Kick CANDLEBROOK ELEMENTARY SCHOOL School Counselor’s Corner Jessica Vicente, School Counselor October 2014 Classroom Guidance ASCA Mindset: Belief in development of whole self, including a healthy balance of mental, social/emotional and physical well-being. National Bullying Prevention and Awareness Month began in 2006 in response to the need to raise awareness of bullying, as it was historically viewed "a childhood rite of passage" and believed that bullying "made kids tougher", when the reality is that bullying has devastating effects such as school avoidance, loss of self-esteem, increased anxiety, and depression. (PACER) www.pacer.org HAPPENING NOW School Success Workshop: It’s not too late to join us for the School Success Workshop on October 22nd at 6:30 pm. The workshop will take place at Candlebrook. We can’t wait to see you there! Red Ribbon Week: Our theme is “Drug Free, The Healthy Way to Be!” Look in the Wednesday Express for more detailed information about our daily activities! How do I contact Mrs. Vicente? Phone: Email: 610-205-3742 jvicente@umasd.org Kindergarten: Kindergarten students will learn how to “Stop and Think” to make smart, safe and healthy choices. 1st Grade – First grade students will hear the story Hunter’s Best Friend at School and learn how to resist peer pressure and help their friend make better choices. 2nd Grade – Second grade students will hear the story Band-Aid Chicken and learn how to stand up for others (be an Upstander). 3rd Grade – Third grade students will have the chance to demonstrate empathy after listening to the story Hey Little Ant. 4th Grade – Fourth grade students will learn how not to get caught in the web of sticky situations. They will learn ways to resist peer pressure by learning how to say NO and still keep Feel free to stop by their friends. or make an appointment! SCHOOL COUNSELOR’S CORNER OCTOBER 2014 Take the Red Ribbon Pledge now and be a part of the creation of a drug free America. WHAT'STHE PLEDGE ABOUT? 1. As parents and citizens, we will talk to our children and the children in our lives about the dangers of drug abuse. 2. We will set clear rules for our children about not using drugs. 3. We will set a good example for our children by not using illegal drugs or medicine without a prescription. 4. We will monitor our children's behavior and enforce appropriate consequences, so that our rules are respected. 5. We will encourage family and friends to follow the same guidelines to keep children safe from substance abuse. Ask the Counselor Dear School Counselor, My child has come home and said that at recess he notices that some children keep teasing a child from their class and encouraging him to join them. He doesn't know what to do. He’s afraid if he says something they will tease him too. Can you help with this problem? Sincerely, A Caring Parent Dear Caring Parent, It is not unusual for kids to feel afraid when they see someone being teased or bullied. It is important that you let your child know that it is okay to feel that way, but there are things he can do to support the child being teased. If he is afraid to tell the person to stop there are other things he can do. One thing he can do is not join in. This lets the targeted child know that your son doesn't agree with what is happening. Another thing he can do is to try and get the person away from the child who is teasing him by asking the student to join him and walk away. Practice/role play these skills with your child so he feels comfortable. 2