Respected Honorable members of India,
This is Rahul Sharma, I want to summarize my case details, how me and my family
getting harassment & threat from my in laws as well as my wife. Please consider this as a
complain letter against those people, because we are in a great danger and we are all
getting threat by those people only. If any bad thing (miss-happening) will happen in
future with respect to our life then only and only my wife and her family will be totally
responsible for that.
1. I have done arrange marriage on 24 November 2007, me working as an S/w
engineer in an IT company based at Banglore past couple of months. My father
(Shri Suresh Chand Sharma) working as a railway employee. I belong to medium
class family only.
2. At the time of marriage I was working in Noida, and she also lived in Noida, with
her Brothers and mother. Her father named Mr. Shaym Behari Sharma working as
ADJ (Additional District Judge) posted in UP (Right now posted at Dist.
Gonda U.P.).
3. After 2-3 days of marriage while talking to my wife I get to know that they people
cheated my family at the time match making (KUNDALI MILAAN), they
people faked my family with wrong DOB and all, and make the match very good,
by giving us a wrong DOB. Our very big mistake was that we believe on those
people with naked eyes. Actually that girl is Manglik and I am Non-Manglik boy
apart this one more fact came in to picture; her education was false what they told
us at the time of fixing the marriage.
4. Shaadi kee 3 week HAFTE SEE apne PITA KE GHER Noida baar baar chale
jana or jaakar ye bolna ki Noida mai raho nahi to tum apne ghar raho or mujhe
apne ghar rahne do. Mana kerne per apne pitaji se pressure dalwana ki noida raho.
Aur ager mere GHER Hapur mai hai too roj ladai karma is baat ko leker, aur
phir MERNEE MAARNE ki Dhamki Dena or Dowry ke case main fasvane ki
baat bolna, vo bhi apne pitaji ki post ki effect kee vajha se.
5. Any way in spite these all what was going on, we are making our new home at
Hapur so that me and wife could live there happily, and my parents already
decided this and told her and me, they are happy in that government quarter in
which I spend my entire life till before the marriage, then I thought ok if my
parents having not any issue with that then I have no problem at all, after all I
have done marriage with a girl and she came to our home, leaving her parents so
I have to accept and mingle with the girl so that she felt happy and try to
accept my home as well as my family.
6. After 2-3 days of marriage we together gone to her home Noida, then usually
every girl did she talking to her family and her father taken me upstairs and start
telling me about his background by showing his power means in words, so that I
became afraid, but I am listening to her father with a very sensible way after all he
is like my father. Suddenly I surprised, he taken me down and showing me new
branded car MAHIRNDRA LOGAN, and said that MAINE KABHI BHI
DHUKI JEEVAN NAHI JIYA HIAN AUR NAA HEE JEUNGA, MERE KO
CHOTI GADI ACHEE NAHI LAGTI HIAN, ISLYEE MINAE BIG CAR
LEE, then I asked father just now you did the marriage of your girl, and now you
taken new car how come? Then he simply said to me YEE SAB EK BAAR
MAIN VAPAS AA JAYEGA, and if required I can show that I have taken a
amount form my PF account, at that time I was not able to understand those words
hidden meaning, but now I realize those words.
7. Now the actual picture my wife start blaming with unnecessary complained about
my parents and me MERE KO TUMHARA CHOOTA GHER ACHAA NAHI
LAGTA HIAN, MERE KO YAHA GUUTAN LAGTI HIAN, TUMHARE
MUMMY PAPA KA CHEHARA (FACE) GOOD NAHI HIAN, and lots
more, any one can tell me that how can I replace my parents to a new very
good face parents? Had her parents not seen my parents face AND MY HOME
before marriage, or they simple did marriage her psycho girl to me, after marriage
sudden changed happened? It means that they people want only to get rid from
their girl because they know her girl tendency & behavior and after marriage they
people thought that can do every thing because her father working as an ADJ.
8. She is very psycho type of girl she not wants to adjust in any situation, she want
that every thing should go like as she had done in her parents home. One day she
broken our New Bed while I stop her to talk on phone after 10 pm at night
because I got tired after coming back from my office and I want rest but she
keep talking on phone, after that she give my mother a heavy stroke by
saying that you are very ugly and me too as in form of kick while slipping
when I stop her to talk on phone. After 2-3 days of these things I did complain
about these to her younger brother because he had come to our place to fix this
marriage with her father. Her brother said to me that you came outside any place
from your home because I will not come to your place to talk, than I said why it is
so than he gave me excuse and I became agree to meet him but he did not talk to
his sister, he blamed me a lot and not said any thing to his sister, she literally
watching us to us while sited in car, and listening to us, after some time with out
asking to me and mine parents permission he taken his sister with himself, by
saying this USKA HAVA PANI BADAL JYEGA, MAI ISKO LE JA RAHA
HUU, TUM APNE GHER PER BOL DENA. Is this was the way to go out?
9. After 5- 6 days from going from Hapur ( My Native Place ), one day she came to
my Noida office with her brother and told me that YEE MERE PREGNENCY
TEST HIAN, TERE BACHEE KE MAA BANENE VALI HU TERE PAAP
KO PALNA HIAN, TO MERE KO MERE HAKK CHAHEYE, if you want
to live with me and your child then gave me my rights then can I came with you
only, at that time I asked to her which type of rights you wants and who is going
to take your rights tell me, then she said I want my separate home in Noida and
some property on my child name, then I became completely in shock, what this
lady KAUN SE LADKI APNE BHAI KE SAMNE YEE SAB BOL DEGI,
AUR USKA BAHI EK TARAF HOKER SAB SUNTA RAHEGA. Than I said
it is not possible at this time because I have taken home loan for making our new
home at Hapur it is my dream to make our own home at Hapur because we all
spend a lots of time in government house which is due to my father job after that
we require a roof on their head, we have already started our new home
construction so that we can live together, and when the chance will come we will
go together where ever my job will be in future. But she became angry and gone
with her brother. Can any one tell me after marriage the boy duty get over
regarding their parents? Is this the only way to treat with parents, who spend
their entire life to make their children’s life? After marriage all
responsibility only for the wife, not for parents.
10. Is baat ko leker uske Bhaiya kaa Noida office aa kar MANY TIMES dhamki
dena or kai baar HATA PAYI bhee ki mere GEREBAAN PAKADKER. Fir
bhi main kuch nahi bola kyoki baar baar ye bolkar chup karva dete teee ki
humara BAPU sub dekh lega jiske kaaran mera mansik santulan bigadne
laga or is dar ke karan mera kaam kerne main maan nahi lagta thaa, to mere
ko apni company chodkar jana pada aur kai months tek mere ko khali (job
less) hona pada then Indore main jakar ek choti si company main work karna
pada.
11. After some days her BHABHI and Big Sis called me and said, see Rahul she is
now ok and now she will not ask any thing illegal from you and live with you.
Then I said ok if you are saying like that because you are her big sister, I gone
Noida to bring her back, she came with me and spend again approx a week with
me. One day she was not feeling well in evening and she said to my mother that I
am not feeling well due to stomach ache, then my mother said ok lets get
treatment from Doctor, then they gone for Doctor, that lady Doctor is very famous
in our place and having very big nursing home at Hapur. That doctor given some
prescription as well guidance for that time. Then at night what she said to me that
your doctor is not having manner how to talk with a girl saying to me that if
you felt any problem then told directly to your mother-in law, she will take care of
you properly. Now tell me what wrong that Doctor said? after that I said to her if
you not like this Doctor then tomorrow we will change Doctor, here lots of
Doctor are available, then she said to me no I want my treatment form Noida,
after listen that I said why you want this, it will become hectic for us to go again
and again Noida. But she said no never, I will complain to my father about this,
that you are not allowing to me to what ever I want. After that I not know how she
passed this message to their family, her brother came and taken her sister again
back to Noida. So it means only Noida having good doctor and nursing home
as well, should all people go there for treatment and all???
12. After 2-3 days again a phone call I got from her sister side, she told me that
Rahul, please come to my home, Poonam is not feeling well and she is calling
you, then I made hurry and left my office, and reached there at her sis home
which is also in sector 19 Noida. Then I found she is seating with her sister and
laughing, I became shocked and asked why you people did this, you know I am
doing my private job, and take a leave is very typical when project delivery is
crucial, then both started to blame on my mom, that my mother taken her to a bad
doctor, when I opposed this then my wife simply gone out side on road, and
showed the people her Blood Pressure became down and fall down, so that all
blame came to me. Then I bring her inside the home and asked what’s your
problem, then she said my father not want treatment at Hapur, you can not stop
him other wise he can do any thing with you and your family. Then I said what
man, you are my wife and you are taking her father side, when I am ready to
bear my responsibility then why you want to stop me I am not able to
understand. Any one can tell me how any one can stop me to show my rights
over my wife, I have done the marriage according to Hindu Marriage Act,
then why?
13. After that her father called to my father and said that your son not have manner to
talk with my girl VO EK ADIKARI KI LADKI HIAN, USKA ILAAJ EK
GOOD DOCTOR KAREGA and if you people try to stop me then in case of
child murder you all will have to go behind the bars because you are giving
treatment to my girl with a RMP person (JHOOLA CHAAP DOCTOR used
words by her father for that lady doctor) only, then my father said no sir she is
not a RMP person, but at that time he was not ready to listen any thing else.
14. He taken my wife with himself with out informing us and my wife called me and
said to me I will never come to your place even for entire life. I not want to seen
you any more as well as your parents because you are the slave of your parents
and you are not listening to me and parents. You will remain like that only so
lived happily with your parents. Then I said it is not a matter of comparison
between you and my parents, I can be equally divide but not more or less way ok.
Then she went with her father by giving abusing me.
15. Us dooraan mere gharwalo ko aur mere ko dhamki Bhare phone aatain rahe or
galiya to ladki ka pura pariwaar mere gharwal ko raat din shuru se de raha hai,
jiase ki hum logo nee shadi kerke hee bahut badi galti ker de hian, lekin main
ladki ke pitaji ki post ki vajha se and unke dwara jhute laga dene walee aroope
(Dahej ke aarop, Marne-Peetne ka aroop, as well as Khercha naa dene ka
arrop) se darta raha, aur maine apna mouth shut rekha or miane sochaa ki chalo
kuch time aur dete hian sayad yee sab apne app thik hoo jayee.
16. She gone to Allahabad with her father, we came to know when I called to her
home number near about HOLI in 2008, then I asked to her MOM where is she,
she is alright or not, then she said to me yes, the treatment is going on, then I said
ok MOM I want only her happiness, if she is happy than ok. After some time my
parents also called and talked to her mother then my mom said I want to talk to
Poonam, but her mom said some kind of usual stuff, Poonam is taking bath, gone
for check up, right now is taking rest and all, but not allowed to talk her, or never
she called back.
17. By this way 8 month has gone, one day Poonam called to my home and directly
said to my father that you are the killer of my MOM and also said to your son
(LONDE words used by her) after that my parents called back then they get to
know her mother was suffering from ASTHAMA since a long, and she got such
kind of attack on regular basis, but look at that lady, she blamed us about this
also any how we did not know about that.
18. Then my mom said to me, because she is pregnant that is why is felt lonely, so
you should try talk to her again, for me at that time it is was very difficult that I
am going to talk to which girl, who does not have any respect at all to any respect
to my family and me as well as manner, after all these fact I talked to her, and her
sister convinced me by using buttering words, which I was not able to understand
at that time. After that I thought that any way I have to meet with my wife. Can
any well tell I am wrong or right? Had I taken a wrong decision again?
19. Fir ek din khabar aati hai ki bachha mar gaya hai or aakar uska kriyakarma kar do.
Tub mujhe jakar laga ki es ladki ka pahle se he kahi aur affair thaa kya??,
yaa mere see kuch chupaya jaa raha hian jo ki yee log jante hian, jiske rehte in
logo nee saayad jo mera bachaa thaa usko bhi merva diya, kyo ki sub kuch etna
jaldi hua ki shak ka dayra badta chala gyaa. Or asali proof jab dimag mai clear
huaa ki jab ladki ke pita ji apne merezi ke chalet apani ladki ko apne sath lee
gaya, tab too hum log bahut buree thee or humko raat din gali padti thi , jab
bhi main phone karta tha office se vapaas anne ke baad too LADKI KE PITAJI
bolta tha ki ye koi time hai phone karne kaa, mere ladki ko night main kyo phone
kerta hian or phir sub log uski family vale bura bhala boltain thee taki main usko
mill na saku, aur mujahe bataain he nahi the ki meri wife kaha hai kabhi boltain
thee Noida hai kabhi boltain the Allahbad hai kabhi boltain thee ki apne village
hai kabhi mama ke hai kabhi sister ke hai esa kartain kartain enhonee mujhae meri
wife se milne nahi diya or jesee he bachhe ki death hoo gayi too main accha pati
ho gaya or mere maa baap bhi acche ho gaye or mujhe emotionally blackmail kar
karke fir vaapas aa gai or do chaar din thik thaak chali uske baad main apni duty
chala gaya uske baad pata chala ki vaapas se vesi he harkat start ho gai hai, baat
baat par ladna din bhar phone par lage rahna or har dusarain din Noida bagh jana,
or mere maa baap ke roknain par unsain batameeje se pesh aana.
20. Kyoki hum 4 hee members hain, jisme ke mera younger brother Mumbai main
raihta hai shaadi kee pahle se hee, papa railway main service kartain hai, too usko
puri aajadi thi ghar par jiske rahte usne hum logo ko pura mentally upset rakha,
jiske reason se mere gharwaloo koo hospital rahna pada aur unki eyes mian roo
roo ker MOTIYABIND, BP ki problem hoo gayi, Diabetes hoo gayi hian, kyoki
mummy ghar par akely rahti thi or mummy ke puchnain per ki beta kidahr jaa rahi
or too unako bura bhala bolti thi or 1-2 baar too dhakka bhi diya jiskain karan
unko chot bhi lagi. Mere papa ko bolti hian kee tere AWAJ KHARAB HIAN
islyee tu mere see baat maat kiya ker.
21. Sub old baatoo ko bhool kar or sub ke sumjhane per ess ristain ko fir jodnee
ki koshish leker, main esko apne sath Banglore le kaar gaya deepawali 2008
karne ke baad, mujhe lagaa ki ho sakta hai ki ladki apne pati ke satha he
rahna chati hogi lekin vaha le jane ke baad mujhe laga ki reason kuch or he
hai, vaha jaakr pata laga ki kuch too gadbad hian dost iske mind setup ke
ander, jaise ki iske gher valo nee hide rekha thaa, kyoki jab ladki ko
pagalpan ka dora padta tha tab ye kabhi roof par se jump kerne ki koshish
karna, or ye bolna ki meri “Noni” ko lekar aao main uske bina nahi raha
sakti baar baar mere sumjhane par bhi nahi, main bolta ki kisi ki bachhi ko
uski maa se alag karke lana thik nahi hai, tab mere ko vo bolti ki vo mere he
ladki hian, aur uske maa baap too aur bhi ek kadam age nikle, boltain ki
nahi “noni” raha legi uskain sath vo bachpan se usee ke sath rahi hai to abhi
bhi raha legi tab, or fir kabhi “noni” ko lekar to kabhi kise aur demand ko
leker case bigata raha or bigadtee bigadtee case yaha tek a chukka hai ki
mujhe ab ye rishta carry on nahi rakna hai, koi ki mere wife nee bhi mujhse
yahi bol diya hai ki mujhe Noida ghar dilwaoo main or “noni” vaha rahe
lenge yahi unke gher valoo kaa bhi kahana hain.
22. Here we want to leave happily but I think this is not my KISMAT
CONNECTION, again same here also. My life is become like hell, so many
blames she herself and her family puts on me and they want that I will spend as
much as possible on her only. But how can I do this, any way I am giving as much
as possible things and money but I think that was not enough for this girl, she not
want to do simple home work like making food, washing clothes, ironing and all,
I am doing my work as I am doing previous here. When I asked to do the work,
then in reply I got kicks and threats, and even when I told to her parents about
this, they people said to me why you asking to my daughter to do the work, she is
VIP ok, PHELE TUM USKO KUSH REKHO TAB VO TUMKO KHUS
REKEGI, then I said ok Father as you wish. Can any one tell me what is the
role of wife only money money and money?
23. She fights with me each and every day by creating an issue on house hold stuff,
money as well as by taking any friend ground; some time for a day 10000 she
asked. What ever I am doing was not enough, daily I am giving 100 to 500
rupees, I not know what she was doing for that money, but if I am gone to ask
then in reply I got only threat, that who are you to ask this one, I am not your
“maid” like that. My father given you people so much money, then I asked when
your father given to me and who told you that your father given to me. Then she
said to me KYO APNI GAAND MIAN GHUOOS LIYE abb kya. “Yee to kuch
bhi nahi ki jo miane galiya khaii hian. Kya yahi hian ladke ko apne se bade
gher mian shadi kerne kee saja?”
24. I taken her to a psychiatrist doctor for examination so that our relation will
become smooth as well as faithful, but in front of the doctor she denied to make
any relation with me. AOR BOLA KI MAINE IS RESTE KO ABB NAHI
CONTINUE NAHI KER SEKTI, Here with me, she has done un expected
behavior, every time she want to go alone every where, some time when I came
back form office, the door was simple locked, then I have to wait simply outside
my room, till she came back. Because she simply not picked my phone at that
time.
25. She is trying to put her head on wall many time, throw the remote control on TV,
Some time she said to me give me 15 lacks rupees, which my parents spend on
marriage. But I want to know if she is saying like that form where her father
got this huge amount to give me in cash, which only they spend in marriage. If
we have asked for dowry form those people then why they people came to out
door step again and again, why they people not told her girl in start that
BETA TUM HARA HONE VALA SASURAL VALE BAHUT GARIB HAI,
UNKA STAUS HUM LOGO SE NEECHE HAIN UNKA GHAR BAHUT
CHOTA HAIN.
My Question is that only the girl side expenditure is to be noticed a lot in
marriage, groom side nothing to be considered at all? Why it is so? Any how we
also given a good engagement party at Hapur and I spend a lot on honeymoon
also.
26. After 1 month one day she message me that I am going to take poison, and also
told her parents that am doing suicide, than I called her parents and informed, but
what a reaction they given to me just imagine, “ABB MERNE DO USKO TUM
BUS 15 LACK READY KARO AUR LADKI KO LENE MIAN AA RAHA
HUU, AUR UPER SE 20000/- PER MONTH BHI YAAD REKHNA”, tab
mere ko itna bura laga ki, mian first to apne room per pahucha, then I simply
booked the ticket for Delhi, and surrender her back to her father hand on Delhi
airport, because I can not remain like that, how can I concentrate on my work,
every time I am in thinking like what she is doing at home? Koi bhi baap ager
uski ladki merne ki dhamki degi to first voo ask karega ki mere beti kaise
hian, lakin humare poojye SASUR ji too bus money ask ker rahe thee, jaise
ki in logo ki bahut sochii samjhi chal thee mere ko fasane kii.
27. My wife not have mind, her behavior is not good with respected to me as well as
my family members, and she talk with me as I am salve, she and her father
purchased me by giving money. BOLIT HIAN KUTTE KI PILLE, KYA
KHAA KER TERE KO PAIDA KIYA HIA TERE KO TERE GHER VALO
NE. Also her father said to me like that how can you and your family become
equal to us, means status wise., then I said if it is like that why you choose me
for her daughter, then he said to me that we only consider your pay and education,
and we consider that you will become soon separated form your family, also he
said like that I eat this kind of thing how can your family eat such a costly and
branded rice and all, I have lots of property in many places you have only “
one old house”, my son give her sister (my wife) a diamond ring , why you not
given such kind of ring or any replacement to his daughter( brother’s daughter)
and lots more, my Question is that if he has such kind of complexes then why
they people comes at my door place to fix the relation, why they people not
looked for their matching status people. It means her girl have some problem that
is why they done and they know this fact that after the marriage, the ball will
automatically comes under his court. Am I bounded to maintain such kind of
status and all after marriage?
28. Now they are asking from me and my parents, 15 laks, + 20000 per months
maintenance for girl, other wise they people are saying you and your all family
member have to go jail. I totally become harassed by those people, I even not
know what to do now, because I consulted with some my well wisher they said
already law is not in favor of Groom and apart this her father is working as a
JUDGE in UP. So you (me) have done a very wrong by taking this decision of
your life, now you have to face this situation or simply accept her parents offer.
29. “LADKI BOLTI HAIN JALDI SEE JALDI PAISOO KAA INNTAJAM
KER NAHI TO MERE KO MAJBUR MAAT KER KOI ACTION LENE
KE LIYE, BAPU BOLTE HIAN KI TERE GHAR PER KITNA COSTLY
CHAWAL REKHA HIAN, KAJU – KISMIS – BADAM MILENGE AGER
MAIN HAPUR JAU”. Mere ko to lagta hian yee log pagal ker denge hum logo
ko. Mere ko banglore mian new gher change kerne ko bhi bol rahe hian, nahi to
again yaha per pitva denge.
30. Kyoki ladki ke pita UP ke acche pad par niyuket hai jiske reason se mujhe
or mere pariwaar ko JAAN-MAAL ka khatra bhi hai, kyo ke unhone mere
ko bola hian ki ager “DEWAR SE SEER TAKRAOOGE TO KISKA
NUKSAAN HOGA”, islyee yaa too sidhe tareke se mere jitna shadi main
spend huaa hian lota do, verna mere pass aur bhi tareeke hian.
31. He said that there is not need for me to go any where as well as not a single
money spend for me, because in all UP, POLICE Mans and every JUDGE
believe on him only, “AUR MERE KO KAHI JANE KI JARURET NAHI
PADEGI, TUM LOGO KA HEE NUKSAAN HIAN” he is behaving like, that
he has only controlling power and all Law in favor of him only. I am afraid that in
UP police or rules will help us or not.
32. Again from her side her JIJAA called me and decided to solve out all issue by a
professional way before this I already got 2 times harassed words mix of fight
form those people when I went to her place to bring her back after 22nd
December 2008, as well as I already putted a case against her under section 9C to
bring her back but they people are not going to send and asking for whole
expenditure, even they have done fight with me too, I know only how me and my
family got escaped form there at that time by saving our lives, in spite of all these
I thought he (JIJA) is a person who can solve this issue as I already agree with
that because I already said to those people that I am coming to HAPUR on 26th
January due to girls and father threats, at least one should talk to mine family if
we are very wrong people. Even her father said to me TUM EK ADHIKARI SE
APNI YAHA PER ANEE KO BOL RAHE HOO, JANTE HO KISKE SATH
BAAT KER RAHE HOO, then I said PAPAJI AGER ASEE BAAT THEE
TO APP SHADI KYO KERNE AYE THEE MERE GHER PER, SHADI
KEE BAAD APP ADIKARI HO GAYE, AUR USKE PHELE APP LADKI
KEE PITA THEE. Please inspect her property because he has unauthorized
property against the name of self as well as family members other wise why they
people are regularly torching to us people by showing their value & status. He is
the only God, what ever he thought I should obey that, I not want to be a
GULAM of his PLACE.
33. Now they are giving threats by other means by taking shoulder of others for my
father who is working in RLY and for me and my brother from GUNDA kind of
stuff, here in Banglore because I am working in good MNC, so they people try to
ruin we all 3 jobs. Due to these people my mother and my father are became
mentally disturb.
34. I have all the evidences which will proof and show those people intensions and
how they are doing the harassment and violence against us, how cheap & abusing
words girl as well as parents used with me and my family. How cheap they people
are?
35. Please help us out; day by day I am getting threat form their side, me and my
family become helpless now I not want this family and this girl any more. I
hope every one will understand by which dark tunnel me and my family
passing through but there is no end is visible to us, at last I decided to mail
all honorable members.
Thx & Regards
Rahul Sharma
(+919632644033), gemini_rahul80@yahoo.com
My father-in-law name: Mr. Shyam Behari Sharma (Spl. J. (SC/ST, Pev.of Atroci Act)),
GONDA, U.P.,
Phone Number: 05262231239, +919415249026
Noida Address:- D-88, sector 10 Noida.
Girl’s Brothers: Ajay Sharma: 09891308831, Vinod Sharma: 09810535413
Girl’s Sister: Pinki (GUDIA) : 09219596372
Girl’s both Bhabhi as well as her elder Bhabhi’s Sister and her husband: Navneet
Sharma, Preeti Sharma.
All are in involved in this conspiracy against me and my family.