Guide2Chemo.com YOUR ONLINE COMPANION GUIDE TO TODAY’S CHEMO Kinder, gentler and more effective 20 tips to calm your fears, stay on schedule and THRIVE! MICHAEL DOUGLAS “Chemo saved my life” COMPLIMENTS OF: FREE TAKEHO M COPY E table of contents letter from the editor Welcome! If you’re about to start chemotherapy, your head may be swimming with questions and concerns. Will I feel ill? Will I be able to work? Will I be able to care for my family? The good news is that today’s chemo is more effective— and more livable than ever. You may be surprised to discover, for instance, that the side effects you experience are milder than you anticipated. And your chemo care team will help you manage any symptoms that do occur so you can stick to your treatment schedule. To help you along the way, we asked three cancer experts for the most up-to-date info to help you on your journey. Read on to learn everything you need to know about how chemo works and how to thrive during treatment. Our goal is to instill in you the knowledge and confidence that will help you get the best benefit from your treatments and get on with your next chapter. —From the editors at Health Monitor 4 Get back to the life you love Chemo is your bridge to the future 6 Top questions about chemo 10 Staying the course Adhering to your treatment schedule can get you the best results from chemo 16 Understanding your blood counts 17 The side effects you must know about 18 Conquering chemo anxiety Overcome anxiety and de-stress before your first session SPECIAL PULLOUT SECTION Your chemo calendar, questions to ask 20 Chemo mentors How a support group can help Zen inspiration for your journey Repeating a gatha (a short verse) daily can help you find peace, calm and confidence, says Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh. One chemo patient repeats this one, written by her son: “I will be healthy. I will heal. I will survive. I will thrive.” To learn more about Thich Nhat Hanh and living mindfully, visit plumvillage.org. 22 Circle of support, chain of love One woman’s mission to spread hope 24 Get the nutrition you need 28 Thrive during treatment 20 tips for taking care of your body, mind and spirit 33 Don’t forget about “date nights” How to keep the intimacy during chemo 34 Chemo and your job Tips to make it work 36 Understanding cancerspeak Words of inspiration from our medical review board “Chemo works like an antibiotic—it kills off something that you don’t want in your body because it’s making you ill.” —Lillie Shockney, RN, administrative director of the Johns Hopkins Avon Foundation Breast Center and the Johns Hopkins Cancer Survivorship Program “Rest assured that what you’ve heard about chemo is probably not true!” —Theodore Tsangaris, MD, chief of breast surgery at Johns Hopkins “New advances help combat chemo side effects like nausea, making it easier to stay on schedule and get the full benefit of therapy.” —Marc B. Garnick, MD, clinical professor of medicine, Harvard Medical School ! Web Extra! Be sure to visit Guide2Chemo.com for more useful tools and information. All the terms you need to know ® This publication is not intended to provide advice on personal medical matters, or to substitute for consultation with a physician. Health Monitor Network is the nation’s leading patient-education publishing company, with 10 publications available in doctors’ offices, including Living with Cancer. For more information: Health Monitor Network, 135 Chestnut Ridge Road, Montvale, NJ 07645; 201-391-1911. ©2011 Data Centrum Communications, Inc. the journey begins Getting back to the life you love! Think of chemo as a strong ally—the healing therapy that will take you to your new life after cancer. O f all the facts you should know about chemo, here’s the most important: It may be your single best chance to rid your body of cancer cells. But to get the maximum benefit from your chemo, it’s critical to complete your treatments on schedule. Luckily, you don’t have to go it alone. With this guide, you’ll get input from people like 75-year-old Zeva, who is now undergoing chemo. “One minute, you’re fine; the next, your life has changed. But you really can’t think negatively…you have to be upbeat, and remember that when the chemo goes in, it’s doing what it’s supposed to do.” So what will chemo be like? How will you feel? How will it affect your daily routine? While everyone reacts differently, one thing is for sure: Today’s chemo is gentler and more effective than ever. Many people are able to work and take care of their families throughout their treatment. And there are plenty of medications that can help ease chemo side effects—if they occur. To learn more about chemo—what it 4 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY is, how it works and how to feel your best throughout your treatment—make yourself comfortable and spend some time reading this guide. Becoming informed about the process will help you work effectively with your doctors and stay on schedule. That’s the key to getting every bit of restorative power from chemo—and getting back to the life you love. STAR TALK Plus-size model Emme [Aronson] Hodgkin’s lymphoma survivor How it was treated: surgery and chemotherapy How she coped: “Cancer isn’t something anyone should try to go through alone,” she has said. “I had 12 chemo buddies. Each one of them gave up a day to be with me.” Best advice: “No matter what life throws at you, you can handle it.” chemotherapy 101 Top 10 chemo questions –answered F 2 orget what you may have heard about chemo. This type of cancer therapy has come a long way since it was first introduced more than half a century ago. Read on for the latest on these powerful medications. 1 How does chemotherapy work? It kills cancer cells, reduces the size of tumors and relieves symptoms of the disease. In most cases, a cocktail of two or more medications is used, although certain cancers can be treated with a single drug. While chemo also kills some healthy cells, most of those cells eventually repair themselves. ! Web Extra! Thinking of getting a wig? Find surprising tips to make your decision easier at Guide2Chemo. com/wig 6 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY How is it given? In a few instances, chemo is taken in the form of a pill, liquid or injection (or, in the case of some skin cancers, by topical cream). However, in most cases it’s given intravenously through a needle inserted into a vein in your hand or lower arm, a procedure known as an infusion. Ask your doctor if you can get a catheter (a thin tube) with a port, which makes needle insertion easier. Sometimes the medication leaks into the surrounding tissue, causing pain as the drugs flow through the IV. If that happens to you, simply alert your infusion nurse. 3 How frequently will I need it? It depends on the type and stage of your cancer and the medications in your regimen, but it can be once a day, once a week, once every 10 days or even once a month. When remission or prevention of recurrence is the goal, chemo usually lasts three to 12 million Your CHEMO TEAM During treatment, you’ll be cared for and supported by a variety of medical professionals, including your: !"Medical oncologist, a physician who determines the drugs you need and your schedule. ! Oncology nurse, a specialized nurse who may administer your chemo. !"Oncology nutritionist, who can help you plan menus during your treatment. cancer survivors are living in the U.S. today—more than ever. And chemo advances are part of the reason. !"Oncology social worker, who can assist you with psychosocial and financial needs. ! "Phlebotomist, who will draw blood whenever tests and procedures are needed. ! Physical therapist, who can help you find appropriate exercise during treatment. Guide2chemo.com 7 chemotherapy 101 six months. If the goal is to shrink your tumor and ease symptoms, there is no time frame. 4 Will it make me feel sick? Many patients say they feel perfectly fine. Even if you do experience side effects, they can be alleviated with medication. “We have very good antinausea drugs now,” says Sanjay Goel, MD, an oncologist at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City. Other side effects include fatigue and infection brought on by a low white blood cell count. Alert your doctor if you have a fever over 100.5°, uncontrolled vomiting, diarrhea, or abnormal bleeding or bruising. (See page 16 to learn how a CBC blood test can help your medical team monitor your progress.) 5 Will I be able to eat? Yes. Aim for small, frequent meals and high-protein snacks such as peanut butter crackers, cheese and milk shakes. Stay hydrated with plenty of water and juice. And note when your appetite peaks—you may be able to sneak in a big breakfast, say, before symptoms hit later in the day. 6 Will I lose all my hair? Not necessarily, although many medications do cause hair to thin or fall out. That includes eyebrows, body hair and pubic hair. Take charge by cutting 8 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY WHAT ABOUT A CLINICAL TRIAL? Clinical trials allow doctors to test the safety and effectiveness of new drugs or combinations of drugs. The decision to enroll in a clinical trial is very personal—one you should consider carefully after discussing the pros and cons with your healthcare provider. The goal of most trials is to yield improvements in survival, side effects and convenience, with the hope that outcomes are at least as good as standard treatments. Log on to cancer.gov/clinicaltrials to learn more. your hair short or shaving it off. You can wear a cap, scarf or wig. When your treatment is over, your hair will grow back. It’s often curly at first; it will return to your normal texture soon. 7 If I get infusions, how long will each one last, and what can I do to pass the time? A session can last anywhere from a few hours to most of the day, says Dr. Goel. At many chemo centers, patients talk to pass the time; it’s a great way to find support and make new friends. But you can also watch a movie, listen to relaxing music or read a book. 8 What if I’m too tired to get chemo? It’s important to stay on the schedule your doctor has prescribed, says Dr. Goel. If you skip a treatment, cancer cells could regrow, and your chances of remission will drop, he says. Ask your doctor what you can do about fatigue and any other troublesome side effects, and ask a friend to take you to your appointments. 9 Can I work during chemo? Yes, most people can. “Many patients want to maintain as much normalcy as possible, so they like to continue their regular work schedule,” says Dr. Goel. If you’re tired after treatment, talk to your boss about reducing your hours or taking off a day or two after a chemo session. Remember, if you work for a public agency, a school or a company with more than 50 employees, you’re protected by the Family Medical Leave Act, which guarantees you 12 weeks of unpaid leave without risking your job. 10 Will I feel better as soon as my course is over? Yes. In fact, many of the most frustrating side effects—nausea, loss of appetite and hair loss—will vanish a few weeks after your last session. Although it can take longer to shake the last remnants of fatigue and pain, exercise and yoga can help. If you continue to have muscle pain or tingling in your fingers and toes, talk to your doctor. —Marisa Cohen STAR TALK Actor Michael Douglas Stage IV throat cancer survivor How it was treated: chemotherapy and radiation How he coped: “I took [my children] down to a couple of radiation treatments. They thought it was cool, you know, all this space-age stuff. It made up for all those days when Dad was lying on the couch.” Best advice: Michael has said that he cherishes his new life since beating cancer. “I have a much deeper appreciation of my friends and family.” ! Web Extra! Caring for someone undergoing chemo? Get expert tips and advice for helping your loved one cope at Guide2Chemo. com/caregiving Guide2Chemo.com 9 on schedule Staying the course You can keep your chemo sessions going smoothly and help ensure the best results with these simple steps. > Before chemo begins !"Attend a chemo class. > Most cancer centers offer a pre-chemo education program to prepare you. !"Get regular care and screenings. Take care of dental work and get any exams you’re due for, such as a Pap or colonoscopy. !"Consider having a port implanted. Needles are inserted more easily through a port than directly through the skin. !"Stock up on these essentials. Face and body lotion, lip balm and nasal gel to combat dryness; products that fight dry mouth. Start right! Infection due to a low white blood cell count is the most common cause of treatment delays, so ask your doctor how to avoid infection. Before each session > !"Drink water. The infusion nurse will be able to find your veins more easily if there’s fluid in your system. Drink about 10 8-oz. glasses of water the day before. !"Ask about numbing cream. If you have a port, ask your infusion nurse to recommend a cream that will make infusions more comfortable and how to care for your port at home. During your session !"Visualize your chemo working! Try envision- ing your chemo drugs searching and destroying the cancer cells in your body. Studies show visualization may help relieve anxiety, boost your spirits and even rev your immune system temporarily. It just may help you walk out of your session feeling more positive and in control. > Before you leave !"Get post-infusion instructions. Are there medications you’ll need? Some patients get an injection the day after chemo of a colony-stimulating factor (CSF) medication. This drug helps keep your white blood cell count at a healthy level, so you can avoid infections and stay on schedule with your chemotherapy. If you’ll need this, make sure you have a prescription. !"Double-check the date How does your doctor plan your treatment? Which chemo drugs will help rid your body of cancer…in what doses… how often? The answers are different for each person. Your doctor will decide what’s right for you by weighing various factors, including the type of cancer you have, its stage, and your weight or body surface area. As your chemo progresses, it’s not unusual for your doctor to further fine-tune your formula depending on your body’s response. > and time of your next appointment. Then mark it on your calendar! There’s more! See “What to bring to your chemo treatments” in the tear-out section of this guide for more practical tips. Before next appointment !"Watch for signs of infection! (See “Infection alert!”) !"Keep a log. Throughout your treatment, record any symptoms on your chemo calendar. (See “Use your calendar wisely” in the tear-out section.) It will help you talk to your doctor about your progress. Infection ALERT! Infection can stall your chemo schedule. If you develop any of these signs of an infection, contact your doctor right away: " fever above 100.5° orally, sudden chills, sore throat " new cough or shortness of breath " nasal congestion " pain or burning when you urinate " diarrhea or uncontrolled vomiting " new onset of pain, especially in your back " redness, swelling, pain and warmth at the site of an injury or an IV site " abnormal bleeding or bruising Guide2chemo.com 11 Help boost your natural defenses with ® Neulasta (pegfilgrastim) Ask your doctor if Neulasta® should be a part of your overall treatment plan Chemotherapy can lower your white blood cell count, raising the risk of infection. “Yes, I have cancer. And cancer may mean chemotherapy. My doctor told me strong chemo could lower my white blood cell count, putting me at risk for infection. Neulasta®, injected 1 day after every cycle of my chemotherapy, helped boost my white blood cell count and helped reduce my risk of infection. Your results may vary. Before you start chemotherapy, ask your doctor if Neulasta® should be a part of your overall treatment plan.” Visit Neulasta.com for more information. Neulasta® is a prescription medication used to reduce the risk of infection (initially marked by fever) in patients with some tumors receiving strong chemotherapy that decreases the number of infection-fighting white blood cells. Neulasta® may not prevent all infections. Please see Important Safety Information on the following page. The Neulasta FIRST STEP® co-pay coupon program can help eligible commercially insured patients meet their Neulasta® deductible, co-insurance, and/or co-payment (out of pocket) requirement. Log on to www.AmgenFIRSTSTEP.com or call 1-888-657-8371 for a complete list of eligibility requirements and restrictions. Neulasta® can help boost your white blood cell count— your body’s natural defenses. Important Safety Information Do not take Neulasta® if you have had an allergic reaction to Neulasta® or to NEUPOGEN® (filgrastim). Tell your doctor if you have sickle cell disorder before using Neulasta®. Ruptured spleen (including fatal cases), a serious lung problem called acute respiratory distress syndrome (ARDS), serious allergic reactions, and sickle cell crises can occur. Call your doctor or seek emergency care right away if you have: pain in the left upper stomach area or left shoulder tip pain (symptoms of an enlarged or ruptured spleen); shortness of breath, trouble breathing, or a fast rate of breathing (symptoms of ARDS); shortness of breath, wheezing, dizziness, swelling around the mouth or eyes, fast pulse, sweating, and hives (symptoms of an allergic reaction); or if you have pain or difficulty breathing (symptoms of sickle cell crises). The most common side effect you may experience is aching in the bones and muscles. If you have any questions about this information, be sure to discuss them with your doctor. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088. Please see important product information for patients on the following page. BRIEF SUMMARY OF PATIENT PACKAGE INSERT Neulasta® (pegfilgrastim) This brief summary of the patient package insert provides information and instructions for people who will be receiving Neulasta or their caregivers. This brief summary does not tell you everything about Neulasta. You should discuss any questions you have about treatment with Neulasta with your doctor. What is Neulasta? Neulasta is a man-made form of granulocyte colony-stimulating factor (G-CSF), which is made using the bacteria E coli. G-CSF is a substance produced by the body. It stimulates the growth of neutrophils (nu-tro-fils), a type of white blood cell important in the body’s fight against infection. Who should not take Neulasta? Do not take Neulasta if you have had: s!SERIOUSALLERGICREACTIONTO.EULASTA® (pegfilgrastim) or to Neupogen® (filgrastim). What important information do I need to know about receiving Neulasta? Occasionally pain and redness may occur at the injection site. If there is a lump, swelling, or bruising at the injection site that does not go away, talk to the doctor. Neulasta should only be injected on the day the doctor has determined and should not be injected until approximately 24 hours after receiving chemotherapy. The needle cover on the single-use prefilled syringe contains dry natural rubber (latex), which should not be handled by persons sensitive to this substance. What should I tell my healthcare provider before taking Neulasta? What are the most common side effects of Neulasta? The most common side effect you may experience is aching in the bones and muscles. If this happens, it can usually be relieved with a non-aspirin pain reliever, such as acetaminophen. What about pregnancy or breastfeeding? Neulasta has not been studied in pregnant women, and its effects on unborn babies are not known. If you take Neulasta while you are pregnant, it is possible that small amounts of it may get into your baby’s blood. It is not known if Neulasta can get into human breast milk. If you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, think you may be pregnant, or are breastfeeding, you should tell your doctor before using Neulasta. If you become pregnant during Neulasta treatment, you are encouraged to enroll in Amgen’s Pregnancy Surveillance Program. You should call 1-800-77-AMGEN (1-800-772-6436) to enroll. How should Neulasta be stored? Neulasta should be stored in the refrigerator at 2° to 8°C (36° to 46°F), but not in the freezer. Neulasta should be protected from light, so you should keep it in its carton until you are ready to use it. Avoid shaking Neulasta. If Neulasta is accidentally frozen, allow it to thaw in the refrigerator before injecting. However, if it is frozen a second time, do not use. Neulasta can be left out at room temperature for up to 48 hours. Do not leave Neulasta in direct sunlight. For all questions about storage, contact your doctor, nurse, or pharmacist. What are the ingredients in Neulasta? Each syringe contains pegfilgrastim in a sterile, clear, colorless, preservative-free solution containing acetate, sorbitol, polysorbate 20, and sodium. If you have a sickle cell disorder, make sure that your doctor knows about it before using Neulasta. If you have a sickle cell crisis after getting Neulasta, tell your doctor right away. If you have any questions, talk to your doctor. What are possible serious side effects of Neulasta? sSpleen Rupture. Your spleen may become enlarged and can rupture while taking Neulasta. A ruptured spleen can cause death. The spleen is located in the upper left section of your stomach area. Call your doctor right away if you have pain in the left upper stomach area or left shoulder tip area. This pain could mean your spleen is enlarged or ruptured. sA serious lung problem called Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome (ARDS). Call your doctor or seek emergency care right away if you have shortness of breath, trouble breathing, or a fast rate of breathing. sSerious Allergic Reactions. Neulasta can cause serious allergic reactions. These reactions can cause shortness of breath, wheezing, dizziness, swelling around the mouth or eyes, fast pulse, sweating, and hives. If you start to have any of these symptoms, call your doctor or seek emergency care right away. If you have an allergic reaction during the injection of Neulasta, stop the injection. Call your doctor right away. sSickle Cell Crises. You may have a serious sickle cell crisis if you have a sickle cell disorder and take Neulasta. Serious and sometimes fatal sickle cell crises can occur in patients with sickle cell disorders receiving filgrastim, a medicine similar to Neulasta (pegfilgrastim). Call your doctor right away if you have symptoms of sickle cell crisis such as pain or difficulty breathing. Neulasta® (pegfilgrastim) Manufactured by: Amgen Inc. One Amgen Center Drive Thousand Oaks, California 91320-1799 This product, its production, and/or its use may be covered by one or more US Patents, including US Patent Nos. 5,824,784; 5,582,823; 5,580,755, as well as other patents or patents pending. © 2010 Amgen Inc. All rights reserved. www.neulasta.com 1-800-77-AMGEN (1-800-772-6436) v 8.0 65494-R1-V5 MC38484-E-1 on schedule The BLOOD TEST that helps keep your chemo on track >> When you’re on chemo, getting a blood test called a CBC (complete blood count) becomes part of the routine. It’s usually done right before you get your chemo and then about two Type of cell Red blood cells White blood cells Platelets weeks later. The reason? The same drugs that help rid your body of cancer can also cause levels of your blood cells to dip. A CBC gives your doctor a comprehensive look at the type and number of cells in your blood—particularly, your red blood cells, white blood cells and platelets. He can prescribe medication to boost low blood counts and help you stay on course. Function Normal range Transport oxygen-rich hemoglobin through your body. 4.7 to 6.1 million cells/ mcL (male); 4.2 to 5.4 million cells/mcL (female) A low red blood cell count means you are anemic and that your body has to work much harder to supply oxygen to your tissues. This can leave you feeling tired and short of breath. Help protect your body against infection. 4,500 to 10,000 cells/ mcL If levels of neutrophils, a type of white blood cell, are too low, you have neutropenia, a condition that makes you vulnerable to infection. Cause your blood to clot. 150,000 to 400,000 platelets/mcL If your count is out of range If your platelet count is too low, you may not be able to stop bleeding. Alert! Be sure to have your blood tested per your doctor’s orders during your treatment—and report symptoms such as extreme fatigue or dizziness, chills or sudden onset of new pain ASAP. Source: National Institutes of Health ! Web Extra! Undergoing chemo? Keep track of your sessions, test results and more with our chemo calendar at Guide2Chemo.com/calendar THE OTHER SIDE EFFECTS of chemo Outsmarting While you may be gearing up for nausea and hair loss, you may be unprepared for these chemo side effects. Here’s what to know to stay well—and stay on track. Neutropenia Chemo can cause white blood cells to plummet to abnormally low levels, a condition called neutropenia. Since white blood cells fight off infections, it’s vital that they remain in the normal range so you can remain on your chemo schedule. REPORT: Any signs of infection, including fever, chills and aches. WHAT YOUR DOCTOR CAN DO: Prescribe medi- cation that elevates white blood cell levels. WHAT YOU CAN DO: Wash your hands often, stay away from sick people and avoid procedures, dental work or vaccinations, all of which can increase your infection risk. Anemia Some chemo drugs can lower your red blood cell count, causing anemia. REPORT: Fatigue, weakness, dizziness, shortness of breath. WHAT YOUR DOCTOR CAN DO: If your anemia is severe, he may recommend a drug or a blood transfusion to boost your red blood cell count. WHAT YOU CAN DO: Rest when you need to, eat well and exercise when you feel up to it. Peripheral neuropathy Some chemo drugs can damage nerves in your hands and feet, known as peripheral neuropathy. REPORT: Numbness, tingling or a “pins and needles” sensation in your hands and feet; loss of balance. WHAT YOUR DOCTOR CAN DO: Prescribe a pain reliever; adjust your chemo. WHAT YOU CAN DO: Avoid extreme temperatures, protect hands and feet and check daily for wounds. WHAT’S CHEMO BRAIN? Some chemo patients say they feel like they’re in a fog, forgetting things, misplacing objects or having trouble expressing themselves. But chemo drugs aren’t always the sole culprit—low blood counts, stress, hormonal changes and nutritional deficiencies may play a role. Since medication can help, mention the problem to your healthcare team. And scan this guide for tips that help you relax—they can help ease chemo brain, too. Guide2Chemo.com 17 support strategy Conquering chemo anxiety W hen you’re preparing for treatment, it’s natural to feel anxious. But remember, millions have gone through chemo and are doing great. They may even include your neighbors, friends and co-workers. Here, a few chemo veterans share the strategies that kept their stress low and their spirits high throughout treatment. Talk it out. “After surgery and chemo, I started seeing a therapist and stuck with her for a year and a half. It helped that she was not ‘family.’ I could share anything with this person,” says Jacki, who underwent treatment for breast cancer several years ago. WHY IT WORKS: “Therapy can offer you a safe place to express feelings you may not be comfortable sharing with loved ones,” says Erin M. Rafter, PhD, a psychologist at The Gathering Place in Westlake, OH. “A professional can help you learn coping strategies and different perspectives to help you through the process of treatment.” TO TRY IT: Contact CancerCare (800-813-4673, cancercare.org) for free phone counseling or referrals to resources in your community. Take a stroll, walk the dog, go to a put- ting green. “I didn’t want to go out and see my friends or do anything,” says Sally, a colon cancer survivor. “Then my neighbor friend took me for a walk. Wow! There’s no question that it helped my mood.” WHY IT WORKS: The latest guidelines from the American Council on Sports Medicine urge people undergoing chemo to exercise as much as those not going through the treatment— about two and a half hours a week. Studies show getting in some physical activity can reduce anxiety, preserve strength and counter fatigue. TO TRY IT: It’s as easy as taking a walk, but if you prefer more structured activity, try an exercise program designed especially for cancer patients (check with your hospital). And clear any program with your oncologist. Say yes to help. “People will come out of the woodwork to help,” says Irene, a one-year cancer survivor. “Do not be too proud to take them up on their offers.” WHY IT WORKS: “Accepting help is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of friendship,” says Lillie Shockney, RN, MAS, a two-time breast cancer survivor and the administrative director of the Johns Hopkins Clinical Breast Programs and Cancer Survivorship Programs. “Make a list of the errands you will need help with. Ask people to fix casseroles you can freeze.” Leaning on others to handle small daily hassles relieves stress and enhances the healing process. Reassurance from folks who’ve been there We found these encouraging words on cancer blogs and forums. “They give you meds that control the nausea. Other than being tired the first week after treatment, I have done pretty well.” – Jane S. “Life will be good again— not quite the same, but you will appreciate things that you didn’t before. Before you know it, you’ll have your life back.” – Pat D, “The chemo suite is a very calm place with caring and experienced staff. There are usually other patients around to talk to and after a while, it feels very familiar and safe.” – Susan F. ! Web Extra! Get moving to reduce stress with these gentle treatmentfriendly exercises at Guide2Chemo.com/yoga Guide2Chemo.com 19 support strategy Chemo mentors Get the inside scoop on everything from hair loss to early menopause from Haralee and Crystal, survivors who spread help and encouragement. “My support group helped me anticipate side effects and told me about clinical trials.” H —Haralee Weintraub, 58, Portland, OR aralee Weintraub, who was diagnosed with breast cancer at 48, joined a support group just before her second chemo treatment began. “The women helped me to anticipate side effects, such as joint stiffness,” she recalls. “When I heard what other women were experiencing, I wasn’t as scared.” She also found their words comforting, since some of the women were 15 or more years out of treatment. Through her support group, Haralee also 20 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY learned about clinical trials that were recruiting breast cancer patients. “I participated in six of them,” she says. One was for a new chemo medication, and the others involved exercise, bone density, falls and vision. “My oncologist could have told me about the trials, but I didn’t see him as often as I saw the women in my support group,” she says. The group played another key role for Haralee—as an unofficial focus group for her new business venture. When chemo threw her into menopause with drenching night sweats, she sewed a nightie out of wicking fabric meant for athletic wear. “I brought a couple of prototypes to my support group, and the women went wild with enthusiasm,” says the owner of the company she named after herself, Haralee (“Cool Garments for Hot Women”). Two members modeled the sleepwear for a photo shoot. “They helped me so much,” she says. “Now I want to help other patients.” “Survivors reassured me that my hair would go back to normal.” W —Crystal Brown-Tatum, 43, Shreveport, LA hen Crystal Brown-Tatum learned she had breast cancer in 2007, she dreaded the thought of chemotherapy. “Everything I knew about it came from TV and movies,” says the owner of a public relations firm. So when her doctor told her that she’d need chemo, she was devastated. Luckily, Crystal heard about the Sisters Network (sistersnetworkinc.org), a national support group for African American women with breast cancer. Women in her local chapter comforted her, reassuring Crystal that the side effects wouldn’t be as bad as she feared. “The morning before my first chemo, I called one of the women in the group,” she says. “Her reassurance was the motivation I needed.” Group members also shared tips, such as to ask her doctor for a prescription mouth rinse if she developed mouth sores and to wear cotton gloves to bed if her hands got cold (a symptom of peripheral nerve damage). “Their support meant the world to me,” she says. “Everyone needs a chemo mentor.” —Beth Howard Guide2Chemo.com 21 support strategy Circle of support, chain of love B efore starting chemo seven years ago, Jacki Donaldson had a special wig made up—cotton on top, human hair on the sides, designed to be worn with hats or scarves: “I loved the thought of a baseball cap on top of hair that looked real.” The wig was so well made, in fact, that a neighbor commented on how great it was that Jacki had not lost her hair. Little did she know her “underhair” would eventually travel the U.S., bringing hope and happiness to other women going through chemo. The blog begins The journey started back in 2004, when Jacki, then 34, found a lump in her breast. As she got her diagnosis and embarked on treatment, concerned friends and family 22 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY Breast cancer survivor Jacki Donaldson started a blog to keep loved ones in the loop. Now it’s leading others on the path from cancer and chemo to good health. kept checking in on her. That’s when her husband prompted her to start a blog— something she knew nothing about—to keep her loved ones up to date. It wasn’t long before Jacki was posting like a pro on “my Breast Cancer blog” (cancerspot. org) and reaping an unexpected benefit: “I was able to process everything I was going through and feel better,” she says. Things like finding her cancer while showering: “I knew it was not normal. It was hard and felt like a small green pea.” Things like getting her first chemo treatment: “The chemo is done for today. I’ve had fluids, antinausea medication and the chemo drugs, and now I’m home. The whole process took about four and a half hours.” Things like losing her hair: “I think my morning routine is going to be much quicker now. I just have to put my hair on—instead of drying it, curling it, styling it.” Seeing the silver lining Quite unexpectedly, blogging gave Jacki a purpose: “[Through my blog] other people are finding me—like other survivors and loved ones of cancer patients…the disease begins looking more like a gift than a curse.” It even launched a writing career and widened her circle of support: “I hear from someone every day—it might be a comment on this site or a personal email. Something might arrive in the mail or someone might call to check on me. It keeps me going. It lifts my spirits in moments of weakness. It reminds me of the power of love and friendship. It’s the best medicine—and the best side effect—so far.” Paying it forward Now that she’s cancer-free, “my Breast Cancer Blog” has become a vehicle for spreading her optimism: “My goal is to share the hope with people early in their journey.” She also shares her underhair, sending it to some of her blog readers as they prepare for their own treatment. It’s traveled to Florida, Ohio and now to TIP! To find out how to start a blog like Jacki’s, visit Guide2Chemo. com Michelle in Vienna, VA. “This wig brought me peace when my world was crumbling. I think it will do the same for whoever is in line next.” No blog? PEN AND PAPER WILL DO! No matter how you choose to express your thoughts and feelings—online or in a diary—you stand to benefit: Cancer patients who journaled before chemo responded better emotionally and physically, according to a study in the journal Oncologist. What’s more, writing about your personal experiences helps improve memory and sleep and boosts the immune system. Guide2chemo.com 23 feel your best Get the nutrition you need! O ne way to feel your best during chemo? Eat a wholesome diet. “You have to eat well in order to heal well,” says Sharlene Bidini, RD, CSO, a certified specialist in oncology nutrition in Dearborn, MI. Of course, that’s easier said than done when challenges like nausea and appetite loss make it hard to eat. Luckily, there’s a solution to those and other dietary dilemmas... (American Cancer Society, 2010). Not a fan of the curds? Consider milkshakes, puddings, custards and eggs. On the go? Tote snacks like granola or energy bars, crackers with cheese or peanut butter, or small boxes of raisins. !Avoid mouth dryness with moist foods. “Wet” foods, like casseroles, !"Boost your appetite with cottage cheese. Solo, or flavored with fruit, it boosts calories and protein intake so you maintain lean muscle and keep up your strength, says Cynthia A. Thomson, PhD, RD, CSO, co-author of the American Cancer Society’s Complete Guide to Nutrition for Cancer Survivors 24 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY scrambled eggs, soup, yogurt and pudding can help, says Bidini, who also recommends rinsing often with this homemade mouthwash. Unlike commercial products, it is gentle on soft mouth tissues: To one quart of water add a teaspoon each of salt and baking soda; mix thoroughly. (Store in a cool, dry place—no need for refrigeration. Discard unused solution after 24 hours.) !"Outsmart constipation with fiber-rich nuts, seeds and fruits !"Relieve diarrhea with banana baby food. “It works well,” says Thomson. Also try oatmeal, she suggests—its soluble fiber can help bulk your stool. On the other hand, you’ll want to avoid insoluble fiber, so stick with refined white breads and grains for now. Skip spicy, greasy or fatty foods, and avoid coffee, tea or hot soups, which can stimulate the bowels. !"Dodge “bad” food smells with dishes that are cool or room temperature—they lack aromas that can make you queasy. Amp up your meals’ flavor with marinades and gravies. If chemo drugs leave a metallic taste in your mouth, Bidini recommends rinsing with your homemade mouthwash before eating. ! Web Extra! Need mealtime inspiration? Find recipes and nutrition tips for people undergoing chemo at Guide2Chemo.com/ recipes (with the peel on), vegetables and beans. And stay hydrated, counsels Thomson. Adequate fluid intake keeps stool moving through your digestive tract and helps flush the chemo drugs through your system. STAR TALK Olympic gold-medal-winning skater, TV commentator Scott Hamilton Testicular cancer How it was treated: Laparoscopic surgery and chemotherapy How he coped: “At first, I was petrified. I was in shock. I couldn’t believe it,” Scott writes on his site, chemocare.com. “But then, I made up my mind that I would fight and that I could do it.” Best advice: The experience wasn’t as bad as what I feared,” he says on his site. “The fear was worse. If people can get information, they can overcome their fear and make it through.” Guide2chemo.com 25 feel your best !" Avoid aggravating mouth sores with cool, creamy foods. Steer clear of acidic and spicy foods. Swap apple or grape juice for orange juice, and creamy Alfredo sauce for tomato sauce, says Bidini. “Try cool, creamy soft foods rather than dry foods. No toast or chips.” !" Quell nausea with small, frequent meals. And choose bland, easy- to-digest foods. “Have someone else do the cooking and stay out of the kitchen to avoid the aromas,” Bidini suggests. Ask your doctor about antinausea medication. And try ginger to settle a queasy stomach: Brew it as tea or grate some into soup. Gearing up for chemo? GET YOUR EATING HABITS ON TRACK If you haven’t paid much attention to your diet lately, this is the perfect time. Meet with a registered dietitian, preferably a certified specialist in oncology nutrition, says Bidini. In the meantime, take these easy steps to healthier eating: !"Add green tea to your morning routine. !"Add strawberries, blueberries or raspberries to a meal. !"Drink grape juice or eat red grapes. IMPORTANT: Do not take any supplements without getting your oncologist’s approval. Some may interfere with your chemotherapy. Low white blood cells? You’re prone to infection, so … Say YES to Fully cooked meat, fish and eggs. Pasteurized dairy products and juices. Municipal or commercially bottled water. Say NO to Raw eggs or foods containing raw eggs, such as eggnog or Caesar salad. Sushi, sashimi and other raw fish. Raw honey, raw nuts and nut butters. Any unpasteurized products. Well water that is not tested at least once a year or water that comes directly from springs, lakes or rivers. 26 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY YO U R P E R S O N A L CHEMO TOOL KIT Download our free iPhone app to record your info wherever you are. Track your blood cell counts, chart your progress, schedule events, share info with your doctor and more. For the app and more useful tools and info, visit Guide2Chemo.com A sampling of what you’ll find: YOUR CHEMO CALENDAR For printable record-keeping, appointment reminders and more NUTRITION BOOSTERS Delicious recipes and expert tips to get critical nutrients while going through chemo YOUR PERSONAL ORGANIZER A comprehensive checklist to keep those piles of paperwork organized ALTERNATIVE METHODS OF RELIEF Complementary therapies to help ease the side effects of treatment 20 from thriving tips people who’ve been there feel your best We turned to folks who have gone through chemo or are going through treatment right now for their best tips and tools—chances are, they can also help you de-stress, stay upbeat and just plain feel your best while chemo goes to work ridding your body of cancer. SUCCESS STORY Zeva’s tumors have shrunk 50% after just three treatments. “I will be healthy. I will heal. I will survive. I will thrive” 1 Create a calming ritual. “At home, I listen to a tape that guides me with deep breathing and relaxing. I take a deep breath in and say to myself, I am, then breathe out and say, Relaxing. Then another deep breath in, I am. Then breathe out and say, Letting go,” says Zeva. 2 Think positive thoughts. Says Zeva, “There are four lines my son wrote for me, inspired by Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh, to repeat over and 28 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY over: ‘I will be healthy. I will heal. I will survive. I will thrive.’ I say them when I’m walking or anytime.” 3 Sneak in some Zzzs. “Chemo was on Friday, then Friday and Saturday and even Sunday I felt pretty good,” says Terri. “But by Monday, I was dead-tired. I’d go to work, but at 2 PM I’d go to my car and take a nap! 4 Get a handle on hair loss. “I bought two wigs, one short and one long,” says Rebecca. “Then I braided my real hair, cut it off and donated it to Locks of Love, which makes wigs for children with cancer. These choices comforted me.” 5 Outsmart night sweats. “I wear a cotton T-shirt to bed and keep a couple more nearby,” says Zeva. “So when I wake up drenched during the night, I can easily change. And I tuck a soft washcloth under my shirt; it absorbs the moisture so my shirt doesn’t get soaked.” 6 Keep your routine— as much as possible. “I still clean the house,” says Zeva. “And I love to cook—it’s like therapy. I get out when I have the OUR PANEL OF CANCER SURVIVORS TERRI, REBECCA, DEB, colon cancer survivor “Don’t anticipate problems that might not happen!” breast cancer survivor “Make choices that bring you comfort.” breast cancer survivor “Don’t be meek. Ask questions, demand answers.” Guide2chemo.com 29 feel your best energy—to the supermarket and to meetings at the senior citizen center. It’s good to keep busy, but you have to pace yourself. 7 Go wireless. “Most chemo centers have free Internet access (you may have to ask for the code), so it’s great to bring your laptop, if that relaxes you,” says Deb. “They usually have TVs and DVD players, too, so you can bring the movies you love to watch.” 8 Pick your perfect distraction. “I have an IV in my hand during chemo, so I can’t knit as I’d hoped,” says Zeva. “Instead I read, do crossword puzzles, browse my new iPad and listen to tapes of soothing music.” 9 Avoid infection. “The seventh through the tenth days after my infusion is when my immune system is at its lowest, so I have to be careful about germs,” says Zeva. “I keep hand sanitizer in my pocketbook, wash my hands often and stay away from people with colds. I also use the sanitizer gel to wipe down the shopping carts in the supermarket.” 10 Avoid “what-if?” anxiety. “You might not get the same side effects after each session, so don’t waste time dreading something that may never happen,” says Terri. 11 Write it down. “Take a journal or a day calendar to each treatment/checkup/visit. Write what you feel, when you feel it, what meds do what 30 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY and what day procedures are done,” says Deb. “This keeps you focused on you and your health, reminds you to go to appointments and treatments, and down the road it will help you understand the things you went through.” 12 Take backup. “The first time you go to chemo, it can help to bring your significant other or a very good friend,” says Deb. “In addition to offering comfort, your companion can act as your second set of ears, and if you would like antianxiety meds, he can drive you home.” 13 Keep your head cozy. “When you lose your hair, your head gets cold more easily,” says Zeva. “On cool nights, I wear a knit hat or a scarf to bed. I even bought some funny hats in the children’s department—one has eyes and ears on it—but they’re soft and they keep my head warm.” 14 Lean on your healthcare provider. “I call my doctor’s office and talk to the nurses whenever I have a question,” says Zeva. “I was reading outside and my daughter asked, ‘Should you be in the sun during chemo?’ I called and they said it was okay if I wear a hat and use sunscreen.” 15 Tote a “goodie bag.” “Keep hard candy, like lemon drops or Jolly Ranchers, and water with you at all times—when CONFUSED? GET HELP! Ask to speak to a nurse navigator, social worker or financial advocate. Every hospital has at least one of these pros available, and they can help you resolve a multitude of frustrating issues. Some of their good deeds: They can explain consent forms, describe how to get assistance with high co-pays or the cost of expensive drugs, locate interpreters and even show you the layout of the hospital so you’re less likely to get lost! your mouth is dry and nothing tastes good, you’ll be glad to have them on hand,” says Deb. 16 Speak up for yourself! “My oncologist told my husband that it would have been risky to follow my first doctor’s advice, which was to wait and see. Which is why I cannot stress enough to be your own advocate. It’s your body—no one knows it better than you,” says Deb. “Don’t be meek. Ask questions, demand answers and seek second or third opinions...it saved my life.” 17 Chill your mouth! “Drink something cold during your chemo appointment,” says Deb. “This helps to shrink the blood vessels in the inside of your mouth, which keeps the chemo from burning you there and can prevent painful mouth sores.” Guide2chemo.com 31 feel your best 18 Rinse well…and banish mouth sores. “If you develop mouth sores, tell your oncology team. I used something I called my ‘miracle mouthwash,’ which was prescribed for me by my chemo oncologist,” says Deb. 19 Eat what you can, when you can. “Your taste buds will most likely change. Some foods will have no taste and others become a huge unchewable lump,” says Deb. “Learn to try malts, shakes, ice cream, baked potatoes, scrambled eggs—whatever it takes!” 20 Get all the care you need. “Don’t be afraid of whatever medications you are told you need postchemo. I had an injection 24 hours after each chemo session to keep my white blood cells up. It helped prevent any infections, which made it possible for me to stick to my chemo schedule,” says Deb. FREE PAMPERING PERKS! holding hands–they’re a big part of intimacy. Take precautions! If you want to be intimate the evening after a session, ask your oncologist if oral sex is okay. Some drugs appear in semen or vaginal secretions, and you wouldn’t Along with the treatments and procedures that come with having cancer are a few surprising perks. Read on for the info that can help you score a steal—and feel better! ! Angie’s Spa. This service provides free massages for people undergoing chemo at hospitals in four states: MD Anderson Cancer Center in Texas, Northridge Hospital Medical Center in California, Hartford Hospital in Connecticut and Southampton Hospital in New York. For information, go to angiesspa.org. Or, ask a local spa if it offers discounted services for cancer patients. ! Crickett’s Answer for Cancer. Founded in honor of a 39-year-old woman who had cancer, CAFC offers free massages, as well as facials, mastectomy supplies and wigs. Go to crickettsanswer. startlogic.com. ! Yoga Bear. This San Francisco-based nonprofit group offers free yoga classes at more than 200 studios in 25 states. Boost your energy during chemo: Go to yogabear.org to sign up. Don’t forget about “DATE NIGHTS” There’s nothing sexy about chemo. But there’s nothing wrong with having sex while receiving treatment, either. In fact, if you’re feeling up to it, it can be a great idea! Make time for bonding While you may not always good. Expect side effects, if they occur at all, 24 to 72 hours after a session. Appearance anxiety? Hair loss, weight gain and the aftermath of surgery can take their toll. Talk through your be “in the mood,” there will be days when you feel quite well—and will want to be intimate with your partner. In time, you’ll be able to figure out when you’re likely to feel ill and when you’ll feel feelings with your partner. You’ll most likely learn that these issues loom much larger in your mind than in your partner’s. Closeness counts! Don’t rule out cuddling or want your partner getting a chemo dose. Combat side effects Vaginal dryness can be an issue. To prevent painful intercourse, use a vaginal lubricant. For men, getting erections can be difficult. Drugs are an option—and insurance will generally cover them if your oncologist goes to bat for you. One warning: Sex while you have low white blood cell counts is generally not recommended. Ask your doctor about your count and if sex is safe. Finally, be sure to talk. Sharing dreams for the future is one of the most intimate things you can do. —Lillie Shockney, RN, BS, MAS Cuddling and hand holding count, too! Guide2chemo.com 33 in the know On the job with chemo? How to make it work Judy. Roughly 60% of cancer patients who work full-time continue working through chemo, according to a study of 1,433 subjects in the journal Cancer. And that can be a good thing: Changes in your routine (like watching morning TV instead of dressing for work) can stress you out—something that does not enhance the healing process—and “sitting home thinking can cause you to become deconditioned physically,” says Lillie Shockney, RN, MAS, administrative director of the Know your Johns Hopkins Clinical rights Breast Programs and Visit eeoc.gov/facts/ Cancer Survivorship cancer.html for details Programs. of the Americans with For Elizabeth, a Disabilities Act and breast cancer survivor, the Family and Medistaying on the job was cal Leave Act. a lifeline: “Work is very important because it gives you a reason to get up in the morning hen breast cancer survivor and somewhere to go, and it keeps your Judy learned she’d need mind off your diagnosis.” chemo, “My first thought was, I can’t Of course, if your work is physically take time off right now!” If you’re or mentally demanding, doing your the type who’s wondering if you can job while undergoing chemo may pose charge your laptop during your chemo challenges. So ask your doctor if you infusion, you probably feel just like W 34 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY can stay on the job. If he says it’s okay, remember these tips. They can help smooth your days with bosses, clients and co-workers and keep you on task: !"How to tell, if you tell. You’re not obligated to tell your boss or coworkers about your cancer. But opening up does have a few advantages: You’ll be able to ask for flexibility in your schedule, plan for absences and prepare colleagues for a possible change in your appearance. You will also be able to benefit from the Americans with Disabilities Act and the Family and Medical Leave Act. !"Stay focused by setting limits. Chemo can leave you foggy and fatigued, but knowing how long your attention span is can keep you on track. If you start to feel fuzzy after two hours, take a 10-minute break at the end of that span instead of pushing yourself. !"Steer the conversation with “yes, and…” Colleagues will show their con- cern by asking how you are doing, but that can leave you feeling like the token “cancer co-worker.” Next time someone asks, say something like, “Yes, I feel terrific, and I’m really excited about the new software we’re getting.” The technique shifts attention from your cancer. !"Find a way to remember. Now’s not the time to count on your memory! Use sticky notes, keep a calendar, record messages on your smart phone—whatever it takes to help you keep track of appointments, meetings, deadlines and to-do’s. Tip: Carry a memo pad around with you in case of an impromptu meeting. IF YOUR INSURER SAYS NO… !"Resubmit the claim. !"Make copies of any paperwork you send. !"Record conversations you have with your insurance company in a notebook. !"Enlist the help of your doctor’s billing office. !"Call a social worker or nurse on your healthcare team to discuss unresolved problems. Ask them to contact your insurer. !"Ask your doctor to provide studies to your insurer to show the effectiveness of your treatments. !"Contact your Medicaid office before treatment to find out if you are eligible for reimbursement. Find out about pharmaceutical company reimbursement programs. Guide2chemo.com 35 glossary Understanding cancerspeak ALOPECIA: Hair loss, a common side effect. INTRAVENOUS: Given through a vein. ANEMIA: A shortage of red blood cells. LEUKEMIAS: Cancers that originate in the blood or any bloodforming organs. ANTIEMETIC: A drug that controls (or even prevents) nausea and vomiting. BLOOD CELL COUNT: A test that checks the number of red and white blood cells and platelets in your blood. BONE MARROW: The inner tissue of bones, where blood cells are made. CARCINOMAS: The majority of solid tumors that start on surfaces of the body and in the lining of glands, such as the breast, lung and ovary. Often, the term adenocarcinoma is used. COLONY-STIMULATING FACTORS: White blood cell boosters. LYMPHOMAS: Cancers in the lymphatic system. MALIGNANT: Cancerous. METASTASIS: The spread of cancer from one part of the body to another. MYELOMAS: Cancers that start in the immune cells in bone marrow. NEUTROPENIA: A dangerous decrease in the body’s levels of infection-fighting white blood cells. ONCOLOGIST: A doctor who specializes in treating cancer. INFUSION: Intravenous delivery of meds or fluids. 36 Health Monitor Guide to CHEMOTHERAPY PERIPHERAL NEUROPATHY: Nerve damage in the hands and/or feet, which can cause pain or numbness. PORT: An implanted device that allows drugs to be given intravenously. PROGNOSIS: The chance of recovery versus recurrence. RADIATION THERAPY: The use of high-energy radiation from X-rays, gamma rays and other sources to kill cancer cells and shrink tumors. REMISSION: The partial or complete disappearance of a disease. SARCOMAS: Solid tumors that start in connective tissue such as bone, fat and muscle. THROMBOCYTOPENIA: A shortage of platelets (cells that help blood clot). Symptoms include easy bruising, nosebleeds, bleeding gums and/or small dots on the skin.