What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONESTY HONESTY What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? Speaking and acting in accordance with the truth Keeping every promise we make Integrity = words and actions are consistent with values and principles Dishonesty deceiving, misleading, misrepresenting the truth Hypocrisy pretending to be something/someone we are not HONESTY What is it? What is the result? Integrity Candor vs. Courtesy How do I communicate it? A Life of Integrity Rev. Billy Graham _ How do I cultivate it? Unexpected Candor HONESTY What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? HONEST Trust Authenticity Commitment DISHONEST Betrayal Emotional injury Termination HONESTY What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? Verbal deception cues curt replies hesitation during speech speech errors more “allness” terms defensiveness Nonverbal deception cues less smiling higher voice pitch blinking and pupil dilation nervous self-touching From Dr. Paul Ekman HONESTY What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? It’s sometimes easy to lie – Admit it To get out of trouble To look good to others To avoid facing our failure To protect somebody’s feelings HONESTY What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it? Be honest with yourself Admit past failures in honesty or integrity Make reparations if appropriate Choose honest friends We become like the people we spend time with Hold your friends accountable Use good communication skills Relate the truth in a way that is socially acceptable