Severn Trent Services Working Together Leader’s Guide February 2010 www.hresults.com LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together Working Together: Professionalism |Respect | Civil Behavior “The Importance of Playing Well With Others” PROGRAM OVERVIEW: Most of us spend more than 2000 hours a year at their workplace. We often spend much of this time working with, at least some percentage of their co-workers, who have some traits and habits that we find annoying or counter-productive. Although some of these issues are the result of poor “chemistry” between colleagues, most of these situations are within our ability to control. “Working Together” is designed to provide managers and staff with practical and proven “tools” intended to facilitate the understanding and interactions between co-workers. Through an interactive mix of facilitated discussions, vignettes, quizzes and games, participants will jointly develop a set of “working principles” for their location. These are intended to become living documents that can be reviewed and revised as situations warrant. The overarching objectives of this program are to: • Provide a better understanding of differences in styles and viewpoints encountered in the workplace • Increase self-awareness of how behaviors impact others and the work itself • Enhance participant’s skills and toolkit for effectively dealing with workplace annoyances • Develop principles to guide behaviors SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together Materials Needed: PREPARATION: - “Working Together” program and Leader’s Guide - sign in sheet - flip chart easel and pad - markers - pencils and paper - handouts (“workplace etiquette” quiz; “Dear Sandy” activity - “Easy” buttons (or similar buttons) for cubicle game - double-sided “post-it” notes (for end of session poster activity) - evaluation form Audio Visual Requirements: - laptop computer - projector w/remote control - extension cords (if needed) - spare bulb for projector - speakers (for videos) Training Room Setup: - classroom style seating arrangement with tables of at least 3 people USING THIS LEADERS GUIDE: This guide is organized to match each page to the individual Powerpoint slide displayed at top of page Slide “builds” are noted with an icon SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together LEADER'S GUIDE ICONS: ASK: Question or request for input from participants FLIP CHART: Record participant answers or comments on flip chart for review SAY: Suggested comments or notes related to slide (these should be paraphrased in leader’s own words) EXERCISE / ACTIVITY: Full or small group tasks. Instructions are provided QUIZ: Short test of knowledge to be completed by participants SLIDE BUILD: Indicates that text on slide will “build” with each click. Allows for discussion of individual points VIDEO: Short film imbedded into slide. Double click on image in slide show mode to begin play CASE STUDY: Situation(s) presented to participants for discussion SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together PROGRAM TIMING GUIDE: Topic Estimated Time (minutes) Associated Slide(s) Introduction 16 1-5 Work Place Annoyances 25 6-12 Civility / Respect / Etiquette 13 13-16 Terry Tate Video 7 17 Work Place Annoyance (Activity) 10 18 -19 Work Place Etiquette Quiz 10 20 Break 10 Cubicle Dwellers – Game of Choices 17 21-33 Gossip 10 34-37 Dear Sandy 15 38 Work Place Civility / Self Awareness 12 39-41 Impacts on Behavior 17 42-47 New Ground Rules 7 48 Total 169 This program is designed to provide flexibility to the facilitator. Running time can vary from 2 to 3 hours depending on the content areas presented. By reviewing the above chart you can delete exercises or specific subject matter without impacting the overall integrity of the program. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together Working Together working together Slide 1 – working together Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Introduce yourself (background & experience, time with organization, etc.) Welcome Participants – Have them introduce themselves (have each participant state their name, position, how long they have been with the organization) Thank participants for attending today’s session SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together professionalism | respect|civil behavior “the importance of playing well with others” Slide 2 – professionalism – respect – civil behavior Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Today we will be discussing professionalism, respect and civil behavior. This program was developed as a result of staff requests for additional development and training opportunities. One of the most requested topics was “respect in the workplace”. This training was piloted at the Colmar location and is now being rolled out to other locations. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together some goals for today working together • gain a better understanding of differences in style and viewpoints we encounter in the workplace every day • increase “self awareness” – look at our own actions and identify any that might hit a nerve in others • discuss a few principles to guide behavior at work • get your feedback on how this type of discussion can be helpful at Severn Trent Services Slide 3 – some goals for today Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Review each program goal with the participants 2 mins Gain a better understanding of differences in style and viewpoints you encounter at work Increase “self-awareness” Learn some principles that guide behavior Get YOUR feedback SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together “plays well with others” working together Slide 4 – play well with others Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins What do you think the significance of this slide is? What do you think the game represents? Possible responses: Kids playing a game A thinking game A game of strategy Competition “Plays well with others” is a general theme that we will be referring to throughout this training. The intent is not to refer to any of us as children, but rather be able to use this as an analogy. Just as when children are playing, it’s important that everyone can get along with each other when working together. As with any other situation in life: You don’t need to “like” the people you work with, You don’t have to go to lunch with the people you work with You don’t need to socialize But. . . you do need to work together to accomplish common goals SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together let’s talk some ground rules working together Slide 5 – let’s talk some ground rules Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time At work we need to have some guidelines to ensure we all are accountable for certain standards of behaviors / courtesy 5 mins These ground rules will be used during this session and we will revisit these at the end of the program To get things started, I would like to include these ground rules: Confidentiality—“what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” Don’t be specific of any person when bringing up examples “Each of us is entitled to how we feel.” [Note: these 3 ground rules need to be on the list as they are referenced later in the session] Capture participant input on rules Some examples you may want to include on the list: It is important for others to present their own point of view Be respectful in both body language and comments SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together big stuff / small stuff working together everyone experiences frustrations with their job at some point – it can be with the work itself, environmental or economic issues or any number of other broad concerns – more often, however, we get annoyed with some of the behaviors and habits displayed by our co-workers Slide 6—big stuff / small stuff Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 builds Review first point from slide: “Everyone experiences frustrations with their job at some point” 3 mins Frustrations can be caused by big things (use examples): Don’t like the project you are working on Long commute Don’t feel compensated appropriately More often than not though, they are little things. Read 3rd bullet from slide: o “More often we get annoyed with some of the behaviors and habits of our co-workers” We’re now going to show you a short video to demonstrate what we mean by this. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together annoyances can take many forms working together Slide 7—annoyances can take many forms Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Play “whistler” video by double-clicking on picture while in “slide show” mode 5 mins Point out that this may be an extreme example of a workplace annoyance, and obviously, we would not want any of you to tell a co-worker to die, but have you ever been in a situation where you felt this way? [Lead discussion] Make sure examples don’t use real names and situations are not easily identified with others in the room And annoyances can take many forms. . . Click anywhere outside of picture to move on to the next slide SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together some are obvious working together overt | in your face – bullying – rudeness – insensitivity Slide 8—some are obvious Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time The example in the video we just showed you is an overt action – rude, insensitive – you don’t have to think about it. 5 mins The person that was whistling did not care that the individual sitting next to him was annoyed by his behavior and actually made a pretty obvious comment that it was bothersome to him. The person whistling really demonstrated a lack of respect towards his co-workers. Here are some examples of other overt behaviors: Someone yelling in the office Someone talking while you are on the phone Speaking over you – interrupting while you are talking Jumping in line in front of you (e.g. you are waiting to talk to your boss and someone jumps in front of you) These are very obvious for people to see. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together some not so much working together covert | subtle – – – – passive aggressive shunning ignoring playing both sides Slide 9—some not so much Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Other behaviors are not as obvious. Review points on slide. Here are some examples of covert (or more subtle) types of actions: Not letting you talk in a meeting Pretending not to hear you Rolling of the eyes More often than not – these are the types of behaviors that really affect us. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together so. . . this is why we’re here working together we spend a lot of time together. . .and; – interact constantly – encounter many different types of people – all with unique personalities and habits – bring different approaches to problem solving and conflict resolution – carry our outside experiences to work with us Slide 10—so. . .this is why we’re here Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time (four builds) 3 mins Read points on the slide. “we spend a lot of time together. . .and”: Interact constantly Encounter unique personalities and habits Bring different approaches Carry our outside experiences to work [NOTE: It should be obvious as to why we are here but this is the opportunity to reiterate] EMPHASIZE: No one should take participation in this program personally because we have all exhibited behavior that can be perceived as improper or annoying behavior in the workplace. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together and. . . it has a real impact working together in response to others “insensitive” behaviors at work: – 48% of employees decreased their work effort – 47% decreased their time at work – 38% decreased their work quality – 66% said their performance declined – 80% lost work time worrying about the incident – 63% lost time avoiding the offender – 78% said their commitment to the organization declined in addition: – most human resource staff spend about 15 to 20 percent of their time dealing with people's pet peeves Slide 11—and. . .it has a real impact Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins READ slide header: “and. . .it has a real impact” Although workplace annoyances can tend to be a subject matter for comedies (such as the TV show, the Office or the comic strip, Dilbert), it is a real issue that we all deal with. This is not only a matter of courtesy and respect. There have been numerous studies on this topic, and they have shown that workplace annoyances have a real effect on employees. Highlight some of the points you find most interesting on the slide [NOTE: Be prepared to reference names of some studies: Workplace Management, MSNBC, Washington Post] Clearly what we do and how we act ultimately impacts the bottom line. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together unlike other training you may have had. . . working together we’re not going to focus on: – – – – legislation policies harassment (in the legal sense) diversity (in the sense it’s generally discussed) Slide 12—unlike other training you may have had on similar topics Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time It is important to keep in mind; however, that when you don’t behave as you should in the workplace, there is a chance that you may be violating a policy. 3 mins Additionally, it can lead others to perceive your actions or behavior as a form of harassment or discrimination. Some of you may have already participated in a session regarding legislative guidelines. This program takes a different spin / twist on the subject. Our goal today is focus on behaviors and not legal issues. It’s a given that our policies and legislation are always important. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together civility | respect | etiquette working together civility – courtesy; politeness; a polite action or expression respect – to show regard or consideration for others etiquette – conventional requirements for social behavior Slide 13 – civility – respect - etiquette Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins As we’ve been discussing, this training focuses on “Civility, Respect, and Etiquette”. (three builds) These words have a variety of definitions, but let’s review what they mean as they relate to this training. There is only a subtle difference between these definitions but the distinctions are important to keep in mind during the session. Review each definition from the slide SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together a few more definitions. . . working together an annoyance: – a cause of irritation or vexation; a nuisance a pet peeve: – a minor annoyance that an individual identifies as more particularly annoying to them, to a greater degree than others may find it • these behaviors may involve disrespect, manners, personal hygiene, relationships, and family issues Slide 14 – a few more definitions Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Let’s go over a couple of other definitions to make sure we’re all on the same page. 3 mins Review the points on the slide Ask participates to close their eyes until the next slide (15) is on the screen SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together and. . . it doesn’t matter if it’s real we’re still not working together happy! intention and outcome are often very different – regardless of the intent of the action, each person’s perception of the behavior becomes reality Slide 15 – and it does not matter if it is real Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Once picture is on the screen, instruct participants to open their eyes 5 mins Ask participants to look at the picture on the far right and ask “what do you see?” Tell participants to give you their first impression and not take a lot of time to ponder over the picture CLICK THROUGH THE BUILDS ON THE SLIDE (3) Our perception of others begins externally, with the other person’s behavior – or possibly even the way we feel as a result of their behavior. We may make assumptions about their intentions or even about their motivation Have you ever had the experience of assuming the reason behind another person’s behavior only to hear them explain a completely different and unexpected reason? Any you would like to share with the group? SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together workplace pet peeves working together • may seem silly to complain to anyone about • over time, can influence and overwhelm our day and grate on us • can actually make us feel that we are not important to our co-workers and managers Slide 16 – work place pet peeves Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 2 mins We all have real things to worry about at work (give examples): job stability compensation making sure there are no mistakes on that big project getting things done on time But it’s the little things that can really get us stressed out and irritated and shift our focus from what’s really important. We are in the roles we are today because of our skills and abilities – it is the “other stuff” that seems to get in the way at work. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together don’t be one of these people! working together “Terry Tate: office linebacker Slide 17 – don’t be one of these people Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time We have a video to share with you. This one deals with “pet peeves”. Again, this is over exaggerated but you should be able to get the point 7 mins Do any of you recall a commercial that Reebok did during the 2003 Superbowl titled “Terry Tate, Office Linebacker”? The commercial spotlights people in the office who don’t follow established protocols. Terry Tate’s efforts help increase productivity. Let’s watch one of the commercial(s). Double click on picture to bring up video Do these things happen to you at work? What’s your reaction to the video? This commercial was downloaded more than seven million times from Reebok's website. The commercial was very successful in attracting viewers because so many of us can relate to the situations that are featured. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together workplace etiquette working together what annoys you in the workplace? Slide 18—workplace etiquette Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time So let's turn things now to you. I am going to ask each of you to take a moment now and write down an example(s) of something you find annoying in the workplace—either now or in your past experiences. 7 mins You will see that our slide shows a picture of a cell phone and a picture of a dollar sign crossed out. This is to highlight what are appropriate examples for this exercise. An appropriate example of a workplace annoyance may include such things as cell phone rings, people interrupting you while you are talking, usage of speakerphone, etc. Inappropriate examples would include anything related to salary, time off, benefits, etc. or serious issues like harassment or discrimination. After everyone has had a chance to think of something, I am going to ask for volunteers to share examples with the group. Remember, one of our ground rules is that each of us is entitled to how we feel, so we should not get upset by any examples that another person brings up. When giving examples try not to be so specific that it reveals who it is; also, don’t make an assumption that you know who the example is referring to. (Guide for Slide 18 continued on next page) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together workplace etiquette working together what annoys you in the workplace? Slide 18—workplace etiquette (continued) Have everyone write down their example(s). [Note: make sure everyone has pencil and paper] Who is willing to share an example of a workplace pet peeve—either from your current work setting or from a prior position? LEAD DISCUSSION USE Flipchart to capture items. NOTE: If no one gives an example you may want to give an example that is personal – an example from your own experiences. (You may want to start the discussion with this) Examples to bring up if needed—not replacing the paper at the copy machine, leaving copy machine jammed; not picking documents up at the printer CAUTION: This is an important slide and can either be successful or unsuccessful. As the facilitator you should be prepared to lead the discussion in the right direction. If you feel that a situation is inappropriate for the session or may personalize this too much you may need to hold off on an example and re-direct the conversation. Don’t overdo the slide – spend appropriate time. This is the most dangerous slide in the program – be prepared. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together some common workplace annoyances working together • personal phone calls • roaming around the office and interrupting others • leaving work and common areas dirty or messy • poor kitchen habits • gossip • loud talking • ringing (or singing) cell phones • using speakerphones when others outside the room can hear • checking e-mail on PDAs or phones during meetings Slide 19—some common workplace annoyances Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Now that we have your list, let’s review some of the most common workplace annoyances based on a variety of survey data. Review points from slide as you feel appropriate Make sure the participants’ flipchart list is near the presentation Review and comment on similarities and differences of survey data compared to the group’s results. [Note: if this is not the first session of the day or at a specific location, you may want to compare the lists generated at other sessions] SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together quiz: workplace etiquette working together so . . . how would you handle this? Slide 20—quiz: workplace etiquette Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time When it comes to workplace courtesy, it’s often difficult to know what to do. What’s proper and what isn’t can be a matter of personal judgment. We’re going to have each of you complete a quiz that tests your courtesy quotient on the job. Hand out quiz Some of these questions may depend more on good judgment than on a widely accepted rule. When there seems to be more than one right answer, choose the one with which you would feel most comfortable. 3 mins. Participants should take about 5 minutes to complete the questions. 7 minutes Review quiz questions and answers. Discuss correct answers and solicit reactions. Ask participants why they answered the way they did. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together PARTICIPANT BREAK 10 MINUTES Facilitator should use the break time to set up room for “Game of Choices” • Set up table at front of room • Place buzzer on each side of table (one for each team) • Have clean flip chart page available to keep score SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together for cubicle dwellers: working together some very special challenges Slide 21 – for cubicle dwellers Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time What is your reaction to the term “cubicle dwellers?” Solicit feedback; lead discussion. 2 mins What do you think we mean when we talk about “Cubicle Etiquette”? Some possible answers: Set of unwritten rules that exist in the workplace. Guidelines should be adhered to by both workers in the cubicle and people in adjoining work spaces. Main factor in cubicle etiquette is privacy. A cubicle is a unique environment – since many of us work in cubicles or other open spaces it presents challenges that may not exist in other work areas SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together a game of choices: cubicle edition working together Slide 22 – a game of choices – cubicle edition Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 15 mins (total) Next we are going to play a “game of choices – the cubicle edition” This game is a combination of “Family Feud” and “Who Wants To Be a Millionaire”, but without the life lines. “Pretend that I am Richard Dawson and I’m wearing my light blue leisure suit.” Divide participants into two groups – assign each person to a group by counting off (1, 2, 1, 2) Ask all of the 1’s to stand on one side of the room and all of the 2’s on the other side SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together rules of the game working together • select order that teammates will answer • all or nothing – get it right: get the points – get it wrong: no points • other team gets a try after a wrong answer • team with the most points wins Slide 23 – rules of the game Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Rules of the game: Goal for your team is to obtain as many points as possible. A coin toss will determine which team will go first Each team will elect the order in which your teammates will answer the question. Players will come to the table and face each other with the buzzer in front of them. Place one hand behind your back. I will read the question. The first player to hit their buzzer will have the opportunity to answer the question. If you answer the question correctly, you get 1 point, zero points for a wrong answer. If your team answers incorrectly the other team will have the ability to answer the question. There is a tie-breaker question at the end that is valued at 10 points. As a warning, you may not agree with the answer, but they are based on a number of research studies. Debate among participants is encouraged. Best of luck to you. Let’s get started SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together rules of the game working together • select order that teammates will answer • all or nothing – get it right: get the points – get it wrong: no points • other team gets a try after a wrong answer • team with the most points wins Slide 23 – rules of the game (continued) Notes: You may want to lead the discussion after some of the slides, particularly if the participants do not agree with an answer. Use flip chart to record each winning answer as the game goes on. Announce the score after each question. This game gives the participants an opportunity to have a lot of fun. As the game is progressing, try to elicit their competitive spirit in a fun way. SLIDE BUILDS AND TRANSITIONS: Be careful paging through each of the game slides: There are 4 builds on this slide Click through slowly. Each item on the slide is a build and the answer will appear if you click too fast. It is suggested that you practice your timing in advance for this exercise SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question one working together true or false: you should always use your “library voice” when talking in cubicles TRUE Slide 24 – question one Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time True or False: “You should always use your library voice when talking in cubicles” Answer: True The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question two working together true or false: you should never use a speakerphone when working in a cubicle TRUE Slide 25 – question two Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time True or False: “You should never use a speakerphone when working in a cubicle” Answer: True The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question three working together Why should you keep your personal cell phone turned off if you work in a cubicle? A. if you don’t answer it right away, the ringing will bother your co-workers B. others may listen in to things you’d rather they not hear C. it’s rude to carry on a personal conversation in a workspace D. all of the above Slide 26 – question three Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “Why should you keep your personal cell phone turned off if you work in a cubicle?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: D Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question four working together cubicles don’t have doors, so how should you handle it when you want to enter a co-workers space and you aren’t sure if they are busy or not? A. knock on the outside of the cubicle, but only if they don’t look busy B. holler over the cubicle and ask if they have time for you now C. stand outside their cubicle space and wait until they have time D. go in and sit down; one of the benefits of cubicles is their lack of formality Slide 27 – question four Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “Cubicles don’t have doors, so how should you handle it when you want to enter a coworker’s space and you aren’t sure if they’re busy or not?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: A Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question five working together what is the best way of communicating with other cubicle dwellers at work? A. congregate outside someone’s cubicle and have your meeting in the hall B. meeting up at one another’s cubicle, but speaking in a low voice C. yell over the cubicle wall D. text message each other Slide 28 – question five Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “What is the best way of communicating with other cubicle dwellers at work?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: B Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question six working together you need to have a meeting with either a vendor or client, your best alternative A. have the meeting in your cubicle B. let other cubicle dwellers know that a meeting will be taking place in your cubicle, so they are on their best behavior C. schedule a conference room D. none of the above Slide 29 – question six Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “You need to have a meeting with either a vendor or client - your best alternative?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: C Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question seven working together if you overhear a neighbor’s telephone conversation, you should A. B. C. D. repeat the conversation to everyone in the break room comment on the conversation ask the neighbor nosy questions about the conversation mind your own darn business Slide 30 – question seven Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “If you overhear a neighbor’s telephone conversation, you should. . .” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: D Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together question eight working together if you don’t want to be bothered while working in your cubicle, you should do what? A. B. C. D. put a “do not disturb” sign on your cubicle near the door don’t make eye contact with anyone put a chair in front of your cubicle opening pretend to be on an important phone call Slide 31 – question eight Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: “If you don’t want to be bothered while working in your cubicle, you should do what?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: B Record point on flipchart for winning team NOTE: This question / answer may be controversial; discussion is recommended. You may want to ask participants if they have any other suggestions for answers. Example: “Work at home” was raised at a previous session SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together tie breaker working together what is the term for peeking over cubicle tops and into others’ cubicles as you walk by? A. B. C. D. peeky weeky hyena peeking prairie dog rude Slide 32 – tie breaker Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Multiple Choice: (Tie Breaker – However, use even if score not tied) “What is the term for peeking over cubicle tops and into other’s cubicles as you pass by?” Click to build choices - one at a time BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO CLICK PAST LETTER “D” UNTIL GROUP GIVES THEIR ANSWER The first person to answer the question correctly gets one point for their team Click to show answer Answer: C Record point on flipchart for winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together prairie dog working together Slide 33 – prairie dog Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Show picture (they are all prairie dogs) Review score on flipchart to announce winning team participants. Lead a short discussion regarding picture Note: You may want to consider a prize for the winning team SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together gossip working together did you hear about. . . .??? Slide 34—gossip Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time How would you define gossip in the workplace? 2 mins RECORD answers on flip chart Be prepared to provide some possible answers: Talking about someone behind their back Repeating a story you heard about someone to another person SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together gossip working together any language that would cause another harm, pain, or confusion that is used outside the presence of another for whom it is intended personal | workplace | other how do you differentiate? Slide 35—gossip Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins The dictionary definition of gossip is: Click to show definition: “any language that would cause another harm, pain or confusion that is used outside the presence of another for whom it is intended” Click to show next build: There are different types of gossip--personal, workplace, and what we’re referring to as “other” Click to show next build: How would you differentiate these? Lead Discussion: Some possible answers: Personal: The gossip is about one particular person (e.g. Mary is getting a divorce) Workplace: When the gossip refers to the business (e.g. stock price changes, work force reductions are happening, the company is merging) Other: A forecast of snow (e.g. people spend the day at the window looking for snow – openly speculating if the company will close early) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together gossip working together any language that would cause another harm, pain, or confusion that is used outside the presence of another for whom it is intended personal | workplace | other how do you differentiate? Slide 35—gossip (continued) Does it matter if the gossip is true or false? Answer: No, the impact of the gossip is what matters, you can spread gossip which is true and you can still have the same impact SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together the impact of gossip and rumors working together productivity focus trust Slide 36—the impact of gossip and rumors Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Here are some of the known impacts of gossip and rumors on the workplace: Reduced productivity: when we are gossiping at work we are not doing our work, therefore we produce less Not focused on task: again, similar to reduce productivity, when we are gossiping we are not performing our work task – we are preoccupied with the gossip Lack of trust among employees: if you are gossiping, other employees wonder if you are “talking about them”. Turnover – Especially if you are the target of gossip you may leave an organization. On the other hand, you may not even be a part of the gossip but can no longer stay in an environment that becomes toxic. This is a way of losing good, talented employees. As you may notice, all the impacts listed are negative ASK: Can you think of any instances where gossip or rumors have a positive impact? SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together what you can do working together • analyze the source of the gossip • evaluate the information you share with co-workers • limit your association with office gossip • let gossip end with you • walk away from situations were gossip is being formulated • change the topic • confront the person that is gossiping Slide 37—what you can do Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 2 minutes Here are some tips on what you can do to avoid gossip in the workplace. READ through each of the builds / items on list ASK: What actions should you take if you attempt these and you are not getting any results? SAY: If all these attempts don’t resolve the issue; you should seek help from your manager or human resources. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together activity: “dear sandy” working together Slide 38—“dear sandy” Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 15 minutes ASK: Is everyone in this group familiar with the column “Dear Abby”? [If necessary, explain that “Abby” is a columnist who responds to people that write to her for advice about a personal problem they are dealing with.] We’re going to do an activity now that has a lot of similarities to “Dear Abby” but it is one that we prefer to call “Dear Sandy.” For this activity, I am going to divide you into groups of 3-4 (Guide for Slide 38 continued on next page) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together activity: “dear sandy” working together Slide 38—“dear sandy” (continued) Hand out 1 worksheet with “Dear Sandy” activity to each group. INSTRUCTIONS: Step 1: Read instructions on worksheet to participants. Remind participants that they should not use names or anything revealing a specific person. Also stress with the participants, that the topic of the letters should be “workplace” annoyances. Let participants know that upon completion of letter, they will be giving it to another group who will act as “Sandy” and provide advice to their letter. Participants should take about 5 minutes to write their “Dear Sandy” letter. While participants are performing task, walk around and make sure participants understand what they need to do. NOTE: This is a potentially risky activity: at a pilot session, some groups wrote issues that were not workplace annoyances but rather employee relations issues. If this occurs, you may want to clarify that these are not generally the type of issue that Sandy deals with through letters and it would be inappropriate to address the issue at this session] (Guide for Slide 38 continued on next page) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together activity: “dear sandy” working together Slide 38—“dear sandy” (continued) Step 2: When groups have finished writing their letters to Sandy, have each group pass their letter to the group to their right. Advise participants that they are now responsible to be “Sandy” and that they should write a response to the letter they just received. Explain to them that they can give any sort of response that they feel that Sandy would give (e.g. advice on how to handle their situation; she does not know how to help them, etc.) Allow participants about 5 minutes to write their response. While participants are performing task, walk around and make sure participants understand what they need to do. Step 3: Upon completion, have a representative from each group read the “Dear Sandy” letter and response and solicit reactions from all participants. Keep everyone in their groups for the remainder of the session Do you think these are real issues that may come up at work? Would any of you want to be Sandy? SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together the fact is. . . working together lack of civility, whether deliberate or not, has reached epidemic proportions in the workplace today. . . we all bear some responsibility for reversing this trend Slide 39 – the fact is Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Do any of you recognize the people in these pictures and why we would be including them when discussing civil behavior? 4 mins Solicit feedback. Background (not all participants will recognize these celebrities or recall the news stories – these should be updated periodically with current examples): Serena Williams – had an outburst on the court regarding a call – she felt the line judge was incorrect and cursed the judge – she lost the point – the line judge claimed she felt she was in imminent danger Kanye West with Taylor Swift – Taylor Swift won an award (American Music Award) and Kanye West went up on stage grabbed the microphone while Taylor Swift was making her acceptance speech. Kanye went on to say that he felt Beyonce should have won the award Senator Joe Wilson – interrupted the president during one of his healthcare addresses and went on a tirade, pointed to the president saying “You Lie.” (Guide for Slide 39 continued on next page) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together the fact is. . . working together lack of civility, whether deliberate or not, has reached epidemic proportions in the workplace today. . . we all bear some responsibility for reversing this trend Slide 39 – the fact is (continued) What was your reaction to these individuals when they had their public outbursts? Was it appropriate / inappropriate? What was perception / reality of each of these? Lead the discussion Some points you may want to reference as you are leading the discussion: These issues occurred in the workplace for each of these people Serena Williams vs. John McEnroe (does the person’s gender make a difference?) These people are public figures and may be looked upon as examples of appropriate behavior. How quickly we heard about these stories (modern day technology) Each of these celebrities had to deal with the negative effects (publicity, their image) that resulted from their actions—possible loss of sponsors, fans, etc. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together self awareness working together it’s important to understand how others may view your behaviors Slide 40 – self awareness Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Sometimes we need to look in the mirror to see ourselves for what we are and how we may be perceived by others. 4 mins Self Awareness may be one of the most important characteristics of a good co-worker and it’s very different than self-respect or self esteem. Self awareness is all about understanding how what we do impacts others. People that are self aware: understand that there are consequences for their behaviors (good and bad) don’t intentionally act in ways that hurt other people’s feelings respect the needs of others tend to look out for the good of the “team” over the individual Some tips: think about how others will look at your actions o this doesn’t mean they have to like it – it may mean you need to provide better explanation you don’t need to agree with another person’s perceptions, just acknowledge that they may be different than yours and try to work out a compromise (Guide for Slide 40 continued on next page) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together self awareness working together it’s important to understand how others may view your behaviors Slide 40 – self awareness (continued) Ask for examples of situations where someone may have acted differently than originally planned because they realized how others may have reacted to them. NOTE: You may want to skip this activity if running short on time SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together sensitivity to others working together what may be reasonable or an expectation to one person could be disrespectful or an annoyance to another Slide 41 – sensitivity to others Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 4 mins In interviews, Serena Williams said it was not her intent to scare the line judge but how do you think the line judge felt? Some examples: reading your email when someone is talking to you taking a phone call when you’re in the middle of a meeting eating food at your desk that may have an odor that offends someone coming to work late or leaving early and assuming someone else will be OK covering for you even though you didn’t ask “shopping” for answers until you get the one you want speaking loudly or singing, whistling, humming when another tries to get work done telling a joke that may be offensive or hurtful to another (even if perfectly legal) Think “golden rule” – if you wouldn’t want to be bothered by your behavior – don’t do it! How to deal with it? confront the person directly use specific examples be respectful (even if they weren’t) if all else fails – talk to your manager or HR o DON’T talk to co-workers or gossip about it (at that point – you’re the one misbehaving) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together a number of things impact behaviors • • • • • • working together culture race relationships age political views etc. Slide 42—a number of things impact behaviors Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 3 mins Many things affect what we do, how we behave, and how we react to things. Review list (all items are a build). ASK: Can you think of anything else that impacts peoples behaviors? Answers may include: personal experiences, health status, personal values SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together other factors may impact your ability to address a situation working together • roles and responsibilities • too personal • religion • values • individual performance • feeling you’re the only one with the issue Slide 43—other factors may address your ability to address a situation Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time In addition, when you have an issue or concern, there are many reasons why you may choose not to address it or don’t know how to go about addressing it. 4 mins Review list (all items are a build) and give examples for some of them: [It is not necessary to read each of the bullets out loud] Roles and Responsibilities: the person who does something that annoys you may be your immediate supervisor and you don’t want to create any friction with this person Relationships: the person that does something that annoys you may be very friendly with your co-workers or boss and you don’t feel that the issue would be addressed appropriately or that persons relationship to someone in the organization (e.g. someone’s favorites) Too personal: could be an embarrassing issue (e.g. Hygiene issue) Values: certain religious beliefs Political views: conservative or liberal (this is in the workplace – it is ok to have different political views) Top Performer: the person who does something that annoys you is a high performer and you may appear to be frivolous if you say anything negative about them. Additional example if someone is a top performer you don’t want to address the issue for fear the employee will leave the organization Feeling you’re the only one with the issue: you don’t want to bring up an issue if you don’t think it’s bothersome to anyone else ASK: Can you think of anything else? SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together the generation gap(s): working together • veterans: born 1922 – 1945 – also known as the traditionals • baby boomers: born 1946-1964 • generation X: born 1964-1980 • generation Y: born 1981-2000 – also known as the millennials • coming soon . . .generation Z Slide 44—the generation gap(s) Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Another significant impact in the workplace today is the differences that exist among generations. 4 mins For the first time in history, there are now four generations working in the American workforce today. The Veterans, the Baby Boomers, Generation Xers and the Millennials, and coming soon. . . Generation Z (who will be entering the workforce within the next decade). People are categorized into these terms based on when they are born. Review dates with the participants. The years shown are approximate but are generally used to define the time periods of these generations. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together the generation gap(s): working together each generation brings their own perspective to the workplace – formality norms – speed of communication – personal space – need for recognition / attention – dress code Slide 45—the generation gap(s) Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time Each generation has different values and ways of communicating. As a result, they bring a different set of behaviors and expectations to the workplace. 2 mins Review items on list Give some examples, such as: Baby boomers generally like in-person meetings, Generation Xers likes e-mails, and a Gen Yer likes text messaging Baby boomers may feel texting is too informal, whereas a Generation Y employee may find sitting in a meeting time consuming Generation X and Y generations usually want fast recognition for completing a task whereas a Baby Boomer employee is content to receive feedback at appraisal time. Do any of you have your own observations or experiences to share? At times, we can use these differences as a way to learn new things from each other, but at other times, we may find these same characteristics annoying, bothersome or disrespectful. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together and. . .then there’s technology working together • cell phones, PDAs • text messaging • use of acronyms • social networking—twitter, linkedin, facebook, mySpace • ipods / iphones Slide 46—and. . .then there’s technology Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time And let’s add to this list. There is all this new technology available today, and, with it, new challenges for management to deal with when it’s used in workplace. 2 mins Review some of the items on the list. There are different levels of acceptance of these technologies. There are those that embrace being able to use the most modern programs and devices possible to the extreme of those that barely know of its existence. You should not assume that this is all generational – when you were born may not affect how they view technology and use it. These advancements have an impact on how we communicate with each other, and of course, they can bring their own potential annoyances in the workplace. Some employees get frustrated by loud rings of cell phones and louder conversations on the cell. Use of acronyms can lead to unclear communications as can lengthy emails or the ping-ponging of e-mails among employees. SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together it’s a fine line. . . working together let's face it, there is a fine line between good and bad on this subject. . . on the one hand, work is about work, and work usually makes some amount of noise as teammates interact and collaborate to solve problems and produce output on the other hand a subdued environment allows focus and concentration further, what one person may find stimulating, another may find distracting. ask those same two people on different days, and they may have different responses! Slide 47-- it’s a fine line. . . Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 2 mins So overriding all of this is that we need an environment of cooperation and understanding, not one of complaining and inflexibility. Read each item on the slide (all items are a build) SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together lessons learned (the new ground rules) working together Rule Rule Rule Slide 48— lessons learned (the new ground rules) Activity Instructor Actions / Notes Time 7 minutes So where do we go from here? Let’s come up with a list of ways to act in the workplace that we can all agree with and abide by. The intent will be to post this list and gain better working relationships with each other, or to use the analogy we referenced earlier: “play well with others.” DIVIDE PARTICIPANTS INTO GROUPS (Unless they are still in their groups from the “Dear Sandy” activity Instructions: Hand out post-it paper to each group. Advise participants come up with1 rule that can be a new Workplace Guideline (the new Ground Rules) Give participants 5 minutes to complete this task. After participants complete this task, have 1 member from each group state the rule they came up with. Post the rule on the flipchart. SAY: if this is one of multiple sessions of a single location, the facilitator should keep a list of work place ground rules and then consolidate the guidelines into one poster SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study LEADERS GUIDE: Working Together Thank participants for their attendance at the session. Hand out evaluation form, if appropriate. END SYMBOLS KEY Ask Flip Chart Say Exercise Quiz Slide Build Video Case Study