PREPARE-ENRICH CUSTOMIZED VERSION is the latest form of the PREPAREENRICH resources. This on-line system has been available in Australia since midSeptember, 2009. The program is designed to assist a variety of professionals (mainly counsellors, educators and religious celebrants) working with premarital or married couples. This inventory has been carefully constructed to be comprehensive, diagnostically valuable and is designed to facilitate a meaningful dialogue between the Facilitator and the couple. It has been scientifically developed to have high levels of reliability, validity and clinical utility. Standardized norms have been developed for the inventory. As well as providing important demographic and background information for a couple, 22 areas are assessed and individual and couple responses in these areas are summarized in reports made available to the Facilitator: • Social • Change A. Significant Issues for Couples (10 scales): • Organized • Pleasing • Emotionally Steady • Communication • Conflict Resolution • Partner Style & Habits • Financial Management • Leisure Activities • Affection & Sexuality • Family and Friends • Idealistic Distortion • Relationship Roles • Spiritual Beliefs B. Relationship Dynamics (4 scales): Couples also answer questions about STRESS and, depending on their circumstances answer questions about cultural/ethnic issues, interfaith/interchurch issues, parenting issues, cohabitation issues, forgiveness issues, commitment issues and issues arising from a previous marriage. This process is aided by the Facilitator and Couple Reports provided on-line to the Facilitator. Couples also receive a a Couples Workbook that contains over 20 exercises designed to help a couple to respond to the feedback dialogue being facilitated by the Facilitator. There are six core couple exercises to complement the larger feedback process: • Assertiveness • Self Confidence 1. Sharing and Growth areas • Avoidance • Partner Dominance 2. Creating a Wish List using Assertiveness and Active Listening C. Couple and Family Map (4 scales): 3. Ten Steps for Resolving Conflict • Closeness and Flexibility of Family-ofOrigin 4. Couple and Family Map - Mapping the Relationship • Closeness and Flexibility of Couple Relationship/Marriage 5. Personal Stress profile - Identifying the most critical issues D. Personality (4 scales) 6. Personality Exercise The program has these goals: 1. To explore Relationship Strengths and Growth Areas 2. To learn Assertiveness and Active Listening Skills 3. To learn how to resolve conflict 4. To help the couple discuss their Family-of-Origin 5. To help the couple cope better with stressors 6. To focus on personal, couple and family goals The Prepare-Enrich Customized Version inventory was developed in the United States by: DAVID H. OLSON Ph.D Emeritus Professor, Family Social Science, University of Minnesota; Licensed Consulting Psychologist and Licensed Marital & Family Therapist, State of Minnesota. Founder and CEO of Life Innovations, USA. PETER J. LARSON Ph.D President of Life Innovations, USA., Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Work was done on applying the Customized Version resources to the Australian context by Dr. Alan Craddock (Honorary Senior Lecturer in the School of Psychology, University of Sydney) who sought feedback and advice from many Australian marriage educators and counsellors. Prepare-Enrich has provided a service in Australia since 1979. Version 2000 was launched in Australia in 1997. The Customized Version is the most recent revision of the inventories (2009). Over 8,500 administrators have been trained in Australia and almost 50,000 couples have participated in the program throughout Australia in the last six years. A nation-wide team of Trainers continues to provide training and ongoing skills development for persons desirous of working with the Prepare-Enrich program in Australia. Apart from USA and Australia, there are international offices in New Zealand, Canada, United Kingdom, Germany, Japan, Korea, Hong Kong, Taiwan , Singapore, Sweden and South Africa. Who may train to administer the inventories? Persons working with couples (eg. marriage celebrants, educators, counsellors) who already have formal training as a • Pastor/priest/minister/rabbi. • Counsellor/Psychologist • Educator • Social Worker • Worker trained in another relevant human resource discipline and – • Lay people, who also have training in the above areas, nominated by, approved by, and supervised by and accountable to leaders of the institution (eg. clergy, pastors, priests) within which they will work. We are prepared to train such individuals and couples but they need to be selected and nominated with care. Just because they are church members and have participated in a Prepare program as part of their own preparation for marriage is not a sufficient qualification. It is important to consider their knowledge and skills. The Marriage and Relationship Educators Association of Australia has developed a Users’ Guide for Relationship Educators. One section of this guide is tailor-made for Educators who work with inventories such as the PrepareEnrich range of resources. Below is a summary list of the main areas of knowledge and competency detailed in the Users’ Guide. These are listed below so that clergy may reflect on them and aim to look for these competencies when selecting and nominating lay couples and individuals for training as PrepareEnrich Administrators. o o o legal obligations relating to violence and child protection o means of making appropriate referrals o organization standards and procedures o self and the impact of personal experiences, biases, values and beliefs o the limitations and boundaries of the educator role The ability to... o To work effectively with inventories one needs to have: deal with conflict and inappropriate behaviour and attitudes o utilize a range of interpersonal skills Knowledge of... o work in a non-judgemental, empathetic and culturally sensitive manner . the content areas relevant to all topics and categories in the inventory teaching resources and strategies appropriate to individual styles and characteristics of adult learners in the context of using inventories o couple dynamics (e.g.. conflict processes) o the nature of domestic violence o the key indicators, nature and impact of personal issues (e.g.. alcoholism) o maintain confidentiality o empower and support clients who are experiencing difficulties o show sensitivity to and work with a wide range of cultural groups and people with special needs o communicate and relate to a wide range of people at various stages of family and life cycle development and from a variety of social and cultural contexts o manage time and resources effectively and efficiently to meet the needs of the clients and the goals/outcomes related to the use of the inventory reflect and make appropriate changes to the approach in order to meet the needs of clients and the goals/outcomes related to the use of the inventory FURTHER INFORMATION: Paul Cameron (02) 9484-0206 0438604489 PREPARE FOCUSES ON THE RELATIONSHIP - IF YOU CARE - PREPARE prepare/enrich o Prepare Enrich Registration Form Please indicate your preferred date(s) Payment may be made by Visa or MasterCard (Use this form for both New training and Prepare Update training and Enrich training.) Prepare and Enrich 2 Day workshops Please debit my: MasterCard Visa in favour of Prepare/Enrich: Card number _____________________________________ Please indicate over the page your preferred days. return to: The Registrar, Prepare Training Day, 2 Banksia Street, Normanhurst 2076 I/We wish to register for the training day, as indicated and enclose my/our cheque for $ ________ (Please make cheques payable to “Prepare Enrich”) (Participants need to be a professional in the field, or hold an approved position in their Organisation Church, or be approved by their Organisation or Church to register) (For new Administrators) $250 inc GST (additional for spouse $ 125 [Total $375]inc GST) Mon 21/03/2011 Parramatta Mon 16/05/2011 Parramatta Mon 22/08/2011 Tues 22/03/2011 Tues 17/05/2011 Tues 23/08/2011 Parramatta Name (Rev, Mr, Ms, Dr, Mrs, Miss, Pastor, or ___) _______________________________________ ________________________________ Address _________________________________________ _________________________________ _________________________________________ _________________________________ Postcode _____________________ Phone (W)_______________________________ (H)__________________________________ (M) ___________________________________ Fax ______________________ email _________________________________________ Appointment/Position _______________________________________ or Approved by Church/Organisation? _________________________________________ ___________________________ Wed 21/09/2011 For Update - Administrator Code No: ______________ Thurs 22/09/2011 South West Sydney Mon 12/12/2011 Tues 13/12/2011 Normanhurst (Day 1 is core training day 2 is Going deeper. The cost includes costs for both days. Prepare will issue a nonrefundable voucher for use at a later “Going Deeper Day” if Day2 is not attended.) Update Training (For those who have already been using Prepare version 2000) ($40 inc GST) Please download the transition manual from Prepare-enrich.com.au Date? ___________________________ With $__________ Cardholder’s name ____________________________________ Cardholders signature__________________________________ Expiry Date _________________________________________ _ Cardholder phone Number ________________________ (This information will be passed to Prepare Administration after the completion of the course and they will issue the appropriate receipts.)