1 Youth For Christ/USA Youth For Christ Ministries PO Box 228822 Denver, CO 80222 303-843-9000 CAMPUS LIFE OPERATIONS MANUAL Fifth edition - February 2003 Version 1.0 President: Roger Cross Senior Executive Vice-President: Paul Leroue Vice-President of YFC/USA Ministries: Dr. Dave Rahn National Campus Life Director, YFC/USA Ministries: Kevin Flannagan National Campus Life Task Force: Mick Baker Trent Bushnell Bill Eakin Kevin Flannagan Dave Fox Jenny Morgan Rick Selk Kent Yost Writers, Contributors and Editors: Bobby Arkills Mick Baker Trent Bushnell Matt Coppess Brenda Dickman Kevin Flannagan YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 2 Dave Fox Jim Greene Molly Gretzinger Amy Hartman Jennifer Hession Pastor Greg McKinnon Patti Meredith Jenny Morgan Dave Rahn Dave Ramseyer Chris Rickelman Don Talley Rick Selk Kent Yost Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation copyright 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All Rights reserved. The Appendix section is a fluid work-in-progress that contains articles, sample flyers, and helpful, practical tools for your ministry. With the exception of Dr. Dave Rahn’s book chapter, you may edit, copy and use anything in this section for the purpose of enhancing your Youth For Christ/Campus Life ministry. As of February 2003 the Appendix contains 10 items. 1. Campus Life Club Curriculum Order Form 2. Recommended Reading List 3. Sample Flyers for Club 4. Sample Volunteer Application and Confidential Recommendation Form 5. Sample Volunteer Application 6. Sample Volunteer Confidential Recommendation Form 7. Sample Volunteer Interview Questions 8. Sample Volunteer Staff Evaluation Form 9. “School Community Involvement,” article by Mr. Kent Yost 10. “A Sociological Framework for Youth Ministry,” book chapter by Dr. Dave Rahn YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 3 Table of Contents 1. YFC Mission, Vision & Grand Goal 2. Discipleship Evangelism and YFC’s Ongoing Fruit-Bearing Conditions 2.1. Abiding 2.2. Faithful Missionary 2.3. Unified Believers 2.4. Spirit-led Intentionality 2.5. Spirit-led Spontaneity 3. YFC Campus Ministry 4. Campus Life in Perspective 4.1. A Common YFC History 4.2. Campus Life Defined 4.3. Campus Life Scope 5. Campus Life Staff 5.1. Full-time Staff 5.2. Part-time Staff 5.3. Volunteers 6. Campus Life Context 6.1. Mapping Your Ministry Context 6.2. Know Your Ministry Site 6.3. The Body of Christ in Your Ministry Site 6.3.1. Strategy: Your Support Teams 6.3.2. Strategy: Your Network 7. Campus Life Young People 7.1. Becoming Youth Culture Experts 7.1.1. General Expertise 7.1.2. Specific Expertise 7.2. A General Profile of Campus Life Young People 7.3. A Campus Life Ministry Site–Specific Profile of Young People 8. Campus Life Relational Ministry Actions 8.1. RMA: Contacting 8.2. RMA: Building Times 8.3. RMA: Appointments 8.4. RMA: Small Groups 8.5. RMA: Club 8.6. RMA: Strategic Relationships 8.7. RMA: Student Leadership 8.8. RMA: Trips 8.9. RMA: Events 9. Campus Life & The Relational Ministry Process 9.1. Three-Story Evangelism 9.2. Initiate 6 8 12 13 15 17 19 21 27 27 35 39 41 42 49 51 55 56 58 62 62 62 66 66 66 67 69 72 75 75 80 84 89 97 119 125 136 144 150 151 154 YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 4 9.2.1. Initiate: How It Works With Kids 9.2.2. Initiate: A Prayer Focus 9.2.3. Initiate: The RMA Strategy 9.3. Involve 9.3.1. Involve: How It Works With Kids 9.3.2. Involve: A Prayer Focus 9.3.3. Involve: The RMA Strategy 9.4. Inform 9.4.1. Inform: How It Works With Kids 9.4.2. Inform: A Prayer Focus 9.4.3. Inform: The RMA Strategy 9.5. Invite 9.5.1. Invite: How It Works With Kids 9.5.2. Invite: A Prayer Focus 9.5.3. Invite: The RMA Strategy 9.6. Invest 9.6.1. Invest: How It Works With Kids 9.6.2. Invest: A Prayer Focus 9.6.3. Invest: The RMA Strategy 9.7. Investigate 9.7.1. Investigate: How It Works With Kids 9.7.2. Investigate: A Prayer Focus 9.7.3. Investigate: The RMA Strategy 9.8. Infuse 9.8.1. Infuse: How It Works With Kids 9.8.2. Infuse: A Prayer Focus 9.8.3. Infuse: The RMA Strategy 9.9. Inspire 9.9.1. Inspire: How It Works With Kids 9.9.2. Inspire: A Prayer Focus 9.9.3. Inspire: The RMA Strategy 10. Campus Life Ministry Assessment 10.1. Focus: Every Young Person 10.2. Focus: God’s Word 10.3. Focus: How the Kingdom Grows 10.4. Focus: Campus Life RMAs 10.5. Focus: Review, Reflect, & Adjust 154 155 156 158 159 159 160 162 162 163 164 166 167 168 168 171 172 173 173 175 176 177 178 180 181 182 182 184 185 186 187 189 191 192 193 194 196 YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 5 Forward The most important resource for a Campus Life minister is the Bible. You need to be in it daily. After that, you must become well acquainted with the manual you now hold. A former Campus Life staff person told me over twenty years ago that he read through the entire Ministry Operations Manual twice a year and referenced its pages regularly. I believe that, along with regular time in the Word, this manual will be invaluable in helping you more effectively reach lost teenagers. You will experience within these pages a multitude of situations and challenges from the world of teenagers. The authors of this manual have over 200 years of combined Campus Life ministry experience. They represent young and old, male and female, as well as geographic, social and cultural diversity. These authors include men and women who were present when Campus Life was conceived in the 60’s, flourished and dominated the youth ministry world in the 70’s and 80’s and was challenged in the early 90’s. It has since re-established and solidified itself as the most widely practiced core ministry of Youth For Christ in the opening days of the new millennium. The authors of this manual also wrestled with the changing teenage community through the radical 60’s, the birth of personal computers, the introduction of the internet, the onslaught of MTV, the Beatles, Elvis, the Doobie Brothers, Dave Matthews, and Phish. They are authors, radio talk show hosts, speakers, pastors, executive directors, national board members, and parents of teenagers. They all share a common ground-- experience and wisdom birthed in a love for Jesus and a walk with Him, tempered by years of experience in front-line Campus Life ministry. Each of them desires that every young person in every people group in every high school have the opportunity to become a life-long follower of Jesus. Finally, this is a living document. It will always grow and change, because, although the mission stays the same, the world of teenagers never will. In being “anchored to the rock and geared to the times,” your Campus Life leadership will periodically send you updates and new tools to help you reach more high school teenagers more effectively. So, with your Bible open next to you and your heart open within you, start reading and get to work! “The fields are plentiful and the workers are few.” --Kevin Flannagan Campus Life National Director, YFC/USA Ministries YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 6 1. YFC Mission, Vision & Grand Goal Within the organizational genetic code of YFC is a sense of direction that defines who we are and what our particular niche is within the Kingdom of God. To clarify this foundational purpose we have expressed it as our mission statement. Youth for Christ’s mission is: To participate in the Body of Christ in the responsible evangelism of youth, presenting them with the person, work & teachings of Christ and discipling them into the Church. For a mission statement to truly guide us it must be more than well-arranged words. It must be IN us, providing us with a stable source of direction. This works to guide our ministry together like the earth’s magnetic poles, supplying us with a fixed location from which we can determine where we are. In addition to our mission statement, there is another core organizational statement that helps to supply us with direction, adding scope and boundaries to our purpose. This is YFC’s vision statement, and our hope is that it guides us by painting a clear picture of our ideal future. The vision of YFC is: As part of the Body of Christ our vision is to see every young person in every people group in every nation have the opportunity to make an informed decision to be a follower of Jesus Christ and to become part of a local church. How do YFC’s mission and vision statements help to locate our organization and set it on a unique course amid the tremendous variety of ministry options that can be done in Jesus’ name? Three important features serve as rudders steering us through the waters of discipleship evangelism. First, YFC is committed to the Church. Each statement offers a modest assertion that we want to participate in the Body of Christ. We want to do our part and serve a valuable role in the Body. As our task gets defined within each statement there is also a firm conviction expressed. The young people with whom we work must be guided into the Church if we are to consider our assignment complete. Taken together these elements make it clear that YFC’s relationship with and service to the Church must be a genuine value in how we operate. It is also clear that YFC is a youth ministry concentrating on the discipleship evangelism agenda. Our focus is on lost young people, though we know that there are many others who need to hear the good news of Jesus Christ. The scope of our vision statement makes it clear that there isn’t a young person on the planet excluded from our ministry potential. But we recognize in our work among teens the potential for manipulation and even abuse. By being responsible with our evangelism efforts we will help young people make informed decisions about following Jesus for a lifetime. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 7 And, ultimately, there must be no mistaking the fact that our evangelism efforts must always synchronize with the larger purpose of making disciples among young people. That’s why in this operations manual we will frequently talk about discipleship evangelism in YFC. We have no intention of dividing God’s master plan for changing a life. We will more fully explore this rich term in chapter 2. Finally, there must be no doubt that our ministry energies are dedicated to making Jesus known. This commitment aligns us with countless others throughout history who have sought to glorify God by revealing him accurately in the world. There are plenty of good social causes worthy of our efforts, but they can never be allowed to replace Jesus as the center of attention. YFC’s mission and vision have us committed to the Church, focused on youth discipleship evangelism, and centered on the person of Jesus Christ. In addition, YFC’s commitment to being a diverse and worldwide movement is a deep organizational value that finds its home in these statements. These fixed points ought to come alive for us as they help us decide when to adopt some ministry strategies and discard others. A recent addition to these core direction-setting documents is YFC’s grand goal. Formally adopted at YFC’s Midwinter Conference in 2002, our grand goal is intended to energize us with some specific, measurable ministry targets that are so huge that they might be considered unreasonable. We acknowledge that if God doesn’t unleash his power in an unusual way we will not be able to accomplish this goal, and we have embraced it both as a long-range faith commitment and an articulation of what—in our wildest dreams—we hope to accomplish through our work. YFC’s grand goal is: With God’s help and direction, we seek to engage 5,000,000 young people by 2010 in a lifelong journey of following Christ. To do this we will: •Pursue young people everywhere, including the hard-to-reach. •Reach young people through 5,000 school and community ministry sites. •Grow ministry to 300 strategic towns and cities. •Resource and connect staff, churches and community leaders. •Multiply our efforts through strategic partnerships with churches, Kingdom organizations and the worldwide movement of YFC. • Equip 600,000 young Christian leaders in evangelism and discipleship. These documents have set our direction in YFC. They help us to know where we are going. The rest of this operations manual is intended to increase the detail of this direction and enrich our understanding of how we can be both faithful and fruitful in our work. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 8 2. Discipleship Evangelism & YFC’s Ongoing Fruit-Bearing Conditions What do we mean when we use the term discipleship evangelism? We gain some insights about why this term is important to YFC by exploring alternative descriptions that are not quite adequate summaries of our mission’s focus. For starters, discipleship evangelism is not decisional evangelism. We are very clear about what the end results of our evangelism efforts must be. We want young people to become disciples of Christ and not just make decisions for Christ. This clarity of vision is critical to our ministry practice. We’re confident that when we train our attention on making disciples we will consistently be freed up to encourage young people to make good decisions. Since there is less certainty we will be able to start teens on a lifelong path of following Jesus if we concentrate our efforts too narrowly on their initial decisions to start their journey, we choose the discipleship evangelism paradigm. Adopting the term discipleship evangelism is also a way to bridge the modern divide between discipleship and evangelism. The separation of these two concepts is a recent invention and one that cannot be found in Scripture. Biblical discipleship begins in evangelism and seeks to establish mature followers of Jesus who will—in turn—become evangelistically faithful in their own lives. Biblical evangelism has no destination for its activity other than making disciples. By favoring one concept over another too many ministries have excused themselves from the obligation handed us by the Lord Jesus. If concentration on evangelism leads to the neglect of disciplemaking, the Kingdom’s growth-by-multiplication plan (2 Timothy 2:2) will be frustrated. If focusing exclusively on growing Christians into mature disciples doesn’t include an evangelism agenda, our Lord’s grand reconciliation plan (Colossians 1: 19-20) will be subverted. Either focus out of balance will keep us from experiencing the lasting fruit Jesus intended (John 15). We believe that incorporating the term discipleship evangelism into our ministry vocabulary can help us avoid errors of imbalance. The concept of responsible evangelism is enriched by the concluding phrase in YFC’s mission statement, “discipling them into the church”. Without this clause, some might mistakenly conclude that responsible evangelism only describes an ethical standard for our missionary activity. We want to make it clear that we can’t be responsible in our evangelism efforts if they are not aligned with discipleship purposes. Some assert that YFC is committed to a kind of evangelism style, perhaps best represented by the term relational evangelism, as opposed to something like confrontational evangelism, or proclamational evangelism. In reality, however, as we move aggressively to cultivate life-long commitments to Jesus Christ among young people, YFC is free to consider relational, confrontational or proclamational YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 9 evangelism methods as legitimate options for our outreach efforts. By choosing to align ourselves with the standards and criteria of discipleship evangelism rather than a single method as our only option, we are staking out an allegiance to biblical values above all else when pursuing our mission. It is to those biblical values we want to turn now to further unpack what we mean by discipleship evangelism in YFC. The context and directive surrounding the Great Commission will adequately supply the biblical insights we need to understand discipleship evangelism. Here’s the text: “Then the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted. Then Jesus came to them and said, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age’” (Matthew 28:16-20). Notice the preconditions that set the disciples up to receive their clear instruction from the Lord Jesus. First, they proved they were ready for a new assignment by their previous obedience. They showed up on location as Jesus had told them. And, as a result of their obedience rather than as a condition by which they would trust him, they saw Jesus. The reward of seeing Jesus clearly always follows our faithfulness. The experience of following Jesus precedes the certainty of knowing Jesus. When they saw Jesus they offered him the only acceptable faith response: they worshiped him. Jesus then drew near to them, even to those who couldn’t purge the doubts from their faith. There is no substitute for bringing an honest heart humbly to the Lord, even when such a heart is deeply flawed. As Jesus came to them he reminded them of his supremacy in all things (see also Colossians 1:18). When the King of All Creation whispers such a truth into our spirits is there any doubt he is not also reasserting his claim on our unconditional allegiance? We have not yet begun to consider the ministry directives that Jesus uttered. There is a reason for that. Discipleship evangelism is always done by people like us who have stories of victory and failure in our own following of Jesus. Some of us would have been late to the mountain in Galilee; others might even be no-shows. A lot of us would have been so overcome by our doubts that we would wonder if our feeble worship could even rise to an acceptable level for the Lord. Nonetheless, when we even stagger and stumble in the direction of obedience to the Lord Jesus, he meets us, strengthening our faith by reminding us that he has absolutely everything under control. The first step in our ministry among young persons is our step toward Jesus. We must trust him and abandon ourselves to completing the assignment (Acts 20:24) he gives us all: to make disciples of all nations. The disciples must have had questions about the task, but Jesus had—through these words and his own example (John 20:21)—given them everything they need to YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 10 understand what he was asking of them. This disciple-making assignment would be accomplished during the normal course of life, literally while they were going among all the nations. Discipleship evangelism begins when those sent by Jesus get life-onlife with those who have yet to discover Jesus. It would include incorporating these new believers into the family of Jesus-followers through a common baptism. Discipleship evangelism necessitates that this new life is experienced in the community—or body—of Christians. And the task requires that would-be disciples become students who adjust their lives according to Jesus’ teachings. Discipleship evangelism expects that each life in submission to God’s word will be continuously changed so that Jesus is revealed through them. In YFC we’ve translated these three dimensions of discipleship evangelism—life-on-life, Body life, truth-in-life—into a strategy we call THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. While the measurable ingredients of THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS will be discussed in chapter 9 of this operations manual, the foundational elements of this process must be introduced now. And they are imbedded in the mystical words of encouragement Jesus offered the disciples in Matthew 28:20. When Jesus gave such a daunting assignment to the disciples, they must have wrestled with the tremendous uncertainties about how they, inadequate as they were, could possibly bring about a change in the lives of others that would be worthy of the Lord Jesus. Jesus must have anticipated such a response. He promised that he would be with the disciples every step of the way. Through Jesus’ ongoing presence the disciples would experience the power to accomplish all that he asked of them. Experiencing the ongoing presence of Jesus Christ as Lord of our lives is a condition that is absolutely necessary to our ability to do discipleship evangelism among young people. That’s why we have identified five ongoing fruit-bearing conditions as the foundation of THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. We are helpless to please God in our own strength (Hebrews 11:6). It’s not that we don’t bring anything to the table. As we learned from seeing the disciples’ response in Matthew 28: 16-18, we sometimes get credit for just showing up! Ministry that results in God-honoring fruit (John 15:8) is a combination of our best efforts and the release of God’s power. A purely practical approach to ministry would have us work hard, convinced that results are based entirely on what we do. A purely mystical approach to ministry would have us wait and watch, convinced that results are based entirely on what God does. Of course, ministry must never be such an either/or proposition. The bulk of the pages in this operations manual are devoted to helping YFC staff carry out their work effectively. If you are a page-counter, you might mistakenly conclude that YFC is primarily dedicated to practical ministry strategies as measured by effective, measurable results. After all, this manual coaches us in the kind of hard work YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 11 to which we must apply ourselves. Aren’t we just pragmatists who plan our work and then work our plan? If that’s all that can be said of us, we’re in trouble. We want to state unequivocally that if the Lord is not in our work, everything is done in vain (Psalm 127:1). As committed as we are to working effectively, we are even more convinced that we must work faithfully. The former is what ensures that we are geared to the times. The latter reminds us that our hard work will be so much useless floating foam if we aren’t anchored to the Rock. Consider the following parable of Jesus: This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soil produces grain—first the stalk, then the head, then the full kernel in the head. As soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come (Mark 4: 26-29). What is our role in bringing about truly changed lives among young people? It’s clear that as “the man” in the parable we are to scatter seed and then reap the harvest once it’s ready. In between God is doing his thing, mysteriously growing his life in the previously yet-to-be-born spirit of a teen. We must attune ourselves to God’s activity so that we are ready to act when God says the soul-harvest of a young life is ready for our attention. In the remainder of this chapter we identify five continuous conditions that we want to concentrate upon in order to be ready to act in the Holy Spirit’s timing, to experience the presence of Jesus promised at the end of the Great Commission. We confess that every lasting ministry result we seek is largely dependent upon how well we immerse ourselves in these ongoing fruit-bearing conditions. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 12 2.1 Abiding Everything about our discipleship evangelism efforts need to be Jesus-centered. The hope of glory—understood as the revealing of God in this world—is not even words about Jesus, but Jesus himself (Colossians 1:27)! He is our message. If the gospel we preached was merely a set of propositional truths that need to be understood and applied, it might be possible to segregate our ministry activity into convenient categories. First we do something fun to address the social needs of kids. Then we get them active because that helps people to learn. After which we share some of ourselves with them to build our credibility as communicators. That’s when we introduce Jesus… If Jesus—the literal glue of all creation—is the message then our goal is to find ourselves communicating him every time we draw a breath. Is it important to have fun with teens? Do it in Jesus. Are activities strategic in our ministry? Figure out how to do them as Jesus would. Must we develop credibility? Let Jesus teach us how. We must abide in him constantly; we have no hope for any lasting fruit as a result of our good efforts unless his Spirit empowers us (John 15:1-17). We need to operate with the confessed conviction that Jesus Christ is our only source of motivation and power. Without him we are thoroughly lost; that includes our well-intentioned ministry efforts. When we genuinely abide in Jesus a constant prayer bond allows Jesus’ words to flow through our spiritual circulatory system. This illuminates Paul’s instruction that, no matter what we believers are doing, we are to do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus (Colossians 3:17) and to pray continually (1 Thessalonians 5:17). We are able to access a life that is not our own and must learn how to discard the helpless and hopeless way of living into which we were born (Galatians 2:20). This learning curve is understandably steep. As brothers and sisters in Christ we who are a part of the YFC family can be encouragers and examples to one another in this great adventure. We understand that the fruit of our ministries are direct extensions of the fruitfulness of our lives. As an ongoing fruit-bearing condition, abiding plunges us deeply and consistently into Jesus’ life so that the glory of our fruit is as great as he deserves. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 13 2.2 Faithful Missionary Before we DO our missionary work among young people, we must realize that we ARE missionaries with whole lives that are intended to declare the glory of God. The first fruit with which we honor God is the good health of our own walk in him. Among other things this means that we pursue emotional wholeness, not because we can do our jobs better, but because we can live our lives better. And a life well lived is our priority. Such a life is lived from the inside out. God knows the nooks and crannies of our hearts, from which our entire lives and ministries flow (Proverbs 4:23). Jesus’ declaration offers a simple checkpoint for our soul searching: If you love me, you will obey what I command (John 14:15). Concentrating on loving Jesus in this way will help us to be consistently faithful. That’s our target. As followers of Jesus this on-going fruit-bearing condition calls us to an authenticity that a skeptical world needs to see. Our Lord asserted that while he was in the world he was the light of the world (John 9:5). The temporary nature of this designation is a little confusing until we recognize that he gave his disciples this very same assignment, making it clear that it is now our responsibility to live our lives as open testimonies to the goodness of God (Matthew 5:14-16). This crucial focus of our life and ministry naturalizes the fruit-bearing process. Think about it. The opposite of something natural might be something mechanical or even technological. We can’t create automatic systems that crank out fruit. This is not an industrial strategy. Fruit is always organic and it will always be linked to the mysterious growth process that we may be able to understand but will never be able to control. That’s why an authentic life is never something we do (mechanical) so much as it is someone we are (natural). Look at how it worked in the apostle Paul’s ministry. He initially established an example of Christ-likeness by living out his selfless faith among the Thessalonians and then commended them for the far-reaching impact of their example (1 Thessalonians 1:4-10; 2:1-12). To illuminate his instruction to another church about how to do all for the glory of God (1Corinthians 10:31), he invited them to, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). While he clearly made no claim to perfection, Paul was confident enough in the process of Jesus’ growth in his life that he could offer his own faithfulness as a concrete illustration of the character our heavenly Father wants to form in us all (Philippians 3: 12-17; 4:9). This example-first priority is one that Peter also understood. He coached slaves as well as wives married to unbelieving husbands to follow such a strategy (1 Peter 2: YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 14 18-21; 3: 1-4). In fact, the evangelistic impact of this second example helps us to understand how being a faithful missionary must be an ongoing fruit-bearing condition for our ministry. It is an ongoing condition because faithful is not something we do so much as someone we are. Wives witnessing to their husbands through the integrity of their lives will fail unless they display a measure of consistency. Our entire lives are part of a collective evidence package that either points young people to the one true God or deflects attention from him. This becomes a fruit-bearing condition because when young people are satisfied that when we missionaries utter words consistent with our lives, they will be drawn to follow Jesus themselves. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 15 2.3 Unified Believers Jesus found it important in his last days to ask the Father to forge observable unity among believers. He prayed this with an evangelistic strategy in mind; this was how the world might learn of God’s love (John 17:23). Given the timing, purpose and Author of this priority we dare not ignore it in our lives. This is no small ambition, like it might be if we were only talking about getting local church folks to join our YFC stuff. In fact, just cooperating around mutually beneficial ministry events is no guarantee that we will meet the standard of Jesus’ prayer. Neither do our program collaborations automatically meet his expectations that we display uncommon love to one another (John 13:34). Loving unity takes concentrated effort. There is certainly nothing in the Bible that suggests it will be attained as a side benefit to our ministry tasks. Consider how much coaching Paul did among the churches on this very topic. He taught the believers in Rome how to navigate their differences so that they could preserve their love for one another at all costs (Romans 14). His beautiful exhortation to love and unity is smack in the middle of his instruction to the Corinthians about how to use their diverse gifts (1 Corinthians 12 – 14). While urging the Galatians to live freely in Christ he cautioned them to not neglect serving one another in love (Galatians 5:13). To the Ephesians he recited the basis of our unity (Ephesians 4: 1-6) and to the Philippians he appealed to the humility of Christ as an example for how we preserve unity (Philippians 2: 1-11). And he reveals to the Colossians that it’s when they are “encouraged in heart and united in love” that they have a chance to really know Christ (Colossians 2: 2-3). In praying for a dear friend he makes this same point, asserting that koinonia will make possible “a full understanding of every good thing we have in Christ” (Philemon 6). And there is plenty more in the New Testament, from the pen of Paul and others. In fact, unity is so often discussed in Scripture that we may have become dulled to both its potential and its demands for our lives and ministries. Or maybe we are just a product of our times. The American entrepreneurial spirit that has contributed so many positive things to the cause of Christ in the latter half of the 20th century may keep us from seeing how essential this biblical value is to the cause of evangelism. It is not a pragmatic option to be practiced when we get a break from our real work. It is not someone else’s responsibility. It is part of God’s strategy for revealing himself in the world. That’s why our work to unify believers is one of our ongoing fruit-bearing conditions. YFC’s success in youth discipleship evangelism is inseparably linked to this biblical value. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 16 In order to practice this value with clarity, YFC staff ought to cultivate servant partnerships with local churches. This strategy testifies to the reality of how we’ll build unity (as servants) and what the outcome looks like (ministry partnerships). YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 17 2.4 Spirit-led Intentionality There is a deliberative, strategic side to the discipleship evangelism process that’s easy to see in the ministry patterns of Jesus. The dominant example of this is his work with the apostles. After our Lord had a chance to see how responsive his many followers were and spent considerable time in prayer he chose from among them twelve men through which he could multiply himself (Luke 6: 12-16). What did he have in mind when he made his selections? In one gospel we learn that his purpose was that “they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons” (Mark 3: 14-15). His ultimate vision for them included deputizing them as disciple-makers (Matthew 28: 18-20) so that an endless stream of his followers would collect themselves in communities throughout history, “for the praise of his glory” (Ephesians 1: 11-12). Against such groupings—known as churches—he promised that the gates of Hell would not prevail (Matthew 16:18). And, as Jesus’ revealed in one of his last recorded prayers, the salvation, preparation and commissioning of these twelve was the God glorifying work that he had been assigned to do while on earth. It was a job he stayed focused on until completion (see John 17, especially verse 4). Sometimes we believe that in order to be led by the Holy Spirit we must have our original plans disrupted. That’s certainly true if the Lord had no part in helping us to establish those first intentions. But Jesus demonstrated a model of Spirit-led intentionality that we would do well to copy in our own ministries. Certainly Paul caught the pattern. He even coached Timothy to entrust the gospel to reliable men who could faithfully pass it on to others (2 Timothy 2:2). And Paul’s own missionary journeys were guided by a Spirit-led grand goal to preach the gospel in places where it had not been proclaimed (2 Corinthians 10:16). We must be biblically faithful planners, setting in motion strategies that are in harmony with God’s master design of multiplying disciples and growing His Church. Our activity must be discipleship-oriented, even when it is focused on the evangelism of young people. Those are the instructions we have received from the Lord, and we’re not at liberty to disregard them. Why would we even be tempted to? Here’s why: there are times that we have our hearts broken as we walk among the lost masses of young people. The urgency of their need overwhelms us and tempts us to find faster ways to do what cannot be hurried. But life change is a crock-pot experience even in a microwave age. The pain of millions of lost teens does not give us license to shift our attention from what must be our single focus: we should be urgent in being faithful to Jesus. We get no bonus crowns for working ahead of YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 18 the Holy Spirit’s perfect pace. When Jesus encountered such neediness, he, too, was moved. But he instructed the disciples to ask the Lord of the harvest to send out workers, and that’s a significantly different response than setting aside a disciple-making agenda in order to give direct attention to the multitudes (Matthew 9:35-38). Spirit-led intentionality is based on the assumption that the Lord wants to give us overall guidance and supply us with the direction we must follow if we will be faithful to him. So much about the knowledge of his will—including his discipleship evangelism values—has been supplied in the Scriptures. We submit ourselves to the Lord when we study, pray, plan, decide, hire, write curriculum, and organize as if it matters to God. It does. And he wants to bless us with the fruit that comes from such ongoing faithfulness. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 19 2.5 Spirit-led Spontaneity Having considered the steady and consistent direction that the Lord supplies us, we also must acknowledge the flip side of the coin. The Holy Spirit doesn’t always move in predictable ways. After Paul wrote that the Colossians should devote themselves to prayer, he asserted that they should be watchful; he then instructed them to “make the most of every opportunity” (Colossians 4: 2, 5). As we move through our lives the Lord would like us to be alert to how he might want us to act in ways we had not anticipated. Different from preparation in the Spirit, this is preparation for the Spirit. It is about listening and being ready. As an ongoing fruit-bearing condition we have labeled this Spirit-led spontaneity. It’s what we understand Paul to mean when he told his young ministerial protégé, Timothy, to “be prepared in season and out of season” to preach the word of God (2 Timothy 4:2). Likewise, it seems to be what Peter meant when he wrote to “always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have” (1 Peter 3:15). Discipleship evangelism is every bit as much a result of our vigilance in active listening and constant readiness as it is an outcome of our long range planning. The latter helps us to set a clear course. The former helps us to respond to each new moment faithfully. Perhaps that’s what Jesus intended when he attached the participle modifier “going” to the imperative command “make disciples” (Matthew 28: 19-20). He certainly demonstrated how to pay attention to the Spirit while moving through life with his disciples. The Lord can and does indeed speak when our ears or hearts are clogged up… it’s just more normal for Him to speak when His people are listening (Isaiah 6). For the YFC staff worker, volunteer or student leader, our posture must be a daily seeking of the Father instructions, “Lord, what do you want me to do; where do you want me to go; to whom will you send me during the hours you have given me this day?” Active listening implies that the listener is surrendered, humble and ready to change his or her plans to accommodate the Lord’s leading in a given conversation, meeting, event, or an entire day. The combination of active listening and confident readiness is much like what Paul refers to when he instructs us to pray without ceasing and to listen carefully to God’s Spirit (1Thessalonians 5: 17-22). Active listening leads to readiness in the sense that the Holy Spirit will move in ways that we can only prepare for under His sometimes unpredictable , supernatural YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 20 touch. The active listener maintains a posture of waiting on the Lord, trusting that when God is ready to speak, He will. At which point, but not before, the listener moves into a renewed action plan. For example, look at how Paul changed his intended course of action in order to live under the authority of the ongoing fruitbearing condition of Spirit-led spontaneity: “Next Paul and Silas traveled through the area of Phyrgia and Galatia, because the Holy Spirit had told them not to go into the province of Asia…they headed for the province of Bithynia, again the Spirit of Jesus did not let them go. So instead they went on through Mysia to the city of Troas…” (Acts 16:6-10). Our work with young people must be opportunity-oriented, but it is always the Lord who opens the doors for real fruit (Colossians 4:3). When the Lord whispers an insight into our heart while we’re talking with a teen, we need to hear it. If he nudges us to be bold, we must respond courageously. And if he cautions us to be quiet, we ought to bite our tongues. If he prompts us to change our established plans, we should act in accordance with his leading. Because we are learning to constantly, actively listen in the midst of day-to-day ministry activity, we are able to submit to Him and adapt accordingly. That’s why as we train staff and teens for ministry we must go beyond preparing people with tools for evangelistic dialogue. We need to help folks attune their lives to the leading of the Holy Spirit. The great adventure of Spirit-led spontaneity is to be surprised by the work God wants to do through us. Taken together, YFC’s five ongoing fruit-bearing conditions are a reminder that our lives and ministries serve One Master. The Lord Jesus wants to indwell us and wants us to draw our life from him. As we do so, we will become increasingly faithful in every area of life. Loving unity will be evident in our relationships with other Christ-followers. We will be hungry to locate our plans in God’s will and excited to be available to him each moment of the day. Jesus will be allowed to truly function as the Lord of our lives and ministries. And when Jesus is Lord, he brings forth lasting fruit. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 21 3. YFC Campus Ministries There are currently five core ministry programs resourced by Youth for Christ/USA. They have been organized within two divisions: Campus Ministries and Community Ministries. This operations manual serves the Campus Life core ministry, one of two current national ministry core programs located in the Campus Ministries division of YFC/USA Ministries. These operations manuals—provided for each one of our national core ministries—are intended to establish definitively what we mean by Campus Life so each one of YFC’s local chapters may be aligned with regional and national YFC service centers in their ministry expectations. By clarifying what Campus Life is—and is not—we hope that we can establish strategies for more effective ministry management, continued ministry improvement, and steady ministry expansion. YFC/USA Campus Ministries are those that meet the following definition: Those YFC ministries that initiate relationships with lost students through the secondary school environment for the purpose of seeing them become life-long followers of Jesus Christ. The other current core program located in the Campus Ministries division is Campus Life MS. Each core program has been established as a strategic response to our evangelistic mission in the world. Here’s how we define core programs: YFC/USA Ministries’ core programs are clearly defined models, resourced and endorsed for vision/mission effectiveness and proven to be transferable and viable to multiple chapters. All core ministries in YFC share a commitment to youth discipleship evangelism through THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS includes common philosophy combined with distinctive methodologies. The foundational ongoing fruit-bearing conditions (see chapter 2) and the measurable relational ministry ingredients (see chapter 9) combine to create our common YFC ministry strategy. Each core ministry has also defined their own combination of relational ministry actions (see chapters 8 & 9) that fit the particular niche of YFC’s mission in which they are engaged. A comparison of the relational ministry actions that help to distinguish our core ministries from one another is found in the table at the end of this chapter. The Campus Ministries division of YFC/USA Ministries is also responsible for the development of new programs that fit under the scope of its ministry. We want to both encourage innovation and test new programs, ensuring that they fit our mission and vision, are exportable & transferable to other chapters, and have YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 22 clearly established relational ministry actions. We call this stage of program development incubation and it is officially defined as follows: A program in incubation is a clearly defined test model with reliable measurement criteria that could ultimately result in a refined, resourced and endorsed core program. The Campus Ministries division has currently assigned student-initiated campus clubs to an incubation status and is considering how to best develop target group ministries for the future. The earliest stage of program development is called ideation. It is characterized by our discovery—whether by accident or intention—of what the Lord seems to be doing in his kingdom and dreaming about what that would look like in YFC. Its official definition follows: An ideation program is a yet-to-be-defined model that emerges from Spirit-led innovation efforts in the Kingdom of God. To summarize, the Campus Ministries division in YFC/USA Ministries includes the two core ministries of Campus Life and Campus Life MS as well as any incubation or ideation programs that fit under the Campus Ministries definition. The other branch in the YFC/USA Ministries family tree is occupied by Community Ministries. Current core programs of City Life, Teen Parents, and Youth Guidance, as well as any appropriately targeted incubation or ideation programs, gather under the following definition of Community Ministries: Those YFC ministries that initiate relationships with lost young people found outside the secondary school environment through the local community and its agencies for the purpose of seeing them become life-long followers of Jesus Christ. The following FAQs may be useful in clarifying how Campus Ministries ministry programs move through the designations of core, incubation and ideation: 1. What are the key criteria for something becoming a core program? Positive answers to the following: Can every chapter conceivably do it? What is the viability for the entire movement? For example, what is the viability of a Surfer-targeted program for the entire movement? By the time something becomes core we want it to be clearly defined, well resourced, and easily multiplied. 2. What if you have a model that is really strong in a particular region, but not strong anywhere else? Can it ever become a core program for the entire organization? How many chapters have to be doing a program in order for it to become core? There’s no firm answer on that, but the decision will be made by the YFC/USA Ministries leadership team with substantial field input. Their role is to go through the process of evaluating a program’s viability. 3. Is it the goal that we would always have something move towards core? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 23 We think it would be very healthy if there are always some programs in core, some in incubation, and some in ideation. 4. Once core, always core? No. There can be programs that fall out of core. Everything has a life cycle. 5. Can local chapters designate something as core, or incubation, etc.? Not really. The core designation is a National Service Center function. YFC/USA Ministries will serve the entire movement by assigning programs a status that helps us to focus our limited resources. But it needs to be clear that we’re not saying that just because the NSC doesn’t recognize something as core, chapters can’t try something new. Some local chapters do ministries that are critical to their effectiveness but are designated as incubation or ideation right now. Foster Care programs may be good examples of this. 6. When something is in incubation, is it definitely going to core? No. You might find out in incubation that you’ve created more problems than you solved. Or, it might be too expensive to make it core. For instance, a program can’t go to core if it’s not affordable. It’s also got to be sustainable and transferable. Or, in some cases, a program may need to go through several incubation stages before it goes to core. 7. Is there a place where we can include non-YFC people and organizations in ideation? Absolutely. One of the main things in ideation is trying to discover what God’s already doing in a particular mission-related arena, and exploring how we can grow something from this. This taps into the free, entrepreneurial spirit for which YFC has historically been known. Practically speaking, we’ll look into undefined ideas that are bubbling up from the YFC movement and the general world of youth evangelism. Research and regular sharing of ideation-stage information may also stimulate Ideation development. This forces us to be on the cuttingedge of what we do, and makes us people with a prophetic vision. Some YFC people are really good at thinking like this and their vision and creativity are welcomed and needed within this structure. 8. So what’s the benefit of being an official core program of YFC/USA? In a word: resources. We can afford to train mainly core programs. We’ll develop fairly standardized job descriptions so that it’s easy to start a core program. Ministry program components will be cleanly defined, resource and operations manuals available, visibility tools developed, and curriculum can be found. And there will be enough different folks doing the program well that we’ll continually update a best practices list so field staff can get help from one another. In making something a core program, we “wrap a fence around it.” YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 24 We bring some cohesiveness to the program, but not so much structure that people can’t be creative. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 CAMPUS MINISTRIES RMA Campus Life MS Campus Life (going into the world of young people in order to initiate new relationships) ! ! ! ! (meeting one on one to provide individual attention and focus on a young person’s specific need) ! (a structured interactive meeting with 2-12 young people) ! Contacting 25 COMMUNITY MINISTRIES City Life Teen Parents Youth Guidance ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Building Times (spending time in shared activities with young people in order to build new relationships and model Christ-like behavior) Appointments Small Groups Large Groups ! (a structured meeting with more than 12 young people) ! ! Clubs (a weekly large group meeting of more than 25 students that’s high energy, safe, and nonChristian friendly) ! ! ! Mentoring (a holistic, covenantal relationship between a Christian adult and young person) ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Student Leadership (Christian students who are committed to influencing their friends for Christ through YFCrelated ministries) ! ! ! (taking young people out of their environment for a shared experience) ! ! ! (a YFC sponsored youth activity that enhances the ministry program’s image) ! ! ! ! ! ! Trips Events Strategic Relationships (cultivating relationships in the secular community with parents and professionals who YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 26 impact young people) Support Team (mobilizing Christian adults for prayer, counsel, and financial support of a ministry site) ! ! ! ! ! (mobilizing Christian adults for discipleship evangelism with young people) ! ! ! ! ! Ministry Team YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 27 4. Campus Life in Perspective 4.1 A Common YFC History Before we can understand and fully embrace the Campus Life concept, it is important to first review our roots and beginnings in Youth For Christ. In the late 1930’s and early 1940’s, during World War II, many young men, mostly ministers and evangelists, were holding large rallies in Canada, England, and the United States. They were called by various names, including “Singspiration” (Kansas City), “Victory Rally” (San Diego), “Voice of Christian Youth” (Detroit), “Word of Life” (New York), “Jubilee” (Los Angeles), “Victorious Christian Youth” (Tacoma), and “Youth for Christ” (Indianapolis), to name only a few. In it’s early days, Youth for Christ was not the specialized youth ministry it is today. The crowds were a mixture of young people, adults, middle-aged parents and some older adults. The Youth for Christ rally was the place to be on Saturday night if you were a Christian. Because of large attendance at the rallies, the media coverage was overwhelming and very effective for the Kingdom. The Youth for Christ story was shared in such a way that a stampede descended on YFC, hungry for information on how to start more rallies in more cities around the world. In 1944, at the Winona Lake Bible Conference in Winona Lake, Indiana, a group of leaders including Roger Malsbury, Dr. J.Palmer Muntz and Arthur McKee, met to discuss how to handle the requests for new rallies. Later that same year in Detroit, a temporary organization was established, electing Torrey Johnson, a Chicago pastor, as the chairman. At this meeting, a summer convention was planned for 1945. In his new role, Torrey Johnson was flooded with more requests for help. He opened a one-room office on North Wells Street in Chicago and hired a young evangelist by the name of Billy Graham to be the first full-time YFC staff person. Graham began to preach and develop Youth for Christ rallies around the country. At the summer convention in 1945, Dr. Raymond V. Edman, then president of Wheaton College, led the sessions. Youth for Christ International was formed and Torrey Johnson was elected as the first President of the YFC movement. A sevenpoint statement of faith was adopted that remains to this day to serve as our doctrinal platform. Youth for Christ’s development can be divided into six historical periods. The growth of our ministry philosophy over the years overlaps to some extent, causing YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 28 the time periods to be approximate. Through out YFC’s history two common threads endure: an unwavering, passionate commitment to reach “lost young people,” kids outside the scope and impact of the organized Church and secondly a desire to build the Kingdom by exerting focused energy and attention to bridge those same kids into the Church. THE FIRST PERIOD: The YFC “Rally” From the first rally in 1945 through the early 1950’s, our ministry was essentially large Saturday night evangelistic rallies. In large cities, auditoriums and stadiums seating 2,000 to 10,000 people were filled to capacity on a regular basis. One meeting in Soldier’s Field in Chicago drew over 70,000 people! As a result of God’s Spirit moving through nationally known evangelists and personalities, converted movie starts, songwriters, musicians and gospel teams, many received Jesus Christ into their lives. Youth for Christ rallies were formed all over America and in many other nations. From it’s birth through the mid fifties, YFC experienced phenomenal growth and many new ministries became “spin-off’s” of Youth for Christ. The Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, World Vision, Greater European Missions, Overseas Crusades and Gospel Films were just a few examples of the new ministries birthed by Youth for Christ. THE SECOND PERIOD: The YFC “Bible Club” During the second era, Youth for Christ focused our ministry efforts on adolescents. The forerunner of the current Campus Life ministry was born in 1949, through the vision and burden of Jack Hamilton. Jack pioneered the “Bible Club” concept in Kansas City and called it YOB Clubs, “Youth on the Beam Clubs.” Using buses equipped with pianos, the portable clubhouse moved from school to school, and the club ministry was born. Jack challenged YFC to take on the ministry of the high school campus; he was hired by YFC as the first full-time club staff member. He moved to various cities through the United States establishing ministries. In a few short years, 3,600 clubs were in operation. These clubs eventually led to the birth of “YFC Clubs” which in later years became Campus Life. With the emphasis on personal evangelism, several thrusts resulted from the club ministry. The development of local, regional and national Teen Talent and Bible Quiz programs opening many new doors of opportunity for the development of high school Christians. High Adventure trips and other special ministries attracted hundreds of new students. An overseas ministry was developed as we sent teen teams from the USA to countries around the world. In the early 50’s YFC staff began to work with boys in juvenile institutions. The courts were faced with a backlog of cases and they began to refer kids to YFC to work with during the summer months. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 29 In 1958, Bill Eakin, a Youth for Christ director from Akron, Ohio, became Jack Hamilton’s Field Director for the high school ministry of YFC. That same year, Bill, Jack and others wrote the first club manuals. The first Capital Teen Convention was held in Washington, D.C. in December of 1959 with 10,000 in attendance. In 1961, in Salt Lake City, Bill, Jack, Willie Foote, Bob Kraning, Ken Overstreet, and Bruce Washburn met for one of the most important, defining meetings in the history of club ministry. After two days of prayer and seeking the Lord, this team of YFC ministers, received from the Lord the “teen to teen balanced life concept” that became the backbone of our ministry philosophy. Based in Luke 2:52, “Youth for Christ’s balanced life concept is committed to developing in the Christian teenager a physical, mental, social and spiritual balance that will enable him to properly and successfully communicate in action and in word his personal faith in Jesus Christ to his friends, his campus and his world.” In December 1963 in Washington, D.C. the Second Capital Teen Convention drew over 12,000 teenagers. During the early sixties, a new kind of staff member emerged. They differed from the leaders of the early days who were called upon to promote, plan, and execute large rallies, booking speakers, and orchestrating huge events. Now men and women were needed who could relate to teenagers in personal ministry. This “new breed” was like coaches, encouraging students to do ministry alongside the adult leaders. Clubs were “teen centered.” The effective staff person was the one who enabled his students to produce the total club meeting. The purpose of the “bible clubs” was threefold: responsible evangelism, student leader development and fellowship for students. THE THIRD PERIOD: The Beginning of “Campus Life” & “Youth Guidance” During the mid 1960’s and the early 1970’s, major changes took place in our club ministry. To understand what caused the club transformation and the beginning stages of Campus Life, three trends need to be examined. First, we were living in a climate of change in the world. The advent of a technological era brought with it the rapid acceleration of learning, the constant pressure of change as well as a generation of young people who were aggressively seeking answers to the “why’s” of life. Secondly, there were major changes in the Youth for Christ structure. In 1962 major changes in the constitution of Youth for Christ were made, involving more ministry people in the decision making process. An authentically worldwide Youth for Christ International movement was born in 1968 in Jamaica. YFC/USA became one of a growing number of member nations, which made up the world organization of YFCI. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 30 The third trend that needs to be examined is that America began to have a new grasp on the religious make-up of teenagers. Christian teens made up 5% of the nation, religious teens made up 35% and the unchurched teens of America made up 60% of our nation’s youth. It was apparent, after an honest evaluation, that YFC’s ministry was almost exclusively with White Christian and religiously oriented teens. The large percentage of students who had either dropped out of churches, or had never attended, and could be best described as “pagan,” were not in any noticeable way a part of our evangelistic outreach efforts. We were also lacking in ministry to ethnic teens, kids who, at that time were described as inner city. Recognizing this glaring weakness in the club ministry, the leadership of YFC, including Ken Overstreet, Jim Green and Mike Yaconelli in San Diego, along with Larry Ballenger in Fresno and Clayton Baumann in North Area YFC of Chicago, took on the challenge of making some significant changes: • YFC Bible Clubs became Campus Life. This less threatening name enabled us to move into new ministry opportunities. • Youth for Christ magazine was changed to Campus Life magazine. The content of the magazine was built around the “balanced life” philosophy that out-lined the four areas of a balanced life – mental, social, physical, spiritual. • “Teen to Teen” and our “Balanced Life Philosophy” became the biblical and philosophical framework for all of YFC ministry. In 1966, Bill Eakin wrote and produced the first “2 plus 2” format also known as the “Insight/Impact” plan. This simple plan used “Insight” meetings twice a month targeted at teaching and equipping the Christian teenagers to share their faith. “Impact” meetings happened twice a month and were designed to do evangelism outreach. In 1967, Sam Wolgemuth, the president of YFC/USA, appointed the first Campus Division of Field Staff. This provided for a tremendous step in the development of manuals and materials that were needed to develop the “Insight/Impact” plan. These new formats took the pressure off of planning better meetings each week and allowed the staff to concentrate on more significant times of ministry with teenagers. Staff became less program-centered and more person-centered in their approach to ministry, learning to listen and engage students effectively. We began to understand the concept of “earning the right to be heard.” At the same time changes were happening with YFC’s ministry to at-risk youth. Initially, the main emphasis was summer camping. In 1963 the state of Indiana and then Governor Matthew Welsh donated Camp Muscatatuck to YFC/Lifeline. Lifeline summer camps became an exciting trend in YFC. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 31 During the mid-60s, a small group of staff began to realize that a summer ministry with delinquents was good but the long-term effectiveness of such a ministry was questionable. As a result, full-time Youth Guidance/Lifeline directors initiated involvement with the summer camp young people during the school year in oneto-one, year-round relationships. Incentive programs for the young people were developed, encouraging them to improve their behavior at home and at school. Some Youth Guidance ministries even incorporated minibikes, donated through the National Youth Project Using Minibikes (NYPUM) as part of their program. In 1966, Michigan Teen Ranch was founded as a response to the growing number of troubled male teens whose needs were more profound than we could be addressed through the summer camping program. Even though services have expanded through the years to include adoption and foster care, it is best known for its residential programs for both boys and girls who are referred by various state and county agencies in Michigan. In later years, other Youth for Christ-sponsored “teen ranches” were developed, including O’Connell Youth Ranch (Kansas, 1976) and Valley Teen Ranch (California, 1987). Youth Guidance continued to grow and define its specialized ministry with troubled youth. In 1968, several cities began experimenting with group home ministries and a number of staff began ministering to court referrals through small groups. The first Youth Guidance Operations Manual, containing a thorough explanation of philosophy and program emphasis, was published in the summer of 1972. THE FOURTH PERIOD: The Expansion of “Campus Life” & “Youth Guidance” Beginning in the early 1970’s and moving through the 1980’s, Campus Life built upon its new name and the strong base of ministry ideas that were developing across the nation. A boom in attendance marked this period in club. Many large clubs were developed and the emergence of multiple staff teams took place. The “teen to teen” and balanced life philosophies were solidified. It was not rare to see 200 kids sitting in living rooms all over the nation on weekday evenings completely enthralled in their school’s Campus Life Club. And it was not unusual to find staff men and women around the nation directing 2- 4 clubs every week. Midway through this “heyday” period, apathy hit our nation and it was especially reflected in the faces of our nation’s teenagers. The Vietnam War, Watergate and the unraveling of the Presidency affected Campus Life ministry. In many cities attendance began to drop as the nation’s youth became overwhelmingly preoccupied with self, and the desire to discuss important issues was diminishing. In response, Campus Life staff continued to minister one-on-one, but also developed special activities to attract students: ski trips, “stress” camping (to push them beyond their self absorption, Project Serve (to provide cross cultural ministry experience), and family counseling programs (to minister to the whole family). A YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 32 new thrust of small group ministry strategies brought caring, support and a muchneeded sense of community. In the early 80’s Youth For Christ also launched a new program called Junior Varsity, which in some areas was called Campus Life / JV. There were chapters around the country that had pioneered middle school ministry for years, but in 1983 YFC consolidated its grass roots experience into a manual called Junior Varsity. Dick Wynn, then YFC’s President led the campaign to develop the national ministry division of JV. Youth For Christ recognized that middle school and middle school young people were facing increasing pressures that had once been reserved for high school and college-aged young people. Because early adolescents were rapidly losing their childlike innocence, YFC moved aggressively to develop a national program to effectively reach them. As a result, many chapters around the country began to expand their outreach to include middle school students. There were increasing requests for training, meetings, ideas, and manuals geared toward middle school evangelism. Youth For Christ published three manuals filled with meetings for a three-year cycle. A sevenpart video series was also produced which contained comprehensive training for reaching middle school students for Christ. The end of the 80’s established middle school ministry established as a prominent program of Youth For Christ. Training for middle school ministry was offered on a regular basis nationally. Youth Guidance was expanding as well. By the early 70’s, a significant number of Youth for Christ chapters were developing ministry programs that targeted “troubled youth” – predominantly those who were in jail, or those who lived in high crime, low-income neighborhoods. In many juvenile detention centers, Youth Guidance staff served alongside state and/or county funded Chaplains, and in other situations, Youth Guidance staffs were the Chaplains. Beginning in the mid-70’s, those incarcerated juveniles who worked hard to improve their behavior while confined, earned special privileges and “temporary release status.” Consequently, Youth Guidance programs, which had either access to, or the equipment and training to incorporate some aspect of “wilderness camping” (backpacking or residential), were able to take advantage of the “system’s” willingness to try new methods of rehabilitation. For several years, Youth Guidance offered a Junior Leadership School, which included various outdoor “stress activities.” “Troubled” young people from various YG ministries across the country attended the multi-week event. The program was designed to develop leadership, communication skills, and other personal skills so that the Christian Youth Guidance teen would become a leader among his or her peers and in the community. During this same period, Youth Guidance staff that worked with female offenders and inner city young women found themselves in the midst of another ministry YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 33 opportunity – an outreach to teenaged mothers. This ministry soon became known as Teen MoMs, and in August of 1995 Laura Taylor, Lissa Qualls, Brenda Collard, and Michelle Shewen met in Indianapolis to write the first Teen MoMs operational manual. As the ministry of Youth Guidance grew, national and regional leaders recognized the urgent need to multiply ministry effectiveness throughout Youth for Christ by utilizing volunteers. In 1981, under the leadership of Ron Nikkel, who was at that time the National Youth Guidance Director, YFC produced the Volunteer Mobilization, Motivation, and Management Manual. In response to the need for ministry to “urban teens”, Russ Knight joined the staff of Metro Chicago YFC. He conceptualized the new shape of the neighborhood ministry in terms of "reaching urban teens.” Over the next sixteen years, under Russ' leadership, a multiple ministry format for the urban community emerged: club meetings for outreach, sports programs, discipleship programs for Christian growth, music programs, after school programs, tutoring programs, mentoring programs and gang ministry. Notable contributors to the urban format were Dr. Bill Pannell, Cleveland YFC’s Pat Hunt, Calumet Region’s Bennie Simmons, and Pete Sjoblom. In 1977, Dr. Jay Kessler, then president of Youth for Christ, appointed Glandion Carney as the first National Urban Division Field Staff Director. This was a monumental step in the development of multi-ethnic staff and increased urban ministry .The new ministry emphasis allowed us to start spending significant amounts of time with urban students. We became neighborhood centered, using multiple ministry models. THE FIFTH PERIOD: The Development of the “Relational Ministry Actions” The early 1980’s reintroduced the terms like “recession” and “depression” into our nation’s vocabulary. Our values and priorities were being reexamined. The “Me Generation” began to evaluate themselves; soul searching produced some tangible changes. News issues were being discussed like abortion, the AIDS epidemic, abused children, the plight of the homeless, toxic waste and terrorism to name a few. Faced with the reality of limited financial resources and the staggering number of unreached junior and senior high school students, YFC launched the “Evangelism Strategy for the Eighties.” This “battle” plan emphasized volunteer mobilization and the return to the basics of ministry. For Campus Life these basics were contacting, building time, appointments, the Campus Life Club meeting and community based ministry. For Youth Guidance the basics were contacting, building time, appointments, small groups, and mentoring. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 34 Returning to the basics in order to reach a generation for Jesus Christ meant that YFC was in need of focus. The National Ministries Division, facilitated by Bill Muir and driven by the Campus Life Task Forces of the 1990’s, led the charge to redefine what was non-negotiable about YFC ministry. Mick Baker and later Kevin Flannagan served as the Campus Life National Director, while Bob Kraft and later Louis Chaney served as the National Director of Campus Life JV. The work that came out of this era allowed us to direct our attention back to pure relational ministry through reexamining some timeless ministry principles. These became known as the “Relational Ministry Actions.” The RMA’s were later adopted by and adapted to most of the other YFC ministries including Teen Moms, Youth Guidance, Urban Ministry and Campus Life JV. In 1997 Lissa Qualls was hired as National Teen MoMs (now called “Teen Parents”) Director. 1999 Luther Whitfield was hired as National Urban Ministries (now called City Life) Director. These ministry departments were now equal with Campus Life, Campus Life JV and Youth Guidance. This was done in order to better resource those local programs that were developing unique ministries to pregnant and urban teens, apart from Youth Guidance. THE SIXTH PERIOD: YFC’S “Core Ministries” YFC’s history is being written daily all across the world. The current expression of our five core ministries—as well as a consideration of those that may be incubation or ideation—is a reflection of the Lord’s leading in 2003. As the needs of a constantly changing youth culture become clear to us we trust God will show us how we can respond faithfully and effectively. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 35 4.2 Campus Life Defined The following official definition of Campus Life is contained in four parts, each of which tells some—but not all—of what Campus Life intends to be. The advantage of each of these parts is that we may find it useful to employ only part of a definition when speaking to a particular audience and another portion of our definition if we are talking with a different person. Campus Life is a core campus-based ministry of Youth for Christ. The YFC Campus Life ministry combines healthy relationships with creative programs to help senior high young people make good choices, establish a solid foundation for life, and positively impact their schools. Like every ministry of YFC, Campus Life seeks to engage these young people wherever they are found as life-long followers of Jesus Christ. Here in Mid-City we….. The final portion of the definition is intended to provide local YFC chapters the opportunity to describe specific ways that Campus Life operates in their communities. Some of what follows may assist you to as you complete the definition with your own local description of the Campus Life program. Campus Life is more than a meeting! As one of the current five core ministries of Youth For Christ, Campus Life is primarily defined by it’s eleven Relational Ministry Actions: Contacting, Building Times, Appointments, Small Groups, Clubs, Strategic Relationships, Student Leadership, Trips, Events, Ministry Teams and Support Teams. While Campus Life seeks to reach every young person in every school in America, Campus Life is also interested in the individual student’s needs, especially his or her need for a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. Some of the tension inherent in our Relational Ministry Process is the push and pull between the “every” kid we are pursing and the “one” kid who has specific needs. There are other tensions and questions to be resolved and wrestled with in order to effectively love kids in Jesus’ name. By way of overview, we want to begin this chapter with Ten Frequently Asked Questions about Campus Life. Many of the following FAQ’s will be elaborated on throughout this manual. What follows is simply an appetizer designed to awaken taste buds for all the helpful tools in this manual. We will then provide a brief understanding of the scope of Campus Life for the beginning of the twenty first century. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 36 1. What is Campus Life? Campus Life is a place for high school students to have fun, make friends and talk about matters to high school students. Campus Life provides a balanced approach – physical, mental, social and spiritual – to give teens the skills and hope they need to live in a turbulent world. Campus Life club generally meets in various homes each week, hosted by students. In some cities, Campus Life may own a building they use to host club meetings, or have access to a school gym, cafeteria or classroom, or, less frequently, churches. 2. How do you get students involved? Often, a friend will personally invite a student to a Campus Life club meeting or event. The Campus Life director might also design and distribute a flyer, advertising club either via mail, email or as a giveaway at school. Most often, however, students get involved long before they come to a meeting by being in friendship with a student leader, an adult leader or through knowing a student already involved in the ministry. 3. Are Youth for Christ and Campus Life the same? Youth for Christ is the umbrella organization. Campus Life is the name of YFC's high school core ministry program geared toward 14 – 18 year olds. As Chevrolet is to General Motors, Campus Life is to YFC. 4. If Campus Life is an evangelistic program why don’t we share the gospel at every meeting? We have to remember that Campus Life is more than a club meeting. Campus Life is an environment in which relationships are developed and opportunities to share the message of the gospel, “God’s Story,” are cultivated. There are many elements that make up an effective Campus Life environment. The framework we use to define and explain these elements is the Relational Ministry Process. If Campus Life consisted of nothing more than a weekly club meeting, then of course, the gospel would be shared at this meeting. Years of ministry have taught us that club is not the only ideal setting for sharing the gospel. Small groups, trips and appointments also produce authentic followers of Jesus. We are not ashamed of the gospel, but we believe we are called to present the gospel within the context of strong, healthy relationships. 5. How is YFC funded? YFC/Campus Life is funded by contributions and donations from individuals, churches and area businesses. Many Campus Life staff members raise their own personal support in order to receive a salary and benefits. 6. Is Campus Life associated with Young Life? No. YFC works in cooperation with Young Life and other Christian based organizations that share a similar mission. Our leaders, both nationally and locally, periodically pray and worship together to support and encourage each other throughout the school YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 37 year. 7. Do schools have a problem with Campus Life being a Christian organization? The answer here depends on the school’s administration and any past experience with organizations like Campus Life. Administrators realize that students today are faced with a multiple of issues and many negative options that result in barriers to learning. Therefore it is imperative that the Campus Life director and his/her staff members present the program accurately to the administration. They must confidently and truthfully introduce Campus Life, mentioning that it is a faith-based organization interested in helping the whole teenager, and that the faith component is always optional. If presented well, the school will see Campus Life as a resource, an asset, and an organization that understands the boundaries of the public school system. It should be noted that a direct approach is appreciated by the administration; there is no need for Campus Life staff to attempt to be covert. We have nothing to hide. We must also earn respect and work diligently at building strong relationships with administrators. 8. What percentage of Christian vs. non-Christian kids are involved in Campus Life? Campus Life is in hot pursuit of “lost” kids. While there isn’t really an accurate, proven statistic to describe the various percentages of young people involved, most Campus Life ministries work diligently at getting “lost” kids into the relational ministry process (RMP). The first four ingredients (“I” words) of the RMP find their laser sharp focus on non-Christian kids. Even though the second four ingredients focus on Christians, they too are often geared toward teaching and providing experiences for Christian kids to engage in ministry as they faithfully, authentically abide in Christ. A large number of lost kids are involved because many authentic Christian students have been active recruiters. Ideally the majority of students involved in Campus Life would be nonChristian. 9. Does Campus Life replace the need for church in a young person’s life? ABSOLUTELY NOT!! The thrust of Campus Life, when all is said and done, is to help lost kids find Jesus and plug them into a local church. We want “Campus Life kids” to quickly become an active part of the Church, living out and expressing a genuine, lasting, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ within the context of the Body of Christ. 10. Is Campus Life the only way to reach students on high school campuses? If executed properly (with great discipline and ceaseless prayer), we think Campus Life is the best way to reach lost kids on high school campuses, but we are glad it isn’t the only way. Many local church youth ministries are becoming more and more effective at reaching out to the lost. Other good parachurch organizations are effectively reaching young people in cities around the nation. Because there are approximately 33 million young people in America, the Kingdom needs all the ministry partners and “harvest workers” available. We are eager to work in unity with any Christian YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 38 organizations that will love teenagers in ways that draw them to Jesus Christ and into His Kingdom. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 39 4.3. Campus Life Scope The Challenge In the midst of today’s youth culture, Campus Life seeks to bring significant Christian adults into meaningful relationships with today’s teenager. As these adults, paid or volunteers, authentically share their own stories, the essential truth of God’s story becomes a source of hope, supplying teens with the missing piece of their own life stories in the person of Jesus Christ. As part of our role in the kingdom of God, Campus Life aims to help thousands of these young people join the Body of Christ as life long followers of Jesus Christ. Target Group This core ministry targets those students in grades 9 - 12 who are traditionally found in the rich and varied social networks surrounding senior high schools, private schools and home schools. Location of the Ministry Campus Life programs occur in a variety of locations and settings. Some aspects of the ministry happen on the high school campus, while others occur off campus in community settings such as churches, clubhouses, community centers, drop-in centers, private homes, school activities, malls etc. The setting is secondary to the relationships being pursued and developed. Timing of the Ministry Campus Life isn’t just a meeting. It takes place whenever Campus Life adults build relationships with high school students and the adults involved in a student’s world. This can take place anytime: before school, during school, after school; during the evening hours, on weekends and holidays. In fact, the most effective Campus Life program features a number of different adults connecting at a variety of times with young people. The social nature of the young people targeted by Campus Life suggests that some features of the program—most notably trips, events and club meetings—must take place during times that accommodates the social patterns of students. Elements of the Ministry Campus Life programs have several elements that are essential for success. They are adult driven, such that opportunities to initiate relationships with lost students are pursued for the purpose of seeing them become life-long followers of Jesus Christ. Campus Life adults intentionally practice vital youth evangelism Relational Ministry Actions. These “actions” include contacting, building times, clubs and small groups, appointments, student leadership, trips, events, strategic relationships, ministry teams and support teams. It is also imperative that all Campus Life practices are filtered YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 40 through YFC’s ongoing fruit-bearing conditions (chapter 2). Campus Life’s biblical values are also expressed in the eight “ingredients” of the Relational Ministry Process: Initiate, Involve, Inform, Invite, Invest, Investigate, Infuse and Inspire. A well-established Campus Life ministry for any given high school will include the aggressive, growing and balanced pursuit of each of these elements. It will also include the very strategic mobilization of students to invite and influence their peers for Jesus Christ. Adults and students who love Christ will work hand in hand to reach lost teens. Their efforts will intertwine to form the evangelism strategy at the heart of the Campus Life model. Simply put, Campus Life loves students, loves Jesus Christ, and wants to get the two together as often and as quickly as possible! Ideal Vision of the Program Campus Life’s ultimate vision is to mobilize Christian adults and teens so that every high school student experiences the kind of significant Christ-revealing relationship that helps them become a life long follower of Jesus Christ. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 41 5. Campus Life Staff There is no definitive formula for fruitful Campus Life ministry, however, the combination of God’s Holy Spirit working on behalf of the lost plus called, well-prepared, humble staff teams is a very good start to fruitfulness in the discipleship evangelism process. And so, we begin with people, our most valuable resource. Campus Life teams are made up of three types of members: full-time staff, part-time staff and volunteers. In this chapter, we will briefly turn our attention to the expectations and job descriptions of paid staff as well as the values that must be present in order to develop excellent Campus Life volunteers. If you are hungry for the details of running effective volunteer ministry, chapter eight discusses the actual skills necessary for developing a Campus Life volunteer team through the RMA: Ministry Teams. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 42 5.1 Full-time Staff Generally speaking, full-time Campus Life staff members are expected to work an average of 45 – 50 hours per week. There are exceptions to this general rule, however, to be considered full-time in YFC, a person must be working a minimum of 30 hours per week. The service they provide through Campus Life will vary a bit from chapter to chapter. In spite of these variances around the nation, a YFC staff person employed full-time must operate from a job description. A written job description provides many benefits to the individual as well as to the organization. First, a written job description allows the supervisor to evaluate more fairly. We can objectively know how well an individual is accomplishing the mission if there is a specific job description against which to measure their performance. A job description also allows for honest affirmation and correction along the way. It also provides clarification that can keep an individual and YFC focused on the specific aspect of the overall mission which the person is assigned to fulfill. Knowing how one should be spending their time is most often answered through a thorough, written job description. A person can also be compensated and rewarded fairly based on how well they perform against their job description. Should the need to terminate a person be under consideration, the job description can also help this process to unfold in a godly, fair manner. Overall, job descriptions create clear, healthy boundaries. They should be seen as a tool to help with the development of individuals in relation not only to the mission of the organization but in terms of their calling and gifts. Job descriptions foster longevity for all of us in YFC. They should be evaluated annually, with the option of rewriting some or all of the content. Veteran staff will be best served by allowing them to join in the process of writing their own job descriptions, while new staff and younger staff will most often need the supervisor to craft and put into writing their job description. We are recommending that each person’s job description have an individual aspect to it. Although most Campus Life job descriptions will have much of the same content, each person we hire has different gifts, needs, goals and dreams that should be considered. What follows are several sample job descriptions and one suggestion for how a Campus Life staff person should spend their time in the summer. There are two ways to go about the task of writing job descriptions. We can create the job description based on the number of hours the organization wants the staff person to spend in specific areas or we can focus on the areas of responsibilities. Focusing YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 43 on either hours or responsibilities is acceptable. We have included examples of both. CAMPUS LIFE SUMMER GOALS Evangelism *Two (2) extended trips (at least 3 days in length) targeting non-Christian kids. *One group event each week targeting non-Christian kids. *One building time each week targeting non-Christian kids. *Ten (10) confrontational appointments (create target list) *Thorough follow-up of new Christians *Participate in any student community events in your area (camps, church events, festivals, etc.) Student Leadership Development *Student leader meeting/event each week (6-8 total) *Meet with each student leader 1-on-1 *Recruit new student leaders (create target list) Other goals *Continue to raise ministry underwriting and personal support goals. *Meet with your volunteers once a month and send a letter to your college volunteers that live out of town. *Meet with 3-4 youth pastors from your area to develop relationships. *Observe 2 student leader meetings of other staff. *Have one support team meeting *Recruit two (2) couples to be on your support team for the fall. *Read 1-2 books for personal development *Spend 2 hours each week dreaming/strategizing/planning. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 44 CAMPUS LIFE STAFF JOB DESCRIPTION Ft. Wayne Area YFC Ministry – RMA’s (Relational Ministry Actions) Contacting Building times Appointments Club meetings Small groups Student leadership Trips & events Total Management Administration (stats, letters, paperwork, reports) Planning (weekly appts., clubs, etc.) Projects Total Money Kid fund-raisers Ministry sponsorship Banquet Spring fund-raiser Personal support Total Mobilization Student leadership Volunteers Steering committee The church Total The Minister Accountability partner Supervision Observation Attitude Hours 5 3 3 3 2 3 2 21 3 3 2 8 1 1 1 1 1 5 (see above) 5 1 2 8 1 1 1 1 Total 4 Total Number of hours 46 YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 45 Job Description for Campus Ministry Director Youth for Christ/Tacoma Area (2pages) Purpose: To engage young people in the YFC area in a life-long journey of following Christ. Role: Working directly under the Area Director in directing Campus Ministry for the YFC Area Ministry Responsibilities: • Strategic Planning: Work with the Area Director to have a master plan of reaching high school and middle school students in the YFC area. • Dynamic Planning: Work with the Area Director, volunteer staff and Area Support Team (AST) on an ongoing basis to flesh out the working details to accomplish the master plan. • Specific Duties: Oversee the development of ministry to all high school and middle school students in the area. Utilize Campus Life and Campus Life JV ministry models, materials and training. Supervise and oversee interns at local ministry sites in conjunction with the STAR Center Internship Director. Develop adult prayer/support groups for each ministry site. Oversee the recruitment, training, and mobilization of volunteer and student leadership teams. Work is collaboration with local churches on developing and implementing a strategy to reach all high school and middle schools. Serve the local area as a catalyst for networking with local youth workers. Participate locally, regionally and nationally in Campus Life activities and training. Financial Responsibilities: • Personal Support: Amount covered on terms of employment contract. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 46 • Area Campus Ministry accounts: Help staff utilize "STAR Center" events (Run for Youth, auction, golf tourney) and other local fund raising events to raise adequate funds for area Campus Ministry accounts. • MM Area Fund Raising: support the area wide efforts in fund raising Personal Responsibilities: • Spiritual: Maintain a dynamic personal spiritual life that demonstrates the gifts of the Spirit and is free from scandalous behavior. • Church: Maintain an active role in the local church. • Individual: Model a Biblical example of a godly person for all to see. • Career: Utilize the opportunities in YFC and outside YFC to develop vocational skills and knowledge • Mentor: Mentor at least one non-YFC person in ministry. Be mentored by at least one non-YFC person. • Education: Be in a constant state of learning in either an informal manner or in a formal setting. • Kingdom Work: All YFC staff are to seek the development of God's Kingdom over the development of YFC. YFC/Tacoma Area's Commitment: To provide a healthy and productive work environment. To provide a sound organization in which to work. To provide leadership that actively develops staff. To provide limits which allow staff to maintain healthy family, church, and social lives. To provide a dynamic mission and strategy from which all activities spring. Benefits: See personnel manual. Supervisor: Area Director Monthly supervisory check-in Quarterly goals review and evaluation YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 47 Greater Lansing YOUTH FOR CHRIST CAMPUS LIFE -- FIRST YEAR STAFF POSITION DESCRIPTION HOURS - 40 to 45 hours per week (25 hours with students) CAMPUS LIFE CLUB DIRECTOR - Direct the ministry for one area high school - 11 Relational Ministry Actions per week SUPERVISION - Ministry Report Form filled out each week - Weekly meeting with your supervisor - Bi-Weekly Campus Life staff meeting - Monthly YFC staff meeting - Evaluation twice a year OTHER RESPONSIBILITIES - Participate in YFC fundraising events (i.e. fall banquet, golf tournaments, etc) - As assigned: each staff coordinates or assists in at least one other task (volunteers, Campus Life sales, media, events etc.) and/or assists in another club. - Maintain a positive staff support account including writing a monthly support/prayer letter. TRAINING - Attend YFC's Summer Institute on Evangelism - Attend YFC Regional Fall Classroom - Complete other training assignments SALARY/BENEFITS (2001-2002) - $23,500 - Health Insurance - Dental Insurance (Delta Dental) - $25,000 Term Life Insurance - Long Term Disability Insurance - Two weeks paid vacation - Work with a talented and fun loving staff team - 403B matching 6% (available July 1st, following completion of 1year of service) SUPPORT YOU RAISE - $1,958 a month for your salary YFC PROVIDES - Training costs - Mileage reimbursement YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 48 - Mailing, postage and office cost - Insurance YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 49 5.2 Part-time Staff There is much more variance allowed for in the hiring of part-time staff than full-time staff. Their hours can range from being paid to minister 5 hours per week to 29 hours per week. Since some of the part-time staff employed by Campus Life are college-aged young people, we must be attentive to their needs and the challenges they face ministering with us. Our expectations and the expectations of YFC must be clearly stated. A job description is a great place to state in writing those expectations. Part-time job descriptions should reflect the number of hours expected along with the areas of responsibility given over to the individual. We have provided one example of a part-time job description for Campus Life staff below. JOB DESCRIPTION GREATER LANSING YOUTH FOR CHRIST CAMPUS LIFE INTERNSHIP JOB DESCRIPTION - September 1st – May 31st - 12 hours per week - 4 RMA’S - Club - 3 additional RMA’s - Training – - Once a month Ministry Team training - Once a month “Rookie” training Relational Ministry Actions C_________ C_____________________ B______________ T_________ A______________________ S__________ G____________ S____________ L__________________ T__________ & E___________ S________________ R________________ S________________ T____________ M_____________ T__________ OTHER INFO: - Club assignment - will be worked out on an individual basis, taking into consideration both the need of clubs and the desire of the intern. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 50 - The “2 year” rule - College sophomores will focus RMA’s on 9th and 10th grade students. - Supervision - will mainly take place in the bi-monthly training meetings, but also through working closely with the intern’s club director. You may be asked to focus on certain RMA’s based on the training for the month and the needs of your club. FUNDRAISING: 1] THE NUMBERS You raise… - $450 a month minimum = $400 salary and $50 towards office expenses (office, mailings, receipting, social security (7.65%=31), YFC/USA (3%=12)) - Plus RMA expenses (i.e. Admissions, meals, bowling etc., .10 per mile) - Plus funds to cover trips - Pay Procedure: Paychecks are release on the 15th and the last day of the month or as soon as your support account has enough to cover it. Expenses are reimbursed monthly- your staff support account must have one paycheck ($225) balance before receiving expenses. 2] THE PROCESS May – Call for interview - Sign Acknowledgement of Internship Agreement - Get a “Fundraising Packet” including article to read and sample letters June – Put together mail list and personal introduction letter from you to friends & family - Turn in list to Office Manager. Address envelopes by hand. Copy fold & stuff July - 1st letters out, 10 days later - Organizational letter including tear off “pledge card.” Monthly - support team letter or Frontlines (with receipt if they gave that month). July & August - build your support base. September – start the 1st if you have the minimum: $450 cash in your account and $450 in monthly pledges. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 51 5.3. Volunteers As long as Campus Life has existed, we have been multiplying the fruit of our ministry through volunteers. Mobilizing large numbers of adult volunteers can be very effective and productive in accomplishing our ultimate goal of “reaching every young person, in every people group, in our ministry site with the lifechanging message of Jesus Christ…” Many national Youth For Christ programs around the world struggle with limited resources. In fact in nations where YFC is experiencing abundant fruit (e.g. Thailand YFC, Sri Lanka YFC, and many others!) it is not unusual to find one full-time staff person leading and developing more than 100 volunteers in ministry. Since they are committed to reaching “every” young person, they understand the value of volunteers. Let’s begin our study of volunteers by taking a close look at the Biblical value of volunteers. 5.3.1 Valuing Volunteers The truest value of a volunteer is not seen in the number of lives they are touching for the Kingdom, their upfront skills, nor the number of students they lead to Jesus Christ in a given school year. Though we want a volunteer to possess and develop certain skills, aptitudes, motivations and attitudes, we place value on volunteer ministry because of three undeniable Biblical principles: it is the norm for Kingdom work to multiply ministry through volunteers, Jesus Christ modeled using volunteers Himself and with volunteers involved better discipleship takes place. As you explore what the Scriptures say about volunteers doing ministry, examine your own attitudes and behaviors with a desire to adjust your life and ministry to embrace these timeless principles of God’s Word. Many of us are tempted to serve as “Lone Ranger” missionaries. Often times, we perceive ourselves as the only ones who can accomplish the task of reaching lost young people and discipling them into local churches. When we are most honest, we admit that at times we believe we can do it better than anyone else. The result can be devastating to an individual as we “use” them because to hand out pencils, not to build significant relationships with students. When we stop looking for good volunteers, stop asking for help, stop investing in others in order to develop their relational ministry skills, we can begin to push God out. His plans for reaching the lost and ministering to the needy always include broken, struggling “volunteers” as His servants. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 52 The first Biblical Principle calling us to value volunteers is simply that it is the norm for Kingdom work to multiply ministry through volunteers. From Genesis to Revelation, God’s volunteer team includes Noah, Abraham, Lot, Isaac, Rebekkah, Miriam, Moses, Aaron, Jethro, Joshua, Rahab, Deborah, Ruth, David, Uriah, Solomon, Esther, Job, Elijah, Elisha, Jeremiah, Daniel, Jesus, the twelve apostles, Timothy, Silas, Barnabas and many, many more. The service offered by these men and women was voluntary; there was no salary or benefit package. The only sure reward for each of them was His enduring presence. They were rarely condemned for their failures and regardless of the results, they were always loved deeply by their supervisor. According to the scriptural account of God’s unfolding work on Planet Earth, The Kingdom of God advances primarily through a volunteer movement. Isn’t it interesting that it is more difficult to list the names of the “full-time paid” Kingdom workers than those who volunteered their time, energy, efforts and resources. As leaders called to a critical mission in the Kingdom of God, we must submit to the Biblical principle, volunteers accomplishing ministry is the norm for all Kingdom work, even if it means changing the ways we do ministry. The second Biblical Principle calling us to value volunteers is Jesus Christ modeled using volunteers Himself. Niteshet, the (volunteer) National Director of Thailand YFC says, “Trying to reach your community without a team of volunteers is like an ant trying to eat an elephant.” Niteshet believes he needs 100,000 ants (and then some) to eat one elephant. Jesus makes a similar statement when he instructs us to pray for more workers. (Matthew 9:34- 38) The world will not be won for Christ apart from larger, more effective teams of volunteers. Catch the heart of Jesus. He built His life and molded His heart into the lives of 12 men. He mobilized them. He developed them. He empowered them to do the work of reaching the world with His life-changing message. And He designed it so the 12 disciples (and now we) had to do it through the efforts of others, namely unpaid, volunteers, who had little to give in terms of time, resources and experience. Now it is our choice whether we do ministry His way or make excuses to do it our own way! (It is noteworthy that these 12 “volunteers” moved to a certain kind of 1st century “full-time” status later in their ministries. Volunteers to this day often rise up to become some of the Kingdoms best ministers!) The bottom-line according to the scriptures overall and to Jesus Christ’s ministry specifically is, The Kingdom of God advances primarily through a volunteer movement. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 53 The final Biblical principle driving Campus Life staff to value volunteers is with volunteers involved better discipleship takes place. No one person has the ability to reach every young person and yet the word “every” is at the heart of our mission statement. We have the opportunity to strategically use Kingdom resources by multiplying our efforts through adult volunteers. We have the privilege of discipling people in their abiding walks with Jesus, which includes learning how to do ministry. Take a look at Romans 12:3-8, Ephesians 4:11-15, I Corinthians 12 and II Timothy 2:2. “You have heard me teach many things that have been confirmed by many reliable witnesses. Teach these great truths to trustworthy people who are able to pass them on to others.” The more committed we become to multiplying ourselves and our ministries into and through the lives of volunteers, the closer we come to advancing God’s Kingdom God’s way. The value of a volunteer is that they are called by God to impact His Kingdom on earth. Our job, as Kingdom leaders, is to help volunteers fit into the right places of ministry. Remember, The Kingdom of God advances primarily through a volunteer movement. We have the awesome responsibility of seeing to it that the Kingdom moves forward, advancing God’s way. One of the crucial ways we can value volunteers is through being crystal clear about our expectations for them. What follows is one example of a Volunteer Job Description. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 54 YFC/Campus Life Volunteer Job Description Purpose • • • • • • • • • For staff to grow through leadership and ministry opportunities. For YFC to reach more students through volunteer staff ministry. Expectations Growing relationship with Christ Desire to be with students & influence them to know & follow Christ Involvement in local Church. Good reputation - positive example in speech, conduct, attitude, love, & purity. Understanding & appreciation of YFC/Campus Life’s purpose, goals, & style. Desire to represent YFC/CL on campus, at church, & in the community. Willingness to listen, learn, and lead. Duties • Attend Campus Life meetings and events. • Attend staff meetings Monday at 5:30 & one Sunday each month. • Actively pursue relationship building with teenagers. • Visit students for lunch & school functions - meet their friends. • Lead discussions, skits, study groups, planning sessions as requested. • Help with set-up, crowd control, & games. • Complete a weekly RMA report. • Meet with your CL director once per semester. • Attend YFC Banquet, Go Mad, Spring Fling, and Volunteer Staff retreats I understand the expectations and duties of a YFC/Campus Life Volunteer Staff and agree to do all I can to comply. Signed_____________________________________________Date________________________ Name _____________________________________________Phone_______________________ YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 55 6. Campus Life Context By Context in ministry we are referring to the circumstances surrounding the occurrence of Campus Life in our communities. Context is like the atmosphere in which Campus Life breathes; it is the structure or parameters within which ministry must function. For Campus Life to function best in our communities there are three ongoing tasks we ought to practice. We should first map our ministry site, which initially involves the process of funding and later demands that we obtain a deeper grasp of our community’s personality and characteristics. For a thorough explanation of the later phase of “mapping” see the Appendix article, A Sociological Framework for Doing Youth Ministry, by Dr. Dave Rahn. Secondly we must know our specific ministry site, which begins by preparing to start Campus Life from scratch. Finally, to thoroughly engage in the context of our ministry sites, we must strategize with the Body of Christ. The two groups of believers to strategize with are our support teams and our networks. What follows is a practical explanation of how to learn the context for our ministries. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 56 6.1 Mapping Your Ministry Context Funding a new Ministry For ministry to develop a solid foundation in a community, raising money is very important. In order for the ministry to continue for years to come, we need to practice some solid fundraising principles right from the start. To start ministry, we need to develop a start-up committee, which happens through making connections with the school, local churches, and various people in the community. Many people need to be invited to an initial meeting where the ministry of Campus Life is described in detail. At this informational meeting people will acquire a foundational education about YFC, including three commitments that are necessary to the beginning of solid ministry. " A certain level of money needs to be raised by the community. " A Campus Life staff will be provided by YFC once the money has been raised. " A start-up committee needs to be developed, one whose members are from that community. This start-up committee needs to include 7-10 individuals or couples, many representing many church denominations in the area. These start-up committees are the forerunner to an ongoing ministry site support team. They need to begin gathering 1-2 times a month for the following purposes: " Prayer for direction and God’s guidance " Updates concerning the response of people who have been informed about YFC since the last meeting. This would include faculty from the school, churches, business people from the community, etc. " Updates concerning the amount of money in pledges that has been raised. Funding begins as Campus Life informs the start-up committee about what level of funds need to be raised before a full-time staff person can be hired for their ministry site (school). A goal for our communities should be that they raise half of the needed funds for that ministry. As this group gathers for their meetings, it is important to always have pledge cards available for those who are in attendance. Money is often raised through those who are involved as committee members in this beginning stage of the ministry. It is also important to get into the churches in the community during this time. Let the church community know what Campus Life/YFC is attempting to accomplish. The role of Campus Life during this season of ministry is to serve as a resource to the community. Attend all committee meetings, answering questions, and being available to communicate the future vision. Be prepared to set up appointments with YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 57 faculty at the school, business people in the community, and staff at local churches. The community has to be active in opening doors to relationships in the new ministry area. YFC has to be the ones to encourage and challenge the community to prepare themselves for the birth of a new Campus Life ministry. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 58 6.2 Knowing Your Ministry Site . . . Starting from Scratch To administrators, teachers and students it's a high school, but it's a mission field to us. A majority of the students would love Campus Life and would be interested in our message. They just don't know it yet. As we learn more about our community, we (and Campus Life) become more a part of it. Every positive contact increases Campus Life's visibility and opens doors for community support. The following are important considerations in the start-up process, but there’s no need to attempt a new start-up alone. Assistance is available from the National Service Center and/or a chapter with a strong Campus Life history. We start from scratch only once; let’s do it right! Not only will our ministries be stronger, the reputation that builds from our clubs impact the entire area. Nothing helps start new school ministries more than a successful club in another local school district. 6.2.1. HOW WE START A CAMPUS LIFE MINISTRY A. THE HIGH SCHOOL COMMUNITY Let’s talk to anyone who can tell us anything about the school. Students, parents and alumni can give us valuable information about your school's unique personality. We will also gain valuable allies who are excited that we are starting Campus Life, which in turn lends credibility to church and administration contacts. Knowledge of the school calendar, schedules for athletic events and fine arts programs, and the major rivalries will better prepare us to be a part of the life of the school. B. THE STUDENTS We ought to meet as many students as possible. It will be most natural for us to meet the friends of the students we already know. We need to be careful, however, that we do not end up contacting only within one clique or social group. It’s a good idea to intentionally introduce ourselves to the key leaders in each class and interest group. A good goal is to know one hundred students by name before announcing the first official meeting. Even in established clubs, a goal of meeting fifty new students each fall before the kickoff meeting, will help Campus Life continue to reach more groups within the school - especially the new freshmen class. Christian students tend to bring other Christians. They have trained themselves to think that their non-Christian friends would not be interested in anything "religious." With encouragement they might invite non-Christians friends. We YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 59 ought to make it a point to introduce ourselves to their friends whenever possible. A successful start-up meeting should include at least 50% non-Christian students. We will need to take some initiative to meet key non-Christian leaders and sell them on the idea of Campus Life. An effective brochure, defining Campus Life as meetings, events and trips, can give new students a bigger picture of Campus Life and will also answer some questions for their parents. C. THE ADMINISTRATION We need to make an appointment to meet with the principal. If a parent or teacher, who is respected by the principal, can call ahead or go along, we gain credibility. On the other hand, a parent or teacher who has been a problem in the district or is perceived as particularly “religious” could bias the administration against us from the start. Be wise here. The primary goal of this appointment is to simply inform an administrator, preferably the principal, what Campus Life is all about. They want to know that we are accountable to a responsible organization, that we are not going to create constant controversy for them and that we are not there to proselytize or pressure students in any way. Principals do not like surprises. Leave an attractive brochure with a non-Christian-friendly description of Campus Life, endorsement letters from other area school administrators and a business card. A secondary goal is to ask about school policy for clubs. We should try to accomplish the following: 1) Find out if we need to find a faculty sponsor, or fill out a form in the student activities office. The more we function like the other clubs in the school, the more quickly the school will accept us. 2) Without assuming any privileges (because we are guaranteed none) ask which channels of communication the school makes available for clubs (P.A., posters, bulletin boards, newspaper, yearbook). 3) Request permission for staff to be in the building during lunch (runthrus). Our primary purpose is to remind students we already know about club and other Campus Life events and trips. As club grows, we will know hundreds of students. Being present in their world is the best way to communicate with them. If the principal is hesitant to allow run-thrus, we can offer to restrict our contacts to only those students we know (and the friends they introduce us to). This will alleviate any fear of us "pressuring" YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 60 students. We can also offer to check in at the office, come in only once or twice a week, and hang out in one or two designated areas. None of these “concessions” significantly lessen the benefits of run-thrus. It is always worth whatever process we need to go through to end up with the privilege on being in the school. In the worst case, an after school run-thru is better than nothing. 4) Offer to assist at school events. Don’t expect them to start calling daily, but we can offer our help anyway. Chaperoning dances, taking tickets at a game, or working concessions all give us visibility in the community. Helping out in an area or interest and expertise such as sports, cheerleading, drama, music, debate or language clubs can also be a great “in.” On the other hand, taking primary responsibility as a coach or advisor can become a huge distraction and confuse our role in a school. While discussing school events, we will be smart to ask whom we should see about requesting an athletic pass, whether it is free or if we need to pay. 5) Encourage the administration to give us feedback throughout the year. Make sure they feel free to call if they have questions or hear of any problems associated with Campus Life. This lets them know we want a good relationship with the school, and may enable us to dispel a rumor before it grows. D. PARENTS There are likely two levels that we will meet parents. Depending on local chapter structures, some parents will be involved as donors, and others as support team members or a part of community support groups. We will want to take advantage of every opportunity to meet other parents as we get to know their teenagers. Parents, like administrators, want to know how Campus Life is structured and supervised, and if we are affiliated with a particular church or denomination. They also will ask what we are teaching their kids and who writes our curriculum. Use the portion of Campus Life’s definition (see 4.2) that you think is most beneficial to positive communication with parents. E. AREA CHURCHES Visit the pastors and youth pastors of area churches. We can use a supportive parent who attends the church to make the appointment, or at least open the door for us whenever possible. A YFC brochure and a business card are great tools to have available. We should always be ready to fill in the details of YFC’s global or local history. Our primary purpose on our first visit, as with the school administrator, is to share information. We want them to know what is going on YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 61 with Campus Life and we want to discover what is going on in the church. It is definitely NOT to ask them to support us financially! After thoughtful introductions, we should find out what is happening in their church and begin to build our relationship. We should be careful to address each of the following as soon as we have opportunity: 1) Campus Life's mission of reaching unchurched students and purpose of "leading them into the local church." 2) The potential of Christian students using Campus Life as a tool to reach their friends. 3) The natural bridge into the church created when churched teenagers are involved in their Campus Life club. 4) How Campus Life reinforces a youth group experience by giving Christian students an effective way to live out their faith during the week, in their world. 5) Having said statements 2 – 4, it is not our desire to compete for leadership kids and we make every effort to not conflict with scheduled church activities. When confronted with a choice between a church event and a Campus Life event our staff will always say, “go to church.” It’s smart to talk with the most supportive churches first as we build community support. We should be prepared to offer YFC’s statement of faith when asked and become aware of the doctrinal differences and potential questions clergy may ask. Veteran staff may be a great help to those of us who feel illprepared for these meetings. We should never pretend to know something we really don't know or try to make YFC fit theologically where we really don’t fit! YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 62 6.3 The Body of Christ in Your Ministry Site Within the Body of Christ there are two groups of believers with whom Campus Life staff need to strategize. To effectively engage in the accurate context of our ministry sites, we should learn and follow these basic concepts. Keep in mind that context is something one learns and adjusts to in order to operate within its parameters effectively. So our goal is not to change the context, but to learn to breath the air that makes up the atmosphere in our communities. 6.3.1. STRATEGY: YOUR SUPPORT TEAM Your Support Team is made up of Christian adults whom you recruit through local churches in your community. In our relational ministry strategy, a “Support Team” is officially defined as “mobilizing a team of Christian adults for prayer, counsel, and financial support for a ministry site.” This team is crucial to the fruitfulness and longevity of the Campus Life ministry because they own the ministry at a level designed to outlive any one individual Campus Life director. This team also supplies the major manpower behind the process of funding the ministry. These team members should become your greatest allies and advocates in the community. 6.3.2. STRATEGY: YOUR NETWORK - PARTNERING WITH CHURCHES (by Greg McKinnon, youth pastor, network member and friend of Campus Life in East Alabama YFC) What would the ideal relationship between Campus Life and local churches look like, and how can you, as a YFC staff member, help develop these kinds of relationships? These are important questions for every Campus Life director to ask because whether you have worked with Campus Life one month or ten years you have probably discovered that the relationship Campus Life has to the churches in the area can either hinder or enhance your ability to reach kids for Christ. To answer this question, we will look first at what the ideal relationship with a specific church might look like and then we will explore ways that kind of relationship can be built. Before we bring clarity to the issues at hand, keep in mind that the ideal relationship is just that, an ideal. It is what you would like to see, what you will have as your goal, but realistically it will never be the kind of relationship you have with every church in your area. Chances are much greater that some churches (at least initially) will not even know Campus Life exists, others will be somewhat supportive, a few will be partners with Campus Life in reaching youth for Christ and a few might be antagonistic toward the movement of Youth For Christ. Your goal is to start where a church is and try to move them gradually toward a place of full partnership. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 63 The Ideal Campus Life/Church Relationship: The temptation that confronts us when describing the perfect Campus Life/church relationship is to consider it only from the Campus Life perspective. From this viewpoint it is easy to describe the ideal relationship. The church makes a considerable financial commitment to Campus Life, provides a pool of volunteers to recruit from, never complains about church/Campus Life scheduling conflicts, and sends every Campus Life staff member on a free vacation to the Bahamas once a year. But relationships are not one-sided and the ideal relationship is not an “I benefit, you don’t,” arrangement, but a, “We are partners” situation. The ideal relationship (our ultimate goal) is to enter into a partnership with a church that will maximize the number of youth who are reached for Christ and who are discipled in the faith. What This Partnership Looks Like: A partnership between a local church and Campus Life would ideally include all of the following: • The church furnishes leaders who work with their youth to help the Campus Life ministry. • The church provides youth to serve on the Student Leadership Team. • Campus Life requires student leaders to be involved in a discipleship group in the local church. • As part of the discipling process, when students make decisions for Christ, Campus Life makes every effort to help those students get plugged into local churches. • The youth leaders of the church cooperate with Campus Life on special outreach events. • Both groups communicate with one another to avoid scheduling conflicts when possible. • YFC provides resources (training, materials, etc.) for the church to better equip its leaders and student leaders. • The church makes a financial investment in YFC. You will immediately notice that this is truly a partnership with benefits for both partners. Campus Life gets leaders (adult and student), receives help with special events, avoids scheduling conflicts and is supported financially. The church is given an outlet for kids in discipleship groups to serve as “missionaries” to Campus Life, benefits from new youth coming into the youth group and receives training and support. All Campus Life staff members, as well as church leaders, would probably agree that this partnership benefits everyone involved. So how can you develop these kinds of partnerships? Or better yet, how can you move churches from antagonism toward tolerance, or from mere tolerance to becoming genuinely supportive, and—best of all—from being supportive to establishing true partnerships? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 64 Getting Started: Your first step in forming a partnership with churches is to meet with every youth worker. Invite them out to lunch so you can get to know them and let them know what Campus Life is all about. If you have a hard time getting an appointment, try getting a young person from the church that is involved in Campus Life (or their parent) to introduce you. In your meeting you need to: • Explain the purpose of Campus Life. • Find out what is going on in their church. • Let them know that Campus Life believes students who are not involved in a church before they graduate from high school are in trouble. • Invite them to “own” Campus life in ways that will benefit their ministries. • Make it clear that one of your goals is to make them look good to their youth, their pastor and their congregation and that you are available to help them. • Assure them that you want to work together to reach youth for Christ. Avoid Conflicts through Communication: One of the quickest ways to cause a youth worker to be antagonistic toward Campus Life is to plan a big event at the same time their youth group is having a big event. Of course not all conflicts are avoidable, but many are through good communication. Email all the youth workers in the area and ask them for a calendar of their upcoming events. Compile these along with the events that Campus Life has planned and email it back to everyone. Let them know that you want to work with them in case of a conflict. They will appreciate your effort to avoid scheduling problems even when it is not possible. The goal is to open up the lines of communication. Assure every youth worker that you are available and want to talk to him or her if they have any questions about anything Campus Life is doing. Youth Workers Need Fellowship Too: Many cities have local youth worker fellowships where youth leaders come together to encourage one another, pray together and work together on special activities such as an event before or after “See You At The Pole.” If there is a youth worker fellowship in your area, get involved. It is a great way to get to know the other youth workers. If there is not one, start one! It would be a great way to serve the youth workers in your area and experience the benefits of the fellowship at the same time. Our local Youth For Christ office keeps an e-mail list of all the area youth workers and when the fellowship meets twice a month they send out an e-mail reminder and most of the time someone from their office calls everyone to invite them to the meeting. I know all the Campus Life folks are just as busy as I am, so I appreciate the extra effort they put into getting us together and I try to help them out when they need it. Youth Leaders Need Resources and Training: One way to strengthen your relationship with the area churches is by providing them with resources and training. The Campus Life office should serve as a resource center for every youth ministry in the area with books on crowd breakers, games, skits, YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 65 programming, Bible study and discipleship; video resources and much more. Let the youth leaders know what you have available and that they are welcome to borrow them. At the same time stay up to date on new resources and offer to order items that people might be interested in. Our YFC Area Director made the pre and post “See You at the Pole” devotional books available for us to order. I could have ordered them myself, but I wouldn’t have without his help. Not only can you offer youth workers resources, but you can also offer training for them and their kids. If you have someone coming into town from the YFC National Service Center or another expert coming in for some reason, set up a time for them to meet with local youth leaders. I have received great input on youth culture and other subjects through our YFC staff. Following one the of the DC/LA events, Campus Life organized an area-wide training for students on how to share their faith using the “Live to Tell” materials from the conference. By offering resources and training you strengthen the church youth ministries and build a closer relationship with the youth leaders. Don’t be Afraid to Ask: After you have developed a relationship with a youth worker and know that they understand and appreciate what Campus Life does, ask them if they would be interested in being a Campus Life partner church. Every partnership agreement can be custom designed, but our church’s partnership with Campus Life means that we furnish leaders for the Club, and provide youth to serve on the leadership team. Campus Life requires youth from our group to be involved in one of our discipleship groups in order to serve as a student leader and they try to get youth involved in either our church or one of the other partner churches when they do not have a church preference. We both agree to communicate with each other about planned events and to work together on a few events during the year. Our church also makes a financial commitment to Campus Life. We have a great partnership, but it would have never happened if our Area Director had not asked us if we would like to become a partner with them in reaching youth for Christ. The bottom line is this – THE RESPONSIBLITY TO INITIATE CHURCH PARTNERSHIPS RESTS ON THE SHOULDERS OF YOUTH FOR CHRIST. In many cities, towns, and counties, Campus Life is in the best position to lead networking. One great resource to help you with partnerships and networks is the National Network of Youth Ministries. NNYM can be contacted at www.youthworker.net their address is 12335 World Trade Drive Suite 16 San Diego, CA 92128 or call them today at 1-800-367-6696. Joining is free! Many of the regional and national leaders of the National Network of Youth Ministries are YFC/Campus Life staff. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 66 7. Campus Life Young People 7.1 Becoming Youth Culture Experts As missionaries who travel in the world of young people it’s not unfair to expect that we bring some youth culture expertise to our jobs. Our mission assumes that we will reach young people where they live. That assumption alone will require us to become students of youth culture. It’s where they live. If we take some time to reflect on just the language training foreign-field missionaries do to prepare for their work we can appreciate our own need to become fluent as “youth-ese” conversationalists and knowledgeable of the specific dialects affecting teens. We need to study adolescent culture and constantly be looking for ways to help young people bridge the gospel message and lifestyle back into the world in which they live. YFC staff ought to become both general youth culture conversationalists and specific dialect experts of the young people among whom they work. 7.1.1 General Expertise General youth culture expertise is that which can be learned through study and mass media exposure. It is through such generally accessible information that we may discover, for instance, that around 25% of our United States population will likely be Hispanic in the year 2050 (US Census Bureau estimates). Or we may become aware that media and marketing have contributed to establishing a global youth culture based upon adolescent experience, where young people from different countries may actually have more in common with each other than with those from their native lands (Offer, et. al., 1988, The Teenage World. Plenum Medical). We could learn through such means about phenomenon of the Osbournes and how many young people watch them on MTV. Is it important to know that 44% of high school seniors have never been involved in a religious youth group during their adolescent years? (Smith, Denton, Faris, & Regenerus. 2002. Mapping American Adolescent Religious Participation. Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion, 41 (4), 597-612.) Or that among 12th grade students “only the most frequent religious service attenders are significantly less likely than non-attenders to have used drugs in the last year?” (Smith & Faris. 2002. Religion and American Adolescent Delinquency, Risk Behaviors and Constructive Social Activities. National Study of Youth and Religion, Research Report #1, p. 18.) Would it be valuable to learn that frequent Bible reading is one of the few strong predictors that a young person making a pledge to remain sexually pure until marriage might be able to keep that pledge? (Rahn. 1999. Youthfest Research Study. www.linkinstitute.com.) Much of this information is a bit off the beaten path, but it is accessible for those YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 67 hungry to learn. Therein lies the key. We won’t become well-educated experts in youth culture without being willing to dig out the available knowledge. The bottom line is that we have to work hard at staying abreast of youth culture. Some will find it useful to subscribe to newsletters or magazines that help condense the volumes of information into usable forms. Christian and secular seminars are also available to help us stay current. An occasional tour through a bookstore can provide some illuminating insights; the same could be said for video and music stores. YFC/USA Ministries will regularly suggest sources that are either especially rich in content or efficient in summarizing important information related to adolescents. For the staff person committed to cultivating general expertise in youth culture, it’s not that hard to find what we need. 7.1.2 Specific Expertise Specific youth culture expertise is that which is largely learned through direct experience and observation. It is based upon knowledge that can normally be gained only through a considerable investment of time and attention. In many cases, it is an expertise that we cultivate naturally because we have lived in the culture in the past as teenagers ourselves. When we attempt to walk in this familiar culture in the present we have the advantage of ministering in their world with an insider’s expertise. For example, while there are not many YFC staff who might understand a sub-culture of gothic young people, there are likely some from our ranks who grew up among these dark, black-clothed teens. This doesn’t mean that there might not be available material from general sources that can be used to enhance our understanding of a specific adolescent group. The richness of story in some movies or music videos are often lodged in particular experiences. Some research is of the ethnographic variety, allowing the researcher to plunge into a unique culture for investigation. But none of these sources can automatically be labeled as authoritative when we want to learn about, say, the backyard fight club culture that has emerged in a small town in the Midwest. Or the gang activity in that same town. In fact, prior experience in working with particular gangs is no guarantee that our knowledge is sufficient for ministry to a different group of gang-involved teens. We best cultivate specific youth culture expertise when we define the boundaries of the culture and plunge in with eyes wide open. It may take some “walk-around” time simply to figure out what sub-cultures even exist. That’s OK. Our immersion does not only serve our cultural learning curve. It is also how we build relationships of trust and rapport so that the gospel message might be YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 68 heard and understood. Our goal in becoming experts is in no way an arrogant attempt to gain knowledge for the sake of knowledge. We seek to build significant, trustworthy relationships that allow us to live and preach the gospel in relevant, credible ways. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 69 7.2 A General Profile of Campus Life Young People The young people involved in Campus Life are generally high school aged ninth through twelfth graders who are traditionally encountered through the varied social networks surrounding public senior high schools, private schools and home schools. Their high school years are undoubtedly difficult and often confusing times that result in the defining of key values, the establishing of relational patterns and the formation of spiritual meaning and direction. The high school years therefore are also a strategic time to help young people explore the great personal issues of life that impact the course of their future. The decisions made during this four-year period have a dramatic effect on the balance of their life choices. The end of their high school experience often signals the beginning of their distribution throughout society—and into its less distinct shadows of social life. High school teenagers today find themselves in a frightening and turbulent world. Many of their grandparents’ values are no longer observable in their homes and communities. While the world testifies to economic and technological progress teens often experience deep relational loss. Oftentimes their relationships have been casualties of a success and achievement-oriented culture. The high school years are a critical time for persons to both discover and truly own their relationship with Jesus. We should expect that young people who are active in Campus Life come from all walks of teenage life. They aren’t just the “jocks” or the “goths” or the “band geeks.” Actually, they represent all of these groups and much more. In fact, in Campus Life we want to find teenagers who cut into every social, academic, athletic, artistic and religious portion of the life of a given high school. Because we are working toward a ministry to a diverse and varied group of kids, we must become students of the young people with whom we work. An exact formula for staying current does not exist, however there are many resources that can help us to stay fresh and well informed concerning teenagers and the general teenage culture. One way to stay current is to read as much as your brain can handle about the culture. Some current books that will enable us to understand young people are God at the Mall by Pete Ward, The Bridger Generation by Thom R. Rainer The Youth Builder by Burns and DeVries Called To Greatness by Ron Hutchcraft Contagious Faith by Rahn and Linhart The Coming Revolution in Youth Ministry, by Mark Senter Street Trends by Janine Lopiano-Misom & Joanne DeLuca YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 70 Jesus for a New Generation: the Gospel in the Language of the Xer’s by Kevin Graham Ford A Primer on Postmodernism by Stanely Grenz A Tribe Apart: A Journey into American Adolescence by Patricia Hersch Understanding Today’s Youth Culture by Walt Mueller The Appendix offers an extensive Recommended Reading List, which includes our Top Ten Best Books for Campus Life Staff. As you attempt to understand and know the young people you minister to in the context of Campus Life, please don’t underestimate the power of knowledge secured through the research and work of gifted writers who have made it their life’s work to accurately describe and explain the evolving world of teenagers. Although there is excellent work being done in the Christian sector (George Barna, Dr. Dave Rahn, Walt Mueller and many others), much of the best work is also being done in the secular world. Just as we should read critically, searching for the truth and not blindly believing everything we read, we must also not disregard the writings of secular experts. For a more extensive list of fantastic reading material on youth ministry consult the appendix at the end of this manual. Another way to learn more about the profile of the teenager is through research experts. Walt Mueller is probably one of the best sources of accurate data concerning teenagers today. His bi-weekly online newsletter is easy to find and free. His organization’s (The Center for Parent and Youth Understanding) expertise both in writing and in person is easily accessible to Campus Life staff. Through CPYU’s email address you can receive lots of helpful information concerning today’s youth culture [eupdate@cpyu.org]. Youth Specialties is another great source of ideas. YS can be reached through their website [youthspecialties.com]. More and more organizations are developing expertise and understanding of today’s youth culture. Since Campus Life continues to serve on the front lines of the culture, we must make use of the excellent work of other members of the Christian community. We might not have time to do the actual research on youth culture, but we can learn from those who are called to do it! Other ways to stay current in your understanding of the youth culture is to watch the movies and TV programs teenagers are watching, listening to the music they enjoy, become a student of what they are drawn to. Stay as current with ‘where kids are at’ as you possibly can. The overall shifts and changes in the culture can often be predicted by what occurs on the west and east coasts of our nation. What is happening in Los Angeles and New York today are often the trends that follow for the rest of the nation tomorrow. So, watch what is happening, read the newspaper and popular magazines, become a student of teenagers so that you can love them more effectively in Jesus name. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 71 Perhaps the best way to stay in touch with students today is to go where they are, regularly asking questions of their likes and dislikes, etc. As you hang out with students on their turf, you will easily identify trends in their culture. Then, you can let your creativity take over! We are called by God to serve in the trenches with kids, where they live and work and grow up. In light of that calling, we must also responsibly understand them, their culture and their needs. Being a student of the youth culture and understanding the young people under our care means we have to use what is available to us to become experts of teenagers from the vantage point of the front line battle zone. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 72 7.3 A Campus Life Ministry Site-Specific Profile of Young People In many cities, towns and counties across America, the high school is often the funnel of the community. (Nearly everybody goes through it!) It creates common ground and common interest for almost everyone. Scan the pages of any neighborhood newspaper and you will see that high school is one of the main focuses of community interest. Parents, teachers, administrators and community officials who may other wise be impregnable to almost everything else, have at least one common value with Campus Life: they are concerned about teenagers, especially their own. High school is also the last time a specific age group may be together. Once graduation is over, the cohort splits forever. Distinctives blend in with the rest of their generation of young people, while the group’s uniqueness is lost except to the wise student of the culture. Campus Life ministry staff, paid and volunteer, must position themselves as students not only of the general youth culture, but just as important, of their specific ministry site(s). Developing a “Site-Specific Profile of Young People,” means that Campus Life staff members work hard to know their campus and the community where the campus exists better than anyone else. Your ministry site is the high school where you work, where you are attempting to reach every young person, in every people group in that community. Some of us in Campus Life have more than one ministry site. You might have two or more schools you are responsible for reaching. What ever your specific situation, each school represents a different ministry site to which God and YFC is calling you to minister. “Being a student of your ministry site” means you engage in at least five areas of learning and research in order to more fully understand and connect with your students and your community. The end result will be that you can earn credibility. You are able to know your way around politically, religiously, relationally, spiritually and academically. You can be respected and looked to for help and advise. To begin to know your ministry site, you must engage in the first area of learning and research: PRAYING FOR YOUR SCHOOL. Begin immediately praying for students, teachers, problem areas in the school, the spiritual battle that is no doubt raging on the school grounds as well as in you and the Campus Life volunteers. Pray that God would show you areas that need His attention, people in need, situations that are too desperate for human intervention. Begin to talk to Him about your ministry site often. Your connection with Him and your intercession for the school is the best learning and research yon can engage in! OBTAINING AND STUDYING COPIES OF IMPORTANT PUBLICATIONS will serve as your second area of learning and research. Order a school year book immediately. Get to know the students and adults who work on this project. They are potentially the YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 73 school’s best researchers! Once you have one, begin to study it, even going so far as to learn student’s names and other information. (We suggest during your first year with Campus Life or serving at a new ministry site, obtain a copy of last year’s yearbook in order to get a start on your learning and research.) One ministry staff person we know took the yearbook memorized dozens of names and initiated contact with those students on campus at school events etc. Eventually some of those kids came to know Jesus through the staff person’s disciplined use of the yearbook to help her “cold contact” young people. By the Lord’s initiation through this staff person, students were “wowed” that someone took the time to get to know them. Don’t forget the school newspaper, the school district’s calendar of events and holidays, community newspapers, and any underground newspapers written and printed by students for students. Third, STRATEGICALLY INITIATE CONTACT WITH KEY ADULTS IN YOUR SCHOOL AND IN YOUR COMMUNITY. As you get to know students you should also get to know the adults who lead and order the world of those kids where you hope to have an impact. This area of leaning and research includes meeting and when the Lord leads, extending an authentic hand of friendship to teachers, coaches, administrators (especially the principal and the activities director), office staff, social workers, guidance counselors, cafeteria and hall monitors, police officers, and anyone who interacts with the students you want to reach in Jesus name. To initiate contact strategically means you create a plan, perhaps over the course of a three-year commitment to a specific ministry site, to initiate contact with every teacher and administrator in your school. The outcome might be that you know the names and areas of responsibility of all of these adults. We can only imagine how much credibility this kind of learning and research will earn for the ministry of Campus Life and ultimately for the gospel of Jesus Christ. You move from being perceived as a religious person who very few people understand, to a trusted member of the community and in some cases as a faithful friend. Be careful to initiate contact with as many nonChristian adults as possible. Please don’t play it safe by meeting only Christians. Next, DISCOVER THE DISTINCTIVES OF YOUR SCHOOL. What is your school’s greatest strength and greatest weakness? How is your school honored above other area schools and around the nation? What reoccurring problems haunt the life of your school? Which activities are “cool” to be a part of? Which teachers are most respected and sought after? By answering these and a huge array of other questions you can learn a lot about your kids and the environment they are living in. As you initiate contact with adults ask some of these questions. Attend as many school functions as possible, sitting with the people you are meetings and getting to know. Positioning yourself as a student means you learn to ask questions and listen as people share their opinions and their history and their perceptions. In reality they are sharing their story and the story of your school. Listen well!!! YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 74 The fifth and final area of learning and research you must engage in is DISCOVERING THE OTHER ORGANIZATIONS THAT IMPACT YOUR SCHOOL. Who else is attempting to invest in the lives of teenagers at your ministry site? Are there churches, parachurch organizations, or community organizations that have earned credibility? For example, in one town where Campus Life is strong, the local atheist organization is just as strong. Knowing who is impacting young people in your town, city or county will help you in prayer; it will help you to know with whom to partner; it will help you to answer the questions of concerned adults. Lastly, in terms of developing a profile of the young people at your ministry site, the best thing you can do is spend time in their world. Be certain that you and your volunteers are gaining access to every crevice and cranny of the population of your school. Be certain that a good percentage of your time is spent getting to the lost, being where they are, in their world. Don’t be afraid to spend time with kids who say the “F” word and don’t really care what you think about that. As you study the remainder of this manual, you will gain the skills and information to help you stay on the cutting edge of your ministry site and the specific young people to whom you are ministering. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 75 8. Campus Life Relational Ministry Actions 8.1 Campus Life RMA: Contacting DEFINITION: Campus Life defines Contacting as “going into the world of young people in order to initiate new relationships.” In other words we are meeting students in their world. 8.1.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE DEFINE CONTACTING AS AN RMA? While each of YFC’s core ministries recognizes that initiating relationships with lost teens is the essential foundation for their discipleship evangelism, Campus Life has also identified the necessity of contacting as a distinctive RMA for this ministry model. The biblical values behind contacting are well articulated under the relational ministry ingredient, initiate (chapter 9). Let’s explore some of the Campus Life specific reasons for including contacting as a separate relational ministry action. One key reason for doing contacting is visibility. As a staff person visits the school on a frequent basis they are seen by a large number of students, parents, and faculty. That’s a good thing. A Campus Life staff person should be visible enough at their school that the adult and student community recognize who they are. People are curious and they are watching. They want to be familiar with the adults who are involved in the life of their schools. A second reason for doing contacting is that it creates credibility with students, administrators, faculty, parents, and the church. A consistent presence catches people’s attention. The ‘you’re always here’ mentality sets in. Again, that’s a good thing. The more you are on campus, seen by students and adults alike, the more credibility you earn for Campus Life. Campus Life staff who are consistent at doing contacting, making connections with new students on a regular basis, do the best job of reaching into a lost world. If done correctly, the staff person who does contacting well has the opportunity to be the most-informed adult in the community when it comes to knowing about the students of that school. 8.1.2. HOW TO DO CONTACTING There are two necessary tasks for doing good contacting. The first is to pray. Because we are about reaching ‘every young person’ in our schools, it is necessary to meet ‘new’ students on a regular basis. Therefore, pray that you can meet a new student every time you step on campus. It is so important for us to pray that God would go before us as we go to the schools for lunch, practices, concerts, plays, and sporting events. Ask God’s Holy Spirit to help you as you initiate relationships with hundreds of students at your campus. This is His ministry, so prayer is a great place to start when you walk on the campus. Pray that God will help you to… YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 76 *Meet lost students. *Meet Christian faculty that could help you with the ministry. *Meet Christian students who might want to be student leaders. *Meet other adults who might want to help financially. *Make students feel special and noticed in a positive way. The second necessary task for doing good contacting is to pursue them. If we are to make contact with students, we must pursue them. *NOTE: When you are contacting during the school day, make sure you have first secured permission from the administration to be on campus. It is so important to build a healthy relationship with the administration of the school. If you take the time to earn credibility, there are many wonderful privileges you could receive. Once permission has been granted by administration, staff must make sure they have the right tools to get the job done. They are as follows: *Small pad of paper and a pen that fits easily in your pocket *School schedule *Sports schedule *Last year’s yearbook Once the right tools have been collected, the challenge begins. To get off to a good start it is important to begin meeting students as their school year practices begin. When do fall practices for band, cheerleading, and sports get started? It’s important to start showing up at those practices. On a weekly basis, a staff person should be at 10-15 different practices before school begins. It’s the only thing that is happening in the life of the school at this time of the year. Brainstorm some ways you can meet many of these students and coaches before school starts. Offer to bring water, popsicles or watermelon for the breaks during practices. Introduce yourself as the Campus Life director. Your goal is to wish the teams a great season as their fall practices begin. Perhaps you were involved in one of these activities or sports when you were in high school or college. You might be able to get involved in helping the band, cheerleading squad, or one of the fall sports. These are great ways to meet many students, parents, and faculty. The purpose in doing this type of contacting activity during the fall is not to invite students to your activity. The purpose is to initiate relationships, to pursue them in their world. You are simply trying to begin building bridges with lots of students and adults at your campus. Your goal is to get to know students. Do not push involvement in your program. Students may eventually ask who you are and what you do, and they may one day be interested in coming to Campus Life activities. The purpose of your contacting at this stage of each year, however, is to BEGIN relationships. You are trying to get to know names and remember them. You are making contact, initiating YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 77 relationships, and not inviting students to programs. As you continue your contacting and building relationships with students on your campus, an eventual natural next step is to invite them to come to the Campus Life club. With the Lord’s guidance, carefully decide when it is appropriate to begin inviting them to club. Students know when someone is genuinely interested in them, or is only recruiting them to a program. During early fall contacting, let’s err on the side of building relationships with students, while we wait for God to show us His timing in a student’s life. 8.1.3. HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR CONTACTING SKILLS To improve your contacting abilities, the first step is to practice. You must discipline yourself to meet new students on a weekly basis. In going to the campus, the idea is to meet new students and remember their names. Be persistent and make this part of your weekly routine. While meeting new students on a regular basis, the toughest part can be remembering so many new names. It’s important to create your own ways of remembering their names. Here are a few ideas. • Say a name three times during your first conversation. • Write it down as soon as get around the corner. • Create some kind of name for them based on a feature about them (Funny Fred, Redhead Rosie, etc.) • Use your yearbook, circle the picture, and write down something that you learned about that student • Next time you see them, use their name. Don’t just say, ‘Hey, how are you doing’? • Make a deal with students and with yourself. If you can’t remember their name after a third time of asking them what their name is, take them out for a Coke. We cannot minimize the importance of remembering names during every stage of contacting!! Once school begins, it’s important to be on school premises, if you have permission from the administration. Brainstorm ideas of how to meet students when you are in the school. Here are a few ideas. • Use a survey to take to school with you. Whatever your topic is for club for that week, create 4-5 questions that you can ask hundreds of students during your run-thru. This is a great way to meet new students and get their input on the next club meeting. • As you get to know teachers, build enough of a relationship that you might be invited to come to their classroom to participate in class. • Get students involved with you. Take a few students with you to practices, games, and plays, all for the purpose of meeting other students. What a great way to meet lots of other students. The best way to meet the incoming freshman class is to take a few sophomores to a football game and meet as YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 78 • many freshmen as possible. This is also a great time of building the relationship with the sophomores who are helping you. Train volunteers to do contacting with you. (Soon they will be able to take the initiative on their own.) It teaches the value of contacting to your ministry team. Teach them the same things you are learning about contacting. You might learn a few things from your volunteers too!! Whether you are with students or volunteers, you are modeling good contacting to them. As you contact at events, or in the school, or at the local mall, never underestimate the value of meeting adults in those locations also. We are all about meeting new students, but there is a tremendous opportunity at these same places to initiate relationships with adults. For administrators to see you at many school functions helps to create a trusting relationship. God has granted them the authority to hold the keys to your involvement at the local school. Make sure you acknowledge them at any location where both of you are present. Whenever you see pastors, youth pastors, parents and faculty members, make sure to work on building those relationships as well. They are future kingdom partners or volunteers in reaching your schools. Parents could possibly be support team members, donors or friends of the ministry. Work hard at meeting adults at all of these functions. They are very crucial to the success of your ministry. Since the vision of Campus Life is to reach ‘every’ student, then we want to get busy meeting at least 100 new students during the month of August, every year. The object is to create a broad base of students. Breadth happens through contacting, and depth happens through the other RMA’s. Set a goal of trying to meet 5 new students every week once school starts. Once those contacts have been initiated, work at seeing these students in other settings and remembering their names. Contacting is the key to creating a strong foundation for doing discipleship evangelism. We can’t meet lost students if we aren’t out in their world on a regular basis. Consistently pray, be bold in your pursuit, and contacting will work for you. 8.1.4. QUESTIONS TO HELP EVALUATE THE SUCCESS OF YOUR CONTACTING: When you are at a contacting event/activity, what is your overall goal or strategy? What events did you go to last week (Guy-Girl-Both)? Tell me the names of three (3) kids you met last week that you didn’t know before? What kids did you take extra time for and invest in during contacting? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 79 What relationship did you develop this past week during contacting? What parents did you meet during this past week while contacting? Describe a conversation you have had with a parent, teacher, and community person in the past two weeks during contacting. Did you promote club at contacting? Why? How? Why not? Have you ever observed someone else at a contacting event? Explain what you saw. Evaluate yourself this past week/month on how well you have done with contacting. What do you do well? What do you need to improve on? How are your volunteers involved in contacting activities? What are you doing to encourage them and train them to be more successful at contacting? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 80 8.2. Campus Life RMA: Building Times Definition: “Spending time in shared activities with young people in order to build new relationships and model Christ-like behavior.” Building times allow us to develop meaningful friendships with students in non-threatening ways. It is the bridge between contacting and all of the other RMA’s. It is how we get to know students and how they get to know more about us. Students find out that we are real people who can relate to them on other grounds than just religion. 8.2.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE BUILDING TIMES AS AN RMA? Building times offer us an opportunity to move from contacting a new student to “earning the right to be heard.” While we really have nothing to prove to kids, we do have an obligation to break down religious stereotypes as we get to know them. We want to “earn the right to be heard” because what God wants to say through us is worth listening to! It is, however, very difficult for young people to listen to important issues and consider taking steps toward God if the communicator of that truth has not taken the time to know her, understand his world, and relate in ways that are nonmanipulative and authentic. More of a biblical foundation for building times is established in the common core relational ministry ingredients involve and invest (see chapter 9). The natural opportunities contained within building times give us a chance to demonstrate a real relationship with Jesus Christ. Whenever we spend time with students in real-life situations (i.e. playing basketball, ordering fast food, shopping, hanging out at home), students see us as we really are, not as religious figures that lead meetings every week. They will see Christianity as credible and worthy of their consideration; they can develop positive attitudes toward the Gospel and especially get to know Jesus through us. After spending a few building times with Campus Life staff members, the likelihood of a student responding to Jesus Christ at club, in an appointment, at a small group or on a trip or event is much higher. If they have experienced a genuine follower of Jesus Christ in us the likelihood is greater that they can actually experience Jesus. Building times are fun! We don’t necessarily do building times just for the fun of it, but it certainly makes them easier to do. Young people are a blast to be around!! We enjoy who they are and what they have to offer the world. We have high hopes for who they will become in Christ. It is a huge privilege and high calling to be able to hang out with students, trusting that God will use the fun, the investment and the time to draw some of them to His Son. 8.2.2 HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE BUILDING TIMES? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 81 To ensure that Building Times are as effective as possible be certain you follow these simple rules. • Involve as many students as possible. Avoid spending all your time with only a few students with whom you feel comfortable. • Plan for building times. Do not just expect them to happen simply because you are “cool” or well liked by the students. Be intentional about how you spend your time each week. (Most of us are not as cool as we would like to think we are!) You should plan on including several building times in your schedule every week. You should go to club ready to “set up” those times with specific students whom you are trying to get to know. Teach your volunteers how to “set up” building times with students too. The best way to teach others how to do it is to show them and then take them with you before you send them out to do it alone. • Plan the right kinds of activities. There are at least two criteria for the best building times. The first is to simply do an activity that a group of students enjoys. A building time will be especially memorable if the students experience something new or unique, i.e. water skiing, paint ball, mountain biking to a new place, etc. The second factor is to consider whether the activity actually affords us a good opportunity to establish a positive example of Jesus Christ. As an outrageous example, we could imagine that a group of students might enjoy going “clubbing,” but such a shared activity may work against our ultimate goal. • Set a good example. Just as being a positive example can “earn the right to be heard,” setting a negative example often loses that right. Remember, however, you are a friend, not a parent. Be careful to not treat them as though they were your children; they are your friends. You happen to be older, more mature and more like Jesus than they are, but you are more of a friend than an authority figure. • Act like an adult. Even though you are a friend more than a teacher, parent or police officer, there are in fact some limitations of which you must be aware. Some of the activities students might enjoy (i.e. toilet papering, Chinese Fire Drills, egging, snowballing cars, skateboarding in restricted areas, etc.) could damage your reputation with parents, administrators, donors and churches. If it is a Campus Life activity, adults expect you to be in charge and responsible for the activity and the students. • Play it safe! Never take short cuts when planning potentially dangerous activities for students. For example, rappelling, water sports, paint ball, winter sports, biking, rock climbing, etc. should never be done without the proper YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 82 equipment, training, insurance and leadership. If you cannot do it safely, do not do it at all!! From the very beginning we listen carefully and try to determine what our students and their friends enjoy doing together. Whether we like an activity is not really relevant. In fact, we don’t even have to be good at an activity to have a building time with students. Some additional examples of shared activities with students are: Hiking Picnicking Trips to “away games,” or tournaments Beach trips Trips to the city for shopping, dinner, games, etc. Scuba diving Sledding, tobogganing, cross-country skiing, ice skating, snowmobiling Slumber parties Shopping trips to the mall or outlet malls Eating after games Running errands together Saturday morning pick-up games: soccer, basketball, football, etc. Board games Ping-pong Video games Ultimate Frisbee Fishing Working on a car together Swimming Working out with the school team Play guitar or other musical instruments Baking/cooking Going out for a coke Concerts Attend their concerts, plays or games with their friends Volunteering together Sailing, boating, canoeing Eat with kids at lunch Have breakfast before school Golfing or miniature golfing Bowling Going out for ice cream During most building times, we do not usually plan to discuss anything spiritual. If something pops up in the conversation, of course we would expect that God was moving in a way that we would want to follow! Generally speaking, building times set YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 83 up future conversations. They serve to soften hearts and open ears for later times together with students when we will intentionally bring up spiritual issues and introduce the person of Jesus Christ. Building times serve to gather a great deal of information. If we are alert enough to ask the right questions and listen in love, we will discover a lot of important facts about student’s families, future hopes and dreams, fears, needs, plans, religious background, opinions and attitudes. Eventually, if we are authentic, sincere, consistent, loving and accepting, our building times will yield receptive hearts for responding to the lifechanging message of Jesus Christ. A youth worker who lived near the mountains loved rock climbing, rappelling, and mountaineering. He was very good at adventure sports and he wanted to equip kids to enjoy the outdoors as well. All of these activities were great opportunities for investing in building times with teenagers. This particular youth worker, however, was so focused on what he enjoyed doing that he neglected many students who did not enjoy the same kinds experiences. His ministry suffered greatly because he could not break out of the cycle of only attracting students who were like him or who wanted to be like him. The goal of building times is to build relationships with teenagers, not to do the fun things we like to do in the name of “ministry.” Beware of 4 potential dangers in building times: 1. We can focus too much on what we like to do rather than what students like to do. 2. We can over-concentrate on one group of students whose company we really enjoy and neglect other students. 3. We can use building times as a copout for doing appointments. If we never get around to sitting down with a student and talking about Jesus Christ, we are not accomplishing our mission. 4. Building times can also be used as an excuse for not doing the hard work of contacting. We can easily fall into the trap of getting to know a few students very well, but miss meeting the masses. Remember we are called to reach every young person in our ministry site. If used properly and in conjunction with the other 10 RMA’s, building times are a great tool toward that end. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 84 8.3. Campus Life RMA: Appointments DEFINTION: The formal YFC/Campus Life definition for an Appointment is “meeting one-on-one to provide individual attention and focus to a young person’s specific need.” In other words, we want to intentionally engage a student in a one-on-one setting offering him/her an active listening ear and the willingness to point them toward God’s story whenever it is appropriate. IMPORTANT NOTES: All 1-on-1 ministry is done MALE-to-MALE or FEMALE-to-FEMALE. When necessary to do an appointment with a student of the opposite sex, take a volunteer staff or student leader along or meet at a public place (i.e. restaurant). Make sure you are NEVER alone in a vehicle with a student of the opposite sex. Just one accusation of inappropriate behavior can destroy YFC ministry and damage the reputation of Jesus Christ. Maintaining balance and boundaries in your life is important to consider as you make appointments with students. It is ok to say NO to a student, or to wait for a more convenient time, unless the need is life threatening. 8.3.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE APPOINTMENTS AS AN RMA? A. To get to know more about a student's story Giving a student individual attention encourages open and honest conversation. Students want to be known and heard and having an intentional time to meet with them is powerful! You can learn more about a student's story in a one-hour appointment, than you can from all of their involvement in Campus Life weekly meetings and events. Remember you want to get to know more of their story so listen, ask good questions, and give honest feedback. B. To address a specific need Appointments can address an issue raised by the student or personalize a discussion from a recent club meeting or small group. This is probably the easiest appointment to set up. When a student is having some sort of “drama” in their life, it makes perfect sense that you would take a special interest in wanting to discuss what is happening. Some possible issues could be: a kid’s parent’s getting a divorce, not doing well in school, conflict between friends, a recent break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, being cut from an athletic team, getting kicked out of their home, etc. It is also appropriate to use appointments for follow up, checking up on a new Christian, and the discipleship of growing Christians. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 85 C. To connect their need to Jesus' story Listen carefully to what need they have in their life. Is that need forgiveness, intimacy, love, healing, purpose? Listen and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you, what is holding the student back from experiencing the power of God in their life. Next, know scripture. Better yet, know the attributes of God and where they are described in scripture. As they unfold their need, gently prod them toward Jesus and who He was and is. Show them – don’t tell them – that Jesus knows their trouble and has ultimate power to meet their need. Depending on the situation, they may feel the need to respond in some way to what Jesus can offer them. If, that is true, help them to respond to Jesus through prayer. Let God (scripture) do the talking. Don’t manipulate or try to steer the conversation. You are merely a tool, a mouthpiece. 8.3.2. HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE APPOINTMENTS? Remember the following as you use appointments to draw young people to Jesus Christ. A. Pray Prayer, going into and during an appointment will remind us that God is at work at changing lives. We are simply a vehicle He may use. Prayer allows us to be sensitive to God's direction in responding to the student. We must stay obedient to listen for His leading. B. Select appropriate location The meeting place should be free of distractions, or interruptions and allow for relaxed conversation. A meal or a snack may provide the most comfortable setting. Try not to go to places where other students will be, so there are fewer interruptions. If you’re at your house – don’t answer the phone – that will say to them that they are important. Also, don’t bring your cell phone into a restaurant. C. Assume nothing Be careful not to guess what the student is thinking, project how they will respond, or expect them to be as spiritually mature as you are. Also remember that there are two sides to every story. D. Listening skills Just as Jesus listened to people, we too can become good listeners. There is an art to being a good listener: • Non-verbal communication - listen with your eyes, ears and heart. Focus on them, and show your compassion and interest in what they are saying. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 86 • • • • Clarify - repeat something they have said back to them in a statement or question, to make sure you heard them correctly. This also reinforces that they are being heard. People listen to people who listen - before you try to give your insight or feedback, earn the right to be heard by first really listening to them. Don't shy away from difficult issues, if you don’t know the solution don't pretend to know -- be honest. The focus is on them not you. Be willing to be real and vulnerable about your own life without dominating conversation. E. Be a question poser not a problem solver Help students come to an answer without telling them the answer. Avoid this temptation! It is easier to tell them what you already know, but the best kind of learning is self-discovery. So, you must become the master of asking good questions. Below are some questions you can use to begin conversation: • So, tell me about your family? How many siblings? Are your parents together or not? Get as detailed as you can with this question. Ask about their names and try to remember them. • Who in your family are you closest to and why? • Who do you not get along with the most and why? • What role do you think you play in your family? • Who is your closest friend? • How is school going for you? Do you enjoy it? Why or why not? Depending on how much you already know about the student, you may be ready to ask some deeper, spiritual questions. The following are some questions you can ask when you feel the Holy Spirit leading you to ask more pointed questions. • What have you been learning about God this year, so far, in Campus Life? • Do you have any questions about anything we’ve talked about? • On a scale of 1 to 10, if you were to die tonight, do you think you would go to heaven or not? Why? • If God is an X in the middle of this paper, where are you in relationship to Him? Where do you want to be? • If you died and went to heaven and God asked you why He should let you into heaven, what would you say? • What holds you back from surrendering your life to Christ? • Why do you think Campus Life exists? • What do you think it means to be a Christian? • What images come to mind when you think about God? Is He a judge or a teddy bear or a vapor? Why do you think that is? • If God could walk in the door right now and walk over to you, what one thing do you think He would say to you right now? • What one question would you ask God if He were here right now? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 87 • Where does God fit into your life? Or does He fit at all? F. Use unchurched-sensitive language Don’t forget that you could be talking to someone who has never gone to church. Be careful not to offend or confuse them by using words they were never taught. Avoid words like: saved, justification, sanctification, dead in our sin, cleansed by His blood, etc. Also, if you use words like sin or sinner, grace or salvation, make sure to clarify what they mean. G. Be honest If you are not real and authentic with the student, how can you expect them to be with you? Don't try to be something you're not just to relate to them. Being real and honest will establish a real relationship. H. Maintain confidentiality Promise confidentiality except in cases of a student being hurt or threatening to hurt themselves or others. Maintaining confidentiality builds trust and respect between you and a student. Your chapter should have a policy that meets your state’s requirement for reporting abuse. I. Silence is okay Don’t feel awkward when silence is a part of your appointments. Sometimes kids need time to think and process, and so do you. Don’t be too quick to jump in and rescue the silence. Let that become okay. J. Follow up The follow up process, will largely depend on the student, and can happen in various ways. However, it is your responsibility to make every attempt to continue developing the relationship with the student, whether a decision for Christ was made or not. Possible options for follow up: • Set a time to get together for another appointment or building time • Give the student an option to join a small group • Ask if the student has a Bible (be sure to get them one if they don't) • Invite the student to church • If a decision for Christ has been made: o Encourage them to share this decision with at least 3 people o Follow up with them individually or in a small group (cover at the least he basics of Christianity) K. Call them the day before to remind them of the appointment YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 88 Students often have a tendency to forget about your meetings. Don’t be offended; this happens a lot. Just a quick email or phone call will help to cut down on the number of “reschedules”. L. Paying for a students’ meal Be prepared to pay for the student's meal. This communicates your care for them and that they are important. Don't let money be an issue. Talk to local businesses or restaurants that could donate gift certificates or funds for the ministry. M. Car time is valuable When it is possible offer to pick the student up. Conversation to and from an appointment in the car is valuable. If you take them home, go in and meet the parents. This gives you a chance to meet the parents and allows the parents to know who you are and what you do. N. Tips for how to set up a first time appointment & when: • Set up appointments at club or in the lunch room • Give away a free meal with a staff for a prize at club • Examples of what to say to a student "If you ever have some free time let's hang out this week, want to grab some dinner or something?" "I'd like to get to know you better, want to have dinner this week?" "I'd love to talk more about what you shared in discussion tonight, do you have time this week?" YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 89 8.4. Campus Life RMA: Small Groups Definition: A Campus Life small group is a structured interactive meeting with 2 – 12 young people. A small group can be formally defined as a “structured, interactive group setting designed to respond to the individual, spiritual, and lifestyle needs of the members”. In youth ministry today we are seeing an explosion of small groups not only as a part of the program but in many places, as THE program around which the ministry revolves. Small groups provide opportunities for Campus Life staff to create a consistent sense of community, safety, family-like belonging and openness. In Jesus’ ministry to the masses He is seen interacting with the crowds of people who followed Him to find healing, to listen to His messages and simply to be in His presence. He spent more time with a mid size group of 70 or so followers (eating dinner, teaching, celebrating). Ultimately the majority of His time was invested in 12 disciples and He specifically poured His life into three followers: Peter, James and John. Jesus knew that real learning and day to day life change would come best as they wrestled with his teaching and commands in smaller, more intimate settings. The growth of the early church sprung from the gathering, sharing, and community living found in the book of Acts. In Acts 2:42-47 Luke tells us of a community of believers who met regularly in the temple courts, ate meals, prayed together, shared possessions and lived sacrificially with and for each other. This is a great picture of the intimacy and trust that can be found in a small group! The fact that Jesus utilized small groups in His ministry should be encouragement for us to do the same for the young people with whom we minister. 8.4.1. Why Does Campus Life Use Small Groups As An RMA? $ To address a specific issue. Small groups can be tailor-made to tackle an issue that young people are dealing with, to study a book of the Bible, or to take a first-time look at Jesus Christ. $ To create a safe place for honest sharing. Students are longing for a place where they can open up and know that what they have to say is valuable. This kind of affirmation and heart felt listening is missing in the lives of many kids today. In an effective small group, that is exactly what we can provide. $ To provide personal attention and interaction. Small groups allow us to build deeper relationships with students. We also provide them the opportunity to ask questions of us and find out who Jesus is in our lives. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 90 The concept of small groups has been interwoven throughout popular culture throughout the past several decades in movies, corporate training, novels, etc. We would highly recommend that you take a look at The Breakfast Club, and watch the scene about two thirds of the way through the movie where the group is sitting on the floor of the library. Notice how they interact, their body language, and the depth of their sharing. Also, ask yourself what you would do differently if you were leading this small group. 8.4.2. How does Campus Life use small groups? The best answer to this question will come as we define the various setting in which Campus Life makes use of the RMA: small groups. We outlined seven excellent options for small group settings. There are certainly more. Be sure to experiment with new ideas for small groups. Keep in mind the principles that follow and you will be on the right track as you dream about how to use small groups in your ministry. 8.4.2.1. Settings – where can it happen? The beauty of small groups is they can happen virtually anywhere. A small group can occur in a Campus Life club, in a school lunchroom, and at a camp among many other places. Think “outside the box” and look at your current ministry and ask yourself where small groups could occur and how they would be best used. If you’re just starting out think strategically when asking this question about small groups. Here are a couple of ways you can use small groups in your ministry: Club So, you’re sitting in the middle of a group of students at a large group gathering and you’re geared up for a great discussion and wrap up. But looking at the crowd you just know that of the 67 kids sitting in the room many won’t open up and give their opinions because they just don’t get into talking in large groups. They’re intimidated and overwhelmed, the mere thought of saying something (maybe something stupid or silly) causes them to shrink from the spotlight. You also know that you want your staff and perhaps your student leaders to connect with the other students and have ownership of this meeting. So you decide to work small groups into the mix. One place for small groups to take place in the context of a large group “club” is following crowdbreakers and games and just before a club discussion. Once the topic has been introduced (by survey, video, skit, etc.) you can break that large group into smaller, more manageable groups of 4-8 students with a staff person or student leader as facilitator. Throw out the same questions you’ll go over in the large group discussion that will follow but allow 10-12 minutes for talk in the groups. “But this will ruin the flow of the YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 91 evening,” you say, “My students just don’t like small groups, they won’t open up!” This is a generation of young people who long for intimacy and to “be known” and what small groups ADDS to your large group is that component. So, rather than ruining the flow of the evening, you’ll spice it up with a change of pace. And those kids who have “shown” you they don’t like to talk in the large group, will be more likely to open up (even if only once, at least this time the small group leader can manage 5-8 young people versus 67 in a large group) in a smaller setting. Allow small groups to tackle scenarios, case studies, surveys, skits and commercials. Use the strength of the small groups (ownership, openness, intimacy) to help create a more dynamic large group discussion by referring to and drawing upon the feedback from the small groups. The intimacy won’t be immediate in a small group at club but there is a great chance for open sharing in addition to the sharing that occurs in the club setting. Give it a try. After school/morning small groups Student’s schedules these days can be crazy! Often the best time to meet with them is right after school (especially with middle/junior high students) or in the morning. If you’re not a morning person then a 6 a.m. Denny’s restaurant small group might not appeal to you but it is one of the quietest times of the day for students. It’s just a matter of getting them there. You may want to experiment with evenings from 7:30 – 9:30 or even Sunday afternoons. Try a small group gathering at a local restaurant (get to know the waiters/waitresses well, you might even get a “reserved” booth with extra refills of java!), at a student’s house, even right on the school grounds (lunchroom, classroom, etc). If you’re wondering how to get started with a small group… hold on!! There are some helpful tips to come. Camps/Retreats Work small groups into your schedule at every camp/retreat/trip you do. Small groups can be incorporated just after the speaker at a large group meeting to debrief what they heard and to raise questions to chew on the rest of the day or night. You could have a small group on the bus as you cruise down the interstate to an amusement park. Be creative and look for any excuse to create small groups in the midst of the adventure. You can use the “Un-game,” or YFC’s “Hear-Me-Out” card decks of questions, or make up your own “Question Games!” Co-ed vs. single sex If small groups are a place to create openness, intimacy and belonging…will this happen with co-ed groups or should we keep the sexes separated? If you are going to do co-ed groups they work best under the following conditions: 1) high school students only—middle school/junior high students find it more difficult to focus on the question at hand, over the fact that YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 92 they’re sitting next to someone intriguing; 2) in a small group where accountability is NOT required—to expect a girl to keep a guy accountable for his spiritual life is one thing but if they are to share their deepest darkest secret or struggle then the lines of communication are suddenly not so open. Evangelistic When kids are considering the Bible and Jesus for the first time small groups are a great opportunity to relate God’s story to their individual lives as well as have honest interaction and questions. Take a look at the first six chapters of the gospel of John; write up 3-4 questions and see what they discover. Grab some copies of a study on a Biblical character (David, Solomon, Peter to name a few) at the local Christian bookstore and challenge the kids to go through a chapter a week. Or simply gather 5-6 kids weekly and ask them, “Who is Jesus to you?” “What questions do you have about the Bible?” A young Campus Life director in the Midwest offered a “Read-thru-the Bible-ina-Year” small group to the students in her club. In May 15 students showed up; by the fall 25 kids attended ever other week for 10 months. More than half of them were not Christians; 4 of them put their faith in Jesus Christ, and ten of them actually read through the entire New Testament! All of them discovered more about God’s story. Discipleship Start a small group of guys or gals to go deeper in God’s word. The relational ministry ingredients of investing and investigate are the focus of a discipleship small group. Try giving some leadership responsibilities to your student leaders (or student leader prospects) to “apprentice” with you in leading a discipleship group. Take new Christians through the Totally True workbook or set a consistent time with a group of Christian students to challenge them to live out their faith by comparing their actions to Scripture. Accountability This can be one of the most difficult types of groups because of the openness and transparency needed by the participants. It is easy for you as the adult leader to model openness while at the same time sharing struggles and temptations that should be worked through in a group of your peers, not students. Be careful not to step over this line. If you start this type of small group, make sure that you lay down the ground rules early that you are the leader, you will be sharing, but your role is to keep them accountable and to encourage and facilitate their mutual accountability to each other. Same sex small groups are the best choice for this type of gathering. 8.4.2.2. What you need to know YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 93 So, you want to be an expert on small groups? Here are three principles you need to know to facilitate great small groups: 1. Small groups build trust For small groups to work, and for genuine trust to be built, there are some basic rules that must be understood and followed by everyone in the group. • Be honest or silent (and silence is OK). • All group sharing stays confidential. Make sure that what is said in the group, stays in the group. There is nothing more defeating to a student than to hear a rumor that started from someone gabbing about the small group sharing. This is more difficult in a club/large group setting where the students may be in that group for only one time (unless you try to keep kids in the same small groups at club each week); but in that situation you as the leader need to encourage (it’s harder to require here) confidentiality. If a student begins to open up to a level of intimacy that’s not healthy, take them aside to talk, either before or after the group is done. • Everyone commits to attending every meeting. Set a reasonable time frame of 4-8 weeks for an initial commitment; this creates an ending time and an opportunity to continue or disband. • Be relaxed, plan for plenty of time to talk and listen. Curriculum is important because it gives us a “road” to travel down but it should never replace the laid back atmosphere of a small group and the purpose of creating a place where students can share openly and honestly. Realize the group may run over time, may end early and you may never get past the opening, “So how are you guys?” to what you’ve spent hours preparing. Ministry can happen in the small talk, too. 2. Small groups must have relevant curriculum that meets the needs of teens The curriculum you use must be adapted to the purpose of the group. YFC has a great tool in the Honest to God book, designed to give you some structure as well as the freedom to share your faith story with kids. Look at the above settings and ask yourself: • Is the purpose evangelism? Then put yourself in the place of a student who has never heard the gospel (remember, we minister to many young people who have never heard the stories of the Bible) and be creative in sharing God’s story. • Is your purpose discipleship? Find a curriculum that challenges your kids to grow more in love with Jesus and moves them to live their faith out on a daily basis. You’ll be challenged at the same time. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 94 • Is your purpose accountability? Since this accountability will most likely happen in a single sex setting look for books/curriculum/study guides that ask the deeper questions: “How is your thought life? What temptations do you struggle with? What can this group do practically to encourage you and keep you accountable to grow in Jesus?” As you spend time as a small group working through curriculum, sharing thoughts, you’ll also need to maintain an ongoing evaluation of how your small group is doing. Here are a couple of questions to ask: • Are my small group members talking and responding? • Am I listening more than I talk? Look for teachable moments, but take a hint from God—He created you with one mouth and two ears. Go with the majority. • Is the material helpful to them? Check with the students outside the meeting and ask this question. Head to McDs for a coke and listen to their feedback. 3. Small Groups need reliable leadership This is where you come into the picture: it’s your moment to shine. As you set the pace, both in attitude and responsibility, your group members will follow. Here are some keys to providing the most effective leadership: • Model healthy openness. Be real and genuine. A word of caution: this is not your support group so don’t back up your emotional dump truck (beep, beep, beep) and unload—that’s for your own small group/accountability partners. Instead, show that you, too, have struggles, you’re not perfect. • Pray for the students regularly, consistently, and specifically. • See them outside the small group meeting. Do appointments, take them to games, have them over for a movie night, get out for paintball (take on another small group), in order to grow relationships. • Provide focus with flexibility. Keep the group on track but remain open to mid-course changes. • Affirm students honestly—keep eye contact with the one sharing, don’t allow interruptive “cross-talk”, and openly encourage them with your words and appropriate touch. You may be the only adult that entire day or week or month that tells them how much you appreciate their involvement and honesty. 8.4.3. For the rookies and new staff Prayed, prepared for and done correctly, small groups can be an incredible blessing to you and the students to whom you minister. However, because we are a YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 95 fallen people saved by God’s grace we can make small groups a painful experience for all. So, let’s take a look at how NOT to develop and run a small group… • Don’t establish any rules or expectations: just ask a bunch of students to meet for breakfast, tell them you just want to talk and let them go. Watch sheepishly as they interrupt, cut each other down and then as you finish ask them if they want to keep meeting. That way you’ll be spending $15 each week on breakfast (of course, you don’t need the money) and students may or may not come back—don’t worry you’ll get used to sitting at Denny’s alone. • Talk a lot and listen as little as possible to the participants: After all, you’re the “youth professional” and you’ve put blood, sweat and tears into this study so you should get the most airtime. If they try to speak, remind them that you know God’s Word and they will have time at the end of the group to talk…the last five minutes. You have wisdom to impart, they can listen, after all they’re used to it at school! • Prepare on the way to small group: How hard can it be to ask a couple of questions to six 9th grade guys? It’s easy to ask a couple of questions and just “get through it” but the students can tell and more importantly, without prayer bathing your small group and preparation under girding it, all you’ll have is a weekly gathering, not the spiritual impact you desire. • Invite lots of students: The more, the merrier, right? How can you possibly say no to these kids’ friends? “Wrong” and “Yes, you should”. The optimal size for a small group is 4-8 kids. With a small group of 1-3 kids if one doesn’t show up then it might seem a little awkward for the rest; with 9 + students it’s very difficult to have honest, open sharing…after all, many probably became part of a small group because the large group is intimidating. 8.4.4. HOW TO GET STARTED So, how do you get your small group ministry off the ground? Here are four helpful tips: • First—what is your purpose? Evangelism? Discipleship? Accountability? To break down the size of a large group meeting? Consider the needs of the group and what you and your leaders have to offer in terms of time, energy, experience, etc. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 96 • • • Second—Who is your target group? Is it junior high or senior high (it’s better to not mix the two.) Third—Whom will you pray for and pursue? Sometimes our pursuits can be expressed as challenges to particular students. Then we partner with them as we mentor them in reaching their friends for Christ and helping them grow in Christ. Finally—When and where will you meet? There are two ways to go about this: 1) pick a time and place and have students sign up for small groups based upon their availability, or, 2) ask your prospective small group what works best. The second works best unless it’s a general sign up at a Campus Life meeting or at camp. Schedules may be difficult to juggle (working around practice, work, laziness…both yours’ and your students’) and you/they may have to bend a bit but it’s worth it. Small groups can be a great place to model relational ministry to your volunteers. Invite a volunteer to participate with you in facilitating a small group. After she has experienced one small group, you can challenge her to lead her own group. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 97 8.5. Campus Life RMA: Club DEFINITION A weekly large group meeting, of more than 25 students, that is high energy, safe, fun, and non-Christian friendly. “He welcomed them and spoke to them about the Kingdom of God.” Luke 9:11 This chapter focuses on an overview of Campus Life club, including important information on Campus Life crowd breakers, discussions, wrap-ups, an explanation of crowd control (Campus Life style), an overview of the first few fall meetings of club and finally the all important “Fall Check-List” to help you start your Campus Life career off right. 8.5.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE CLUB AS AN RMA? A. GIVES IDENTITY The Campus Life staff person understands that club is just one Relational Ministry Action in their weekly schedule, but it is one of the first contacts with Campus Life for most students. The craziness of the weekly club meeting, and its lively discussions, creates our image and is what most students know as "Campus Life." It is, therefore, worth the effort it takes to make club the most creative, well planned and most talked about meeting possible. To the student body, Campus Life is the place to go. B. CREATES COMMUNITY One of the biggest challenges for high school students is finding a place where they can just be themselves. At Campus Life, they can fit in without feeling pressure to participate in activities they know are not in their best self interest. The acceptance extended by the staff and the club's nonthreatening atmosphere gives students a place to “belong.” C. PROVIDES OPPORTUNITY After experiencing a meeting, students are more likely to participate in other Campus Life activities, events, and trips, making Campus Life a place to get involved. Club is the regular point of contact around which the other RMA's naturally revolve. D. ALLOWS DISCOVERY Campus Life meetings give students a chance to discuss important issues (club is a place to be heard), and to learn how a relationship with God affects all areas of life (club is a place to get answers.) YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 98 E. OFFERS CONTINUITY Students may attend over 120 club meetings while in high school and will learn to trust Campus Life as a safe place to grow in their relationship with Christ. Student who stay at area community colleges and universities are also the best candidates for volunteers and part-time staff which extends our involvement in their lives for at least four more years. 8.5.2. HOW TO DO CLUB A. PREPARATION CURRICULUM Knowing that meetings are well planned, socially safe, and consistent in style and content gives students the confidence they need to invite their friends. Not taking preparation seriously, therefore, is one of the biggest mistakes a staff person can make. Staff can meet a bunch of students and spend a lot of time getting to know them, but something is missing if those same students don’t look forward to the weekly meeting, and do their best to involve their friends. Staff should select the topics for club meetings at least a few weeks in advance. This gives them time to find relevant crowdbreakers and illustrations from current events and the media. It also allows time for better publicity, and for staff to think of the little extras (i.e. music, props, decorations). Using a yearly curriculum helps organize issues into month long series, leads naturally to gospel presentations, and saves staff from a ton of last minute panic. We recommend the Lansing YFC Club Curriculum as a great option. The Appendix contains an order form. LOCATION Meeting in a different student's home each week helps build relationships with parents and makes it easier for the host student's friends to come check out club. On the other hand, using the same location each week makes publicity easier and gives students a place of their own. An effective compromise is to use a "house of the month." When considering a new location, be sure to visit the location to ensure the available room will work for a meeting, before agreeing to have club there. In some areas, the need for larger space will require giving up the benefits of homes and finding a community room, or space in the school. Plan ahead as club involves more students and don’t allow it to stagnate in growth because you are out of space. Always be sure the location is safe and non-Christian friendly. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 99 HOST HOME Call your host/hostess the day before to make sure they are still expecting you and will help the meeting run smoothly by eliminating distractions: - Keep pets and younger children out of the room. - Keep nearby radios, stereos, and televisions turned off. - Have parents listen from another room if they are interested in what is going on. Students share more honestly without parents present. - Prepare for refreshments in another room to not distract students during the discussion and wrap-up. Always check with your host/hostess before moving furniture, using TVs, VCRs and stereos or hanging anything on the walls. Plan ahead for parking, offer to have students remove their shoes and always leave the room as cleaner than you found it! CHECK LIST A couple days before club start a list of items needed including crowdbreaker props, first timer cards, music and video equipment, paper, pencils, flyers, trip registration forms, posters, banners, and prizes. Doing as much advanced preparation as possible takes a lot of pressure off of club day. It also allows you and your volunteers to be more focused on the students rather than the show. B. PROMOTION SCHEDULING CLUB WEEKLY Ideally, meeting every week provides a consistent place for students to belong, and keeps them involved and interested. Promotion is easier because one meeting can build on the next and students don't have to ask, “Is there Campus Life this week?” EVENING Evening is the time of day usually associated with social events. Students are ready to relax after the day's pressures, and usually don't have something else scheduled afterwards. TIME Years of experience have proven that a unique starting time, such as 7: 27pm, helps publicize club, and add to our creative image. The club meeting should last between 75 and 90 minutes, allowing you to tell parents you will always be done by 9:00pm. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 100 PUBLICITY Although publicity alone rarely brings a new student to Campus Life, good publicity does provide information about our meetings, events and trips, and continually creates our image. Creativity and quality in all our printed materials is important, but checking for accurate and complete information is even more important. The Appendix contains several great sample Club Flyers. Keep a quality control checklist and be sure someone other than the designer proofreads all materials. The checklist should include: [ ] Accuracy – Look for correct dates, times, days of the week, year, phone number, address. Also check for correct grammar and spelling. [ ] Directions/ Maps – Good directions can save you from dealing with very frustrated parents. If a map is included be sure every street name and number is correct, and use familiar landmarks to help. Try using “N – S - E – W” as indicators. [ ] Timeliness – You can tarnish your image quickly by sending out last minute information, or promo for events that have already happened. Your staff should plan the year out in advance as far as when to have flyers for club as well as registration forms for events and trips. [ ] Design – Don’t be afraid to have someone on staff invest a little bit of time in attractive layout of printed material. Again, it constantly contributes to your image. Keep in mind that professionalism is important. Publicity done right, lets the community know you are serious about what you do. School Policy varies as to what kind of publicity is allowed. Never come close to even appearing like you are taking liberty with what you’ve agreed to. As important as publicity is, it is never worth creating bad relationships with the administration. Even when nothing is allowed in the school, students can pass out flyers, and you can do attractive mailers to regular club attendees. Shirts worn by staff and students, stickers for notebooks and cars and whatever other printed product your students will buy, all add to the Campus Life story, image and name. DEFINING CAMPUS LIFE completely in a printed brochure is a trick. A standard statement to use in print, or conversation is: “Campus Life is really impossible to describe. You really have to experience it for yourselves. The meetings include a lot of fun, a discussion on a topic of interest to high school students, and a short talk by staff relating that topic to basic Christian principles.” YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 101 OPEN "MEMBERSHIP" - Students can't “join” Campus Life and there are no dues or membership fees. Everyone is welcome to come whenever they can. C. PRESENTATION SET UP Get materials together early in the day, or even the day before, and arrive at least 60 minutes before club starts. This allows time for the staff to review the meeting, get set up and be relaxed and ready to greet students as they arrive. Some specific considerations: - Informal Setting - the meeting happens, whenever possible, in a home rather than a school or church. The seating is on a carpeted floor rather than on rows of chairs. Although the meeting is carefully planned and prepared (staff know exactly what is going to happen), there is a structured casualness to all we do. - Hang posters, banners and pictures of recent events and trips. - Make flyers and registration forms available for all upcoming events. - Play popular music as students arrive to help them feel comfortable and to provide a background of sound. Pre-recording the background music allows you to select songs that fit with the topic and don't include objectionable lyrics. - Arrange the room so that students will feel like "this place is packed". - The "front" of the room should be opposite the main entrance to reduce the distraction of latecomers. - Remove breakable items and extra furniture. Keep only furniture that can help form the back row. - Consider the use of a P.A. system with crowds of 50 or more. - Turn on all available lighting. - The temperature will inevitably rise 5-10 degrees when students start packing in. If possible, start cooling the room if it is above 70 degrees. - Ask the host student, student leaders or a volunteer staff members to meet students at the door, take their coats, and direct them to the meeting. - Staff members or student leaders should also direct parking to keep cars off lawns etc. - Staff members or student leaders should welcome students, have them highlight their name on a sign-in sheet and have first timers fill out an address card. It is effective to have the sign-in sheet have four columns (one for each class) and empty spaces for new names. The names of first timers should be added each week so when they return their name is on YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 102 the list. Some staff casually recognize first timers (“Jon’s here for the first time let’s give him a hand”) and give them candy. One chapter puts a “Campus Life” wrapper on a Hershey bar with a $10 coupon good for any Campus Life trip. LOGISTICS Ask “who, will be where, to do what, when.” It’s one thing to say, “then we’ll show the video” and a completely different thing to have staff (or student leaders) all in place to turn off lights, turn on the TV or projector, turn on the VCR or computer, turn on the sound if necessary and do the intro. Advance preparation makes a much better show. EFFECTIVE USE OF STAFF You should do your best to involve as many staff as possible, as their giftedness and training allows. Although you cannot afford to have an important part of the meeting totally bomb, even new staff can prepare and effectively handle a small assignment. Take the time to create transition statements to draw attention to the next staff person. Often staff will finish a part of a meeting, sit down and let the next person come to the front and continue. Instead, say, “We thought it would be a good idea to hear from someone with a lot of dating experience tonight, to help us address some of the issues we discussed tonight. But we couldn’t find anyone, so, instead, here’s Aaron.” This adds fun, keeps the meeting moving and really hands the crowd off to the next staff person. NON-CHRISTIAN FRIENDLY Our goal is to have at least 50% non-Christians in attendance and to create programming that communicates at their level. Avoid “churchy” language and never assume any knowledge of the Bible. To say, “we all know what happened to Noah,” makes those who don’t know feel totally left out. INVOLVEMENT Campus Life is not a lecture series or just a staff performance. Meetings need to allow students to laugh, be actively involved, and express their opinions and ideas. Most meetings include crowdbreakers, discussion, and a wrap-up (developed in the following chapters). HANG-OUT TIME Be careful not to overlook the importance of hangout time before and after club. This is prime time to meet students, get to know them better, and interact with them in a safe, non-threatening environment. You should know your week’s schedule and intentionally seek out students to set up appointments. Video games, a pool table, ping-pong, basketball, YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 103 volleyball, etc. are great extras. Many clubs make good use of a local pizza parlor or fast food spot as an after club hang out or to have students meet you there because they could not make the club meeting. SEE THE “GENERAL CLUB PREP CHECK LIST” attached at the end of this section. 8.5.3. WHY DO CROWDBREAKERS? Crowdbreakers are activities designed to mix up the crowd and have fun. They are a Campus Life trademark, and include everything from games involving everyone to individual stunts, skits, fun songs, and creative media presentations. Few things about Campus Life are as memorable. The 20-30 minutes of crowdbreakers are a critical piece of creating a relaxed, welcoming environment. A. BREAK DOWN BARRIERS Crowdbreakers serve as "clique-breakers." Students will discuss more openly having first experienced something fun together. Crowdbreakers get things moving right away, gain the group's attention, and help students unwind after a busy day. (Never forget all the positives that come from laughter!!) B. BUILD IMAGE Many students think of Campus Life as a “religious group” and may be turned off by negative stereotypes and experiences from their past. The crowdbreakers they hear about strongly refute that. Campus Life not only sounds like fun, they find themselves wanting to check it out. Since there are always new students coming, crowdbreakers are an important ingredient of club throughout the year. C. BUILD RAPPORT WITH STAFF Crowdbreakers are not only fun for students, but also show that staff can have fun. Staff are seen as part of the group rather than as adult "chaperones." Crowdbreakers help staff build rapport - "relationship, especially one of mutual trust or emotional affinity" (Webster). 8.5.4. HOW TO DO CROWDBREAKERS A. PREPARATION Standards: When selecting crowdbreakers we must be careful not to violate our own standards of good taste just to make students laugh. Also, they should never humiliate or belittle a student. We also need to be protective of our reputation knowing that crowdbreakers are reported (and even distorted) to parents. (Sometimes it is better to embarrass staff instead of students.) Selection: YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 104 Instead of just being warm up exercises, crowdbreakers can often set up the topic of the evening. Thoughtfully select the activities and use creative introductions and transition statements. For a drinking meeting crowdbreakers become a sobriety test, for a meeting on sex, crowdbreakers can be a battle of the sexes, for a meeting on dating do a take-off on the current TV dating show. Avoid the trap of only doing the games you like best. A good mix of crazy stunts, messy games, surpriseending “burns”, game-show adaptations and large group mixers make the best meetings. Flow: Although variety is the spice of life, and we like to mix things up and keep students guessing, the order in which you do crowdbreakers is important. Often this means: - A quick opener to get everyone laughing - A game that involves everyone and gets them moving. Beginning a meeting on time with a crowdbreaker that someone can walk in on and quickly join in on is a great way to keep kids coming on time, while at the same time not making those students coming in late from another activity feel like they shouldn’t come at all. - An up-front event that begins to focus their attention for the discussion starter Staging: Be sure to give some thought to how you set up the front of the room. If you expect the crowd to respond, they need to be able to see and hear everything that is happening. Logistics: Be sure staff or student leaders are ready with appropriate props, and know their cues for lights, media, or music. Use a floor covering for any potentially messy games, and remove messy props immediately after the crowdbreaker (if you set a shaving cream pie off to the side thinking you will get it later, you will “get it” later!). Plan ahead for any restrictions in your meeting room such as low ceilings and nice carpeting to modify the crowdbreaker, or even replace it with something that would work better. Anticipate what could go wrong, and try to keep it from happening! Music: Having a recent graduate volunteer as a DJ is one of the best moves you can make. They know the popular music, and enjoy selecting songs to match the various parts a meeting, especially the crowdbreakers. B. PARTICIPANTS YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 105 Choose students who are willing to participate, and are from different cliques, classes and personality types. Be sure to consider the type of crowdbreaker, especially if it needs an outgoing student who will put on a good show. Be sure to involve as many different students as possible from week to week, but never pressure someone to be involved. An easy response to a student who hesitates is simply, “that’s fine – you never have to do something you don’t want to at Campus Life.” You definitely don’t want crowdbreakers to scare students away. A good introduction encourages students to get involved. Instead of saying, “I need three volunteers for another dumb Campus Life game,” say, “I need the three bravest students here tonight” or, “I need the most verbal person in each class,” or, “who would like to win…” Thanking students for participating, making a big deal over how well they do something, or even giving prizes for being a good sport, all encourage participation, and create a culture of having fun together. Especially when a “burn” is involved, make them the hero for getting burned not yourself the hero for burning them. C. PRESENTATION If you believe a crowdbreaker is dumb and will never work-it probably won't! On the other hand, if you're excited about it, almost ANYTHING can be fun! Your job is simply to sell it. You will be more relaxed, confident, and effective selling if you are well prepared. Here are some important selling tips: Know the crowdbreaker Surprise the students -not yourself! Carefully read the directions, and even test it with a couple of friends if you’ve never seen it. Explain the crowdbreaker completely If students do not understand what to do, the crowdbreaker will not work. Be sure to have everyone’s attention to avoid the frustration of repeating directions, and to help keep the meeting moving. Practice giving the directions out loud to make sure the right words come out to match what you’re trying to explain. Practice on a friend and ask them if they would understand what to do. Explain the crowdbreaker completely before handing out props, or before students begin moving around. It is much easier to talk to the entire group than to get the attention of several groups spread out around the room. Say, “what you are going to do when I say GO, but not until I say GO, is…” Demonstrate what you are explaining YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 106 Demonstrate the crowdbreaker whenever possible rather than just describing it verbally. A picture paints a thousand words, and could save you that many in your explanation of a game. 8.5.5. WHY DO DISCUSSIONS? The discussion may be the most difficult 20–30 minutes of the meeting. Staff usually become skilled at leading games, and public speaking, before learning to effectively moderate a discussion. A good discussion is not a series of five questions with obvious answers. A. INVOLVES THE STUDENTS IN THE TOPIC Students feel good about themselves when they are able to contribute and others listen to their ideas. Staff giving genuine feedback can also encourage a student. When students have the opportunity to put their rambling thoughts and opinions into words, it often helps to clarify what they really believe. Discussions demonstrate our commitment to allow students to decide for themselves, as opposed to only listening to what we believe is true. B. ENABLES STAFF TO "WIN THE RIGHT TO BE HEARD" By listening first, staff discover what students are thinking and earn the right to share their thoughts later. C. BUILDS THE CREDIBILITY OF THE GOSPEL Discussing a felt need of teenagers can lead naturally to a thought about how Christian principles relate to that topic. The accumulative effect of the Bible always having something relevant to say builds credibility for the relevance of a personal relationship with Christ. 8.5.6. HOW TO LEAD DISCUSSIONS A. USE DISCUSSION STARTERS The discussion starter is the HOOK to get students thinking about the topic and is the most important part of the Campus Life meeting. If you find yourself saying, "My kids won't talk," you are probably not giving them something to talk about. Good starters are creative (get their attention) and relevant (get them talking). Use a variety of methods from week to week (keep them guessing): - Skits - Role-plays - Media (T .V./ movie clips, short movie, music video, song lyrics). - Initiative games/group experience - Small Groups - News items - Original videos YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 107 - Short stories, poems, readings. - Questionnaire or survey B. ASK EFFECTIVE QUESTIONS Avoid questions that are too broad ("what's wrong with the world?”) or too narrow ("do a lot of students in your school drink?"). If too big, it’s hard to know how to respond; if too small, the answer is so obvious it’s not worth a response. Screen your questions by asking yourself and others, “what are the possible answers?" The sequence of questions is also important. Start with general questions to get the topic (including both sides of the story when appropriate) on the table. Ask the why questions next, to better understand all sides of the issue, and end with personal questions allowing for their solutions, or personal choices. C. LET THEM TALK The discussion leader's comments should be kept to a minimum. When asked a question try to redirect it by throwing the question back to the group. Try to involve as many students as possible and keep a few students from dominating the discussion. Don't be shocked by what you hear and do not respond to, correct or put down a student's opinion. It is the students' time to talk. If you find yourself wanting to respond, instead ask, "who agrees or disagrees with that statement,” or “does anyone see any potential problems with that position?” or the least threatening, “what would those who disagree with that statement say?” D. KNOW YOUR SUBJECT Choose topics well in advance and keep your eyes open for relevant news items, statistics, quotes, or examples in the media and popular music. Although the staff are careful not to answer questions, an occasional juicy fact or example makes them a part of the discussion and can fuel further discussion. E. KEEP IT MOVING A good discussion is usually fast paced, but don't be afraid of short silences, especially after a heavy discussion starter or a more personal question. Try to take a question deeper by asking students: - For further clarification - If others agree/disagree and why - To consider the other side of the issue - For evidence or proof for their position Don’t be afraid to move to the next question, when you need to, even if there are several hands still in the air. Say, “two more comments.” A good discussion ends with students still wanting to talk, so cut it off while it is still hot. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 108 F. USE HUMOR WISELY Appropriate use of humor by staff and students helps keep club relaxed, informal and fun. The staff needs to resist the temptation of becoming the center of attention and keep students from competing to be the funniest in club. Too much humor can make the discussion fragmented, frivolous and out of control. On the other hand, too little humor will make a meeting academic and dry. G. KEEP CONTROL Crowd control is often toughest during a good discussion. In addition to the tips found in the Crowd Control section later in this section, make the following a regular part of your discussions: CAMPUS LIFE RULES OF DISCUSSION Say “Campus Life has only two rules: 1] One person talks at a time (after raising their hand). 2] You can disagree with someone's ideas but don't cut on them, (or their mother, or the way their mother dresses them)”. “THE FLOOR” Write the words “THE FLOOR” in large letters on a Nerf soccer ball. Say, “To help you remember the first rule of discussion – “one person talks at a time,” - the only person who may talk is the one who has “the floor” (holding up the ball). Right now that person is me.” (Pause for attention) “When you are done speaking you toss it carefully to the person I select, who right now is _______” (toss the ball to student). The floor works well only if you enforce both the careful toss and that no one else talks. It is also most effective when not over used. Use it to regain control. Don’t use it every week or even for every question when you do use it. 8.5.7. HOW WE DO WRAP-UPS The wrap-up does not try to “summarize” a 30-minute discussion. The students have had the chance to express their opinions, now you have 6-8 minutes to share yours. The wrap-up should feel like you have thought about this topic and have something worthwhile for them to think about. It should not feel like, “now I’m going to give you the correct answer.” The wrap-up includes a practical plan of action and a verse or example from the Bible that teaches a basic Christian principle (i.e. love your neighbor as your self), or shows the relevance of a relationship with Christ. Ask yourself if the students have learned something about the person, works or teachings of Christ. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 109 A. PREPARATION - Using a monthly theme (i.e. “I’ll Be There for You”) helps publicity and allows you to develop three or four issues related to the theme instead of just one. Instead of one meeting on all relationships, a month on relationships allows you to talk about peer pressure, friendship, family, and God. The importance of relationships in our lives is enhanced, and God is addressed as a natural part of our lives. - Write it out word for word. Short talks are actually harder than long talks. In written form, you can more easily edit unclear or unnecessary sentences. Seeing the words will also help you begin to learn the wrap-up. - Always memorize at least the first and last lines. Know where you are starting and get started immediately without small talk. This grabs the crowd’s attention and saves valuable time. Knowing your last line will probably make the action plan, or major point more memorable to the crowd, because you made it memorable to yourself. - Limit notes to the major points on a small note card. Memorization helps ensure that the wrap-up makes sense to you, let alone the students. It takes time, but you will gain confidence and communicate more effectively. - Practice stories, quotes, jokes and illustrations. Be careful that they illustrate the wrap-up and don't become the wrap-up. - When using or referring to a Bible verse or story, recognize that many students have little Bible knowledge and need a full explanation. Avoid saying, “We all know what happened…” - Include an application. Ask yourself "What am I asking them to do? How can they apply this thought to their life?” B. PRESENTATION - Be sure to leave enough time for the wrap-up. It is important! You don't want to rush it and you don't want students leaving during it. - Keep it simple (say one thing loud and clear). Although it is just one part of the meeting, recognize its importance. You have the opportunity to share something significant with a group including non-Christian students. - Keep it short (6-8 minutes). Occasionally you may do a shorter discussion to set the stage for a longer wrap-up where the topic begs for more than just one point (how to have a relationship with Christ, abstinence, etc…) but this should be the exception. - Illustrate with current events, recent articles and media, or a particularly good comment from the discussion. (Say, “I really agree with what Dave said about _________.”) When using a provided curriculum, this will really help “make it your own.” - Speak as naturally about Christ, or the Bible, as anything else. The spiritual truth is part of the content not a P.S. - Handling interruptions during a wrap up – You’ve worked hard to make a succinct, important, clear point that will almost always be compromised if YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 110 you allow a student to interrupt with a question. Unless it’s relevant and won’t sidetrack your whole point, say, “let me finish my thought right now, and I’ll answer that question as soon as I’m done.” - Usually (unless it detracts from you memorized final line) end with, “if you want to talk more about this or anything else be sure to let the staff know, we’d love to get together and talk.” C. GOSPEL PRESENTATIONS Emphasizing the relevance of a relationship with Christ from week to week naturally leads to using the wrap-up to share the gospel a couple of times a semester. It should feel natural to say something like, “If you’ve been to several meetings you know each week we include a thought on how a relationship with God relates to the topics we discuss. Some of you may be wondering ‘how do you start a relationship with God in the first place?’ Three or four times a year we answer that question.” "React cards” are probably the best way to discover what students are thinking. A “react card” should include: Name, space for comments or questions, four choices for them to indicate their current relationship with Christ (1. I prayed tonight to begin a relationship with Jesus. 2. I already have a relationship with Jesus. 3. I am not ready to begin a relationship with Jesus. 4. I recommitted myself to really follow Jesus), and a box to check if they want to talk with staff. With everyone writing something, non-Christians have time to write their questions, or check a box indicating they prayed to receive Christ and/or that they'd like to talk further with staff. Christian students often write revealing statements about their relationship with Christ or how effective the presentation was from their perspective. In large clubs it may be effective to ask students who accept Christ to move to another room for initial follow up. 8.5.8. HOW TO “CONTROL” THE CROWD Campus Life staff often surprise adults with their ability to have a good time with teenagers without tearing up the place. How do we do it? Our secret is a combination of careful planning, a well-run meeting, and an attitude that allows spontaneity but not anarchy. A high energy, safe, fun meeting will frequently require crowd control skills. A. QUALITY "SHOW" "The best defense is a good offense." Put time and energy into preparing and presenting a good show, and you'll spend less time and energy on crowd control. The staff person upfront should be able to do their part without interruption. Other staff and student leaders should be prepared to handle props, clean up, turn lights and media on and off etc. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 111 THE LAW OF MEETING DYNAMICS Do it, don't tell them what you're going to do! Don’t explain what is going to happen and lose the crowd’s interest. Don’t waste words explaining, rationalizing, or apologizing for what you are about to do. Dive right in, keep it moving, and create the feeling that they dare not turn away for a minute or they’ll miss something important. Throughout the meeting: Say, "I need two volunteers from each class..." NOT - "Now we are going to play a really fun game that you all will really like..." Say, "What are the issues the key character had to deal with?" NOT - "Now it is time to do a discussion and get your answers to these three questions..." Say, "Picture this..." NOT - "Now I'd like to wrap up tonight's meeting with some of my thoughts to relate the topic to Christian principles. B. STAFF TEAM Staff should sit in the crowd near students that might cause disruptions. Remind volunteers and student leaders to be part of the solution instead of part of the problem. Because student leaders know you best they are actually the most likely to create disruptions. On the other hand, if they respectfully stay tuned in to what is going on their friends most likely will follow their example. C. SURVIVAL TIPS TO KEEP CONTROL - Stand as close to the students as possible. You should be close enough to easily kick the foot of the person in the front row. - Don’t start until you have their attention. If you don’t require their attention to begin with you will never get their attention. Don’t talk if students are talking. There may be a few uncomfortable pauses at first, but a totally out of control club isn’t particularly comfortable either. - Make good eye contact. If nervous, or not well prepared you will find yourself looking over the crowd while trying to remember what to say next. If relaxed and prepared you will more naturally make eye contact with different students. - Be natural, using a normal or slightly louder than normal voice. If you find yourself shouting over the noise, it’s probably mostly because you’re shouting. - Refer to students by name. This makes the tone of club more relational and we all love to be recognized by name. D. SURVIVAL TIPS WHEN YOU LOSE CONTROL As club approaches the point of out of control, (which a good club will regularly do), there are still effective responses other than yelling or coming across like an irritated adult authority figure (even if you are one at the moment). YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 112 - Use a long "pause,” then continue talking in a softer voice. - Casually request their attention. Say, “Hey, listen up everyone” or “Help me out.” Train student leaders to respectfully respond when they realize you’re trying to regain control. - Use a quiet “shhhhhh" which can be strengthened when joined by a few student leaders. - If a regular student is causing the disturbance give him/her the "look" (usually followed by a smile). - Direct attention to one student (“Patti has a comment and I want everyone to hear it. Ready…? O.K, Patti” or “That was a really good point would you please repeat it as soon as every one is listening”). - Refer to an area of the room and ask for their attention, which will usually get everyone else’s too. Say, “As soon as the girls on the blue couch are with us (pause, continue in quieter voice), we’ll continue.” - Single out a student by name, only if you have a relationship with them and are confident of their positive response. Even then, use this sparingly, quietly and when they are really being a major distraction. - When a student is consistently a crowd control problem, they need to be confronted one on one outside of club. Acknowledge the good energy they bring to club, but also the specific behavior that is unacceptable. Include the fact that they will have to be asked to not come if they can’t fit in and be a positive part of the meeting. 8.5.9. STARTING CAMPUS LIFE MEETINGS 8.5.9.1. THE ORGANIZATIONAL MEETING WHEN: Begin as soon as you have enough contacts to make it happen. You should know 100 students by name and be fairly confident that at least 25 will show up. (As a general rule, for every student that comes to club, you will know at least two other students who are interested, but unable to attend for various reasons.) If less than 25 show up, postpone the Kick Off and schedule a second organizational meeting a week later, challenging students to bring a friend with them. WHERE: Use the home of a student well accepted by the majority of the student body and that is easy to find. It will help you, for promotional purposes, to have the first regular meeting, following the Kick Off, back at the same location. WHY: Although you tell students the Organizational meeting isn’t a “real” meeting, you give them the flavor of a club meeting, while building enthusiasm for the next YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 113 week's Kick Off and motivating them to bring friends. You are battling the assumption that Campus Life is only for a certain type of student. Make the evening fun and let them see it is safe to bring anyone. WHAT: CROWDBREAKER One or two of your favorites including a good mixer which lets them get up and meet other students and feel like they are a part of the group. DISCUSSION Existing Campus Life yearly curriculums include organizational meetings, which introduce a theme for the year through a creative discussion. You may also discuss the school, and what topics would interest their friends. VIDEO Show a Campus Life promo video (if available use the previous year's video and save the new one for the "Kick Off"). Make your own or use someone else's even if their events and trips are different than yours. Following the video, emphasize the trips and events you will be doing and make a flyer of major trips available. WRAP-UP Your talk should include a brief description of Campus Life and a challenge for them to help make it happen. “Campus Life is really impossible to describe. You really have to experience it for yourself. Our weekly meetings will include games, just like tonight, and a discussion of an issue important to you like: peer pressure, self-image, dating, sex, family, or friends. Staff will usually share a few thoughts as well. Everything we do emphasizes having a balanced life: mentally, physically, spiritually and socially. One thing's for sure Campus Life will be the most unique club in your school." “Here are three ways you can help Campus Life be the best it can be. INVITE – How many of you came the first time (or “tonight” if a new club) because a friend invited you? (Pause for a show of hands.) It’s true over 90% of the time! Students come the first time because another student invites them! Even better than just inviting them, try to actually BRING them with you. It can be a little scary to walk into a club setting alone the first time. You can make it much easier if you are with them. And better yet, when you get here make them feel WELCOME. Don’t leave them standing in the corner alone and run off to talk to your friends. Hang with them and introduce them to people if they don’t know them.” “Invite, Bring, Welcome. If that’s what it takes, let’s all do it!” YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 114 KICK OFF PROMOTION "Next week is the opportunity for every student at _________High School to hear about Campus Life at the official Campus Life 'Kick Off. ' Here's how you can help get as many students as possible there. (Announce kickoff details.) POSSIBLE PROMOTIONAL TOOLS: - Flyers - Announcements - Posters - Tickets - Using tickets gives the Kick Off visibility and helps students commit to being there. Encourage students to sell tickets by entering their name in a drawing for every ticket they sell. On the other hand, tickets could keep some students away because they think they have to buy one in advance, or because they don’t have money. - Informational booth during lunch - Article in school paper 8.5.9.2. KICK OFF WHEN: One week following a successful Organizational meeting. WHERE: The same home as the Organizational meeting may work if it is large enough. For students to really believe you expect a bigger number, however, and to make it as easy as possible for a new student to come, it is usually best to move to the school cafeteria, or a popular local park. WHY: To let as many students as possible experience the unique atmosphere of a Campus Life event and let them know that Campus Life has begun, and is open to all students. WHAT: CROWDBREAKERS/GAMES The Kickoff is basically a high-energy show with several crowdbreakers, mixers and skits taking up at least 45 minutes. Careful preparation and execution is important to make the kickoff a good experience. Class competition is a good way to build enthusiasm and encourage participation. VIDEO Show a Campus Life promo video and highlight events and trips planned for this school year. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 115 SAMPLE WRAP-UP “Hopefully tonight gives you an idea of what Campus Life is all about. We will do some crazy activities, like tonight, and also give you a chance to talk about an important issue in your life like: self image, peer pressure, love, sex, family, or friends. Campus Life also does incredible trips and events. Through the meetings, trips and events, our goal is to help you develop a balanced life. There are four areas to a balanced life: Mental, Physical, Spiritual and Social. You will be challenged mentally as you express your opinions and listen to others; You will be challenged physically with everything from Jel1o bobbing to mountain climbing (or use a couple of local examples); Since the spiritual area is often the most ignored, we are not afraid to consider what God has to say about the topics we discuss; And socially, well, that's what most students say keeps them coming back. Campus Life happens from 7:27 to 8:57 each week. I hope you'll make it a regular part of your schedule and encourage your friends to check it out too. Be sure to let them know you can't join Campus Life, just come whenever you can. Next week we start our first series of the year called ……” DOOR PRIZES Use the tickets to give away as many prizes as you can get donated. (Include a spot for name and phone number on the tickets to follow up new students. Do not add them to a mail list until they actually show up at a meeting.) Also draw for the winner of the ticket sale contest if you did one. Announce the winning team and let them eat first. FOOD Although Campus Life made the "Burger Bash” famous, Pizza is much easier to plan for, less expensive and better to promote. Although food is always an asset, consider free food, like a cookie buffet, as an alternative if you’d rather not charge for your kick-off. Get key students and supportive parents to donate the cookies. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 116 GENERAL CLUB PREPCHECKLIST At least Two Weeks in Advance [ ] Nail down club location [ ] Recruit adult volunteers (if additional volunteers are needed) To Do The Week Prior To Club PROMOTION [ ] Poster at this week’s club for next week [ ] Posters up at school [ ] Announcement to the school at the end of this week [ ] Contact key kids and encourage them to bring friends FOOD [ ] Line up students/parents to bring snacks next week CLUB PREPARATION [ ] Check for any preparation that needs to be done before day of club [ ] Meet with volunteers and assign (explain) meeting parts [ ] Line up students if there is a skit that needs to be rehearsed DAY OF CLUB PROMOTION [ ] Walkthru at school, (hand out flyers) [ ] Make sure announcement is in and posters are up at school! CLUB PREPARATION [ ] Props, make a list of needed items and make sure you have them ALL [ ] Make sure you are well prepared to do your part of the meeting!!!!! [ ] Set-up club room [ ]First timer cards/pencils [ ] Campus Life brochures, latest student mailing etc. [ ] Upcoming Trip, Event, Activity information/permission slips [ ] Campus Life T –Shirts, hats, stickers, etc PRE-CLUB STAFF MEETING [ ] Critique last week's club (what can we do better tonight?) [ ] Go over next week's meeting and assign parts [ ] Review tonight's meeting [ ] Pray [ ] Make sure you're done before kids start arriving AFTER CLUB [ ] Intentionally set up RMA's for the week i.e. appointments, small groups, lunches, etc. [ ] Props -make sure to take everything you brought. [ ] Attendance -as soon as possible write down attendance (or look over your sign in sheet to make sure everyone is on it, especially new kids). [ ] Clean up -leave club location as neat and clean or cleaner than when you arrived. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 117 [ ] Post-Club building time- arrange with local restaurant to provide food discounts and a good hang out place. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 FALL START UP CHECKLIST THINGS TO DO 118 WEEK Last week of August CLUB MEETING Student Leadership First week of September (Labor Day) No club [ ] Prepare for Organizational Meeting (see General club prep) [ ] Start on Kick Off preparation - Tickets (optional) - Arrange for Pizza deal (or other food) - Purchase supplies - Line up prizes (donation/coupons from local restaurants and businesses) - Line up additional adults (if needed) [ ] Volunteer staff meeting - go over up-coming meetings [ ] Student Leaders call to invite students involved in Camps Life last year to the Organizational meeting [ ] Continue 50 new kids list [ ] Relational Ministry Actions! Second week of September Organizational Meeting [ ] Finish Kick Off prep - Circulate flyers/poster - Ticket sales (optional) [ ] Paint a Campus Life banner with students [ ] Line up club location for October meetings [ ] Continue with 50 new kids list [ ] Organize Student Leaders to personally invite students not at Organizational Meeting [ ] Relational Ministry Actions! Third week of September Kick Off [ ] Complete 50 new kids list [ ] General club prep for next week [ ] Relational Ministry Actions Fourth week of September First club [ ] General Prep for this week and next [ ] Post photo’s from the Kick Off [ ] Announce give away at next weeks club (Registration for your winter trip) [ ] Relational Ministry Actions! [ ] Begin list of 50 new kids [ ] Attend first football game [ ] Make administrative contact [ ] Finish screening/recruiting student leaders [ ] Finish screening / recruiting volunteers [ ] Nail down locations for September club meetings [ ] Relational Ministry Actions YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 119 8.6. Campus Life RMA: Strategic Relationships Definition: The phone rang on Saturday morning and the familiar voice on the other end of the line belonged to a Campus Life student. “There was another party last night… a big party… probably 500 kids.” The call reminds us that the drinking problem in local high schools is at an epidemic level. Like any good youth worker you hurt when you find out who attends these parties and you become upset at the people who provide the alcohol. In this case it so happened that a local quick mart had been named as the source not only for this particular party but for many others as well. It is amazing, the amount of information freely given to Campus Life directors. Students sometimes forget just whom they are talking to when they offer information. Within a few short weeks this quick mart lost its liquor license and other stores in the area were given warning that sales to minors would not be tolerated. This action would not have happened if it had not been for the relationships built between Campus Life and local authorities including school administrators, parents, civic clubs and others who all care about kids in their community. As you know, Campus Life is a relational ministry. But our relationships do not stop with students. In actuality you will find yourself surrounded by opportunities to develop strategic relationships, as both a professional and a minister, which will challenge and assist you in the development of your ministry. We define strategic relationships this way: "Cultivating relationships in the secular community with parents and professionals who impact young people.” 8.6.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE STRATEGIC RELATIONSHIPS AS AN RMA? You may be asking yourself “Did I read that right? In the secular community?” Yes your eyesight is fine. It is very important for us to realize that we are not the only people in our community who care about kids. Many other adults care very deeply about their community and about their neighbors. Though they may not always engage in issues of faith, they are concerned that students develop character, a sense of belonging and the ability to make good decisions. We care about these issues as well. Therefore, the students in our communities become the common ground upon which our strategic relationships are built. There are two main reasons why building strategic relationships is important. First, we are ministers. And although we gravitate toward young people we need to remember that Jesus has called us to reach the lost... wherever they are and by all YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 120 possible means. The Biblical implication is that the janitor at our local high school or the parent of one of our club kids could be someone Jesus wants to use us to reach. Secondly, we are youth experts. We have something to bring to the table. We are an organization with an incredible history and an organization with very gifted people. Strategic relationships will not only benefit our ministry but could also provide the opportunity for eternal benefit to those with whom we partner. Seeing individuals as opportunities instead of obstacles is key to our success. Some of the best proponents and partners of Campus Life are those willing to stand behind the Campus Life director and the program. Many of these men and women come from the secular community. Whether he/she is a principal who holds the key to our gaining access to the campus, or a Jewish parent of a club kid, or the owner of a bus company we are called to love and to serve, these are incredible opportunities for us and for the Kingdom. 8.6.2. HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE STRATEGIC TRALTIONSHIPS? When we go to find strategic relationships there are two natural, logical locations: the campus, or the public schools, and the community, those around us. Naturally, schools become the number one site for which strategic relationships can be found for Campus Life. Let’s first discuss the strategic relationships at your local high school. 8.6.2.1. AT THE LOCAL HIGH SCHOOL Campus Strategic Relationships: Educators, for the most part, are some of the best unsung heroes in our society. They are dedicated youth workers, whose passion for youth drives them out of bed every morning. The School Administration: There are two very distinct groups here. There are the school administrators (principals, vice principals, superintendents… etc.) and those who work in the schools administrative office (secretaries and janitors.) Administrators have no problem with Campus Life being a Christian organization as long as they know we are willing and able to honor limits and boundaries in regards to our conversations about faith with students. A few years back, Mike, a Campus Life director from California, met with a high school Vice-Principal to discuss coming on board as an assistant wrestling coach. The administrator told Mike he would be watched very closely. A few years earlier, the school had to escort a parachurch worker off campus because he overstepped his boundaries and began proselytizing on campus. Mike explained that this would not be a problem, so he began coaching. Within a few months, Mike was not only coaching, but he was also invited to visit the campus regularly during lunch and to chaperone the school dances. Soon he was also a guest speaker in health classes concerning teen suicide and was called upon to assist the guidance counselors during a school tragedy. In the nine years Mike worked with that school, he never shared the gospel on school grounds. But the relationships YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 121 he made with administrators and students helped grow his club to over three hundred students, many of whom did hear the gospel through Campus Life. Mike’s story teaches us that administrators are quick to trust us when we display a respect for their boundaries and when we have no hidden agendas. The next group found in the school administrative office is the school secretarial and maintenance personnel. These people are very hard working and very under appreciated. As you continue your involvement with the school you will find that most of your face-to-face dealings will be with these people. It is extremely important that we care for those we are in contact with. A gift, card or even just an out of the way “Thank you” goes a long way in showing care and concern for those in the schools administrative office. Teachers & Coaches: One veteran Campus Life director has been working with the Student Activities Director at the local high school for almost three years. The Student Activities Director knew a lot about Campus Life. The Campus Life volunteers chaperoned dances, helped with float building for homecoming, and overall became a vital part of the schools activities. The SA Director had booked a motivational speaker for a school assembly program. Early in the morning of the scheduled event, he got word that the speaker was unable to come. He immediately called on Campus Life for help. Within an hour and a half the Campus Life director was speaking at the school assembly. Campus Life was viewed as an asset to the school because a relationship had evolved into a partnership. Evolved… kind of a weird word, but one that is important in building relationships. Relationships take time. In the beginning, very few schools will permit access or allow our programs to be a part of the campus community. However, in time, with much patience and due diligence you will notice just how much Campus Life is welcomed as an asset to the school. See the Appendix for a great article on serving your school community. Other Campus Relationships: There are other strategic relationships very helpful in the public school system. There may, for example, be councils made up of selected representatives from the school, law enforcement agencies, the school board, the city government, parents and clergy. This can be an invaluable forum to work along side some wonderful and passionate people who care about kids. The school transportation director for a local school district is another significant person in the lives of teens. These folks may be willing to consider contracting with an outside agency for trips and events during non-school times. 8.6.2.2. WITHIN THE COMMUNITY YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 122 We have been discussing relationships that are found in and around the public school campus; however, there are many strategic relationships to be found within the community as well. Community people include pretty much everyone: local business owners, parents of club kids, law enforcement officers and possibly other youth organizations with which a collaborative relationship could be built. What do these relationships look like? Parents: Probably no other strategic relationship will bring you the greatest joy and sometimes, the greatest pain than with the parents of Campus Life kids. Check out the following story as an example of what can happen when things go good: Pete was the father of two girls involved in Campus Life. He and his wife were un-churched but great people none-the-less. Pete was a “God bless America, Good ol’ Boy.” He was a good man and had a belief in a higher power. He just wasn’t sure he needed to acknowledge that God wanted to have a relationship with him. He loved his girls and he valued what Campus Life stood for. He wanted to serve Campus Life because of his daughters’ involvement. He attended some trips, helped provide security at events, offered his home for team meetings and small group gatherings, provided recommendations about Campus Life to school officials and other parents. Pete and the local Campus Life director became good friends, enjoying fishing, having lunch, and watching football games. He even attended a Campus Life trip serving as the cook! During the trip both of his daughters made commitments to Jesus Christ as Pete watched from the back of the room. With tears streaming down his face, Pete wondered, “Is this friendship-thing with God real?” Today Pete’s daughters have graduated from college, one from a Christian university. Pete and his wife are attending church and Pete still lives as a faithful “Good ol’ Boy.” Pete’s story brings up a few lessons that we can learn regarding strategic relationships with parents. First, reaching the student may also provide opportunity for you to reach the whole family. It is imperative that we schedule specific events, which can include parents or even the entire family. Try hosting a few “Parent Night” clubs or even a “Help, my child is a teenager!” seminar. These types of events help initiate relationships between you and the parents and serve to assure them that you are connected to a solid, useful organization. Second, it is okay for us to involve pre-Christian parents in our ministry. We are not suggesting you hire pre-Christian adults for ministry staff or volunteer ministry positions. Rather we hope you will allow secular adults the opportunity to serve with Campus Life. It gives you another pool of resources to accomplish the ministry. It can also open their hearts to the life-changing message we proclaim. Business Owners/Managers: Businesses and business owners or managers can be a vital and strategic relationship for Campus Life. Many businesses view students as YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 123 potential customers. That’s why Nike, Blockbuster, Old Navy and others target their marketing to teenagers! Teenagers have the cash and they spend billions each year. Other businesses view Campus Life as a potential consumer and boy do we spend. Ski trips, pizza bashes, banquets, and transportation -- It amazes me just how many businesses we actually work with. Check out this example from the field…Jim owned a charter bus company. We needed one bus and decided to hire Jim for the trip. We had a good time together. He allowed us to be flexible with our departure times and he never got too concerned or stressed about having 40 kids on a bus for nine hours. We would definitely use him again… and again. All in all we were one of Jim’s best customer for nine years. We used his business six or seven times each year, recommending his services to others. He always gave us the cheapest rate even when we needed more buses than he owned. Campus Life involved and appreciated Jim. Kids loved him. He skied with us, he rafted with us, and he went to Mexico with us. We allowed him the opportunity to serve and serve he did. This is more than a good business story. This is about friendship. Partnerships or “cobranding” is also a good thing in developing a relationship with a business. It’s a “you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours” kind of scenario. Another example: A local juice smoothie company was the newest and hottest hang out place for catching a quick, nutritional snack or lunch. Kids were always there. We would meet there all the time and the management would get used to seeing Campus Life staff members with kids. Eventually we approached the manager and suggested that Campus Life could provide her with quality leads on potential employees. She was thrilled, and a partnership was born. We helped her staff her business with the brightest and best students and the Campus Life Staff received free smoothies. About a month went by and she came up with a proposal of her own for Campus Life. It was about “cobranding” her company with Campus Life. She saw that the core values of her company matched many of Campus Life’s values. She then proceeded to create a way to communicate our partnership with the public: the smoothie card. It was a plastic card that would fit into a person’s wallet. On one side it talked about her company and about the importance of “living right” nutritionally. One the other side it talked about Campus Life and the importance of “living right” through a balanced lifestyle. The owner of the card would receive a dollar discount every time he or she presented the card in her store. We would sell the card for ten dollars, which we then used to help raise money for trip scholarships. This also translated into free advertising in the school newspaper and yearbook for Campus Life. There are many ways and opportunities to meet and develop strategic relationships with business owners. Being a frequent consumer is one, much like the relationship described above with Jim. “Co-branding” is a definite possibility with businesses in your area that share core values. Getting involved with Rotary, Kiwanis or other service clubs is great as well. Many business owners and managers care about kids YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 124 as well as the community. Step out a bit and give them the opportunity to care in partnership with you. Strategic relationships are vital to the success and longevity of our ministry. Whether you are looking to build a partnership with the school or a business or you want parents to see you as an asset to their family, relationships take time. Be patient, prayerfully consider each opportunity and move forward… you’ll be glad you did… and so will they! YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 125 8.7 Campus Life: Student Leadership Definition: Christian students who are committed to influencing their friends for Christ through YFC-related ministries. 8.7.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE STUDENT LEADERSHIP AS AN RMA? • SHARED OWNERSHIP OF THE CAMPUS LIFE MISSION When it comes to reaching students with the gospel, our mission is to be about reaching “every”. A Campus Life director alone can impact only a limited number of students during a limited number of hours. Student leaders are in school five days a week and can greatly multiply our presence and enhance our efforts. A very high percentage of their time revolves around the mission field! • POSITIVE PEER INFLUENCE It is always easier to take a stand when you’re not alone. Student leadership serves as a place for Christian students to encourage one another, pray for one another, and build positive relationships with each other. The positive relationships that are established will in turn attract other students to Campus Life. “Your strong love for each other will prove to the world that you are my disciples” (John 13:35, LIV). • TRAINING AND EQUIPPING STUDENTS TO REACH THEIR FRIENDS FOR CHRIST. Many Christian students have a desire to influence their friends for Christ. Student leadership takes this a step farther and provides encouragement and training on how to effectively reach their friends for Christ. 8.7.2. HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE STUDENT LEADERSHIP? Use the following six principles to create an effective, efficient student leadership team in your Campus Life ministry. 8.7.2.1. ESTABLISH YOUR TEAM When pursuing students to be involved at the leadership level, it is important to look for students who: 1. Have a growing relationship with Christ. 2. Exhibit positive moral character and are respected by their peers. 3. Have a heart to see their friends come to know Christ. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 126 RECRUITMENT STRATEGY: Where do I find these kinds of students? The Church • In theory, ready-made Christian leaders can be found within strong evangelical churches and youth groups in your area. Area youth pastors can recommend the names of solid student leaders. Communication with the area youth pastors is key not only for providing names of potential student leaders, but also to explain that Campus Life uses student leaders for evangelism, and is not trying to steal kids from their youth groups. Inside/ Outside Recommendations Other sources of student names are: • • • Adults (parents, teachers, volunteers). Any adult aware of the mission of YFC and who knows Christian kids with the potential to become leaders on their campus. Current student leaders. Student leaders who understand the mission can be given the opportunity to refer their peers to you as potential student leaders. Home grown students. Look for those students who have become Christians or have been discipled directly through the ministry of YFC. RECRUITMENT STATEGY: When should I recruit student leaders? • Student leadership recruitment is an ongoing process, so always be on the lookout. However, there are specific times of the year that are key to student leader recruitment. 1. Spring and Summer: These two times of the year are critical when it comes to student leader recruitment because both give you adequate time to build your group dynamic in preparation for next school year. 2. January: Right after Christmas break is a good time to add those students whom you may have been discipling over the past few months and feel that they are now ready to step up to the leadership level. RECRUITMENT STRATEGY: How can I make sure I’m getting the right kids? • SCREENING/ INTERVIEW PROCESS (See appendixes A and B at the end of this section) • CONNECT WITH YOUR TEAM How can I build a strong bond with my leaders? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 127 • CONTACTING: As we visit school, go to practices and ballgames, we always need to be working on our relationships with student leaders. 1. At School: connect with your Leaders during lunch, before or after school to talk to them, and to meet their friends. 2. Practices or Games: attend activities they are involved in or take your Student Leaders with you when you go out to various events. This can be a great time with your leaders as well as a great way to meet other students. • BUILDING TIMES: These times are designed to be more intentional times with your student leaders with the purpose of sharing an experience and building a memory. The following are just a few suggestions of some creative and memorable building times: - Overnighters/ Getaways - Paint-balling - Eating out - Game nights - Shopping at the mall… • APPOINTMENTS: Appointments provide the opportunity to meet with student leaders individually and find out more of their story. Appointments are great for finding out more about your student leader’s spiritual journey and where they currently are in their relationship with Christ. Appointments are also a good time to strategize with them about impacting their friends and their school for Jesus Christ. 8.7.2.2. ESTABLISH ADULTS AS MINISTRY PARTNERS Research continues to point out the necessity of adult involvement in the development of our student leaders. Adults are essential to the fulfillment of our purpose in discipling and training our Student Leaders effectively. Research has established that adults function in four ways that contribute significantly to the evangelistic effectiveness and development of student leaders (see Rahn & Linhart, 2000, Contagious Faith: Empowering student leadership in youth evangelism. Group Publishing). • Visionaries: they understand that student leaders are persons worthy of disciplemaking investment themselves BEFORE they are the means to get evangelism done. The best adults invest considerable energy in their student leaders. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 128 • Models: they recognize that they have a catalytic role in modeling evangelistic values among their teens. Research shows that student leaders who saw adults lead others to Christ most frequently were more likely to be the most effective in their own evangelism. This result dramatically multiplied if student leaders saw other teens model this kind of evangelism. Thus, adults need to recognize that their students need to see models and be willing to be their first models they observe, recognizing that they won’t be the most influential models once teens “catch evangelism” from their peers. • Programmers: adults should create structures that guarantee a mature adult is meeting at least weekly with each student leader. These meetings do not necessarily need to be individualized, but one of the strongest research findings links the frequency of these life-faithfulness coaching times to the fruitfulness of student leaders in evangelism. Adults also take on the responsibility of providing consistently appropriate, distinctly Christian programs, which their students can have confidence in as they invite their friends to hear the gospel. • Resources: adults function to teach the Bible to their student leaders, and create structures for their continued growth and development in the faith. 8.7.2.3. ESTABLISH STRUCTURE Now that you’ve established your team, the next important step is to establish what your meetings will look like. Where Should We Meet? Location is a key decision when establishing the structure of your student leader meetings. Your location should be large enough to accommodate your group and it should allow for growth as well. Another important aspect of your meeting place is that it should give you an element of privacy that keeps you away from potential distractions. Finally, look for a location that will allow you to be creative in your programming. The following are a few suggestions: 1. School: Meeting at the school is usually considered the best option because students are planning on being there already. 2. Church: Meeting at a church can be a good option in that it can often be a place away from distractions. 3. Homes: Meeting at someone’s home can be good in that it gives a comfortable feel to your meetings. 4. The Campus Life Building allows you to have ready access to resources. When Should We Meet? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 129 The time of your meetings is also an important factor to consider. In considering the time of your meetings one of the most important questions to ask yourself is, “ What time will enable me to have maximum participation from my student leaders?” The following are some suggestions: 1. Before School: Mornings rarely are filled with potential activities that would conflict with a student’s participation. 2. After School: After school may mean your students are more awake, but the potential for conflict is extremely high at this time. 3. Evening: Evenings are an option, but again, it may be a time that is filled with more potential for conflict. 4. Lunch Time: Lunch Time can be a great option if you can find an appropriate room in which to meet, e.g. the choir room. How Often Should We Meet? Student leadership should be done on a weekly basis. Having weekly contact with your student leaders gives you the opportunity to build your team, to provide accountability to your mission, and to adequately train your leaders. How Long Should The Meetings Last? The length of your meetings will probably be directly affected by where and when you choose to meet. The suggested length of a Student Leader meeting is anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Make sure when determining length that you give yourself plenty of time to be creative and to accomplish your intended purpose. Make sure you don’t error on the side of making your meetings too long either. Don’t try to do so much in your meetings that you need any more than an hour to accomplish it. 8.7.2.4. ESTABLISH A GAME PLAN Structure answers the questions “where?” and “when?” while a game plan answers the question “what?” Establishing a game plan means establishing a purpose and a direction for your meetings. PURPOSE A purpose can be specified for your group as long as it falls within the realm of the overall purpose of student leadership. Developing a purpose for your group helps you to begin with the end in mind. DIRECTION YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 130 Once you have your purpose in mind, you can begin to map out how you will get there. Establishing your direction requires three important elements. 1) goal setting 2) developing curriculum and 3) developing a calendar. (See appendix D) AGREEMENT ON PURPOSE & DIRECTION Finally, it is important to get your student leaders on the same page. To help them understand and embrace the purpose and direction you will take, it is important to establish a written contract or covenant to which they can agree. 8.7.2.5. ESTABLISH TRAINING OPPORTUNITIES Throughout the year it is important to provide opportunities for your students to find real, practical, hands on training on how to effectively reach their friends for Christ. Opportunities like this can be found in student leader getaways, conferences or retreats. WHY GETAWAYS? Student leader getaways are smaller events such as camping trips, out of town excursions, overnight hotel stays, lock-ins at a church, or even sleepovers at home. These smaller getaways offer opportunities that help build strong and effective student leader teams. The extended time you get to spend with your leaders affords you the opportunity to zero in on spiritual issues, build team unity, and provide practical training in a variety of areas. WHY CONFERENCES & RETREATS? Conferences and retreats are larger scale events often done in cooperation with other student leader groups from other schools. These types of events create a bigger picture and provide a variety of training for students on different levels. Conferences and retreats provide a place to build enthusiasm. The enthusiasm and training help encourage the student leaders to go back to their schools, share their faith with their friends, and make a difference on their campus. 8.7.2.6. ESTABLISH “OUT REACH” OPPORTUNITIES Our overall purpose is to develop and train students to be influencers in their schools. In order to help them actually reach their friends for Christ we need to provide them with opportunities to do that. The following are some opportunities you can provide your students. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 131 HEALTHY CLUB One of the best things we can do for our student leaders is to provide them with an exciting, safe, non-threatening place where they can invite their friends to hear the gospel presented. Club should be a place where our student leaders feel comfortable and excited to invite a non-Christian friend to on any given night. PARTICIPATION IN RMA’S Our student leaders should be given the opportunity to join us as we carry out some of our relational ministry actions. - Small Groups: student leaders should be given the opportunity to participate in or lead a small group that is designed to reach their friends for Christ. (See Honest to God material by Bill Muir & Dave Bartlett) - Appointments: encourage student leaders to be a part of appointments you may have with their friends. Make them a part of the evangelism process. - Club: give student leaders an opportunity to share their story within a club setting. - Building Times: use building times as an intentional way of connecting Non-Christian students with student leaders. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 132 8.7. Appendix A THE STUDENT LEADER SCREENING PROCESS INFORMATION SHEET Name: ____________________________________________ Phone: _______________ Email: ____________________________________________ B-day: _______________ Please answer the following questions (use another sheet of paper) • What activities are you involved in? (School, church, etc.) • What has been your involvement with Campus Life? • When did you ask Christ into your life? THE STUDENT LEADER SCREENING PROCESS APPOINTMENT/ INTERVIEW • When and how did you accept Christ? • Have you been growing spiritually? • What has been your involvement in Church? • What has been your involvement in Campus Life? • How do you feel about sharing your faith? • Have you told anyone about your relationship with God recently? • What area holds you back from spiritual growth? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 133 8.7. Appendix B THE STUDENT LEADER SCREENING PROCESS Student leadership is an essential part of any successful Campus Life ministry. All of the Relational Ministry Actions (RMAs) hold equal value so each RMA including student leadership, should have a well thought out plan for development in our campus ministries. As Campus Life directors, we at times err in taking on too much ourselves and not sharing the ownership with student leaders, volunteers, and other adults. It is imperative to share ownership of ministry so that we can have a broader foundation and find longevity in ministry. If we are to share the ministry, especially with students, there must be a strategy so that the students have: 1) clear expectations, 2) knowledge of the importance of their involvement, 3) accountability, and 4) their relationship with Christ as the most important thing in their lives. As we consider meeting with a potential student leader, it is vital to start with the basics. Let each student share with you about his/her life, family, interests, how and when they became a Christian and why he/she wants to be a student leader. Also vital is sharing your vision for student leadership and the Campus Life ministry. An effective way to cover the basics is to use a student leader contract. A contract is a list of expectations and a basis for accountability. The signature on the contract shows a commitment on the student leader’s part, which we need to view as binding. A student leader contract also serves as a job description for the student, communicating clearly the job’s expectations. Be sure that both you and the student have a copy of the contract. The follow-up to this process is to conduct a year-end evaluation of the student leader. If the evaluation is satisfactory, have the student sign a new contract for the upcoming year. Note: Have student leaders evaluate you. This increases their ownership and seriousness of their commitment. Lastly, the Lord desires for us to do our best in all that we do because we do it in the name of the Lord, (1 Colossians 3:17.) “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” It might help to remember the process this way: C.O.D.A. OF ACCOUNTABILITY Commitment: What are you asking the students to commit to? This should give the students and us clear expectations, and a job description, and something to be held accountable to. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 134 Ownership: This screening process and time investment should give students a sense of ownership. If they don’t feel ownership, is it your fault or theirs? Demand Excellence: The Lord would want nothing less Accountability: The process, contract, and evaluations show the students what they will be held accountable to. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 8.7 Appendix C 135 YFC/Campus Life Student Leader Expectations • Purpose For student to grow through leadership and outreach opportunities. • For CL to grow through student leaders’ influence • • • • Expectations Growing relationship with Christ Desire to influence friends to know and follow God’s ways Involvement in church and school activities. Good reputation - positive example in speech, conduct, attitude, love, & purity. • Understanding & appreciation of YFC/Campus Life’s purpose, goals, & style. • Desire to represent YFC/CL with friends at school, at church, & in the community • Willingness to listen, learn, and lead. • • • • • • • • Duties Attend Campus Life meetings and events. Attend Student Leader meetings. Invite everyone you know to CL - pass out flyers weekly. Carry announcements and posters to school when asked. Invite CL staff to lunch & school functions - introduce your friends. Lead discussions, skits, study groups, planning sessions as requested. Help with crowd control, set-up, and games. Attend YFC Banquet, Go Mad, Spring Fling, and Student Leader retreats. I understand the expectations and duties of a YFC/Campus Life Student Leader and I would like to be a Student Leader. Signed______________________________________________Date_______________________ Name_________________________________________Phone___________________________ Address ______________________________________________________Email___________________ Parents’ names: ____________________________Church_______________________________ School: __________________________________Year of Graduation _____________________ School Activities: _______________________________________________________________ Sports/Music commitments & season: _______________________________________________ YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 136 8.8. CAMPUS LIFE RMA: TRIPS Definition: “Campus Life trips take young people out of their environment for a shared experience. Trips provide an environment where God transforms lives through memorable experiences, authentic Christ-centered relationships, and a clear presentation of the gospel.” 8.8.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE TRIPS AS AN RMA? There are many reasons we use trips as an RMA in our relational ministry strategy. Here are just a few. • • • • • To share Christ with lost young people. Campus Life wants to clearly communicate the message of Jesus Christ to every young person. The first and foremost purpose for doing a trip is to provide yet another opportunity for students to hear the gospel message. To enable Christian students and staff to use their life to present Jesus. We should all be living representatives for Christ in our daily lives, but trips allow us another place to display our walk with Christ. Christian students don’t often consciously think about using their life to “speak” Christ to their friends. As staff, we can facilitate the practice of that on a trip. To build a relationship with a student (listen to their story and connect our stories). Trips are ideal fro providing concentrated time with students. You have 24 hours a day, for 2-10 days to get to know someone’s story. That can happen on a bus, while you are getting ready for bed, over a meal, or anywhere. But, you have to be intentional about building that relationship. We are always stressing to our volunteer staff that they must be WITH the kids wherever they go. This can be uncomfortable for them at times, but is necessary in order to build relationships. As you establish and build relationships, it will become clear how their stories can connect with God’s story. To create positive memories. Many kids have never been away from home and have very few positive experiences in their life. A Campus Life trip can be the first time that they do something for themselves or have a positive experience without doing anything illegal. Any memory you build on a trip will last for years. Kids will very often go back and laugh or talk about what happened on a trip. They in turn become your best marketing effort fro the trip next year. To work together as the body of Christ (volunteer team). Trips provide a chance for so many different people to come together to pull off a successful trip. You will learn who is good at what and how to motivate and equip your volunteer leaders. When they are able to practice their area of strength, they will engage and feel fulfilled. Examples are: know YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 137 • • who is good at mechanical things in case of a break down; know who is good at details and can make sure each person is counted before leaving a location every time; know who is the jokester and put him/her at the back of the bus/van and let them have at it! When students see a team of Christians working well together, it is such a testimony of God’s body of believers and kids will be attracted to that community. To build momentum for CL in the school. Everyone will be talking about the CL trip before you depart and long after your return. If you go on a trip with 15 kids and they come back and are saying positive things, your numbers will surely increase the following year. Repetition in trips is very wise, because then people will begin to expect that trip each year and can plan for it and look forward to it. To reach some kids who would never otherwise be interested in CL. Trips are a selling point. Once a student goes with you on a trip you will always have a connection point with them. You will also get some students to go because they especially like the trip you are offering. For example: camping and hiking, an amusement park, lying in the sun in Florida, etc. If the student likes the trip, he/she will be much more apt to come to other CL events. 8.8.2. HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE TRIPS? 8.8.2.1. THE PRE-TRIP PLANNING • Transportation/drivers. You must make sure you have enough drivers per vehicle and that they all have their YFC application turned in and accepted. They also must have 100/300 insurance to drive a vehicle with students in it and must be at least 21 years old. Do not ask volunteers to drive who are uncomfortable or feel they are poor drivers. You must stress the importance of safety to each driver. Make sure they are closely following each other and have a mode of communication, i.e. walkie-talkies, cell phones. The lead vehicle will make all decisions about where and when to stop. Each vehicle should also have written directions of where you are going, in case of emergency. Always stop together and never leave any one vehicle behind. If you traveling by bus and have more than 3 busses, then break into groups of 2 for quicker stops and faster travel. Also, if you have any hesitations about your bus driver, have a Campus Life staff stay awake with that driver throughout the night. We recommend having one staff person serve as your “bus captain” or liaison with the bus driver in each bus of your convoy. Thoroughly look over any rental vehicle before leaving the lot to see if there are any dings or nicks that were preYFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 138 • • • • existing. Write them down and make sure the company is aware of those before you leave! Budget (Trips Appendix A). After you have decided what exactly you are going to be doing, make a list of all of your projected costs; transportation, activities, food, equipment, speakers, etc. If you want to charge your staff less, add that into the students cost. Then add up all your expenses and divide it by the number of paying people. That will give you how much your trip will cost per student. NEVER BUDGET TO LOSE MONEY!! Always have an overage of at least 5 – 10 % on the total expenses, just in cases of emergency. Student fundraisers (Trips Appendix B). You should consider providing 2-3 different fundraisers for your students who might otherwise not be able to afford going on the trip. . Typically, we don’t let kids start fundraising before their deposit is in, because they may not go on the trip and then they have raised money that isn’t going toward him/her trip. If, for some reason, that happens, where a student raises money and then doesn’t go on the trip, we hold their money in an account for them to go on a future Campus Life trip or they can transfer it to a friend who is going on the trip. Don’t let the kids turn in tons of cash to you or tons of pennies. Tell them to have a parent write one check to Campus Life for the total amount, to eliminate confusion. Campus Life then writes the check out to pay the company, i.e. Pizza Hut. That way, the student is making a profit. You, as the Campus Life director, decide how much each student will make on each sale. You can also have then raise money for your staff to go through the fundraisers. Parent meeting (Trips Appendix C) You want to create excitement for the students at this meeting, as well as to inform and calm parents. This meeting usually happens 2 weeks before the departure of the trip. At that meeting they turn in their final money, decide rooming lists, fill out any remaining sheets, get packing lists, etc. If you are leading a small trip (under 10) then do this information over the phone. Set up a registration table and make sure everyone feels like they know what is happening next. Tell them it is a mandatory meeting, if they want to get in a room with their friends. (That always makes them come.) Plan the itinerary (Trip Appendix D) Don’t fill up your schedule just to have something to do. First think about what you want to accomplish in the kids and staff and then ask yourself, “what could we do that would foster that outcome?” Activities without a purpose are not worth doing. Keep in mind, the purpose could be to have fun or to have a shared experience, but make sure that someone knows WHY you are doing anything. Give enough time for the kids to just hang out – caution against over programming. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 139 Remember that your objective is to build relationships, not just to do activities. Make sure to find time for the staff to get away and have alone time with God, and find time for the staff to pray/worship together. That is the fuel that makes the week keep going smoothly. Have a mix of things to do that will be enjoyable to different types of kids – not just things that you like to do. Make it easy for staff to hang out with kids – don’t pull the staff out of activities to help you (if you can resist that). Give your most time, or best time, to the things that are most important to you. I.e. don’t try to do small groups at 12:00 at night after a super long day and expect that to be the best part of the day. PROMOTION • Posters/ Announcements – There are many ways to promote a trip you are going on. The more ways you promote, the better off you will be. Don’t just use flyers, or just use phone calls. Use all of these combined. 6-8 months before your trip, you can start hanging up posters in visible places for students/parents to see. Make sure you check with your school to see if they will allow you putting up posters are school. Also see if your school will allow you to put in an announcement to the entire school about your trip. Some schools will allow this. Make it creative and “ear-grabbing”. Put one in every week for a month before you start promoting heavily. • Flyers/registration form (Trip appendix E), sign up sheet – We have enclosed a sample flyer and registration that you could use as an example for passing out flyers. It is also helpful to take with you (to club or to certain contacting times) a clipboard and pen and have kids who are interested in going on the trip to sign their name and phone number on your sign up list. That way, you have a list to work off, when you start phone calling. • Phone calls – Once you have a list of potential names, pick a night or two and get all your volunteers together at a place with lots of phones. Divide up the lists; make sure they know all the info to answer questions with; and set them loose. You can have all your kids called in 2 hours or less! As the Campus Life Director, wander around and answer questions your staff may not know. This is a huge step, because you will have a much better idea of who is going after phone calls to parents are made. • Video – This has been a great tool! If you know someone, or even a student, who can put together a 3-5 minute video of your last CL trip, then ask if you can play it at school. Sometimes, schools do video announcements and will allow this. If not, show it at your clubs or anywhere else that kids are. If you would like to see an YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 140 example that is already made up contact Grand Rapids Youth For Christ. TRAINING • Recruiting and screening staff/ training day (Trip appendix F) – Every staff you have go with you on a trip must have already filled out a volunteer application form before leaving on the trip! We would suggest that you meet one on one with every new staff you may have going on trip to find out their interests, as well as to be aware of any potential problems. Don’t be afraid to ask people NOT to come on the trip if you are in any way unsure of them. You do NOT want to risk the kids being misled. God will provide all that you need! We suggest getting all the staff together about 1-2 weeks prior to leaving on the trip so that they can meet one another and so that everyone is on the same page before leaving. We have enclosed an agenda for you to look at to see what things need to be covered at this meeting. Don’t assume that your staff knows all that is expected! Go through everything very thoroughly. The biggest thing they need to know is how to run an effect small group as well as how to articulate the gospel to someone. Also, give them the names of specific kids that they will be responsible for so they can call them and introduce themselves and begin praying for those students by name. • Student to staff ratio – Ideally, you should try and have 1 staff for every 4 kids. This allows for more personal contact between the kids and staff and also cuts down on disciplinary problems. Practically speaking, 1 staff for every 7 kids is safe and acceptable, but less staff begins to become potentially dangerous. • Placing kids in rooms- This can be tricky! You need to pray very much over these decisions. You will have the feedback from the kids about who they will want to be with; but you ultimately make the final decisions. Try not to put all the kids who are Christians together – but rather, separate them somewhat to allow them to evangelize to new people. They may whine about this, but it is worthwhile in the long run. There are so many variable with this; so just make sure you bathe this one in prayer! 8.8.2.2. THE TRIP VOLUNTEER STAFF • Staff Meetings - Have regular staff meetings while on a trip. These meetings should provide a time for your volunteer team to pray, share frustrations /concerns, and be informed of the daily schedule and possible changes. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 141 Meetings could include a devotional time and worship. Staff pastors to lead devotional and prayer time could be useful with a large number of volunteer staff. • Play it safe - Remember you, and your volunteers are the responsible adults for a group of teenagers. Don't compromise safety (especially driving) or credibility with parents just because your students will think it is fun. When in doubt… DON'T! Remember to leave a good reputation wherever you go. APPOINTMENTS (ONE ON ONE) • During the trip each student should have an intentional appointment with a staff. The desired outcome of an appointment is that every student on the trip has the opportunity to hear a clear presentation of the gospel and is asked to respond one way or another. Secondly, that every student is sent home with a deeper understanding of God. (See Trips appendix G, small group booklet, page 6-7 for tips on how to do an appointment) • These appointments should be started a few days into a trip (once relationships have been built) and completed before returning home. The ideal ratio for students to staff is 4 to 1. • Before the trip is over, each staff must turn in a completed appointment form (see Trips appendix H for appointment form) for each student to the director. These forms will be very useful as a follow up tool to track each student's story. SMALL GROUPS • Small groups, as defined in the RMA's, are an effective way to address specific needs, create a safe place for honest sharing and provide personal attention and interaction. • Refer to Trips appendix G for an example of a small group curriculum for a weeklong trip. Pages 4 and 5 of the small group booklet have helpful rules to make small group as effective as possible. LARGE GROUP MEETINGS • Large group meetings create an atmosphere for community, evangelism, fun, and even corporate worship. The numbers of large group meetings on a trip and the content for the speaker are YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 142 dependent on the trip focus/purpose. Meetings could include: video, skits, student speakers, special speaker and worship. An “open mic” night at the end of a trip for students to share what God did in their heart is a great idea! 8.8.2.3. THE POST TRIP THANK YOU NOTES/GIFTS • Be sure to send thank you notes or gifts to anyone that has served in unexpected ways to make a trip possible. COLLECT ALL FORMS • Evaluation Forms (from staff and students, Trips appendix I) Having staff and students evaluate a trip will give accurate feedback on the success of the trip. Go through evaluations to determine possible changes to make and things to do the same because of effectiveness. • Appointment Forms (Trips Appendix H) FOLLOW UP PLAN AND MATERIALS (Establishing the basics of the Christian life with a new believer.) • Assign a staff to follow up with a student. If the staff from the trip cannot commit, find another volunteer, parent, or youth pastor who can follow up with that student. • Contact should be made in the first 2 weeks following a trip. • Follow up should consist of meeting with the student at least 6 times, taking them to church, and making sure they have a Bible. • Follow up can happen in the form of one-on- one discipleship or in the venue of a small group. Small groups are a great way to involve Student Leaders in the follow up process. • Possible follow up material: Any 6-week Bible study covering the basics of Christianity Suggestions: Getting Started by Barry St. Clair or Totally True by YFC REUNION PARTY • Purpose of reunion party is to re-connect with the students and staff within 2 months following a trip. This could include a highlight video, pictures, food, and provide a second opportunity to follow up with students who have been otherwise hard to make connections with. 8.8.3 What are some different examples of trips? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 143 WEEK LONG TRIPS: 1. High Adventure/Wilderness Trip 2. Missions Trip 3. Spring Break Trip 4. Student Leader Trip 5. Conference (DC/LA) WEEKEND TRIPS: 1. Shopping Trip 2. Winter Ski/Snowboarding Trip 3. Camping/Backpack Trip 4. Amusement Park 5. Sailing/Canoeing Trip 8.8.4. Trips Appendix Summary A. Sample Budget B. Student Fundraisers C. Parent Meeting D. Itinerary E. Flyer/Registration F. Staff Training Day G. Small Group booklet (student and leader guide) H. Appointment form I. Evaluation form (staff and student forms) YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 144 8.9. Campus Life RMA: EVENTS Definition: An event is a Campus Life sponsored youth activity that enhances the ministry program’s image. During events, we take students out of their normal environment for a shared experience that creates memories and provides opportunities to share Christ. 8.9.1. WHY DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE THE RMA EVENTS? A. Evangelism One way to use events is strictly for the purpose of reaching the unchurched students in your community, and sharing the life-changing message of Jesus with them. This might be done through a concert, a speaker, etc. The focus here is that it’s probably a one-time activity. A second way to use events for evangelism is to use them in the club settings 3-4 times a semester in order to bring lots of new students out for a meeting. This is their introduction to Campus Life. They will hopefully return for future clubs where they can hear about the message of Christ. B. Discipleship Events can be used in the same way for growth, or discipleship efforts with your students. They can be set up for one-time activities, or can be used throughout the year. This would be especially beneficial if working with the churches in your local area. C. Publicity The third reason we use events is simply for the publicity (positive image builder) that might be given to Campus Life by doing an event. The purpose is to use an event to inform as many people as possible about Campus Life. 8.9.2. HOW DOES CAMPUS LIFE USE EVENTS? We have included a “question sheet” at the end of this section to guide you as you plan events. As you plan to use Events to draw young people into God’s story, think about three key issues. A. Purpose Before drawing up the plans for an event, a purpose must drive the event. Ask yourself, “Why am I doing this event? (When I finish this event, I want to be able to evaluate the effectiveness of the event.) “Did we accomplish what we drew up on the chalkboard? Did we work with the churches? Did we reach lost students? Did lots thousands of people in our community get informed about YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 145 YFC through this event?” I must establish what the purpose is from the beginning. The one question I want to keep asking myself over and over is, “who is this event intended to reach?” What is my purpose statement? In one sentence, create what the event is all about. For example, “The purpose of this event is to introduce as many high school students to Campus Life as possible.” OR “The purpose of this event is to reach lost, unchurched, high school students in our community.” OR “The purpose of this event is to connect with as many churches in our community as possible.” Don’t be elaborate. Just state your purpose. In one local high school, the athletic director came to the CL staff person and had the idea of doing a winter sports pep rally. The purpose became simply to get lots of students out to the rally. The AD’s purpose behind it was to get students excited about the winter sports’ teams, and the CL staff’s purpose was to introduce Campus Life to as many students as possible through this event. B. Goal As with any type of ministry activity we plan, we must set goals. If evangelism is the purpose, what kind of goals should be set to make sure our purpose is accomplished? This is the place where we put numbers. How many kids do we want to reach through this event? How many churches do we want to work with? Set goals that are lofty but achievable. Create goals that are God-sized, not just easy to reach. In looking at the example above, the goal for the event was to try and get a set number of the student body out for this event. In a school of 2100 students, the numerical goal was 525. C. Logistics In looking at the logistics, there are many issues at stake. We would like to suggest four important categories to consider. 1. The budget. (See the event budget at the end of this section). • The types of questions in this category are as follows: • How many students are expected? • Do we need to make a profit? • What could be donated? • Can we pursue someone to underwrite the cost of the event? • What are the fixed and variable expenses? • What price tag keeps the kids away? • Have we itemized a budget? These are the types of questions that must be answered. As you create the itemized budget, you must make decisions on where location will be and the cost included, will there be special music or speaker and their costs, will there be YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 146 refreshments, etc. Transportation, rental fees, postage, and many other detail questions need to be asked as you create this budget. There are two concerns at this stage. • Make sure we don’t lost money in doing events. • Finances get out of hand with last minute spending. 2. The promotion. Decisions will need to be made on how you will get information into the hands of those who you want going to this event. If your focus is an event where you want churches participating, there needs to be letters, flyers, phone calls, and appointments made to make sure that every church in your area knows what is going on with this Campus Life event. There are so many details at this juncture to deal with, but the bottom line is: it is imperative that much thought has gone into the promotion of the event. 3. The planning. (Planning involves the who, what, when, and where.) • Who is in charge of the event (who has to make the tough decisions)? • What staff will be doing which responsibilities? • What does the schedule look like for the night? • Who is taking care of the entertainment for the night? Someone must be making sure that the plan will happen. There needs to be a person who is in charge, but there must also be those who are helping to make sure that the whole plan happens. This takes teamwork. 4. The safety. (In this area we must answer important questions.) • What if… • Do we need parent release forms? • Do we have our medical insurance information with us? • Do we need medical staff on hand? The biggest factor to be remembered on safety is that we are the adults. We are providing an opportunity for students, but at all times we are the adults. If someone needs to step up and make a decision, it must be our staff. This is not a comprehensive list, but it helps all of us to be thinking of the many details that go into a successful event being pulled off. In reviewing the event mentioned above, the “winter sports pep rally,” a partnered effort between Campus Life and a local high school, concerning the budget, there was none. There wasn’t a cost to the students, and it was hosted by the local high school. Many things were donated by local businesses that were given out to the students as door prizes. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 147 Concerning planning, the athletic director and the CL staff met 3-4 times before the event happened. This was more of a program that got pulled off, so there wasn’t much large group participation. Many students participated in games that happened on the gym floor, but most of the students were seated in the gym to watch the event happen. Two adults (the Campus Life Director and the school’s Athletic Director lead the program for the event. The promotion was done through announcements and word-of-mouth. There wasn’t much that had to be done to inform students on what was going on. They simply had to make a decision to attend or not. Safety did become an issue, as someone came into the event and pulled a fire alarm, and students had to be ushered out of the gym for a short time. The athletic director took care of the concern, and students were quickly brought back into the building and the event continued. There were between 450-500 students who attended that event on that evening. Because of the success of this event, the school was excited and open to many more events with Campus Life. Whether an event is designed to reach 200, or 20,000, these are the types of questions that need to be tackled. Don’t sell yourself, or your staff, short on the value of events. They can be a tremendous asset to the ministry in your local community. Events demand much preparation and hard work in order to be successful. 8.9.3. EVENT QUESTIONS (Tailor this to your specific event) PURPOSE What do we want to accomplish with this event? How will we know if we’ve been successful? If God blesses and we have many decisions for Christ, is follow-up in place? PROGRAM CONTENT What are the ingredients of the program? Speaker Order of ingredients Media Stage Audience participation Music BUDGET How many kids are expected? Do we want to make a profit? If so, how will it be spent? Who pays for staff? Who is responsible if the event loses money? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 148 Have we taken the time to itemize a budget? SCHEDULE OF ACTIVITIES How much time will be allotted for each activity? What is the order of activities (i.e. games, program, food, etc.)? PROMOTION & PUBLICITY What will be included in the brochure/flyer? How will this brochure be distributed? What are the best avenues to advertise? FACILITY Is there a contract necessary? Is a site inspection required? Is a rooming list prepared? (for overnights) Do you have an alternative if the weather changes? How far away is the facility? FOOD What meals need to be covered? Who will prepare the meals? What kind of snack/refreshments are needed? TRANSPORTATION Do we need to transport kids? What is the most cost effective way to get there? Are extra drivers needed? YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 149 8.9.4. SAMPLE EVENT BUDGET Event______________________________ Income: Gross income ____ students @ $_____ $__________ Less refunds (__________) Net income Expenses: Transportation: Bus/Van Gas Guests Speaker Band Food Facilities Overhead Film & development Promotion Postage $__________ $__________ $__________ $__________ $__________ $__________ Other expenses $__________ Total expenses $__________ Net gain or loss $__________ YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 150 9. Campus Life & The Relational Ministry Process Building on the foundation of the five ongoing fruit-bearing conditions (chapter 2), YFC’s RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS involves eight ingredients that clearly define how we will practice discipleship evangelism within the movement. There are three values that have contributed to the formation of these ingredients. First, we want to be able to steer our energies ruthlessly toward accomplishing our mission. Our mission statement articulates what we understand to be our focused assignment in the Kingdom of God: To participate in the Body of Christ in the responsible evangelism of youth, presenting them with the person, work & teachings of Christ and discipling them into the Church. The eight ingredients help all of us in YFC— regardless of our core ministry affiliation—to stay focused on this mission. Second, we want to be able to align our ministry activity with our best understanding of how change actually takes place in the life of a young person. Three-Story Evangelism is the roadmap we use in YFC to describe this change process, and the ingredients of the RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS supply focus points that help us to see actual progress in a young person’s life. Finally, we want to be able to evaluate ourselves honestly and accurately. Each of the eight ingredients is connected to a measurement strategy that will allow us to assess how well we are doing as we pursue our YFC mission, one story at a time. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 151 9.1 Three-Story Evangelism Under the leadership of then Vice-President, Bill Muir, YFC’s National Ministries generated an approach to evangelism called Three Story Evangelism. Like much of what happens when God’s people brainstorm ideas, this was a truly collaborative effort. People who were both inside and outside of YFC’s formal organization contributed to its design. One way to describe Three Story Evangelism is to state the obvious. It’s about stories— connecting stories, in particular: God’s story, my story and others’ (their) stories. The more these stories connect, the more the gospel seems to take root in a person’s life. In the end, the goal of TSE is to help people make life-changing connections to God Himself. Traditional evangelism practices often push through a series of sequential steps for a decision. Three Story Evangelism recognizes that in a postmodern world “stories” are more powerful with young people than “steps.” And stories—rather than “Listen to what I say, believe it, say this prayer, and you’re a Christian”—are what get people’s attention in such a world. Teens respond well to honest, real, living, hopeful, and authentic stories about life change. That’s one of the reasons that Three Story Evangelism seems to resonate well today. There are several core beliefs at the heart of Three Story Evangelism. Foremost is that a Christian should move first to Jesus before moving into a lost world. We move our life into his by learning from him, learning about him and experiencing his life as a fresh new story theme in our own daily lives. Only then do we carry a story of hope to an unbelieving world. Another critical belief is that listening has become more powerful than telling. If we want people to listen to us, we must first listen to them. People listen to people who listen. And that, after we’ve listened to them and they want to hear our story, they will listen only as long as we are real and authentic. Additionally, we believe that people become interested in the gospel for different reasons. To illustrate, consider how just a few of the following desires supply different motivations for considering Jesus: purpose, love, family, heaven, community, and fulfillment. When we listen to their stories in conversation, we can reveal at the right moment the part of Jesus’ story most relevant to our lost friends. After securing their initial interest in Jesus we can look for ways to explain more of Jesus’ story, including the salvation offered through his death and resurrection. By helping others make critical story connections Three Story Evangelism makes a YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 152 difference. TSE’s ultimate goal is to help connect an unbeliever’s story with Jesus’ story, and eventually the unbeliever with Jesus himself. Still, Three Story Evangelism resists common classifications. For instance, while skills related to Three-Story Evangelism can be taught to others— thus making TSE a wonderfully transferable tool—it would not be accurate to label it as simply an evangelistic method or tool. One might use tools like a gospel tract or a particular favorite illustration while involved in TSE, but this is more than an evangelism method. As a description of the process of transformation that God seems to use in our lives, TSE is a powerful model of simplicity and clarity. Napkins in fast-food joints can be employed to illustrate the three circles in this model: God’s Story, My Story, Their Story. The circles might be drawn to represent the movement in a persons’ life. Is a relationship growing between two people? Then draw My Story and Their Story to represent more overlap between the circles. The same could be done with regard to either person’s relationship to God. Three Story Evangelism offers something more than simply a post-modern friendly proclamation strategy. It is an organic model for understanding the processes of spiritual awakening and growth in a relational context. And because it satisfactorily describes how growth actually takes place, we can use TSE as a way to think about ministry. We should not underestimate the significance of such breakthroughs in our understanding. Each time modern medicine has learned more accurately how our body heals we all benefit. There is a fundamental truth that is readily grasped by the simple act of drawing three intersecting—or nearly intersecting—circles. Three Story Evangelism is a great model for describing the give and take that naturally take place among persons, including what happens in our own relationships with God. Three Story Evangelism helps us to understand and embrace the natural and often non-formal ways that the gospel gets proclaimed and understood. This is a particularly appropriate strategy in a world dominated by postmodern thinking. It helps locate evangelism in the discovery and exchange of stories, and notices when a story changes because of the activity of God or another in someone’s life. Sensitive to the natural rhythms of life, Three Story Evangelism helps us to understand the dynamics of gospel proclamation when exploring stories becomes our strategy. And Three Story Evangelism forms the backdrop against which YFC staff practice and monitor THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. The eight ingredients to which we will now turn are intended to help us focus on the Spirit-empowered movement that takes place in a young person’s life when our stories begin to converge with God’s. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 153 YFC/USA Ministries hopes to be able to develop further Three Story Evangelism training resources as soon as possible. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 154 9.2 Initiate One of the most remarkable and head-shaking realities about the love of God for us is that Jesus showed up in our world and died for us “while we were still sinners” (Romans 5:8). If God hadn’t taken the first love-motivated step to send Jesus into our world we would still be lost and headed for hell – or – on a path to eternal separation from God (John 3:16). That’s why it’s so important for us to initiate loving relationships with lost teens so as to reveal Jesus to them. Someone always needs to make the first move in a new relationship. Armed with the love of Jesus, that’s what Christians must do to initiate new relationships with lost teens. We must take the first step. Where do they hang out? We need to show up there. Where do they work? We need to drop by. If they’re into school activities, we should show up to encourage them. If a destructive lifestyle leads them to an encounter with a judge, we ought to be in the courtroom. We meet lost kids in their world. It’s important for us to leave our world and move into their world in the same way Jesus left His world and moved into ours, as seen in Philippians 2:5-7. Taking the initiative to meet someone you don’t know can be intimidating. It is even more uncomfortable when your worlds are different. The world of a lost teenager is very different from the world of, say, a 42-year old Christian adult. But the margin of difference can’t be any greater than what Jesus experienced when He left heaven to mix among us sinners. Jesus’ love for us was initiated when He dwelt among us (John 1:14). That’s the same pattern needed to carry the love of Jesus to teens today. We who know Jesus’ love must take the first step to initiate relationships with those who don’t yet know about Jesus’ love. The remarkable thing is that taking the first step is, all by itself, perhaps the most powerful and authentic way we have to communicate the love of Jesus! So we need to go into the world of lost teenagers and get to know them on their “turf.” Jesus came to “seek and to save what was lost” (Luke 19:10). We’ll imitate Jesus’ pattern when we seek out teens and get to know them as individuals. We initiate contact so we can introduce young people to the love of Jesus, a force that can change their lives forever. 9.2.1 Initiate: How It Works With Kids Lost people need help. Sometimes they don’t know how lost they are or YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 155 don’t recognize the consequences of the path that they are on. They often don’t know how to even ask for help. Millions of teens are lost in multiple ways, the most significant of which is their cluelessness about the love that God has for them. They simply don’t know that they were created to enjoy a relationship with God that is intended to affect every fiber of their life. Jim Petersen has written that one of the flawed assumptions churches operate under is that we can get the masses of lost people to come to us (Church Without Walls, chapter 10; Navpress, 1992). Evangelism needs to be delivered from this paralyzing falsehood. YFC’s commitment to initiate loving relationships with lost teens embraces the reality that because they need rescuing, we believers must position ourselves for timely help—in their world. It may be fair to say that the first strategy in helping a lost young person become a life-long follower of Jesus Christ is to be in the right place at the right time in their lives. We intentionally bump our stories into the stories of spiritually blind teens, building rapport and looking for the right time to offer direction. We initiate relationships so that we can begin to understand something of their story and open up a window on God’s story through the transparency of my story. It’s difficult to measure when a relationship actually begins. While we acknowledge this limitation, we are nonetheless committed to using measurement indicators that will help us stay focused on THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. So—for our tracking purposes—we will consider that a relationship with a lost teen has been initiated when we can identify both the name of the young person and some fact we have learned about their story. 9.2.2 Initiate: A Prayer Focus What’s going on in someone’s life that might make him or her receptive to starting a relationship with a Christian adult? On the one hand, it seems that timing is everything. On the other hand, it seems that location is everything. Where can we find teens so that we might establish our first relational connection? Like street-savvy narcotics police, seasoned YFC staff learn a lot about the where and when of connecting to kids. This competence is critical to develop in our jobs. But it takes more than skilled job performance to accomplish our mission. The reality is we can’t really connect to needy people without God’s help. Teens are lost in part because Satan has blinded them and works actively to YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 156 keep them estranged from God. When we attempt to initiate relationships with lost teens, we are moving in on the enemy’s territory. We need God’s wisdom, His sense of timing, His direction in locating the right kids, His protection as we risk something of ourselves to reach out to others. Toward that end we need a prayer strategy that helps us gain the Lord’s help. This means we need to learn to pray continually, so that we are alert to opportunities all around us. And we ought to be sure that our routine efforts targeted toward initiating relationships with lost teens are bathed in prayer. Do you visit a key ministry site each week at the same time? Then secure the prayers of others as you go. Remember, the loving relationships that we wish to initiate with lost teens may likely be the first step in revealing Jesus to them. While we may make social connections with people because of our own relational skills, our ability to reveal Jesus depends on the work of the Holy Spirit through us. We have to pray! 9.2.3 Initiate: The RMA Strategy How do the Campus Life RMAs help us to initiate loving relationships with lost teens? We must not go on our own strength! We must go with incessant prayer, with moment-by-moment consideration of what God is doing, with trust that the results are up to Him. There are nine Campus Life RMA’s offer us plenty of opportunities to initiate relationships with young people. Let’s examine these RMA’s in three broad categories. First, we can initiate new relationships with countless lost young people as we go onto their turf to meet them. Contacting a student at their school, work or anywhere they hang out, will provide more opportunities to develop deeper relationships with an increased number of students. Second, we can directly initiate friendships with lost teenagers through building times, small groups, clubs, trips, and events. In these five settings we must always keep our eyes and ears open to discover who in the room does not know Jesus and who in the room we do not know. Our aim must be to know every young person who attends our ministry activities. We must also teach our ministry teams and student leaders to do the same. In fact, ultimate aim with initiating can be (with the combined effort of our ministry teams and student leaders) to learn the names and begin hearing the stories of 10% of the students in our schools the first year we minister, then 20% the second year, 30% the third year, etc. We can use this knowledge to deepen friendships, discover the layers of “their” stories and share “my” story, all the while preparing to share His story through every opportunity God provides. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 157 We have already alluded to the third grouping of RMA’s that allow us to initiate with young people: Student leadership, ministry teams and strategic relationships. Since many of the people serving on our teams, with the exception of our strategic relationships, are believers, we are simply embracing the ongoing fruit-bearing condition of unified believers as we equip and support the efforts of others to initiate relationships with teenagers. We accomplish this effort through training, mentoring, and consistently demonstrating the skills necessary for mobilizing others to initiate loving relationships with teenagers. Through the people who serve on these teams and the strategic relationships we develop in the community, we can equip hundreds of people, both student and adult, to accomplish the “going” into their world for the purpose of initiating loving relationships. Let’s mention a word about divine appointments. Although we have not mentioned the RMA appointments in our strategy for initiating relationships with list kids, we would be remiss to deny that God at times provides divine appointments. For example we may meet a lost young person at a football game and connect with her or him and “their” story in the course of a brief conversation. This connection may lead to initiating a friendship that leads to an immediate appointment. Should God lead one of us down that road, we must not miss the opportunity to participate with Him in forming a new friendship with a lost teen through an appointment. As we engage in the process of relational ministry directly as well as through the efforts of others, we have the privilege of initiating relationships with lost young people almost everywhere we go. Our highest calling, other than inviting a young person into a relationship with Jesus Christ, is to introduce them to be a living, breathing, and authentic follower of Jesus Christ. When we, or someone from one of our teams, connect with a non-believer, they are connecting with Jesus Christ, their creator, sustainer, lover and friend. Because He lives in us, inhabiting our very soul, body, mind and spirit, they begin to meet Him when they meet us! YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 158 9.3 Involve Andrew, the brother of Peter, must have had some interest in spiritual things. It was while following John the Baptist that he heard the great teacher make a reference to Jesus that was irresistible. When he followed up by asking Jesus the simplest of interest-showing questions (Where are you staying?), Jesus responded with an invitation that resulted in their spending the day together (John 1:38-39). Little did Andrew know that such a day would be the first of many. Or that his life would be changed forever. Our relationships grow as we spend time together. When we begin to accumulate a common pool of experiences we establish a common base to build upon. Early in Jesus’ ministry He performed his first recorded miracle by turning water into wine. The disciples were present as invited guests with Jesus (John 2:1-2). They would have been able to share in the mouth-dropping fun as Jesus upgraded the refreshments. Afterward the Bible indicates that they spent a few more days together in Capernaum (John 2:12). What’s going on here? And is this a pattern that’s necessary for serious life change to take place? Jesus must have thought so. When He chose the twelve disciples from among those who had been following him for over a year His mandate was that “they might be with him” (Mark 3:14). If the disciples were to develop an authentic life-changing faith in Jesus it would need to be built on the most powerful of all learning methods: personal experience. That’s why the second ingredient in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is to involve lost teens in shared experiences to show them something of Jesus’ unconditional love. How can we hope that lost teens really learn what Jesus is like if they don’t experience His grace in an unconditionally accepting relationship? By spending time with young people we can show them Jesus alive in us. Our shared experiences build a bridge of trust across which the gospel message will be finally understood. That’s how it worked in the apostle Paul’s ministry. In his letter to the Thessalonians he reminded these believers that they knew “how we lived among you for your sake” (1 Thessalonians 1:5), and freely built upon their common knowledge of shared memories as a basis for further instruction (1 Thessalonians 2:1-12). So we need to move among lost teenagers and look for ways to involve them with us in a great variety of common shared experiences. Jesus came to live among us (John 1:14) and He developed relationships with us. That’s a pattern we need to YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 159 copy. The fact that Jesus did so when we were undeserving of His attention only reinforces the fact that His grace is a real life changer. Lost teens need to experience Jesus’ gracious love as we involve ourselves with them. 9.3.1 Involve: How It Works With Kids The closer we can come to helping young people actually experience the love of Jesus the more likely it is that they will understand who he is and what he wants to do for them. Words alone are inadequate to communicate such a mind-blowing possibility. In fact, Jesus’ transforming love is disfigured beyond recognition when verbal strategies alone are used. We involve ourselves with lost teens so they see modeled in front of their very eyes the love of Jesus that resists adequate explanation. Our unconditional loving relationships with them are lost teens’ introductory experience to Jesus. How do these dynamics of influence work? Significant impact happens when a) we perceive that a model is like us; b) we have a loving relationship with the model; c) we observe a model in a variety of circumstances and d) over a long period of time; e) models reinforce the overall message of an attractive group of people; f) models make it possible to know what they are feeling and g) explain their actions. (Richards, Christian Education: Seeking to become like Jesus Christ, chapter 8; Zondervan, 1975) It’s clear that if we want young people to see us—and Jesus—as relevant to their lives we need to do much more than share religious activities with them. The more time we share together, exchanging natural conversations and getting to know one another, the better the chance there is for influence. That’s because when we involve ourselves with lost teens we establish the kind of common ground that helps us really understand each other’s stories. And because my story points to God’s story young people will get exposed to the truth that can change their story forever. Since we believe that life-on-life time is necessary in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS, we will keep track of how much time we are involved with non-Christian young people. The accountability and focus we’ll gain by using this involve measurement strategy ought to be useful in helping us direct our ministry efforts. 9.3.2 Involve: A Prayer Focus While we want to avoid involving ourselves in experiences that seek only to use relationships as vehicles to stretch young people, we do want to challenge a young person to grow. We need the Lord to give us his wisdom in achieving this balance. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 160 Some young people bring out the best in their friends; others have the opposite effect. It can be extremely frustrating to have set up a group experience that has great potential for growth only to have it thwarted by poor interpersonal dynamics. Again, we need the Lord to give us his wisdom. Some persons may feel inadequate for modeling Jesus to another. But if God is at work in us, he will display himself naturally while we involve ourselves with lost young people. Let’s always commit the integrity of our own lives to the Lord. Above all we must remember that our involvement goal is to help lost teens understand the love of Jesus. This is fundamentally a matter that must be undertaken by the Holy Spirit. Only he can remove the veil of confusion that keeps young people from recognizing the truth. He may use unplanned conversations that require us to be alert to God’s movement. In any case we must ask the Lord to help us be ready for our role in his work. He often acts in ways that we can’t possibly anticipate to bring about an outcome that we can’t possibly accomplish. We have to pray! 9.3.3 Involve: The RMA Strategy What are the practical ways the Campus Life RMAs can help us to involve lost teens in shared experiences? We can begin with our own efforts toward involving lost young people through building times, small groups, clubs, trips and events. In addition, we can increase the impact of Campus Life’s RMA strategy by also engaging others in involving lost teens as a part of the RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS through student leadership, ministry teams and even strategic relationships. Most critical in this phase of the RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is that we proactively involve lost teenagers in our relational ministry activities. We must direct a large portion of our energy and attention to developing the skills of our team members. We want to help them involve lost teens through the RMA’s. With the exception of activities exclusively designed for student leader development, the razor sharp focus of almost every building time, small group, club, trip and event must be to involve the non-believing young person. The environments where these five RMA’s take place, (living rooms, malls, McDonald’s, van/bus rides, auditoriums, beaches, amusement parks, ski slopes, movies, etc,) must feel, look, sound, and be non-Christian friendly. The programming we offer, the words we use to promote activities, the words we use to offer invitations for involvement, the ways we listen to stories and express our own stories must be done with the purpose of attracting someone who does not know Jesus, someone who does not speak the “Christianeese” language. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 161 Take this gentle warning!!!!! Please do not minimize how you and your team engage and invite young people to participate in building times, small groups, clubs, trips and events. As the Spirit of God woos them toward the cross He is using you and your team members to draw lost young people closer to Jesus. Your initial involvement with a lost young person must be covered in prayer. AND you must be disciplined to use words and activities that will not be foreign, overly religious, or alienating to the lost student. As we involve students in shared activities, we will be awarded the greatest opportunity of being a living, breathing example of Jesus before a young person. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 162 9.4 Inform Evangelism has always been at the heart of God. He wants everyone to be reconciled—or put into a right relationship—with Himself. Since the first time sin entered the world we have all been stuck in the same dilemma: our sin cuts us off from God and alienates us from the sort of fulfilling relationships for which we were created (Romans 3:23). It is incredibly good news (the literal meaning of the word gospel) for everyone who has ever taken a breath on the planet that God has been the pursuer in attempting to bring people back into relationship with Himself. The incarnation—when God showed up in Jesus Christ—demonstrates that God seeks out people in a relational way so that broken relationships can be restored. YFC’s Relational Ministry Process has thus far called us to initiate relationships and extend them through meaningful personal involvement. If, however, our relationships with young people become ends in themselves we will ignore the reality that without God every relationship is genuinely incapacitated. We humans were created for relationships of harmony that are anchored in our first relationship with God himself. We really believe that it is necessary for lost and hurting young people to hear the gospel of Jesus Christ. Like Paul, we aren’t ashamed of this gospel; it reveals the possibility of salvation that has the power to make relationships what they can be (Romans 1:16). And so it makes sense that we now turn the corner to inform lost teens about Jesus so that they might put their faith in Him. Let’s understand that evangelism doesn’t begin when we proclaim the words of the gospel. It has begun with every loving effort we’ve taken so far with lost young people. But we will be mistaken if we conclude that informing people of the gospel of Jesus isn’t absolutely essential to their understanding of God’s story (Romans 10:14). We are told in Mark 16:15 to, “Go into all the world and preach the good news to all creation.” It is a great calling to talk about Jesus to young people. God’s story is genuinely powerful, containing the hope for new life. By informing lost teens about Jesus we can help them to discover His forgiveness, peace, meaning, freedom, joy and eternal life. And the good news is that this salvation is a gift of God through Jesus Christ (Romans 6:23; Ephesians 2:8,9). 9.4.1 Inform: How It Works With Kids When we help young people to locate their own loneliness or feelings of inadequacy with the words we use we are effective communicators. When we help them understand that these very same troubling thoughts are the natural consequences of being lost without Jesus we become effective preachers. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 163 While we’re not called to be “preachy” there should be no mistake that we are called to preach the gospel. Preaching the gospel has one goal: to deliver the story of Jesus Christ accurately to those who have yet to put their faith in him. If the Bible emphasizes getting the truth of God’s story in front of the right people—and it does—then we had better make sure we know what we’re talking about when we inform lost teens about Jesus. Why is it so important for us to have a full understanding of God’s story? Because we will draw from that knowledge when we choose which part of God’s story to reveal. Our previous efforts at initiating relationships and involving ourselves with young people will help us connect God’s story to their story. We will have insights into their struggles that will help the gospel to be heard. Ultimately we want to inform lost teens about how their current experiences can be understood relative to the truth about Jesus Christ. Our faithfulness in this assignment depends on how clearly and consistently we point young people to Jesus. What we intend to measure in our efforts to inform lost teens about Jesus is how many times and the variety of locations in which the gospel story is told. Consistent with our understanding of Three Story Evangelism we will not insist that all of the highpoints of the gospel are always shared in order to count it as an inform occasion. Our intention is to use this measurement indicator to remind us of how important it is to sow God’s word accurately and often if we want to reap a great harvest in evangelism. 9.4.2 Inform: A Prayer Focus Paul’s prayer request from the Colossians gives us a great model to shape our prayer focus as we inform lost teens about Jesus (Colossians 4: 2-6). First, we need to pray for God to provide opportunities. Notice that this sort of request acknowledges that a real opportunity is one in which God has opened doors, prepared receptive hearts, and laid foundational understanding. When we act as though it is our duty to create opportunities we reveal our own ignorance of how God works and become ministry bulls in a china shop of young souls. It is God who clears the path for the gospel to be heard; we need to pray for his leading. Then we need to pray that God helps us to make the most of the opportunities he provides. This includes translating the mystery of life in Jesus to uninformed young people. God must help us be clear in our explanations. It also includes being alerted by the Holy Spirit to the particular ways that God is already at YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 164 work, providing us with a sort of super-relevance that we can only attain when God whispers his insights into our minds as we look for the right words. We’ve got to pray! 9.4.3. Inform: The RMA Strategy By practicing the Campus Life RMAs we will be able to take advantage of numerous opportunities to inform lost teens about Jesus so that they might put their faith in him. In fact, good planning will help ensure that we tell God’s story often. By extension, young people ought to have lots of different venues where they have learned something about Jesus. Here is how we see the Campus Life RMAs help us. Appointments with lost young people, although they are often the most fruitful RMA for informing a student about “God’s” story, are also, for many of us, the most threatening RMA. If we are intentional in our use of time and attentive to the relationships we are developing, we can set up appointments with lost young people every week, as a natural outcome of our initiation and involvement with lost teens. In our hearts, most of us are eager to meet one-onone with teens in order to hear more of “their” stories and express the various components of His story. The discipline to make this happen is simple. When we are at club or any other ministry activity, we should have in mind several time slots for the week where we can meet with a young person to swap stories and continue the process of revealing “God’s” story in all it’s glory over time. Don’t leave small groups, clubs, trips or events without loading your calendar and the calendars of your team members with appointments for that week. The RMA’s club and small groups are prime settings to inform young people about Jesus Christ and the cross. Done over time, with careful consideration of the larger picture of an entire school year, clubs and small groups can be a wonderful place for young people to come to a clear, truth filled, relevant, biblical understanding of the Cross, the Gospel and much of the rest of “God’s” story. Some events and most trips offer us great opportunities to inform teenagers about their need for Jesus Christ and His ability to meet that need with grace, love and forgiveness. Also connected to these is the infamous bus or van ride, which is also a great place for lively discussion where information is naturally shared back and forth from the smelly seats of a near broken down vehicle. Remember also your student leaders and ministry teams. These leaders need our attention, focus and training in order to be affective at multiplying gospel efforts. We want these team members to be fully capable of informing young people of who Jesus Christ is and how His coming for us, dying for us, rising for us YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 165 and inviting us into relationship with Him can change every part of our lives for the better. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 166 9.5 Invite An earnest man—of considerable wealth—thought he had put it all together. His questioning of Jesus started to confirm his hopes and revealed to Jesus that he was a decent man. In Mark’s gospel we see that Jesus “looked at him and loved him” before he delivered the bombshell: “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (Mark 10:21). The sad result is that this good man, personally and clearly challenged by Jesus, made the choice to walk away from Jesus rather than walk away from the wealth he had accumulated. It’s especially revealing to note that Jesus did not stop him from leaving or adjust the commitment for which he was asking because of the man’s response. Having been clear about what was required, the man made the wrong choice. But it was a choice made honestly, with deliberation and without manipulation. And Jesus let him walk away. When lost teens have had the chance to understand Jesus’ story—they’ve seen its impact in Christian lives and heard the words to explain it’s hope—they need to be asked to make a decision. And so the next ingredient in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is to invite lost teens to make a decision to put their faith in Jesus Christ. When Jesus calls persons to follow him—to become his disciples—they respond one decision at a time. It’s always been so, and it will always be so among the young people with whom we work. To invite someone to make a decision to follow Jesus today is to invite that person to take the first step in becoming a lifelong follower of Jesus. This long-term perspective is terribly significant with regard to how an invitation is framed. Consider an illustration. Imagine that a three-story (no pun intended!) building is on fire and a man appears in the window of the top floor, flames all around him. Rescuers below have positioned a landing pad and now urge him to jump quickly to safety. Their pleas are urgent and direct and impassioned; this man’s life is at stake if he doesn’t make the choice to leap right now! They are calling him to a decision with consequences that will be experienced totally and immediately. Some have appealed to this same sense of urgency with regard to our evangelistic invitations. Lost teens who die without knowing Jesus Christ as their Savior and Lord are destined for hell. Compelled by the finality of such consequences, why wouldn’t we urge people to put their faith in Christ with every word we utter? The answer is simple: because Jesus didn’t! He invited people to follow him and YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 167 demonstrated that he was worth following. Jesus wasn’t interested in people taking a momentary leap; he wanted them to become his lifelong followers. For that very reason he did things a little differently than what is often practiced in youth ministry. With large crowds following him he didn’t seek to gain lots of decisions so much as clarify what he was inviting them to do. Using the tough language of “counting the cost” his goal was to help them make the decision today that would sustain their journey with him tomorrow (Luke 14:25-33). That’s why we concentrate on decisions that are made in a relational context. We challenge those that have been informed about what it means to become a follower of Jesus Christ to make the right choice. It does not surprise us that today’s “no” may turn into a “yes” in a few months. We continually invite lost teens— lovingly, patiently—to put their faith in Jesus. The more time we have to involve ourselves with them and inform them of Jesus’ story the greater the likelihood that they will discover what we learned: that putting our faith in Jesus Christ is the best decision we ever made. And that it’s the most important decision we still make every day. 9.5.1 Invite: How It Works With Kids The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Young people are great “intenders.” Most are not deliberately dodging responsibility. They really believe they eventually will act as they intend. But they often don’t understand that until they crystallize their intentions they may be operating with the sort of vague hopes that are powerless to actually change a life. They simply don’t recognize how great the distance can be between the words, “I will” and “I do.” We do young people a great service when we impress upon them the utter necessity of responsibly deciding whether or not they will become followers of Jesus Christ. Of course, the ultimate goal is not to secure isolated decisions from young people, but to help them choose to act and then behave consistently with their choices. Making sure that teens understand the cost and commitment involved in following Jesus is part of the help we ought to provide. Our role in providing this assistance must also be governed by strong ethical standards. We respect the dignity that every human being has been given by the creative hand of the Lord of the Universe. One of the key attributes that we have all been given is the freedom to choose whether or not we will submit our lives to our loving Creator. And so we ought to do whatever is necessary to ensure that the decisions young people make to follow or not follow Christ are made freely and without manipulation. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 168 When we invite lost teens to choose to follow Christ we can keep track of the decisions that each young person makes. Some young people obviously make choices about becoming Christians of which we are unaware. But in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS we believe it is both natural and responsible for us to walk with teens, helping them to make timely and well-informed decisions about Jesus. Obviously, we’re hoping that every decision made is a positive one. But we’ll keep track of each young person who makes any choice about following Jesus (yes, no, not yet). The invite measurement indicator allows us to focus on that for which we are responsible: bringing young persons to the point where they can decide for or against Jesus Christ. 9.5.2 Invite: A Prayer Focus There is perhaps no more holy ministry experience than the moment after which we have issued an invitation to lost young people and before which they have chosen whether they will begin to follow Jesus. It feels like all of heaven is holding its breath and eternity is hanging in the balance. And, of course, for those young people making a decision for Christ, such a dramatic description has a deep ring of truth. Every day we each make hundreds of light-hearted and relatively inconsequential decisions. A decision to begin a relationship with Jesus Christ couldn’t be more different from these sorts of choices. It must be made deep in the heart and with honest awareness of how far-reaching its consequences will be for the one making it. Only the Holy Spirit of God has access to the inner chambers of a person’s heart; prayer is necessary for the Lord to do this awakening work. We must pray! We simply can’t recruit enough prayer for these sorts of ministry moments. Every YFC staff person would be well served by having a ready-response prayer team, available on short notice for the work of spiritual warfare. We desperately need to recruit dedicated SWAT-team-types who will plead with the Holy Spirit to do the heavy lifting in the persuasion process while we invite young people to trust Jesus for the first time. 9.5.3. Invite: The RMA Strategy Are some of the Campus Life RMAs able to help us invite lost teens to make a decision to put their faith in Jesus Christ? Absolutely. Here are the ways to make them work for us. Appointments, small groups, clubs, trips and events are excellent vehicles to invite young people to follow Jesus Christ. We are wise to strategically determine, through Spirit-led intentionality, when and how to invite teens to make the most important decision of their lives. We are suggesting a Spirit-led combination of urgency without desperation be sought after as we plan the school year of invitations. In the club setting, inviting YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 169 teens to follow Jesus Christ should happen approximately four times per year: around thanksgiving or Christmas, during Easter season and prior to the end of the school year with one additional time during the summer or one other strategic time. The small group setting can follow a similar plan. Almost every Campus Life trip should be built around a formal invitation time either during the program or in scheduled appointments between leaders and students. Events that are built around the intentional purpose of inviting students to respond to Jesus’ invitation should include a formal response time as well. We are suggesting a variety of response options. There is no value in inviting teens to follow Jesus Christ the same way all the time. There is, however, great value in trying to relate to the different ways that a young person might be most engaged in responding to Jesus. Make use of “response cards,” where students are asked to answer a simple, direct question in writing on a card. Make use of inviting a response through raised hands, standing up, coming forward, talking with a leader immediately following the program, setting an appointment with a leader for later, praying a “salvation” prayer right then and there, looking up at the speaker immediately. Don’t forget your student leaders and ministry team members. They too are eager to help their friends respond to the invitation of Jesus through Campus Life. Be certain to engage them in the work prayer. Teach them how to lead a friend to Jesus Christ, include how to answer questions, how to “pray the prayer” with a friend, how to make use of Three Story Evangelism and how to recognize when and where God is moving in someone’s life. As we invite lost teenagers to find Jesus and allow Him to find them, we cannot forget the importance of two Biblical principles. First, YFC’s ongoing fruit-bearing condition of Spirit-led spontaneity is absolutely non-negotiable in the inviting stage of our relational ministry process. God is at work in the lives of lost teens long before Campus Life enters the scene. Since it is wise to trust this principle, we must always have one eye on Heaven as we have one eye on the lost kids whom we are pursuing. Each day is an opportunity to ask Jesus, “Where are You at work and how might I and my team join You?” This is the leg of the relational youth ministry journey we cannot plan for, strategize or anticipate. But The Lord God loves working all around us. He is enduringly hopeful that we will recognize Him because then He can include us and include our team members in His work on Planet Earth. Watch for Him!!! He wants you to recognize His work and join Him as He rescues Kids. Secondly, keep in mind the “not-throwing-pearls-before-swine-principle” (Matthew 7:6). We are called upon to bear fruit in many forms, but Jesus warns us that some are ready while some are not ready. We do not want to be known for inoculating young people to the life-giving truth of the Gospel by inviting YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 170 them to follow Jesus too soon. When we move too fast, out of an over zealous urgency, we can become guilty of alienating a young person from Jesus rather than attracting her or him to Jesus. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 171 9.6 Invest Earlier we noted how important it is to involve ourselves with lost teenagers so they can see firsthand the evidence of Jesus’ grace at work in our lives. We observed that Jesus’ call on the disciples’ lives included the expectation “that they might be with him” (Mark 3:14). This same principle of with-nessing is every bit as necessary for a new Christian as it is for a non-believer. When it comes to powerful learning, nothing packs as much potential for serious life change as does personal experience. That means we ought to routinely ask the question, "What do the new Christians we're working with need to see or experience in order for them to take the next step in their new faith journey?" So, as part of our Relational Ministry Process, the next ingredient is to invest in Christians with our time and lives so they can imitate us as we follow Jesus. Jesus must have routinely operated with this principle at work. For example, in Luke 11:1 we read that Jesus withdrew by Himself to pray. Upon returning to the campsite where His disciples were waiting He found that His example had provoked an interest in them. "Lord, teach us to pray...," they asked. Jesus responded by offering them the model we have come to call The Lord's Prayer. It's fair to conclude that Jesus could have sought out enough of a private space for His personal prayer time that the disciples would have had no clue about what He was doing when He was off by Himself. Lest the disciples miss the intentionality of Jesus’ efforts, He sometimes called explicit attention to His teaching agenda. In a dramatic memory-maker on the eve of His arrest, Jesus demonstrated the importance of servanthood by washing the disciples’ feet. His post-experience instruction leaves little room to dispute what He wanted the twelve to learn: “I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:15). Paul knew that his own example was critical for believers to understand how to better copy the life of Jesus. To one young church he wrote, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). He reminded Timothy that his young protégé had been given a clear picture of how to live for Jesus (2 Timothy 3:10). His letter to the Philippians was similarly instructive when he coached them, “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice…” (Philippians 4:9). Some of us may not feel we have progressed far enough in our own Christian walk to be an example to someone else. That perspective is understandable, but it places YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 172 undue pressure on us. Paul made it clear to the same Philippians that the example he offered to them was not of one who had already “arrived,” but of one who was fiercely committed to following Jesus with integrity (Philippians 3:12-15). He knew enough to invest himself as an example for those who—if they didn’t see how to live the Jesus life—might not learn what they needed to. That’s the sort of investment every Christian teen—especially those new to the faith—needs. 9.6.1 Invest: How It Works With Kids What are the alternatives to investing time with Christian young people so that they can be rooted in their faith? Our worst practice is to do nothing at all. Feeling like our work is accomplished when a young person puts their faith in Christ we shift our attention to the other lost teens needing to hear the gospel. Another approach might be to have an initial meeting with a new Christian where we supply them with some follow-up material and a few words of encouragement. Then, for a mix of reasons, we simply don’t continue to connect. We still offer words of guidance when we have a chance, but our pattern doesn’t reveal a deliberate plan to establish their faith. Historically in YFC we have conceived of follow-up as a series of appointments with a new believer where we work through a specific curriculum (Totally True) before we usher them into a church where they can get further instruction. While these efforts are more honorable than anything so far described, they still seem to fall short of the biblical pattern. Christian teens need to see how to follow Jesus by walking with others who follow Jesus. And because this is simply a fact of learning-life, it stands to reason that the more compelling our example and the more time and conversation we can invest, the greater the impact. In Three Story language, our circles must experience an ever-greater overlap. It is true that some activities may be more important to model than others. Like Jesus, we need to show Christians how to pray. We also ought to demonstrate how to receive instruction from the Lord by reading the Bible. And, of course, how to immediately respond in obedience to what God asks from us. It must also be true that if we can help establish new Christians in the faith by showing them how to live for Jesus, we can also help Christian teens to share their faith with their friends by showing them how to do so. Student leadership research has confirmed that when Christian teens have observed others doing evangelism they are dramatically more effective in their own efforts to win their peers to Christ (Rahn & Linhart, 2000, Contagious Faith: Empowering student leadership in youth evangelism; Group Publishing.) YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 173 When we invest time with Christian teens we will keep track of how many hours we spend with them. As with our earlier involvement efforts with lost teens, this measurement indicator is imperfect at best. We know that simply keeping track of hours doesn’t account for either the quality of time or how well we actually model Christ with our lives. But we believe that the measurement indicator will be useful in reminding us about the necessity of life-on-life time with Christian young people. 9.6.2 Invest: A Prayer Focus Like our efforts of involving ourselves with lost teens, our time investment with Christian young people seems so natural that we might not feel the urgency of needing prayer. But as the Scripture clearly represents and we have already discussed, the non-formal nature of this way of learning is what makes it more transformational, not less. With such potential virtually hidden in common shared experiences, we must be alert to what God is doing, or might want to do, in a Christian young person’s life. As we have routinely confessed so far, we need the Lord’s wisdom. By humbly asking God for help when we hang out with Christian teens we will prepare ourselves to see an opportunity that we might have otherwise missed. It is not selfish for us to concentrate our prayers on the vitality of our own life in Christ. Being an example to others is not something we can turn on and off, like some sort of performance. Our true character will ultimately be evident to all. No small prayer energy should be spent on helping us to love Jesus more faithfully, every day. While there are no doubt many more ways to pray as we invest ourselves with Christian teens, there is one that is critical to mention here. Each of us possesses only limited time. We will learn best how to invest our time as the Lord guides us. For instance, he knows when a small investment in the right person will help produce another fruit-bearing worker for the harvest. We must ask the Lord for access to these sorts of insights. We must keep praying! 9.6.3 Invest: The RMA Strategy Which Campus Life RMAs are particularly helpful to us as we invest in Christians with our time and lives so they can imitate us as we follow Jesus? Appointments, small groups, trips, building times, events, student leadership and ministry teams are perfect platforms for investing in Christians. Since the vehicle through which we invest in Christian teenagers is time, we should make use of every RMA available that allows for focused or spontaneous time spent with them. For example appointments and small groups with Christian young people are great tools fro discussing the questions and struggles of Christianity and to model YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 174 prayer, Christ-centered living and dependence on Him. Trips and events can be used to demonstrate and experience Christian values through worship, mission trips and service projects. Student leadership is probably the most life-changing tool available to us for investing into the lives of believing Christians. In the midst of student leadership we are modeling and teaching many Christian values including training for ministry and evangelism training. Through student leadership we are potentially making the deepest investment possible into the lives of young believers as we disciple them and train our ministry team members to also multiply their evangelism efforts through discipleship. Building times are gently woven in to all the above opportunities. Any chance to spend intentional time with a group of Christian students gives an occasion to mold and disciple future Christian leaders. Though club is a great place to spend time with Christian teenagers, our focus at club must be on lost young people. Through this focus we can model a commitment to and a “seeking after the lost” to our Christian teenagers as they watch and learn from us. Later we can invest time with them as together we evaluate how the ministry is doing at initiating with lost friends. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 175 9.7 Investigate We might think that those who spent the most time with Jesus would have a benefit in knowing him and following him that is not accessible to those of us who have lived after he walked the earth. But Jesus’ teaching was apparently not complete at the point of his death. In fact, the risen Christ had to “open the minds” of his closest followers so that they could understand the Scriptures (Luke 24:45). Just prior to this Jesus fell in with Cleopas and a friend while they were hiking to Emmaus. He listened and learned a lot about what these two still needed to know for the life journey that was sure to follow the day’s journey. Concealed by a resurrection-altered body, Jesus “explained to them what was said in all the Scriptures concerning himself.” When they later realized that this was the risen Christ who had given them their own private tutorial, they simply geeked out: “Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?” (Luke 24:13-32) Understanding and obeying God’s word has always been an essential ingredient to spiritual growth. Jesus pointed out in the Sermon on the Mount that after hearing his words only a foolish person would refuse to adjust her behaviors (Matthew 7:2427). Perhaps Jesus’ brother James had this teaching in mind when he declared a similar thought in his practical letter to the young church (James 1:22-25). We’ve got to learn God’s word. But we don’t get the value intended from that learning until we put it into practice. The Christian young people with whom we work—especially those who are new to the faith—must become students of God’s word. That’s why the next ingredient in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is to investigate the Bible with Christians so they discover how to apply God’s word to their lives. Please notice that this is about forming disciples. Jesus made it clear in the Great Commission that the point is “teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:20). YFC’s sixth ingredient would be unfaithful to Jesus’ directive if it were shortened to read, “investigate the Bible with Christians.” Our attention must be on helping young people apply God’s word in their lives. Paul’s passion for the growth and maturity of young Jesus-followers is instructive for us. Speaking of Christ to the Colossians he writes: “We proclaim him, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone perfect in Christ. To this end I labor, struggling with all his energy, which so powerfully works in me” (Colossians 1:28-29). His focus is on those with whom he works, and his efforts are heroic. Embedded in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS, our efforts to YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 176 investigate the Bible with Christians so they discover how to apply God’s word in their lives are similarly focused and heroic. He also issues a personal reminder to Timothy, appealing to the relational trustworthiness his young apprentice had learned along the way: “But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it and how from infancy you have known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:14-17). THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS helps us to issue our appeals to young people on the same basis that Paul uses. Wouldn’t it be great if more Christians knew the Scriptures from their infancy? The modern reality is that this is likely not even accurate as a description of YFC employees. Our world is increasingly disconnected from God’s word, and experience-only approaches to youth ministry do not help young people to bridge this growing gap. We must help the church to recover the “anywhere” nature of investigating God’s word. Formal times to study the Bible more closely approximate an English class novel discussion than they do the sort of riveting life relevant give and take that Jesus modeled. Remember his experience with the two guys walking to Emmaus? Doesn’t it make you wonder how Jesus could have possibly taught them the Scriptures without benefit of handouts or a/v equipment? He intends the Bible to be applied to life; that’s why he taught it so near to where people actually lived! God’s word must be turned loose again. When we investigate the Bible with young people with obedience as the goal, YFC will be doing its part to recover this critical need in the body of Christ. 9.7.1 Investigate: How It Works With Kids Biblical content is important for us to pass on to young people. Which content? The early church formulated creeds that helped define a core content of common understanding for believers. To align YFC with this historically rich curriculum, we will soon develop or adopt materials that can be used as our common core of instruction for new believers. But what we want to accomplish when we investigate the Bible with Christian young people goes far beyond passing along a body of knowledge. We want teens to develop lifestyle patterns that have them routinely searching the Scriptures so that they can obey the Author of the Book. There is an abundance of research to support the idea that young people who engage in regular Bible study are more likely to display moral strength of character and also influence their friends for Christ (see research links at www.linkinstitute.com). YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 177 So we must pass along Bible study skills that teens can use throughout their lives. As we teach these skills, we should be able to pull out our Bibles in the middle of any conversation and lead young people to an inductive discovery of truth by asking three critical questions: What does the text say? What does it mean? What does it mean FOR ME? Learning how these questions work together will help teens to unlock any portion of Scripture for practical application. We should also be careful to remind students that we study the Bible to hear from Jesus himself. This means that how we investigate the Scriptures is unlike how we might extract good advice from any other source of wisdom. And by encouraging a frequent return to the study of the gospels, we can help others to freshen their relationship with Jesus. Two simple discovery questions can guide this process for anyone, regardless of their spiritual maturity: What does this passage tell me about Jesus? What does he want from me? God’s story is a rich treasure, and if we study hard for an entire lifetime we will not exhaust the possibilities for understanding and obedience that are contained in the Bible. When we investigate God’s story with young people we put them on this most important path for a lifetime of following Jesus. We’ll attempt to measure how well we investigate the Bible with Christian students in much the same way we are doing with involve—our other focus on the ministry of God’s word. We will count the number of Bible studies done and track the settings in which the studies take place. This indicator also testifies to the reality that we can’t get too much Scripture into the spiritual formation of young people. 9.7.2 Investigate: A Prayer Focus Jesus promised that the Holy Spirit will both teach us and remind us of his words (John 14:26). That makes our prayer focus fairly uncomplicated when we investigate the Bible with young people. We must ask the Holy Spirit to open the eyes of every heart so that we can see what Jesus wants to teach us. Our prayers will also give us the humility we need to guard against the danger of prescribing the sequence of Jesus’ priorities for changing a particular young person’s life. For example, it’s not always true that the first thing a new believer ought to do is quit some of their destructive habits. How can that be? Because some young believers may get so discouraged by the mounds of instruction they are given that they lose sight of Jesus himself. Only the Lord knows what each heart needs to have his or her faith strengthened. That’s why we pray—as always—for the Lord to do what we cannot do as we YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 178 investigate the Bible with young people. So we keep on praying! 9.7.3. Investigate: The RMA Strategy It might be surprising to discover how many Campus Life RMAs can help us to investigate the Bible with Christians so they discover how to apply God’s word in their lives. When it comes to teaching the Bible we’re often stuck in a schooloriented paradigm. But what if we learned how to turn God’s word loose throughout the Campus Life RMAs? It might look something like this. The RMA’s most suited to investigating God’s word with teenagers are appointments, small groups, trips, events, student leadership and ministry teams. That’s a long list!! To prepare ourselves to use these RMA’s for investigating God’s Word, we remind ourselves of YFC’s ongoing fruit-bearing conditions…especially abiding. In order to be effective as a Campus Life leader, we must never lose sight of our need to abide in His Word for the purpose of being and remaining close with Jesus Christ. Because we cannot give to students from an empty soul, continually keeping our hearts and minds connected to Jesus through the Scriptures is a prerequisite to allowing God’s Word to infiltrate our relational ministry activities. We will be much more effective as communicators of God’s Story through His Word, if we are preoccupied with His Word to begin with! An appointment, whether it occurs on a trip, in a van ride after an event or through a scheduled formal time with a student can often lead to the Bible as a source of truth, dialog and hope. Carrying a Bible with you, in your car, to McDonald’s, or on the van ride, implies that you are ready for God to create an opportunity to move and allow you to bring up an important passage, story or verse that He wants to use in the life of a Christian young person. The practice of having a Bible accessible also demonstrates to the Christian young person how important it’s content for real life really is!! Small groups, and programming on trips and events also offer us wonderful opportunities to teach, discuss, read and ask questions using the Scriptures as the foundation for life. We can teach young people and help them experience the principles of follow-up as new believers, thus introducing them to the basics of Christianity. Most importantly we want to use these RMA’s to model to kids the reality of the life-changing relevant words of God’s Story through His written word. Finally, let’s mention a word about club. The Campus Life club RMA is primarily used to attract lost teenagers toward the Lord. That is not to say that we do not mention the Bible during club. Remember our distinction between intentionally reaching lost teenagers and then intentionally developing Christian teenagers? Club primarily serves us by allowing us to initiate, involve, inform and invite the YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 179 non-believing young person into a relationship with Jesus. We present the truth about God’s story in such a way that a lost student can find Him. Does the potential exist for Christian teens to learn something new about the Bible and God’s Story through club? We hope so, however that is not our goal. What we really want them to learn is how to share Christ more relevantly and more authentically with their non-believing friends through club. Which brings us full circle to the RMAs student leadership and ministry teams. These team members can serve a role in the investigating phase of the relational ministry process by learning to offer truth in relevant, genuine, nonpreachy ways to their friends. Their ability to investigate God’s word with other people in part will depend, as it does for us, on their abiding relationship with Jesus. We serve a role in holding them accountable for both their relationship with Christ and their ability to communicate and use God’s word properly. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 180 9.8 Infuse YFC is a man-made organizational enterprise, raised up during a particular time in the history of man's relationship with God. We are specifically dedicated to helping the body of Christ be faithful in her responsibility to make disciples from among the millions of lost young people scattered everywhere. As a parachurch organization, we in YFC get to embrace the freedom to specialize, focus, and limit the allocation of our resources toward our particular mission niche as catalysts of discipleship evangelism among young people. On the other hand, our membership in a parachurch organization never excuses us as persons from the rights and responsibilities that all Christians possess as members of the body of Christ. Our primary identity and allegiance must be to that which God has created--the Church--rather that which He has allowed us to create. Jesus' priorities must be our priorities, and we must be careful to establish Jesus' values as the foundation for our work. The church is Jesus’ idea. He assembled the first group of those who would dedicate their lives to him. He commissioned and empowered the first leaders (Matthew 28:19, 20). He still assigns leadership roles—and other gifts—to the church as he chooses (Ephesians 4:7-13). Jesus is in charge, the unquestioned Head of the church (Colossians 1:18; Ephesians 1:22-23). It is Jesus’ plan that “the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (Ephesians 4:16). So, when we are effective in accomplishing our Jesus-assigned role in the body of Christ, we will have helped lost young people become followers of Jesus. Then what? The seventh ingredient in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS answers that question. We will infuse new Christians into a church so that church leadership can report that they have been assimilated. There is not supposed to be division in the body of Christ. Jesus’ prayer for unity (John 17:23) and Paul’s appeals (Ephesians 4:1-6; Philippians 2:1-2) make this abundantly clear. But unity is not so easily achieved, and to those of us involved in important evangelism efforts with young people, to work for unity seems a wearisome distraction from our real mission. Why spend the energy? Because disciples of Jesus Christ are ones who have been “baptized”, or assimilated, in his name. They are to join the body of millions of others throughout history and across cultures who adjust their lives around the rule of Jesus. And they are to do the work Jesus has in mind for them. If they do not, we all suffer (Ephesians 4:16). It’s part of Jesus’ plan. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 181 When we refuse to cooperate with Jesus’ plan we rebel, plain and simple. We may believe that we are right and others are wrong in the creeds we affirm or the practice of our faith. But the bottom line is that Jesus set up the church, and he warns us to let him sort out the good guys from the bad in the end (Matthew 13:2430). So working outside the church is simply not an option. This Relational Ministry Ingredient embraces the necessity of cultivating close working relationships with church leadership within our communities. In fact, it postures us in a submissive role (Philippians 2:1-5). We want to earn the respect of churches as they see formerly lost young people join in the activities of their fellowship as new Christ-followers. The body of Christ in our communities ought to become increasingly invigorated as we infuse it with young, energetic Christians. The new believers who have come through YFC’s ministries will have experienced the power of unconditionally loving relationships. They will also benefit from the impact of seeing God’s word turned loose in natural settings through our inform and investigation efforts. The Church of Jesus Christ will become healthier, more responsive to her Head, and more equipped to glorify His Name. Sounds like a plan. 9.8.1 Infuse: How It Works With Kids Up to this point in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS we have been able to focus on the ministry activity we engage in with specific young people and God’s word. This ingredient in the process has a prerequisite that we have yet to talk about. It assumes that we have cultivated relationships of trust and service with church leadership. Notice that these relationships are founded upon our need for church leaders’ expertise rather than our self-promotion. It’s not that we don’t bring some needed specialization to the church. It’s just that we don’t highlight what we offer in our introductory handshakes. We assume the posture of a humble servant. When we ask for help we acknowledge that we can’t even serve the church adequately unless they enter into a true mission partnership with us. Around what will we base such partnerships? First, we share a common commitment to serve the Lord Jesus Christ and reveal him to the young people in our communities. Second, we agree that the ultimate goal of YFC’s mission ought to result in lost teens becoming faithful followers of Jesus Christ and infusing churches with their new life. We do not shy away from declaring such a YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 182 commitment. And so our strategic partnerships begin with our confessed submission to the church. We must infuse new Christian teens into the church to their satisfaction. Do you see why we can’t possibly be successful without forging relationships of trust? Our collaborations must focus on particular young people. We’ll find some common programs to share together, but that’s not a necessity. Even financial support of YFC’s mission is not our ultimate goal. Like case-oriented social workers we must work together so that specific previously lost young people join church families in their lifelong journey of following Christ. Our measurement standard for infusing new Christians into local churches is intended to ensure that we will truly practice collaborative partnerships with church leadership. We’ll know a particular young person has been infused only when someone from a local church indicates that they have become active and assimilated into their fellowship. 9.8.2 Infuse: A Prayer Focus A whole batch of new prayer concerns emerge from our efforts to infuse churches with new Christians. In many ways our world gets considerably more complicated than the already challenging mission to which we are committed. We must work—and prayer is a form of work—for the health and unity of local churches in our communities. As if engaging lost young people with the gospel isn’t tough enough! This ought to become a natural concern as we build relationships with churchbased co-laborers. We’ll ache with those whose work is discouraging and celebrate each church’s victories because of their benefit to the King we serve and love. More particularly we will find it useful to pray through particular relational connections that young people experience as they get assimilated into a church. This can be an awkward time for newcomers and established church members alike. We can never recruit too much prayer from among churches. But the active prayers of God’s people for the successful infusion of new Christians into their fellowships has the added benefit of keeping our important mission fresh in their hearts and minds. We gotta keep praying! 9.8.3 Infuse: The RMA Strategy Campus Life RMAs have typically been most productive on the front end of THE YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 183 RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. It doesn’t have to be that way. Here are some ways to employ the Campus Life RMAs to help infuse new Christians into a church so that church leadership reports that they have been assimilated. Infusing new believers into a church happens most often through ministry teams and student leaders who are regularly attending local churches. As these team members grow in their ability to invest in new believers relationally, they serve as the best bridge to the Church. Our role, as the Campus Life leader, is to teach, train, mobilize, motivate, and encourage our team members to engage in the relational ministry process through infusing. We are most apt to prepare others to do the work of infusing when we are committed to living out the YFC ongoing fruit-bearing condition of unified believers. Our commitment to the growth of the Church and the growth of local churches will be seen through how we use our RMA strategy to infuse young believers into local church bodies even at the expense of young people leaving our ministry activities in order to have time to make deeper commitments to a church. Appointments and small groups are other excellent vehicles to raise the expectation that new believers in Campus Life move toward the Church as their ultimate spiritual home. Club can also be used as we encourage local youth pastors to attend and even volunteer in club. Our goal should be to make youth pastors look great and present them in such a way that young people are drawn to them and their ministries. These Campus Life RMA’s can pave the way for new Christians to have a great attitude about the Church and be attracted to Her. We can raise their level of understanding of the Church and help them see how they can find a more permanent place to worship, serve and get to know Jesus Christ far beyond Campus Life. We have the privilege of influencing young people through modeling, teaching and challenging them to make life-long commitments to Christ’s Body here on earth, His Bride, the Church. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 184 9.9 Inspire Take a few minutes to review the seven ingredients that have thus far made up YFC’s Relational Ministry Process. They have focused our efforts in measurable ways upon helping lost teens become contributing Christians in local churches. We have accepted the responsibility that the first step must be ours, and so we initiate loving, Christ-revealing relationships, expanding their impact as we involve these same teens in our lives and involve ourselves in theirs. We look for as many opportunities as possible to inform these young people about Jesus, and—without ever compromising the respect due to one for whom Jesus died—we persistently invite them to join us as Jesus’ followers. And when they say, “yes” to our invitations, we invest the time that’s necessary to show them how to live for Jesus. That will inevitably include investigating the Bible with them, so that they can learn how to apply God’s word in their lives. These believers we infuse into local churches and—when church leadership is satisfied that they have really joined the body as disciples—we turn our eyes to find other lost young people who might make the same journey. Whew! As time-intensive as THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is, it will take a long time to reach the kids in our communities who are lost without Jesus. Unless… What if we could inspire Christians to help us multiply the people involved in discipleship evangelism? This final ingredient in THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is not simply a YFC brainstorm. It, too, is part of God’s master plan. Think about it. We are Christians today because someone was faithful long ago. And—when we get to heaven—if we are deliberate enough in tracing our spiritual genealogies we should be able to trace our roots back to someone who actually walked with Jesus while he was on the planet. How many did he leave behind to start this incredible movement? Not enough to fill a good-sized church today. Paul had the plan in mind when he spelled it out for his young disciple, Timothy: “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others” (2 Timothy 2:2). But the contagious nature of Jesus’ life need not be limited to one-on-one strategies. Paul also commended the Thessalonians for becoming “a model to all the believers in Macedonia and Achaia” (1 Thessalonians 1:7). When we follow Jesus’ master plan, we can expect to see “much fruit” (John 15:8) and the harvest will require a YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 185 calculator to measure its impact (Matthew 13:23). Let’s play with the math for a moment. Ten workers start an effort, praying modestly that the Lord will double their number in the first year. He answers this prayer and rewards their faithfulness by giving them greater opportunities. The workers—now twenty in number—repeat the pattern and become forty in their third year. This continues so that the 40 grow to 80 (year four), the 80 to 160 (year five) and so forth. Ten years after starting this process there are now over 5,000 Christians who have been inspired to join in the discipleship evangelism of youth. They may have been scattered throughout churches and across the country, but that’s God’s business, not ours. Can’t happen? Before scoffing at this vision notice what God has done within YFC where there has been a legacy of faithfulness for a long time. Multiplication is inevitable! It’s simply time to make sure that we are clear about identifying our multiplication target. We want to inspire other Christians to join us in our discipleship evangelism efforts among young people. Our primary focus in this effort is neither to multiply YFC chapters nor YFC programs. Instead, we want to equip countless numbers of disciples who can contribute to THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. We want to multiply the number of God’s people who are both energized by our mission and committed to working with us in some portion of it. If we’re at all successful, the whole Church ought to benefit, inspired to greater faithfulness for Jesus’ glory. 9.9.1 Inspire: How It Works With Kids Who are the people most likely to be inspired to join us in our work? YFC professional staff and adult volunteers are our obvious partners in mission, and this operations manual has been written largely with these folks in mind. But we have also identified the critical role church leadership will play in helping us accomplish our mission. Many from among these ranks, especially youth pastors, will hold the key to multiplying our efforts. Christian professionals who work with young people may also be able to contribute significantly to the formation of young Jesus-followers. Likewise, Christian parents may be enlisted to join us in the cause. In any case, those who can offer help with only one of the ingredients should not be turned away because they can’t work in the entire process. We must cultivate teams of people who are deeply committed to doing their part in youth discipleship YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 186 evangelism. Finally, we dare not overlook the potential contributions that Christian teensespecially those who have become Christians through our ministries-can make. Young people who learn the joy of being used by God to reach their friends for Christ are among those most inspired for a lifetime of service. And whether or not they ever serve in a YFC-sponsored work later in life, they can invigorate the body of Christ with a lasting legacy, the extent of which we'll only understand when we get to heaven. The kingdom value of such work is truly immeasurable. But we will measure our YFC progress against such a focus by asking those who are inspired by our mission to also join us in submitting to the discipline of accountability that has been identified throughout this description of the eight relational ministry ingredients. 9.9.2 Inspire: A Prayer Focus We’ll take our cues for the sort of praying we must do as we inspire others to join us from the Lord Jesus himself: “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field” (Matthew 11: 37-38). Now, as then, the opportunities far outweigh the human resources committed to working with young people. We pray urgently for new workers, and stay alert for how the Lord will answer those prayers through all sorts of means. Notice that the Lord is both in charge of the harvest and that he owns the fields where the harvest will take place. How should this affect the way we pray? The answer lies in the nature of the harvest. Even with modern technology, there is some produce that still requires human hands for the harvest. In such cases the only way for the large harvest to reach its potential is to have more workers on the job. The Lord of the harvest would remind us that we can’t reap the fruit he intends by using means—even accelerated means—that he hasn’t certified. This means that when we look at the great field of unreached young people we dare not panic and abandon the strategy God has given us. Feeling overwhelmed by the vastness of the need, we may be tempted to make urgency-driven strategy decisions. Such choices are shortsighted at best and unfaithful at worst. If we allow that our prayer focus may well be spent listening to the Lord on this matter, the Father will certainly reassure us about how to faithfully inspire Christians to multiply discipleship evangelism among young people. We must YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 187 continue to pray! 9.9.3. Inspire: The RMA Strategy It’s recycle—or maybe review—time. How does the clarity of our Campus Life RMAs help us to inspire Christians to multiply THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESs? Try practicing these suggestions. Our best efforts to multiply ministry efforts and therefore multiply lasting fruit are null and void and not at all of eternal value if we are not living a life that assumes and faithfully walks out all five of YFC’s ongoing fruit-bearing conditions (see Chapter 2 for a full explanation of these conditions). We can only multiply or reproduce who we are. In other words, if you are developing yourself as a faithful missionary, who abides in Jesus Christ, unifies with other believers and lives life from a Spirit-led place both with intentionality and spontaneity, you have a great chance at multiply those same fruit-bearing conditions in the lives of your student leaders, and ministry team members. If on the other hand you primarily operate on your own strength and through your own talents, you will probably not multiply fruit-bearers who yield lasting fruit (2Timothy2: 2). Inspiring other believers to multiply ministry through bearing fruit that reproduces more fruit that produces more fruit that produces more fruit etc., is one of the most complex ingredients in YFC’s RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS. It takes more prayer, and focused use of our RMA strategy than any of the other seven ingredients. We can use appointments with adults and small groups with Christians. We can inspire them through teaching, sharing stories and exposing them to young people whose lives have been dramatically altered by the Gospel. Frankly speaking, it is often easier to invest time in young people and enjoy the fun and growth and important decisions they make than it is to inspire other Christians to embrace this same eternally significant work. We cannot, however, reach every young person without the help of the other committed believers. Often, we are called upon by the Lord to inspire others because we have experienced such an incredible work of His love and grace in us and through us. He is really the One who wants to multiply and reproduce lasting fruit through us. We must allow Him to do just that so that Youth For Christ can be positioned in His hand as His tool for reaching every young person, in every people group, in every nation, as we inspire others to initiate, involve, inform, invite, invest, investigate and infuse young people to be life-long followers of Jesus Christ. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 188 CONCLUSION We have simply scratched the surface concerning all the practical connections that exist between our RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS ingredients and our Relational Ministry Actions. While we hope this strategic look at the RMA’s in relation to the RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is useful, we are certain you will have many more creative ideas and applications of YFC’s ingredients. Don’t hesitate to dream and experiment with all eleven RMA’s in order to accomplish the outcomes of initiating, involving, informing and inviting lost young people into the sphere of influence God has given you and your teams for the Gospel as well as investing, investigating, infusing and inspiring believers. God is eager to use you and Campus Life in your area. By making yourself wholly available to Him and giving your time and energy to the RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS, we are hopeful that He will use you for great accomplishments in His Kingdom. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 189 10. Campus Life Ministry Assessment Let’s consider our motives for assessment. Are there biblical ministry values that go beyond the practical worth of doing assessment in order to meet someone else's accountability demands? In other words, should we practice good ministry assessment because it’s really important to God? Doing our ministry evaluations because they are due to someone else testifies to the reality of interdependence of which the scripture speaks. It suggests that we appreciate the call of scripture to submit ourselves to one another, particularly to those who have authority over us (Ephesians 5:21; Hebrews 13:17; 1 Peter 2:17). We recognize the kingdom value of having our work scrutinized today, because we know it will be judged in the future (1 Corinthians 3: 12-14). The practical reasons we assess our youth ministry may include the need to meet YFC obligations, but submission will only benefit our souls when it reflects a value that comes from inside us. We must be convinced that interdependence is a necessary reality. Unlike independent and self-reliant structures, the metaphor of the body suggests that we truly do need one another. Unlike dependent and other-reliant structures, the body of Christ imagery also testifies that we have been uniquely designed to make original and meaningful contributions, without which others will genuinely be impoverished. Deeply beneficial assessment can take place only when honesty and humility blaze a trail that honors truth above all else. This isn't always easy; it's the same sort of posture that earned Socrates the label as the "gadfly of Athens" (see Kreeft. 1987. Socrates meets Jesus. Intervarsity Press.) In the service of the truth, any question was fair game for this ancient philosopher. Douglas Hyde reported that a similar attitude provided the climate for continuous improvement among Communist Party members as they critiqued their various campaigns (Hyde. 1992. Dedication and leadership. Notre Dame University Press.) Knowing the truth was more important than protecting someone's ego from being bruised. Isn’t it great that Christians don’t have to choose between caring for others and loving the truth? These two values are not incompatible in the economy of the Christian faith. Paul insisted that the Ephesians should contribute to one another's growth by "speaking the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15). Honest evaluation can help us understand the true state of health in our YFC ministries. It can also reveal something about our own biases and ill preparedness to make important judgments about ministry effectiveness. We can always see what needs cleaning up better when the lights are on. Assessment helps us to make sure that YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 190 we've got enough candlepower pointed in the right direction to really improve our ministry effectiveness. Continuous improvement is a worthy, even holy, goal. As John Wesley wrote, "It is a great thing to seize and improve the very now” (as reported on p. 55, Dean and Foster. 1998. The Godbearing life. Upper Room Books.) (NOTE: This entire section was excerpted and adapted from Rahn. 2001. Assessing honestly: Continuous improvement. Chapter 27 in Dean, Clark & Rahn (eds.), Starting right: Thinking theologically about youth ministry. Zondervan/Youth Specialties Academic.) We have committed ourselves to THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS as has been described in this operations manual. This process includes practicing the eight ingredients described in chapter 9, the relational ministry actions described in chapters 8 & 9, and the five ongoing, fruit-bearing conditions described in chapter 2. Taken together, they ought to help us focus our ministry on the discipleship evangelism of young people. Diligent assessment will help us pay attention to that which is important to us. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 191 10.1 Focus: Life-on-Life With Every Young Person Our discussion of discipleship evangelism (chapter 2) has asserted how important it is to connect meaningfully with young people in their world. These connections help those who were lost and blind become those who are found and can see. They are time intensive rescue efforts. When we ask YFC staff to begin a separate database file on every young person with whom they work, it is so we can understand how well we practice life-on-life ministry. We want to record when a relationship is initiated, what the spiritual status of the teen is at the time the relationship began, and we want to record the amount of time spent (involve and invest) with each young person by the Christians in their life. We have assigned these three ingredients of THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS—initiate, involve and invest—the role of helping us to stay on track with the life-on-life discipleship evangelism value. They don’t measure everything that is important in lifeon-life transformation, but they can provide us with accurate data that ought to be useful as we focus our ministry energies. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 192 10.2 Focus: The Application of God’s Word in Life We are also deeply committed to getting God’s word into the mix of active ingredients used to change a young person’s life. Jesus’ Great Commission standard is pretty hefty, “…teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:20). We’ve got a lot of work to do if we’re going to shoulder our responsibility faithfully. In order to ensure that this discipleship evangelism element is not neglected we want YFC staff to monitor their own activity of sowing God’s word into teens’ lives. When our purpose is to share the gospel story of Jesus we keep track of the number of times and settings where we informed lost teens about Christ so that they might put their faith in him. When our purpose is to help Christian young people grow by discovering and applying God’s word in their lives we record the number of times and settings where we investigated the Bible with Christian teens. Notice that we’ve hooked our monitoring machine up to our activity in using God’s word. There are two reasons for this. First, this assessment strategy will help us to focus on what we are obligated to do. And limited though it is in predicting specific life change, it will provide us with an accurate indicator of how much God’s word is woven into the transformational fabric of our ministries. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 193 10.3 Focus: How the Kingdom Grows Our understanding of discipleship evangelism includes a moment in time when lost young people make decisions to follow Jesus for the rest of their lives. As they begin this journey they come to another decision, one that is absolutely essential to their wellbeing. They must decide to join with other Christ-followers as they journey. When they initially join the church, it may be that they receive benefits without offering a lot in return. But the nature of their growth must reshape this formula. Eventually they must make the contributions to the body of Christ for which they were created (Ephesians 2:10). And so God’s kingdom grows. A single decision is made. Lots of significant decisions cluster together to help point a new disciple in the right direction. Disciples gather together in churches to strengthen one another as they reveal the love of Christ in their world. Faithful church communities send out faithful missionaries to reproduce this growth process all around the world. When we YFC staff invite every lost young person to make a decision to follow Christ, we do so knowing how important such decisions are in God’s master design. But we also know that they are only part of the story. So we also forge the kind of ministry partnerships with local churches that allow us to make a request of church leadership. We want them—not us—to tell us when previously lost young people have been infused into their local fellowships. And eventually, because of the way we will collect our information, we’ll also learn how many of these churched believers are inspired to join us in our discipleship evangelism mission among young people. It’s imperfect, but assessment centered around invite, infuse and inspire will help us to focus on the right outcome indicators in our YFC ministries. A lost teen makes a decision to become a disciple of Jesus. A new disciple joins a church of other Jesus followers. An energized church sends new missionaries to join our cause. It’s how the kingdom grows. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 194 10.4 Focus: Campus Life RMAs Part of THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS is the application of discipleship evangelism strategies to each of our core ministries. The distinctive form of Campus Life’s relational ministry actions is another focus of our assessment efforts. Unlike any of the assessment described earlier in this chapter, our measurement of the RMAs has the exclusive purpose of supplying us with information that will allow us to evaluate and improve each core ministry program. For example, all of our core ministries practice small groups as one of their relational ministry actions. By keeping track of the total number of small groups that are done and their average attendance we are better able to understand the role that small groups actually play in each core ministry. All of this is with the goal of being able to better refine each core ministry so that we know how to combine our RMAs for maximum ministry effectiveness. Here’s a word to the wise. The quality of the information that we collect and how we use it determine how valuable assessment can actually be to our ministry practices. Information quality is based on two factors. First, is what we are measuring actually important for us to know? This is the So What factor. If we cannot imagine our ministries deriving any practical benefit from a summary of the assessment information—especially if the results are extremely higher or lower than predicted— then the information quality doesn’t pass the So What test. In the small groups example above, we could apply this test by asking what difference it would make if we learned that where our small attendance averages were less than six, ministries also reported a greater percentage of new Christians had been infused into local churches. If the practical benefit of knowing such information is evident we can conclude we are measuring something that is important for us to know. The second factor used to determine information quality is based upon the reliability of the information collected. If we simply cannot create a yardstick to measure something accurately, we shouldn’t try to assess it. This is one of the reasons that attendance numbers or financial balance sheets are such popular evaluation tools. There is at least the possibility of being accurate when we count something. Sometimes we trade off what might be really valuable for us to know (i.e., the dynamics of how particular small group members relate to each other) for what we can know (i.e., small group attendance averages) because we can’t figure out a reliable way to measure what is most important. On the other hand, if a particular YFC staff person wanted to use a grading scale to rate the effectiveness of her particular small group from week to week, this information might be accurate for her. Her somewhat subjective rating standards would remain constant and she would not need to interpret her evaluation for anyone else. Our relational ministry actions have been formulated—in large part—because they YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 195 can provide nationally-gathered quality information to help shape the resources and training needed for each core ministry. Local YFC ministry staff may find additional useful purposes for collecting RMA assessment information. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003 196 10.5 Focus: Review, Reflect, & Adjust We dare not waste our considerable efforts to collect quality information. This warning is not inappropriate. Too many ministries never take the time to use the information collected to make quality evaluations and adjustments to their practices. Just imagine how frustrated we might be to discover that each weekly report we turned in was simply filed in a drawer without ever being reviewed. What a disincentive that would be to working on those reports! By contrast, think of how much of an encouragement it would be to learn that our submissions were poured over, analyzed, prayed over and discussed with one goal in mind: to help us become more faithful and effective ministers for Jesus Christ. Once assessment information has been collected it must be reviewed and scrutinized carefully and prayerfully. We need to give ourselves the space and time to reflect deeply on what we can learn. If we want to catch big fish we have to work in deep waters. Our egos must be set aside. They will only prevent us from hearing what the assessment information might be saying. If we are both hungry and humble we can learn rich insights about how to improve our ministries. The routines of assessment can help us to constantly fine-tune our ministry practices for increased effectiveness. This is even true for the foundation of THE RELATIONAL MINISTRY PROCESS, YFC’s ongoing fruit-bearing conditions. By becoming praying, reflective students of our own souls we can discover indicators of how well we are abiding in Christ, where our greatest faithfulness challenges lie and the roadblocks we encounter as we work for unity. The Lord will help us see when our planning is done in the Spirit and when it is done on our own. We’ll make progress in responding to the still small voice of God throughout the day. These benefits of assessment are deeply personal, but have every bit as much to do with our ministry effectiveness as do those discussed earlier. God wants to grow us into great fruit-bearers for him (2 Peter 1: 3-8), but it won’t happen unless we give him the space to work in us. Anything important is worth scrutinizing for how it can be done better. By reviewing what we discover, reflecting on its implications, and adjusting accordingly we can improve both our lives and ministries. YFC/USA Ministries Campus Life Operations Manual February 2003