( 716) 854-8181 buffalocitymission.org BY THE NUMBERS Can you help? Urgent Needs: • Soap • Disinfectant wipes • Denture cream • Facial tissue (Kleenex) • All sizes of winter coats, hats, gloves and boots for men, women and children January–October 2012 Always on our Wish List: • Furniture • New & gently used clothing •Non-perishable food items such as cereal, tuna, juice, sliced potatoes, diced tomatoes and coffee. Thank you for the tangible ways you care! Another year is coming to an end and, as you can see “by the numbers,” your gifts have made a difference! So far this year, you’ve helped provide: More than 145,399 meals More than 68,595 nights of shelter Over 575 bags of groceries supplied to poor and needy families Thank you for helping to ease the burdens of hungry, homeless and hurting men, women and children in the Buffalo area. 6th Annual Motorcycle Ride for the Homeless ‘Tis the season to... Get connected! Motorcycling for a Cause Visit us at any of the following websites for up-to-date information about the work you support. Sign up here: buffalocitymission.org On Saturday, August 25, more than 125 motorcyclists participated in the Buffalo City Mission’s sixth annual Motorcycle Ride for the Homeless. Bikers rode 50 miles through Niagara County, ending up at Gratwick Park in North Tonawanda. It was a ride for a cause with very good results! More than $20,000 was raised— all to benefit the children’s afterschool program at the Mission. We would like to thank our sponsors and everyone who came out to support this very worthwhile event. m $30 m $50 m $150 m $__________ Name AddressAPT. Your gift is tax deductible to the full extent of the law. We will send a receipt for your records. City Please make your check payable to: StateZip EMAIL NMCAWHT To give a gift by credit card, visit us online at buffalocitymission.org or call (716) 854-8181, ext. 429. 4 News of lives transformed—thanks to you! A publication of Buffalo City Mission The biggest Christmas gift After two months in the Men’s Discipleship Program, Joselito’s life was changing for the better. Even more important, his heart was changing. He had surrendered to God and was learning to “...seek first His kingdom and His righteousness...” (Matthew 6:33). So when Christmas rolled around, Joselito was ready to receive the best gift ever. It wasn’t wrapped in bright paper and tied with a bow. It was the intangible treasure of serving others. As our hungry guests arrived, Joselito welcomed them warmly and escorted them in to be fed. “To put a smile on hundreds of faces...that was the biggest Christmas gift you can possibly get.” Long road to rock bottom For many reasons, Joselito will always remember last Christmas as “a glorious day.” He was finally on the road to recovery— after a painful journey to “rock bottom.” Joselito’s life began well enough. As a young man, he had a promising future as a dancer with the Buffalo City Ballet. Then his father, who had been absent throughout Joselito’s childhood, suddenly showed up. His craving for a father’s love was so intense that Joselito abandoned his dream of dancing and moved Yes! I want to provide hearty holiday meals to men, women and families in need: m $15 DECEMBER 2012 BUFFALO CITY MISSION P.O. Box 1748 Buffalo, NY 14240-1748 THANK YOU! to Cleveland to try and build a relationship with his dad. “I was really convinced this was going to work out,” he says. But it didn’t work out. And this was just the first of many things that didn’t work out—including love, commitment and fatherhood. “I started hanging around some old friends that were into not-so-good things,” Joselito recalls. Things like using and dealing drugs. For the next 20 years, drugs and arrests hacked away at Joselito’s life. “I have like probably 50 arrests,” he explains. A tragic turnaround It took a tragedy to finally turn things around. Once again, he was in trouble. In fact, he was on his way to court to be sentenced when his lawyer informed him that his fiancé had overdosed and was dead. “That was the big turnaround...the big wakeup call,” he says sadly. For the next four months, Joselito grieved behind bars. But when he was released, he came to the Buffalo City Mission and entered the Discipleship Program. “I turned myself over to God,” he explains. “And I’ve been here ever since.” Now in the fourth phase, Joselito is working hard on his sobriety and rebuilding relationships with his daughters. “My plan is to continue with the program even after graduation,” he says. “You don’t leave out of here as a new person but as a new person wanting to do something for somebody else.” * * * CODE BLUE WEATHER ALERT * * * Gifts of Grace 2 A Wonderful Way to Give God’s Fingerprints 2 3 From the Executive Director buffalocitymission.org One Mission...One Hope Join the Billy Sunday Club and give... Gifts of Grace After the turbulent times of the past few years, the hope of Christmas is truly, in the deepest sense, “comfort and joy!” It’s good to be reminded that: “God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16). The baby born in Bethlehem was God’s Christmas gift of grace to the world. Because of Jesus, we can live in hope every day all year long. That’s what we do here at the Buffalo City Mission. We know there is hope, because we see the changed lives of men and women who are set free from drugs, alcohol and painful circumstances. We see hope reflected in the eyes of those who have come to understand that they don’t have to be defined by past hurts or mistakes—or live out their lives on the streets. And hope gives people like Joselito, whose story is featured on the cover of this newsletter, the will and the strength to go forward and become productive, contributing members of society. Friends like you, wonderful volunteers and amazing staff members like Sue Cervi are also a gracious gift from God. He uses us all together to share the good news of Christmas and transform lives here at the Mission...all year long. Thank you and may God bless you for your faithful and generous compassion. This holiday season and in the coming year, may the peace, joy and love of God abound in your life. ( 716) 854-8181 Meals each month for hungry neighbors Are you a compassionate person with a sincere concern for hungry, homeless people in the Buffalo area? Do you like the idea of making a difference every month? Join the Billy Sunday Club! This special group of faithful donors are the heartbeat of our ministry—friends we can count on to ensure that meals, shelter and life-changing programs are available at the Buffalo City Mission, month after month, all year long. Being part of this wonderful group is easy...and convenient. You choose the amount of your monthly donation and the giving option that works best for you. Send a monthly check—or select one of our autopay options using your credit card or automatic transfer of funds directly from your bank account. This is an efficient way to save yourself time and help minimize the costs of paper, postage and processing. Why do we call it the Billy Sunday Club? To honor the legendary baseball star by that name who started making a difference back in 1917, with a contribution of $8,400. Will you please step up to the plate and make a difference, every month? To join, call (716) 854-8181, ext. 429 or visit us online at buffalocitymission.org. Thank you! Charitable Gift Annuities: A wonderful way to give A Charitable Gift Annuity is a wonderful way to provide for yourself...and a charity of choice, such as the Buffalo City Mission. Benefits may include a lifetime income at a fixed, generous rate, eligibility for a charitable income tax deduction, payments that are tax-free for a number of years and reduction or deferral of capital gains taxes. For more detailed information, please contact Aubrey Calhoun at (716) 348-3101. God’s Fingerprints As manager of volunteers, Buffalo City Mission staff member Sue Cervi has a big job. Basically she’s responsible for analyzing our needs (we have many!), finding people with time to give and a heart to serve, and drawing them in to make things happen at the Mission. “I don’t think we realize the impact we can make by doing one small thing,” says Sue. “Because many of us together doing one small thing ends up taking care of the whole need...it’s totally a partnership between the Mission and the community.” Sue’s vision for volunteerism makes a complex responsibility sound so simple—which is probably why God recruited her to fill such big shoes! Twists and turns The journey that led Sue to the Mission began with her role as a mom, homeschooling her kids and even planting the seeds of volunteerism in their hearts by involving them in our Hambone Express project when they were small. “That was probably my only exposure to the Buffalo City Mission...that one opportunity,” Sue comments. Looking back, Sue can see how it all eventually fit together like pieces of a puzzle: “To be able to understand what it was like to be a Hambone Express volunteer years ago, and now to be on the other side, working and organizing it from the Mission’s side...” Sue explains how being on her church’s missions committee led her to be a church ambassador to the Mission—which is how she came to receive an email when we were searching for a manager of volunteers. The rest is history! Today, Sue can see “God’s fingerprints all over the place!” Each twist and turn He took her on trained and prepared her in some crucial way to have just the right blend of skills and qualities that made her the Mission’s candidate of choice. “God has a wonderful sense of humor in how he puts things together for us!” she says, with the voice of experience and a great big smile. Sue Cervi Manager of Volunteers United Way Day of Caring It was a wonderful day...August 15, the United Way Day of Caring! More than 108 hours of community service were provided within a 3-hour time period, thanks to numerous volunteers from participating businesses, organizations, clubs and sororities. They helped with projects at the Buffalo City Mission’s Men’s Center, Cornerstone Manor and Thrift Store. From the inside out, these energetic workers washed, scrubbed, polished, swept, dusted, spackled...you name it! At the end of the day, our sites were sparkling clean. We are grateful to all the volunteers who participated from The United Way Day of representing organizations that included Communication Workers of America Local 1168, Zonta Club of Buffalo, Trocaire College, Caring is a perfect example Gamma Phi Omega Chapter—Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. that “Many of us together and Vanta Club. It was a joy to have Dr. Laura, past director of doing one small thing ends Cornerstone Manor, and a few friends who came with her to help out—as well as Suzanne Kelley, a good friend who helped out at up taking care of the the Thrift Store. It’s great to have a community that cares! whole need” —Sue Cervi * * * CODE BLUE WEATHER ALERT * * * Stuart L. Harper Executive Director Now through March 15! Buffalo City Mission is making extra space for friends needing shelter from harsh weather. 2 3 ( 716) 854-8181 buffalocitymission.org BY THE NUMBERS Can you help? Urgent Needs: • Soap • Disinfectant wipes • Denture cream • Facial tissue (Kleenex) • All sizes of winter coats, hats, gloves and boots for men, women and children January–October 2012 Always on our Wish List: • Furniture • New & gently used clothing •Non-perishable food items such as cereal, tuna, juice, sliced potatoes, diced tomatoes and coffee. Thank you for the tangible ways you care! Another year is coming to an end and, as you can see “by the numbers,” your gifts have made a difference! So far this year, you’ve helped provide: More than 145,399 meals More than 68,595 nights of shelter Over 575 bags of groceries supplied to poor and needy families Thank you for helping to ease the burdens of hungry, homeless and hurting men, women and children in the Buffalo area. 6th Annual Motorcycle Ride for the Homeless ‘Tis the season to... Get connected! Motorcycling for a Cause Visit us at any of the following websites for up-to-date information about the work you support. Sign up here: buffalocitymission.org On Saturday, August 25, more than 125 motorcyclists participated in the Buffalo City Mission’s sixth annual Motorcycle Ride for the Homeless. Bikers rode 50 miles through Niagara County, ending up at Gratwick Park in North Tonawanda. It was a ride for a cause with very good results! More than $20,000 was raised— all to benefit the children’s afterschool program at the Mission. We would like to thank our sponsors and everyone who came out to support this very worthwhile event. m $30 m $50 m $150 m $__________ Name AddressAPT. Your gift is tax deductible to the full extent of the law. We will send a receipt for your records. City Please make your check payable to: StateZip EMAIL NMCAWHT To give a gift by credit card, visit us online at buffalocitymission.org or call (716) 854-8181, ext. 429. 4 News of lives transformed—thanks to you! A publication of Buffalo City Mission The biggest Christmas gift After two months in the Men’s Discipleship Program, Joselito’s life was changing for the better. Even more important, his heart was changing. He had surrendered to God and was learning to “...seek first His kingdom and His righteousness...” (Matthew 6:33). So when Christmas rolled around, Joselito was ready to receive the best gift ever. It wasn’t wrapped in bright paper and tied with a bow. It was the intangible treasure of serving others. As our hungry guests arrived, Joselito welcomed them warmly and escorted them in to be fed. “To put a smile on hundreds of faces...that was the biggest Christmas gift you can possibly get.” Long road to rock bottom For many reasons, Joselito will always remember last Christmas as “a glorious day.” He was finally on the road to recovery— after a painful journey to “rock bottom.” Joselito’s life began well enough. As a young man, he had a promising future as a dancer with the Buffalo City Ballet. Then his father, who had been absent throughout Joselito’s childhood, suddenly showed up. His craving for a father’s love was so intense that Joselito abandoned his dream of dancing and moved Yes! I want to provide hearty holiday meals to men, women and families in need: m $15 DECEMBER 2012 BUFFALO CITY MISSION P.O. Box 1748 Buffalo, NY 14240-1748 THANK YOU! to Cleveland to try and build a relationship with his dad. “I was really convinced this was going to work out,” he says. But it didn’t work out. And this was just the first of many things that didn’t work out—including love, commitment and fatherhood. “I started hanging around some old friends that were into not-so-good things,” Joselito recalls. Things like using and dealing drugs. For the next 20 years, drugs and arrests hacked away at Joselito’s life. “I have like probably 50 arrests,” he explains. A tragic turnaround It took a tragedy to finally turn things around. Once again, he was in trouble. In fact, he was on his way to court to be sentenced when his lawyer informed him that his fiancé had overdosed and was dead. “That was the big turnaround...the big wakeup call,” he says sadly. For the next four months, Joselito grieved behind bars. But when he was released, he came to the Buffalo City Mission and entered the Discipleship Program. “I turned myself over to God,” he explains. “And I’ve been here ever since.” Now in the fourth phase, Joselito is working hard on his sobriety and rebuilding relationships with his daughters. “My plan is to continue with the program even after graduation,” he says. “You don’t leave out of here as a new person but as a new person wanting to do something for somebody else.” * * * CODE BLUE WEATHER ALERT * * * Gifts of Grace 2 A Wonderful Way to Give God’s Fingerprints 2 3