Communication and Social Styles Improving communication with colleagues and clients Why is good communication important? Clearer Discussions Less Misunderstanding Better Relationships SENDING Sender Sends Message Verbal Communication Non-verbal Communication Appropriate Responses to Questions Active Listening AND RECEIVING Receiver Interprets Message Evaluates Body Language Asks Questions to Clarify Mirrors Back the Thought Active Listening Elements of Active Communication Verbal Non-verbal Para-language Percentage of meaning from each? 7% 38% 55% Verbals Non-verbals Para-language Listening Behaviors Good Behaviors Bad Behaviors Attentive Make Eye Contact Ask Questions for Clarification Inattentive Disrespectful Using Phone/Computer Negative Body Language What Is YOUR Social Style? Friendly? Fierce? Driving Analytical Social Styles Amiable Expressive Driving Style Highly Assertive Focuses on Facts and Data Action Oriented Expressive Style Highly Assertive and Action Oriented Energetic; Focuses on People Highly Flexible/Spontaneous Amiable Style Thinks Carefully Before Acting Develops Cooperative Relationships Prefers Reasonable, Well-paced Job Demands Analytical Style Thinks Carefully Before Acting Emotively Controlled Not Highly Assertive