships are more important to females than males. Males have a stronger individualistic, self-orientation than women. Deborah Tannen believes that communication differs between men and women. – Rapport talk is talk that seeks to establish connections and negotiate relationships. – Report talk is designed to simply relay information. – Women prefer rapport talk, while men prefer report talk. Social Relations Passionate Love an aroused state of intense positive absorption in another usually present at the beginning of a love relationship Companionate Love deep affectionate attachment we feel for those with whom our lives are intertwined Limerence • an involuntary emotional state in which a person feels an intense romantic desire for another person. It can be experienced as intense joy or as extreme despair, depending on whether or not the feelings are reciprocated. Obsessed with Brian, her work colleague, but too shy to let him know, Theresa sculpted a full-scale replica of him in her basement from stray hairs and skin flakes she collected from the cracks in his keyboard while he was at lunch. Social Relations Equity a condition in which people receive from a relationship in proportion to what they give to it Self-Disclosure revealing intimate aspects of oneself to others Altruism unselfish regard for the welfare of others Volunteering Why We Do It? • Values – Humanitarian concerns – “walk a mile in their shoes” • Community concerns – Feel attached to situation • Esteem enhancement – Feel better about yourself or escape other pressures • Understanding – Gain a better understanding of other people, cultures, or places • Personal development – Challenge yourself, meet new people and make new friends, or further your career Altruism Friends of Ian O’Gorman demonstrated an unusual degree of altruism when eleven of them shaved their heads prior to the chemotherapy that would cause him to lose his hair. Altruism… Wet Pants Come with me to a third grade classroom..... There is a nine-year-old kid sitting at his desk and all of a sudden, there is a puddle between his feet and the front of his pants are wet. He thinks his heart is going to stop because he cannot possibly imagine how this has happened. It's never happened before, and he knows that when the boys find out he will never hear the end of it. When the girls find out, they'll never speak to him again as long as he lives. The boy believes his heart is going to stop; he puts his head down and prays this prayer, "Dear God, this is an emergency! I need help now! Five minutes from now I'm dead meat." He looks up from his prayer and here comes the teacher with a look in her eyes that says he has been discovered. As the teacher is walking toward him, a classmate named Susie is carrying a goldfish bowl that is filled with water. Susie trips in front of the teacher and inexplicably dumps the bowl of water in the boy's lap. The boy pretends to be angry, but all the while is saying to himself, "Thank you, Lord! Thank you, Lord!" Now all of a sudden, instead of being the object of ridicule, the boy is the object of sympathy. The teacher rushes him downstairs Helping someone in distress On August 18, 1999, Kevin Heisinger, a 24year-old, was on his way home to Illinois from the University of Michigan, in the bathroom of a bus station, he was attacked and beaten to death. Several people were within earshot and heard his cries for help, but none of them went to his aid and none of them called the police. One person saw him lying on the floor in a pool of blood but he did nothing. Another person saw him struggling to breathe, but he also walked away. Eventually, a 9 year-old boy called for help. The police arrived in less than 20 seconds but it was too late to save Kevin’s life. Kitty Genovese What factors in the situation do you think might have contributed to the unwillingness of people to help Kevin while he was being beaten and afterward? Social Relations Bystander Effect tendency for any given bystander to be less likely to give aid if other bystanders are present. Social Relations The decision-making process for bystander intervention Diffusion of Responsibility – The tendency of the presence of others to lesson an individual’s feelings of responsibility for his or her actions or failure to act i.e. first response Leadership (Lewin) • • • • • Independent variable? Democratic Autocratic Laissez-faire They were to Dependent variable? Democratic encourage and 4 groups of 10-year old boys assist group Laissez-faire Observed them with decision making each leadership style Their job was to and planning. and recorded their allow complete performance during that time freedom with little leader Autocratic participation. Leaders were to make all the decisions and work assignments but not participate in the group activity. Leadership styles - Lewin • Autocratic – Mixed bag – some positive, some negative – Got work done but slacked off when leader wasn’t watching – High levels of aggression • Laissez-faire – Least amount of work accomplished • Democratic – Worked most steadily and were most efficient Food for Thought You’ve got to be taught to be afraid Of people whose eyes are oddly made. And people whose skin is a diff’rent shade, You’ve got to be carefully taught. You’ve got to be taught before it’s too late, Before you are six or seven or eight, To hate all the people your relatives hate, You’ve got to be carefully taught. Six humans trapped by happenstance, in bleak and bitter cold, Each one possessed a stick of wood, or so the story’s told. Their dying fire in need of logs, the first man held his back, For of the faces ‘round the fire, he noticed one was black. The next man looking ‘cross the way saw one not of his church, And couldn’t bring himself to give the fire his stick of birch. The third man sat in tattered clothes, he gave his coat a hitch, Why should his log be put to use to warm the idle rich? The rich man just sat back and thought of the wealth he had in store, And how to keep what he had earned from the lazy, shiftless poor. The black man’s face bespoke revenge as the fire passed from sight, For all he saw in his stick of wood was a chance to spite the white. The last man of this forlorn group did naught except for gain, Giving only to those who gave was how he played the game. Their logs held tight in death’s still hand was proof of human sin, They didn’t die from the cold without—they died from the cold within. The end…