WHERE DO YOU FIT? HOW CAN YOU HELP ENCOURAGE COMMUNICATION? The following is an explanation of the six behaviors Dr. Jack Gibb has identified as behaviors that stop or encourage communication. The way in which someone communicates has a major influence on the climate that exists in the work unit. It is important to understand how these six behaviors contribute to the climate in which there is a reduced willingness to communicate with others. STOPPING COMMUNICATION ENCOURAGING COMMUNICATION 1. JUDGING – Evaluating or judging the other person or his/her ideas. This involves not listening for ideas or possibilities, but instead discounting the ideas or implying the other person is wrong. 1. DESCRIPTION – Gibb describes the opposite of judging as description. The person applying description is seen as requesting information about ideas in an attempt to more fully understand them. The person presents feelings or perceptions which don’t imply the others are wrong or need to change. 2. SUPERIORITY – Communicating a feeling of superiority in position, power, or ability that implies the other person can’t be right because of his/her inadequacies. There tends to be a sense of oneupmanship to this approach. 2. EQUALITY – Gibb calls the opposite of superiority, equality. Communication is enhanced when you treat others with respect and trust. Differences in talent, ability, power, and status often exist, but the person who encourages communication seems to attach little importance to these distinctions. 3. CERTAINTY – Communicating in a manner that implies the person knows all the answers and doesn’t need or desire any additional information. There is a high need to be right, even to the point of winning an argument rather than solving a problem. 3. OPENESS – Gibb calls the opposite of certainty, openness. The person with an open attitude is seen as investigating issues rather than taking sides on them, as a problem solver than a debater. The person is indicating an interest in a shared approach to solving the problem. 4. CONTROLLING – Trying to change or restrict someone else’s behavior or attitude by imposing a set of values or beliefs on them. A person who engages in this behavior has a high need to be in control of others and the situation. 4. PROBLEM-ORIENTATION – Gibb calls the opposite of controlling, problem-orientation. When a person communicates a desire to work together to define a problem or seek a solution, he or she is seen as asking questions, seeking information, and having no predetermined solution, attitude, or method to impose. 5. MANIPULATING – Communicating with hidden motives in a way that uses others to meet one’s own needs. This type of communication has a “gotcha” feel. 5. POSITIVE INTENT – The opposite of manipulation is called positive intent. Behavior that appears to be spontaneous and free of deception encourages communication. If the person is seen as being straightforward and honest, and as behaving spontaneously in response to the situation, he or she is likely to create minimal defensiveness. 6. INDIFFERENCE – Showing a lack of interest or concern for the feelings or welfare of the other person that implies the other person’s comments are unimportant. 6. EMPATHY – Gibb refers to the opposite of indifference as empathy. Empathy reflects feelings and respect for the worth of the other person. The person having empathy identifies with other people’s problems, shares feelings, and accepts another’s reaction at face value.