FIVE PHYSICAL
S I G N S T H AT S H E ’ S
ATTRACTED TO
YOU
S C O T M c K AY
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FIVE PHYSICAL SIGNS THAT SHE’S ATTRACTED TO YOU
We’re about to cover something that just about every guy struggles with at one
point or another.
That would be how to tell FOR SURE that a woman REALLY likes you…not just
“as a friend”, but that she is honestly sexually attracted.
Now, we as men are famously inept at reading women in this way.
It’s as if she’s got to hire an airplane to skywrite in the clouds overhead that she’s
into us…right after she whacks us in the head with the proverbial 2x4.
Go ahead and laugh, but that’s pretty much true.
OK, so before I give you five absolutely foolproof ways to tell that a woman’s
“touchie feelies” are an indisputable sign of real attraction, I’ve got to throw
something on the table for you.
Look, if a woman finds you gross and repulsive (read: “not sexually attractive”),
she WON’T touch you.
So then, if a woman is touching you AT ALL, it means AT THE VERY LEAST that
she finds you somewhat interesting sexually.
Truth be told, whenever a woman (notwithstanding relatives here, of course)
goes out of her way TO touch you, it’s a solid bet she’s attracted—
REGARDLESS of what that “touch” entails.
So bear that in mind before we even get into the ensuing list.
With that out of the way, here are five VERY CLEAR ways a woman can
physically touch you that leave ZERO DOUBT in any rational person’s mind that
she’s into you:
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1) She Grooms You
You may know about this one already, so I won’t harp on it much.
Scientific study has shown time and again that all members of the primate
world tend to GROOM others of their own species that they feel affection
toward.
So chimps and orangutans of the same social circle might sit in the forest and
pick nits off of each other all day.
Meanwhile, a girl you know might pick some lint off of your jacket for you or
straighten your collar.
It’s all the same…just the somewhat more “evolved” human version. She
digs you.
(And you’ve got to love my analogies, right?)
2) She’s Cold And Wants You To Keep Her Warm
Either women really are more “cold natured” then men are, or 90% of them
have simply figured out the perfect way to get guys they like to embrace
them.
You could spark a pretty good debate with that topic, couldn’t you?
But either way, when a woman starts going on and on about how “cold” she
is, she’d not only like you to give her your jacket, she wants you to wrap your
arms around her as well…if at least for the moment.
And that, friends and neighbors, can only mean she’s attracted to you.
Sometimes a woman’s signals in this particular realm are a bit more subtle,
but equally unmistakable.
One of my favorites, for example, is when you are on the couch watching a
movie with her, and she turns a bit and tucks her toes under your thigh…right
while you’re sitting there together.
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Personally, I find that to be a very sensual and unmistakably feminine move.
That half-playful, half-affectionate signal has “I’m crazy about you” written all
over it. It also is a strong sign that she feels 100% safe with you.
One time I read a woman’s profile on Match.com that actually mentioned the
“toes under the leg for warmth” thing. I wrote her.
3) She Hits You On The Shoulder
While I personally believe that ANY time a woman hits you on the shoulder
(or your arm, or your chest) it’s a sign of POSSIBLE attraction, I have to make
it perfectly clear that not EVERY whack on your shoulder from a woman is
created equal.
If you’ve just done something that causes a woman to seriously buckle down
and belt you pretty hard, it could be because you flat-out deserved it—and
she’s bold enough to realize, at least, that you’d never hit her back.
I wouldn’t call that a definitive sign of attraction, but it’s really not necessarily
a sign she’s NOT attracted, either…believe it or not.
But if you’re bantering with a woman and you end up saying something that
causes her to playfully whack you because you’re “bad”, then it’s very likely
“game on”.
The strength behind the whack really doesn’t matter at that point, by the way.
She may lightly tap you or hit you pretty hard. Either way, it’s not only an
indication of attraction, it’s likely also a bit of an insight into what she’d be like
in bed…no kidding.
But what’s the highest-percentage incident of this type? That would be when
a woman randomly hits you on the shoulder out of the blue—for no apparent
reason—and starts giggling. That’s pretty much the first stage of “foreplay”.
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4) She Paws At You Like A Cat
Oh man, I love this one.
Some women really get into the whole “feline” aspect of femininity, and tend
to literally act it out when they’re in the presence of a guy they like.
Amazingly, this can be either conscious OR unconscious on their part.
But no doubt, some women (i.e. the particularly smart and intuitive ones)
know that this tends to drive most guys wild. Welcome to why hotties LOVE
to dress up in cat suits (or even like Catwoman) for Halloween.
So basically, if she’s talking to you face to face and starts patting at your
chest like a cat would while she’s talking to you, I’d bet $1000 that she’s not
only attracted to you…she’s HOT for you.
The example I just gave is kind of a blatant one, but you can be on the
lookout for ANY kind of “feline” touch.
Look for her to “swipe” at you like a cat would, even lightly across the face if
you’ve just made a smart-aleck remark.
And if she swipes at you with “claws” like a tiger? Well, then you’re in “big
cat” territory. That’s money…especially if she actually verbalizes a growl or a
meow.
5) She Touches Your Hair Or Face
I’m about to tell you something SO obvious that you’re probably going to
shake your head and laugh.
By now you know about the “kiss test” made famous by David DeAngelo.
Essentially, if a woman will let you touch her hair, she’ll let you kiss her. (That
principle has NEVER failed me, by the way.)
Well, here’s a disarmingly simple variation on that theme that ALMOST
NOBODY ever considers.
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If a woman wants to touch YOUR hair (or your face, or anywhere on your
head, for that matter) it means SHE probably wants to kiss YOU.
Think about it. Touching another person’s head is a pretty personal thing to
do. Whenever a woman does it, it’s sensual.
[Ed. Note: For what it’s worth, by the way, if another dude you don’t know
very well ever touches your head it’s an aggressive act…you can bet on it.]
From now on I’d say you have no more excuses when it comes to reading a
woman’s physical signals.
Sure, if she touches you AT ALL it’s a positive sign of attraction. But if she
touches you in any of the five ways I just revealed, it’s a FOREGONE
CONCLUSION that she’s into you.
Now, if you’re familiar with how I go about things at all, you know that I don’t do
anything “half way”. I always like to deliver more than I promise.
So stay tuned, because I’ve got a surprise for you.
Now it’s time to follow up with five physical signs that she’s giving you SEXUAL
PERMISSION.
That’s right…we’re taking the conversation one step further.
Let’s talk about how to tell for sure that she not only that she LIKES you but that
she wants you to TAKE HER sexually.
Unfortunately, tons of guys misread those signals also…so what follows might
possibly be the most important part of this report.
Just like there are clear indicators that women send you when they’re attracted,
there are also signs they give you when they’re 100% ready and willing to have
sex with you.
And I’ve got great news for you. They’re also PHYSICAL ones, like the first five I
gave you above.
Now obviously, if a woman grabs you by the collar, looks you in the eye and
whispers “take me…now” you’re going to know what’s up.
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But remember always, women want YOU TO LEAD.
As such, they’re more likely to drop hints about their horniness (possibly even
STRONG ones, like you’re about to see)…all the while HOPING you’ll “get the
memo” and make a bold move.
Again, some of these might seem obvious to you.
And yes, at the purely theoretical level it might SEEM really easy to interpret
these signals…as long as we’re observing them as they happen to some OTHER
guy, right?
But based on the e-mails I get, the problem clearly arises when this amazing stuff
happens TO US…in the REAL WORLD, with REAL WOMEN around.
Let’s just put it this way, if you see ANYTHING on the following list in real life and
do NOTHING to get the ball rolling sexually, don’t at all be surprised when the
woman you’re with silently gets up and leaves your apartment…slamming the
door behind her.
You may think you were “being a gentleman”, but in her mind you’ll have
REJECTED her in humiliating fashion.
Anyway, enough. Here’s what to look for…
1) Spontaneous Tickling
OK, here’s the first GEM of a takeaway you’re going to get here.
When it comes to women, this “secret” formula is just about bulletproof:
PLAYFULNESS = HORNINESS
You see, I didn’t like calculus much in school so I keep my “equations” as
simple as possible…and that’s about as easy as “formulas” get.
Let’s face it though. NOTHING is more “playful” than busting out and tickling
someone—especially right out of the blue.
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When a woman tickles you, she’s not only demonstrating a strong, immediate
desire to run her “lady paws” all over you, she’s also initiating something
that’s INHERENTLY DESIGNED to key up your nerves.
She tickles, you laugh.
And hey, if you want to look cool and play the “I’m not ticklish” card for as long
as you can take it, so be it.
But sooner than later you’d better erupt into tickling her back or you’re going
to BLOW IT here, “Mr. Macho”.
So yes, you tickle her back…and she squeals and giggles.
The next thing you know you’re writhing together on the couch, or better yet—
the floor.
You’d then better start kissing her…with some enthusiasm.
etcetera, etcetera.
Etcetera,
Don’t worry, she’ll keep giggling.
2) Pillow Fights
Similar to tickling, getting whacked with a pillow serves notice that she thinks
it’s time for the two of you to start “getting physical” with each other.
The subtle difference is that while tickling is mostly about direct stimulation of
your sense of touch, starting a pillow fight is more of a “hybrid” stimulation
involving your imagination as well.
I mean, when she hauls off and clobbers you in a playful way, the whole idea
of starting a “play war” indicates that she’s daring you to try to “subdue” her.
Now, obviously she trusts you not to physically harm her.
But if you know the first thing about female sexuality, you know that women
LOVE to be “taken” by a man in a way that demonstrates his physical
strength to some degree.
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So when she initiates “playful aggression” like this, you know she’s
absolutely, positively thinking about getting “pounded” in return—by another
pillow, that is…at least at first.
By the way, if she starts “play wrestling” with you the underlying message is
pretty much the same…only LOUDER.
In fact, if a woman has ever started “play wrestling” with you ON A BED and
you STILL “failed to deploy”, call me IMMEDIATELY for 1-on-1 coaching.
3) The Hip Bump
Let me give you a caveat here. This is the one physical sign of “sexual
permission” out of the five on this list that MIGHT NOT indicate that she’s
ready for sexual activity right then and there…if only because the
environment might not be appropriate.
But make no mistake, if a woman bumps the side of your pelvic region with
hers it’s an UNMISTAKABLE sign that she’d also be very interested in the two
of you bumping each other’s pelvic regions from other angles also.
I remember one time in particular a girl I knew gave me a “surprise greeting”
in the form of The Hip Bump at a bookstore. I didn’t know she was there, and
that’s literally how she said “hello”.
When I looked up and saw her, she giggled and said, “Hi there.” It was on.
4) Touching You In “Personal” Places
Look, if she grabs your crotch, you’ll probably get the message.
also if she grabs your butt.
Probably
But the arguably more subtle signals come in the form of her touching you in
other places on YOUR body that you wouldn’t even dream of touching on
HERS unless you knew she was good and ready for it.
The prime example here is, of course, the chest.
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Her chest is more “personal” of an area than yours, but make no mistake
about it—if she touches yours, you have “sexual permission” to touch hers.
That goes for anywhere else on the body. Thighs, neck, etc.
General rule: Any time a woman touches you somewhere, you can
reciprocate without any trepidation whatsoever.
5) Modeling Clothes In Private
Believe it or not, once you get inside a woman’s mind and figure out exactly
what goes on in there you’re very likely to LOVE what you discover.
Personally, I’ve grown to absolutely crave both the playful, teasing nature of
femininity AND women’s apparent “subtlety” when it comes to waiting on a
guy to take the lead sexually.
And I love how they really like to make sure “foreplay” happens whether we
as guys think we want it or not….and whether WE REALIZE that’s what they
actually have in mind, or not.
Women are truly the mistresses of making sure sexual chemistry simmers
until ready.
And wow…do they LOVE to be sexually appreciated—but ONLY by guys
they’re attracted to in return.
Where am I going with all this?
Check it out. ANY TIME you’re at a woman’s place and she suggests she’d
like to model some new clothes for you, you’d better OBLIGE HER.
Otherwise, you’re a total bonehead.
That’s because what’s about to gloriously unfold before your very eyes is
pretty much the ULTIMATE demonstration of every premise of feminine
nature I just described.
So yes…you should relax and enjoy the “show”.
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Oh sure, on the surface it sounds boring.
It may even sort of sound like your masculinity is potentially going to be
insulted—as if you’ve just been asked to hold her purse or something.
But not so fast. That’s not what she has in mind…believe me. Quite the
opposite, in fact.
Her full intention is to IGNITE your masculinity.
After all, we’re not talking about her dragging you to shop for dresses at the
mall like a gay friend here.
I’m specifically talking about when she dreams up the idea of modeling
clothes for you IN PRIVATE…as in AT HER PLACE.
Sure, you can perpetrate like you’re not interested in a bunch of women’s
clothes, etc. But don’t put up TOO much of a battle here.
This is not about the clothes...it’s about what’s UNDER THEM.
What she’s going to do is take you into her room, and—sure enough—she’s
going to change.
She’ll probably go into the bathroom or the closet so she can do so out of
your sight.
But don’t kid yourself. She’s intentionally planting the seed in your
imagination that she’s GETTING NAKED in there.
It won’t be long at all before she comes out and asks you what you think.
Don’t be surprised when she has something on that brings out just exactly
how FEMALE she is.
The proper response from you might be, “Hmmm…not bad. But maybe you’d
better give me something else to compare it to.”
She’ll smile and skip back into hiding.
When she returns she’ll have something EVEN SEXIER on.
Go ahead and give her some approval. But then ask, “I’m guessing there’s
more, huh?”
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The next time she comes out, she’ll be wearing something she KNOWS looks
good on her.
AND…it’s altogether likely that she’ll be holding another blouse or dress in
her hand as she makes little “catwalk” moves before you.
“Wait a sec…”, she’ll say.
shoes.”
“See if you think this looks better with these
This time, if you’ve shown just the right amount of flirtatious intrigue, she’ll
spontaneously change shirts without returning to the bathroom…giving you a
nice view of the bra she’s wearing.
Please—in the name of all that’s right in this world—do the right thing once
she puts on the other blouse.
Tell her you greatly prefer the “blouse-free option”…at which time you walk up
to her and kiss her.
Importantly, don’t just grab at the blouse just yet. Her message has been
clearly communicated, and she knows you got it. The rest will happen on it’s
own.
Now, I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention a couple of variations on this theme.
The first is when she decides to model swimsuits for you. This adds a more
overt twist to the whole exercise, while also demonstrating that she’s VERY
comfortable with her body…nice.
The other variation, of course, is when she just throws caution to the wind and
goes straight to modeling underwear for you.
Some very confident and relatively forward women will indeed actually go in
this blatant a direction, ESPECIALLY if you’ve been guilty of letting the
“sexual tension” go on for way, way too long.
Having read this list, any red-blooded guy would no doubt be pretty happy to
have ANYTHING on it happen to him.
The key is, of course, to actually RECOGNIZE the signals for what they are and
make sure to RESPOND accordingly.
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Before we wrap this up, I want to grant “honorable mention” status to two other
playfully sexual signals women send:
1) Playing “footsie”
2) Biting you somewhere on your body, especially while kissing you
Both of those mean that she’s sexually interested and is having a hard time
containing the sexual energy she feels toward you. I’d stop just short of deeming
them full-on “sexual permission” signals, though.
When you see either of these, she’s definitely thinking horny thoughts in addition
to feeling attraction for you. But it’s possible she might not be quite ready for you
to “take her” just yet.
Nevertheless, if you keep doing all the right things you’ve been doing up until that
moment to attract her and drive her wild, you’re likely to see at least one of the
five signals on the main list above VERY SOON thereafter.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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On that page you’ll find a number of free videos, each giving you a simple but
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Please note that the information in this special report is for entertainment
purposes only and is not intended to constitute "professional advice". You are
responsible for your own decisions in life (which I hope will include deciding to
meet plenty of high quality women).
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ABO U T TH E AU TH O R
Scot McKay graduated from Messiah College in Grantham, PA in 1988 with a
Bachelor of Arts in Education. From there, he did graduate work in psychology
and counseling while working as a life coach for "at risk" kids in Yuma, AZ.
After a difficult divorce years later, Scot heard from virtually everyone that "it
wasn't his fault" and that "there was nothing he could have done" to have been a
better husband. Not accepting the victim's mindset, he researched exactly what it
is that attracts men and women to one another, and—more importantly—what
keeps them together for years.
This research has been ongoing for seven years to date, and has literally been a
life-changer for him—going from divorced and alone to happily married to the
woman of his dreams during that span.
The findings have been so profound and meaningful that Scot went back to his
roots of life coaching after a successful management career in the IT world...and
that’s how X & Y Communications was born.
Scot lives in San Antonio, TX with his wife Emily and three children (David,
Danielle and Scot Jr.).
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