CLASSICS MEDIAEVAL LETTERS LIFE, AND PHILOSOPHY EPICUREAN OF NINON L'ENCLOS DE The Beauty of the Century Celebrated Seventeenth OVERTON ROBINSON" EDITION TRANSLATION AND CHICAGO THE LION PUBLISHING MCMIII. CO. COPYRIGHTED 1903 BY W. H. OVERTON CONTENTS NINON OF LIFE L'ENCLOS DE PAGE I CHAPTER de 1'Enclos Ninon Standard a as I II CHAPTER Considered as a Parallel 5 CHAPTER of Youth Ninon III 1'Enclos de 12 CHAPTER The Morals of IV Period the 20 CHAPTER Ninon and Count V 26 Coligny de VI CHAPTER The "Birds" of the Tournelles 32 VII CHAPTER of Her Effect Mother's Death CHAPTER Her Increasing Popularity 38 - VIII 45 " IX CHAPTER Friendships Ninon's 52 X CHAPTER Some of Ninon's Lovers 59 ------ XI CHAPTER Ninon's Lovers (Continued) 67 ---... V 27 *J "*-" ":-v "t-- r*S 9 CONTENTS PAGE XII CHAPTER Villarceaux The Affair 76 - XIII CHAPTER The Marquis Sevigne de - CHAPTER A XIV Family Tragedy XV Environments Bohemian Remarkable Old LETTERS JQO .... XVI CHAPTER A 91 .... CHAPTER Ninon's 84 - Age no THE TO MARQUIS DE SEVIGNfi PAGE INTRODUCTION II Love Why Hi"Why " " VII Women " Cold 133 Expect a Quid Necessity for Love The VIII" Love IX" X 128 Spice of Love Love and Temper Certain Maxims Concerning Love " VI Grows Love 125 The IV" V 121 Undertaking Is Dangerous Hazardous I" A LETTERS TO a 138 140 from Quo Men Its Primitive and 143 Cause. . Inclination Natural Sensation of Love The " Is Pro 135 The " XII " Forms a Large Part of a an's Wom- in Love XIII" Vanity Is XIV" Worth XV" XVI" XVII" The 157 Love Distinction Between Man A a and Hfow to Women Love Is Be Amusing an 162 and Friendship Spectacle 165 Fertile Soil for Love Merit Are Motives Hidden Understand Considered Not 168 in Love 171 of Love Victorious and 148 153 Nature XI . 175 in Love the Flirtation VI Difference 179 Between Real 182 CONTENTS PAGE XVIII" When Woman a Is Loved She Need Not Be Told of It. XIX Why " XX" 186 Lover's a Vows Untrustworthy Are 188 The XXI Half-way House to Love The Comedy of Contrariness " XXII" Vanity XXIII" Two XXIV" An XXV" Abuse XXVIII" XXIX XXX The " Love 197 in Woman 200 203 206 Overcome of Action 213 Constant Employment Beauty Is Often of TriflingImportance.. Needs of Too is Resistance When XXXI Often Freedom Misfortune The " Is So Heart Mere " to Credulity Is Intolerable Demands The XXVII" of Virtue Love " 195 Obstacles Irreconcilable Passions Why XXVI Self-Esteem and 193 Sudden Only Opinion and . Avowal an 235 of Monsieur de la Sa- bliere XXXII XXXIII" 237 Advantages of The " Once Heart A Knowledge a Wounded No of the Heart. . Longer Plays " XXXV" XXXVI XL XLI Played Upon Like Impressions Common The of Allurements True Discretion " XLII of Resistance Value of the Indications to Keys All Women. Are Essential Do Not Breed the Better in Women Part Are 265 Women Women XLIV 272 of Valor. Not What XLVI XLVII XLVIII" " Cause 275 Always Respect Weak 283 Marshal " Opinion Favors Why " Grows Love mond's XLV" . 278 Demand Why " 268 Love Guides XLIII" 258 261 Compliments Among Is Sometimes Surface " 254 Stage Women Oratory and Fine Phrases " Fonder 256 Varieties " Be Grow Piano a The XXXVIII" the Heart Should Mistaken XXXVII" XXXIX Makes Heart of " 251 Absence The 247 with Love XXXIV 225 231 Pretence. a Advice 216 Men 286 Faults Consider Inconstancy Is of Not Injustice 'QuarrelsAmong Friendship Must de Saint-Evre- Be Firm VII Rivals 294 298 301 304 CONTENTS PAGE Minded. Among Narrow Are Very Cunning Women L" Some and Womerf Parts Men Li"The Play with LII" Love Is a Traitor Sharp Claws LIII" Old Age Not a Preventive Against Attack XLIX LIV" Shrewd A LV" Is Constancy " A But a Virtue Not 309 313 316 318 Scheme Unusual an 305 .. 321 Ending Happy 325 BETWEEN CORRESPONDENCE L'ENCLOS DE NINON AND MOND SAINT-EVRE- LORD PAGE I" Lovers and Gamblers Wrinkles IV" Near V" VI VII" VIII" IX X XI" XII the Death Love Banishes Few People Age " XIII" Some Has as Old Much as Those Far Some Good Age Attention After Minds Than Marriage? Age Life Is Still Exists 337 342 347 349 359 in France It Is Without Joyous When Letter to the Modern . 357 " XVIII" . 344 Superiorityof the Pleasures of the Stomach Let the Heart XV" Speak Its Own Language of Youth The Memory XVI" I Should Have XVII" Hanged Myself XIV . 340 de Mazarin Consolations Taste Off 339 Duchesse More Resist 333 335 Charleval Diminish Love 331 Loved Have of Wisdom of La Demand Does We of Monotony After Why " Mark of De Weariness Stomachs " a Hopes Are Worth The " Are the Death On Those to Remember II" It Is Sweet HI" Something in Common Have Leontium VIII Sorrow 362 364 367 369 37i 373 379 NINON L'ENCLOS DE LIFE LETTERS AND INTRODUCTION The lived ever she Ninon, known, was seventeenth the undisputed of For the Louis age, declaring that when XIV., tinguished dis- most men, nobleand eighty-five was the was her doing and she she held writers, shrine her even of the statesmen, before she princes, queens, of woman years of hearts for 1'Enclos, de seventy France; bowing readers beautiful most warriors, renowned years the over American to that woman Mademoiselle or was sway scientists remarkable most century. men homage, the presented is here first time. the as life of inner marvel of beauty to his reign. How great so preserved she and an brilliant most her biography, and new facts in the in the and of the men has the est greatin is told century, entirely re-written, been added "Letters United the to translated, secret side her do that not pear ap- compilations. pathology objects, to incidents and French vigne," newly time which celebrated Her attracted and age, extraordinary her and States, of the appearing constitute female aspirations, IX Marquis de the for the most Sefirst markable re- heart, its motives, ever penned. With INTRODUCTION the unveils At depicted early an the of friends are charged up men have reserved the essential a age man." and de of the she death, her seventy rights created character and for herself, says, while was twenty years later, her, by the as "a place preserving tice injus- to by things and women, that right to I will moment claimed privileges Chateauneauf sex." assumed the frivolous the this tween be- announced most of from " will qualities. human themselves time that to suddenly " until submit account to From men, own the to letters inequalities the to that notice ninity, femi- mirror. a she qualities; the the "I and of these distribution her : reads refused deliberation, heart mysteries perceived and unfair due After she human hidden in as age sexes, an the who one every herself unmasks carefully most and see she hand unsparing all the the be of years tained main- she exercised the all male sex, Abbe distinguished in all ranks grace of trious illusof her LIFE NINON OF CHAPTER Ninon write TO the woman Ninon as is when essential the as be observed. or fancy, It wanting, arrive at has but are for excuse a pattern oppressor or charity may that the for mandments Com- Ten the all, particularly them selected important of to predilection environment and it so, may is judgment and end the common of they hence, the versy contro- the this the poor, him Ninon transgressed to grasping his though even rigid refuse Sabbath 1'Enclos one 1 of the and rule accept to as breaker, tyrant, money maker, personal tity chas- These insist canonization. de mankind, of sense ; who the morality, monger, although the matter have conduct human entitle upon most repudiate who others of stand reached. been of the it, though that opinion Fortunately there will many the a with do incur of the and a is to is conventionally ten training to who one is purely perhaps remarkable so violating precept something have of of the one of 1'Enclos de violates guilty Standard a of those whoso that as biography ^nimadyepsions jlfigma, I 1'Enclos de L'ENCLOS DE may have precepts sistently perof the NINON Decalogue, she is because her faithful of only not in many more Another as model a violations is the kind, on of sixth the but XIII, was private a in her in refined she Agrippina, the might deliberate the Decalogue, birth, held of noble of no France, either the person, its, retiringin her habfriendships,delicate and reign of Louis conversations, and wisdom, philosophy, and Messalina, an ability. intellectual Had as of her of and her of under manners for eagerly sought sacrifice establishingher account liaisons her of government or studiously observed. way not the the that ity, human- to had to precept was regency faithful and of any others, equal importance as be to the she the spirit,and if she of are difficultyin position in during than essential the of in their personal purity fact that official observance ways as consideration great that is serviceable qualities,which virtues, and to but much her preserved other entitled in their letter life contains her L'ENCLOS de been Catherine a glamor have Semiramis, a covered of II, her up a or a even exalted multitude ton, Lady Hamilpolitical position a of gross, vulgar practices,cruelties,barbarities, oppressions, crimes, and acts of misgovernment, and have concealed her the beneath grandeur of her spiritttftl-^eformity tle mansplendid public vices and irregularities.The of royalty and nobility,like dipsomania, excuses multitude of sins, hypocrisy, and injustice,and a inclines condone, the world what in to them overlook, disregard, is considered or small even vices, LIFE LETTERS AND eccentricities of genius,but magnified are and call forth people It is time which mountains into of well an army to reform them of viciousness, sistent incon- but by brute force. impasse to the further of the acts, and of human private person a meaning interpose an spread of this misapprehension to consequences in and nature demonstrate to walks of life,of virtues possibility,in humble worth of those out cultivating,and to erect models be derelict in their ethical who, while they may duties, are still worthy of being imitated in other standards and respects. Our patterns of morality are so high as to be unattainable, not in the details of the practice of virtue, but in the personnel of the the permeated with the of sanctity; virtuous statesmanship, or proud odor vance politicalposition attained through the rigid obserof the ethical rules of personal purity, are nothing to the rank and file,the polloi,who can never hope to reach those elevations in this world ; well expatiate upon the virtues of Croesus as to a model. Royal who man will blood noble never magnificence of Such to extremes possess conceited, the mistakes historyof Ninon of historyas pages all others the are day's ecstatic wages, over the Babylonian palace. no influence mere over vanities the of the of moralists. The which become Nabuchodonosor's ordinary mind, they the his beyond go the homeless expect or and de 1'Enclos a stands out from fore pre-eminent character, be- stale, whatever are their pretensions standing through position and grandeur, notwiththat one admired in great qualityso much 3 NINON women " her While that with connected stigma, one it, which and deserve the the philosophical justified her to the its so modern of trend all in much pursuing is philosophy, insisted upon the the as direction in present her of which life ardent an perabundance, su- inasmuch of altruistic that in precepts, course but at in her virtues possessed and was relieve other study, the She added the close a society others. she in wanting to she principles Epicurean precepts, effectual can^be apology from entirely was " life. through no memory purity womanly conduct L'ENCLOS de she disciple adhesion unselfishness day. ferred preof to CHAPTER II Considered birth THE of by such offspring the national body in the attained possible her to impetus the are It to so models was and souls, the Ninon the of de left arts, of is due intellectual genius, to in it tablishing es- was Moreover, and guidance, received the an French fiction, poetry that productions its and century. whose brilliant formed master found proboth which raised twentieth of such so efforts rhetoric standard, genius her auspices and or impress an structure. and great excellence upon her life, she man impress an standard 1'Enclos for and any1 genius literature, a and movements than perfection, its tendant at- are shaping her lettres, high of century. under belles of stage way substantial and and the foundation a toward language drama, erect hands languages, solid as or princes seventeenth day our joy of military fine high in a in the that, the Deums, Nevertheless, successes, the and that have in to music earth on occupied more men of alded her- not was artillery, Te personages. she years addition upon arrival diplomatic of In of policies, successful brilliant 1'Enclos demonstrations great accomplished Parallel a de salvoes the of ninety Ninon other upon as minds the ity mental- minds, as the Saint-Ev- NINON La remond, L'ENCLOS de Fontaine, Fontenelle, and fine arts; and Moliere, Rouchefoucauld, thf host a Great Scarron, La in literature of others Conde, Grammont, de Sevigne,and the flower of the chivalryof France, Richelieu in war, politics,and diplomacy. Even unaffected not by her influence. was frail woman, exerted a by one Strange power ness not of noble birth, with only beauty, sweetwoman liant of disposition, amiability,goodness, and bril! It was not accomplishments as her weapons and the flame, but the operation of the moth a case de were philosophy, the precepts of which decently, moderately and carefully inculcated; a ciety sophilosophy upon the very edge of which modern is hanging, afraid to accept openly,through too of wise a attachment much drawn man leads him already has 1'Enclos sat of the pages her into upon which have happiness and comfort, and bitter pessimism that often of to a those throne, or commanded with teem great victories who Ninon suggested, had been history would exploits,and instead a doctrines despair. to As from away converted ancient to would be have an the met army, of renown awarded to with de her defeat inspiration. Pompey, in his vanity,declared that he could raise an by stamping his foot upon the ground, but army de TEnclos' the raisingof Ninon fingercould bring a single standard, all the chivalry of Europe around without or her at the their same arms amity. She gentlesignal,cause them and forget everything but dominated the intellectual 6 to put aside peace and geniuses of long period during the LETTERS AND LIFE which reigned lived, and she queen, through the sheer tated hesishe never of her personal charms, which them over force their absolute as to bestow worthy, she found whom those upon diously expressed a desire to possess them, sturegulated, however, by the precepts and day principlesof the philosophy of Epicurus, which tosocial relations is rapidlygaining ground in our through its better understanding and appreciation. who and Her life bears in which read we great resemblance a times, who of ancient the condition of class to and, by as Greek talents, she attained her in the social the first rank class,her has name posteritywith those of Aspasia and tium, while the less distinguishedfavorites down to ^celebrated which of have men hides from shared mediocrity,whether A class of this the of virtue kind, existing amongst with Leonof less degree* vice. or accomplished inspired distinguishedmen every of this status a come oblivion, common of men, the memory Ninon "hetaerae," of the French and beauty is familiarized name of Aristophanes. of the order her women " in translations del'Encloswas celebrated most tween occupied a middle station beof marriage and prostitution a whose women ears our the about the histories to ture singularna- who women, lofty ideals, and who, otherwise, would developed the genius of men have remained in obscurity,can be uninteresting never or for uninstructive serious of the study. ; indeed, it They influence are that 7 must afford prefigures,or aims to sway matter types proto- mankind NINON the at day present distinguished.example prominent in the world, throne, Ninon attention de TEnclos all of are its varieties and It would Athens, he of such the of human of female should discard and historical in last three from them the or all which sion digresancient centuries. his mind when 1'Enclos, and de environments type toward a a under manners Europe during the her character as nature a upon the life of Ninon peruses fact, apart from circumstances. state in or in class,the a peculiarly engage for knowledge whether be idle to enter reader of view who, will observers amusement, on ture, politics,litera- government, a most The in L'ENCLOS the fine arts, and As de from is ine exam- point every trending modern social conditions. At would first blush, and woman of the seem by every to a character hopelessly lost sense feelingof social blush, and to of to shame, and or the of Ninon de 1'Enclos irreclaimable But control to only circumscribed most vidual indi- all virtue, abandoned privateduty. do not minds, who, fortunately, mankind, although occasional there intellect,an narrow of the disorders at any first narrow policy of here and indicate that they are endeavoring to do so. A of the settled are large majority of mankind in that of opinion that every virtue is bound up and customs, our laws, most chastity. Our manners of our various kinds of religions, national ments sentiour most serious opinions,as and feelings all our well as our dearest and best rooted prejudices, forbid the dissevering, of women in the minds of any class, . " 8 NINON We corruption. L'ENCLOS de read that Aspasia had some great and amiable de qualities;so too had Ninon many 1'Enclos ; and it is wonthy of consideration, how far we judge candidly or wisely in condemning such in characters Saint Austin heathen treating their and gross, wont was adversaries, deal to as with those than better no virtues of unparalleled in their magnitude as virtues by the operation of the law his marry , Another The there sister,and King Cambyses government, was and on subjection to ecclesiastical domination France of almost this accusation. universal become the structure to upon in erected human worsening the minds it is fast Moreover, demand for to fact indicated by revolution in a which, for incalculable conditions the some threatening to topple it. Society can see upon awry, originate,an better and social condition to-day,a ethics,the foundation has to The clerical,or societyand government, retrograded. the condition becoming social " ditions, con- into tamed to say " of during Ninon de 1'Enclos' time, and in England during the reign of Charles II., is startling evidence the is this: "splendid same been whenever have morals to man social and these they have mediocrity let us vices," and tremes. ex- forbidding considered customs, built up been law no of come be- liked. be to a to stands, its laws, systems now manners have permitting he as point it as do to grave world, law no was his "splendid vices," so There as human of the true 10 number son, rea- down ing noth- of attempts always proving failures, status. lovers of It is dawning humanity,that LIFE AND LETTERS is nothing else to be done, but to revert to the past to find the key to any possiblereform, and to that past we are be edging rapidly,though, it must said unwillingly,in the hope and expectation that the old foundations ity are possessed of sufficient solidthere to The support life of a new Ninon re-modeled or de this very 1'Enclos, upon for profitablereflection,inasmuch point,furnishes food as it gives an insightinto be obtained by the following of ancient philosophy which seems the and clash to defects of ages have in of structure. the great results the to of intellectual and demonstrated its precepts of to an have survived moral warfare, capacity to supply capable segregated dogmatic systems wholly inany syncretic tendencies. 11 CHAPTER Youth of always her parents of been large, at Ninon with line, the to the rather eminence; himself cestor, an- the reer ca- did and constancy, of head a to up to has example the be new piety, an it is of; the individual pinnacle highest be derogatory by conditions always, to contrary, and will followed, 12 of always and path thinks one no manner any proud surrounded the lust, even in as whose conquerors, violence, justice, and glory, an mighty on matter as decency, as with ignominy, and of ignoble origin an own follow, the as himself of novelty to ment. mo- pleasantly. unwavering her regarding case strewn of of with end his remark the her, least for truly tained at- by the hewing to herself have dynasty. or In the in justifiesus for matter a who of was 1'Enclos, out until follow was de laid she in loved he is pursued not are What 1615. family, route genius his it is said as So the history, Napoleon in niche of in world the by has she as all persons station and force By her To over called Paris at what or were, rank "Ninon," or born little consequence. original TEnclos de familiarly was celebrity a Ninon 1'ENCLOS, de ANNE III the considered idea that out devoid of can elevate human be all power regarded badge of suc- stretched cess This to LETTERS AND LIFE the cover is the universal of its attainment. means where custom has been success well a being relegated to oblivion merited as unworthy of consideration of warning or for any either as lessons purpose. Our youth are very properly taught only the lessons failures attained,the of success. father that Ninon's It is in evidence was a man gentle- connected, through his wife, of no de Raconis, a race the family of Abra an repute in the Orleanois, and that he was and of Touraine with mean accomplished gentleman occupying a high position in society. Voltaire, however, declares that Ninon had no claim the rank to of her notice, and any a parentage mother that was This that of distinction ; that obscure too father's her higher dignity than no of such deserve of professionwas of the lute. teacher a to from the remarkable likely, proficiencyacquired by Ninon, at an early age, in the is not account of that instrument. use It is that Ninon's equally certain, however, were not of many his skill as a man may less have obscure, and that her accomplishments, one performer on the lute. induced Voltaire talents for his to father of which A mistake ents parwas a was fact which one of his regularprofession. Ninon's as opposite in sentiments parents were and disposition of the earth. Madame as the Poles de 1'Enclos was a prudent, pious Christian mother, who endeavored to inspireher daughter with the same pious sentiments which pervaded her own heart. The fact is that the mother attempted to 13 NINON de L'ENCLOS life,a prodaughter for a conventual fession one at that period of the highest honor, and that led to preferment,.notonly in religiouscircles, of society. At that time, conventual but in the world and monastic dignitariesoccupied a prominent place in the formation of public and private manners and if not regarded impeccable, their and customs, in state valuable always considered opinions were the securityof of the greatest moment, even matters her prepare and thrones, the welfare depending With laudable object sometimes judgment, their wisdom, upon this of nations peace and cisions. de- view, Madame in de carefully trained her daughter in the holy she hoped to conexercises of her religion,to which secrate TEnclos her with impasse, an of the be to Most the High, insurmountable her when obstacle, in the in the even parent temples imagined her the of the Saints," "Lives met contemplation of saintly imbibing inspirationfrom her "Hours," in absorbed things,and an mother fond the But herself, who, Ninon budding life. entire or Introduction "An in vogue Holy Life," a book very much period,the child would be devouring such romances books as Montaigne, Scarron's in accordance with her Epicurus, as more at to a that profane and trend of mind. Even at those mastered life,not the early authors, and in accord it excluded and of twelve age with the idea crushed of out had years, laid out a she course had of good mother's ideas, for stood, religionas commonly underher the 14 sentiment of maternity, LETTERS AND LIFE age, it is instinctive and meaning. This beginning beaten path should in them, based not all young nearly crowning glory to which female children aspire,although that at a tender knowledge upon of its of departure from Ninon's the surprise,for all the young open their hearts to ideas that spring in and passions,and anticipate the sentiments from imaginationthe parts they are to play in the tragedy or comedy of life. and the moralist It is this period of life which educator justlycontend should be carefullyguarded. to It is really a concession environment, and a dation tacit argument against radical heredityas the founthe character and disposiwhich rest tion upon is the mainspring of his of the adult, and which It is impossible to philosofuture moral conduct. phize ourselves out of this sensible position. In woman the of case not be of matter there Ninon, of undoubted a her was mother, a and exemplary piety, trainingof her only virtue followingthe usual path in the child and making a sad failure of it,or at least not tude. making any impression on the object of her soliciThis intentions that however, was, : coming Ninon's her not trainingwas from another due too the mother's to weak quarter. to overcome It has been said opposite as the Poles in character Ninon and and disposition, was suspended like a pendulum to swing between two of which had to prevail,for there extremes, one was no midway stopping place. It may be that the discipleof heredity,the opponent of environment that father and mother 15 were as NINON will de L'ENCLOS perceive in the of his view of favor Ninon swung result humanity. from away strong a Be that the extreme of as extreme of her father. young mind, nothing difficult ; accepted his ideas no was as mental on the pleasanterand it may, pietyrepresented by her mother, and was caught at monotonous by the less intellectually There in argument the other ideas conflict in the contrary, she less conducive Too she to reason, pain and discomfort. young ed perceived a flowery pathway, followed it,and avoidthe thorny one offered her by her mother. Monsieur de 1'Enclos was an Epicurean of the advanced most type. According to him, the whole of human ethics philosophy of life,the entire scheme evolved from Epicurus, could be reduced to the as four following canons: First That pleasure which produces no pain is to " to be embraced. Second to be That " pain which produces no pleasure is avoided. Third That pleasure is to be avoided which prevents a greater pleasure,or produces a greater pain. Fourth That which averts pain is to be endured a greater pleasure. greater pain, or secures The last canon is the one that has always appealed to the religioussentiments, and it is the one " " a which has enabled patientlyto the the happiness most of reward an army of martyrs to excruciating torments, Paradise, the pleasure for submit to reach plated contem- enduring the frightfulpain. The reader can readily infer, however, from his dailyexperiences with the human family,that this as a 16 NINON de L'fcNCLOS yieldingas a willow ; her complexion of a dazzlingwhite, with large sparklingeyes as black as reigned modesty and midnight, and in which and voluptuousness. Her teeth were love, and reason mobile her smile most like pearls,her mouth and She was the captivating,resistless and adorable. of majesty without personification pride or haughtiness, and possessed an open, tender and touching countenance which shone friendshipand affection. upon Her voice was soft and silvery,her arms and hands for a sculptor, and all her superb models movements and an gestures manifested exquisite, natural which made her conspicuous in the grace crowded most in her drawing-room. As she was to be until her death at the youth, so she continued incredible fact but so well age of ninety years, an attested reliable writers, by the gravest and most who testifyto the truth of it,that there is no room elegant and for doubt. but to the same Ninon attributed it not to miracle, any her philosophy, and declared that any one might exhibit the same peculiaritiesby following We precepts. testimony who intimate were friends and of with have it him, that at the of the men age most of her dearest one eighty-nine years, inspired one beauties of the English Court with of her of twelve person years, immoderate were admiration of the greatest renown, 18 and of her at the the age famous an ardent far developed the object so that she doubted un- writers, followers, Saint-Evremond, beauties most contemporaneous of The the on was on the beauty tachment. at- part of is em- LIFE their in balmed AND works LETTERS either as model a for the , world, In or she is enshrined as the heroine. fact Ninon men had poetry, and in song, the tutors as of the age, who in vied mind embellishingher young learning and accomplishments with with guished distin- most one all the mance ro- another graces, possible for the Her human native brightness mind to contain. and active mind absorbed everything with an almost supernatural rapidity and tact, and it was not their peer, and her quallong before she became ities of mind reached far beyond theirs in its out so insatiable longing, that she, in her turn, became their tender tutor, adviser and consoler, friend. 19 as well as their CHAPTER The Morals EXAMPLES by and in small degree, called "beaute the rights of nobility silently advancing been and followed was which misgovernment, well as in men by degraded French the the upon idol was perative im- an moral sanity, of just succeeded had usurpations of the appeared of no sometimes beauty remnants some of personal relations. Richelieu Cardinal as of but learned music, philosopher new a not are remarkable was salvation the sexual the in decency the for a played dis- century, in she when time a 1'Enclos them personal diable," de talents twentieth of a preservation the the languages, of and at stage the in necessity and de Accomplished proficient social precocious made she uncommon. and the Period Mademoiselle uncommon application the of of the IV the royal prerogatives and the during people, the oppressed and rank every kingdom, and of on had which preceding long period the dating consoli- in reigns, unexampled impoverished order every ceasing only of with the Revolution. The he great had Cardinal intended, political system manhood, and minister it is to had be had hoped built worse ; for his practically destroyed left society without 20 a guiding than clericoFrench star to LIFE the cement LETTERS of sand rope subject the AND master minds them had Unable spun. nobilityto the among ecclesiasticism domination, had he succeeded in to its stroying de- royal prerogatives which it could control with less difficulty.Public maxims of government, connected as they were with private morals, had debauched the nation, and plunged it into a depth of degradation out of winch Richelieu and by augmenting his whole of clerical entourage not extricate riot of single individual. theologicalmorality. The whole body of the middle class could was a attendance and merit and honorable occupation of citizens a French nobilityand reduced were to a formers re- It the servile of advancement only means and reward. Every species of industry in these classes was aged; sedulously discourthe motive of honorable competition for no pursuit or things,being withdrawn, on was the court, as left them the but the frivolous duties, the degrading pleasures of the palace. Next to the king, the women naturally became the first objects of their effeminate devotion; and it is difficult to say which soonest were corrupted in the arts of adulation, by courtiers consummate or and unwearied in their exercise. The sovereign rapidly degenerated into an accomplished despot, and the into women intriguers and coquettes. Richelieu had in subjecting the indeed succeeded State to the rule of the Church, but Ninon was destined to play an important part in modifying the evils which afflicted society,and at least elevate its From the methods tone. she employed to effect 21 NINON this change, it may similbus curantur," in agent valuable be a and that suspected the Hanemannic equivalentto was L'ENCLOS de case the maxim : remedy "Similia strange applicationof a of moral decrepitude, however it may effective tive cura- a be in physical aiM ments. of the twentieth world The it is in material and aims this earth pains in the a limit its of means of Hell. pains and avoiding rewards Future up or ures pleasof fering suf- misfortunes the and as objects of the great hereafter, the stoicism as to problematic enjoyment of Paradise with refuses progress, the to century, bound of problematic punishments right living. longer incentives to virtue or of every kind is The acts only drag upon human that great political maxim, the non-observance now of which has often deluged the earth with blood; no are "Sic say: tuo utere So use It is a ut alienum thine as own conventional reality,but it has and equity and justice, in which non laedas," which is to bor. injure thy neighof contract one principle, not become to a great doctrine of it is inculcated tional by our educaof the purely religto the exclusion ious systems idea, and the elimination of religiousdogma, tends to oppressive restraints,is carefully fostered. There is another why men's minds are from the purely sentimental moral impelled away insisted doctrines is by sectarianism, which upon ecclesiasticism run tion riot, and the higher the educadelve into the secret the deeper we motives of that class of mankind, the deceptive outward apreason 22 LETTERS AND LIFE of history, which glorious systems is,that the greatest and most the wisest and most of government, powerful liberal statesmen,! of rulers, the greatest and most originated ini heroes, and conspicuous conquerors, the pages dominate pearances of which violations of the Decalogue, and kingdoms which have founded been ecclesiastical ideas, have of time, sands as be bywords to From the same is observable sciences. all sunk have or those nations upon beneath become so and strictly the ing shift- degenerate objectsof derision. viewpoint,a strange phenomenon and in the world of literature,arts, and The brightest, greatest geniuses,whose works are pointed to with admiration; studied as models and standards, made the basis of youthful education, imitated, and even over wept by the sentimental, in their private lives,persons of the most depraved morals. Why this should be the to conjecture,the fact case, it is impossible even only remaining that it is so. Perhaps there are so of morality,that humanity, different standards many of the eternal bickering consequent weary upon were, the conflicts entered for made they find and peace take To curious into for their enforcement, have themselves interpretationwhich less difficult to observe, and find more " pleasure in following. a further direction,it is j step in the same that in the their whole works of the severest never new lives of the spent the a Saints, those earthly existence penance, and flesh, the tendency of demoniac in the direction of 23 Sabbath in who' abstinence, mortifications influence of was breaking, pro- NINON L'ENCLOS de and covetousness, fanity,idolatry,robbery, murder itself to the fullest extent but always exerted of its in attacks -chastity.All other visions power upon in the hair-shirted, absent and self-scourgings were sensual brought out nothing but sexual idealities, temptations. far to seek. finds egress and to be its creation of and for this peculiarityis not is dominant What in the minds always favorable when a opportunity is presented, the very thought of unchastity as something avoided, leads to its contemplation, or in the form virtue of temptation. The chastitywas violations The reason the studied were its numberless its observances law, and one from every permissible and point and of view, forbidden itations lim- expatiated upon to such a degree; that he who escaped them altogether could well attribute of some the result to the interposition supernatural the protection of some celestial guardian. power, One is reminded of the expression of St. Paul: "I known had not not covet." lust had Lord piety led According to excessive tended relations to the law not Beaconsfield's to sexual Ninon's propagate said : opinion thou shalt was, that disorders, philosophy, immoderation in whatever the sexual rigidlyeliminated, and chastityplaced the same plane and in the same upon grade as other moral precepts, to be wisely controlled, regulated, and She put all her morality upon the managed. in equalizing same plane, and thereby succeeded corporeal pleasure, so that the entire scale of human acts produced a harmonious equalityof temwas 24 CHAPTER Ninon IT brilliant its precepts the sides, who Richelieu, with and waited philosophically but Gaspard, Count Chatillon, who the Count, not care It is was more of a she person than disposed both could Voltaire that the by early not likely that object. the of court. violent young Due de The sult re- passion for fact did resist, in yielded but Ninon of Ninon's if this ners, man- manhood. by Cardinal repeated of the to family, charming bloom 26 tion, situa- passion, tender therefore and Richelieu, the afterwards a amuse rather worthy assiduous she to physically perfect specimen enjoyed than the distinguished alleged by Retz, a conceived resist, and to and Ninon which man young her of accept for Coligny, de paid that was de in object appeared That to of the sentiments felt the Ninon displeasure courtiers training and be being affairs, and state of could gallantries and women inclination through the his preferred with themselves object that incurring without worshiped meshes Beloved women. an by followed the in caught as the surrounded assiduously other in trained and who for all on maiden a being spread idolized meddle avoid to net same even for society Coligny de Epicurus, of philosophy a Count and impossible was V be submitted charms true, it is through LIFE policy and not AND from LETTERS affection any Cardinal. It is certain,however, statesman's attention had the influence among desired he to charms. her could utilize to leash. Abbe of the new beauty rebellious that possess imagined he in nobles his the Abbe close to the Cardinal, Eminence be her growing to uncle, and stood could to not his His to great tool that he Raconis, Ninon's suggested that the nobility,and actions if Boisrobert,her friend,who had great a was keep the called French her control She been for that the charms used to advantage in accordinglysent for her at first he had her he seen through curiosity,but when hoped to control her for his personal benefit. his Although occupied in vast projects which to a activityalways conducted great genius and state affairs,and he . happy issue, the great affections had man of his human nature, the renounced not his intellectual nor He aimed at everything,and did not gratifications. his dignity. Every day consider anything beneath him engaged in cultivating saw a taste for literature of every day were and art, and some moments set it came to the apart for social gallantries.When of pleasing and attractingwomen, art have the we de Retz for it,that he was word of Cardinal not Perhaps it is only inferior always successful. tion. minds who possess the art and the genius of seduc- The under with were in order intriguingAbbe, the influence and of his master, the great honor done fixed the eyes of all her by to a man bring to charm upon Europe, prepared a 27 Ninon her whom series NINON I/ENCLOS de of gorgeous fetes, banquets and the Rueil. But and refused palace at Ninon entertainments not was hear at in the least sighs of the Hoping to inspirejealousy,he affected great man. de Lormes, a proceeding which to love Marion gave portuniti Ninon great pleasureas it relieved her from the imoverwhelmed, to of the Cardinal. Richelieu gave follow to her Whatever Ninon and Count de have Cardinal and end left Ninon in her been of it was, own the that in peace way. relations between Richelieu, it is certain that the Coligny was the two lovers, in the first intoxication their love, lovers and not was her eternal swore all new It devices own may and to the chase up The the first sentimental constancy, believed process possibleto long, however, before that the first immoderate graduallylost a ment, attach- Ninon of mon com- tain. mainceived per- transports of love their activity,and by applying the precepts of her philosophy to explain the phenomenon, to regard love by its effects,as a blind came which the policy of mechanical it was movement, to ennoble men according to the conventional rules of decency and honor, to the exclusion of its original meaning. After coldlyreasoning the matter out to its only legitimateconclusion, she tore off the mask covering could not reach a metaphysical love, which or satisfythe light of intelligenceor the sentiments and emotions her to possess marvels poetry and of the as of romance. heart, and little realityas magic, To and which the enchanted to tles, cas- depicted in became a finally monsters her, love 28 appeared LIFE LETTERS AND pleasure to be gratified by indulgence like all other pleasure. The germ of philosophy already growing in her soul, found natural; essentiallyunnothing in this discovery that was natural. the contrary, it was on essentially clear to her logicalmind, that a passion like It was ing love produced among different effects accordmen to different dispositions, humors, temperament, stances, circumeducation, interest,vanity, principles,or without time, founded being, at the same substantial than a disguised, anything more upon though ardent desire of possession,the essential of fire disapits existence,after which it vanished as pears through lack of fuel. Dryden, the celebrated English poeticand literarygenius,reaches the same opinion in his Letters to Clarissa. Having reached this point in her reasoning, she advanced considered the unequal a step further, and division of qualitiesdistributed the two between She perceived the injustice of it and refused sexes. to abide by it. "I perceive,"she declared, "that lous, women are charged with everything that is frivothe right and that men to themselves reserve I shall this moment essential qualities. From to thirst,and mere be a a desire for man." growing out of the ardour of a first love, which is always followed by the lassitude of satiety, of regret, far from tears so causing Ninon any nerved her up to a philosophy different from that of it impossible to judge her and makes other women, be considered She can not standard. a by the same fantasies and whims, woman subject to a thousand All this 29 NINON a Her custom. and of the wisest she proprietiesof position concealed trifling thousand and L'ENCLOS de of the men her in the her maintaining noblest raised lived, and the became morals period in which instead their rank to category those as same of the of intriguing coquettes of her age. It is not improbable sufferingattendant upon a sufferingalluded only the intercourse of medium experience of the ments, decay of such attachplate by those who contemthe sexes through the her that the to of sentiment, poetry and had considerable At an determining her future conduct. early age, following upon her liaison with Count she adhered Coligny, she adopted the determination of her life,of retainingso much to during the rest only of the female character as was forced upon her ing by nature and the insuperable laws of society. Acther society was this principle, posed chieflycomon the of persons of her adopted sex, of whom influence most in place A of curious Coligny the was made of their time celebrated her house a stant con- meeting. incident her errors in her relations with in success of the persuading Huguenots and Count him return de to jure ad- to the religiouspredilections in her secure feeling herself spiritually but sought only his welfare philosophicprinciples, His obstinacy was depriving advancement. and of the advantages due his birth and personal him teen was scarcely sixConsidering that Ninon merit. of age, respiringnothing but love and years pleasure,to effect by tenderness and the persuasive Roman Catholic Church. She 30 had no strength of a so man LETTERS AND LIFE reasoning powers, her obstinate as Count the such de change Coligny, in in a an thing someexcessivelybigoted age, was unique in the history of lovers of that period. Women little for religiousprincithen cared ples, very themselves in advancing and rarely exerted the cause less of the dominant religion, much thought of the spiritualneeds of their favorites. 'obstinate The is the rule in these reverse women the are lytizersof the and the various of remark recover most any a ardent sects, modern and a persistent prose- custom distinguished lawyer assets from a times, when notorious which who recalls failed to bankrupt he "This creditors: pursuing for the defrauded has everything in his wife's name man his even religion." was " Ninon's Count disinterested counsel prevailed,and errors, becoming afterward the the abjured his Due de Chatillon, Marquis d' Andelot, and died a lieutenant general, bravely fightingfor his country, at Charenton. 31 CHAPTER "Birds" The VI decided HAVING her des time the for a A select influence its tenelle, and characters, and sciences, coveted much society charming Charleval, indeed, no Nothing character. triumph as a choice polite and a of but of test it after much it in labor 32 and and Paris, the metropolis. into as chevalier, a but and this Count the was accomplished competency ciety so- from do, however, of his Fon- the entrance spirits Gram- literature, company for into appellation of particular standing would required de an great longed who those the aliers chev- distinguished wits and chosen of environs christened Ninon the the Moliere, celebrated beaux the another entrance less no that at and Count were other in the gallant an Tournelles," gentlemen favored Among of by distinguished which de elite war. des "Oiseaux gain safe house and her, to them of most and Chapelle, of host a wits around this Among in verted con- and locality society, of merit as city Picpusse, Saint-Evremond, mont, less a society well as ranks. arts, Marais, at gathered soon prudent a residence Paris. of into fashionable Ninon career, purchased au of summer her property Tournelles center Tournelles upon securities, and Rue the of he consumption literary a song plished accom- of mid- NINON de therefor, was reasons at her employed L'ENCLOS presented his mistress, while toilette in adjustingher hair, which remarkable for its*beauty and was luxuriance, and which she regarded as the apple of her flicted Afeye. she cut off by the unwelcome intelligence, half of her lovelytresses the impulse of the moon ment, and Struck letter. by his As mistress a it until and M. herself wearied her of sterlinghonesty in delicate manner of ending her she Gourville, de in the adhered will able was in person, hanged of care of the wars Compelled nelles." large a 1'Enclos Dame. The money return from On his the return to serve maintain to of the charitable onstrate demupon and the poor had most of Paris. Fronde to "Birds of Ninon's, the of party of the Tour- quit Paris, to avoid being he was in effigy, he divided the of ready money between Ninon to the Grand Penitencier deposited was of in two Notre caskets. exile, he appliedto the priestfor but to his deposit was deposithad purposes friend of the one of his money, knowledge such as sum and intimate an of Conde, the Prince any returned devoted, and so she cerity sin- admirers. her de hold Count's of the Count the liaison, the following anecdote the the change. a matters money him, to illustration an to answer unequivocal proof retained desired of it and a this allegiance to thenceforward her as devotion of her to them sent under the probably De denied, and made, been it rules been Gourville 34 astonishment, all was that destined of the if for cier, Peniten- distributed protested among in vain, threatened to of the church was he when and the power LETTERS AND LIFE forcible means, to resort invoked him compel to cruellydisappointedin whom all Paris deemed a man incorruptiblyhonest, selle de Gourville suspected nothing else from MademoiIt was de 1'Enclos. absurd to hope for probity in a woman of reprehensiblehabits when that virtue his attempt. So in lived abandon to absent was a the Grand as abstain who man life of such a Penitencier, hence ity auster- determined he to visitingher altogether,lest he might hate the woman he had so fondly loved. Ninon, however, had other designs,and learning that he had returned, sent him a pressing invitation to from her. call upon "Ah ! Gourville," she exclaimed "a of your consequence was money gone mournful his those to sorry for you, whom I Here," she are but do if you not you ask the most Astonished at on peared, apin thousand your mind, his Plunged dared not in raise ing she, mistak- But hastily: stilllove me, anything the me Gourville departed. sincere happened pauper. for I have found and longer disposed in but a of his mistress. the twenty when me was though I have am happy, I have continued, turning love to he went agitation, am has in de Gourville's reflections,de his eyes "here and he soon absence." settled the matter That "I misfortune great as as another favor. a escritoire, her to crowns from with forgotten you. not intrusted you them, Take lost my heart There is my which friend, is no nothing left friendship." contrast 35 between her conduct NINON L'ENCLOS de co-depositary,and recognizing that he had no right to complain of the change in her heart because of his long absence, de Gourville related the story of the indignityheaped of her that and him by reputation. upon "You do reverend that on "but The account. you that." "Ne suis-jepas Ninon afterward was known the to admirer every had her preferences,and was not could entreaties it charms, vendible Epicurean virtue. had to reason and he the Counts saw with de instead listened to Grand Prior him a in The of the great Grand Prior of character. impetuous an that and Ninon Palluan de an Vendome this trait in her was of case a wooer, preferred to his clerical complained bitterlyto Ninon, He being softened voice thought great rage nor appetit merely, sorrow Miossens prayers not was of her one le bon Prior Grand attractions. but was comprehend worthy when Hers her. move under drama, taste, neither her to well comedy, a French of the Depositaire." admirers The of it,with made has escape, "La of name Ninon gardeuse dote vigilanceno anec- subject variations, the some eye: belle "La called could of this nature in her la cassette?" Voltaire, whose cassette,"and de taught have twinkle a in difference should adding with la gardeuse de Then a suspected have prodigious conditions with Ninon, not and character a said should you reputations and our exalted so surprise me," not winning smile, me of man a of by some his turn and he 36 his new came resolved reproaches,she rival next. to be when This the put revenged, LIFE this is the and One he way opened to find the "Indigne Je renonce Mon her on de amour Ingrate,que Or, might as had he obtain could left Ninon's feux, indigne de it. house, dressingtable a letter,which following effusion: mes sans fancied he day shortly after she noticed LETTERS AND she larmes, mes peine a tes faibles appas; te pretaitdes charmes, tu n'avais pas." be in English : substantially said Unworthy my flame, unworthy a tear, I rejoiceto renounce thy feeble allure; My love lent thee charms that endear, Which, ingrate,thou couldst not procure. Instead of took this mark being offended,Ninon of unreasonable spite good naturedly, and replied by another quatrain based upon the same rhyme as that of the disappointedsuitor : "Insensible Je te vois Mais renoncer a si 1'amour Pourquoi Which feux, insensible tes a is n'en Caring naught for faibles appas prete des larmes, ; charmes, empruntais-tu pas. much as mes tes a as to say in English : thy flame, caring naught tear, I see But thee renounce if love my lends By borrowing feeble allure ; charms thou that mightst 37 endear, some procure. for thy CHAPTER Effect IT is not such tutelage both mind which her into fighting which for France in for Ninon them with because not upon any agree Ninon's sincerely, a what proved and pious exercises, upon of her natural the in altar daughter gave who one of 38 her to any mother her with learned taken down them makes in her The mind her both from devoting sentiment. birth could illness. against acquired not lost not was fatal and and life for all Paris separated daughter, husband prejudices a 1'Enclos, de Madame be to reason, wife loved mother her this had she and which in her when of course apart, it impossible and however, heart, trait astonishment with definite many so mistress, husband into lived For own the instincts, natural its of her were making otherwise. do absent faction daughter sentiments their interfered follow. and practically was there still in- to was which up, mother to father knew broken the disparity the alone that to endeavored The trary con- so practices and mind. wholly, philosophy a under girl a herself always had was and to principles Heaven that abandon body, young Death at should mother her them, wondered and its in of be to Mother's Her of VII her life the violent such a fice sacri- worldly to an to life opinion she which LIFE AND deemed the LETTERS natural of it. consequence stroyed pleasure,in her estimation, had deevery vestige of virtue in her daughter's duties had consoul and her neglectof her religious verted her into an unnatural being. But she was ion agreeably diverted from her ill opinher malady approached a dangerous stage. when love The Ninon of of flew to her mother's side as as soon she heard without of her philosbecoming an enemy ophy of pleasure,she felt it incumbent her to upon suspend its practice. Friendship, liaisons, social her or duties, pleasure,everything ceased to amuse give her any satisfaction. The nursing of her sick mother engaged her entire attention,and her fervor in this dutiful occupation astonished de Madame it,and 1'Enclos softened and her error her heart to the and extent correctingher of knowledging ac- estimate of her She loved her daughdaughter'scharacter. ter devotedly and v/as happy in the knowledge that she was the as not devotedly loved. But this was kind of happiness that could prolong her days. Notwithstanding all her philosophy, Ninon could not bear the spectaclepresented by her dying with a griefwhich rent she parent. Her soul was did not conceal,unashamed potent imthat philosophy was to weakness. her long restrain an Moreover, exhibition her and dying of such mother a natural talked to earnestly,and with her last breath her loving counsel that sank gave deep into her heart, already softened by an uncontrollable sorrow and weakened by long vigils. de 1'Enclos closed her eyes Scarcelyhad Madame 39 NINON de L'ENOLOS things of earth, than Ninon projectof withdrawing from the world the upon a mistress who see of her one, could heart desolate, threw throes on the her the entering left her few lute abso- friends refusal express persuade not and father conduct, and Ninon, in the of her her, despite her reached any absence The convent. conceived alter her to broken, distracted to terminati deand herself vent bodily into an obscure conof Paris, accepting it, in the her only refuge and home as suburbs of her sorrow, earth. in Saint-Evremond, speaks a of the sentiment "There are letter to the Duke which whom some is incentive misfortunes have d'Olonne, to piety: rendered devout selves, through a certain kind of pity for thema secret piety,strong enough to dispose men to lead more religiouslives." of Ninon's closest friends, in his Scarron, one Epistle to Sarrazin, thus alludes to this conventual escapade : * * * Puis j'aurais su ********** ********** Ce Que En Ton dit du la Ninon donne que bel tous a logeant avecque de pleurs la Combien A repandus quand sa les se Cierges brulants Pretres Voulut Servir chantant aller de aux vers et et pauvre mere, portant leurs saint les exemple mondains, nonais, jouvencelle sans elle, ecussons, funebres chanson, lingeenveloppee d'une franche lippee." 40 L'ENCLOS de NINON so they called it,of which "frivolity," again guiltyas long as she lived. life is in This episode in Ninon's when occurred she was never direct contrast the Queen Regent, of Austria, listeningto the complaints of her Anne of honor, attempted to dispose of jealous maids future Ninon's by immuring her in a convent. Ninon's celebrityattained such a summit, and her the elite became so popular among drawing rooms of the French nobilityand desirable youth, that sad with which one inroads made were nothing but ladies who in the of the entourage Court, humanity being left for the tion patronizedthe royal functions. In addithe culls of the jealousy of a Ninon called "Janwhom certain class of women, sensists of love," because they practiced in public the puritanicvirtues which have they did not even tact enough to render agreeable. It is conceivable this,she excited to that to envy and Ninon's brilliant attractions,not charms, and her hatred her unparalleled power societythe brightestand best violent engendered the most of those whose to feebler charms men say tive seduc- to attract of the tion, na- jealousy and were ignored bitter relegatedto the background. The most made against her complaints and accusations were beset on all sides by to the Queen Regent, who was of a woman whom loud outcries against the conduct powerless to imitate, until,to quiet their they were it her duty to act. clamors, she deemed of Austria accordinglysent Ninon, by special Anne and messenger, convent, a order peremptory givingher the power 43 to withdraw to a of selection. At first LIFE intended Anne Girls ton, a was (FillesRepenties),but good joke such a tie),for well as would a which Ninon that her as course neither Ninon her to the convent to send of the Oiseaux one LETTERS AND to knew a reason, the the celebrated own source Bau- Tournelles, who loved did Ninon, told her he excite ridicule because girlnor her des of Repentant repentant the order choice of of the that Ninon ni repen(ni fille, ing was changed leava prison. order, and foresaw distinguishedadmirers would not in protectingher, and persuadhave ing any difficulty the Queen Regent to rescind her order, and therefore gave herself no concern, der receivingthe oras a pleasantry. "I am deeply sensible of the goodness of the court in providingfor my welfare and in permittingme tion, hesitato select my place of retreat, and without numerous I decide in favor of the Grands Cordeliers." Cordeliers happened that the Grands from and a was exclusivelyfor men, monastery which Moreover, the women were rigidlyexcluded. morals of the holy brotherhood not of the best, was the writers of their history during that period as unanimously testify.M. de Guitaut, the captain of had been intrusted with the the Queen's guard, who happened to be one of the "Birds," and message, tle he assured the Regent that it was nothing but a litpleasantryon the part of Ninon, who merited a for of approval and commendation marks thousand of mind and heart and brilliant qualities her sterling rather than punishment or even censure. made The by the Queen Regent only comment Now it so 43 NINON was of : L'ENCLOS "Fie, the nasty thing!" accompanied by laughter. among known not matter finding means of Others the "Birds'* came to a fit the the* Due d'Enghien, who was his esteem for women to value lightly. of Austria was finallydropped, Anne rescue, The de them to close the mouths 44 of the envious. CHAPTER Her Increasing return of her in a friends her and and place Paris of charming high they influence at with became the of her the all envy better the deliers Cor- her new notoriety with given fame the admission it is to of she her ideas attraction part the of to jealousy, her soon nightly brilliant society and guide without sway it may and Queen were acknowledged submitted her rooms and the of the drawing her imagined, braved not Her into be exaggerated slightest compunctions the her Grands brought the them, Had of immure to of sought of was or attempt jealousy philosophy. rank center and without and through possessed Ninon slightest envy retreat, impunity? with Paris. The resounded court. Regent crowded acclamations selection circle, many because leader, her wit, and Ladies loud the admirers all spirit, her of and convent, as her, enemies, drawing with all quarters. female of her gayeties hailed was from Popularity the to NINON'S rooms VIII also the said, be of remorse or conscience. affair The with effect, it separated in up an the social establishment the the Queen desirable 45 own the from scale, compelling of their had Regent as the a one able undesir- latter counter good to set attrac- NINON tion, and "little court" a where distinction, and having was 'foppishness where Rambouillet, of only hope They established all. at their as L'ENCLOS dc few a society any tel the Ho- at a badge minded, narrow moralists, poisoned metaphysics and starched the sentiments of the heart affectation and their unrefined, into turned burlesque by a of their vulgar attempts expressions and even gallantry. They culled choice epigrams from the literature of the day, employing their paucity of original their memories to conceal wit, and practisedupon their imaginationsto obtain consisted of sodden salacious a philosophy, which ideas, flat in their expression,stale and unattractive in their adaptation. the very opposite,consisting Ninon's coterie was flower of the nobilityand the it did of the very as choicest dry and spiritsof the age, who banished sterile erudition, and sparkled with the liveliest wit There who were and politeaccomplishments. some shrewd the vigilance of Ninon's eluded scrutiny, into her inner circle, but they their way and made their pretensions by abandon to forced soon were their inabilityto maintain a standing among any far beyond them in rank who were so class of men at and attainments. long Not after upon clos to after her the one was escaped the of the side in wrong he took of her fortunate dangers the pleasures of episode, Ninon convent the demise mourn to return attendant politics.For sides with of the men upon some Cardinal 46 called was father. M. ciety, so- de 1'En- times being on who the inscrutable son, rea- de Retz, and on LIFE that account AND practicallybanished was be satisfied with compelled to and LETTERS the Paris from rough ances annoy- life instead- of being able to put in practicethe pleasant precepts of his philosophy. He with his to Paris was finallypermitted to return of camp head safe upon with the his shoulders, and that idea could he time, promising himself flattered make now up himself for lost vantages enjoy to the full the adoffered by his daughter's establishment. his daughter with the liveliest pleasure He embraced imaginable,taking upon himself all the credit for her great reputation as due to his efforts and to his flattered at the success philosophicaltraining. He was of his lessons and entered a life of joyous upon zest as though in the bloom pleasure with as much for a constitution of his youth. It proved too much tary miliweakened by the fatiguesof years of arduous powered campaigns and he succumbed, the flesh overand took to his bed, where by the spirit, he reached soon hope of his his lessons end hastened of tears. she he But learned had "Approach but a me. and that sad nearer, is the againstnature. to bade more Ninon; his side her remember his from and shed the philosophy, and lesson, said in you for sent see an nothing most al- left ing pleasures that are leavpossessionwas not of long duration, memory Their approaching,he was wishing to give her one expiring voice: me no recuperation. daughter, who torrents left his friends that condition a that the Aware to of the only complaint But, alas! my 47 I have regrets to are make vain. NINON You who have survive must de L'ENCLOS me, utilize the scruples about no but "quality." of their only precioustime, and quantity of your pleasures, Saying which, he immediately expired. The by her father in philosophicalsecurity exhibited with the last moments, his very inspired Ninon of spirit, and she bore his loss with calmness same equanimity, disdaining to exhibit any immoderate self herand render grieflest she dishonor his memory an unworthy daughter and pupil. not left her by her father fortune so The was Ninon had considerable as expected. It had been and speculadiminished much by extravagance tion, very but maxim: had "There are good marriages, but no ing wearcontemplate ever not matrimony, she deposited her sinking funds, reserving an income chains in the eight thousand livres her beyond the maintain this time herself increased light heartedness to pleasure, which there are privileged souls emotions tender by such the are rare. which men uneasiness. unless was did her her is not who to not lovers they regulated their 48 life of a ideas. love and Her and votion de- astonishing,as do not lose pursuit, though a claimed assumed, It with unrestrained Ninon's privilege she Epicurean her with in strict accordance to From confessed, be must of sufficient as of want. reach pleasure, well regulated,it souls annum per abandoned she on tune for- of about to la Rochefoucauld's de some did delicious ones," and the in mind she as their those freedom, and enjoy all the rights give her the slightest who love became anxious according to the NINON did she Moreover, else she could the relied it had violent required something occurred "Listen, Ninon, remarkable stand to remove because to you my happiness and to to you to in the most to be me, will and novel pedient ex- he imagined inconstancy. thing you a quiet my duty your and mind to will and accept, is that a more philosophy, Ninon. writing that you will maintain dictate sacred words. own in put than contradiction do is involved love ; it is your fidelity. I form tend will nearer, which obstinate once more drew idea, a without If you fears, ought faithful remain one are my than mind, most you What I wish Now, the an tress, mis- which becoming departure Ah! his of fears substantial his woman. it. his more to restrain would mind, and his body no- might who intense the exact? he could what But for for hour the as occasion, Marquis, promise solemn in present ever were ceiving de- thought rapidly, for betraying him, and and fidelity constancy. amorous been not of Ninon of her the upon dream present no comfort. and moment reason him Nevertheless, have v^s find any assured therefore the at in mind. had not security,peace, not there him; but of her sake cise for the L'ENCLOS de the it in terms most the known violable in- strongest to human promises. I will not leave you until I have obtained is necessary such a pledge of your constancy, which relieve my anxiety, and essential to my repose.'* to be something Ninon vainly argued that this would too was strange and obstinate She novel, foolish, in fact, the and wrote finally overcame and signed her a written Marquis strances. remon- pledge AND LIFE such as with this had woman no LETTERS fortified executed, and ever pledge, the Marquis hastened to respond to the call of duty. Two was days had scarcelyelapsed before Ninon of her besieged by one of the most dangerous men acquaintance. Skilled in the art of love, he had often pressed his suit,but Ninon had other engagements and rival would being out increased and love, touched love her who three tre !" astonishment him the and in the III. Ninon by Madame de ce his pleading betrayed her last of the she realized conqueror, of which "billet de la Chatre" everybody, it is not a wise came, be- saying applied taire, to rely. Vol- so d'etre faibles,et elles pule inspire balmed charming an incident, has emhis comedy of la Prude, act I, scene merely followed the rule established femmes de Sevigne: "Les ont mission per- preserve it in at to man fruits of his the soon mouth things upon to a his victory,to hear in a breathless voice, repeating it "Ah! Ah! le bon billet qu'a la Chafine bond that la Chatre has.) an explanation of the enigma, Ninon whole too was story, which good to the keep secret, to the for Pressed told struggle. times: (Oh, eyes of the exclaim Ninon was now, his entreaties vanquished before enjoying the was He Her was was But resisted, though heart. the outcome him. field,he resumed his ardor. she and What of the Ninon but listen to not privilege." 51 se servent sans scru- CHAPTER IX Ninon's Friendships L'ENCLOS DE MADEMOISELLE forgot that she men long stands is character, her loved, cherished As been said, Ninon strictest the happiness which with men time to from to but extent of her them as it upon afterward. rest her not included sacrifices. making nothing were satisfy time her to possessed she for to The from contact view, entire friendship a her establishment social of all did life, of nearly Epicurean in long the the was sufficiently large maintain for 1'Enclos came point pecuniary income and de and she whom during a an the to went friendship memories alone, love on her outlived she their sense, in bestowed she and strong and hearted whole and in clear trait the indeed, lover, a out them, has in lived, for they as friend a never she wants never neglected. There of her offer would her of her the and favors, met from her permitted heart with and to or indirectly, any and scorn and regain and without society what she natural was dared anything, contempt The 52 payment have for either. and in would consideration house mind, or expected who man a as money have expelled being asked consideration money directly either never, was been ever wants pleased to LIFE the call the of holding her of at pecuniary value. a friends dearest Scarron, was Maintenon, de once the pious the saintlymistress the king of France. In his younger ron days, Scarcontributed largely to the pleasures of the of of them listened,never she them to of Madame husband leader and mentors, dreaming One of physical wants, gratifications natural her were LETTERS AND Oiseaux then and court Tournelles, the ecclesiastical collar he des being sufficient worldly pleasures. In wore not the course reduced his debased a to succor friend, she effects of the Scarron did cheerful and her went Not and joying en- was one when spirit burning in him, and only that, she established small a of his pains. was tures. sufferingtor- a however, crushed but ment tene- to her, being able to come passed entire days at his brought her friends with Not clay. try the to the contrary, he little left of him, was to no alleviation an as complain, on always gay even of mortal side. fell ill,and Saint Germain not indomitable Ninon condition, suburb baths There an his prevent coming to Like a tender, compassionate but Ninon. he sympathized deeply with him, when a carried to the was Scarron of time dreadful to around court his bed, cheering him in his pain and doing him a of good, which world finallyenabled his spiritto triumph over his mortal shell. thus Instances volume, never with of might multiplied,enough to her devotion to her friends,whom abandoned purse be and and whom counsel to 53 she was fill a she always ready aid in their difficulties. NINON curious A sieur L'ENCLOS de is that instance Nicolas of she Desyvetaux, whom several days* Aware de circle for Vauquelin, missed that her from had he been family troubles, and that his fortune having some v/as alarmed, thinking that menaced, she became misfortune had come him, for perhaps some upon she resolved him which and to seek reason help him in supposing could that crushed be v/as it that This Ninon of his difficulties. But out wise so by and gay sorrow any illustrious Epicurean an trouble. or enjoying himself in is worth telling. mistaken was vetaux Desy- singulara so ion fash- night Epicurean, finding one a his at door, girl in a fainting condition her, moved by brought her into his house to succor she had as an impulse of humanity. But as soon her senses, the philosopher'sheart was recovered touched by her beauty. To please her benefactor companied the girlplayed several selections on a harp and acwith a charming and seductive the instrument young voice. was Desyvetaux, who music, was captivated by suddenly conceived his in the It days not was business suburbs with to a upon accomplishment, to of this a girlwho frequent the brother, earning by singing and a this desire company difficult for it her such the passionate admirer a playing and consent proposition, an excessivelyamorous 54 on spend rest and of charming singer. had been making wineshops of the a the precarious harp, to to bestow man, the of who ing liv- accept happiness offered to her with of the finest residences court as a of most had he XIII, quiet and in the suburb Vendome, de always desired he had often so one Germain. and lead to The in passed been in retirement. sylvan life which Saint life had his of M. the governor of Louis of peace a tranquil life and luxurious share Although LETTERS AND LIFE at tutor a life pleasures of in his described lectures, ended by leadinghis mind in that direction. The fered girl he found on his doorstep had ofyoung him his first opportunity to have a Phyllis to his Corydon and he it. Both eagerly embraced yielded to the fancy, she dressed in the garb of a shepherdess, he playing the role of Corydon at the of seventy age Sometimes he listened her years. stretched to the instrument, out on enchanting or drank birds, charmed to cages a and with this their she from drew voice sweet pastorals. of his A left harmony, flock their wings, Dupuis' harp, joy, fluttered down into her or bosom. little gallantryin which This was with caress intoxicated with music in the shepherdess singing melodious of carpet of verdure, a delicious spectacle to intoxicated his they had been trained the shepherd philosopher fancied He senses. he was bands of interming guiding with his mistress innumerable in tender sheep; their conversation was eclogues compose^ by them both extemporaneously, attractive the with surroundings inspiring them poetry. Ninon homme," amazed was as she disguise of she when called him, in the a shepherd, a found her "bon startlinglyoriginal crook in his hand, a NINON wallet his hanging by head. Her leave first shedding tears mind, when enough over and she the wreck of a her side with on had the on Desyvetaux, suspending look about him, perceived to silk that he was flapping great a colored rose impression was his senses, of side, and with hat, trimmed straw L'ENCLOS de taken point of brilliant once his antics her his and long rushed the liveliest expressionsof joy. He removed her suspicionsof his sanity by explaining in a philosophical fashion: his metamorphosis to "You know, there Ninon, pleasures which and tastes dear my certain are find their justification philosophy when they bear all the marks of moral innocence. Nothing can be said against but their singularity.There them are no ments amusedo not reless dangerous than those which semble tude." those generallyindulged in by the multiin a certain Ninon of her friend. and her talents enchanted her him saw to be mode of in the on to attempt in appeared his road persuade life, which a she could taux, Desyve- light when masquerade, now to happiness. to ments, attain- mental her, and ridiculous him companion amiable figure,her Her old who first the pleased with was return not seemed She to made his avoid she to no former at this agreeable considering more could he had adopted. But what than the new one of superior seductive she offer in the way pleasures and natural had tasted pure to a ments? enjoypair who moment, however, The the world have vain no as amusements sympathy 56 allurements of anything but dis- and with NINON play can:' it which 'tout est to over the perdu* the other stood four around: L'ENCLOS de five times or did. other she 4t sang side of the "Tout And over piteously as he when twice ; then couch, she said est perdu a escient;'all is lost this time, sure/ 58 ce " as came to turning who to those coup you et a bon X CHAPTER Some Lovers Ninon's of of love her pleasure, NOTWITHSTANDING and admiration her Ninon whom of she she decided discovered in men in and "I saw that So she well women and unreal I and did of themselves, in her she a friendship, of influences. off As privileges, while the by determined this determination masculine whatever have men." intimates the upon delighted theatrical agreeable the that as one pleasures they enjoyed enjoyed were sex. abandoning on out her every stronger of carry the with that they would an at methods assuming and society, as the put were retained was regarded by was and greatest were pursue favors her upon already said, rejection or that moment sex own my to the the declared: advantage From women resolved those with early life, that acceptance frivolous solid As in selected them, men, common or been distributing soon most bestow of society has she the herself she to in and discount, of favors, but her discrimination. and care the vulgar never was distribution for in ciple prin- same good a performance, or ner, dinquisite ex- music. To her and emanating assumes to from no merit all her the associates, love senses, in the a blind object 59 which was sentiment a taste which gives it birth, is the as it which depends was discomforts or In domination upon ourselves, and and regrets attendant first a of is subject to tion reple- upon Coligny, which of her cold philosophy for a she thought would endure experience abandonment an passionate attachment forever, Ninon cast is connected which like. indulgence. After her was the hunger, thirst, and the merely a^caprice of case word, the L'ENCLOS de NINON aside with de all that element in love with passion and extravagant standing sentiment, and adhered to her philosophicalunderof it,and kept it in its proper place in the of natural appetites. To illustrate her category from passionate attachments in the distrifreedom bution favors, the of her will give had received one of her marriages but that her had that, "There that none matrimony. Scarron her, and being always agreed are good many delicious," she are friend would of in the bonds from "Birds," who select friend Scarron philosophy. favors numerous la Rochefoucauld with her insightinto an of her case never But sumed as- entangle himself he did and to his sorrow. When Ninon sojourn found the This the with to her returned to Marquis de that astonishment amiable young had but Paris after in a long Villarceaux, Scarron had ignoble Mademoiselle lady was a situation which married d'Aubigne. precluded hope of her ever attainingsocial eminence, aspiring to rise, notwithstanding her common all she married social ladder. Scarron Without as the first step upon realizingthat 60 she this woman but igin, or- the AND LIFE to non, mistress the the celebrated become was of the throne, Ninon became LETTERS king Madame the and took her the closest and most in de Mainte- real power behind charge and they soon ways affectionate friends,al- non's Nibed. occupying the same together even continued tender friendshipfor the husband violation of the principlesof in spite of his grave he was his accepted philosophy, and when deserted, and brought him sick and helpless,she went to him cheer and comfort. Ninon was when little imbued so discovered she liaison between a Villarceaux lover, Marquis de Scarron, she not was jealousy that with and even her own dame friend, Ma- her The angry. two in secret, and as they carrying on their amour Ninon's knowledge, whose supposed without ence, prestheir restraint a indeed, they deemed upon self of action. The freedom Marquis considered himwere traitor to a reproaches for instead of taking either in fear of her been have would with them reassured kindness both their embarrassment, that she the Both amity Madame Marquis, now the that of them to non, Ni- task, as she nothing Marquis so grew social ladder. 61 understand their happiness. mistress thereafter her saw as his lived tired of each aiming higher she them much and relieved them and making until the lovers Scarron But betrayal. of them their confidante, and Ninon her stood in doing, gently remonstrated justified for their secrecy, and by her from desired Scarron Madame Ninon, and way than an made in perfect other, ordinary clear to mounting NINON It Villarceaux friendship of at appear in the made of admit to women of the use hesitate to of of wit men decoration of female a of While Ninon the men than distinction honesty of her and a de own de society of the or and other no derived from the hoarded notice claim the dissolute an to easy travagance ex- was of the sovereign. couraging receiving and enmost distinguished time, literati,nobles, warriors, of the on licentious and 1'Enclos sages, in her its hab- crisy hypo- revenues rank not 1'Enclos in the person, relation,and attentions add squandered were that vain nelles, the mistress who the did licentious of Ninon elevating into had insignificantfamily, who such her of for the purpose rival made religion,and letters, but non Ni- for the purpose judiciouslyspent of her brated cele- two projects,and cloak de Maintenon Marchioness useless and to difference a exalted more of tress mis- The the of love income frailty. The agreeably and was to mantle the beneath her ter lat- the close relations. of any view that great between ambitious her to with too was passion pleasure only, while it subservient when persuade Ninon to constitution and temper there but court the in retain the to steps of the throne. endeavored royalty her die Maintenon Madame reached of kindness perhaps due to Ninon's episode, that enabled was had L'ENCLOS de house in the Rue the sovereign,the men, states- des Tour- dear friend ceaux, betrayed her to the Marquis de Villartions was swallowing, at Versailles, the adulaof degraded courtiers of every rank and profession. had There were together there met 63 the vain LIFE LETTERS AND ambitious, the designing and and the the humblest whether the and proud humble, or monarch's the vain, or of the servants mistress who, those ambitious, or alike the devoted crafty,were of proudest foolish, the or arch mon- princes, cardinals, men bishops, dukes and every kind of nobility,exciseand priests,keepers of the royal conscience or and necessary all ministers " degree, from the underlingsin office clerks receivers and This was of state other of the order things that contending against,and that was methods with that fessors con- royal appetite. Ninon she de 1'Enclos succeeded by saintlycompared recorded others, stands the cooks, and considered be must lowest farmers postoffice, to the caterer the to his ing, ordnance, victual- of the general, judges every in filth,each colonies, and stamps, customs, and of secretaries " " in the of pages history. Ninon After of the had lover who made pledge given the recreant, tie. and of He begged charming but agreed consider to the he her to be public indiscretion he had Ninon done in her closer any injury an favor. He was fascinatingin his pleading, impression on her heart. She for his follyand declined to and manners made mous fa- story of the the Chatre, she lost her fancy for reinstated no him the matter Nor further. would she return ring conversation, although he persistedin refer- to the he that pardon to la the from though friendly,refused and knew suffered matter as one he deeply regretted.When departing after Ninon pardon, she ran after him was 63 had and assured called out him as of he NINON descending was have stairs: the did who Those her. M. until and a show To that her scientific long dissertations on her incessantly with which Demosthenes, of in her could Ninon her love, and This he himself Ninon charged than more Greek and Latin wrote It should love. some be in which share. She and academic with social so more of circle. he discourse quotations. It to After very him understood her merry confided to he proved come to his became between sensible books. that and them 64 not full of have the difference which good would Ninon had man explained and learning and and sensible a than thought to of an by means epigram in which with admiring figuresof rhetoric of the poor the ruin rescue, Academician orations sentiments of her out bored appealed her to her read more lover a essays, than laughed the was " humor was angered revenge he of sense to dedicating to equanimity his prosy erudition,and much to with bear tion, considera- of the intended he phase. subjects,and preface. This elaborate an him translation a curious of her upon of enamored a worthy was it incumbent deemed he he emy, Acad- French became assumed to appear over. of the man, love-making blown had much so ashamed were member a lampoon to with greeted storm learned very his and her the Tourielle, de we in the literature venturing were so derisive laughter that they society least,Marquis, embalmed good qualitieswere few of the day, very Her in "At reconciled." been not L'ENCLOS de Ninon wise had "Birds" all her love no crets se- did not affairs, NINON worthy rival response that enough was the resembling that was admission, some in Pecour much into L'ENCLOS de and frabit of wearing a costume military dandies him in of the this equivocal at his expense to by putting of ironical and embarrassing all sorts to him felt all the vanity of a successful questions. But Pecour Then the Duke rival and was good natured. which roused the sneering remarks began to make period. Choiseul garb, proceeded meeting be funny a settle his doubts. to of the received dancer's anger. "Pray, body a do what flagare you command?" fightingunder, and asked Monseigneur you what with sarcastic smile. Quick Duke an as a flash came inkling into "Je commande un the the which gave the situation. corps longtemps,"repliedPecour. 66 answer ou vous servez depuis CHAPTER Ninon's in the for a flocked Scudery gives the Rambouillet, consisted of to for the reason in praise, best those this the by a when and who being were pleasing ghien, afterward the all One de "Julie d'Angennes." flower, wrote the poem, the reward to the fair Hotel was as 67 the sonnet a ready, they were some so Rambouillet, in of their of Rambouillet entertainment known jealousy de favor drawn this, quite "Julia Garland," of name favorite alternately recited one famous bouillet Ram- of entertainments society. Mademoiselle Mademoiselle around and of selected one its the honor all sorts devised of and envy masculine known was Each who But at coterie that women. much that Ninon's while court between and that de "Cyrus." rivalry any Tournelles with the little entitled exclusively, was Ninon Mademoiselle be not des ladies from romance, Rue men established description of this her to Rambouillet, was standard. could attract in who her the performances named to occasioned naturally, the away thronged was among drawing referred been Hotel of and in court the court in not was has fashionable fine a Rambouillet There of speaking purpose elite who Continued " attraction where at Lovers COUNTER A XI lady. stood circle a for Among Rambouillet the "Great Duke the by d'En- Conde," a NINON highest the prince of He was L'ENCLOS de renown as victorious a and great acquisition, a rior. war- Garland the repeated evary night in the expectation continue, and the constant that his pleasure would Once attraction prove or adequate to hold him. Play was twice, however, sufficient for the was Duke, its stant con- He repetitionbecoming flat and tiresome. did not scruple to express his dissatisfaction with society that could not originatesomething new. a with a comprehensive minded He was a broad man, ish knowledge, but had little taste for poetry and childthe good ladies of RamBut entertainments. bouillet, unable persisted human his rebelled mond friends suggest to nelles, with house Ninon's at that he and happiness the It is a heroes of Venus, the weak Bellona part. The the of is the Tour- the tel Ho- social sires de- attractive more followed that of being unable to glory of a lover of his mistress. are strongest in combats immediately for his of Rocroi he and abandoned his heart fact, known curious Birds in her which tenderness a Duke's Saint-Evre- They scope and society. The conquest of the hero his intelligence, resist and the found and Rambouillet Moissens with the monotony, relief. result the the entertainment, until Play, at some in touch him brought de other any Garland in their nature begged devise to to expert not and valor poet Chaulieu avoir la valeur On n'est pas plays says the wars of souls being tant unimpor- an this upon point: d'Hercule, oblige d'en 68 in all the that valiant most in which "Pour some, avoir la vigueur." LIFE (To his have the have The glory AND LETTERS valor Hercules, of need one not vigor.) Prince young born was field of Mars. the that To immortal attain to all his training had tended, but notwithstanding his robust sique, phyand the indicia of great strength with which had endowed nature him, he was a weakling in the on field of Venus. Latin is either strong Ninon when his bien soyex being fort!" derived Duke the the less than no affection. and man day one looked at (Ah, Monseigneur, be very must benefit (A hairy Ah, Monseigneur, il strong.) Notwithstanding this, the two for a long time in perfect harmony, you a familiar: was society,she exclaimed: and vous Ninon libidinosus." enjoying of the category sensual.) Wherefore, or was narrowly faut que which fortis,aut aut within came with proverb "Pilosus him He well as used all the their lives as the love influence and to intimacy derived from the deserve her merit non admirers, Ni- possessed inspire them to close of her she together intellectual the the pleasure he inclined Naturally esteem from dwelt with to late regu- the true desire to perform faithfullythe duties of their rank and station. not possess What a charming conventional prudery, sentiments, and through famous seductive the but exercise Aspasia graved art of intimates vested with grace, attainments! It of this power in the of soul high was that the of Pericles the eloquent language, and 69 does disembarrassed woman mental gentle her over power taught him NINON the solid maxims most he made The could penetrated witfo love afterward he the Lion he ceased never Prince the the expressing for affectionate The her de who in life,and vices long withhold his the Duke to go philosophical then himself admiration in the de La social means his heart. have may in do mind reforming with up to the point Ninon his she Madame reforming it is certain that man, to had the that de her been the in pensation com- La Fayette of this great heart and it is evident begun reformed had de 1'Enclos morals 70 had a lived. that confessed service share Whatever he as work good and he formed he la Rochefoucauld this great timable es- d'Enghein. long as embellishing her mind, for Duke that the later Ninon, whom was Fayette, who relations with of in lasted continued who Ninon Madame by which attachment than solid and for the of the company de acquaintance youth, could not follies of and result of his admiration was most his on qualitieshe perceived It failed to never Marsillac, afterward prided all the tender her met the less with The he compliments. Prince saw liveliest the her and own la Rochefoucauld, often of France, pay his from Conde, de bulwark gratitude and friendship. Whenever equipage in the streets of Paris, he descend moment profound studies and though rank and position. Al- became his time, and of teem es- the his occupations required by and side every her at from steal away of which use. a passed Ninon, maxims politics, of Duke, young for he noble so L'ENCLOS de had much elevating his he .reached, to AND LIFE is bared with as epigrams of every scalpel in a that never Paris, did Ninon's the the heart vised skilfullyde- most hold the interest to cease celebrated most in everything his in voluptuary to power without but repugnance, nothing lacking he the human reader. Chapelle, was in which his "Maxims," from judge LETTERS overcome There success. in his mental attainments, for poet of very high order, inimitable in his he was style; moreover, presentable in his person. Yet he could not make the slightestimpression on Ninon's heart. He openly declared his love, and, receiving was a rebuffs, resolved constant and he her resistance overcome have to revenge by punishing her. attempted to do in a very singularmanner regard to consistency. All Paris knew his conceal ardent expressed were his love the now he had about her friendship,and her in every ne De Car Platon a bien depth for her of her timable es- philosophy. her and made fun her to attainments. manner, her even A age. understand qu'on verse his s' etonne, elle raisonne la sublime Dont admiration which everything good faut pas Si souvent in and not back possible the reader "II the did take against her beauty, enable Ninon, he out with- to proceeded said for highest qualitiesand He in which verses This vertu fut revetu compter 71 : son age, of her He love, ridiculed charging up or so methods: will NINON Elle de peut avoir Avec L'ENCLOS vecu grand personnage." ce in the English language Or, substantially Let no If she Of be one surprised, should be the virtue In Plato advised renowned most to be found : For, counting up her She lived,'tis reason With Ninon that had age, sound, great personage. in her rancor no : heart toward any one, less much suitor, hence she againstan unsuccessful only laughed at Chapelle'seffusions and all Paris laughed with her. The truth is, la Rochefoucauld had with that famous impressed her mind saying of "Old his: age is the hell of hell, reference fearing any alarmed her, peaceful life. She loss of what and saw Chapelle slippingaway of mind. gayety when It she did age not neither of any esteem from her only during was not slightestflurry in the she and her philosophical to regret too was her to the caused nor women," abandoned herself value, with quillity tran- of moments the to of play that she imagination always laughing and fertile, repeated the sacrilegiouswish of the pious king of an Aragon, the of moment he have where wished who could advised the had he creation, when, have him gods that of to been among present the given Providence, put the Pagandom spot in Achilles. 72 wrinkles had located he of at tions suggeswould old age the feeble NINON fused "I listen to the was and She often he added of his Greek of to return the Jesuitswith say, After God had made about same 1'Enclos de of them Both of Ninon acquaintance He man, Remond." Gedoyn: he left the Fraguier in 1694, that is to Abbe of age. school. my Abbe the Mademoiselle when eight years the " : I feel the to plained, ex- philosophy of the world, sensible a society as mine." as this to erudition," she from him gether. visits alto- his his in repented him; But forbade and banished always wrong was unworthy was him to dupe I "so L'ENCLOS de seventy- was immediately Madame and made la Sa- de profound merit they quent it to their advantage to frediscovered, deemed their society for the purpose of adding to their talents the study of the something which cloister and experience in the king's cabinet itself liere, and, astonished had offered never whose good soon the which which heart which term 1'Enclos, de sidered lights he conguides. His gratitude of esteem disciplefelt young it is difficult to tion, admira- and the growth believe were of desires real, but pressing, that they revived in a nearly extinct a feeble spark of that fire with Mademoiselle it had de formerly burned. became 1'Enclos lover safe additions the received and and ticularly par- intellectual and sure became Gedoyn Mademoiselle to taste such Abbe them. attached the at so refused until which Abbe, who to she was did not waited accede to the fully eighty cool the ardor impatientlyand 74 desires years of the on her of of her age, a amorous eightieth benefactress his compelled birthday LETTERS AND LIFE her keep to word. of Countess testify as celebrated criminal years woman correspondent passion is attempting from the who was question her to "Madame," sentiment, desire or court what of of years this put answer. does age love age, the in cease tht heart?" Her who had lived long acquainted with all ladyship, and had and coquettes been of suspected of the and generations, not thoughtfully, into squarely "My Lord, I." English who, been then raising her those of you will the have of gallants nearly to feet ask a for and eyes judge, to the society two sometimes averse her high for had at down in court herself, having looked than "at her ess, Count- aged explicit an inquired, passion, the and counsel relieve of the seventy-five over The human her to a dred hun- Lords. and fact in a when age testimony demanding he an that unsatisfactory, very female The over of extinct, prove herself was be to to charge. of was supposed was House English the to love of tried was brated cele- a called was subject that case in ago who the upon of testimony Salisbury, expert an the recalls incident This been little a wardness, way- moment looking answered: a woman older CHAPTER Villarceaux The PARTY politics "Birds" with dearest of her of There the rule that of of the took a a hot-bed by his her they are going step of silence and on, concocted his of coterie "As But little her not dangerous." long as It 76 and against he they was never court find the as her Complaints spirits brought uneasy but: center encouraged indifference. him fectly per- down holding rather he restlessness, knew the him was suppressing toward but realized were France. of nobility and he position spiracies con- upon, he drag to for and Richelieu anything. drawing-rooms dominant growing from was Ninon's combined the in scheme every out resulted and hatched cabals entered were breaks, out- truce a plots Richelieu, fluence in- temper into continual one no utmost of hearts ence, pres- prevent sweetness number what to her strong which her however, of how ground their all immediate required were stern them well very It won without none neutral a unvarying all to sake. against was leaders were matter her beyond was and They no her Ninon, rank high and tenderness, but disposition of men violating. and around raged however, circle thought Affair large following. a passion her her being friends, personal XII of ing noth- amusements forerunner of LIFE LETTERS AND the Napoleon's idea along the people; then amuse It is preposterous this restless peace, they will not government." of the management our line: same think to "We must with meddle this minister of of prelate,half soldier,half pastor, meddling in all these cabals and seditious schemes organized for his own undoing, but nevertheless, he of all of them. was reallythe fomenter They were his devices for preventing the nobilityfrom bining comHe cabal watch set against him. to one another, and there into did that he through his into have His tricks were methods the he dear secret nothings been a prepare numerous harmless would not conspiracy entered similar conspiracy a agents and thus split never was fatal to but modern people believe attempts continuance a nothing of the weak and the ward he is what of his power. ordinary everyday politicianmaking doing one is thing when tagonist pitted one an- The stern doing another. man against another until both sued for peace and pardon. The honest in their likes nobilitywere and double dislikes,but they did not understand dealings and therefore the craft of Richelieu was not even Soon suspected. he corrupted by his intriguesthe of the nobles and destroyed the integrityof fidelity the people. Then it was, "The as Cyrano says: world of scum billows vomited the royal saw upon Vile rhyming purple and upon that of the church." poets, without productions in goading merit to the the or virtue, sold their villainous of the enemies people secret to riot. 77 state Obscene to be and used filthy NINON L'ENCLOS de vaudevilles, defamatory libels and infamous were as common and forth as evidence who of *an the around raging was bread, and as ecclesiastical rule to Roman of the the prevent back strife which internecine thereby justifiedin was hurled were wearer slanders let, scar- his continuing wrecking of the throne. had Ninon throne, and the be the others who to always should hand for more throne. When withdraw thick frightened. factious aiming was the way the at open and loud she Marquis hornets was protests at one who de friends, and this numerous his be any him pretend to the throne who man the to came could conspiracies became period that she was house fled her home at other no was not around accustomed was became Scarron opening was king. more was rendezvous a Madame of the This was in her modest frightened. received Villarceaux her some distance from for three years. There at his chateau arms that would throne, that is,she for Ninon, ambitions, and The not capture the heart to much too there turbulent. and did withdraw plots, and Scarron's many great Cardinal Ninon around the were sustaining ha-nd, then and totter, but he always Cabals, it. rescue for he herself thing. They same the human indeed, there rescue; There his tremble would so the annoying became to the of supporter imagined account single moment a ardent an Richelieu. of believed that know that on enemy been desertion dark againstthe gallantMarquis 78 from threats who had her with Paris, were coterie of were uttered thus captured LIFE the of the queen LETTERS AND Ninon "Birds," but explained her that their complaints plausiblemanner into good-natured growls. subsided She hoped to prevent a political conflagration emanating from her social circle by scattering the firebrands, and she succeeded admirably. The Marquis was vene constantly with her, permitting nobody to interbetween them, and provided her with a perpetual in such reason a of round that amusements made the time faithful to quickly. Moreover, she was the Marquis, so wonderful circumstance that her a friend and admirer cumstance, wrote an elegy upon that cirin which he draws a picture of the pleasures of the ancients in ruralizing, but reproaches Ninon for indulging in a passion for so long a period pass very to the detriment But of her ron, her Ninon other happy was desire,which to was rival in the affections the latter has of her already However by been her in friends and attainingthe defeat of the Madame mirers. admit sum- Scar- Marquis, keeping side for three whole years as said. delighted this arrangement, Ninon may have been with pose Marquis, himself, did not rebed of roses. The a jealousy of the upon "Birds" him no respite,he being obliged in gave honor for an explanato respond to their demands tion of his conduct in carrying off their leader, generally as insistingupon the so-called field of honor the most appropriate place for giving a satisfactory invaded his premises until they answer. They even forced way of him to the make permission to them see some the 79 concessions objectof in the their admira- NINON tion, and years' tete a France being the the with tete sufficient but champion the part of Ninon either eat him make to whenever he of volatile justifyhim to Marquis idea very most his prowess, on The society. his conquest, proud of was in her share to L'ENCLOS de in his words heart do to of so stood a ready tain main- fight to or in boasting ventured always three a them. Scarron, Madame for the bad a of quarter the mistress became he of the basely deserted so friend of her superior charms him gave whom Ninon, often hour. an king and, really held the reins of Bastile thronged his brain. as When Madame Maintenon, power, of the He well that he had believed Scarron, who that deserved he inflict upon head a whatever She him. him cachet, had de in his shoulders utterly ignoring Added to comparison of his for the what and who woman a la did had not stolen of Madame might lettre a dungeon or easily as his order gratifya spiritof existence. follows, was wife, Madame violently angry his fectly per- she triflingcircumstances, these with charms procured as to visions and irresistible, have might de knew punishment dinner, but she did nothing revenge, the them immured from removed scorned she in trifling the furious Marquise. conceal her She her ousy jealwas hatred husband's tions. affec- Marquise was a trifle vulgar and common of manifesting her displeasure,but manner The in her the did Marquis, not pay a the very polite and attention slightest 80 affable to his gentleman wife's daily NINON L'ENCLOS de ing a sensation receiving and aiming to create by showoff his learning, took it into her head to have in history. his tutor put him through.an examination "Interrogate my history,"said in all loth at his brilliancyof "Come, show to upon son she le alacrity,"Quern habuit successorem did Belus, king Assiriorum?" (Whom have for successor?) to happened so that the pronounce the Latin had tutor Belus the of the "um" like the name of the who of Ninon nasal 1'Enclos, the de terrible gave the as that sound same bete king letters two "on," which the Assyrian king "Ni- of Belus, last boy Italian answered was French the rex rians, Assy- the taught lad really the successor Assyrians, he pronounced the num," of the language after when Wherefore, fashion. the said the tutor Marquis," with It by pupil. Monsieur now, not was attainments own sons les- recent the tutor, who to his of his some noir of the enough to set her off jealous Marquise. This was of fury against the luckless tutor, who into a spasm understand could not why he should be so berated its correct The a simple question and answer. over Marquise not understanding Latin, and guided only of the answer, v/hich was similar to by the sound the name of her hated sion rival,jumped at the concluthat Ninon de "You snapped him he with was answering some question about 1'Enclos. are giving my out before all her the follies of of the young son his Marquis 82 a fine education," she guests, "by entertaining father. I judge From of the the swer an- imperti- LIFE LETTERS AND question. Go, leave my sight,and it again." enter never tutor The unfortunate vainlyprotestedthat he did affront, no not comprehend her anger, that he meant of your nence there that was other no "Ninon," which word with of apoplexy repeated in the carried listen to nearly her to reason ridiculous a name woman point,refusing to it was." Ninon it story reached friends her dubbing turned "The Moliere told Ninon of successor ridiculous the story profitin one of his comedies Countess d'Escarbagnas. expiration of the after France fashion, a the and frequent her from smoothed des Tournelles "Birds," who the dead. Get Vous these lines enchanteur trois qui ans retient-il en par vous un been were return as one devenues? retenue charme to ed return- : a so not composed quelque vieux 83 not hailed with was her Philis,qu'etes vous Depuis had Saint-Evremond elegy beginning with Chere received come factions Ninon's over. he and were the there Belus." had peace cabals the differences in the Rue the house joy by or up years, rivalry between bitter. Whatever patched three her in the character it to of so fit a Paris, and when spread all over Ninon, she laughed immoderately, The to the explanation. or "No, he said 'Ninon/ and At tabooed incensed The presence. scene sent hearing the at rage than made pronouncing the lady into unfortunately, again "Ninum," be to answer nouveau chateau? an CHAPTER The IT been has connection whose of son fancy who Versailles natural de too jealous the proper him in how to him instructions preserving show to and to him give The women. fall in love charming more Madame de her for son "Ninon the him Ninon, than Ninon spoiled your with the court failed love finding her actress into by its operations, nature of lessons to thousand or his times princess. the telling him this give women's a to him to the these referring father," that 84 and aid to teach captivating profited by testifies enough Ninon to of esteemed, undertook insight letter cover dis- to strong and of nature an be to implored of art quite taste spirited, perhaps Ninon his Sevigne's them of had affections the Marquis with He love. in those by vitiated a sentiments or her her secure in disposition or affections. his by woman, nature a wide practices powers, sentiments, retain hearts, weak handsome a Sevigne, de and de period. Sevigne, of men Madame far because Marquis second something and her during in in to morals Marquis The the the upon 1'Enclos de read find odium cast celebrated can the to to with been they reference of the have letters Sevigne" Mademoiselle of of her de Marquis attempted memory Sevigne, XIII of love plainly passion was LIFE not unknown much so LETTERS AND her to it as was of matter a indifference. The which the Chevalier young receptions in the Marquis friend mutual Vasse de often of Ninon honor Saint at of both. De Vasse Cloud, attended Sevigne always de liant bril- gave as well was quainted ac- that and knew peculiarities the gallantry of such de Sevigne was a a man as feeble means of retaining the affections of a heart that was the slave of nothing but its own fugitive with desires. Ninon's But he was a devoted man his friends to and, being Epicurean in his philosophy, he did interfere to attempt growing between occurred to with Ninon the and affection perceived he his friend. not It , never the Marquis that he was guilty of a to Ninon, betrayal of friendship by paying court and the latter took the Marquis' attentions a as of course matter without considering the ingratitude of her conduct. She flattered herself rather at attractive to capture a man having been sufficiently of de Sevigne's family distinction. She had tured capthe heart of de Sevigne, the father,and had received so from Madame pleasure to But the de her Sevigne,that it afforded her great "spoil"the son as she had the father. satisfaction of Chevalier of course, not regret is conduct her upon de was chagrin to learn soon Sevigne had perished on hands and animadversions many had after that Her lightedby enduring, and when eternalized, besides 85 her conquest the field of honor d'Albret. but the fire not short-lived,for she sorrow the the was senses occasion there at the were real, is small arises others NINON with waiting of the was hesitate hope philosophy there and friends did she that he in no: could According shameful so odium has been in this de attracted her to tender a professed cast Sevigne her even de upon matter, Sevigne husband own her heart, and for whom side and her out of dissimulation. art who from dearest and of the dislike of Madame out woman son nothing de 1'Enclos It all grew a heart. said, much been Ninon understand her is the Mademoiselle for win to friendship as has him make to never As attain longer pleasing to no rival supposed he had a clear field, fcis expected happiness. He de Vasse did not successful His impatience. way, he but L'ENCLOS de the ment. attach- intimate most daughter of the house Grignan, the proud, haughty of de Sevigne, did not scruple to herself the Madame array with 1'Enclos star de side Mademoiselle of de Coulanges, another bright and respectable families of de Madame the among on noble France. privilegeof being weak," of Madame de Sevigne, "and use they make scruple." privilegewithout have "Women had Women their found man rightsof was them. among who to fidelity any of the court Henry IV, the weakness time to neither honor They were such nor says that of Ninon, an unlimited honesty to common ercised ex- to be every regard to fancy without seed sown in particular. The by one Catherine de Medici, the utter depravity attracted the infamous before never, There extent. the bore their IX, and of Charles an the profligacyof astonishingsupply of 86 bitter fruit. LIFE The of love pleasure had, off her woman feet,and Mademoiselle abuses. herself to LETTERS AND to so there de speak, carried was rules and 1'Enclos, while freedom the nothing as and throats uncommon, The proper. for the the religion, and of were and deemed growth conducive were another's one in the the of cause merit favors which the to encouragements as garded re- encouraged the arts, drama, by conferring women talent,wit, genius and upon of legitimate were cut God sciences, literature,and then nay, cavaliers love stigma something of respectability sidered nowadays would be con- practices that horribly immoral, but which upon from removed of the times conferred and devoting phical philoso- certain regulations which the unrestrained commonness limit to their no life of pleasure,followed a every of intellect and spirituality. Ninon affected by the spiritof the times, and was it was being a woman, impossible for her to resist desire when aided by philosophy and force of example. Her intimacy with de Sevigne grew out of her attempt to teach a young, ate vigorous,passionhow to gain the love of a cold-blooded, vain man and conceited various Her woman. stages of desires her vainly struggling to beat the smallest point in the female to with brightestminds the of a like clod, who an character. argument dealt,that is,the power with of her 87 that whom own was the along went hension compre- could simplest principleof love, resolved use she something into the dull brain understand as show will letters At not the or last she convincing she had ever love, and if the de NINON lived, perhaps had Marquis to ornament an the he might have an honor to she violated the for way animadversions that time become his family. her Vasse, betrayed his confidence de with societyand this, however* do To L'ENCLOS compact and of opened Madame de Sevigne was in love with an actress, Mademoiselle Champmele, but desired to withdraw his affections, transfer them to a "r rather higher object,a countess, or a princess,as the reader At Sevigne. infer may from his de letters to be given hereafter. he instruction for went to course to pursue Madame hints mother's To in get rid of her Ninon, therefore, advice and of one love one to the and on as best with de de Sevigne and Madame Fayette vainly implored him to avoid Ninon as would the pest. The more they prayed and a new. the his ideal. his he closer to came Ninon, Ninon herself until seductive traits. affair with Champmele, the actress, obtain an ascendency over began to wormed of him out from jealousyon letters to the all the that Sevigne will see the and he one between dispositionon his part to wander charmer. Others, however, say them had his came be- away that a she mind, she ever it say who reads the after she love when had Some part, but any treated, en- and manners had he letters comedienne. Ninon's de knew he captivated by was pleasant conversation, agreeable She she La ceived re- was her lines a a new intended Marquis de Tonnerre, whom had betrayed for de Sevigne. the actress de Sevigne, to whom had her son But Madame confessed his follyin giving up the letters, perhaps to send to 88 NINON ; with aromatic She was a wet and paper, boiled to his restore of him her like the in a flicted "af- good caldron vigor." ent. differ- did untimely end, but not views. possessed a of heart a mother, somewhat was definition,"was beyond man "He panegyric. .himself his express his himself opinion lamented hesitate to soul," says thought have herbs Ninon's "He He would he Esos But of his malady his body. "The L'ENCLOS de soul of her pulp, a body pumpkin fricasseed of in snow." him, ashamed finallybecame She insisted and brother and that sister. She of him by exposing heart, and him initiating out love, but as she they said: of were tried all the fricasseed in snow." 90 loved never more than to make something secrets in the "His having ever of the female mysteries heart was a of human pumpkin XIV CHAPTER A SOME one Ninon's of of Marshal of Abbe the honor concession. suggesting hazard the waif of have Ninon child a to him in where, the the of than the life. as who He the of all her Chevalier captain his him. mother, of a by who la who possibly and brother in in the to a cared tion posi- good marine died the reality waif, service, he reached at officers an and of some particularly music, 91 made rights Bossiere, inherited He for fortune became the vessel, tempest happiness. up his the maternal in their slightest could Abbe him de the warrior, to him placed the of out good or father raised for difficulty through greater Marshal, and respected knew of him affectionate tenderly grade talents in favor brought contended calmed Luck A the make the to celebrated way to dice. worthy and age all and any of out surrendered tender for the guardian done, see not parentage, both however, way declared better a a the of right consenting Ninon, the the not the affections. and because could difficulty,neither by d'Estrees warm and in her upon were disagreement, rivals two disputed waxing following succession quick unusual an France, Deffiat dispute in between quarrel, Tragedy engagements another cause say Family in vanced ad- by the which NINON he remarkably was Toulon, where musical instruments proficient. His and between their welcome generous demanded she love for scruples that might against again yieldingto meet son horrible most a to came accorded them of turn re- their proficiency the her, have de Gersay maternal who fate and been But arisen one for his Ninon second. have any another a Chevalier the and house solaced son had never back occasions; the only it would birth, and had for her greatest music. happiness of this unfortunate with his made exhibition an in instrumental The traveling Chevalier all on was of the France Italy and headquarters. The forth crowded the works musicians at apartments stationed,were was the All masters. a he L'ENCLOS de happy her found pro- overcame in her mind instinct,and destined was her cause the to most exquisitemental torture. famous This de Gersay, who for the temerity was of Austria, a fact of his passion for the queen, Anne from the housetops of Paris in his he announced the boy that delirium, was as happy as a king over to him so came unexpectedly, and lavished upon him the most heart extravagant and trained him taught those blood. The Chevalier of the affection. up He in all the highest rank took him to his accomplishments and most noble boy grew up and received the name de Villiers,becoming a credit to of his father. His de was mother was Villiers began still remarkable sixty years of age when enter society,and her beauty according to the chronicles of beyond to 93 AND LIFE She literature. and the allusions made and the times lovable as the among LETTERS as was at as attractive in her appearance, twenty of her resist the charms being able to house was thronged with of noble of age, few, years habitues younger it in the current to even drawing-rooms of her Her person. the elite of French society, families being designedly sent into her society to acquire taste, grace, and polish which unable to acquire elsewhere. Ninon they were with possessed a singulargenius for inspiringmen high and noble sentiments, and her schooling in the of etiquettewas in its details and marvelous art a repetition perfection. Her power was practically of the history of the Empress Theodora, whose happy admirers and intimates could be distinguished from all others by their exquisitepoliteness,culture, finish and social polish. It was in Ninon's the same school, the graduates of which occupied the highest rank in letters, society,statesmanship, and military genius. De Gersay intendinghis son to filla high position in society and public honors, sent him to this men young school, where same he footingas duly trained other with a the solemn that youth's a she birth promise and of would never which young from Mademoiselle resulted consequences. 93 man Gersay having divulge the in secret express the the was plishments accom- de his father's without upon and arts The society. promise put high birth, and in all the of his parentage, aware 1'Enclos youth them of refined not received was most was tracted ex- de of sent, con- astrous dis- NINON Ninon, him, mother as for never of this handsome manifested and L'ENCLOS de the emofion contemplating becoming enamored thought nothing tenderness a such of of of youth, admired which he love, Ninon, fatality,and a his herself ended by Ninon mother. own understood mis- his passion, believing that it but it increased in intensity, would soon pass away, sistible, finallyproved irrebecoming a violent flame which forcing the youth to fall at his mother's forth his passion in the most feet and pour gant extravalanguage. Alarmed at withdrew of condition this from son's her heart, his society,refusing to admit him to her presence. Although the Chevalier was he was an impetuous wooer, dismayed by the loss and of his inamorata, begged for the privilege of to seeing her, promising solemnly never repeat his Ninon of declaration professionsand to re-admitted the conditions violated deceived was him by his sensibly, society. Inhowever, perhaps in despite of his struggle his amorous propensities,the Chevalier overcome watch Ninon love. for a of the repetitionof her to truce. his former Ninon, on the manifestations, quickly perceived the return of a love so abhorrent His sighs,glances, sadness when in her to nature. were signs to her of a passion that she presence, with a strong, ruthbe compelled to subdue less would hand. "Raise one it your eyes to that clock," she said day, "and mark the passing of is sixty-fiveyears since I came Does it become me to listen to 94 a time. into to Rash the him boy, world. passion like love? AND LIFE LETTERS possibleat my age to love within yourself,Chevalier, and Is it are desires and your Ninon's All man's flow, to which the only in the young burned tears, which regarded by were in me." arouse however, tended His mother's breast. would Enter ridiculous how see you remonstrances, the desires increase to those be loved ? or youth began trophies of now as success. tears?" "What, Are me? they tenderness? "This me, which I detest." and the tender raised not is this?" exclaimed makes the between her of sweetness philosophic and that us adorable? sex is insanity. remainder instill into the happy one by pity,by replied, "it poison the not language poison can "What this do heart your for tears I to be blessed?" am terrible," she Leave "What from wrung Ah, is exclaimed, "you shed he of life the Chevalier. still another making loveliest life? Ninon? Has she of virtue that shadow chimeras What a Is have Shall I tell you? You changed your heart? carry cruelty to the extent of fightingagainst youryour self, resistingyour your eyes now set a condition they times me. And from drawn has to avow a I have less resistance these your through indifference shed ashamed hundred against desires. own or " tell me, hate? which sensibility than which tears eyes seen Are honors in you my are you manity?" hu- "Cease, Chevalier," said Ninon, raisingher hand in protest, "the rested with rightto claim my liveliest friendship worthy of it. That you, I thought you 95 NINON is the mistaken also others for the of the cause yourself that I of love. of you shall know It will go you repeat your I do not despair and into his regretted that had in stood remedy Gersay the to advised that fury account on to me, regret rejectionof and sorrow him promise She way. plunged was of her with solemn her to the de determined she secret Gersay to now therefore she evil and to if you, tenderness. son at first told not relieve her from her her torn was her blind leave you, learned she had birth, but of his hate all badly interpreted." so heart love, her passion destroy to as protestationsof have Ninon When far so understand to you flatter the it should heart, and my for you. the favors it is not with inspired me and plainly that your desires are passing presumption. Come now, a care Do have you too see can effect I shed. tears have you the hope friendlylooks which of greatermeaning, of the cause L'ENCLOS de her communicate applied to de promise. De Gersay the truth to her son as possibleto prevent a catastrophe which he least exliable to happen when pected. prophesied was the Chevalier that at She accordinglywrote soon a as be at her house certain time she would Antoine suburb and prayed him to meet Saint in the her there. The impassioned Chevalier, expecting nothing than the sielf with He was of gratification extreme and flew disconcerted, however, to prepared the by finding of smiling and anticipation.However, he cast and on him- assignation. sad, instead despondent with care his desires, less himself Ninon joyful at her NINON reveal what by son, my the You it was Know so. pardon for me Ninon her but a flood heard. he not would and of tears to the filled with sweet with arose him horror sword his had calamity, his and her found she hand own this horrible and the youth is similar Theban to who the of mother, his a A cast the upon thick without inabilityto destroy the He person. fled. there, in and at them and her of her. still offered of bushes, moment's a one ground, garden clump old Don that tore spoke to tion hesita- eyes Gil Bias has happened his eyes painted de 1'Enclos Luna. after The to he of endearment. Inisilla de de which love, and words utter woman which dying ardent of Ninon Valerio out His of romance catastrophe of the characters bent endeavoring in the Sage eyes, for love expired while Le by dying. him followed awful dreading some there, in the dim light of the stars, son weltering in his blood, shed by toward turned he and it,to sink down fell upon Ninon felt for her deep sigh a refuge, and a drew he into her it pressed her name relationship sufficientlyto look son, be crushed realize long have life." you was he your it from not oh, my of Pale, trembling, nerveless, pronounce burning passion of one for his soul the to me degree conceal to mother, your into put you heart, but he seemed revelations dared have having given burst to son as me what to necessary delicacy of mind, compelled you know prejudiced birth, wherefore your L'ENCLOS fatalityhave secret? this opprobrium he de in the Cantarilla, incident OEdipus, the discoveringthat LIFE in own AND marrying Jocasta, the queen, he had mother. Le Sage's hero, however, he which had been not gives the case his self-immolation having indulged but LETTERS to the regret able to of Ninon's being due, in criminal at not his purpose. 99 his mourns cause be- commit son not similar a to been crime, the the love for his having married tinge, horror own able to of mother, plish accom- CHAPTER Her THE Bohemian Rue the of that by represented supposed are clubs except the upon the as of that bright sparks, still Ninon Personally, at form, all times The in tears became Whereat "You no memory on great his the too ; she his de will than not be 100 able a her related had no make with memory. sorrow daughter to cle. cir- afterward who of his out in having originality once Feuquieres, in pedantry from daughter, which centuries. two of of brilliant of followers her him metal luster Mynard, laughed happy the aside put evolved enemy an assembled mental and acteristics char- the of They the but appears that of banishment that Countess few "Birds" more of writer, eyes Ninon are was penalty numerous relaxation very light, demanding good restraint from 1'Enclos. lapse of a faintly where indeed, to clashed of ciety so- styled "Bohemian," of de rays glitters after every are, society spirits choice those There restraint, and conventional all freedom possess Mademoiselle around and tendency they surface, is anything be might circles, day present far so reign. house modern in them, to Ninon's if there character Bohemian our to the at similar a at Tournelles, fellowship, good cheer, des doings compared be can Environments nightly and daily in XV : who has citations." LIFE LETTERS AND her That society was sought by very good men is evidenced by the grave theologians who found her companionship pleasant, perhaps salutary. A celebrated tainment Jesuit who did not scruple to find enterin her social circle,undertook to combat her philosophy and show point of view, but she came to her so near that he abandoned tenets with the her from truth his converting him the contest ing remark- laugh : "Well, well, Mademoiselle, while waiting to be a convinced that you unbelief." into Rousseau The the for Jansenists and of of converting her, but good price for my Molinists are engaged will show for brought knowing their : to one in a in the least,as the One of her priest when a be in friends extremis, his bedside, and as the I use easier soul,for a bidding for it." not was bigoted incident Fontenelle, "what told Well, then, it would body? obtain to me send she know," of my She labor also Royal in vain. was "You learned clergy of Port and grave undertook make has epigram. an labor offer up to God your this incident converted in error, are the tion competi- following refused but to Ninon clergyman, tated scepticism of the dying sinner, hesito exercise his functions,she encouraged him to do his duty : "Do your duty, sir,"she said,"I assure you that more no although our friend can argue, he knows about The the the truth than you key to and Mademoiselle 101 I." de "Enclos' character NINON is in found be to L'ENCLOS de toleration her Utterly unselfish, she had comfort and happiness of she a sacrificed her person, of virtue models friends. her multitude in suffered have and make, to cited are as ing Yet, notwithstand- be followed. to them For astounding sacrifice a refusing for martyrdom the thoughts beyond no an for which one woman, liberality. and strange misapplication or perversion of what ing calls "female the world honor," her world had nothher but the for her. It profound respect and admiration requires an extremely delicate pencil to most sketch such trials might character, and a in result lightsand Standing out vivid shades then, even failingto seize and bring out hundred a its upon most points. its best through her whole soul that never life was a noble stooped to anything low, debasing or vulgar. Brought up from common, taught to consider infancy in the society of men, her companions and equals, and treated by them as of themselves, she acquired a grace and them as one her society desired by the proudest a polish that made of ladies of the annals to her love On the affairs Their to the after her of Pericles of the aggrandizement Mademoiselle favors regard friendship was an as a but any upon earnest, source 102 an de of be has been her town, upon can but of prototype, sort in the one no that earth bestowed were contrary, bestowed ever a woman devoted were as some of the Aspasia The is There court. nations common a was the her. by clearly defined of one man, market. 1'Enclos never she unselfish delightto garded re- Aspasia thoughts open one pared com- could friend. her and LIFE she in the Epicurean was LETTERS AND Saint-Evremond Athenian her likens for her celebrated woman, Ninon's the title. early which her her drew soul, and conducive to easilyled so heart learned far her have may Ninon gave it is true, but weak, was and she philosophical principles from that portion of away those senses environments her the cultivation of philosophicalideas destroying or even those were of the seductive into away love which Saint-Evremond why reason philosophy against the great having dared to write a book Theophrastus, a literaryventure the the Leontium, to for had everything with friendship. that goes been of enjoyment most which senses But paths. pleasure may have and practicesdid not are ever how- led her, her succeed in weakening any other virtue. "The smallest fault of gallant women," says de la "is their gallantry." Rochefoucauld, The a distinguishedAbbe Chateauneuf expresses trait in her "She reserved all her friendship,which friendship she esteem, she liaison,"says that drew to her side the of the period. distinguishedmen most for which character all her confidence always regarded the Abbe, "and permitted to as a maintain diminution nq spectable re- or relaxation." In other words whims on she was constant caprice. The Comte their Condition "Women, or says and : "While Ninon and true, without de Segur, in his and Influence de TEnclos was patronizing genius, and giving it de Sevigne was to expand, Madame 103 work ciety," in Soing fostertunities opporat the NINON of head measured was love in cabal a de opposition her upon L'ENCLOS genius, to In standard. own unless her it self- she and wrought agairfstRacine sought to diminish the literaryluster of Flechief. But with all her abilityMadame de Sevigne possessed very little genius or tact, and her lack of discrimination is in the apparent reached they and been not were of proteges her Moreover, appalling an strong of her none distinction. any have must fact that enough to ever virtues character her save since husband from rid fallinginto the clutches of "That horwoman," referringto Ninon. Ninon she divined certainly understood men; them at the first glance and provided for their bodily and intellectual If wants. deemed they were them worthy of her favors, she bestowed freely,and animal desire gratified, out of one there were created intellectual aspirations. She understood a thousand be all animal not all spiritcan clearlythat man or ual, son and that the duality of being of neither man in her prayer Voltaire "Mon n' en make to attempt wreck to was fish, flesh vouches, was me an jamais honest une fowl. from and Her for the truth its make constant of which : Dieu, faites de moi faites nature humanity nor days, younger divert honnete but man, un honnete femme." never homme, (My an honest et God, man) wo- ." Count Segur, in his book already referred to, has this to say further concerning Ninon : "Ninon shone under the reign of Louis XIV like a gracefulplant in its soil. Splendor seemed proper 104 it in will have female L'ENCLOS de NINON abnormal preference to never debauchery. Ninon against the fictitious beauty goodness, hesitated and claim de- to that pretended to secretlyengaged morality while but Moliere with in the most came corrupt practices, his Precieuses Ridicules and pulverized the enemies virtue and inculcate of human that time at for Ninon nature. covering her Chapelle, friends, ventured her society. who was a half a twin, said of him wants man, to do : of praise this "My dramatist Bachaumont is who son were intimate her the young if he as in his sonally per- confusion, that of two father The Moliere loud with introduce to into so was imitators gross and Bachaumont she but know did not a whole only one." extremely feeble and a delicate, he became voluptuary according to the ideas of Chapelle, and by devoting himself to the live until of Epicurus, he managed to doctrines as a drunkard Chapelle was eighty years of age. in a preceding chapter, and intimated been has although refused "half only Though to Moliere a him. favor Ninon and recognizing in but something passionately,she steadily Ninon loved he and man" the not mutually attracted, each not only a kindred spirit, were other apparent the and given them things from was destined enlighten had Ninon In she her speaking declared "I thank the to through with God same and eyes, view same wise his age counsel of Moliere Nature the surface. on to men they saw point. Moliere by and his pen, sage and tions. reflec- Saint-Evremond, fervor: every night for findingme 106 a man of AND LIFE him There Him I pray and spirit, his LETTERS morning every to serve pre- the follies of the heart." from great opposition to Moliere's comedy It created "Tartuffe." sensation in society,and a neither Louis XIV, the prelates of the kingdom and the Roman legate, were strong enough to was withstand those a the torrents who of invectives that from came in the unmasked ceeded play. They sucin having it interdicted,and the comedy was the point of being suppressed altogether,when on Moliere took it to Ninon, read it over and to her asked her opinion as to what had better be done. With were her keen knowledge with Moliere the of sense of character, Ninon to such good no longer take and her went the play the over that the edict of purpose withdrawn, suppression was in comedy findingthemselves could ridiculous opponents of the positionwhere they exceptions without confessing a the truth of the inuendoes. When the comedy was nearly completed, Moliere to give the main began trying to think of a name is an imposter. One character in the play, who day while two at dinner with the ecclesiastics,whose Papal Nuncio, air of pretended he noticed tion mortifica- fairlyrepresented the character he had depicted in the play. While a pedconsideringthem closely, dler of the came along with truffles to sell. One knew little Italian, pious ecclesiastics who very the word at truffles, which pricked up his ears sound. seemed to have a familiar Suddenly coming out of his devout silence,he selected finest of the truffles,and holding 107 several them out of the to the NINON L'ENCLOS de nuncio, exclaimed with laugh: "Tartuffoli, imagining that he a signer Nuncio !" displayinghis knowledge ef tuff oli, the Tarwas Italian language by "Truffles, truffles, signer Nuncio," calling out he did say was whereas, what "Hypocrites, hypocrites, Moliere who was Signer Nuncio." always a close keen and him, seized around suitable as of observer the to that everything the upon pired trans- "Tartuffe" name in hypocriticalimposter his comedy. brilliancywas Ninon's table, that she at Her table equal was lavished Helen charm to France, anything the at but water. by the wittiest of flashes kept their spiritsup own The her guests, upon called, or "The of tion conversa- which Nepenthe Homer according to them. Ninon about it is the of her charm draughts the to enchant and if true, and in her story told One intoxicated be rarely drank highest point. the to always surrounded was friends and her to she although soup, said was animated, particularly so A disputed. "Eagle of the great Pan," as is not to her credit great preacher Pulpit," Madame as de arose he was Sevigne, eloquence for His renown designate him. and piety reached Ninon's ears and she conceived it is said; to bring this great orator to so a scheme, loved her to She feet. had in her held illustrious time, all the heroes, and and she place in her sent considered on the most for him. list. Pere She Pere from men of time to France, Bourdaloue worthy of a accordingly arrayed herself fascinatingcostume, But chains feigned illness Bourdaloue 108 was not a and man LIFE be to was AND LETTERS a He came easily deceived. and to her question as to "I perceive that your be in your to heart physician of which souls to perversity to ever, request, how- her at condition her malady I pray heal he swered: an- exists only body, your health. without times, human he will that it appears the you." great Saying ceremony. story is probably of the to as ; perfect he left her The song in be to me mind and he and, moreover, captivated by any woman, in too deeply versed man and untrue ridicule grew the attempts out of of a ous numer- Ninon from her of preachers to convert way living. They frequented her social receptions but those were trusted herself always public, as she never to of her without of her some safetyand own The the knowledge and presence "Birds," taking that precaution for one any song avoid any referred to, to scribe begins unknown "Ninon Cours Le passe te predicateurqui au coin parleraitd'un follows jours au 1'amour ou S'il etait Te les as t' de 109 composed : jeu: porte; exhorte, ton autre appearance feu, sorte." of partiality. by some CHAPTER Remarkable A Ninon WHEN five ought of weakening legend revived, justify and few who and little old spread it of age, that black she all was her petual per- hearts, probability was it to ui the Indeed, story. when again Ninon there then even The little promised place. She gift instead of eagerly them to ceased shown and was her were Ninon as no being took 110 Her limited the be her by garded re- mates inti- ation admir- and longer advantage frequent to respect a 1'Enclos." de ladies Ninon days, younger and accorded no when mysterious familiarity "Mademoiselle widened, pleasure, the of the approached, its took no or about the be to attraction. and and make of Ninon in and change. age in her for enough belief the court^who thought conquest was years with but the sixty- among appeared powers disputed showed As capacity years, there seventy was her twenty Servien Abbe there of age society Noctambule, strong a those from to beauty were royal appeared of age the but her the who the at of of the retire them, diminution man, of Age reached there years, to for way Old had beauties she XVI "Ninon," social to men of the charming circle clusively, ex- lege privicircle. AND LIFE circle certainlybecame That in her own way, and had long life, and what were person She was Reason prime. failed not impart polish of Madame in fruits," Ninon as hours passed as many society with the illustrious Ninon with envy and the his constant Madame Even esteem. to jealousy and of listeningto in company the with Grignan, Madame Torp, and, strange to de Her friends tenderest care watched and they de Duke time of so fertile de could la la in her cauld, Rochefouhonored his death friendship and his devoted de Sevigne put aside her of the pleasure wearied never of this wise beauty, haughty daughter, Madame de Coulanges, Madame say, the over Duchess her affection,and indisposition brought field eye-charming phors, descriptive meta- -as conversation her the and sage quisite ex- with of Ninon's flowers," another up had her to Madame of her, and said Sabliere, "a lovely garden enameled who, a Fayette, that "rich La de of her century her, in addition of age associations of the wisdom of the secret intimate and her world. of the man a the of her in was women learn men to femininity,the she a she purpose attractions the to remarkable to the enough why the most the when as that certainlyattained to and thronged hefc apartments life. Moreover, her long with had more strong as rean Epicu- earnest an tiful beau- demonstrated apparently preserved her beauty had The tionalities, regardless of society'sconven- the best. was way celebrated. lived the life of had woman her LETTERS them 111 around de Bouillon. health even her de with her with the slightest expres- L'ENCLOS de NINON ing They dreaded losdeepest solicitude. them her, for having had her so long among cally, they hoped to keep her always, and they did, practiAs proof of them. for she outlived the most of the sions anxiety experienced at of the her occasion one friends for friends recovery illustration one On of her and the from the delight they ment, slightestail- will suffice. from withdrawn had she her single evening, pleading indisposition. The next evening she reappeared and her return was celebrated written by an original poem by no less than the Abbe a personage Regnier-Desmarais, who read it to a the friends "Clusine qui Eut de dans tous L'amour assembled et around chair her : les temps tous les honnetes 1'estime gens partage en : Qui toujours pleine de bon sens Sut de chaque saison de Tage Faire a propos un juste usage: Qui dans entretien,dont son faire Sut fut enchante on aimable alliage De 1'agreablebadinage, Avec la politesseet la solidite, Et que le ciel doua d'un espritdroit et sage, Toujours d' intelligenceavec la verite, Clusine est, grace au ciel,en parfaitesante. Such a poem nowadays, but the sentiments translation into in the lines un would the more not hearts than accorded be of the English will : 112 her friends polish,as serve much to a show praise regarded substantial appeared NINON resolved L'ENCLOS de of the prolong his life through the application Epicurian philosophy. De Marville, speaking of the Count, whom to middle to age, delicate a delicate eighty her perfect form, also perfect intelligence." This invalid, lived, however, and years, her sang He praises Saint-Evremond aged, very the charms and him in this at was of "His time As contents herself with the liveliest it appears of age for retained all the she She again of her life that to all ness sweet- felt the writes I live had oneself of much with meet on the heads she Wednesday, prayer the of the What life." made to of the. insisted 114 the some penitent there must wrote efforts which are faithful instead should avoid she had nature ashes that joyed en- inclination which Ninon she having Although invincible senses "We "She rest, after the abnegation words: of love." and that pied occu- Saint-Evremond: ease of Ninon endearing herself in ever Referring them. sprinkled usual heart dying says pleasures of the control Ash had that pleasures of mistress never given her, to life and than more friends. toward the friend." true a period her was jndhis youth, It is like her to frail and loss." a It him gave self death, Ninon, her- mind friend,for : common. such "His common afterward his announce tenderness loss of this so reception and Writing to a occasion. every says: of his until missed never on to him always grateful to Ninon was tenderness. survive gave in such and delicate would "Nature, which says: body a imagined no*one of be the on the stituted sub- ments move- Saint-Evremond AND LIFE rise might give less another. However proposed myself.'* to of of is certain friends favorite her the gained new Says Madame "The can now much as flocked the as hate old age reflection did not one any This are however, they come." not change, as Coulanges in running after de hanged retained she who ones women de TEnclos that fact had one provisions and of taken be I many have philosophicalprinciplesdid from : than maxims, stock gretted re- that me be, if any life I would a and letters tells time my may must her That How in provide a pleasures,they should was: not such One "We of that me sometimes "Everybody : complain to she belief that weakness her have the to LETTERS all her her to of her one elle Mademoisused men after unions. re- such do. to an ample." ex- originate with non, Ni- pleasures, and regretted little her former sacred besides, friendship with her had as many what Madame de Coulanges rights as love. From who might one says, Ninon in her place, but opinion. TEnclos' She and visited "Corbinelli says: place in the around her could of way in her may but women, say at console me their different a the about Mademoiselle old age, the if women even of deserted take to asks good to had men herself de She company. whatever ame Mad- contrary, did not for having both flock to had please." celebrated English geometrician,Huygens, Ninon during a sojourn at Paris in the ca- in her The de taking side, she men leaving women Sevigne was Coulanges de her age, old house assembles men that the Madame marvels new suppose young days to 115 NINON pacityof he that of her fell into French are mind of the famous not "Elle were they as literature They but will scientist admiration. was a surprisingto be the reader. to what express the singing, who as in the was : cinq instruments a her his express poet, a friends her and not with Englishman an with charmed so and to poetry geometrician and was perspn, from verses Ninon He ambassador. attractions L'ENCLOS de dont je suis amou- reux, Les deux ses Pour de II faut etre she had friends not again amiable "Our wrote: which redoubles which worries nothing were maintained A to short friends." her Coulanges de cold a time which afterward has and evening, eighty, worried has 1'Enclos poor in the her reached Marquis 1'Enclos me." please had of illness which The reste, leste." Ninon attacks "Our autres, cinquieme qui et galant et exceedingly. writes: does tous, 1696, when several deux ; yeux le dernier In the year mains, les premiers, ses low a a he fever throat sore ailments trifling These Ninon, who, 'though growing feeble, her "I am philosophy, as she said: contenting myself with what happens from day to day ; forgettingto-day what occurred yesterday, and holding on to a used agreeable." very to could an end She without only believe body up with the saw any that one term qualms Madame 116 as of her or has been life ing com- fear. de Chevreuse, "If I that LIFE by dying we other the can AND LETTERS and talk with go world, it would Madame be influence, had power and of her youth, Versailles. and in the of her height forgotten the friend offered her lodgings at never she now, It is said in friends our thought." sweet then Maintenon, de a all that intention her to was able en- man king to profitby an intimacy with a woof eighty-fiveyears who, in spite of bodily infirmities and vivacity of mind possessed the same to her great delicacy of taste which had contributed the much renown, frailties. But been never Ninon the in the world. friend, and consented to Louis Great to see reign. During fancy of at to the Voltaire the TEnclos would social to the latter age be of of She her in earn her grant, where her of his life,she she will money took detected to a signs with give him, to the old satisfyhis curiosity fortified him ninety feebler years, every day, She long coming. duties, however, surrender would astonishingmarvel prayed to tion posi- her of Versailles and years francs thanked she chapel pass and her and left buy books. by ridiculing of his benefactress. grew not she concession least, the attempted memory At could he thousand a hope of greater fortune greatness. counsel, which him liberty,and had her philosophical sacrifice in the and for Voltaire, in whom young future born to only stand once, personal charms Accordingly, the as her was willing tranquilityfor the than more until the until compelled. 117 On Mademoiselle and felt that performed very de death all her end, refusing the last night of NINON life,unable her wrote the to de L'ENCLOS sleep,she followingverses and arose, at her desk : "Qu'un vain espoir ne vienne point s'offrir, Qui puisse ebranler mon courage; Je suis en age de mourir ; Que ferais-jeici davantage?" (Let no vain hope now My courage strong that My age demands What On as the more seventeenth gently as one who can and come to try, overthrow; I shall I do here die, below?) of October, 1706, she falls asleep. 118 expired LETTERS OF NINON de TO MARQUIS L'ENCLOS THE de 119 SEVIGNE. NINON L'ENCLOS de them studying their dispositions,and she knew a period thoroughly, her experience extending over out of of intimate seventy-five years of every men Marquis such an beyond wet from stamp, that extent she and snow," his a of this weak he as "a Madame Chevalier to of in de fool." "a heart was the -man pulp, a body pumpkin fricasseed mother, the renowned own took him of soul a heart Sevigne, admitting that Ninon Royal prince to her latter wearying designated definition; with paper, the the Sevigne, de with association deavored charge and enof him to make a man by exposing his and, entering into a long correspondence, frailties, in the pathology of the female to instruct him heart, with which he was est disposed to tamper on the slightceeded provocation. Her letters will show that she sucfinallyin bringing him to reason, but that in sex compelled to betray her own doing so, she was by exposing the relations with That she motives secret and knew the of women as men, in their men. women as disputed, for, beginning non in Queen of well with Madame Sweden, can de not be Mainte- Christine, down she guards so Countess along the line to the sweet successfullyagainst the evil designs of the Marquis de ame de La Fayette, MadSevigne,includingMadame de Sevigne, Madame de La Sabliere, and the most distinguishedand prominent society women of France, they all were her particular friends, as well as intimates, and held her in high esteem as their No confidante other woman in all affairs of the ever held 122 so heart. unique a position LIFE in the world and her of AND LETTERS society as letters the to Marquis therefore, be considered art the is concerned, in relations the between There is of effort tear of the heart treachery, to These opinions the of wisest "Inasmuch TEnclos) from who, upon under the vulgar errors, the love to be what a the contrary, they curtain the and of fice deceit, artiof the nature chinery ma- the in light of of the the teenth seven- she (Mademoiselle was it is to become impossible de franchised en- to be stupid mistake of those of "passion,"elevate the ment sentiderstood unheight of a virtue. Ninon to in the use reason, name the senses, and character. of her of love merit On read first from removed motives secret philosophers her the made ality, sentiment- specious language the be upon as heart scenes. must century the expose letters the female of mawkish beneath the heart behind containing as as meaning. from and further of the epistolary sexes. conceal to of double away and entire absence an may, forming a study of everything that pertains to the the greatest value words standards as TEnclos, Sevigne de subjects she treats; profound insight into the love desires de the upon most where Mademoiselle the it reallyis,a taste blind sentiment, which which founded admits of gives it birth, and tion which promises no recompense ; a caprice,the duraof which does not our volition, depend upon and which and repentance." is subjectto remorse no object 123 LETTERS OF NINON TO L'ENCLOS de THE MARQUIS SEVIGNE de I. A Hazardous Undertaking. I, Marquis, WHAT, education, be for exact You you. that when first youth, ought and everybody man, of him." do All is you, mind, It may likewise of desires she know not the to care am and I aid you will tell know to of in malignity I young a ling worldthis of to willing to you will what your own her a myself You ter? en- fact, the "make to confidante. your of freshness expose service the the to friendship my aware lost prise enter- about special interest a says become troubles, your that to takes You I be to has woman a of your the in are you much too of charge guide your which upon You take is pression. ex- its application. render tell in heart me my and women. grieves expect not conceal The human me to the to find in this I which will so whatever liable am be the contrasts, many 125 pleasure I correspondence, difficulties heart, Tetters, presents that say, to encounter. subject that can of my whoever I NINON lays it bare You think have you flood a something seized have chameleon, L'ENCLOS fall into must find you but de in your stable shadow. a viewed which, of contradictions. grasp, It is indeed from a different aspects, variety of opposite colors, and even they are constantly shifting. You expect to read may I shall say upon this strange things in what many subject. I will,however, give you my ideas, though often seem they may strange; however, that shall presents a for you be free from that I views little. But a the that I talk am to to Madame will also be former Have Come ones. I nothing to Love when the less and than de and please regale you told, do " heart, I do I possess La you with head not you fickle! feel any two Still, hension appre- possible manner. going a Yes, sir,MORALS! take But of morals course do 126 not and love happen shall know in the easiest to resemble should worst day, we some to not and toward the la disparage his But, again a scruple. template? undertaking we con- in the friendship. If I lose my are my If it malicious so age cour- myself, it being occupied elsewhere, sentiments withdraw We is I examine for fear Marquis Sabliere la will Marquis sufficient the guests. am my the subject. de Fontaine stories, which, I new I have frankly upon to-night with dine of us, La one not am particularly everything and it, and to you Rochefoucauld. be I will know at least you subject of love, relates to Fontaine that scruples of conscience, foreseeing scarcely be sincere without slandering sex on I confess grave can own my determine. to how to together. be alarmed at the AND LIFE mere LETTERS word, for there will be between only us the questionof gallantryto discuss,and that, you know, morals to so high a degree that it deserves sways to be the subjectof a specialstudy. The very idea of such a projectis to me risible. However, infinitely if I talk grow weary? know that I be. With to you reason This am any a is my never Adieu, sole other heart be than a often, will you anxiety,for reasoner pitiless I could world too when knew. I await your good pleasure. 12? well you I wish that which philosopher not such you as to understand, misthe II Love Why ASSURE I and to in disposition my sometimes the result lead you to external the only mind and to them opinion of give you you by you, your nothing, would with man that he has indulgence my I find us entrance you say, there. to come into of what Disgust 128 propound neither for human in frailties, the all gist of and an inflexibility, and you good too this world supped we But the the is to in to ing communicat- believes required is which only ask none kind the believe, that I whom He humanity. Let women. Since intention my have method before myself spiritual things. philosophy with is true poor in nor mitigated will excellent It yesterday. for I is the As you. virtue and woman, ceedingly ex- may this that Here man. be I fear and remember with it stability I carry a my shall intercourse that of a I more our must am ideas, my the to virtue I follow to you think you information acquire of appearance heart wish I that of But severity. into in that have imagine, you keep though even I than shall occasions, truth, detriment. own my I all on the speak Dangerous Marquis, you, word, is quantity intercourse your it has had weariness letter. offered imagined follow NINON should one woman; L'ENCLOS de seek find to only amiable an mistress. those or with intercourse The whom the themselves qualities,is is would too good Riches myself. to forward a For these you, if I dare necessary to and you are what of women so express in proportion only us great selves, like them- who, man company, wants; our for into putting force virtue only by life's decline. on be of time ravages excellent loftyprinciples, of "women would better do, bine, frequent the societyof those who comwith agreeable figure,gentlenessin conversation, for the cheerfulness in disposition,a taste pleasures of society,and strong enough not to be frightenedby one affair of the heart. of reason In the eyes of a man too they appear will say: but do think frivolous, you they you much be judged with should so severity? Be persuaded, Marquis, that if,unfortunately,they should firmness of character, they and acquire more you lose much would require in women by it. You Well, do you not find it in stabilityof character! I think, is a friend? is not Shall I tell you " virtues our who woman would become seek only beautiful; to would one to a need ; but which be estimable of passing be her; there careful can respect, not Until you. to you should you those should nothing 130 in every with alone taste feel for marriage, yourself It could you for mind? playfulness and our love contract amuse of them: deep with a is in my what dangerous too contemplate can you The weakness. our a to who are attach you plunge result but in too a bad LIFE did not If you ending. AND LETTERS reflect greater part of young the you in that you an meaning like their then, necessary, people, entirelydifferent are ready to give to profoundly than more to excess, Do of it. But instinct sublime the which charm exact amuse is pretty gerous? love dan- makes sometimes view that truth is,it is only know with you course. gallant inter- a what only who, all those of tell you to me It is the takes the make wish you contrary a frivolity. It yourself to a woman attach to to perceive ridiculous agreeable child, might pleasant follies,light caprices,and which talk I but tone; an faults I should one how blind a appreciate: have for one an object in preference appetite which you to another, without being able to give the macy for your taste. Considered as a friendlyintireason when is presides, it reason from ancient our of love makes It is a from will only veritable all that see passion, it a sad a makes or enthusiasm would of means path amused, which avoiding I have and you these two a soon if it frenzy. extremes indicated. You will find amusement 131 folly. be were it your son rea- affairs of the heart, formed insipid,or become heroism disengage it, it will me, great fatal if you Believe at pretended sometimes and fanaticism; but opinion aim you that this happiness and pleasure. the is not of romance, heroes sentiments, you love to hearted teem, eslonger love, it is, in truth, a warm but tranquil; incapable of drawing you away any fixed position. If,walking in the footsteps no of must one need The is to only follow only to be only among NINON the you I mention women my a fair a I must to capable I shall not perhaps Moliere. tuffe,in which good I some just told de very shall read We changes you, be I made " keeping am ceived just re- I have I 'wish the Abbe notice, Marquis, that those all I have it fill it. to Saint-Evreat the I have much same municated com- taken mis- of them. approve I shall have To-morrow of it. Your made ideas which the and you, if he does it. answer to him propose to and as to me promise, and it seems with you exactly. Adieu, M. charming letter from and mond, time to you occupation, they are recipe and you will find word my L'ENCLOS wishes heart Try de have of that character. 132 should who a do de Chateauneuf, again be not the Tar- made. conform little of the Take to qualities Ill Love Why IN you still You wish mistress, time of despite be merit them to; great expectations but These teaches experience are in qualities the only question I might be impaired has tempted mental your sublime talk do of I reason? fine you reliable All it is this you being wish pity of the Marquis my these not can He the dear chimeras it is very Marquis: it ! by But, with you, heart? have fascinated do that serious enter is full becoming to and virtue of to say, require nothing serious, look begin housekeeping, to woman, tie ; I intended as a all those into transactions. commercial a willingly tell coin, but When to mean expect Are in conversation. you ty reali- romances Poor become to common child, what that powers. himself allowed that you pastimes believe to in you illusions. pure would if happiness a same sentiments the you for the at can you, sentiment. person commendation bring to say first your who friend. could may respectable one undoubtedly they to a your I everything stick and Cold Grows to the its but gravity. what believe 133 lofty principles. and dignity of a love for marriage the But at present, affair, beware I tell you; I know of NINON L'ENCLOS de them. yourself know Men usually say that they seek essential qualitiesin those they love. Blind fools that they are ! How they would would complain could they find them ! What ment. they gain by being deified ? They need only amuseA mistress reasonable as as require you better wants your be would wife a than you for whom estimable woman humiliates you Forced esteem love to her, you can her. many too to arouse So you moment her, and not tiresome your farewell your too see finite in- an a not a sometimes even to mire ad- yourself for ceasing to creet, disvirtues are a reproach too excuse critic of our not eccentricities, that is humbled, pride at last,and when Make to love. a thorough analysisof sentiments, examine will have particleof ardor. in all respects is too subduing, much, for you to love her long. respect, I admit, but A would you that I left to say well speak adieu. 134 the your conscience, and truth. I have* but a IV The DO Spice know, you it understood not not that say that that, should it I and in believe of Traces this all affection more than strength caprice to be much an whom of his in of antidote. contrary in truth, well except I maxim a senseless I peat re- amused be to am ; authority. an quarrel, and retains imaginable, reason for day one this at my that animate 135 and house, that allied beauty to with opinion sentiment, caprice its justice my readily it could was the closely opposed persuaded to qualities. character. too that attach not women, esteem was I said affair, and I all the ideas, said animation, beauty, than you women the upon able despic- But love only caprice, effect more idea. did I a should need have you mistress a you subject and steadiness Someone only men this on more their all my a times! some- heed; substantial to love, temper has at pleasant, yourself exclusively it ; when for needed you make to Take take is not That reality in all. ens, Heav- are you letter; your at me you object. in end will you temper? a stupid very see that in me how I Love Marquis, putting by of charms be that seen and is not in so I close order am, to to NINON make to them flavor none L'ENCLOS attractive,to more them. which de is There endures as colder no less serve than a goad, sentiment, admiration. and and One accustomed the same to see features, easilybecomes however little be, and when a regular they may life or action, their malignity does not give them destroys the sentiment regularitysoon they very of temper, A cloud excite. can give to a even, beautiful countenance the necessary variety,to prevent of seeing it always in the same the weariness state. In a a word, to woe her temperament; disgusts. She is always is always right. man that she takes away the the She from of woman monotony onous monot- satiates and statue, with same is too so people good, the so her a gentle, privilegeof quarrelingwith her, and this is often such a great pleasure! Put in her place a vivacious woman, decided, to a certain limit,however, and capricious, different aspect. The lover will a things assume the pleasure of find in the same variety. person it Temper is the salt, the quality-which prevents from becoming stale. Restlessness, jealousy,quarrels, making friends again, spitefulness,all are the food of love. which Enchanting variety! which fills, more occupies a sensitive heart much deliciously the regularityof behavior, and than the tiresome which is called "good disposition." monotony I know how be governed. A camust men price you have puts you in an uncertainty, which you much trouble and as griefin dispellingas though it were a a new over victory obtained object. hold breath. You Roughness makes you your 136 V Love I OH, and with agree who in these that it is advise I letter away from When I spoke gives alone, which is lover be it? passion? who has Do For not only which who who has How we ways alyou comes beyou ing nothhave the meant "bad myself, 138 errors I have prove little love it When when liveliness, what these kind roughness temper." little delicacy so a from that rough, woman her and springs brutality, a of to diversity, and relish, anxiety, calls cause You one say. I natural makes that point! word, ordinarily is the to temper a from which of of not one love alone the and of in that, jealousy: the of a fore, There- depicted woman, things stronger a only shade a love character woman, unpleasant an drifted which by so ungracious but I amiable an more of only ideas. my of attachment. an again agree storm. this of prices ca- ance acquaint- an make must man wo- and I continual a form for repels. person a to beyond still speak for not last my only quarrel, you go in end a temper thorny irregularities ending never only very the Marquis, you, has is and Temper sort as the always to that can plain com- violence thought bounds, proper be knew who he that how moderately was within himself keep to effect, without in so, LETTERS AND LIFE Can amorous. himself allowing one be to out goaded by the fire of a devouring impetuosity,withsarily experiencing all the revolutions which it necesoccasions? all these see can without ciously at disturbances in While its transports, heart that these that he is beloved a feels one of the troubles loved, of the tears they I wished that which shed. with and to tell you capricious,can yourself. I said, and and that I shall itself is the love when of natural a such a woman of cause becomes it is desirable then to of bad woman weariness, But consider effect except If temper of a is born restless, envious, first to one say that hateful, she will be the disheartening quarrels. heart which will become lieve be- to happy, undeceive always persistin my caprices,bickerings, source. brusqueness, or the unjust disposition,I am the a suffer, going gallant intercourse, to drive away the strength of it. to perpetuate these spices do not produce that a secret you idea, that diversityis necessary, in the are that make temper, passion, sometimes if you of its ing convinc- most are lovers But object less deli- no proofs that it is voluntary. constitutes There, Marquis, is what charm who complaining aggravations same Well! undoubtedly. pleasure? secret a injusticeand and No, a veritable free possible. 139 A oneself connection torment, as of from quickly as " VI Maxims Certain then, think, YOU brought the of master it liberty at not are his Morals commonplace to their justify who, when the very angry if he !" ham is He They is no been not it is Is me. have that they their arms order to maxims suspects one justifying caprices, from does For not wish myself, to I take wish may correct the that in a good tioned sanc- one everythem. having excuses, confession them far that them. liberty 140 attract heart? approbation such be well overcome much so That such so been "Cursed of his to to try : stroke. even is interested everyone No received. find say when reply to maxims same to like speaks have master anyone these in would sympathetic a that cling: to to so, necessary able They because only had this Montaigne him, given. these But one for attacked tachment? at- your saying which to friend our longer permitted are reasons to gout say strong too whom in of you Abandon is very It of object expect, something of disposing opera! who women have gentleman the the the weaknesses. should they of not consequently that choose to is one in heart, and argument, that me own wishes, he where tell have you invincible an you that Marquis, up when Love Concerning of being of a differ- LIFE AND LETTERS It is enough for me opinionfrom the multitude. that it is not one's inclination impossible to conquer ent condemn to all those dishonorable. succeed ! me are Have we unreasonable not seen or women in destroying in their hearts a weakness has taken them as by surprise,as soon they discovered that the object of their affections How often have unworthy of them? they which have was stifled the the Dear who tender most conventionalities time, absence, ardent one of have insensiblyit weakens, that which dies all and honorably from strength of reason. all the to Rest, passion,however supposed it,can withdraw to sacrificed it establishment? an remedies are may affection,and at resist; never I know once. such liaison a quires re- comprehend still that the difficulties you imagine stand in the more, of maintaining a victory, do not leave way you it ; so that, although I enough courage to undertake there that say may invincible no are I inclinations in the speculation,I will admit that there are few of them it happens to be vanquished by practice;and does not like to attempt without one so, only because However success. I imagine that gallantry,it would in order seized but I upon there that for you also, because a you most the character capable of It is without on the whole, I making inclination which more not are which doubt the woman persistin saying that you be, being here only a question of be folly to put you to the ture, tor- destroy to may was I 141 smitten less amiable with ; anyone, right in describingto believed would be the happy. you to or has be desired, that delicate NINON over not what from reason I be. of draw out being able of in our only such render a give to old be least at good wise, saying: I what not undertake to to skillful chemist remedies. 142 try to to in a the you to can. Not make you destroy them. They pharmacy; they be the annihilation. our regulate poison teach you wish to a you pravity regret the de- to one from be, but is I so. indulgent I may being able to reform not you like the hands not it is, and as whatever necessary by intention the first But them to this is should you heart, I would the happy. It is an passions would It is that proves My am caprices. vices power taste, however of your your a heart of the more they might be able to ever. place there forpermanent what reallyare. you knowledge it ought to to find experience But do and them occupy have that hearts, and our should merit, real sentiments, L'ENCLOS de become are pounded com- icent benef- VII Women Expect who essential by in of what knowing Do of meaning call you number of than they make upon I have specified to have this with will have to number of is the only it is the the to that coin it possess desire be estimable. we and it all such to in the please, than In the even associate, if a we to have word, caprices expect to 143 on of you equal it country be may than that in that ous advantagethose we whom believe must imitate those with live in peace ; guard your to those we such an this more qualities agreeable obliged captivate, perfection It is far requires. in qualities under It money. in real less be must you more not are for current and the virtues that passes the gallantry, to comes of tell are proper traits; those spurious consists world quite when charming we morals you only merit, merit which intercourse change against calling true the But ness firm- you minds all are I embarrass Reserve they sion. expres- extent can matter. men, question a this to how Our happy? for circumstances. simply judgment, often which you accord of discretion, virtues succeed can you only be qualities, worth, precision learning, prudence, it may attach you essential character, that It is women? pleasing From that qualities Men Quo Marquis, doubts, OH3, Pro Quid a with to the whom them. NINON is the What role destiny It is earth? on figure,personal brilliant and in that to men What please. Now, to m graces, role. L'ENCLOS of women? a the are qualities degree, wish de Women ing of succeed- only means them possess them. resemble charming a word, all the amiable it is in these and is their to a lative super- qualitiesthat they It will be vain for you for they are playing the frivolity, beauty role, since they are destined to make you of our happy. Is it not, indeed, due to the charm companionship, to the gentleness of our manners, most that you owe satisfyingpleasures,your your social virtues, in fact,your whole happiness? Have Is it possible for some good faith in this matter. of themselves, the love of glory, valor, the sciences that friendship of which boast so even you nay, The much, to make pleasure you perfectlyhappy? it be keen from enough any of them, can you draw feel happy? None of to make Certainly not. you to them accuse them of the have which monotony an to power relieve crushes from you and you a some weari- makes you object of pity. It is who women have taken themselves upon dissipatethese mortal languors by the vivacious gayety they injectinto their society; by the charms to they prove know so effectual. a delicious awakening is a well how A to reckless lavish joy, intoxication,are attention, and where an they will lirium, agreeable de- alone capable of stand making you underthat you are reallyhappy, for, Marquis, there difference between vast merely enjoying happiness the sensation of enjoyingit. The and relishing your 144 NINON somewhere, read have agreeable virtues less like of than L'ENCLOS by pleases more than by^essential qualities. Great makes one pieces of gold of which faults are use de that one ordinary currency. This idea calls to my mind kind of money, place of our of exchange. medium Well, do you these we with people of the should be metals have would be quickly false of cases in women, to you, unless you possess you you pleasure. how we gold the more cient. suffi- are mark vided pro- If it be true, not to the You would forever become soon and good qualities, rather amuse men do never similar are not stantly con- firmness, be, how logical,you learned of company would not you life,if, always be will science, your weary you expect advantages point. as happiness agreeable qualities to that you sure your with would Do the to about even, for your made, ought be live only in know : may condemned were Our any conventional you tell me, disgusted but reflection,for worth interchange of an boasting etc., but first blush, at only pebbles conclusion I stick theirs. ures treas- is commerce? except from to the matters all the that people. Now, not are imagine opinion. those to doubt, that you please them in in their as poverty, upon except money this is my not actual gallantry,where there can might, as call essential What Now, as undeceived value no shells use We of wealth qualitiesyou in rich so world? new this sort take not are people who, those and. sordid, philosophers? of admiration weary the without I way yon virtue are than yourself,then, by holding 146 LIFE yourselfout sense you is esteemed has its the sages own as a consider AND LETTERS with man True them. by those we laws, and great aim in qualities merit to is that which please. Gallantry Marquis, amiable of this world. 147 the men are VIII for Necessity The THIS time, give The feel begin to crime the advice which It its that is true opinion the that pleasures, discussion Love is to do a you into other so you, a order dis- the it pleasures without would you gives which with which enter into any of the comparison. up, and it is love bad. All gives us drags which 148 out it is: of it that that I advantage an life of us or bad nor or discomforts It here by good it right affected are is, that in its favor say who good to tiresome are opinion, is neither equal a they my it is whether shall whether upon of the are about are entering have those people of love sorrows passion a determine us the me The you. soul, and good very ascertain itself; it is only stirs some but if you wrong, than your turn to tainly cer- desired. be to are feared be to in given you in its train, appear follow more say, than the to is scarcely But giving been brings love evils which scruples, I have you has de few a that me inspiration an go, you mention you portrait of her. favorable very rousing to diagnosis tells widow far not The condition Chevalier The have you Cause. Primitive Its come. young of capable heart. has of your me in love. and Marquis, hour your are Love of the satisfies one not can rut, it of our that you hearts our for emotion made are already told I have I think pressingwants. most LETTERS AND LIFE ; to excite it therefore,is to demand of nature. would without love? satisfya vigorous youth be it would Love They sea. not be is to our the what ness: ill- long be winds into tempests, true grow A existence, it would hearts What tating. vegethe to are ; they are times some- shipwrecks. But the winds render the sea navigable, their constant agitationof its surface is the cause of its preservation,and if they are often dangerous, it is for the pilotto know even how navigate in safety. to But of cause I have wandered it. Though I shock from text, and my sensitive your return to delicacy by my the need of frank speaking,I shall add, that besides having our emotions stirred,we have in connection with them is the primia physicalmachinery, which tive and necessityof love. cause Perhaps it is not too modest for a woman such to use language to but you every one you, to what may will understand be called If my sometimes I told you what in my and the favored. more I which I therefore If I be a were good became you, or a I would bad a remember From up men my be to you woman, of the that stinted in the distribution and a I made saw to seem last letter. ascertain not are discussions first able to reason, was We analyticalfor too talk not engaged in "nice" conversation, we are osophizin phil- plainly. so that I would I the time mind two were to sexes not of the roles to be vestigate inwas at all played, man. not thing to 149 investigatewhether fall in love. I would it NINON whether preferto have you ask be thirsty;or, that it drink because are men as you are do not on the love nature, advised I have as going to what tell over Pooh! I cated. intoxidivest libertyto mechanical the to romancers, loss to who talk man, who great is which feels less than any he finds pleasure in showing to know that he it with such admirers spoiled by of honor so delicate treatment, with they He it still he an a man rejoices of sive exces- He more. idol of acquires it, and the habit. sentiments, noble great and of Such it a point by prudes, make their passion. By force of spiritualize romances to that often consider capable makes he is in he consolation, but of heart in the occasion his tears. softens this sorrow, offers it incense a possesses and emotion, him. would. fashion friends his to he believes on are you sufficient not in that the need one not ciples, great prin- when sorrow nothing : say your feelingsto stop show to has accident, which or great, but with man a it,only do going are that me his bound honor and a amusement. an again me regard those light as the same All one become take to you you overwhelm to control feeds give ancient our passion,only a you and a to yourself by speculatingand meditating greater or less advantages in loving. Take I understand of bad ruin let it be the could as to at not or good who appetitebelonging an part of your it is forbidden be there Inasmuch yourselfof L'ENCLOS de or they become it to be it, as they deem fear nothing so all the much 150 as more their own the shame ated infatu- work, of re- LIFE turning Let to us common take resuming their and sense good ridiculous LETTERS AND Marquis, not care, in this way. This make to fashion hood. man- selves our- of straining in the age in is nothing more, intelligence which are we living,than playing the part of fools. In former times people took it into their heads that love should be something grave, they considered it a serious matter, and esteemed it only in proportion to its dignity. Imagine exacting dignity from a child ! Away would go all its graces, and its youth would become How I pity converted into old age. soon with them ! What our was a mortal good ancestors weariness, a melancholy frenzy, is with us a gay Fools that they were, folly,a delicious delirium. they preferred the horrors of deserts and rocks, to with flowers. the pleasures of a garden strewn What prejudices the habit of reflection has brought our us! upon proof that great sentiments are nothing but chimeras of pride and prejudice,is,that in our day, we no longer witness that taste for ancient mystic The I will believed go be the disappear, and men like for of those old natural most will stand and soon amazed they possessed a sort in realitynothing but trifles which the ever changing fashions. ideas are to fashioned gigantic the most ions, firmly established opinfurther, deride the feelings that are gallantry,no more passions. Ridicule You which will understand, necessary to acquire the to of both will see that idolatry, pass away then, Marquis, that it is habit of 151 not deifyingthe fancy NINON last,that love should fostered be Nothing I adventure, your last understand you blues, mark know, will at for I believe high your what to clearlythe more than tellingyou, am with You and to make worthy of the name, being treated as a serious affair, and above allwith lightly, gayety. in the world woman You, the make can of what truth be to far from happy, us Countess. for the entertain you L'ENCLOS de the result Countess the harbor a be the to sorrowful sentiments will of sion. pas- give her I tell you. My indispositioncontinues, and I would feel like tellingyou that I never go out during the day, but rendezvous? would that be giving you not a If, and give me however, you should come ion opinyour of the "Bajazet" of Racine, you would be very kind. They say that the Champmesle has surpassed herself. read I have it contains I recognize the Judge it It is puts even of it goes those upon quite strange, should be assume a treated serious that with of out me fact that truth much how this letter,Marquis, and over who is a 152 you. contagiousdisease. aim to to levity,it tone. with humor into love, since in order the lecture was you undeceive prove that necessary stow beyou. love to NINON in but that manner a I of what L'ENCLOS de will best ajjout to am tribune ; I feel the presence I rub me. who to forehead my meditates accord I say. of the with with air of profound truths, and going great thoughts. I am utter to who on portance imthe mount who god the the to inspires a person is going reason cording ac- rule. by what caprice,have attached shame to the indulgence of that reciprocalinclination which both sexes. has bestowed nature They upon knew, however, that they could not entirely stifle its voice, so what did they do to relieve themselves stitute of their embarrassment? They attempted to subshell of an affection wholly spiritual the mere for the humiliating necessity of appearing in good faith to satisfy a natural want. Insensibly, they I know Men, have not accustomed grown that not were establishingthe the the work it the into At a the of in sories, acces- imagination, constitute There least at virtue. a frivolous if as you they But have let love are; us given break prestige and cite an example. beginning of their intercourse, lovers fancy inspiredby the noblest and most delicate They sentiments. the metaphysics ; them exhaust enthusiasm they are that their love follow virtue; it,and this themselves idea fine appearance through heated of the inclination. essence erected a thousand at last succeeded belief that all these of a with nothings connected enough, they have little sublime with meddle to is their of ingenuity, exaggerations, the most exquisite intoxicated a for a time with superiorarticle. in their liaison: 154 Nature But let the us quickly re- AND LIFE her covers LETTERS rights and vanity, gorged with the leaves the heart purpose, its sentiments with her re-assumes soon, sway; display of an exaggerated at liberty to feel and press exfied dissatis- restraint,and without when pleasuresof love, the day comes these people are very much selves, surprisedto find themafter having traveled around a long circuit, at the very point where a peasant, acting according to nature, would have begun. And thereby hangs a the tale. A certain Honesta, to in whose theory I "What You who in exclaimed furious. tion, transport of indigna- a that pretend, Madame, you only possesses the day upholding one was fictitious name, a just been maintaining,became who one as have !" she "do I presence give her honest a virtuous son, per- intentions,such marriage, is actuated by such vulgar motives? would believe,in that case, that I, for instance, 'par vertu,' have been married three times, and who, to have a subdue what be much very to them that call only acted pleasure? Truly you mistaken. duties fulfill the Indeed, of my men thus state, but I to would have never to I fused re- assure greater part of the time, I yielded to the with wished never I only through complaisance, or always love you have that separate apartment, procure you husbands, my regret and a distraction, importunitiesof men. them because they have at the marry as We tain cer- qualitiesof mind and heart; and no woman, I do not with the exception of those, perhaps, whom attaches any importance to other to name, care even advantages " 155 NINON taste, carried good proof of new "The the her I made of and interrupted her, I through more that see what draw you from marriage," said I, "prove them, fend perhaps, only, the to that end same in better even they its to argument malice than clusion. logicalcon- she said a was contention: my reasons L'ENCLOS de wish the legitimateviews that as those extra hold ordinary lovers, two faith, with an who this difference ceremony attached it." to This shot roused indignationof my adversary. said she, moving join impiety to libertinage," "You from away I took the me. libertyof making some investigations, and would This prude so you believe it,Marquis? refined, had such frequent 'distractions' with her and vigorous, three husbands, all young who were that the she buried Come them Marquis, now, chimera, your in correct who to it is. the knows love a woman will be much your human sentiment for what it is. more de la heart for love of mistaken." 156 abandon error; of dangerous the idea you Believe time. short delicacy reserve sublime more very retract friendship; accept love dignity you give it,the it ; the a form of The more you make it,the less Rochefoucauld, well: for "If you a man expect herself,"says he, "you X The Sensation of Love Forms Woman's she she now not reassure that think would you talk you to do not will you I have been The telling long passion as boldness its the hope mere at ask nothing, for to To ask If you When fault will cloud me liberty at your to if you in portion pro- disappear, of what favor innocent most for or obtain another, slight you and 157 a even to, ; you favor, a slight favor, yet, you first you that a obliged to of account on of crime At herself believes this is as degree lead caress. so with that ultimately smallest least, at or are, reached will the it, delighted modesty. never the to affair, but you yet conscientiously woman grant not progress tremble favor a does you you. has of told feel as severe as surprise the truth blooded cold more the with perceive I own your alarmed entirely. It is not you. refinement it them advance, you a ing mak- principles. fashion, that clearly into see as and in me the I have my condemn I believe that say doubting been be esteem even has certainly always All You with stop will you. you. you dared to lover, have a she appears virtue, and her in expects You you. Countess the about you of Nature commentaries TE Part Large a you while your protest making NINON L'ENCLOS de more. you are preparing to exact your protestations, She becomes accustome^l to it and permits further which trifling, that she would But, from with the favor considerable obtained A the first day. does graduated mistress of man, intimacy certain her She strength when is proposed little things which she favors so of resistance power proportion with same will be entirelyupon few a where She unimportant her which She travels a the long that she has the to possess importance to of She grant. way in the relies favors final on can by to with her far the lead her. her very the road of granting Here rashness contemplate cause power her without is she tions sugges- seduction. ing perceiv- ing singlestep. If upon lookback along the route, she is surprised at having yielded so much, her lover will be no less surprised at moved how to see imagination are within will increase experiments she is imprudent, for accustoms much are ger virtue, that she challenges dan- her of resistance ; she wishes of the called upon by courtingit. much so something of a graver character It is just this way : she flatters her. that her herself the to being are is on tion, discre- your frailties scale. very obtained by exacted, appear to her to be so of refusal,that she expects her power same be of compared that first at him. to when with the herself, and with appears re-assured woman, if she day before, becomes the compared a upon other day perceive that not importance any one on when little result,what the little consequence so so of slightestterms judge to of it from endure the on were be to seems having obtained so a much. 158 LIFE is not of a always I in her been suspected years of married for her be cited as One day to knew who, woman, with of any everybody, affair of the life had example persuaded bring about the am a manner husband, an I necessary woman. amiable LETTERS still further. I go But AND not and to love downfall although had heart. diminished their that her happy union never Fifteen ness tendercould imitate. place,her friends amused themselves late that they were constrained to so remain all night. In the morning, her at her house servants happening to be occupied with her guests, she was alone in her apartment engaged in making her toilet. A man whom she knew quite well, but without who social position,dropped in for a was short visit and to pass the compliments of the day. Some perplexity in her toilette,induced him to offer his services. The neglige dress she wore, naturally him an opportunity to compliment her upon gave her undiminished Of course charms. she protested, but unmerited. laughingly, claiming they were However, one thing followed another, they became trifle sentimental, a few familiarities which a they did not at first deem of any consequence, developed into something more unable to decided, until, finally, the woman both overcome, resist, they were being in the nature culpable,for she regarded his advances What their emof a joke and let them barrassment run on. was after such a slip? They have never how since been able to understand they could have ventured so* far without having had the slightest intention of so doing. at her country 159 NINON I tempted am who this at there the most virtuous for this Oh, you mortals ble your virtue,trem- here: reliance upon Whatever example! strength, is the part of her when is, in Her nature. The feeble. most for love desire The your unfortunately,moments are, is, that phenomenon watch; always aiming the be may reason is always nature strange on ends. exclaim to much place too L'ENCLOS de attain to is virtue large a woman, a her but nothing a piece of patchwork. homilies The in such actually sincere, although maintain expects to and delicate. so that Marquis, is exterior but of fact this female their woman herself in well if she severe so mind, your metaphysicians are from nature deludes other acts, and austere, more will you not Their women. their morals be may a cases, end, sentiments the imposing, more their those the these inquire into that to Fix in their different she but always exaggerates, Countess estimable of your discover affairs heart less women as always finish the same refined. They are a speciesof "overnice," forming class a of their own, I as Queen Christine of Sweden, one day: "They the Jansenists of love." (Puritans.) are should be on You guard, Marquis, against your have the chapter of to say on everything women gallantry. All the fine systems of which they make such a pompous sions, display, are nothing but vain illu- told which they utilize easilydeceived. In the all this rubbish of stilted which he mocks, and to eyes astonish of a phrases which 160 does those clear is but not who are sighted man, a parade prevent at him XI Distinction The WAS I delighted you preaching why? proof of which not me believe, Tell the and would senses, that that form, respect every who a of her of her mother instead? of age, Why her advances role with Why do to you Does uneasy her when esteem that her why for them so other them diminish 162 in sidering con- you, ing glow- mind alone see and such a of with much men? least that one ored enam- hundred would the in more become a of such still not play with from shows and who you she in You and work enchant neglect you, the me plainness, desire you distinguished by you ; heart. your worth Countess. the than have pleasure heart fifty is of woman placency com- a would not to ture pic- sentiments which eyes qualities of it is her day, make same be you, with in much so once You you were been for your as describe you If the colors? that those Ah! down love take you which mouth seduce if your : flown think you have I Countess that high as what Do ing speak- me metaphysics. of the so gives days. demonstrates frankly me of latter all your altogether are it truth charms the me letter, Marquis. Because these you Friendship and your the forgotten to Love with know to have you Between men wo- her merit, enact the the ess? Count- passion Why to are courtesy? which she LIFE AND LETTERS pretends for you? Are rivalries and jealousies I have recognized in metaphysics? I believe not. such things in them ; I friends and I do not observe in my heart when feel none own they love other women. Friendship is a with the ; the senses of it, and which sentiment the alone soul soul difference and that between which confess, that you if it soul whom of the time. you desire which offers itself to heart, I am not same will perceivethe governs a so pare Com- lover. a friend, You unreasonable will as first thought, and that it might be very well should happen that in love, you might have a as worldly as that of a good many people, it pleases you ment. of very little refineto accuse at I do not trial. I would are at a its value nothing loses by giving itself up to several at friendshipwith love, and nothing to do receives the impression has am be not wish, however, frank, and I am honest, they would a bit more refined alone bring men quite sure that if women to soon confess than men. to that they Indeed, if in love only the pleasures of the soul, if they saw they hoped to please only by their mental plishments accomand their good character, honestly,now, would with such particular they apply themselves of their person? What to pleaseby the charms care is a beautiful skin to the soul ; an elegant figure; a well What contradictions between shaped arm? their real sentiments and those they exhibit on will be convinced at them, and parade ! Look you that they have intention of making themselves no 163 NINON L'ENCLOS de except by their sensual valued attractions,and that everything else as nothing. Listen to will be tempted to believe that it is not them: you the least. I they consider worldly things which I deserve credit for trying to dispel your erthink ror in this respect, and ought I not to expect everything from the care they will take to undeceive you themselves? Perhaps they will succeed only too they count easilyin expressing those I you due am evening, going and miss de heard have to at hear sentiments to-day the Monsoreau will a fine de also company? 164 Raymond's and la be to me. de Camus two Mesdames such from Mademoiselle sing. to entirelycontrary Ytier who this are Sabliere, de Salins, there. Would you XII A Man take YOU things Already Oh! You have spoken notice is have has eight whole given you of days the of the last patience, have would had proclaim grand accomplished already late Celadon speak call etc. the Countess But by never believe Love is a what what veritable who experiences that the blind beloved sentiment a are the slightest Such thing are of to lose to time you continued had You eight days complaints your be heroine a beginning months. eight not begins sentiments. in after not can is length havior be- has she resistance the more in could seriously, if you noble and yourself, possible that suffer, if you to mistaking you, Countess The slept. not no attention imagine can you is not it long a But century. have Such probability. beyond you Marquis. condition. devoted Such heart, and Is hope? least to speak, your revenge. easily imagined. pass plainly, of Spectacle there eyes your taken for that love, true quite calls much too made been Amusing an nights two it that. is Love in to have than the However, to You just? ungrateful, insensible, disdainful, right do you told I have talk you thus is bound object acquired without 165 to her you times in even should Why pangs. Will hundred a caprice, involuntary, its ? you recompense connivance? ? one say a You consider You men. you queer, very are L'ENCLQS de NINON selves your- respond to the languishing looks you with eagerness deign Your revolted pride immediately her. to cast upon if it were her fault that her of injustice, as accuses tain obliged,at a ceryour head is turned ; as if she were because offended Tell afflicted with not to her ; I know will she sentiments feel,too has with inspireyou happiness, but of a and her enough. peace of mind, fail to and be very far, I do so serious think not she is give you plenty of retained. and As more, which Have it rises like you if you as the begins can attentive must you are to mistress be sumes as- it weaken; to ends in disdain directlyto disgust and inconstancy. found, perchance, everythingyou required martyrdom? over many vexations, how you. cause of your storms Marquis! What quarrels I foresee! What forget this: is the who Poor blow not you; tyrant, and a An she leads in the littlemistress do exercise. soon the role of lover, love does ceptible sus- attachment. would caressingwoman weary in a militaryfashion, handled amused I believe everything to subjugate you, with the taste I hope will be for Vivacious, inconsistent,positive,decided, not haps Per- desires. your to malady your her you in her to your for soon is she as soon accuse seductive are you you, to as communicate to try commensurate she and delirium same you. as responsible if Cease, then, begin to rave? complain, and to the not disease same Countess is the this: me the seized with to be stage, does woman a many So will How threats to leave her ! But much 166 ous dolor- emotion will become AND LIFE LETTERS your punishment,if you treat love after the manner and you will meet of a hero of romance, a fate the contrary if you treat it like a tirely en- reasonable man. ments ought I to continue to write you? The moletters will be so employ to read my you But stolen many from like to be should for more a a witness sober-minded amusing Great love. than of your person, Heavens! situations ! is there the contortions love? 167 how of I deed, In- a cle specta- a man in XIII Is Vanity YOU what I cavalierly so wish You adventure your take my good of way I frivolous, or affair which will on see pity to want whether imagination, you refer recipe my to You say men a has and all based good by this woman's designs on she cause of the Countess the the trait. lips leads upon them. be of a smallest them into did say, make But to word the at her the was I that has it in friends. her. belief the tures conjec- them, to to : your of of pain a think not not trick surprised Everything 168 letter your fancy an do it good. indiscretions you to you succeed, To you about The to you what taking your appears more as to spoke a find be yourself upon By will paragraph I not. or pleasure. you According are main now are you of earnest. The what a second the coldness pitied become may of use be to are to comes tone. depends it ciples? prin- my happiness, appropriate an because you, you your to on lasting a that believe it When shall see with I sider con- I but not you thing a amusing. depends take me of lightly to thing, Do so. tion? condi- your means is consistent you simply all by with Marquis, about serious a do to treating speak for Love said me as not care Soil satisfied^ then., not are Fertile a know escapes that seme she ref- NINON de L'ENCLOS bravely deceived. Like lieve those enthusiasts who, by force of imagination,bethey can reallysee the images they conjure up in their minds, we fancy that we can see in others have loved, and to be sentiments the Be desire to find there. we careful, then, Marquis, blinded by false notion. a spoken well of you without you justice, And should of their hide does with not Countess The sole the are toward you, their love the bad use them justify you if you in make so 170 when regard. inspiration? Are not women carefully their sentiments not of intention have her doing any you After pect sus- all, source in the from ther. far- dissemble the are of the doing? have may object wrong insincerityin your not prefer to you yourselfbe let to carrying her you sure sentiments her to be of her why are we you, right and certaintyof XIV Worth and NO, Merit Marquis, Sevigne the letters she doubt, the frivolous am very the one much has of the to never and her will influence my enough to I talk am sure relates heart? will, to myself for not judge not am of me will sophic philo- am securing without me shall I happen, tinue con- frankness, ordinary Sevigne, in spite de heart, be of my more I come Now, show. just than speak I my I so to of ion opinwhat you. think I at for you. with her of Ninon for may not am injustice her lantry, gal- knows believe not people who to of now I her, does Madame that cares of But console you Marquis, Well, you to mind, she to she Whatever to than that of me. refined had wished she idea another friendship commendation I trary, con- Without that and de the question a know imagined, fact she profit ; also heretofore On me. were my Love Madame me. from advantage. my knowing to hereafter she ignorant the form to be in of that glad if it that only she offended receive She as curiosity not thought contrary. enough the you it could Considered Not has I see Are have you am of after at infinite last glad of it; but the care softened I laugh sentiments. Countess' 171 and at trouble, that stony your pretation inter- You share NINON all with a men L'ENCLOS de common it is necessary which error it may be to you to flattering foster it. You believe,every one of you, that it is worth alone that kindles passion in the heart your and that qualities of women, of heart and mind are the causes What of the love they feel toward you. You a mistake! only think so, it is true, because pride finds satisfaction in the thought. But, your if you can do so without prejudice,inquireinto the to however remove, motives that actuate and you, will you ceive per- soon laboring under a delusion, and ered, that that, everything well considyou; vanity and of ours; you are the dupe of your that the worth of the person loved is only an excuse which gives an occasion for love, and is not the real cause. play, byFinally,that all this sublime which is paraded on both sides, is a mere liminary preinto the desire to satisfythe which enters the prime exciting need I first indicated to you as of this passion. I tell you this is a hard and cause the less certain. humiliating truth, but it is none with this necessityof the world We enter women in preference loving undefined, and if we take one man to another, let us say so honestly,we yieldless that you deceive we are stinct inknowledge of merit than to a mechanical is nearly always blind. which For proof of this I need only refer to the foolish cated intoxibecome passions with which we sometimes to the for strangers, we not are selection from the or at least for men acquainted, to sufficiently of them from beginning; the odium in which 172 case of with whom relieve our imprudence if there is a AND LIFE mutual well, it is pure response, always forming attachments hence love to I not am of food of a than worthiness of the honor: much because woman, for let opinion us I comparing feels for another, without am self your cruel very to love, but I flattered by the are You loved. do rather, that you say are believe it implies the you object in sometimes being able to give the reason. thus dissipatethe phantoms of am tellingyou the truth. You love We sufficient circumspecti wrong one rather chance. without appetite which an kind one LETTERS her too have too of that it is yourself. Understand love you, to speak with sincerity, not for yourself that we seek. it is our own happiness we Caprice, fects interest,vanity,disposition,the uneasiness that afhearts- when our they are unoccupied, these good an the are of the sources deify! It they enter us wish we great qualitiesthat affect is not for great sentiment anything into in your the favor, it is which reasons if us; mine deter- which the heart not to ceives re- impression,it is vanity; and the greater which please us, very part of the things in you often makes you ridiculous or contemptible. the will you But, what who we entertain can need need one rather than not choose be the repeat Poor : another him. In a objects of You dupes ! think You ; we to our presents us with do accept him, but we believe yourselves disinterested love you women are admirer perfections; will submit who word, you our our an Chance ! man a need ideas of with us obligingperson an caprices; we to We have? only the 173 affection. I for yourselves. instruments of their NINON pleasures,the sport of do L'ENCLOS de their justicefit women caprices. I is not with just enumerated sentiments which I develop in their minds, faith in the world, and be this a and here not are contrary, with what are for the well only by theirs enced influ- crying injusticeto grand ideas which nourished. It would the has fined de- the best imagine themselves women actuated vanity your the on that you their consent, I have ever, how- must, accuse them of deceit in of it, they being aware deceive themselves, and you are equally deceived. You of the that I am see revealing the secrets good goddess. Judge of my friendship,since, at the expense of my own sex, I labor to enlighten you. respect; but, without The better they will you lead you know to commit. 174 the fewer women, . lies fol- XV The Hidden Motives Marquis, I REALLY, do truths. mania for better than I any one else the most than spite of I me. feel again to-day, and broadside the give to So to make bad me Marquis, the ideas, to taken an if I is me to prepare making dure en- ready gayety. more you of exception. I am please on You in furnished with earth do who last my greeable disa- know, not you may because you, expressed Besides, thinks the woman? a seriously, very manner my it I sex my being however, wish, as utter? evil of women, most I that to in upon anything. back fault it my truths of more everything am promise much as I know letter. take opinion Is letter. I my conversation, to you I of are philosophy morality your not on war the of answer will I of tifying mor- things. through ask Hereafter, you. now No, I must as sweep rid get reasonable fit of a seems to pleasant lies that guage lan- substitute and considered disposition breaks my than however, must, It you. letters my illusions saying deeply agreeable but in agreeable your away aim other no how serious the to write I sometimes if I had understand not submit meekly can you Love of expressing am 175 neither to justify which envious you nor the have un- NINON just. rather I Because than L'ENCLOS happened yours, intention my de must you underrate to understand mention to own my I women. it is that imagine not sex hoped to make that, without being more culpable than men, they are more dangerous because they accustomed are more timents. successfullyto hide their senIn effect,you will confess the object of than they will acknowledge theirs. your love sooner when that their affecHowever, tion they assure you for you has no other source than a knowledge of your merit and of your I am good qualities, suaded perthat they are I do not sincere. doubt even that when they realize that their style of thought is becoming less refined,they do everything in their you hide to power the motives, about in the are bottom the none have fact themselves. which I have been of their hearts just the less the for you, from true whatever and the tellingyou, efforts are They same. of the causes But likingthey they make may that the causes persuade themselves are wholly their desire changes nothing in the nature spiritual, of things. They hide this deformity with as much conceal teeth that might disfigas care they would ure to an when otherwise alone mouth, true would as well as much with and colors. you women The of a that were world such afraid of habit forgetting all it is not In be force by others I agree if men so, in succeed that they and from perfect face. to even their open in from it about case, fect hiding this dethemselves, they in considering or defect. you to show has 176 would lose themselves agreed to much too play in their a com- NINON will discover you you; woman your eyes he will use te you its so are enigma. of all the the motives still more the rouse humiliatingto jealousy of some will he cultivate really loves, and friendshipmerely to distinguishhimself in her I can how not tell you by rejectingyou. many insolvable know L'ENCLOS he motives, there an de known workings ; The many. It is a human whimsical contrarieties. we their see If it expresses heart tion combinathink We effects ; is we we ignore its sentiments sincerely, that sincerityis not reassuring. Perhaps its even movements spring from causes entirelycontrary to those we imagine we feel to be the real ones. But, after all,people have adopted the best plan, that is, to explain everything to their advantage, and to themselves in imagination for their real compensate cause. miseries, and themselves, accustom as I think have I already said, to deifying all their sentiments. Inasmuch as everybody finds in that the summit of his vanity, nobody has ever ing thought of reformthe custom, of examining it to see whether it or is a mistake. Adieu; will find you it you me with desire to those come whose for this serious this gayety discourse. 178 evening you will compensate XVI How what IS the I You you. are those affect quality might heart the Believe world. things spin them is not there women: little through lose Men of one handling rough impression upon your to but the the the with other of ways the such sentiments; does let behalf on you much too tack at- Celadons, who us This must you world tell blundering timid. are to I perfection. out But talk, beautiful sublime as you. knows leave know impress of and me, I with you woman a think even, bourgeoise, Countess The weapons. a of an that a I riddle. the not made noticed have I heart, of do they flippant attentions your playful, conceited have what, grieves you? secret as who The receives which gay, long as women with the guessed obdurate? she indifference an have which in Love possible, Marquis, me continues Countess manner reveals write you in Victorious Be to of prefer not consideration. hearts more than tue vir- saves. The timidity more more it more respect respect say to us to have concerns we you to too has for so much very of to Do 179 him goad We would pity's virtuous; it. with resistance, our in "Ah, men: shows him. of demand be pride our he lover a not you put are so the on; the the more willingly do name us not pose sup- forcing us high a price NINON When treat defeat our difficult. Accustom something by degrees were L'ENCLOS do not conquest; your upon de seeing you to if it tion imagina- our doubt as ence." indiffer- our be perlover, although he may suaded of our eration gratitude,treat us with the considdemanded by our vanity, we shall conclude without of it,that he will always be being aware the a although same, From see we of sure that moment, inclination our confidence what will he not What if he But be not a pride ; and in flattering progress may notifies us to be always it is not then hearts our battle to What women. not on our make? guard, virtue, but our preserve be to enemy is there more he spire? in- shall defend; it will we that is the worst for him. to tell our conquered you? We continuallystrugglingto hide the fact that we have loved. Put be to a permitted ourselves in a position to say that she has yielded woman only to a species of violence, or to surprise; persuade are her that you for her answer You must the is requires;she lead must even let her that other men, see yourself in be as her Countess lively,and follies you Fix her, and I will heart. manage and undervalue do not her as her playful,and to love. ter charac- by Do fling trinot distinguishes you from playfulas she is light hearted. without heart giving her any she will love She you "warning of your intention. without day she will be very knowing it,and some much astonished at having made headway so much without really suspectingit. 180 XVII Understand Women Love the Difference and Flirtation Marquis, PERHAPS, the to more cruel cause of your of cause laugh anxieties, it something them. at Oh, seriously enough, I declaration wicked she do gaily of to a but gallant speeches certain Chevalier, mask, far I answer The you, ought from take drives and beautiful. with If you subject. and " speaks she tone, you, she you air. the then to the make replies All you despair. to of absence all being indifferent. 181 this mind nonchalance you tender a she feel But at with perhaps or bles trou- you, Poor quis! Mar- which true she on that lack a tionate affec- is love, heart your comb, cox- and puts plies re- sation conver- and intimidates that you, bold flippantly, this and willingly seriously on spite of in professional a is she again, and a occasion? world listens She risk takes every the in woman barrassment em- your who on am desire Really, why and affected, I troubles your woman it but and me. a is the great a more, the to preoccupied changes to please her. to to avoiding unmindful all you and love appears most do great in pleasure Now, the of into enter not can appears a I She is true, I feel worse; still me Countess. the Real think will you than Between of fects af- for she a is bold- NINON ness, the such a in her part would both at who ready al- she should member re- you like act not can your told you may and not on Do ease. your in love man stacles raise ob- boldness de la Rochefoucauld M. he but which it is you little more A path. reasonable "A interest follow condition, all this intimidates put you what she feels must the yours* herself,and countess : as in your takes the which consequences passion L'ENCLOS de ly lateman, mad- a like act an idiot." Besides, when with the compare you the free and Chevalier; when almost indecent draw you respect and your from teem es- of manner it the sion conclu- preferyou to him, you do not how The know Chevalier incorrectly you argue. is nothing but a gallant,and what he says is not worth considering,or at least appears so. Frivolity alone, the habit of romancing to all the pretty that she should he women for counts finds in his way, nothing, or the discourse in is heart a in all little, least for very at Love in to tell the a more man the of the word, worn go and Like talk. he hovers only a butterfly, An each flower. moment over amusing episode is his only object. So much frivolityis not capable fling She is delightedat the triof alarming a woman. danger she incurs in listeningto such a man. knows well how Countess to appreciate The very his liaisons. him makes him she knows out. for Chevalier; and to who, Women, metaphysics, difference between like you. But you 183 to be say a whose man hear thing every- them admirably know a to lover will talk, how of his class always be more LIFE formidable of and AND LETTERS dreaded to be more by your manner making yourselffelt. You boast of your respectfulesteem, but I reply that it is nothing of the kind, and the Countess knows to me it well. Nothing with ends so little respect passion like yours. Quite different from the Chevalier, you require recognition,preference, sacrifices. Countess The acknowledgment, even all these pretensionsat a glance,or at least,if sees in the cloud which stillenvelops them, she does not distinguishthem clearly,nature gives her a presentiment a as of what the the cost will be if she allows you least opportunity to instruct her in a passion which she doubtless already shares. Women rarely which inquire into the reasons impel them to give themselves amuse up or to resist ; they do not even themselves or by trying to understand explain with them, but they have feelings,and sentiment them is correct, it takes the place of intelligence and reflection. them in perhaps case as Your It is a sort of instinct which danger, and which surely as does the most of beautiful leads warns them aright son. enlightenedreawishes Adelaide to enjoy an This plan is very she can. interests,and yet I am fully incognito as long as congenial to her real persuaded that it is not the work of reflection. She it only from the point of view of a passion,outwardly sees constrained, making stronger impressions and still greater progress inwardly. Let it have an opportunity to take deep root, and give to this fire she which tries to hide, time you wish to confine 183 to it. consume the heart in NINON You also admit, must in yourself thought two does, On the on the the other Countess Chevalier to see the heart You than the that the without are inattentive and deceive you more figurethat hand, you air, indifferent that calculation. your contrary you them begrudge you in ways. of speeches while Marquis, respected the you Chevalier L'ENCLOS de effect, of your her lant gal- ty. beau- pied preoccu- manner are ceive proofs or forewarnings of your unhappiness. Undeis no more certain proof of yourself. There it. In a to hide a passion than the efforts made the Countess ever treats word, when kindly,whatyou proofs you may give her of your affection, when she sees without alarm the point of on you confessing your love, I tell you that her heart is caught; she loves you, on my word. By the way, I forgot to reply to that part of your letter concerning myself. Yes, Marquis, I constantly follow the method which I prescribed at the commencement of our correspondence. There few are in my matters letters that I have not used in my social reunions. subjects of conversation I rarely suggest ideas of any importance to you, without having taken the opinions of my friends on their verity. Sometimes it is Monsieur de la Bruas yere, sometimes whom I 1'Abbe de Chateauneuf. Monsieur consult; another faith, Marquis, for I good I write you, but it only to the people Apropos of men of de time You Saint-Evremond it will be must Monsieur admire good my credit of the might claim the I frankly avow that whom at I,receive you my distinguishedmerit, M. 184 owe house. de la XVIII When Woman a Is Loved She of HAVE I been the on After formal a read in as solemn be too which those force than if Avowals incumber always days. in mind, persuaded than costing ; that she she if you as so you take is A vanced ad- avowals the women. themselves, and several ulous neb- progress. Bear this is much woman loved by what better she anxiety; easy. him declaration the made much with its out with- that guesses is told. had things herself retard Marquis: what by Act They acquire with passion a I told as by worry in were farther be mances, ro- would will see, will useless old our alone; will should because That frightened insisted be courtship lighted, you were absolutely which fire love, you you fathers our let it me, day, and you in tribunals? the letter, the said in make to it things proceedings of every Can and continue. you necessary love? Believe last my having well the which it such about as greater which deem of Told in, Marquis, are in you technical. in you do Be reflections new some you declaration have you in embarrassment all, why Not It engaged condition the on Need The in 186 or way your imitate the which the lier Cheva- Countess presence is seems ducts con- to LIFE be law a LETTERS AND in your estimation. With spection circumyour and pretended respect, you present the appearance of a man who meditates an important design, of in word, who contemplates a exterior is disquietingto a woman step. Your wrong the consequences who knows of a passionsuch that as long as you let it apRemember as yours. pear that you are tack, making preparationsfor an atof heard ever a in war, skillfulgeneral,who a the does his owes meet is the disclose happy. the combat have extent is over, declared Follow to and war. Hide oppose a to prise sur- In love as victor whether skill? He example and has are. you quered, con- fied, gratiwill do not progress; designs until it is no your of your In you the enemy to his desires his the the or the crown, fate. longer possible force to success intends design ask ever Have descend? is to one any same his storm he receives he defensive. the on citadel, announce whom upon a will find her you he man, a your success, until the victorygained before word, imitate those people whose designs are not the ravaged country through passed. 187 known which you like war- except by they have XIX Why Lover's a treated better and told, are you friendship. The revolting the to gives liere Mais voudrait pour elle Qui Et qui Belise But Who she Oh, even you lover assumed by You should the advice same so simple is you never rel quar- under de Madame la any Sab- madrigal: following fidele, ami soins des wanted her her elle, pour que sighed a rempressement, belle. hait lover de et bon, tenez ne a reasonable, to is my would you more la trouvat cuddle would And cut Tamour for believe sentiments it the parole Belise of qui soupirez ma de your un meme Amants, Sur limit sacred point d'amant, veut ne were the in you Belise if you when you and love, hold However, time? Countess. follow and name, Will sionately dispas- to your lovers love. name quality over protest you always another predictions listened everything by will you Untrustworthy are you when swear be Are last, Marquis, AT that Vows faithful up beauty and le not, friend, care 188 for her defend. sighs lovers, whose nom. I commend, lot, LIFE LETTERS AND f'Pon, word, hold my What fast to of love Belise hates is such only the game, name. grieved by the injurious doubts cast believed disYou are jpon your sincerityand constancy. false and perjured,and because all men are How because they are inconstant, love is withheld. But are you fortunate her you heart, if she expects own She value true a is very for the her, but friends have of are men affected much Do talk the on persuade to indifference in that fashion! place knows littlethe Countess How are! the by warnings convinced to giving you? hibit passion you exof her sorrows the I dot not generally false. me is and that her wish you she of her you protestations conceive any lingly, wilinjusticein this, for I, who do not flatter men am persuaded that they are usually sincere of a such occasions. amorous on They become that is they experience the desire of possession. woman, The enchanting image of that possession bewitches them; they calculate that the delights end ; they do not imagwith it will never connected ine the that weaken the die out; or them. to their to love us them consumes such they Hence world upon fire which a thing swear with always; sinceritywould be and seems the to can ever impossible faith in best cast a a inflicting doubt mortal injury. promises than they can keep. They do not perceive that their heart has not always to hold the enough energy to love without knowing same object. They cease why. They are good enough to be scrupulous over But the poor fellows make 189 more NINON de L'ENCLOS Long after love has fled they continue to insist "that they still love. They and after having themselves to no exert purpose, tormented themselves as long as they can bear it, and become stant inconthey surrender to dissatisfaction, with much as good faith as they possessed when be forever they protested that they would constant. plain. Nothing is simpler and easier to exThe fermentation of a budding love, excited that seduced the charm in their heart them; by and by, the enchantment is dispelled,and nonchalance what With follows. can they be charged? Dear me, They counted upon keeping their vows. what is lacktoo happy with how many ing, women are since men give them a free rein to their lightness! this may However up coldness. growing their to you the inconstancy that you Ready be may able for reasons be, the Countess are to yield to reassure no better to you, does offer her and equals; she than all other prehends apers. lov- littje you however sincere. offend not saying? It enchants her. by it,that her sole fear is Dissipate her alarms, show you charged her, she is trying to find believing you protest for her of your has of which She The her. is so love What much you am I flattered that it may be true. not her that the happiness she knows the price,is imaginary happiness. Go farther; persuade her that she will enjoy it forever, and her resistance will vanish, and she will will disappear, her doubts seize upon everything that will destroy her suspicions and uncertainty.She would have alreadybenot an 190 LIFE AND LETTERS have resolved already she would yield to the pleasure of being loved, if she had herself really loved, and that it would lieved you; to lieved belast forever. maladroit How their fears and by constancy of men, women if they are their doubts they can of the make any imagine that sincerityand believe one they are fleeingfrom love, or despise it! As soon as they fear they will be deceived in the enjoyment of its pleasures; when they fear they will not long enjoy it,they already know the charms of it,and the of anxiety then is,that they will be deprived only source of its enjoyment too soon. Forever haunted tion by this fear,and attacked by the powerful inclinatoward pleasure, they hesitate, they tremble with the apprehension that they will not be permitted to enjoy it but just long enough to make the privationof it more painful. Hence, Marquis, you who talks to may very easilyconjecture a woman does the Countess, using this language: as you "I can imagine all the delights of love. The idea I have formed of it is quite seductive. Do you think that deep in my heart I desire to enjoy its charms less than you? But the more its image is I fear it is ravishing to my imagination,the more not real, and I refuse to yieldto it lest my happiness be too soon destroyed. Ah, if I could only hope that my happiness might endure, how feeble would be my resistance? Will had that day too very you much But will you not abuse day punish confidence in you? not far off? some me dulity? cre- for having At Ah, if I could hope 191 my least is to gather NINON perpetuallythe of we my repose would soon de L'ENCLOS fruits of the for your sacrifice I Sake, I confess be in accord." 192 am it making frankly, NINON love lead to her L'ENCLOS de to understand the of your excess passion. Give her something to be anxious about ; compel her to take heed lest she lose you, by giving her opportunitiesto think that she may. is There woman no on than goods who is Like too overcharge in her lierly cava- that your for whose anxiety to an with you imprudent vivacity; manifest more great Moderate, consequences. will excite more you merchant a manifested will acquire,she will treat absolutelycertain fail her. have you to who one will not love earth little regard as therefore, your less passion and heart. We do you appreciate not than when the on we are prize more of regulation in matters point of losing it. Some love are indispensable for the happiness of both in advising you even justified parties. I think I am certain occasions to be a trifle unprincipled. On on all other occasions, though, it is better to be a dupe than a knave; but in affairs of gallantry,it is only the fools who are the dupes, and knaves always the laugh on their side. Adieu. have the worth of I have a conscience the not of consolation. word redoubtable heart in rest Do I peace. be not is I have desire to flatter you, no to are and had what making say, that young, you any woman you play are love are affairs. will not with The it the to has Chevalier appreciatethese 194 he. in the debut who worry than your cunning gives me more your man him but worth making regarded as a you are a that a ever How- Chevalier, let suspect Countess without you discouraged. the be may leave to never has you. ure pleasYou world, yet lived; differences? XXI The in love, PROBITY think such of drowned show You I do have advised Well, ! honor, but play is and of humor inexperience inflexible condition ruin, if you them into not have with accord now Everything his wear is show up the nobody truth to farce. gain can about for substitute phrases. in cases And of has age than more is made is is custom gallantry. 195 a a in cause a bring to One his in sleeve. onstrations airs, dem- playing edy, com- a for the keeping fact that telling the general agreement collection has an your times. reasons by sincerity this virtues on discovered There this the of the excellent anything women. of sentiments have They an intelligence Everybody had have men of affair like inevitably payment ; merly for- fortune your morals the signs. and will enough not dor, can- vanity. still leaves that you. Your your nothing now to manoeuvres say? treated a not dishonor corruption love Your can the like care the made you are good you then was nowadays, the of make, to love take can you undertake sentiments all that; changed Ah, it would one, to you high your any how know not thing? I shall to How Marquis? a man. letter your of Contrariness Comedy actual of proved trary contagious con- de NINON spite of In with is a sociable among of social affair. being more I think meaning concealed How I you. multiply proofs of the fear around. expose Let that her of that do more other any find not you position you Countess; greater in her worry will lose surest occupy in than care for her. yours is more turn you, ; and of her heart. her take you I better way 196 she she dissimulates certain yourself, the she It is the the am with treated. gallantryhas of occasions I understand affection for you you relations cess gains more by dissimulatingthe expassion, than another who pretends to than he really has? skillful than less of all the than many it is treason, or lover of his have irony as agree ness," "polite- called custom, far so the true need a fhat virtue to follow, and men, where unless pushed not will high principles,you your that me, L'ENCLOS the repeat; you will inspireher see findingout Adieu. to her be with come the true XXII and Vanity Self-Esteem SILENCE A to made successful? her be to for The sentiments the succeeded; have What can more right I Truly, ought heart consider reasonable a Ought precious to a delicate declaration? a Will Instead of point, expend your her love the you extent before of her you trying is to you affection for you. be to a minded energies affection. call her 197 give you? You calculated to revolt, than the stinacy ob- insist upon a to understand lover than know a in Act you. times thousand persecuting further character. men ever you What more I fail love. to and strange ordinary refusal her not been confession, woman their of declaration estimation. would a seem your want? a do Countess, her nothing which with the I you" possibly you that know to cause you her over of been confession love in know you What the have you then, dissatisfaction "I precious days has, make words: begin application your to You The you. is refusing fifteen penetrate counsel my however, something For earnest. congratulate desired. you of I approve, with in Love to days, Marquis. ten me worry you not of Obstacles a your more positive real terests? in- on such concealing from woman so attention that to she the will fact, NINON L'ENCLOS to resort her compelling proclaiming it. Is before the to necessity of tion possibleto experience a situaterested than that of seeing a heart indelicious more in you without suspicion,growing toward by degrees, finallybecoming affectionate? ments, a pleasure to enjoy secretly all her move- you What them, and has is what Believe that for you be had as open her. Of escaped "I love really loves that you Otherwise their but idea her conduct toward has done has the of her avowal love has truth, she not she it is because but refrained everything from to saying convince ordinary no embarrassment. for the very least, as much to confess anxious affection as you it, to ascertain are desire what do to not be criminal,that hence and eyes our may formed we to of genious in- certain a whatever our way always humiliates our experience, we consequences. frightensus, close avowal an all the are have may small for however of their passion, and avowal men you attached have raisingobstacles, any Women Marquis? expect, you thinking, such you" she defeat! essayed a you," she under are at shame before even of it. Women They she your if the said in words: you ten them, has- pleasure. Marquis, must victory have you I call me, Countess in the glory suspected That it direct her sentiments, augment to it. de The words is true, but find means to "I their of us, prehend com- love sequel dissimulate, the liabilities they carry with them. Besides this,be on your 198 guard ; your persistence LIFE in requiringan defy who the will find a in the motives true has Nature given a of in passion a one but meets nothing trifles,and Who the we pardon, when would at actual advantages. Will you believe me idle fancies, will drop your You certaintythat you woman ; to the of her love in the should extract from by "I an gain by it? Would Would love or ought They force make, you I think deceive the owe you I know by a are without not our those I delight an able ador- you end? avowal we utter, but knowledge. 199 those to I women, studied but you lipsonly pronounce, of a passion be the involuntary witness The them. from true, flatteringavowals the which never to would you," what uncertainty reach an whether can by when love complaisance? to. beloved are your know you believe tent pleasure of hiding the exherself, to rejoice in its security. of importunities you force taste Suppose our at sticks it? lies fol- things that have happiness. Your vanity your from enjoying prevents you revolt to with do to All intractable us own. your inspire us You capable, are find always all? them lovers you will self-esteem it? I enumerate can which you her. to stranger a of us woman Always indulgent toward have inspired,we effects produced by a love we ports; transimprudences, many pardon you many is how say hind be- her to discern without out grows I persevering vanity. instinct ; it enables whatever Countess, is the from mistake a insistence. your wonderful mistake than of love to you LETTERS avowal open work less the AND fession con- will you we that escape XXIII Two Irreconcilable WIUL have say, Countess, her with hand of everybody for you preference has for exposed her, always sister-in-law. her Dear terrible enough salvation of convincing forced to reveal always myself of woman of do the and : the having me in tradiction con- are ple sim- you beyond in the I am concerning owe promised burden so writing I of inwardly doing mysteries sex. my without you it to you, I ness, frank- acquit promise. is always passions mind for Marquise, that upon intend, not women, manifestation fact, and strange manded repri- lost suspect even the the are you tion atten- marked other What, impose apologizing however, A not some I are outward an You you But, women. be do justified? are you of you these calamities! because and anger, of that the your to railleries me, believe to and the kissed publicly offensive the to you You She indiscretion, your of anger attracted present. things imprudences, is extreme. that ecstasy ing laugh- take the you anxiety an for You Some upon your Women Marquis, me, heart. to drawn and in afflictions? your much too you pardon you at Passions desire to balancing which between continually please, 200 and the fear two agitate of concilable irreher dishonor. NINON proofs of her attachment. ungrateful, she becomes Can which indiscretions must the be first that See to such vex us We recommend on that for I am often law, is that soon you as to do me occasions to fail to will you be are would and be enact, we the that it. in accord with able to we would Not us. are to offend. reallyto and dence, pru- Is it to essary nec- play? the letter of the You our may be intentions interpret them 202 us, indulgence. part you understand your you is it not? accepting not wound practicediscretion to tell you reminded they misunderstand not is the role it is excessive an you If appearances, censure you this that us? to appearing tender. vex tribute pay fear of her In from draw not you L'ENCLOS de sure as properly. XXIV An Abuse she has precaution The nothing least excuse, her in share this that such behavior acts how their by badly thus for and when defeat. it in the long as Whenever of they lover Do gives cast have the continue finds 203 ation, dur- long value interests true incredulity, they a though al- consider who stand under- not the moment blow than to the upon inspired, world me But of always not at Permit affected compromises reputation a an they be their they eyes slightest imprudence their is delightful so women, them. doubt affection As of if you which tender The the harm more you, through that are reputation? of heart. slandering feel they my reasonable multiplying occasions all to ing. scold- reproaches it. misunderstand reputation, the is sion, pas- for deserve intended not your to flatters are to cause and put little however anger with joy your to ence prefer- her everything do you but you however, and lips, her; testify to in than Whatever for taken finds upon to have think You view in proof? manifested you Intolerable retreats? object the to have you she other no Is longer no love your that Credulity Countess THE die of does even incredulous them. They their cerity sinthem their the pose dis- retail. a woman incredulous NINON time every of his he has seem to he make Can attention of the as as soon the best of them use world other without to and woman of succeeding. means be calling the fact; without the casions giving them ocsharpest arrows? revenged by their the preliminariesare settled, that is to soon him whole offending every say, lengths, furnish proofs opportunity,to an full indiscreet eagerness, most sincerity. The marked tentions, atpreferences,the most assiduous the most As sentiments, he goes of his truth of the L'ENCLOS de we as to commence believe to ourselves the on sincerely loved, nothing appears surface, son, nothing happens ; and if outsiders perceive our liaiif they put a malicious construction it, upon it will only be by the recollection of what passed love was not in question. during a time when I would, for the good of everybody concerned, that as soon to find any pleasure as a woman ceases in the society of a man who wishes to please her, that she could tell him so clearly and dismiss him, without for vain a abusing his hopes. But is woman could to however, a an toward can lover he can point as avowal her not to the not I would that persuaded consent such credulity,or giving it in the may that she be deem feels further lover, as he is toward pretend to doubt self, her- to entreated, apropos, as as soon her, she loves man a as ground good faith,reserving right to she also, that him before ing mak- tenderly disposed her. without For, a an wom- putting necessity of dissipatingher doubts, do that successfullywithout 204 to her and taking the LIFE into his confidence world whole LETTERS AND by marked too a homage. I know been probable rendered when us few so since the it is certain giving our assailants times, I say, will for her Countess it difficult to a of a You will compel her her with confidence withhold to necessary leaves when, an she from 205 to labor and capitulate? show reason; prolonged disregard of convince to reputation,and furnish you after much that amiable your passion,you will men pregnable powder, there are few ima prolonged formal places,why undertake sentiments. regard of ignorance of inconveniences the of in these disasters it will be Bring the have not intractable,but, in these audacity invention the many you when women resources, siege,when your in times many so times her well that these ideas would very believe her of your through still better, perhaps, additional doubtless you. you reason now for finds XXV Virtue Why last MY letter has Marquis. world. Well, have advanced that had such thing? a besieged, I will so chicanery Here is my firmly believe never been profession castles, have I of your am some said have that been never opinion. will there faith who this in good are or I the to were could of age be no question. of there attacked, there that so our besieged that that sible impos- anything to the about that said some explain, however, more in How are you, it is not women idea perceive you scandalized that women taken? There Overcome ever the been not I have Comparing ever insist virtuous contrary? I Often apparently You find to the Is So women have I matter : who have been wrongly attacked. I further firmly who have been they have had liberty, nor I have of a whom habit hated at an of was I that there and well good women when attacked, passions?* husband. this point to put conversation still was adventure of inexperienced judging are disposition, violent lively while I the neither rather a point, prude, attacked mind a believe others 206 with you on very in this sion posses- lar particuwith young, some brilliancy then, and that I a masked. un- was severity which in is one every disposed made fault has of this conduct attack to submit to me confess the for have talk you I wish to an one into day, making with you have severity,you tells have that you in your abandon you. your that renders you eh? be on censure so to you that you the at that vice, ad- some you will you conduct my virtue is a pure child, and and are one with severe, you it will that beautiful. 207 You amour I feel to are mirror Your fact never to impelled make of that virtue not even alone heart, I which that sure has you, soon spoken ever can lighten en- stand, under- you all. This Your dain, dis- illusion of your present time, nobody has of love. for nesses,'* of wit- in the absence inexperience,and far from being sure any I : account, my prologue astonishes Well, listen with attention,and you will I speak. of the truth whereof convinced have "Up to This you own actuallytreated me with a how proud you are of the been taken advantage of. own dear my me never believe propre, fit to seen which her had compelled and explained,"it is to give the truth and solidityof which day appreciate. a I following harangue, which been converse have made Before she "You heard She matter the deep impression in my memory of reproaching you the purpose a "It is not morals. aside the to made her the our aunt's, and at took opportunity she hands, by taking me an sonal per- toward mercy. her saw some to blame it proper without woman of it. I sometimes preparations indulgent more us until manifest to considered I had neighbors. LETTERS AND LIFE told see by you the NINON L'ENCLOS de envelops you like a yet beenMeveloped. As long as you be kept in can are, as long as you appearance of indifference mantle, has not remain as you sight as when your I will are, you has heart when they love, when an internal a blush than more expression from shall stifled good education, shall once the through language of agitate your the speak unrest ing enchant- your fine, desire, half in scruples of when life and shall have your which you by will vanquish it, will diminish your others,and their faults will appear knowledge of your permit you to regard your weakness "The astonishment help will it will be had he virtue. any has attacks made has not impossible what you upon us are alone to degree whether say of resistance he The us. As of the of our long enemy, as it is feared, and be it will be against him. "Hence to justify a woman that she is essentiallyvirtuous before parents valor. is to clinatio in- ever you with the to tle lit- impetuous same in the presence been The is brave man It is the cusable. ex- longer no whether a say danger gives birth virtue, as one Can fought? ever doubt you more infallible. Your as against too you will make will tempt at- severity still farther. you carry to virtue you ity, sensibil- to toward the by made in secret, then combats But guarantee. your spoken, sentiment, breast, when, be received shall have eyes that necessary to bear her no own strength,she danger, however must in flatteringherself and good by force of a position where be great it may 208 in be, no motive no NINON Can this: L'ENCLOS de give yourself a livelyor sedate disposition?Are* you free to defend yourself it depend upon against a violent passion? Does me swer to you lover and will you who profitby to who knows them? Does you, with advantages depend upon it his prevent that is liable to Virtue moment? which Heaven how unreasonable abuse those with an whom a out with "Shall I my ideas? Are you need watch work, vantage ad- an any ings bless- favor a Reflect us. then inclination passion themselves of which you to be toward has not love, surprised, or in the midst would born stances of circum- have emerged the justiceof own conduct. greater glory. any every needle. at it is the misfortune had violent found would tue: glorifyingin your virso injusticewhen cruelly you have sudden tainly Cer- in are ungovernable have who your senses you Heaven; refuse, to grant you who from be to like all the other gift from a may consider taken in women, enjoy, is we be a his them pleadings,I assume innocent at first,from making upon your the impression they must necessarily make? such not; to insist upon an anomaly be to deny that the magnet is master of the And you pretend that your virtue is your own that you can personally claim the glory of to you life, of your find yourself alone never adores how circumstances all the arrange that so you not woman never over another give you I will take dominated who allow proof of it from by that wishes to your deep persuasion preserve her virtue, herself to be caught, that she the smallest because trifles, 210 they that must lead to LIFE things of for you to AND LETTERS It is much greater importance? take from the desire to make men by assuming virtue your upon easier a an severe tack atterior, ex- against their attacks. The proof of this is in the fact that we give young girls little libertyas is possible in in their education as We them. do more: order to restrain a prudent her fear of dishonor, nor does not rely upon mother she keeps her the bad opinion she has of men, upon daughter out of sight; she puts it out of her power is the excuse for to succumb to temptation. What the mother fears so precautions? Because many stant the frailtyof her pupil,if she is exposed for an into danger. she is "In spiteof all these obstacles with which comes curbed, how often does it not happen that love overall? A girlwell trained, or better, well them guarded, laughs at her virtue, because she imagines it is all her own, whereas, it is generally a slave thinks who down, everybody rigorously chained him is satisfied with as long as he does not run Let us inquire further into this: In what away. than to find abandoned class do you have they not sufficient females? wealth provide themselves to which defend saved have their you ; in virtue with frequency, and or In that where happiness with the that, where men obstacles have audacity, more more stantly con- tacked at- ity, facil- sequently impunity, and conwith more advantages of every sort; in the impressions of education, of exthat, where ample, of pride,the desire of a satisfactory lishment estabmore could not more sustain 211 them. Two doors be- de NINON low, there And in is a spiteof be will have the outside you are* so misfortune. the merit despicable more had whom woman virtue, of which might L'ENCLOS hate you aid which proud, than am of your not seeking virtue, nor despise. sustains in two days she, because greater helps to guarantee I and you deprive to I that you you against you of endeavoring to from attaching too much importance prevent you I wish of its fragility, to it; by convincing you to obtain from you only a trifle of indulgence for those whom tunes too a impetuous inclination,or the misforof circumstances have precipitatedinto a position sole so humiliating in their own eyes; my understand that you object is to make ought you vantage adto glorifyyourself less in the possession of an which to yourself,and of you do not owe which be deprived to-morrow." you may She was rupted interone going to continue, but some Soon us. afterward, I learned by my own experience that I should not have had so good an virtues which had been opinion of many formerly imposed upon me, beginning with my own. 212 am XXVI HAVE I be be by the of themselves Is it he trifle notice interest when that rules of specious, but the ourselves virtue is, we a to persuade are indebted not deprive induce them persuasion examine it is to a crime that women the virtue the them of to preserve that it is they it? 213 own in mitting per- a what into a observe Moreover, themselves possess, powerful I be on and construe. most their fashion to It to that converting it is not did ing accord- seem receive to age? cour- letter, had reasoning that should we with quished van- system? feared in succeed it is for in reason be who her it does be to will last my her philosophy, rules law, which as in but resist. to or woman maintaining in may the problem, related we he the of mistresses and fighting that were virtuous, that into specula- women yield to to knowledge a free are comes goaded I have as personal to is by remain soldier a not you talking is true, it persuading Did they that Mar- you, true if all It is not when that be to will as communicated I dangerous women conviction by ideas them. frailty, that opinion appeared it would by of Action same the yesterday guided their a the .quis, although tively, that the of been you to Freedom Demands Love they might motive it to mean by work they defend. that, the NINON The of consequences guilty let the woman, turn us revolutions loved? are Countess the of tenderness. have been passion have you has of If you men. I share receive making it,and Countess the mind than by imprudence more confidence have to greatly impressed is Everything shall has I but a You gloves. light and serious to every the turn re- piest hap- pleasure happier. refuse to to her have which calls generally lose faults. actual in it should The her, ought treat not way this agreed, the to of However, be. The We were subject have it, and matter if you at of the not perceive that things day. You are beginning I in her. fleetingtaste Now the It would manifested me. were we passion. more alarms out that as now of opposed nothing, by to was women something? tell you turned without nobly so you for fact, that the make quite right. were allowed still be were you hear to much how to moment a are you would you desired she you compromised my with Chevalier: the word, a knew happiness your first sacrifice The to it; in exciting beloved are you you diminishing from Far many proofs involuntary certainty that in has she More, inspired. increased v so burned you But sure during a you. are you secret words thousand a love, the your to The pronounced. her, escape her divulge to to finally succeeded have You of eyes errors. interest more imagination, in your the her couraging, dis- be uncertainties, after many so in of importance of would morality diminish, to matters to last, after At such tend and L'ENCLOS de a member, re- love most lated regu- become to treat LIFE with love dignity which a of true creeping into combining with render have so you so much gallantry. work and soon new It that measured have new motives the personal leaves of with freedom amusement. I relations your But perhaps pretensions, and will doubtless constant a peace do which like not of to action, it is afraid was assume in a you will the Countess re-animate is liaison, affair of pure an would acter char- good charms I no edge knowl- of your amorous. mixed turn. disputes Too The me. the blindly esteem instead beginning worries and merits, solid qualities, is and LETTERS AND the grave only your productive too by son. liaiof a as Uniformity kills love, for as soon deadly ennui. the spirit of method mingles in an affair of the heart, the passion disappears, languor supervenes, weariness begins to wear, chapter. 215 and disgust ends the XXVII Heart The de MADAME with me it senses "system" be be unbecoming in These Marquis, think but I so. has enough to notion, my and dream, told case, not you we as are imagine, very I the of far depict real acknowledged, truth my purpose the sentiments. is not singularity to of some she of 216 she my does serious according Besides, but philosophic a consider all I In to I accomplish mind; has been I do that, consult struck propositions, that have would the have I reckoning. our not them. I wrote been objects. surprise do Sevigne imagination? and Perhaps I de never she of out and exceptions, Truly, nothing does play a spirit have is system therefore one the a the system. any ways al- woman, a Madame systems? I honor, devise to of founder much too in of calls it would grounded? that pain she serious well letters my I the What, with see what fairs. af- morals. in very they are read not me assuredly are the that heart founded, mouth the women their in give I as side, and well agree many although precedent a tnat anything her, to not love of causes refined should become might its for According does pretends count never my the upon from only Employment Sevigne She them. know Constant Needs by which NINON According her, I to women? if you or, sex, said Marquis; all of them Indeed, mechanical instinct not that not be to seem expressions of give to which I have is the result blow my those ease? purely a flirt, to Does it mistakes, and Granting of reflection,do is those fatality, lighted they are so de- which little faith? so them what that for their excuses it is better, not you see that in love what a giving their vanity? You place upon shoulders the responsibility for their good or choice. One when that favor restoringto sympathy, as there their public, them find at that if everything made be inclines them put which way, Know ? tell them which in my are you their bad subject would to guised dis- me. be offended their due. would in cerning con- have discovered it that have to this on would women fault at reallybelieve,Marquis, I have the I have discovered But, do you much very which prefer have sex my am all charity I should In defects the L'ENCLOS de thrust, Marquis: more I say that letters. The female Heaven they would upon the consider delicacy of them whom would without as a doubt secret take other their of their which 213 women me some was ; themselves own built of less refined owe a nizing recog- sentiments, and own is, with pleasure in congratulate works nature satisfied with favored has superiorityover fail to not Those revealing their be mistaken metaphysicians, that constitution,would in them not am would women whom women fortunate all I to creation. material, gratitude for weighing upon LIFE them. AND have They LETTERS made it duty a disguise to to not they are as anxious fail in this duty as they are careful not to lose anything on the pleasure side of the question. Their interest, therefore, is, to have their secret Whoever guessed without being compromised. fail to render shall develop their hearts, will not I am them essential service. even vinced an fully conwho that those women, at heart, profess inclinations, and their sentiments it fashions, which two would be be could time long occasion an that ago, You see to than you Finally, Madame "system" might she an de become understand is noted, idea. not In everything liable to she be the that talk be talked said about with far a have supposing even they I have rather intention in the betray Somebody would women charged, they would in to reproach me I do not malicious therefore, that written I have it would believe them? about you little evil said of them such with to the with offended giving been which flatter their inclinations, of women, deep knowledge able in women equally agreeable: think all, Marquis, do you After am to refined. appear all. be dispute them. to court my which adopting the maxims and in furnishing them In mine, would to honor an paying be I would Hence, a consider first to the comformable more a at that which I from being slightestdegree. very Sevigne pretends that my quis, a precedent. Truly, Marhow, with the justicefor was able to stripping love, seduce 219 you, in as surrender I to have, of making it out NINON to in ity; caprice,and vanundeceiving you concerning the lend it grandeur and nobility, effect of temperament, the be in word, a that metaphysics /hat I have evident is it not Would into virtue? a with wish I am to to make one regarded for be better submit to Let us formed trans- his a But I favor. Since system, it will such a therefore, for reason, of fellow nakedness. whatever to be means over with woman a best effort in your more as the women their expose me title exacts. of to were willinglycompare celebrated tor legisla- of the believed antiquity,who weakening the power of was dangerous, if,as more I would those it less dangerous? rendered Sevigne, it de sentiments citizens be it not pretends Madame my L'ENCLOS de a fine ment mo- which gallantryaccording to the method appertainsonly to serious matters. Is love not a passion? Do not very strict minded people pretend that the passions and vices mean the seductive same more things? Is vice ever upon than when it in order for to it to is the form the wears in felt the movements in appear the a fore Where- of virtue? souls virtuous corrupt in which all ages, cloak cient it is suffi- potentialform. Platonicians This deified it. In justifythe passions,it was I sayWhat to apotheosize them. am ing? necessary I so bold as to play the iconoclast with Am accredited an temerity! Do superstition? What I not for deserve to be persecuted by all women attacking their favorite cult? I am so lovely,when they sorry for them; it was order to of love, 220 to be exempt from AND LIFE shall earth, we on home. proper In truth, I have told illusion it would the what profitis of sort The fear of love as monsters strive will and infidelity she bearing is modest discovers how soon as she there has been, her advisers far as woman, the she is concerned. and sentiments if she the is them. with much 221 as depicted are Now pose sup- delicate and he ful? respectconverses and upon; as exaggeration lose all credit Interrogatesuch alleged monster ployed? em- deceive much sincere, you And methods whom will and different expresses imposed been in very the is to I create of females. who has suaded per- diminished perfidy. with you you a appears woman claimed de- over spirits. Men of young believe evil it is its advice; but inspire them of sentiments, whose The to as gentleman a in there first step very teachers Their that main re- well failed to of it in the education is made use such I therefore experience will justifyme. I am perfectlywell aware us openly too was its power weakened I mind; your the advised never have not for Let letters I of is,and love what you of it. uselessness the of Heavens? in my have I blame the take to seek find it there, and never against love; not it and in the of its weakness cause poor misunderstand Why them? operations of humanity done to the upon had what But god. selves, them- congratulate to even blame lay the and a able be blushing, to LETTERS will has a so young find that excited in NINON heart her far are L'ENCLOS de sentiments the from^ being of horror. it. to that such attacks of all for them. that they then? forewarned of the they species of mistrusted never is the how then It is not attacks that one men What far from not were them saying been to advising the will be In a noble been never have redoubtable emy en- most been counter, en- mentioned: lover a do, if the woman seduced by her own I say women that the principal to weaknesses them is desires? physical,I follow am tions inclina- contrary, it is for the purpose of putting on the best their to ideas ; in in guard Governor at to that of the the fortified;that the be made in reducing which the by women up most to he then is will has redoubtable besiegers,but that own. to their attach enlighteningthem 222 It respect. citadel,that spot which betrayed by his word, sentiments pens hap- their assault will not he their attacked be not of the ; on what idea they must defense. They never could So, Marquis, when cause has by the ous danger- they be on their guard against him? they should be taught to fear, but can themselves? he their that an attacks left without are have they as even most spirits,and Inasmuch the drilled in the are immaculate are the are They having attacked be to avoid to them from keep from liable are also, and manner impossible to them prevent they and senses, is taken care knowledge, that another of it is, it is almost Infinite idea in deceived They are the misery just value, the such high and upon the real ob- AND LIFE ject of do refinement, their who lover a vanity pretends not you great delicacy and to that I glory out see less draw to LETTERS of the being loved, and their hearts to take in loving? Depend upon it,that if it to enlist their vanity in opposition to gallantry,their to suffer I had lovers, but by any illusions. I astonishingly well. me if whatever that it second for has distrust actor. been This to whom You I draw which see, to as thing any- love me, because they possessed they tives mo- the obtained never their I had desire. more them have which even, in in which a soul. me to overcome love was the incompetent felt sentiment elevated an degraded of true a esteem them to for a It my principal in my raise so eyes; their mind woman for desire. therefore, Marquis, that the precedent gerous. being dan- principlesis far from find with All that enlightenedminds can reproach me, will be, perhaps, because I from to led them possible for weakness sentiments they their considered of me, deserves for hearts I considered up respect worthy never deceived them I have place in my heart. always friendship the deference, the constancy, the and so assuredly qualitiesstimulated that about conserved noble, tion inclina- always persuaded from the standpoint was amorous figure, and came the than their penetrate was that those only because vanity. They were So I reasons was beautiful could character, the among a of pleasure possible were most of none of value was intellect and of it virtue would less fact little. very have interesting am my 223 NINON have the trouble t" demonstrate a truth which consider problematic. But not does not inexperienceand I have write L'ENCLOS taken they do your de you written on this so your ever curiosityjustifywhat- far, and subject? 224: whatever I may yet NINON additional manding sensible that not de fuel, I the occupied There too are sometimes to mean not in too bold a that caress virtue. her the a When know refined more a when we person resistingadvances, a that mind is something to do. gesticulationswhile talking, shall be compelled to use we understand to only keep to find many with sign language find can feed, it will to say, senses think I if it and which objects upon diet. L'ENCLOS in nor she able un- language. It taking offense is enabled woman be to at tain main- to in that is attacked is ion, fash- while are defending herself, her senses excited and the very agitation which impels her her defeat. But it is by distracting to resist,hastens the attention of the man to other objects,that the is relieved of the necessity of resistinghis woman advances, or taking offense at his liberties to which she herself has opened the way, for there is one even thing certain, is, that who woman a You which will not a will man for is anxious appoint dis- never him. unless you can singlewoman, is not able one absolutely ignorant, who suppose to gauge exactly the degree of familiarityshe ought who to complain that their lovers permit. Those do not come to up their that It cause. Defect in a the mark into Inquire least. the find the without and stupidities,their was culture desire to their may expose talents a what 22Q woman affect not reason, inconveniences, for with and do you me in the will ceive per- imprudences be us found to else is there ing. want- the without to are same mind, do but AND LIFE her undertake the is only nothing conquest? When kill time is to to way LETTERS talk about to but impression she has made language is the only for that you love not recompense else, her decency with humor ditch of which the employed convinced respond, not the sual sen- that she assistance does of the agitationequal to yours, she has nothing but bad oppose without On of gone, be can of the and senses, is not by an to woman a does but you exhibits that one There and beauty, the upon company, her. annoy her herself she her, and and senses, or She purpose. in her This you. what mind, and contrary, what is the not are last mination! cul- a vantages ad- the resourceful woman? A intelligent, a livelyrepartee, piquant raillery, quarrel seasoned with a trifle of malice, a happy citation,a graceful an recitation,are the time her, and gained The is them they the whence, is it not so for much with is, without women inabilityto find occupations worthy a have may say distractions many employed, misfortune great this attention, and with but thus so for virtue? doubt, the their these not as is an as for sensitiveness occupied in than with love men, rected which, properly di- antidote. vain as why reason passion characteristic a serve cure violent more least, are the is the of All they is are women, to sensitive, vanity. While pleasingin other ways than by the beauty of her figure,she loses sight of the sentiment which inspiresher to act. In truth, this sentiment will not be the "determining to cease motive" technipermit me to use some (you must a woman 227 NINON she the of the heart; in a But actual ject ob- infer will avoid the fools take to them do avoid not but that they and way, of do not fools and That them. are reach who men because in their difficulty the beyond them, the there that me that of diversion. a tell intelligencecultivate the affections the talents you freedom of will you Whence dislike and it will create spiritand of attack. mind word perhaps women but the be thing presented to her attention, and that is someof becoming to the care gained. Wholly devoted perfect in the species of glory to which love will be desire, of which aspires,this same will turn against love, by dividing the source, attention men it will not art), but of cal term L'ENCLOS de is true, do not ceive per- gence of intelli- men they aspire them, because to it. surmount ought not you, who are a militaryman, to appreciate everything I say to you about talent? have which I will suppose a campaign upon you ing entered; you have been given charge of conductNow, the siege the governor, be satisfied if city. Would you nable, persuaded that the city is not impreg- should given yourself? and the of a open the you to he seeks to say to gates without occasion least I venture more the you cover not; to he more glory he 22S resist, with glory, Well, Marquis, in obtaining a victory gives you. the pleasure of love as in war, is measured according to the obstacles I am of it. Shall I say it? tempted parallelfarther. See what it is to take the distinguish should himself ing hav- in to a the push way the first step. The of glory true will merit she that shall I feeble enough a least. to Let war. a become woman not we to come her aid? I am these give themselves investigate the matter, we not are very few who women may accomplishments if they really it ; the difference would only be the more, lent But women are generally born too indo- acquire at of so the do if but good defense, a honors at shall find that there about in that they do advantages, set putting less, perhaps, point of yielding,what ligence satisfactorylover, if her intel- be to talents aware not consists the retain to and woman still farther. go is left her well a in yielding,than in LETTERS AND LIFE be few a able to that discovered make effort. an have They is as nothing so convenient of pleasing does not being pretty. This manner be glad not to have require any labor; they would Blind that they are, they do not other. see any the attentalents equally attract that beauty and tion her who of men, but beauty merely exposes it,whereas possesses In a stores furnish defending it. word, to appreciate it at regrets and up it shall day when the reason? with her the exist. weariness Would it drowns for you out the know all other long as beauty lasts,a woman something, she is celebrated, a As regarded as sighs at her on to cease its full value, beauty mortal a It is because resources. comes talents of means go there such feet. forever. to ravish I would flatters herself She What a desolate of the that is crowd this will solitude when age only merit she possesses? like, therefore (my expression is her 229 NINON de L'ENCLOS elevated, but it interpretsmy not that like other in woman, a advantages. Let us more heart is would of than use drama a the Marquis, agree, made and thought), I would -beauty could be a sign of heart. the in which between level, and same liaison the are longest;with interludes Possession the A the acts the acts fill the you that in love, the mind if puts what then, plishments? accom- woman every all of them exposes of the shortest with not is on equally to infidelity.The elegant and the beautiful, when they are nothing else, have not, in that respect, her who is plain; the mind, in any advantage over that case making all the difference. That alone bestow the same the varietyneccan essary upon person to satiety. Moreover, it is only prevent of a pasaccomplishments that can fill the vacuum sion that has been satisfied, and we can always have in any them situation^ we imagine, either to may it more defeat and render flattering,or postpone to assure of us our How profit by them. although they set their let the talent Lovers conquests. things they many faces Countess, while themselves againstthem? cultivatingher for the clavecin,understand her cherish fore, Wheredecided interests and yours. I have and see I tremble what supped I read never over lest you happens last see find it when night with him letter,my my de la M. does fashion, at least for three 230 or Marquis, trifle serious. is in bad 'one that he a dear You company. I Rochefoucauld, and spoil me four days. not in this XXIX The Misfortune THINK I punishes A woman to go too of far she would when sure of progress and assiduity. a in your a tue. vir- of whatever indifferent she She ready of day lover more soon deems herself fault, and me letter this: about she the which 231 most feels to such with tion vexa- her at it, and But you. she you caprice advances than a begins becomes of year to unjust; care her regret she desires benevolent. is the states humor betray for you There of out to unkind being woman surprises What for caprice is less is one A she her days; opening despair not woman punishes by that the unkindness; three without really herself. She herself repair a weakness moment. be do but country veritable a mistake with her punishes the retreat. reason, for letters were any than that she to you into gone to if her severe. make you see tender If less not with to surprised fault fa* too return a opinion, my occasions are has it your Is Countess the having for gone all, however, be Do has your happen. may love. refuse to as is, in After her Avowal an Marquis, severely She return them, do, experience that out month; to you can so give may you escaped? secret any as avowal an Sudden of Too marked that since sage pas- the NINON Countess has de appeared L'ENCLOS love to her you, character has tion totallychanged. I -have no particularinformathat point. All I know on her is,that she made debut in society as a lady of elegance,and her debut all the more marked was because, during the life of her husband, her conduct was trary. entirelythe conDo her remember not you acquaintance, that she heedless, bold, be incapable to-day, you to However, serious melancholic; sentiment has least appears she she assumes true one, taken to her I am be around she has it. see to wherever her; if you your attentive an what refuse you and will the of kindness borrowed. one, be her All my if I case, a metamorphosis the effects mistaken storm if the end not all the one it upon her in the most with cause be- to power vent pre- object, your importunity, where yourself treat ing rag- assured more and goes not you to can allude all the nerism man- follower, respectful,but courtesies for those a character it to imagine you She happen? Women peared ap- become the fault in such at she take passion, of with everything in her if you steadily pursue far as as pursuit even carrying your her has done But and attachment? she fit in so to-day, does you diness, gid- to pre-occupied, timid, affected; the place of mincing airs; at much complete victory,and follow tell me, in this very reasonable a former philosophy would did not recognize of love. of first made you livelyeven coquettish, was even to-day, that and when due possess who 232 an love will be any unable indifferent inexhaustible them. pressed, im- You to quaintance. ac- fund know NINON in him beginning of her reasonable she however always starts out pride to resolve divine the attacks, she so heart, it is of her is not through honor much against how I you to If you by being afraid lovers evidence that of the trouble she would But you. I not know tormenting themselves, the habit of never but one object in view is so powerful, that is they prefer being pestered with one in than are, The with none I feel sorry your situation can poor Marquis, how at fail to badly 234: ing havthat agreeable dis- all. for you. not to ingenious Always are. of object an were take you precautions of is strong woman a declare unreasonable However, her importunities or excess you, feared. are you you? you you whether you your that, Marquis, the of indifference, would avoid to consequence it takes woman how persevere you consent. Besides a no obtained with unfortunately,you overcoming her, of needs defense, she only that; but upon means fine a be, she nearly may and indefatigable, little delicacy that, provided you obtain in your have with it Thus resistance. in the is, that have L'ENCLOS de he Smitten be a as sad is treated! you one. XXX When Resistance WAS I delighted for the I had should to rival. should never I that I will for score, for I will astonishment will mind Madame I am your at that going and, longing will made not assumes the told me, be surprise a of sake widow. add I have to You the to surprised the neighborhood, make at the you. 235 her call where grounds that the she I of was ured unmeas- acquaintance, promise Your you house, me that Countess when adjoins one. on doubt. no you, told only the la Sabliere's week, proofs news however, de a the are you investigate to cease, spend to amiable home, For woman a for constant you going This have that give to am myself. to have combat. she men, you and loved, able be when other everything are you all would that Marquis, than fortunate a her single a sensible in- was lover. in see advised, she had by ity, sever- same that you Countess the the at more was if not in strength toward favorite her with that intractable haughtiness you manifested well more that love, but her be say, departure my mind suspected, resistance beyond you to Pretense a before your treating have your The been that free in persevered I is feel Only learn to country, rest. Is have you just NINON I have time the not de L'ENCLOS to^finish opportunity to send it. I must and traveling companion my love letter. I letter with the carry lettingher am What! Adieu. will not permit is think de visit to the Du country. Grignan's in us in a teasing me I am writing a what she pleases, the to me Madame you letter,nor depart immediately, fashion, pretending that strange and this illness our solitude? Chateau de . I writing you am Countess, my I have dear of the She and I do character write do not from told I thinks you wish more any have you I may now, one this place. to know Adieu. !3G remarked. be to you tress the misI whether her am about despair of discovering,before for the change city,the reasons which day woman, doubt Here all she me with adorable an like hers. enable I fidante. con- you, I not the to has favor I sometimes her. heart a is third is the will in bad She house. deserve you not am delightedwith am this of the house country her, which that I understand the Marquis, with been from turn re- in her dare not interrupted,and I that I am writing you XXXI The Opinion Advice and of de Monsieur la Sab- liere HOW I with the when chance in an a bushy arbor of have attributed astonished is not in notice I Perhaps only much me in when I to true my me was you conceal farther, now, never may their that is a return giddy have I tration, pene- the serious frivolity still seriousness you former that they am an more acter char- through but said exterior my except imagined faults, sir, and to I word. your be my the not was the will that the Sevigne," with You you for reconcile passion one, through which from de not society. tell now I steps. word M. can a just when them, conceal for decided so sieur Mon- passing my you to inclination of her, in conversation, to you from him was join the able "and I arrested all been not Countess, nature to communicate to strategy use secret with was intending heard my the She name to word my confidence her and your and hasten of garden, the path noticed, "I of keep to aid. my Sabliere. la mention to quis! Mar- tell you, to her worm ignorant not are de to came have arranged had and you, I preparing was Countess upon You things many women sometimes instance. sition; dispo- design. can go They NINON L'ENCLOS de disguisetheir virtues,and since the word has escaped me, I am tempfed, at the risk of wearying strange gradation I reached you, to explain by what that point. "During my married life I lived retired from the even world. I When question of I small. sought a the hide me But the time same "This to reconcile men, among their I reasoned: way formed happiness, we of the to are a I purity It seemed of system me, would duct con- not at pleasures of life. Destined to please them, obliged to it to all this? compromising me add to establish to deprive is the not was knowledge, I had pleasures of society; but at how which, without rassment embar- own my determined difficult task a the was heart; in vain own my was I there widow, society, and my to present myself to was for the time same I it from taste of morals. "to how for solitude. his taste and a interrogated to strong became returning to as Count the knew You and suffer to live share from in their all fear their malignity. It caprices,and above that they have no other object in our tion educaseems than that of fitting for love, indeed, it is the us only passion permitted us, and by a strange and cruel contrariety,they have left us only one glory is that of gaining a victory over to obtain, which I therefore the very inclination imposed upon us. endeavored in use I found and "We we to enter are, and ascertain custom, the I said society,to to such two predicaments best on means of ciling recon- glaring extremes, all sides. myself, simple enough when imagine that the greatest hap238 piness of be to love should woman a LETTERS AND LIFE and be loved. impression that love is ble based on esteem, upheld by the knowledge of amiavested purifiedby delicacy of sentiment, diqualities, which of all the insipidities disfigureit, in and the effusions word, fostered by confidence a But of the heart. so unfortunately, a sentiment without for a woman experience,is everyflattering thing is always that in practice. She less than then We when disabused "I too late. in the beginning as to be at two imperfections I perceived in inconstancy and their untruthfulness. was their the under are so good reflections I made the first of these on dalized scan- men, The defects, led unfortunate more opinion that they were than guilty. From in which the manner the human heart is constituted, is it possible for it to be occupied with only one object? No, but does the deserve the same treachery of men indulgence? me the to Most attack men in the design sacrifice her to a woman's use her for virtue in cold their amusement, blood, to their vanity,to fill a void in an idle life,or to acquire a sort of reputation based upon is a large number There the loss of ours. of men in this class. How to distinguish true lovers? They all look alike on the surface, and the man who is often more tive seducpretends to be amorous, than one who reallyis. "We love dupes enough to make are, moreover, the contrary, conon a capitalaffair. You men, sider it merely a play; we rarely surrender to it without an to inclination for the person 239 of the lover; NINON yieldto it without cluty;you give way enough coarse are you L'ENCLOS de to taste. to the Constancy with us is a slightestdistaste without scruple. You are scarcely in leaving a decent mistress, the possession of six months before, was whom, piness. your glory and hap- She is not reputation,should and tells everything heart is made Why, then, of succeed an soul whole and the It is of love. kind the to which is involuntary. that wiser be not to possible to be impels I have love? observed occupies the ment, senti- other of every sacrifice everything to to us which love a exclusion characters They little on the are the of just sufficient their essential such men character the brilliant merit. are men not unite in the qualitiesto It must be who ment? senti- show with an their fashion most reasonable who fix a of possess value on confessed, though, good companions 240 a. reason It is those kind? that such solid, those most outside, those who nobility of thinking. are "Finally, who women susceptibleof are elevated that However, inclination an it of peace object loved. "What for many enterprise. dangerous a so heart, that this a it will how see her that love Would being? in such is have we it love.' destroy to venture us with never love, and Let "What that for our rectifyit? that me tragicalside, their cherishes who woman a indiscretions. cruel most off if she well 'If love draws myself: misfortunes, is part herself regarded things from I said to mind the punished by "Hence and consider may for women NINON heard have shall of frivolous I by being of my "Do virtue to great I justice it, however will you finish heart against When is not the as her assaults the a scends de- woman humiliation she esteem of appearance brighter her virtue, the The the in outward resource. poor as the the weakness, a be, and to that prove know lacking not am that guarantees A I to opinion. believe love? of I appear may you end. trte to and mind, your logic I employ the listen right: am L'ENCLOS de tionately propor- hoped easier to cure? se- mark for malice. "What Are not men is she who, by who forced a retreat of attributingto every time we of our One an honest Rather And what cruel torments Do they The most not to raise talked the price much of are not grave an up it of to be they altar part our is that of a to tempted which Must it to a at such abandon can not is not so.' being for us the us? No! is she say, say, vances. ad- heroism? our woman, virtue. preserve matters to their condemned have they woman, offer they the of violence, state of us to 'There tired not do which about, is the would is accord resist to said: friends recompense honest on undertake the beyond than perpetual a weakness; wickedness carry us who woman herself puts est wis- the that her conceals best woman? virtuous a believe to as possibilityof having any? a single perfection, they point of idea unjust so woman or world's is the who perfect a general price? a it? be ference indif- oblivion not women is But have Who there overlooked. closely follows "Dishonor age in passed such avoiding I could that the dawned But pleasure. an it is more "Tell have Is attachment? an condition of on be than Is she not It is sufficient for her everything courteous, she that she not virtue pect sus- paradox to you. imagine. you obliged to from exempt to be derness? ten- amiable As and soon as expert in the role she has undertaken, becomes only mistrust then, the demning con- a surface. the on first gradually a society face, I your society woman a at reconcile to to reasonable this: me it smile appears necessity of But it. the the when doing so, without austerity,and I had competent From idea such life of that alone was with a the Old be I calculated undertake me upon woman to to courage in succeed not myself feel misfortune. a it not must I remorse? weakness. upon in itself,what is dreadful it is LETTERS AND LIFE has heart. no world the A fine has of is her figure,haughty airs, jargon, fantasies, and fads, sentially required of her. She can be eswith one impunity. Does any caprices, fashionable that is all that is virtuous he thinks make to presume her pay arrangements this way had his turn. place, failed to a If he with meet sistance re- quickly gives over worrying her, he is already captured, and heart he patiently awaits outj of advances? for her made woman she His would notify deference, that it before is would perseverance he owing was offered protected by the who man a be himself. bad to In opinion of her. "I read in your eyes that you 243 are about to say to NINON The me: state injuremy may I seek But do professional society woman reputation,and plunge me into ? reputation, and acquire of us it is judgment, avoid. know, of malice a L'ENCLOS a does conduct shafts of to not you de Is not that your Monsieur, that not The the guard a opinion men and good thought? the most tere aus- from woman give of the women's ideas wrong ficulties dif- they always equally false. It is prejudice, their species of fatalitywhich governs are that a glory depends less upon real virtue than auspicious circumstances. upon The hope of filling honorable agination an place in their imought not to be the sole incentive to the practice of virtue, it should be the desire to have a good opinion of ourselves, and to be able to say, whatever with have "I which it to matters sentiments owe same not reappeared and the what virtue, provided our to friend the themselves I could not do the world, than to favorable to most I became glory. my aided who favorite our a virtue. social circle as the in their true We the into , her Our frequented We neighbors made a ball room, indulged absurd sel. coun- relative. We character. 244 a my tached closelyat- with me Marquise de in perfect accord. were society. Charity for our only masks. follies, we goaded were in that is the in of we I deemed of mind She we I the mask truly reproach myself. But, convinced therefore to the I have it? was peace to what better, when don our be the opinion of the public : may nothing we so our was pearance ap- where in all sorts into After showing having LIFE amused ourselves reached the LETTERS AND in this limit of our private interviews. in comedy, we pleasure, it How appeared to us, and the fatuous, and impertinent! If could inspire fear in a woman's broke their heart indifference utter heaped we the least. By long time from the dreadful heart, that is, esteem, airs,by affecting our upon those who deserved the ments allurethem experience,we came be virtuous,it was our to near sary neces- company. conduct guaranteed of snares weariness love, and sad a and for us presence virtuous in character. Those our We who have what were we man a been themselves permitted to enjoy "But met olous, Friv- will, solid, reasonable, and but eyes, never might make to own us ful mourn- more have of men, a saved lives. our spread over imperious, bold, even coquettish if you in the would who any by against the virtue found we the vacuous, and of course by how men, them, force of yet renewed was for believing,that in order to frequent bad "This not absolutely idiotic women we had we were redoubtable, ridiculous in this happy afraid liged ob- were before of. being society. our finallyled to me doubt the truth of principles,is they did not always guard me I have learned from the dangers I wished to avoid. through my own experience, that love is a traitor my with whom it will not do to trifle. I do not know able the Marquis de Sevigne was fatality, to render projects futile. In spite of all my my heart. to my precautions he has found the way I was much I resisted him However impelled to by what 245 him, and love to except feel for unable been my*own justifyin be I would occasion an me is of reason my him. to L'ENCLOS de NINON to change hide from afraid at first that he was ridiculous as I as more no if he never him I have deem might to thoughts, I me actually true my when And be. I gave sentiments. my me the inclination eyes happy seemed to use my in his eyes less amiable sincerityshall render me than that frivolitycaptures men more (for I know real merit), I wish show to myself to him in my colors. true than blush to nothing to whole being." owe de perpetual lie of my still less surprised, Madame," la Sabliere, "at the novelty of at the heart "I I should but am a skill with which said Monsieur your have you his project, succeeded mit singular idea plausible. Perto me say, that it is not possible to go astray with more experimented with spirit. Have you Men everybody according to your system? go a around avoid the beaten to track, but long way obstacles. To make use they all fall over the same of the privilegeyou granted me to tell you plainly thought, believe me, Countess, that the only my in rendering way for you such to openly resume There with When is a preserve your peace of mind is to man. wopositionas a reasonable nothing to be gained by compounding your virtue." I heard the conversation I knew it would soon withdrew, and promptly taking that finish,and could not plexion, com- I therefore think of anything but satisfyingyour curiosity.I am tired of writing. In two to Paris. days I shall return 246 XXXII The the but fine so I wrote A 'tis loving her has She her love not on any more any help from weapons have to fact and them to regret sex, my able that to I 247 the a much of not not I and her rely require women. have furnished them heart would of the ; more portion do fessed con- chains her need you without touch you. thought, You understand Do has is that advice. my letters, my against been the dismay. reassure Countess I to progress. break than She similar woman a ; its costing mind. of you as you poses pur- without more account you sometimes soon never contrary. Countess its given The your is due on as can from hide firmness I she it arrest has that yourself. reasonable do she to the passion face that you without a price. ca- against peace of not can proofs undeceive her never tell taken and ease, of to the together al- with just settled; consequences imagine men women been be have charge time again, not may You write has her at she and let the You I you Heart back am liking. last the to-day you I bring to intends, therefore, not ever your thing a the yours, to disturbance any seen I resolution strange tremble, news you loved, were you here occasion an of the Knowledge a Marquis, WELL, had of Advantages you you Count- de L'ENCLOS NINON I must ess? that I have avow judged women with see me rigor,and you -now ready to them a reparation. I know it now, there are stable and virtuous women than essentially thought. much too What a stock of reason! What make more I had combination a of all the estimable I in our friend! quis, No, Marqualities from her the no longer withhold could sentiment of my tender most and esteem, without consultingyour interests,I have united with You will murmur at this,but the against you. she has given me, does it not demand return on part? I will not hide from you my of wickedness; my I carried have malice her fidence con- to point of instructingher in the advantages from might draw everythingI have written about feel," she said lover heart, the talent not to "how me, with combines who and he the you you to express delicate language. of have who women the justify,in He them. overcome the which he draws thinks she is eyes What in such advantages I have reason? a' of ble no- can marked re- of reasoning that he finds of his reason, her. knowledge himself possesses he intelligence is redoubtable much so it,it is by his powers has any women. "I the this the art in a the of ploying em- woman to errors into in love Besides, a woman proportion her sacrifices to obliged to she loves. To the good qualitiesof the man an is a weakness, he blushes ordinary man, a weakness it is a tribute paid of intelligence, at it; to a man discernment to his merits, it is even a proof of our ; 248 NINON While equity. de L'ENCLOS inexperience needed your assistance, encouragement, zeal in your urged me to sacrifice everythingin your then on the side Every advantage was cause Countess. things; enough But all to in her was is there now After her a succor are she has have the on experience, against her, to you reposes in me, to refuse the rightto expect from me, will avow it yourself,would Henceforth, I purpose wrong. evil I have with she sincere,you crying the face the less. reason the confidence the if you her that, to combine betray different of the pride to-day, is barely strong resist you. Formerly, her indifference worth still more, favor, and, what was she has and a ests. inter- her lack of skill;to-day you your be my enment, enlight- done in to pair re- revealingour secrets, I do not by initiatingyou into our mysteries. know why, but the pleasure I feel in crossing you, to be working in my favor, and you know appears how far my ments extend. rights over My sentiyou will always be the same, and, on your part without too doubt, you are equitable to diminish for me, because have of anything I may esteem your done By in favor and of a by, then, friend. at the 250 Countess'. XXXIII A Once Heart Wounded No Longer afraid of Plays with Love Marquis, WAT, already Tou they i^ause ready are thought do were you for she never her, since her of much so from judge that is she This be very discover you would seek ready be that tender to your a certain your console a might you of such for 251 that respond on casion oc- an tion, conversa- A not flippant a It does What not would loss. should blow a How ner. man- would we way, you an wom- would certainly find your you me can love Adelaide But to idea. joking point. vanity! You saw smitten. strange a if in revenge. to to delightful, to up in sentiment birth gives never ironical shaft the I still farther, and saw sustained by played with have I the against out I I but me, fail her not only moderately really wounded I Now did peril. well that just confessed has courage her is true hold evening. redoubtable. so me, even could she entire an and seductive, so I for It be- you Dear game? astonishes how and success, courage. Countess affairs, your your the more understand ardor your had of the not oppose abandon to you firmness despair of women? two love that quickly beauties often NINON vexation has heart? made Can do However, soften the Your will is to not which we ought to know what that see down to have so consider dismissal But I tempted am take of it?" this too I would I know much do not to strong are you to might the best thing do can you the qualityof friend, a position You generously offered you. yourself very fortunate, your be made make this out to more harshly treated be woman's a first feelings of displeasure past, soon come that if you is definition a and situation. minded. you know you, heart, I do "What say: give me one you find fault with to you any L'ENCLOS de be absolute. much of if a But not will be victory,you consider we do to more you feared. Adieu, the at Marquis. head things. which two ladies Countess, of my bed, sends you She is edified by the have you The treated to seem be who discretion der ten- with to insist when to you, contrary so sitting thousand a not us; is that is the height of gallantry. So much modesty will certainlydisarm them, and may some day move them to pity. Hope, that is permitted you. From the Countess. Although you may be inspiredby hopes, Marquis, I will add a this letter. it refers with day. to own my I I have wish well at I me. hand to read not it,but the most few that we tell you present, but 252 shall words I suspect wish, however, be that I that I have love to tering flat- write alone here to that you all you ately moder- the greatest desire in the world if you our that felt it advisable deem heart your you more I am have in the love to not littleparty, it gives danger. than LETTERS AND LIFE will to and pleasure exposed to be I that ever found to am me treat 253 ever, How- all. at come me told humor you to the trouble warn greatest handsomer to you you be, and badly. to-day I never XXXIV Absence Makes this, Marquis, ALL of Did acting I trying was profit by to You it I me. is see with that her over than her affect. from us is has a her days, master responded like could a to your I find perfect the that you, ency ascendattack that, that The not away write to it us frankly, is complete most you letter, remain confess I my inal Crim- better last man; hope. 254 Countess indifference my all have tive alterna- your not given stroke, and the know answer possible, oh, me suspect the since of after most suspect embarrassing. You and the friend heart. you to three letter me, appearance deign act that Countess or this, that well how heart! the to men my all very are rendezvous to in to matter the coldest that call Not to come the by was adroit, if you most make to clearly are, you I and the could ever ; the idea the of if you injurious equally relations that and wickedest baseness very taken has the that out seriously jealousy, you pray myself? guilty of such thrown I speak to through wickedest the bounds the pass it understood separate either are adroit; to Fonder yourself, pretend you occasion this on to Explain letter, in making your Grow begins pleasantry. you. in Heart the Countess I what success has able been not The fear has caused her when woman were idea all the outbursts! I Oh, undergo affairs, and confidence with Advisers do to protest I will storm your because Why I have reproaches To punishing her. hard, unjust, cruel, epithets with which I am last of the head? Countess the hear virtue, of her I considered you took can not much so in pleasure I her turned pretensions,and criminal real reasonable most injuriousopinion an of your designs your has is that? me become may is the witness How coolness. anxiety. What the not you false mortal a love just heard? to-day, gave a this indifference that much against so stand to Heavens! Great LETTERS AND LIFE I very which I remember covered. was What this will be you, for being mixed cordiallyrenounce have you both the in up the honored me. agreeable part in such it seems to me, so cases, always charged with what is disagreeable in quarrels, and the lovers only profitby a reconciliation after However, be very sillyto finish by being once, and Now, do Come and of them sure with the assure not has of her very reflection,I think offence follies will them upon a due take whose children look play not play such this. amuse eye of the a innocent virtue, that is surely to inclination, cruel These peace. to I are ought Come poor then, 255 at children; one in the way afflictthem to will suit you. role any more. motives, the other stand two philosopher,and resolution petty You me, friend of both. if that me make the at I should without is so of their reason. XXXV Should Heart The AM I be Played of a beginning the only affairs. heart is I to doing so; I do this But for sentiments And, make to since continue, ideas involved, sometimes I shall take not follows the up in persists that to your has It her is own I what to reason only an wish it, which however, at your your my to see fear her, shall not I to give you you may that if as shall my become permit you liberty a expense, Countess the is, if she that do I not rapidly. very she far so her knows see She heart, it. imprudent and her. past. alone, advance told I my for the formed, you of nothing because has she will strength, my upon friendship, in in laugh I insists have to-day, affairs her up friend, her my so refusing remembers and of as plan with friendship my condition, on able reason- mention never she stand situations the on most made change nor you that bickerings. will use concerned, are shall like still Marquis, meddle to unless you, I although scruple I resolution Keys the therefore, have, not with never Countess the name me live Henceforward mind. you understand, to woman, the Piano to way Like Upon woman exposes 256 who relies herself upon without XXXVI Impressions Mistaken DO think, you the have we It she she claimed which insisted I that counsel. counsels my been at outs. begged me to break off The confidence she preservative for But in the she is Of what you with her soon as a good are tional addi- an give for her only believes, with related fail not lover her whatever She reason does she use pride, have woman and her can you, her you as I flight. used conversation language same in you reasonable every give with have may that the relations vivacity, love, to advice best against example, effect her provide to this, sir, her her to turn pretended my forget Heavens! except to Know continue should triumph? is to due was Good But Countess? the never is true, of felt all not deigned account on with reconciliation that me Women I have have you All to that Marquis, sarcasm against Common good to me. to use shows her respectful pretensions. some "I only want as what only to too many believe I of I will they say, I desire. with women themselves refuse. that heart," is all esteem your find your very never kind." 258 Alas! so happy envy "y"ur you little in them ments, sentiwill delicacy accepting a ness happi- LIFE Be on combat your such sincerityon offend AND guard',Marquis, and do fine sentiments; to doubt not such more occasions, is them, it is their it. They only even to LETTERS be to mistaken wish You maladroit. if you idea woman's a do to openly than must would plaud ap- profit by ble high-minded, and sensiof the pleasures of the soul, it is their If some women are system, their esprit du corps. this point, how in good faith on there are many who it as an illusion and wish to impose it treat you? upon But whatever which be the reason impels may them false scent, ought you not to put you to on a be delightedthat they are willingto take the trouble to deceive you? What obligations are you not under? a They give in this manner, high value to be very those undesirable. it,would who, without Admire our we feign indifference strategy when call the pleasures of love, pretending to what you augment have are not the it from of the sacrifice we for make we inspire the even benefits the said was its sweetness, gratitude of the receive from them, we good that you we do make us. it a duty to what us?, obligationdo you not owe the most chosen to do it. obliging way the first to gain by this deceit, for we multiply obstacles without enhancing the victory. Troubles, cares, are not your you, price of these grandeur since deceive can the satisfied with are And You removed far of the very authors We appear be by it, we you, you to money pleasures? What with a which lovers pay satisfaction for your 259 for their vanity to NINON able be to this senses; to comes me, women haste to show pleasures wrong to she would so sacrifices My own much, her pugnance, re- merit, skill, have my objects for their desires you could not lost! But Countess you can you way. not gives birth to so be deceived, and to are to How impute many it will you. knew reproach as talk that this artifice,it advantages. Pretend become a pleasure to If the pride? person, my penetrate them, you many disdain something quite How satisfied I am with my prowess!" acted in good faith,if they were in as different. much fears, her invincible surmounted fears nevertheless, and of charms If who woman her the yourselves: "This woman, to the impressions of the insensibk refined, so so within say L'ENCLOS de what me! 2GO I have written, how XXXVII The Allurements KNOW I particularly attracted censure you, present state theater if of is less indulgent, astonish not she me, so to you confirms I is their Her sincerity. what in question it is and she is of? deprived sentiment to the does are very The men wo- of women ment, senti- Countess the that credit much how but of concerning complaints nothing are the jealousy ideas my know metaphysicians. singular, for, Her in ess Count- the But you. say. female due heroines the spite probably that, sure, is he In I would and heart, your often is man, mention. you not were tion, posi- your consequently, company, dangerous not are I in man a deceived, not are you Women military a divinities the by that bad to Stage that well too exposed of of is attached. little How despise to much too to wrong despise consider captivated with with of to the be that offer but former, in their of women to a in are women the But rivals? them free their sensible are element; and their with 261 they after Are and woman at They stage; them. order, decency, men accord! the fear not has more than nothing uniformity? they latter, they style, easy ease, them all, are you who pretend men With appear are to kept NINON within L'ENCLOS obliged to stand on their dignity, be very to From the portrait circuftispect. of them, I should several judge that there are of them capable of making many men very and of some bounds, unfaithful be the to sensible a de beloved most this man, mistress. if it infidelity, of These long duration. sudden, livelydesire,but never The fairies of the if dangerous, to time you had you as thrown are the the or The vivacityof their livelyand you pass But as travel one laughs twice women to she world, others However have need assure may with please that you times! some- giddy charms; you, the only moments. possess hours sufficient so the pleasantries, same antics, and same the at more be seldom the on much Inasamusing. education and culture, they soon small circle of their accomplishments. for the fun enough upon to role a feed you Countess The of they stories,the esteem well you, the They same seem lack around the them first conversation, the situation seizes too ways al- the company. their a you maintain they do sallies of alleged wit, their with to resources no of sillyjoy happily for be little refinement so freedom all this affords ways, a have men a humor they as jargon, habits, and decency they surface, it is possible that they may first. You create would little at not veritable passion. wit their with can may a much on one, women operatic stage they amuse be But same thing it is seldom when one has maker. not her worry, that for I know it is not that you class apprehend, there are in the redoubtable, they are the "gal263 LIFE women," lant They with from the the which in society. position between good been talking about; they former the except than least equivocal I have latter voluptuous LETTERS middle a those and associate to those occupy women AND women and surface. the on different not are More tender, they seduce refined is mistaken sentiments for love. by lending air of passion an understand They how is to what impression of tenderness believe only a taste for pleasure. They make you that it is by choice, by a knowledge of your merit that they yield. If you do not know them to be the shade of difference which tinguishes disgallant women, to an convey the from only You an accept loved are only because These the place who has of the I should Countess. The in you mentioned is imagine lovable, but the thought proper taking umbrage. prevent I fear you fear if I it is woman to this the Countess. which manifest? Your you will ter, let- preceding allurements to in were financial in your here, that to You society belongs already warned mind, right in truly too great everything,but are what to man. women I call to Countess a passion senses. you lately appeared I have of of the are them, actuates heart, is impossible excess because you are the class,but the for intoxication you which motives sensibilityof the seize. true passion She the was for her is from not sacrificing always be so honest. Madame de she possesses is at an age 263 when bloom women and fulness; cheerassume NINON de men charge of young society,and to learn The interestingand find in her I who it warn happens will have you. that they you commit more L'ENCLOS desire to be their first lessons in who gallantry. disposition you affectionate its fitted for effect,but be careful, it is Although I despise such women, tachments; atto create they have the power often find the follies than women. 264 of secret any of making the other NINON L'ENCLOS de the that the heart, constantly agitatedby the hearts for it be to object,there same of which cause the the heart, the storm resistance too severe it is this calm object loved than extinguished by a the to is But constant. or lier live- profound more follow, and fateful always more and agitation. Love is that The ascertained. be to sure of indifference, the moments of the is that possible absolutelyimemployed with the always not can emotions calm are tions, emo- same it is whether finallytires,or Whether sensation. fe^l the ish gent intelli- an ner beyond that, she varies her manresisting;this is the sublimity of the art. woman of goes with Now, Countess, the preferable to are is another the claims duties of of ship friend- love, and indifference for your reason the toward that her. tyrannical sentiment, which is never has sacrificed satiated until the object loved its altar all desires and passions. You upon do nothing for it unless you do everything. Whenever prefer duty, friendship,etc., it claims the you The It demands right to complain. revenge. Love is small courtesies jealous a Madame and de are proofs preferred, though, much it necessary deemed you you of it. had to I would carried not show have them The length of accompanying her home. the pleasure you time you passed in her company, experienced in conversing with her, the questions so she to far as put to prove It is vain more you the on truth for you amorous the state of what to than of your I said protest that ever 266 pf the heart, all in my you goes last letter. came Countess, away your LIFE when embarrassment remained had made you the extreme "fermiere your deceive to whether inquired she with long the attempt answer, LETTERS AND care her took you generate," by suffers Countess that. Da not you praising ancient will rival? not that you than you of she affects the Chevalier, can assure affected time short a I once, be soon so mentioned For by to rouse your languors will Jealousy ago. all that you you the her disarm to consequences how see jealousy by your the evasive an slightestsuspicion,are indications to me far more are guilty than you pretend, or of yourself. are aware The you we give Do for count something to think about. you You will nothing, the sufferingsof the Marquise? of the smallpox will not soon see her, the ravages alone disfigureher face, for her dispositionwill be you different,as very misfortune. her and How With women! tear soon to be so The ! to of show me. divulge my with from to You others cease is some, hand- so in the shade. him to writing about I am my that the criticism of 267 I a about you been letters secret. flatteringmyself withstand have recent my I will to the forgotten to quarrel with treatment as She best I foresee! storms I had is her Countess long? very her complexion casts What of extent pity her; how I pity other cordialityshe will hate them tatters friend, will she the I what them learns she as M. you so indiscreet de la Rochefoucauld. if you continue willing to talk ideas, but I write reader your well am sonally perfar enough like him. XXXIX True The Value of left marks THE in public such a have the made this I the already the through it is it acquires strength; environment. its under its own justification,in edge of the surprised Up to by the what at the present same her, that the Marquise the could effects 268 a not of it! fallen for her to the have Now, therefore, your been shame, so reason friend in so gathers has have love, may it not, am says they what I interested, I man wo- a more who and moment Countess for that her the of against conducting principles; against heart herself the stances, circum- case if woman precipice, same not friend; weapons A deems ban, her example, our new would upon itself, becomes in miliates hu- Does dangerous of only not which the in of contagion in pride? more in time appear she depends weaknesses seductive too she how example is lution reso- long a suffer! with quise's Mar- Her accident the Chevalier similar a could virtue the on for happened, not Nothing than from If female fear Countess! speak; state? Women wild. her herself How diminishes and How show poor that prove Among smallpox set me. had her have to surprise not the by face not does Compliments favor. guided then, been the for anteed guar- Mar- LIFE has quise strong a LETTERS the reason of defeat the to AND for more friend; she her ing contribut- has become positivelyugly, and consequently obliged to be Will she more complaisant in retaining a lover. suffer another to keep hers at a less cost? woman That would be to recognize too humiliating a superiority, and most to up can assure succeed, how much To been changed ! and woman, have be to so day, is, I every strength of the than the and vowt, an forewarn this with regret, but Whatever to she Marquise, she her bellishes em- ence pres- beyond the greater philosophy. Among where rivalrybegins. By be beauty only, it would of sentiment. take another woman, that you. may as suffer effort add to widower determined friendshipceases that of rivalry,I mean I foresee to the everything will beautiful as reasonable most most much amiable I fear day, women too her she will do longer, although no herself every that you singularthings to bring the point. If she be I control will it is my precautions the make never amour duty the propre to ess Countof the anything else out by what ingrate. I do not know tells one fatality,everything1a beautiful woman in the mouth, is no who longer beautiful, assumes breaks which an impression of a commiseration and down the most carefullydevised management, The it is thought to console. humiliates her whom strives to efface the superiority she a more woman of her than possesses more she an over makes an sister woman, the superiority apparent, until unfortunate that 269 NINON the latter reaches de the L'ENCLOS that it is opinion only through ordinate generosity that she is permitted to occupy the subposition left her. You depend upon it,Marquis, that women may misled when it mutual praise; they fully appreciate the eulogies interchanged cerity, themselves; and as they speak without sinamong so they listen with little gratitude. And although she who speaks, in praising the beauty of another, may do so in good faith,she who listens the eulogy, considers to less what the other says her style of beauty. Is she ugly? We than lieve benever are and we, love thank we You her between them to them form who have good neighbors? cause of the lack who are over nothing, is the the for to be real to care goods do not do it would be public our give another; thing some- motive she often that for a quarrel this of fact that friend true Those women. our humiliation. a the the "nothing" quarrel? It is only their of give that as the reason with to charge us envy, will not penetrate suppose you the the beauty of as sell become to friends intimate hide make have cordialityamong occasion We she spoke. may same Men but reveal to the of somer, her; hand- explain,it is impossible for chants merfriendship. Can two to most pretext. when not the women solid a as this, Marquis, that beautiful two as handsome as before than more be disdain and understand must much coldly hate her we if she her, but to comes it is is the We do jealousy real cause, estrangement pleasure actions one would woman prefersinjustice.When- 270 it ever that happens happy as to find they seize upon with other You frankness? I not passes I do not ell my But she expense, another my the Are with you from woman But will be us much cient suffi- cerity lengths my sinjust ideas of everything, for I am assuredly I as a sure am in buried they might, perhaps, sex, agrees, said. between to fear embroiling myself in blame to you criticise. how each what to give than I sometimes what talking see own exempt more faults to try at my even I other, hate proves so the rupture. before am are vivacity,and it with Well, Marquis, women get rid of each to pretext a other each goes. beautiful two cordialitywhich a they loved LETTERS AND LIFE that oblivion, quarrel claim the the with right ingenuity. Countess however, there many is above all such with everything women 271 petty things, I have like her? just XL Fine and Oratory of example THE effect any appears, guard on yourself favor you I have this occasion when is about strange is in they she to your married I say, their is the imagine. But with us, what of and sincerity, is they It her. what seems that esteem, to a she in as her soon they against are acting They consider else ago, in are they reason anything time who, prerogatives; lovers. sole some 272 those complaints cooling it all same secret that when and the and themselves, for eagerness and permit you the ground. despised, told on you lover, becomes, love and I fail disrespect, before her husbands contrary? slight not But of unfaithful esteem drawn recollection, same women, in would cases. of more some passion your the is It disinterestedness and common a on to them, that with unmarried, being of. proof a proof a meet Listen hear as through her similar perfect accord imagination, as have it is, that accepts woman you declared in customary friend. her and that had yet she respect you not that recall of has Love contrary, reproaches to protestations made you, thinking Breed of heart deprived been Not Marquise the her do the on have the on against upon Phrases that good a can mark than the women faith, go NINON somewhat consoles me see well very continue But, at on L'ENCLOS for your that the best in my least, be relatingto de the own way discreet glory of thing for as when the letters. 274 indiscretion,and to me I have ; is to in the past. I mention Countess do I matters otherwise, no XLI Discretion Sometimes Is NO, species How are pleased blind of sure all there love that If I were a the impose and the creator? my treasure feel that in What adorable see her it consisted upon mine, my a a that I resolution a may not satisfaction woman slightest the acts when like use there I all my it, reflect of it and give 275 you birth yet of myself the have to iable am- I be contemplate precious in cessively suc- not of read law many felicity,base deprive power the them would its dispose have to in would learn of advantages? how men, of Countess, the be Of that economy? overlook to miser, to it becomes as my would to to ests inter- sweetness greatest woman possession the ness." happi- that fortunate so unknown Like what before is the leisurely? even know time the were unceasingly, happiness is all with myself upon pleasures, it I would gradations many I should of heart discretion what How earth, and desire understand, never used man the you "supreme to long a you on be must captured with good is Valor heart, it is in your defeat Will of in you the not are, woman's a entire. call to you her enjoy to which with Part pardon not can fury of are you you I Marquis, Better the eyes over an value, all my that it tain main- its use. of her; an to impression NINON tenderness, whenever of voice soften her speaks; to eagerness, that of it is to is at of sure to hear of you she you; or slightest your innocent most condition delicious more a to you enjoy her1 confusion her anxiety at your lover who a they relate when Is there caresses? L'ENCLOS de being loved, and there be any sweeter than at such moments? charm for a lover to be expected with a is that an all the eagerness made She the hide to dresses the lover dressed the in please to What ; it is he man former In for men; that pose general, now find you the anything resistance take to she of his in a word, she the effort assumes flatter may times women their entire toilette sake she to wears is made? But I it is certain eagerness, to them, to seductive than know the even all the by can tender that all these as sweetness than the You thing, any- voice a most al- refusal for which rigor of which looks, before soon not you a she plaint com- any. as she yields to in proportion pleasures weaken facilitymet. increase a conceive not Can Is there than is into person. implores weakness? emotion, He enchanting who of her soften own more reproaches herself,and, attempts your love more stifled with in her woman a advantage loves in with received bangles, jewelry, ribbons, bracelets, rings. the object of it all,the woman is transformed the patience im- an please; she to style,the most. please to is the can of it? fashion a be ; to flatteringfrom more half in deportment, her concealed not than alone may long pro- them, by taking the time and its taste. However, 276 AND LIFE satisfied unless not are you and easy, surprised find to dies from desire to heart example will the Countess. with shall be do not on both for the will know be interests true your To her sides ; for I good of the in often formal, and tell am that love as me will the learn never reasonable conduct with human my is,in stand undertoward projects,I possible. Now, your it is that during; en- sics. metaphy- little you your that from sentiments I am persuaded that partiesinterested. 277 ject? ob- feelings my I know how interfere as beloved happiness question of love, the only fine, you the indigestion, and of the economy are thing every- render whether see done from to tire, en- stancy incon- understand felicity;you true that In the passion a manage and that, you in confidence will You . you the tell you from be not for contended often but Count how after you passion always I will sometime for Have heart. have And possession indifference,coolness, and satiate your I the continuous. in your to LETTERS an I advocate am acting XLII in Indications Surface Women Not are Alwavs Guides I WHAT, good hence, I You you. treating love, mocks the just she allurements. faith of To one any which the names But do give you wish from woman whose they is to does not exposed to to of fashion for which but All she have outward perfidious and of the it is that she you you this thus talk to me You is not good duct con- a all deserves undeceive severity 278 you fallen imagine They always a all the on prude; How them. the with keener my into They men. than overcome to have among surface. a but do to her. virtue easier be ill-used severe, vengeance; common the having encouraged confess must frankness? which this advantage for you women will I " cries customary error take advice, with deceitful but You indulgence freedom very take my easy mistake. your nothing was for Her all not was discovered show follow to accessibility, her Platonicians, that hope to you. assure nothing had faults, the numerous your I so, roughly. her I will all sorry you Countess Marquis? willing at thought the treat not do to been not am you, not care have and censure an judge that a qui vive, even often that perience exare it LIFE AND then, is unexpected? Their custom of caprice and oddity; all of you was women and language, same When conduct? Why not In her, when she Is this not with does odd being permit care to ever false? and lover?' a him see love to man a her to again? trifling Is it not sentiment? You in are upon false scent, a it very if a little. tie to severity that from would be of most the she to you knows her herself from indicate that hers, what the shame ignoring the reasons are that and For induced wound bestow to her her a woman sensible glory sist con- But out with- expects tion atten- them pride; unable this a less no she you. solitude a adoration. those fact that on first with What even? the is invincible, she for her. to anticipation, is arm lovers you that lay the blame no us little intelligence let her securing homage from put bles thing that resemyourselves, you, pronounced virtue is the desire to please, she makes in to a However have, bind would that time, try you must to were not thus? may wherefore, you If she Are you woman strongest ennobling as treat we in vain imposing are you is offensive,and that, of itself, of sentiment blame gentlemen, error, vanity, it is your talk of not remain to conformable word, why a the equivocal decided exterior an accuse use surprise the credulityof possess sentiments? has woman to such Why say: a intractable, why on LETTERS only to for reform defect,the only part she can take is to use it to her advantage to keep them by her side ; she knows how to keep them, and not destroy the very hopes 279 NINON With fail to not to "I I do what does Countess the 'I love the appreciate disguise the not soon as fessed con- last interview: our well can men; at me Hence, real interests she her herself to say gratify. to never succeeds. understands woman a as skill she and care is determined she which, however, L'ENCLOS de you' of the what fact that I know it the rests me at bottom, therefore signifies upon burden of being offended at hearing them; but have when women penetrated their motives, they signs. their dehave need of their vanity to disconcert when Our they have offended us, anger, in opposing them. is not the best weapon to use Whoever must resist them, to angry outside go herself her exposes and become A weakness. fine ness, irony, a piquant raillery,a humiliating coolNever these what are a discourage them. quarrel with them, consequently no reconciliation. What advantages does not this mode of procedure take from them! prude, it is true, follows If she is exposed to the "The method. imagine proportion to the does not whom upon man who ill used my which to and the awkwardness temerity. notice such the because a redouble disarm reasonable be she conduct cards, says experiences; impose? to but himself: in but Every *I am opportunity is unfavorable. that is punished and not Another is to resentment does knows It is my herself quite different least danger, she a time, that will be well ceived re- to-day; this severityis a gence induleffort,to merit more my be apto pride; she wishes crime 280 NINON de L'ENCLOS I imagined her capable of. The loss would undoubtedly be a misfortune could be never conditions the compromise hold worthy better her of her than heart Shall we dente's? speak your your courage, had Let against love. see to-morrow you should her, I do not I perseverance she is willing to desire doubt peace. 282 hope it will formed to await us at to Madame have that she hand, other She and heart which hopes to be betraying her duty, a the plan she If you to upon for the on accepted; you. without you be to with But, place you hard too appear to consoled. of your you able to project succeed guarantee the come. out- la Presian occasion will make XLIII Women SHOULD I My What! with caused! than the principles. But me as success, for the Do you told have and them them to teaching you I that they were to you in that to women told ever and ever seduction? incline said I was seduction? toward without them suppose tack at- attacking delicacy? you cause to might defects you you to play I do not have insensibly cause in of the 283 ridiculous a the explained you in the confidence, more timidity your role the I women, among advised and inexperience your personage lead in sensuality, by When these lessons ever for it. believe might you I your think you, which my for dared in say laud you writing Have vanquish? to which has piquant more responsible you have but be you share you in motives the you what difference any exciting love, it is true, easier giving perceive not please, to of in have object my purpose could me attempt, that If tone render to you instant an ironical I severity her humor nothing drawn me? upon know? you founded, well were Do you. bad the has behalf your down reproaches it, Marquis. expected in zeal Countess the Respect have never your for Demand direction of harm world. in order that I to noble NINON L'ENCLOS de and respectful boldness with women. But soon as should you I as have when that your saw tensions pre- going too far, and that they might wound the reputation of the Countess, I did not dissimulate, I took sides against you, and nothing were reasonable, I had was more You see, and her then, how are you to less no if she as unjust idea, she your conduct a But there However, the an is much to Countess tender; a only it; good faith a the reasonable as for nor in her as she is tious having an ostentaremains tached constantly at- in woman, decided without virtue, nevertheless to ing Accord- clearly see you treat logicalcoquette than opinion! pardon in your situation. in see prejudice, would lover a who, woman You more without man a is What women. regard, my her. to neither has what other in are regard against gallantry,and is, that she you friend. her equivocal character. an were in so become who word, a seeks in of reconcilinglove and duty. The traries difficultyin allying these two conis not slight,and it is the source equaliti of the inthat wound Figure to yourself the you. combats she must she suffers, sustain,the revolutions her embarrassment in endeavoring to preserve whom uniform resistance might too a lover a of keeping you ing sure repel. If she were by resistyour to advances; the is too you means proper but you carry your odd duct con- her resistance leaving her when prolonged. While praising our virtue, abandon since in both of extent us, and cases then, what it is not 284 shame for certain that us her ! But lover LIFE LETTERS venient held, it is preferableto accept the incon- will be rather her AND than cause lose her to you heart and esteem. That is advice, for the Countess our preciselyalike on the subject. Marquis; complain of her rather If her character would be that equitable, more than criticise her. decided, perhaps you in satisfied with her; but, even were better would case Be I think and more satisfied very be you I long? it. doubt Adieu. seeing you this evening Madame de La will at Fayette's,and that you The reasonable. Abbe more Gedoyn will be prove The but presented me. assembly will be brilliant, you We will count doubtless the only object that say of my of the "Mais Et moi garden bored, for you be apartment, attract can you, Malherbe what of the Louvre I, I can you see may Caliste have nothing will and so not see you will well says : vous quoi que vous ayez, Caliste, je ne vois rien, quand je ne (Whatever And on when 285 I you see n'avez la vois have her point pas." not not.) got, XLIV Love Why Grows Weak" Marshal Evremond's has CALM A I and by satisfied How mouth effect of former and the that of this connection letter mond the I wish that an faithful un- generally the is however, in and of contents Saint-Evre- de not are have her commonly the you Monsieur You it for remedies, of give to ago. relations intimate reach from days love misfortune, the received few a This of severity making is the opposite an So ingratitude men, beyond I Marquise the how see and esteem self. your- from the Chevalier. the benefits. always You more with coming Marquise; the of out is produced your of among not a the increasing lover price of has are you and adore! friend kindness happens Countess we our from the the Marquis, storm, that letter logic woman a the your powerful of conduct with Saint- Opinion succeeded see de ignorant of existed tween be- always us. The Count young had de Mademoiselle of whom he just espoused passionately was , amorous. hymen weakened tender and He complained the possession every love. We day, and day one of often discussed 286 the the to beloved destroyed subject that me object the for most a long LIFE time, and I as mond that This is his LETTERS AND happened write to day, I submitted reply: SAINT-EVREMOND the TO DE to Saint-Evre- question to him. MADEMOISELLE L'ENCLOS. moiselle; opinion is exactly in line with yours, Madeit is not think, hymen always, as some the possession of the loved object which, of itself, or of the dissatisfaction destroys love, the true source that follows love is in the unintelligentmanner of economizing the sentiments, a possession too easy, complete, and prolonged. When have we yielded to the transports of a shock to passion without reserve, the tremendous the soul can fail quickly to leave it in a pronot found My solitude. which alarms of follows an heart and we itself in vainly of do the not void a seek side out- which calm perceive that enduring happiness would more fruit of analysis of what We cause fits of passion ; our the finds chills it. and ourselves, the equal been The moderation. takes Make place within you have exact an when you desire are is will find that your desires anything. You and this curiosity, which nothing but curiosity, one of the forces vanish. spouse be or a of the every procure day therefore, would Whoever, lover, should desired, something for the for him leave new morrow. the heart, satisfied,our charm 287 him hold sires dea something to should be expected Diversify his pleasures, of variety in the same NINON object, and will I L'ENCLOS de vouch for his in perseverance fidelity. I call your "defeat," is, in of love. grave that the of the But blame of the skillfulness,and in alive nothing she a in the her heart, those knows in of the epoch whe.li a the into has She lover, mind, it is the avowals, has variety no of aurora the most effusions confidences; those in and of ties, ingenui- those ports trans- the refinement which all discovers haustible inex- have freedom play held us of man treasures him; might keep certaintyof creating happiness, and meriting all the esteem love. That we day is,in a word, the person brings I pended ex- it well. beginning understand by mutual excite absolute from statue; lover unexpected which has excited. same I have woman un- own the curiosityof her to the upon She that lover complains her to lovelier day; it is the those an had always the satisfyingpleasures. the casts of economy. she offer to more hoped for,and But of lack inclination becomes be she is due the the upon who single day everything a the her what you woman, her upon passion; heart what or ordinary it is less then the hymen, an falls,than cooling depravity of to that confess, however, a the in reserve; but one well under flight, leading to loathing, will always been hidden woman acquires who sentiments her heart control. furnish new which takes straint cona lofty Time, far from reasons for a greater love. But, to repeat; in her to be able to I assume control 288 sufficient her intelligence inclination. For to NINON something stant, L'ENCLOS de is more little management, a and even of ill humor Unfortunately, however, have yielded they It would if they to were afterward. more forestall become be resist less for the in maintain I the that to wish time I hear them to too plaisant. com- good, beginning they never leaving the the women common loathing without for, and ness. fickle- as tender, too better and soon as quired, re- ligence, of intel- great deal a touch a skill is necessary; heart and can thing some- consider. differen continuallycomplaining that our inis always the fruit of their complaisance for us. They are ever recalling the time when, goaded by love and sentiment, we spent whole days blind they are! by their side. How They do not to bring us perceive that it is still in their power back of which is so to an allegiance,the memory If they forget what dear. they have already done for us, they will not be tempted to do more; but if shall become us more forget, then we they make awaken hearts by opposour exacting. Let them ing new difficulties, arousing our anxieties,in fine, proofs of an inclination, forcing us to desire new its value the certaintyof which diminishes in our estimation. of complaint They will then find less cause in us, and Shall change, time to be I it? frankly avow if that better satisfied with will be would women their entreated, favors; that, role ours created always that of him indeed would at the that of the who begs remember is to Things grant, they should 290 selves. them- right party for new never Reserved, offer. LETTERS AND LIFE in even of excess an passion, tion; guard against surrendering at discrethe lover should always have something to sive be always submisask, and consequently, he would they should so the end, revolting even puts all the ugly, who the on women after grade de- in are, the ciety So- them. exacts some level; the hand- same defeat, their their except from and charms, him to limit without Favors seductive most and it. obtain to as art to tinguishable indis- are their maintain A happens? commonly woman imagines she has nothing further to do than of even to be affectionate,caressing,sweet, temper for these faithful. and She is right in one sense, of her character; qualitiesshould be the foundation but these qualities, they will not fail to draw esteem; estimable however be, if they are they may fail of contrariety,will not offset by a shade not iness, to extinguish love, and bring on languor and wearmortal poisons for the best constituted heart. nauseated know Do so why lovers become you enjoying prosperity? Why they are easily when little pleased after having had so much pleasure? so tically both partiesinterested have an idenIt is because opinion. One imagines there is erroneous but authority; nothing more nothing more to thinks one neglects to becomes she Reason no other obtain, the give. to that other what It follows in his slackens be worthy so by the seasoning 291 in has sequence con- pursuit, and the advances, practice of for she necessary a of further is substituted more as fancies solid love, and or ities. qual- forward, hence- their relations; no NINON trifling quarrels so necessary dissatisfaction by forestalling it. of those more But be L'ENCLOS de when I exact that to of temper evenness vent pre- should animated the by occasional storms, do not be under impression that I pretend lovers should always be quarreling to preserve desire to impress it upon that the does not of not fear by her lover that on Neither too should a into by a itself; species of a attentions and of source he that of their a has anxiety her ence; exist- may not nothing in to too or an alterable un- weak her women spouses sweetness, be temper, everything lacking hearts understand mis- sensitiveness, she that sure woman of demonstrates the love love only score. evenness pardon respect excessive an her from forget (by the I all their of poisoning every moment by a scrupulous fidelity,she that render that should convert capable you, emanate woman her; that happiness. should pusillanimous kindness) due their their enough to lover. ence Experioften lovers sacrifice by too ness! recklessindulgences and facilities. What They martyrize themselves by sacrificing them into everything; they spoil them and convert So much ungrateful lovers. generosity finally many against themselves, turns accustomed them as You we a to demand a they soon right what become is granted favor. a see women despise with those day (even among reason), who reign with every so much scepter of iron, treat to as and them, debase as slaves them 292 by men force who are tached at- of controll- them. ing loved a AND Well, these than longer of woman military of following is the charm in But let the reasonable will We like those bottom down K we to as of the soon us for my they moderate their and the that sometimes without own clouds a is be to But very treated in have we of good the justice, hand governing for often bears reasons, it. to word: last can virtue. kindness comprehension a energy sovereigns ; it is from and they will never as the demand world. new force and and precisely what much too often we kindly That lover. hearts us take the the our upon Now, be of tells which and insolent; from soften remain slaves, whom are renders a would constitutes which remote woman that gentleness to even always hold to necessary such are persuaded brought up, an example. decency things who women am repugnant that lacks trifle,there I others. the manner and morals, the are refinement, well think never LETTERS LIFE govern their own In of love, ing relat- should women we hope for fail to grant us them our hearts with inclinations,and authority,without abusing it. 293 everything piness, hapthat ligence, intel- tain main- compromising it XLV What Favors TO Evremond it is with a only passion take for be might in the the of presence for her vanity, not pass without for But at ; to was upon select a passing, woman to up a have pretend now, I it. of you is To exterior renounce proclaimed whatever favor with little so which found publicly, her renounce you regard naturally The recompense. happier a will pretext portrait. for day when the first when moment of to effort solemn arms upon proportionate her a exacted rival, and an the that about you, has you ask; home her taking is please whose not you take to put you her a could giving Countess to excited talk shall Saint- affected be have a you. accord to For de should and we woman a willing Countess she of think Monsieur it may price readiness her that concerns the sake, her of fancy, I yesterday: advice whenever what up worth well the tion, satisfac- your what is you However, sacrifice The sent mediocre large to This requisite love. of at more I profit by to woman letter Faults words two Marquis. the will in explain Consider Men to rank; to the make to an speak surrender 294 the time Marquise ceived re- since ness ill- moneyed assault to her her woman of beauty merely yourself in entirely the to the and become for which you will for the ask last fault loves woman first certain,or more others she Whatever of the things greater I will a certain than for on a certain things of nothing, for then, yours, you, for she you is too to accorded the on much marks in will one of else even ance appear- is of less prove behalf glory all the woman in any passion, as so proud. sacrifices you interested be loves, are own had inclination. nature favor her every than she men last not of her which the claim her, although been will you, when small other thousand a virtuous. and if this virtuous the disposition, that you of her you do may add, that even proof this slightestessential much as are those woman a is refined given have may the no. flatteringfor more proof for whom she case, rather or certain a Now it. letter: favor, woman passion, and a is and the love in such even Yes you. Yes, if you your commit, can we venge Re- ble, possi- as guarantee last the whether cruel as of your paragraph me be rage out- an pardoned. be never It is I who see. second You will entertain to party, is of her one quickly, and come rival; her seeing latter you But of pleasure will LETTERS AND LIFE count less than listeningto having would suaded perhave favor. same who permitted herself to be three times she did or by men vanquished two she really loved not tained oblove, and the man never It may a single favor. happen, then, that the last favor proves it is nothing to him to whom granted. Whereas, on the contrary, it may happen I know a woman 295 NINON that he had for the owes than with quite sure that themselves respect never regard they esteem, and you may be it requires a very imperious inclination reasonable to forget herself woman of which, disdain whose one far so humiliate would little the pretended triumph, therefore, causes you, of it to those presence Your in a cause in the granting Women, him. more to L'ENCLOS de originate being glorious for from if you you dreads. she may were of aware them. We see, for the woman her to example, who his pay lover a loves who him addresses of holding him. They say reproach in this. If he leaves will be least he becomes grants, she the attached imagines the actuated by yielding. Curiosity impels know are love what the attractions to make Still another Another is. of person by I enumerate a of a that, a at man wo- the favors she be forced into different desire with woman, hold One in motives they some, pleasure. few her to vantages adlover termined is de- woman to her vanity. flattering surrenders to pity, opportunity, the pleasure of taking revenge conquest one rival, or them will figure,would or importunities, to on after nothing for, since by man is there wrong, more other any folly! gratitude. What Women in put lose to abandoned; of her cape es- woman wish be pelled; re- will another to she does not accommodating; him, for it is always humiliating to she she is not aware yields,because to he fears more means be may an all? unfaithful The 296 heart lover. is so very How can strange XLVI Inconstancy Is kind of you, Marquis, If I did not Why IT too was absence. my sojourn were too, that it was rights, besides love, Do in happen I foresaw her and would not take would decisive her up also will these among to Marquise The and but eyed mon- her as her an rival, backing danger. be upshot the in be the of How women? Heavens! seems for and in Countess, handsome declaring for reason so in. now end quarrel. other's quite is not is the the I liable Countess that of cause ters. let- my away? would they your events the guessed the the without What Good I while the between predicted in read society your I up woman a condition espouse all out quarrel any to doing was bickerings rupture; open I piecing by the the rival, you and short, very interval enable felt accorded be having not an what myself usually I me. to my knew I because love patiently would know you amused to waited I which pleasure is reign friendship that, with its during you was for noticed have to tranquilized that necessary as Injustice write it country, and happy, you some the in Not so short this a time! that quarreling revolutions, many only thing 298 all Your has ness happi- escaped. LIFE discover You new that a reasons of woman real interestinga figure,will Let nothing weaken more. had love of her avowal to in augment the certainty proofs of her with so and more have you is she but in your ways al- acquired if you inclination we gives spoke you any her heart proportion that shall an ble less estimanot in eyes, Even that think you esteem contrary, ought have you possessor? sole do price known the for you, the On for that? believe You merit, and become loving have, it is true, obtained You for her. Countess. much so for day every this amiable esteeming and LETTERS AND are you its obtained have about right to to recently, underrate her? like you arouse saying it; men indignationevery time they imagine they claim my and punthe right to lack in courtesy for my sex, ish Is it not weaknesses. the height of for our us injusticeand the depth of depravity to continue to is the cause of their changes ? insult the griefwhich without be inconstant just? being unnot women Can by always to be followed Is their distaste I not can injurious act? some of him who of cause a which our in your can alone eyes. faults,who our the right is the to which 299 regard. interfere with in your should manner the Countess in her still make The the us? for opinion guilty,is it are expressed they defeat we punish to have false If profited by maintain you permit has them, Always not avoid ments sentiDo the heart. render in which not ress progIt is able despic- us we have NINON the only be So my measure Madame You But she than does Fayette is of the your consider not omit in subject which to draw he that out of it is the out of sallies it is intent am dissects that lead me. guilty I analyse the physical one. no the more regard to scruples he his operations those portions of his might offer corrupted minds sions occa- It is not indecency; I to tion? liberal founda- a anatomy. as opinion indiscretions that of man believe you rather upon demonstrator a should disdain. where see guarded, ought of your is based metaphysical Do La de last letter L'ENCLOS delivered, and defended, been de the essence the not of him ill an of words, who regulated imagination? things that causes or utters the even them, and ideas, the de La Faydepravity of him who listens. Madame ette in the world was certainly the last woman I would whom have suspected of reproaching me in that and manner, will make her to-morrow, confess her 300 at the injustice. Countess', I XLVII Cause of Quarrels I, Marquis, WHAT, bickerings Do from away for that is concerned, her conduct, for rival if he him need in you from You attentions the will you have soon little so written their across to in devote you be her offered are the of heart that, and they You the and I think price of which you will It them. man: tachment. at- your from accept every have precisely strengthen and is not because Countess her, to as desire quarrel advance to dispensed, delicacy the it is the of punishing as resentment. of as preference. of anger, the in thing a subject rival the exacted such their of display toi encountered what the object the liking motive powerful obtained you far so contradiction, pardon becomes first the having a propre is interested she take have may most vanity never who the that to coquetry amour your for Her for Women She new woman? instant an Countess. is, without revenge. her for of moderate the at moneyed refinements the but you, astonished your doubt not all the employs of Rivals Among "To is the easiest." should You from seem the to blush Countess. prefer to to What her? the deserve sort A 301 woman of a least woman without reproach is it you delicacy NINON and without the attractions love; of a pleasure; than affectionate, she than nothing but youth is vain more tender; seeks, she and guided only by passionate more cherishes all the ble; sensi- than in advantages you that it. accompany You your who woman voluptuous more L'ENCLOS de know what her rival is worth ; you know all doing with her ; you agree that you are of ingratitude, yet, you monster a are unwilling to take it upon yourself to merit her pardon. Truly, I am beginning Marquis, I do not understand you. de Sevigne was to believe that Madame right when his duty very knew she said that her son well, and like a philosopher on the subject,but could reason carried that he was by his passions, so that away "he is not head fool, but a heart fool" (ce n'est a pas par la tete qu'ilest fou, mais par le coeur). I said to you You recall in vain what long ago You about making love in a free and easy manner. I was will remember that then enjoying myself tended inwith not were some jocular reflections which advice. Do not to be formal forget,either, about that the question then was a mere passing the But fancy, and not of an ordinary mistress. find different, you not can case to-day is very of Paris, a single one all the women who among be compared with her you doning. are so can cruelly abanyour wrong And wounds left us to hold for what your reason? vanity. Because What her resource sistance re- is you? I agree with you, nevertheless, that when a passion be relightedwithout is extinguished it can not 302 difficulty. No is one is of he than LETTERS AND LIFE the more I loving. not of master the feel loving all of truth with regret, homage to them sider soon a as knowledge of the cause, I conas, with and is excellent that you reject what accept solid happiness, durable the a renounce worse; you pleasures,and yield to depraved tastes and pure that all my reflections will see caprices; but I can I am reform not beginning to fear that I am you. I do maxims; these wearying truth, it is very are you a I therefore the us it be of tone would weary giving follies. new Would heart and of any a lose you and in ridiculous abandon however, into morals, it is certain when that with you that to to me do you tell you the preach stancy con- love, and not fool. to you up my desire should Why moment out, destiny, with- your to to I assume follow be afflicted? with pedagogue? Assuredly not, too much thereby. I should would not be 303 reformed. you you both become of XLVIII Friendship DO I regard with patience break as off all good inclines for To though. advice my more be hold my is one effort I may they So day, as would need be I not a no plained com- is ing improv- in my last crime. our longer useless harshness my is of ments mo- woman a pathy sym- innocence, situation her that the were your charming so as myself content importuning resume in that friend my There believe to Whatever guilty, of me. The understand less misfortune to low fol- you ought thoughts. you consider hereafter, without You find Now you. shall, us the first as stronger will his when almost let to could were every her of right, are friendship. the you treaties en- ship friend- my long so man your You true but importance I of I you, for have be censured make when letter be master still greater and not on not I would only to a to that weakness. a friend to are you on your be belief the tempted wicked so of out me was yielding in to me borders you with nature put I and you, in conduct your had relations my My you. Countess the to Firm Be it, Marquis, conceal not Must you gait, if fear well my as 304 it please reproaches, out of pitying about longer any ordinary with place. I see her. you. they NINON L'ENCLOS de speaks; it is a vain woman, desperate at being anticipated,exasperated at the lack of in her charms, a place worrying over plan to repower to give herself an you promptly, anxious pearance apof sensibility, and to appear worthy of a who lover better fate. She this thought justifies la Rochefoucauld: de lovers the over loved they wish that an take to which you. A will not place. she will do be of her what Chevalier I have ing be- has of for begins is actually received not consoled you hand, engage on speak not she of Do you. heart age because worthy upon The affair of the that recover very she is? much so tears enjoy the sentiment. singular idea of you impose you woman a shed not more to can your from letters with she what without him appear indeed, have know to to as do had, It is for D must hope to have they them, loved." She "Women of Monsieur to the two facility having lost fear that she lost, and so is she obliged to degrade her charms by taking the first is true, but she new comer. Perhaps her sorrow deceives the motives she gives for it. to as you Break these chains without scruple. In priding yourself on your constancy and delicacy for such be as ridiculous to to me an object,you appear lacked the same when were as qualities you you - on another Do you Coulanges occasion. remember, said to us Marquis, day? one people of limited by the caprice of an virtue merit. of themselves in her what amiable heart? 306 the Monsieur de "Constancy is the Have they profited woman sentiment to lish estabof me- dare make not happy at afraid find of their effort an and, they are not may attention undeceive might little worth which instant's an as Too they heart, her they others. please to having surprised abandoning a good elsewhere, them, there, it intimidates them diocrityfixes LETTERS AND LIFE this to woman, They elevate constancy love into a the virtues; they transform up among in interest reason how to superstition;they know the preservation of a heart which they owe only to caprice, occasion^or surprise." Be on your guard Hearts against imitatingthese shallow personages. the money of gallantry; amiable are people are the what assets and do do? society,whose destiny is to circulate in it fore make is thereman happy. A constant many tion as impedes the circulaguilty as a miser who of in who not would What of which make use by force of society,what of good that when one it has constancy I compare it to the death to Constancy condemns Discard such a baleful many is retained is to the to say It is veritable a the rant; ty- antiquity who to same precedent her parties at of them in exist? to tyrant by tying us so employ not in both ceases then put people who ceased time, and same are languor reigns must passion there is that What violence which treasure a of it. mistress a reason? is love seldom possesses utilize,and sort there He commerce. does he then they to dead bodies. punishment. the libertyof association. Believe you me, follow mentioned; she your tastes may weary 307 for the you at lady times, it court NINON is true, but as say, she you her her will another follow I adopted as be soon be several even see fashion. it Never The other will proportion the as second better having from ranged. ar- menced com- first the one the have you be can for becoming are system withdraw never doubt not wait not affair without one in gallantrieswill that you new is beautiful, place I do certain, nothing finish another; and If, you. Your over. vacant, Perhaps you by your letter makes in will not degrade little intelligentas she will or of man she soon yours. end, for a is reign heart that least at L'ENCLOS de cept ex- progresses. be better, but in spite of such wise Nothing can find yourself destitute of precautions, you may event beyond the reach any, as, for example, some of human interfere with these rangements, arforesight may have for principlealways to finish may with all the mistresses before enabling at once, to find any to keep you one busy during the you interregnum. I feel free to confess, Marquis, that such an arrangement is as prudent as can be imagined, and pleased I do write I do with you such suspect if I did been and wisely where I long in charm secret for you tender have henceforth things believe in their to it is be often me, my obtain heart my thought and I sincerity. 308 the be well Adieu. to courage letters. I find which I should so well. without now or? will conceived. foolish and know not very you entertainingyou, reflectingthat I must that so plan a know not doubt not a I have any affair, guard against you, proper might think to say proper very to L Some YOU Women derive may it as tell Madame I that say do you I the in see like world truth There the body is woman the the desire least ; these and the women into after always all, vanity motives the are lose all the by they by for word, a a a profits by which right? dies mala- as inary. imag- are toward you being together, to get little away gallantry, thousand other in passion take to fortify homage the not in who, well other, first to to best some generally the faith as of resemble you the attracts each a not are their provided in good but and habit necessity what are flattered Always To do which reasons that seeing please, to heart real The of hundred whatsoever. are love. than affairs amorous, the of self, the one's with manner any ; some convenience from were everything Not a they in a when me your known pretended maladies are of have into tinue con- ated fascin- not are Believe clearly you, not were you shall I but Presidente. I that that of out amusement Marquis, you more yourself. who, men la Cunning Very much as wish, you to by Are be this they They owe would love, error. rendered it, they the them, rarely it. quire in- But, nearly it. motives of which 309 I have just spoken, NINON illusion an the in la Presidente Madame beautiful most of could be make of woman the kind my dear be our which for it is by force love, you will, in that the faith you and, will be their the due. you, the at of will deference time it will gular sin- very dignityyou what ; with sentiments what ognition, they deserve recstill more agreeable, be will But unfortunately, the and you then with a that that you will be pression, im- believe firmly It will with to to call love, and short a believe what importance than yourself of the persuading yourself is real. will nothing give you aspire. That, you you day, to see thing some speak of your pretended good able ami- disabuse to inclination fail newly most vanity not which celebrity to Marquis, is what is Perhaps your would of difficult for you will of the the flatteringto more sentiments. time; she our ating cre- contradiction, the homage acquaintance. conquest a of your nature of capable as is,without married; she refused man L'ENCLOS another, quite still add can you de be which believe should result the will undeceive first to treated you be so laugh silly affair. an Shall I tell you fullypersuaded am passing taste, caprices; all the a It is true you. but will you you hope which that Henceforth, amorous. you to the not have become more nothing but glance from experience its pangs, love will least,its sweetness? from recover surrender not I relations, engagements, of will you will you arrows injusticereaches? will you frivolous enjoy, in ever far how the yourself,those 310 Can fantasies to moments of LIFE delight which duty LETTERS formerly were I have it my AND ity? felicyour supreme flatter you, but I believe desire to no to do this much justice: Your heart is intended for refined pleasures. It is not I who hold responsible for the dissipation in which you are fools around plunged, it is the young you you. They call enjoyment the abuse they make of pleasure; their example carries you But this intoxicati away. will be dissipated sooner or later, and you will soon, see, deceived in You thought been heart. la Presidente, she thought "but to at it will in recognize have words the time a come I thoughts my remainder of your the Confess it,Marquis, that morning that you must their when you have been criticism. Madame ; you uttered. for haps Per- I shall be at erty lib- freely. Now, more I letter. re-read my Some your inclination have had a of mistake an you in by have you state your when express reply to the fascinated was to so, that hope ways ceased to will least I two you had I hold there this you bad little else to I add letters. humor brilliant to do take under- engagement, rendezvous flattering was wanting. But I do not to elude care the. difficulty.So I seem to contradict If I were that to admit myself sometimes? it might very well be; if I were the to give you same that Monsieur answer de la Bruyere gave his critics the other day: "It is not I who contradict I reason," could myself, it is the heart upon which you reasonably conclude from it that everything some I have But said to how do you I is false? know, in 311 I do not believe it. effect,if, led away by NINON on different you ready have carried too would not, seeing do I know, of have think the I the abuse myself What would new wicked pity it is so give me coiffures with wear remain one as that you! of them to How to in her serve the may fact am that there criticism? an going some one is This opportunity console to who is suredly as- you. not a pleasure to are you I never height. if Madame attached not may interested than I much their as that the perfidy with so I back? you will have you simplicity. a extravagant of letter last time for your not know, if, sincerity? I to reply seriously to me. Ought I not caused have in your my vanced ad- my natured cognizance malice will be brought if, being diminished good you take I whim, a friend, the desire very worries more have word, a a do How to I had what far, truths, which, feebly uttered, sometimes am first to to in yield to perhaps, happiness not occasions? placed, I were you appeared* to destroy have not may L'ENCLOS in which situations various the de la At discuss It the anything so least,Marquis, remember saw Presidente incessantly,you can her with decency. 312 ! woman does no not longer NINON examine and situation in men as rival supposes how often does a loved the then as that glory as she loves him is there for love from advantage without you in him, what such to that hi^n, proof sure a which what case If preference? a can loved infer you to over your a man her? case where you be may ferred, pre- preferencebeing any more the vanity of the woman tering. flatyou is attack graced stronger than her inclination for the dislover. Your rank, your figure,your reputation, your favor. fortune, It is very and men women, it is rare, but nothing his rank, are I repeat, that sentiments dare not she does When etc. be short. will be to her Her an his him consider even sacrifice with will for acknowledge not it to the a in shame of in that lover, who offer, to your can spect), re- has long distinguishedfor his has servants, a livery, the blush woman say her less ridiculous no against a man his position, who a can (I rare noble equipage, when determine may own or makes she him, it is pretended victory a It is when she same sacrifice of If she not. longer, in no is also another There an did leaves indifferent was hold do, that the you she or as did not who in the are some rival soon she she who him. But superiorityover it happen that this same sacrifice is either by play? If it is sincere,the woman a only general you. all believe They L'ENCLOS de tender most appearance, as her him lover when conqueror, as an object eclat, I predict that his reign reasons for embarrassment 314 getting rid of him of choice. Thus LIFE the defunct of state, without What a la warrior like What find you a woman, successor proves it, and time? What set dull and a as of counsellor stiff as his wig. against a courtier, against up in my believe did it difficult to desolate as was you? Well, will you time? Presidente doubt figure to a LETTERS AND I predictions another tell Did the Chevalier you? persuade your Penelope? This her heart, gave ready to break in less than is flouted. is your fifteen Is this opinion? 315 days, loves losing too him, much LII Love Is Traitor a indeed, YES, it is Countess and enjoy, to the causes am you; are consider to while them, Of of that. omit Your Is to better than that In in you? take laughing of my Sevigne poor appears can hatred or me sonable unrea- I learned that of if you her heart please, You must You : a tening lis- loss, by right was dain. dis- natural it? to their so when value right, exceptions do mit ad- have Marquis. all that, the matter I what not Tell is your to do love? Duke for ways al- woman is the not the vanity. express little knows de heart, agreeable. the complain woman, you do herself By Madame spite the who to foolish to out console man a venture you burst a will I interesting quite simple, altogether should woman a I it not that which you. to a objects you of jealousy expect the begins wounded a abandoning whom person that it. from importance for desiring as anything what a in she chagrin the they them they, ordinarily love unjust, very that manifests from ship, friend- my tranquillity she grief springs to counsel conceive not can due my the indifference your Men to far, however, very of due owes I it is Marquis, Claws Sharp With part to understand 316 you to me how wish be nice me to play exceedingly it would be to aid in your you unfaithful through each love or other. of plan against vengeance the Though oddity of But all such woman. rancor LETTERS AND LIFE it should the be only thing,we comedies an must turn out is a traitor who scratches badly generally. Love when we us play with him. So, Marquis, keep your heart, I am ulous scrupvery with so precious an associabout interfering ation. I am so Moreover, disgusted with the "- of staleness only as with a value to that men, There friends. I am of rest, and I lover. notion the my situation Marquis that you exacts yourself,my wish not to remain think otherwise among the be need very departed to strange saying any more Adieu, Marquis. 317 pick the return if you that because the succor on his embassy. friends suffice me, their them consolation, and same of " bone a beginning to understand wish to enjoy it. I will has de desire I is always It would this,however. take henceforth number, deceive Un- and, if you at least do gallantthings to me, LIII Old Not Age I OH, Preventive a shall if you idea do much for me What for as be angry do is certain, so. go what however sible impos- was this how decided I have I shall evening? is" it will however, is worse, it know not with Could it, but you, will be not love never such you last me with for on, in me absent? began I do to to the did you you interests inspired of place how to to you and you, the Attack your talking demon another I desired end. What know not in persist taking tease one any I of abandon certainly fashion. the Against less use- love to ; yes, you sir, never. Eh? truly, persuade to is a the fact, take the has that of lover? with it be you mother would folly friend? my as to a a do with 318 a you and old seized upon to were who woman played aspire that young an you, has who should wretch abandon you That Mentor, you, I entreat that, if I me it is This has that she nothing. hand. tell attempt that you for tight to afflicted, that assures wants decent, Unprincipled promptly she a is she she the on place of served role what little a Would you. so when thing; strange a that and driving things reflect is woman consolation, needs not this but to are! lovely girl like me? the that of If you woman, Per- LIFE haps wish you whether love theory. Do such to not LETTERS attempt is for I will in same the to conquest my the me go seduction, a that AND to see practice as trouble in of attempting curiosityon satisfyyour point immediately. You know follow that aspire form to and women as There with to my is a women. would you It not to is useless to upon expending too The court offers with whom you becoming weary I do do account own You them the feel not would, novelties other as all without exaggerate ing knowwould you you for the trouble the value I tell you hope, on you are I in risk,as you not philosophy,of put you plainly;you able not am thousand a you of occasion. an please me. where do about feeling and one's compensate much Remain you singularitiesthat might I me, conquest, that my such what tion informa- any another. many believe take might for of unfavorably. You might know Ninon, and discover me said between talking cause you on difference vast have I given not line of conduct therefore, find in you seldom women are, All me. love, has thinking; between and pleading the strike we given principles. Well, that is discover in any gallant association any would you whatever a brilliant beautiful would too much are to spond. re- career. women, with me, gence. intelli- disguisethe fact,however, that I would have been glad to see you to-day. My head was a split all the afternoon over dispute on the ancients not and moderns. I am 319 still out of humor on NINON feel subject,and the L'ENCLOS de tempted to with agree you along on the decline of life to confine as myself to science, and especiallyto the gentlemen of antiquity. If you could only restrain yourself and pay me that I fewer compliments it is not to be doubted and enliven my would prefer to have you come else. But serious occupations rather than any one such wicked, so are an unmanageable man, you that I am not that I am afraid with me after letter will find? let the I am proper. can It is be a formal very in You as in you you. Have sup much of your that by well 320 you it be and soft I not know it fault sure, but proof that I shall that talk it will that. a my So any be now that noon. to of you, afraid upon before rendezvous, much imposed I recollect appointing understand and come mistaken, for it is am handed expect to you midnight, and fearlessness not believe I be not is to-day I shall to invite to to-morrow. hours two far so I as be deem I who men so NINON THE FROM de L'ENCLOS COUNTESS TO DE "If wish you Ninon, fruit the of vexation, it from it forever. the him has be not must sure a love of having as pure as cured and that to that fear, moreover, my withdrawal means of dent impru- with of a who have won heirs of my I going in a late to know is the that tender, as I I without about to the world may husband. deprive of the of the ady, malI cautioned that against out estate public he I the that ed award- of the for do about say given taste misinterpretingmy Marquis of all suspicion that 322 take. It is known have possession my I have action I always for am country. ciently suffi- not am only remedy considerable I will thus I ble incapa- are woman, Marquis what take conduct lover. retaining a men constanc in- simple friendship. the the His me. different forever, since see to of a might be surprised. those the not concealed never exacted that is what not and I have me liaison a suffering. Flight me. he yourself, well "You, am mortification, an favors taught renounce but It is moment. possession of the heart of the Sevigne might have been my supreme could have flattered myself with having certain I was of losing it if I had Marquis de felicityif I would know The you. granted the despair. nor dear resolution; you my momentary a friend, my my inspirationof the it is not combat to cease L'ENCLOS. remain to SELLE MADEMOI- faction satis- solitude, is in any LIFE his cost Heaven! heart my remember, his to the most and letters ask with desire resume agreed You time, do but "I in friends, if you they esteem I did for you. of therefore, upon share retreat. my that titution. res- management for Paris a tenderness case, you have I come sentiments my your and you I. my visit willingly to until know you, would title than that You quis, Mar- manner similar you that In letters your I have the leaving by the them judge have at write You As first. me hope not worthy more none of the to would one a leave to me inconsolable solitude. my that forced in the make to tell him speak be Ninon, if him manner, a with send, but obliges not should I pray may property my dear what and upon, relations my him return saying that appeased. be to breaks being at him for have public too of way gave you Whoever regret than better to in and honest an nothing no lover a resentment ; it is I indifference. and however, promise that fatal so tion determina- my me, friend, the evil an it should Why and Pity understand profound suggests so shaken. him off relations it is done, dear my I am! get rid of to But be make me me I inclose weak much so not can of it. How repose? my do for LETTERS portrait. ."Good to blame to manner AND rely, to for you/' I have you have you is I no never commit, advice to just read, to and give the sole compromise that the you, favor me Countess 323 Marquis, for I the shall on what expect from indiscretion never have NINON for not reason any justify myself loved be a been you the just, I All forgivingme. own my Countess matter in in L'ENCLOS de too of absolute would ignorance of have her eyes much is, that for her indifference betrayed design. 324 I to both can you say have resolution you. to Had to I by leaving LV, A AM I will conspire offer you could even, from this alone will resist our in of favor. your undeceived been people age position and yielded be them to He all the the and paid ridiculous be, it will be to be he only to had the fashion the of his him as 325 soon he by number of which his by tasting can but as He able. pardon- were man wife, that Honest Henceforth, A impunity. pardoned that justify. to they things going. amorous fear women, those seemed when time a the fact certain a has proof leaving. was society tribute with reasonable expected at decide to was other the Marquis in tion. inclina- own is the you, her themselves permit caprices, to about with them comparing pride that earnestly I, "in said faithful be I part. your yourself," will Marquis on to hand. you entrenchment last her your her and her pressed infidelities new of assure on, efforts Her "Reassure has I morning This time Countess. the determine to all, than better of made have it, your doubt not and done, have you resistance the should the accept Do entreaties, my overcome Everything everything charming. are you behavior, love with delighted and Ending, Happy he not should people of can be he see NINON risk You you. yourself have but were you role; you the put In a of society woman, a abandon to it; the Marquis mistakes. having be the a you. bear you death of that would act an such imitates Could caused you so cry vengeance." I besought still irresolute. finish not It would man? word, a sensible forget his amiable for the* airs of on too reproach out nothing, therefore, Countess; renounced Wherefore L'ENCLOS de pressed her, but and Still,I do resistance by overcoming a already deems very that doubt not which she you is will self, she, her- embarrassing. Marquis, if the anxiety all this has caused I have what gives you the time to review you, been saying to you for several days past, might you be tempted to believe that I have contradicted not myself? At first I advised you to treat love lightly and to take only so much of it as might amuse you. You to be were nothing but a gallant, and have Well, no relations with except those women in which you easilybreak the ties. I then spoke to you in a general way, and relative to ordinary women. I imagine that you Could would be so fortunate could as to meet unite the honest are the a charms men? like the woman of her What must possess in going to most estimable Countess, who be one friend felicity? You your and and qualities of the to sex the a would same most person, charming Deign to admit me to share a third portion of your friendshipand my happiness will equal Can one be happier than in sharing the own. your happiness of friends? mistress. 326 CORRESPONDENCE BETWEEN SAINT-EVREMOND LORD AND WHEN L'ENCLOS DE NINON EIGHTY OVER OF AGE YEARS NINON they as mond which Ninon doctrines ideas to As this faculties at the attracted she became the result, which Evremond's the the of charms the of lasted him, that until They the lives,their time regard, as was of the Marquis about heart the an of matter, appears 330 maiden calm, a who not common un- phical philoso- livinginspiring tion great affec- who although aspired de What in her pages. of attraction to the great Mademoiselle of age. Saint- instead were Sevigne, de was young of the case Court, nevertheless sixty years over the his rank of the the was and of of and two a lived manner very wich, Sand- liaison a like were who persons among of English Court, just beginning their career, eighty years of age, and youth over had passed forty. Such attachments beauties pended ap- of his person Duchess of the enamored death. quite young, and unimpaired lovers tender her to sobriquet translated is of Saint-Evremond's attention so same Mademoiselle to under which of the beauties one attributed letter her great age, a the tremely ex- correspondence. evidence an his to and his ing unflagging zeal in observthe Epicurean philosophy. in written "Leontium," of an of appear TEnclos, TEnclos de great age, that is, to de Saint-Evre- and "eighties." always claimed, that due to vigorous life was and long These Ninon in their Saint-Evremond the L'ENCLOS wfien written were were causes de to ture cap- 1'Enclos, who Ninon letters on thought the ceding pre- Between Correspondence Evremond and When Ninon Over L'Enclos de Years Eighty of Saint- Lord Age I Saint-Evremond Lovers Gamblers and HAVE I obtain if that me have The falsity doubt born have will become love. to of God, to love, is the as I I had might from a a species your of la but year but Bastille that adds, satisfied are to told you Lovers and Who has that believed human passion to void, which the you had it, for that the love But not be sistent con- to soul. can a because common: have 331 casts news live. you been heart. of former, in give occupation and with pass If de you piece something devout, be of long as a friends. latter verity M. health, good of the love to gamblers would of the upon loved number than everybody, any. lovers, more greater a are no me Common in more from you in are you have you give can for of TEnclos de Something trying news nobody tells have been to Ninon to not NINON Ce L'ENCLOS de fut languissant ne repos C'est trouver jamais mouvoir sans bien; un 1'etat Ton ou n'est rien. ('Twas never a without "Tis to from blest.) I want find know to about for your old friend. news here is that is dead, and many have the never I hold to health, your your with it fills me acute ask Barbin, know let it be in plenty Count the far state a de pations, occu- long a of affection Grammont sorrow. him prints so he why I name? things that are not mine, over my been guilty of enough follywithout assuming burden of others. the me They have made author I search moralizing and enough letter, with If you languishing rest; inclinations,and your The this good diatribe him a than to grant that mont's death be The Lauzun have Lauzun the be been is de of Count that of rumor Hollande married. says If this summoned Duke, a whom more author. false, and Gazette is to would other any God true. which against Pere Bouhours, is no writer even imagined. There in higher esteem. Our language owes of health your the were Count de true he Paris, besides, de to the and Gram- de name "Count" does servants, who fit him. not Adieu. I would gain would be much the which the am truest if you had of no your more first of your friends be called eternal. may 333 lovers, for I despite an sence ab- II Ninon It is sweet WAS I FEnclos de in when messenger in me I how those remember to alone imagine Saint-Evremond to chamber, my from Saint-Evremond!" have your letters about " which things many joy in your letter assures promises forty years more that it is who have had hoped It have can it left " the to pass still be in is, however, rest it is, that of of the I believe of human same men life. I with you, desire, you those we days my its England speak they period your indicates of life, for remember to perhaps, epitaph, that my and France. pleasant and loved, the possessed had you fixed in appear health me that England passed of has in only not mind my strength, and you do perfect your The occupation. would a quite recently, and of you speaking been learned if You disappeared ennui is moment. a have and "Here exclaimed: one my ing, read- of weary some quickly loved have we this for the bodily ment embellish- separation occurred. I had which could have found could wished in me not the that midst change me, 333 the of young the ecclesiastic glories although you of seem Nike, to NINON think than that I tenderly enchanted philosophy permits. Madame more am Duchess the eighteen-yearold: the to that pay the de Bouillon of her source with him is like charms an is in blood. Mazarin Now not L'ENCLOS de kings our us the greatest a visit? success are In derived 334 so my friendly,ought opinion it would from the peace. you be Ill 1'Enclos de Ninon Wrinkles DEFY I sorrowful of its their by the to I of sentiments. of am of I do You way. the only M. de aged his and M. and have continued M. to de has be Lauzun mark a surface them ridiculed told tues virthe in He only Court. at to him see father of ly, fami- a about jokes more is think. the If M. of your is my "Cuncta- of name How d'Olonne letters 335 them. amiability. hospital. your them nor, provincial Gover- a him you the affected are use live others men! read to not see He at of have to gave died just judgments could to than who d'Ebene tor," has wished happy. dignity new is the judge your his to who desired to that try deserved, Nurse wrinkles friend, a fortune man Turenne rich the his old, and grow have owes I you, ter let- much presume delighted am sadden not who who Your diminish not very am opinion, that your wisdom. it did perseverance. those joy it reception in greater Chevalier. her I and strength shame same figure with feel the accorded was merit of Wisdom of to remembrance the Mark a Dulcinea the and are Saint-Evremond to to quality trivial alive were me, with neighbor, he would his and are osophy. philwill NINON accept your compliments. of M. those M. L'ENCLOS de de de I send you Charleval, and Ruvigny, his friend Tournelles. 336 ask very you of the ly, tenderto Rue member re- des NINON moods. You have I reflections,but useless life, and every may far to harbor one ofteijlaughed have banished them in the be must day as it comes. say against them, off, they are L'ENCLOS de more moralizing. Take good that everything should are latter certain. care tend. 338 all. days with as This of your the much It is of one's life of whatever hopes, worth mournful my them satisfied Near at as you those is excellent health, it is to V Ninon de On 1'Enclos the M. NOW, Death take in death, I him all the charms saw of old friends am leading a similar Tell loss me interested and here, not so now, well the in old is like your life friends appreciated in London possess as 339 when share time you of his ness goodtrue and of and the the all I one indeed, common, self. I yourself. about news sole con- among life one's to all the heart in much so am spirit possessed you His dying the His of time. had the desirable spoke our of to his so often We Up and youth, trying am day. every tenderness and friends. of I I and dead, thinking by affliction. my Charleval is that affected myself will de of Charleval de much Saint-Evremond to as as much if you were am charms they which are are separated. VI Ninon de 1'Enclos The of I believe I for me is that forces those of It is forces are as to in making in I did dream, not a woman all the women in of useless has me my her so declining 340 of is and mind, but impossible. away sad a thousand me happy of France, the flections re- ones. given age. and peace thoughts, drive to life that in change the reprehend However, other a into me lives am things, same strength while worth the mind. to I I although assure to when indulge pleasures than lead duration friendship. often one of certainly the friends as preferred shall himself and con- account on casts healthy a Sandwich Madame doing who body equally to you, always is useless as as long with the everything long My as it posterity by your ing tell- thoughts We you. sentiment, a tranquillity of of Swiss living worth worthy that reason. such your for as of the envy in of live pleasure by me am am by weary for river and shall sometimes and I encomiums lives, Monotony gave I maintain the our I stantly. affection deserve of that me * the Weariness Clerambault Mde Saint-Evremond to years She and please to as has more to be more true her. able agree- spirit merit. AND LIFE She is the on LETTERS of point leaving us, which is gretted re- who knows her, by myself, by every one have should particularly. Had you been here we prepared a banquet worthy of old times. Love me always. Madame de Coulanges accepted the commission to present de Grammont, is so soon as they compliments through that young dislike the to kind your Madame I believe infirm,and return to le Comte M. He de Grammont. him fickle enough that he will love in time them as good health. from returns England to speaks of Every one who the beauty of Madame la Duchesse de Mazarin, as de Bellethey allude to the beauty of Mademoiselle attached have is rising. You me sun fond, whose de Mazarin, and I hear nothing but the to Madame good that is said of her. Adieu, my must not friend,why die without is it not "Good again seeing each 341 day?" other. We VII Ninon After 1'Enclos de the Death WHAT for consolation. who has can Those who die, after to serve I feel have just that, your sustain last her drew is there bodies, so see so you wise I me well a me, but the You much will as foreign my land. misfortune a their ? friends will mind, your is to lively longer I be happy. of of a hold me you remedy, and our poor love those for your me to was friends for quainted ac- affected happen Your thanks been thought she wise, tone had goodness may thousand the to tea letter to be you pleased present. your again no yours. so if I what whatever how know you her There and give as all companion see She express; preserve who sent and for none not with a to as Duchess. can her. to me much as the I find such good philosophy, moments, than more could you. death this in were will amiable an If it ! ourselves, you subject are we with make to long we, mainstay your live friend loss, lost Mazarin de my that a sympathize with in you, fact the done be for I been What Duchesse considered be You La loss a not heart. of Saint-Evremond to see Madame 342 Sandwich, whom we LIFE depart with saw condition in life to but A as when dying all her sweet might I Madame that friends could she in the wish of be to serve that some friend. my de was while her solation con- ignorant of English am adieux, did I quite French was thousand LETTERS regret. you. she think AND toms, cus- here. If one could believed Chevreuse, who with going to converse other thought. 343 world! It would be a VIII Saint-Evremond Banishes Love life, YOUR a illustrious not until the devised hell Pronounce "old the age" do not in you. tion will never so much is There leave For, pleasures! the which the upon would who of money all your one-half than of what In maxim. a and of that of you of to all made our casket, the ticularly par- resisted have life men* established is you decline merit, our keeper have passions however, your to make do you not is there character; regards than your was lovers, free with your virtues the friends. their worth; it ashamed all that willingly Confess greater fact a be to probity your de M. letters, that imagine lovely my into your owe we of reputation you; ner man- lips. in ingratitude to frighten boldly, too same permit your to even the construct spirit been not "love" pass me What love, to word has in Do to desired Age lived end. "hell" he TEnclos beloved, be to de Old well my Rochefoucauld's la Ninon to nothing friends, nothing your what you have but expose more bestowed of the better satisfactory un- upon lovers. a few verses, I will draw 344 your entire charac- You might have In the world, Preferred Here is a sprightlyfun, managed some untold, keeper of treasures of the fold.) be to a lamb well as a would you L'ENCLOS de NINON I trust which littlevariety, you: L'indulgente et A De forme la Tame sage Nature de Ninon volupte d'Epicure Et de la vertu de Caton. 316. will not prise sur- IX Ninon de Demand Stomachs THE good about the There to to the of health them to another of will He others, deemed him journeying of to his sure nothing feel of that England. to honest see the world, an opulent last of the is left ing mak- paying has he Treat me. 347 a you not him haps Per- the is thing ignorant I ignore. visit, lost in him home. should age some hand- induced he but a people curiosity, but his of one relates things, many worthy to to of censure which It abandon knows him begin desire countries surreptitiously is done. I other. insensibly begin I chapter. whose different you and would so which without more all occasions. youth, the not about happier the mind are we as you of your reflections. on is Here but body, sorrowful but that believed yourself, as than one much minds, our find I as give we to that the of me when your me stomach than sorrow, enjoyment long times are my told your stomachs our always have as news Minds than just handed has personally confess, in Attention More letter, and attention I Saint-Evremond to Dubois Abbe mind. your 1'Enclos his well to make time for by love NINON I begged his friend, to obtain arin and to elder news of Madame remember de L'ENCLOS brother, who of Madame Harvey, me. 348 both is my particular la Duchesse of whom Mazwished X Saint-Evremond Why Love does Ninon to TEnclos de Diminish After Note." Two TRANSLATOR'S friends whom surprised the that their and feebler in in the their her object ante-nuptial passion, ardent affection. The question "Birds" for that was all been that all in exile in held with opinions letter the subject. should be for each of strength of After ion opin- an It was pro and to during contains and well life. had the sent unanswerable it maintain him that he con, is who writing discussions 349 her Saint-Evremond, Moreover, other most and reaching the desire some the Ninon by reply, which who find destroy carefully studied loving hearts, affection in emoiselle Mad- possession the England. and troubled satisfactory. consult to It even the even manner particulars, following upon any resolved living the in that and to without days before consulted weaken and marriage, her why discussed was several was therefore should much other colder. begging Ninon's very their day, every philosophy, loved were felt for each anxiety, they 1'Enclos, of after growing was de reason discover to became affection them, idolized, passion they great marriage, she Marriage? lessons learned their by early NINON letter is The in human nature which a overlooked are clues to in the to and sexes, riage, mar- that are breaking point. Indeed, which remedy a it philosophy of develops traits questions applicable the between strained often gives the the subject of love and upon relations the so masterpiece of a it is remarkable, in that love, and to L'ENCLOS de not can it fail to effect yours, emoiselle; Mad- cure. opinion My is exactly in line with it is or always, not possession of the destroys love ; the of itself object which the loved true think, hymen some as of the source dissatisfaction of unintelligentmanner economizing the sentiments, a too complete, too too prolonged possession. easy, and have When we yielded to the transports of a exists in the follows that without passion soul the can reserve, solitude. which of alarms fail not The and ourselves, the fits of our and equal the been tremendous the quickly heart finds of the itself in calm found pro- a void a outside follows which takes Make place within you an ysis anal- exact when you anything. You will find that your desires nothing but curiosity,and this curiosity,which of the one vanish. or a forces Whoever, lover to do not passion; we perceive that an have more enduring happiness would fruit of moderation. of what it in vainly seek chills it. We cause leave to shock should something of the heart, satisfied,our therefore, would leave new him should 350 hold sire deare is desires a spouse sired; something to be debe expected every LIFE for the day AND LETTERS Diversify his pleasures, procure for him the charm of variety in the same ject, oband I will vouch for his perseverance in fidelity. confess, however, that hymen, or what you the "defeat," is, in an ordinary woman, your I call morrow. of love. grave But the blame that it is less upon then falls,than her upon the lover who complains of the the cooling of the passion; she casts upon is due her own to depravity of the heart what She has unskillfulness,and her lack of economy. expended in a single day everything that might keep alive the inclination she had excited. She has of her lover, to offer to the curiosity nothing more she becomes always the same statue; no variety her lover knows to be hoped for, and it well. But in the of a of the in I have woman mind, it is the aurora day; it is the beginning of the most satisfying pleasures. I, understand by effusions lovelier heart, those those excite absolute esteem of word, the the from acquires brings takes a Time, new But, held to for a repeat; refinement which have the covers dis- always woman a sentiments her reserve; well one to of all in ing creat- meriting all the That day is, in a freedom him; the into play but lofty flight, far from leading reasons man treasures has constraint which a genuities in- those and the certaintyof us love. we person epoch when hidden in happiness, and inexhaustible been avowals, unexpected transports which an confidences; those mutual under loathing,will heart control. furnish greater love. I assume 351 sufficient intelligence NINON in her hold to be to able to lover, it is a L'ENCLOS de control her inclination. For not enough (perhaps it is too love with passionately,she must prudence, with restraint,and modesty is, for that the most ingenious virtue refined persons reason, have ever imagined. To yield to the impetuosity of an inclination;to be annihilated, so to speak, in of a woman the object loved, is the method out withThat is not discernment. love, it is a liking much) for love to it is to moment, a I would spoiledchild. more and reserve transform have An The transport. in not heart convulsive to in or There ways al- with ing pass- a perceive you emotions, both you, of you required intelligence love than is generallysupposed, and to be happy of the fatal "yes" loving. Up to the moment if you prefer, up to the time of her defeat, a sum up: does woman is him. But more artifice need not Curiosityexcites him, he once to retain her; the desire in him, to as keep expedients; the position,easier to he should than her the much as to courages en- summit take overcome render is similar to lover. him, hope to exhibited heart 352 hold reaches woman him obtain to sustains desire desires, it is for the of his care is ily stead- strength yourself,will experience,and soon, will feel the necessity of separating. To be nothing but be with being must your a of ardor excess indifference same lover, after those a use vivacitywill your economy, do If you curbed. into behave in my opinion, the justifiable an impetuous charger which not lover woman a economy. a to keep. her a tile fer- high Charms NINON that, created grant, they should to in even L'ENCLOS de of excess an never served, Re- offer. passion, they should guard against surrenderingat discretion; the lover should quently, always have something to ask, and consebe always submissive to he would as so without limit degrade the most obtain it. Favors seductive and charms, are, in the end, revolting them. who exacts to him Society puts all even women the on their defeat ugly, after from level; the handsome same are their art to maintain nothing A happens? commonly to more sweet, of do the indistinguishable except their authority ; but what woman imagines she has than be to temper, even and affectionate,caressing, and faithful. She is qualitiesshould be the foundation of her character; they will not fail to however estimable draw esteem ; but these qualities, be, if they are not offset by a shade of they may contrariety, will not fail to extinguish love, and bring on languor and weariness, mortal poisons for right in one the best sense, for these constituted heart. know nauseated so why lovers become enjoying prosperity? Why easily when they are little pleased after having had so much so pleasure? both parties interested have It is because cally identian erroneous opinion. One imagines there is to obtain, the other fancies she has nothing more to give. It follows as a nothing more necessary slackens in his pursuit, and that one consequence the other neglects to be worthy of further advances, Do or you thinks she becomes qualities.Reason so by is substituted 354 the practiceof for love, and solid hence- AND LIFE forward spicy seasoning in their relations, more no LETTERS of those trifling quarrels so necessary it. prevent dissatisfaction by forestalling more no But when that I exact of temper evenness to should animated by occasional storms, do not be under impression that I pretend lovers should always be the be quarreling to preserve desire to impress it up'on that the woman their happiness. you, that should emanate should not does not love from forget (by her convert love only understandi all their mis- pusillanimous kindness) the respect due excessive her; that by an she I into a itself; speciesof and tions atten- sensitiveness a of source of her anxiety capable of poisoning every moment existence ; that by a scrupulous fidelity she may not her lover too sure that he has nothing to render fear on that Neither score. should evenness a by woman of temper, pardon everything lackingin demonstrates hearts that of their spouses or be weak her lover. too women sweetness, a often an alterable un- enough to Experience sacrifice the their lovers,by too many facilities. What recklessness! indulgences and They martyrize themselves by sacrificingeverything; them into unthey spoil them and convert grateful lovers. So much generosity finallyturns become against themselves, and they soon tomed accusto demand is granted them as a right what as we a a favor. You see women every day (even despise with so much reason) who scepter of iron, treat as slaves men 355 among those reign who are with at- NINON tached them. Well, these longer than woman of think decency which -remote from things even will always hold renders insolent; like those take tells us the for force world. new hearts us that the sometimes too often we our kindly to Now, to of the of bottom upon never military charm the But clouds preciselywhat slaves, whom are which virtue. a let the sonable rea- trifle,there a is necessary to lover. a We remain that morals, and constitutes the soften woman That gentleness and to loved are would up, example. an controlling persuaded am refinement, well brought that of who women I others. is repugnant lacks in the by force the are following such of manner them debase them, to L'ENCLOS de much kindness demand But be to we comprehension governing hand good treated in the have of a for very often justice, bears reasons, down and we it. my last word. and of love, women energy it is from them we hope the In everything relating should be for happisovereigns; ness, and fail to grant us that as they will never soon hearts with intelligence, as they can our govern their own moderate and maintain their inclinations, own out authority, without compromising it and with- abusing it. 356 XI Ninon 1'Enclos de Few /-% ship. -^- -*- but that myself think to of with I know Your last subject chamber you which common world; is of the all the do well fly, to accustom should I dispense it is with so could you that you talks to love. Mazarin viewpoint, sense as resist by would I it. age, I could without always held I but as thinking have place the 357 I with life of less am not you, that from her her agreeable been ways al- do. you of wise, will you upon my well be to believe wish looked had that think you in agrees enough perceive been ing; rejuvenat- are Philosophy It is not long as You has had have we month. past It masterpiece. a charms. people overcome Madame the remember Heaven to one any astonishing to the of write, you and wanted Would letter for please Few lively even please, and must one own of spiritual with yet what rest your friend- to spoiled have praise style. your dangerous would have in wrote Age dwells. glory the I and me the letter me. Lucian is mind Your imagination, Resist People SPRIGHTLY A Saint-Evremond to beauty, when brilliancy. NINON will -preserve Sandwich Madame L'ENCLOS de after losing her youth, at Adieu, my friend. When remember to have her me to least you her I think see her, I should forget me. 358 mental so. Madame be force very wich, Sandsorry XII Saint-Evremond Has Age gives IT me been a heart inclinations, will who is attractive of a be Saint Is imbued be is poor the of is I her health. The as but father. She as she of in is the begged to like his Duke you pay in yours. de Tallard, whom to I can Give me. Gourville. de think I me I sume pre- affairs; if his health sorry. particular friend, accompanies my Sandwich, late had who Count more Madame is He friends your Chevalier young command affect always mine, age, ers flow- tastes, as our so, like has interests friend very Sandwich, England, amiable old Morelli, of her If be Countess in your prosperous the Madame own spirit our shall Doctor I have of one and a young sincerely *your ladies. our whom service? news he all his to receive to see there sentiments, to any any some between in with of similarity much there able As Albans, visit, as and mine. pleased to expanding and please, your you 1'Enclos lively pleasure like strong de Consolations handsome people, old Some a ; fit to an Ninon to Rochester, spirit Sandwich generous is generous 359 to goes has and and than for France of father man any more than spirituelle, and spirituelle.These NINON portion of are a to say Seven her the about de L'ENCLOS equalities.But, I have more about the invalid. dispute among selves, them- physician than cities,as know, you birth place of Homer; the tions great naIndia, Egypt, seven Morelli: quarrelling over Arabia, Persia, Turkey, Italy,and Spain. The are countries, the even temperate cold France, England ones, no Germany, make pretensions. He acquainted with every language and speaks is and His of them. most leads origin,and good among fond of that He found is He over " friends has who skilled in his though and he passionately about poetry, inquisitive in everything I cannot connoisseur all. what absorbed urative fig- is of Oriental he that Europeans. music, wild remember know ture, architec- profession,he own is in others. adept I pray to you acquainted you has he the paintings,a an believe to me and style,elevated, grand the him all your with him make give yours, will for you with I opportunitiesto illustrious shall be never friends. consider able him make to become anybody possessingmore If nate, fortuhim merit quainted ac- than yourself. It to seems me that Epicurus included in his of past things. sovereign good the remembrance There is no sovereign good for a centenarian like but there are many ing consolations,that of thinkme, of you, and of all I have heard you say, is one of the greatest. I write because of many I never things of think that 360 no importance I may weary to you. you, It XIII Ninon Good Some me I a fancy that I it! M. I, that but friendship procure de de but my Haute- have told at heard door my have received pleasure more fear of you of I his is not than can use can some, do was one not and that ting get- well as is room, a differen in- good his upon After that, which I knowledge doubt in always him. make, my tunate unfor- as trespass worrying I how tell you kind, do and successful was leaves any friends his wine, will never of taste for I say 1'Hermitage foresee, now M. not insinuation any myself Abbe never you reassured not I would good want can de to if, by to Gourville de friend, the me gave deceive had been and home, gives man forgotten all would have would young lieve be- to you else. What to English letter, which anything in France senses replied by at a "doctor" name have not of I have others. your was your not Your They me. that pleasure? the If feuille, and of sight to should I me, the comes friends. Still Exists friend, is it possible for that it Saint-Evreraond to Taste dear MY when 1'Enclos de of I will do wine avail it. Tallard of my 362 former friends, but state affairs told that the He is him. LETTERS AND LIFE place great Dubois Abbe a will go little man slim trifles. I above men to I who, England am sure, am with will please you. I have with that with you admiration good a will be can I have him taste the by our little and wise if you you do think they circle,which still exists in France. country where not you letters of yours, twenty not of I am fear nobody are read is proof charmed ennui, and but self, your- principleis false with you: that no longer please others. written to M. Morelli, and if I find in that the skill you say, I shall physician. 3G3 consider him a true XIV Saint-Evremond HAVE I much common eulogize without also to fairly well. ait Qu'on de Plus Qu'un C'est et lui les grand coeur Un grand esprit Et qui dans les intelligent I having I age, it mind debted in- am sounded eat can dine I well of heroes makes my oysters and sup with men credit, de conduite, depit; merite en m'irrite. plus grand autres Un de that 1'appetit, sur le est droits de passe 1'avantage L'estomac of bien, de de me le gout You one. respect. breakfast. point autre last stomach. for years plus aurai contained mine. plus vertu, n'en Sur than Stomach highly, an good world The merit less Les this for your possess a the which so Dubois in morning every Sans Abbe you as stomach to eighty-eight At Je the having the to praises sense shameful be of letter a 1'Enclos de Pleasures read never so would the of Superiority Ninon to ne veut veut Testomac sentiments bien, rien. sont entreprendre, tout tout sont que 364 comprendre; de me bien donne digerer; mon age, la grandeur du courage, 1'esprit, qu'a se vertu 1'on puisse comparer. de beaute La rien N'ont (Let others More But no make my fame, possess, flame; envious merit less seem appetite,is, I claim, outrageous thing to profess. In taste, An All else to A things, nothing brings. the greatest of stomach's The A morals and kindle to and riches more virtue 'Twill LETTERS AND LIFE us great heart all undertake, would great soul investigate, But the law And the True glorieswhich beauty of mind, Are nothing unless by When I is good things to digest, of the stomach was at are age my of courage its virtue delight, height, the they'reblest.) I admired young the intellect than more of the interests less considerate anything else, and was of the body than I should have been ; to-day, I am I then held, as much as remedying the error possible,either by the use I am making of it,or by the esteem and friendship I have for it. You of the same were opinion. The body was cerned something in your youth, now you are wholly conwith know the whether estimate pleasures of you it. upon and we mind. I right in placing are read We little that little advice hear following. However of the age at which agreeable objects make which the degenerate I am 365 may so do not high is worth that be an membering, re- is worth the senses living,the impressions upon them appear NINON to be to me to of mind the which better senses much^ so mortify wrong its than other traits have made Bernier, I say, M. to me "I philosopher I have used, philosopher is seldom not give in manner, conversation him worthy speaking of of the the and epithet), senses, said day: one am jealousy part played by the a handsomest (handsome his figure, shape, but the are we own. known ever it is Perhaps them. that acute, more deems Bernier, the M. L'ENCLOS de going to Madame de impart de la a confidence that Sabliere, even 1'Enclos, whom I regard selle Mademoi- to as I would a superior being. I tell you in confidence, that abstinence from to be a great sin." to me pleasures appears I was surprised at the novelty of the idea, and it did not fail to make an mind. impression upon my his idea, he might have Had he extended made me a convert to his Continue and have your which existed as doctrine. friendshipwhich is something rare long as ours. 366 has never tered, fal- in relations that XV Ninon Let Heart the LEARN I 1'Enclos de than common of worthy the of memory effaced I his often tell and the You The am been told very every Helens have goddesses I to My the of who woman no of as some it sensible of has not de Riviere in also are you d'Elbene, de cheer the at up most I modern, a in highly too you who Academicians, have clared de- "ancients." the of like much "Beauty" envy always which in brought are but favor have I would be of presence I ward up- you absence against praising guard my in your fact, is little has whose Chevalier the interesting points, on in renders stories old the "moderns." am soul friend a leading body, it, and that and always the er is dear- soul my image. Charlevafl, the and sustains that The things. regard, which light is Language body my sense better to pleasure you Own Its Speak with to Saint-Evremond to a musical to hear is its who right to beauty. che at subject would should find Here which prologue, hear Homer, a I am at Paris theater. strike it. and the with All our always top, how descend? very dear friend, would 367 it not be well to NINON permit the assure you, on and favor, my which speak its own I love always. you that point, they have heart ideas your L'ENCLOS de this may philosophers some I language? to Do change not been always mental in communication, believe to be supernatural, last forever. testified I have feel among my worthy of desires to in the a of be to friends, many the I him. of whom he He found him him. If he will be letter your is called here which merit perhaps for that I know is which whether La so they so he were this with harm, for no is ous amor- guished," "distin- be accomplished, fine phrase as a like to has see little regarded "Tis the destiny Lucretius is any there Fontaine, unless is and with would feeble. Tasso will like losses. you he England, head meet for my consolation in I day, every wish your Abbes treated If he that me deemed but they did me spectacles,of course, I preserved my gravity all the time. of I should honest our him read joy given left of court, esteem. you to have praise you profitby what is of the the Turretin, service some absence man M. to Fontaine in Paris, his of been never foot 368 poets, of evidence. philter that love able to are La the a could lover bills. I doubt of affect women NINON les destins Puissent donner Vous et (To love and Is concert be loved heart is formed reason meet. with loving concord, a To stop the course, Our days And death May the kind You thirty years I wish who ans philosophic. Of With trente sweet, Cemented those de in your Which complaisants, encore D'amour a L'ENCLOS de be the wisdom you a have deficiency in perforce. end must last record. fates give and happy live, to love New nothing in accord.) else to wishes. 370 day on give, make Year, a which up the XVII Ninon 1'Enclos de "I letter YOUR which I days of from You are You told long me I try the on not the tells Everybody of at it may, have I had hanged however, and enjoy. Would than There is M. his de father at We talk presence Clerambault in mental no to is of old many to try love people we should in all that, but body, to feel I still have ure pleas- more I as stomach my friends me plain com- ugly an day. to- that something could flections. re- get for- to life I we gives whom good something is the of of memory the on a of through Be agreeable; I die another. such this. and live we prove less hold Heaven to to days which to should I man these I have Appetite ease. truth, there the than proposed been and the known, that good more, things something yours, I any me myself. as comfort with time one made that make to morrow things cruelly ago the sloth; the us "The incapable. and of yearnings said as ignorance take attached." are useless myself passing," and us with thought "in Myself Hanged filled are Yveteaux, destroy Have Should Saint-Evremond to now meet. tell you to comparison. often asks attainments. 371 me if he "No," resembles I always NINON believes he and You going are she all about your news of presumption advantage who some through to that him, have would comparison a that and has to gone so the between which have we Sandwich, Madame the country. for her. sentiment about has write to this country comprehended haunts his ! I believe more are and be to What epoch present passed there it. Trom hope "no" this perhaps considered and I him, but answer L'ENCLOS de than She means at home. 372 of will knows tell you I, having gauged everything. She found She but knows making all my herself fectly per- XVIII Saint-Evremond Life Is THE better is mind of the I receive the of is It ones. dims is, your reason fortified more to me pleasure true and stronger to seems present the moiselle Made- from preceding past, but becoming Without always sentiment Sorrow Is letter than the memory It 1'Enclos de because the last very be not When Joyous 1'Enclos de Ninon to every day. If it which of mine given the I her see praises by she that to you name you are, I you. age of belong London as you mistress honor world, mine, to to give of the luster present 373 quet ban- a the quished. van- wich; Sand- by overcome to in and to and tion, na- every Paris. when youth than more any you, of extraordinary the You the at Madame not was upon in an in taste alike every are good trial a not was spirit of appetite. esteemed belong I the combat make to Jersey. showered my stomach Sandwich, the for has this with as Madame knows she was Lord by Everybody esteem of that body I wanted speak. against the sustain badly you I with same should I mind, the were will I say diately immeThere theirs. of You the past, NINON May have you in view, for that L'ENCLOS share your in the considered de of future! I is assured the right to have not all to be so reputation time, the one essential is life,of which thing I regard as the most than centuries eight days are worth of post more mortem glory. If any one had formerly proposed to you to live would as have are now living, you you hanged ever, Howyourself! (The expression pleases me.) satisfied with are you having enjoyed the and ease comfort after liveliest emotions. satisfait,ou du moins L'esprit vous console: vous Mais on prefereraitde vivre jeune et folle, Et laisser La triste gravite de leurs reflexions. vieillards exempts aux (Mental joys satisfyyou, But a young jollylife we And Leave the the whole, passion's sharp of former good things.) of youth than make more it memory, by they console, from recollections sad passions prefer on old Nobody can am holding to example, and fit in with the I I, and following am present as I as your well I as how. know Would to Heaven, Madame opinion ! She would to die the beauty of your Madame and least at chaps, exempt stings, to de Sandwich departs admired Live, Ninon, is still be had living,but been of she sired de- the world. leaving in London life is Mazarin joyous sorrow. 374 as for the she is in Paris. when country, it is without LIFE I pray to you AND LETTERS forward this note Hautefeuille, who Bouillon. 1'Abbe I is with sometimes Dubois, who him Assure of my his to His ends poetry humble The " Saint-Evremond 1'Enclos, and the friend, Count he never at the with age this of one Grand Duke of State of of about ninety. His last letter peculiar Epicurean thought in Je vis eloigne de besoins Content d'un J'aime la vertu et la France, sans No am rudesse, sans livingfar wants, Content Virtue to dwell Pleasures crains pas la fin. from no France, abundance, in humble sphere ; roughness, without I love Life,too, whose mollesse, away indeed, I love abondance, vulgaire destin; J'aime le plaisirsans J'aime la vie, et n'en (I cany, Tus- ward other, dying shortlyafter- any : Sans de letter more Magalotti, Councillor wrote last letter Mademoiselle exception the M. ten. forgot- are the was wrote Royal Highness of regards. above ever with friends the meet de la Duchesse'de complain that they [Translator's Note to Madame 1'Abbe M. to without end 375 softness, I do not fear.) TO LEONTIUM MODERN THE moral the Being of Charles by France, admirer He died in exile be found in Westminster his who He de the gave 1'Enclos, that the sobriquet. The inasmuch and formed long his doctrines Leontium for that the third for of great century during been an principles grossly of the Ninon, education, extraordinarily bring to Athenian an her of for taste Epicurus, men of her enable down its to Epicurus, of misunderstood foully misinterpreted. was celebrated in it will foundation under her to character intended have to for Mademoiselle life and philosophical true appears and the was deposited illustrious as written was character It may conspicuous a to reasoning the was her career. date, the who it as 1'Enclos. philosophy. letter understand to him of tomb were "Leontium" name and reader remains regarded virtues, learning and his in Abbey, opher, philos- warrior, poet, de and dation eluci- Marechal scholar, England, where nave, by Englishmen, his in curus Epi- an that by Mademoiselle of profound of the advocated philosopher, and part it is times, Saint-Evremond, de great a philosopher the modern to principles the of doctrine applicable as L'ENCLOS) DE (NINON for and Athens. before the 379 who woman became philosophy, particularly her She close lived Christian intimacy during era, and with the her NINON of life mode similar was added She 1'Enclos. L'ENCLOS de that to of Mademoiselle de tellectua great personal beauty, in- to the highest degree, and dared treatise against the eloquent learned write to a ero, Theophrastus, thereby incurringthe dislike of Cicthe distinguishedorator, and Pliny, the philosopher, the latter intimating that it might be well which self." for her "to select a tree upon to hang herPliny and other philosophers heaped abuse her for daring, as such to do a an woman, upon of thing as to write a treatise on unheard phy, philosoand to particularlyfor having the assurance contradict Theophrastus. brilliancyof Letter. The wish You I do not care of I have sidered fully con- which Epicurus tributed at- are me? claim can whether doctrines the to know to to of honor the claim a merit having I do done not so, but possess, I and ingenuously, does not belong to I labor under count acme. a great disadvantage on of the numerous spurious treatises which are the author as though I were printed in my name, of them. Some, though well written, I do not claim, because over, they are not of my writing, morethe things I have written, there are among stupidities.I do not care to take the trouble many of repudiating such that. at things, for the reason which my you age, one interest and How will say, hour of well benefit to regulated life,is me than difficult it is,you 380 a mediocre see, to of more tion. reputa- rid one's self LIFE LETTERS AND propre! I quit it as an author, and reit as a philosopher,feelinga secret assume pleasure about. anxious others are in manipulating what the name The word "pleasure" recalls to mind of Epicurus, and I confess, that of all the opinions of the philosophers concerning the supreme good, of amour there which none are to appear be to me his. as It would useless be to repeated by the Epicureans, that pleasure and the extinction of pain,are inclinations natural riches, power, happiness, us a honor, remarked acts. self-evident,and I do However, and for I saw never the Philosophers, and even those as him regarded public; Cicero, is all his to of morals his much to impious the men. So much partisans: 381 tend in fact, me, of its truth. the opinions of any this so magistrates as pernicious to the wise in his opinions, for his fair him, and greatest and in indolent; concerned, the Fathers be our philosopher. have demned condisciples, own doctrines esteemed to Epicurus consisted, of and just and so favorable not were him so his ; that men in what well very different sensual as have Plutarch, know many of one clear to fully persuaded so the first and whither end I not of everything is very am love pleasure, let This voluptuousness pleasure, or of include to word, is the veritable aim all human the in all enjoyment voluptuousness, say, hundred virtue, contribute and the that but a reasons, urge times most able reason- so the so have most judgments, far as tianity Chris- represented dangerous for his enemies ; now of for NINON L'ENCLOS de Hermachus, Metrodorus, and Meneceus, ous numer- philosophize according to his much veneration as as school, have friendshipfor him personally. Diogenes Laertes could not have his life to better advantage for his reputawritten tion. who others, Lucretius of the enemy an highest adored If terms. erected others sect as Gassendi and he have Fathers him of much as of him spoke was, in his honor, statues Bernier Seneca, cities held some Christians, the the him. in the in horror, and if,among condemned him, his principles. In view of all these contrary authorities, how can the question be decided? Shall I say that Epicurus the faith of a a was corruptor of good morals, on jealous philosopher, of a disgruntled disciple,who would have been delighted,in his resentment, to go approve over, a personal injury? Morelength of inflicting had Epicurus intended to destroy the idea of Providence and the immortality of the soul, is it the to reasonable not that the world to suppose would have revolted against so scandalous a doctrine, and life of the philosopher would have been to discredit his opinions more easily? the If, therefore, I find his enemies and him, I should have urged I do a also envious me from have easilycredit believe tacked at- what published against what his partisans in his defence. believe that Epicurus voluptuousness harsher Stoics. to not the it difficult to that Such than desired the to broach virtue of the jealousy of austerity would appear extraordinary in a voluptuary philosopher, whatever point of view that word may be cona 382 fine secret A sidered. establishes The insensible that one sage, that, declaim to destroys sentiment which virtue LETTERS AND LIFE admits according virtue; that to of no the in against a sage, a and operation. Stoics, is of man a of the movable Epicureans, an imout voluptuary. The former suffers pain withhaving any pain; the latter enjoys voluptuousness without being voluptuous a pleasure without pleasure. With what object in view, could a philosopher who denied the immortality of the soul, mortify the senses? Why divorce the two parties composed of the same sole advantage elements, whose is in a concert of union for their mutual pleasure? I pardon our religiousdevotees, who diet on herbs, in the hope that they will obtain an eternal felicity, but that a philosopher, who knows other good no " than that to be found in this world, that a doctor of voluptuousness should diet on bread and water, to reach sovereign happiness in this life,is something refuses to intelligence contemplate. my I am surprised that the voluptuousness of such an Epicurean is not founded upon the idea of death, for, considering the miseries of life,his sovereign be at the end of it. Believe me, if Horace good must had viewed it as painted,they would and Petronius have accepted Epicurus as their master in the never science of pleasure. The uted piety for the gods attribto him, is of the no senses. less ridiculous These than the mortification slothful gods, of whom nothing to be hoped or feared did not the deserve gods who fatigueattendant upon their worship ! there was 383 ; these labor potent imand NINON Let one no that say through fear scandalizing L'ENCLOS de worshipers went the temple to of displeasingthe magistrates,and of the people, for they would have scandalized them less by refusing to assist in their them stroyed deworship, than shocked by writings which the established gods, or at least ruined the confidence of the people in their protection. But ask me: What is your opinion of Epicurus? you believe You neither his friends neither his adversaries is the who times at of has a wise very certain on partisans.What philosopher, occasions loved the pleasure of movement. this difference in the grade of voluptuousness him. all the reputation accorded Timocsprung pleasure From and mies, ene- formed? judgment you have believe Epicurus was I his nor his nor his other and rates the or repose attacked opponents, him on count ac- of his sensual him, did When he not go the former denounced at in his repasts, I was accusation well was they did not lack say that not lie. Epicurus and there is To go a a they diverted According time time to to to that the latter cheese patiated ex- he he say quired re- ophized philos- well; when say with they her, they do there Solomon, is a time to according to Epicurus, weep; than expense usual, I believe they himself be sober and still further voluptuous all his than When reason. the the When quantity of Leontium, with for persuaded am cheer better have to him founded. small the upon laugh pleasures; those who defended beyond his spiritualvoluptuousness. a time that, is life? 384 a to man be sensual. uniformly NINON it may be said, that L'ENCLOS de we se*e the aspects, thinking at same the same thing time under ferent dif- that we discovered Moreover, age something new. brings great changes in our inclinations,and with a a change of inclination often comes change of opinion. Add, that the pleasures of the senses sometimes for mental give rise to contempt cations gratifitoo as dry and unproductive and that the delicate and refined pleasures of the mind, in their the voluptuousness of the senses as scorn turn, be surprised that in so should So, no one gross. curus, Epigreat a diversity of aspects and movements, who than any other philosopher, wrote more have the same ent should treated subjects in a differmanner according as he had perceived them from different points of view. that avails this general reasoning to show What sensible to all kinds of pleasure? he might have been him be considered Let according to his relations with the other sex, and nobody will believe that he have spent much so time Leontium with and with The- philosophizing. But of voluptuousness, he the enjoyment if he loved like a wise himself man. conducted Indulgent to of nature, opposed to its struggles, the movements ering never mistaking chastityfor a virtue, always considsobriety luxury as a vice, he insisted upon and that the repasts of the appetite, as an economy injure him who in which indulged should never one : "Sic praesentibusvolupwas partook. His motto mista tatibus He for the sole purpose utaris ut futuris non of noceas." disentangled pleasures 386 from the anxieties which precede, and When he became the infirm the sovereign good my notion, from cessation LETTERS AND LIFE in the disgustwhich and ease follows them. suffered pain, he placed and condition rest, and he was wisely, to in, for the suffer it. of those who pain is the felicity As to tranquillity of mind, which constitutes other anpart of happiness, it is nothing but a simple But, whoso anxiety or exemption from worry. is happy in not can enjoy agreeable movements being guaranteed from the sensations of pain. I am After saying this much, of the opinion that and tranquillity constituted the sovereign good ease infirm and feeble. he was For for Epicurus when is in a condition who to a man enjoy pleasures, I itself felt by something believe that health makes active than ease, or indolence, as a good dispomore sition mated aniof the soul demands something more than will permit a state of tranquillity.We of an infinityof good and all living in the midst are evil things, with senses capable of being agreeably and affected injured by the latter. by the former of will philosophy, a little reason enable us to enjoy the good as deliciouslyas possible ourselves and accommodate to the evil as patiently Without as we so much can. 387