2 Samuel 11 “The Fall of a King” Review In our last study, we saw David standing on the promises of God God had promised Abraham a vast territory of land which Israel hadn’t ever possessed In fact, they had lost territory David, with his army, launched out to claim the land that God had promised – very successful David also fulfilled his promise to both Saul and especially Jonathan David had promised to deal kindly, deal well with their family He finds that Jonathan’s son Mephibosheth is still alive and he sends for him He restores all of his grandfather’s property to him David also ‘adopts’ him into his family by allowing him to eat at the king’s table continually At this point, all is well in the kingdom under David Introduction “The greatest peril of failure comes on the heels of success” It is when all things are going well that we are most vulnerable to fail We tend to let our guards down, we become a bit complacent, we lose our edge All is well and thus we feel we needn’t be too concerned However, when we face difficulties, we are more focused and alert We are careful and circumspect in our actions and attitudes We become acutely cognizant to the situations around us We live with a sense that at any moment, things may take a turn for the worse and we must be ready For believers, this should drive us to deeper fellowship with and dependence upon the Lord We never pray as much as when we are going through difficulties 1 Cor 10:12-13 “Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall. No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” Here is a sober warning not to get too comfortable, not to think you have it all together This verse is both comforting and discomforting at the same time First, we can trust that God enables us to endure or escape all temptations we may encounter Second, when we do fail, when we do succumb to temptation, we have no one but ourselves to blame David has been enjoying great success here in 2 Samuel He is the king – first over the tribe of Judah then over the entire nation He is living in the lap of luxury in his paneled house The ark, the resting place of God’s glory is among the people He is logistically safe in the city of Jerusalem He has been extremely successful in his military campaigns All is going well, maybe a little too well David starts to get a little to comfortable with his life, lets his guard down, and pays the price I’m glad that the bible shows it’s hero’s as they truly are – flawed humans with the same susceptibility to failure like us In this way, we can relate to them Chapter 11 deals with David’s sins Sins plural – David commits many here He begins with adultery, moves to deception, to cover up and ultimately to murder 1 David and Bathsheba (11:1-5) The writer begins by telling us that it was springtime It was the time when the kings go out to battle There was a war season, a time that was most conducive to mount attacks In the winter months it was too cold and too wet - the chariots would get stuck in the mud In the summer it was too hot – the men would get easily exhausted and dehydrated In the fall, the days are shorter – thus they would have less daylight to complete an attack The best time for war was in the spring David’s first mistake was that he was at home He sent Joab and the army to fight, but he stayed back in his paneled house He found that he had too much idle time on his hands “Idle hands are the devil’s workshop” David was a man of war, most at home when in the midst of a battle Relaxing at home, with nothing really to do, caused him to become too complacent Here are 2 great lessons for us First, it is very dangerous for us to start to slack off from what we are supposed to be doing Being content to have others do what we should do will have a dulling effect In our Christian lives, if we are not pushing forward, moving deeper in our relationship with God – then in actuality we are going backwards We can’t deceive ourselves into thinking that we can slack off in our devotions, our time in the word, our prayer life or our fellowship with other believers The moment we do, we are in effect already starting a backwards slide Second, it is just as dangerous for us to be in places where we have no business being This world, the enemy and our flesh are always looking to bring us down We shouldn’t help them by being somewhere where they have the advantage Out in nightclubs or bars can lead us to drink and drop our guards Watching suggestive movies, going to the thong clad beaches can begin to get our minds running Be careful where you go – as Paul says walk circumspectly, with your guards up at all times If we find ourselves in places that promote sinful behavior, it won’t be too long before we find ourselves partaking in that behavior In his boredom, David ventures out on his rooftop In Israel, the roof are made flat and the double as a patio where you can get a nice breeze Since Jerusalem sits on the top of a mountain with hills all around, the house are built so that they terrace up the hillside Being king, David’s house would be on the top of the hill thus giving him a view of the entire city As he’s out there he looks and sees a woman bathing I want you to notice 2 words in verse 2 – saw and behold The word ‘saw’ speaks of a glance, a momentary look The word ‘behold’ speaks of a prolonged, intense gaze, a stare It’s not the first look that was wrong, it was the second look that got David into trouble Job 31:1 “I have made a covenant with my eyes; why then should I look upon a young woman?” As David stared at Bathsheba, his lust and his fantasies began to rise within him He was a very passionate man and the sight of this beautiful woman caused his thought life to begin to fantasize Men are visual by nature that is why pornography is such a lure for them Our thought life is very powerful – David’s fantasy lead him down the path to action 2 Prov 23:7 “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” 2 Cor 10:5 “bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ” Guys, guard your thought lives I want to be clear that the bible fixes no blame or responsibility on Bathsheba It places it all squarely on David’s shoulders – rightly so But I think this is a lesson on modesty for women Because men are so visually driven, women tend to play on that Some of the fashions that women wear, or almost wear, today are designs to garner looks from men We see this in advertising – sex sells Ladies you can help us out by dressing a bit more modestly Show more discretion and less flesh when you venture out In your homes, for your husbands, dress as sexy and provocative as you want – I believe that that is a good thing, your husband should be aroused by seeing you Outside the house is a different story – you should feel uncomfortable if other men ogle you Prov 11:22 “As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, so is a lovely woman who lacks discretion.” David’s next mistake is that he inquires about the woman – his thoughts are turning into actions I’m sure that David’s conscience was telling him to stop but his lust was speaking louder When we are headed towards sin, both our consciences and the conviction of the Holy Spirit will tell us to run in the other direction Sometimes, our fleshly sinful nature is too strong, especially if we haven’t been strengthening our spiritual natures I am thankful that if we do choose to ignore the internal warnings, God can also give us external warnings David hears 2 things about Bathsheba First, she is Eliam’s daughter All women or someone’s daughter or sister This should have caused David to stop and consider how he would want his daughter or sister treated Second, she is Uriah’s wife Here is the huge blinking neon red flag David, she belongs to someone else – translation ‘hand’s off’ Hindsight is always 20/20 When I look at the times I have failed, I can always see the warning signs I pray we would start to see them before we go too far David sends for Bathsheba had has sexual relations with her Again, there is no blame on her, how would she refuse the king? He has sexual relations with her since she was cleansed from her impurity Here is a bit of hypocrisy The law forbade sexual relations when a women was menstruating and for a brief time of cleansing afterwards David things he has the all clear because she was cleansed while ignoring that fact that she was married The result of their tryst was that she became pregnant Sin is fun and exciting until the consequences begin to mount A moment of passing pleasure can lead to a lifetime of pain and suffering Now David has to figure out a way to cover his tracks 3 The Cover-Up (11:6-13) David is in a pickle, actually it is Bathsheba whose life is in danger It is hard to explain away a pregnancy while your husband is away at battle According to the law, the penalty for her and David’s infidelity is death by stoning David proceeds to launch a massive cover-up that even Washington would be impressed with He sends word granting Uriah leave from the battle His hope is that when Uriah comes home, he will have relations with his wife and thus the pregnancy could be attributed to him I don’t know how he planned to explain the curly red hair of the baby One thing that David didn’t consider was that Uriah was a far nobler man than he was David’s first attempt ends in failure Uriah comes home under the guise of bringing an update of the battle I’m sure David acted extremely interested in Uriah’s report As a type of reward for faithful service, David tells Uriah to go home and enjoy the pleasures of his wife Wash your feet was a euphemism for sleeping with his wife You would wash your feet before you went to bed To seal the deal David sends a food basket to complete their romantic evening Uriah chose instead to sleep outside the kings door with the servants When questioned, Uriah’s character and integrity shone through He felt it would be wrong to enjoy pleasures while the men of Israel were out battling in the fields Too bad David didn’t have the same conviction – he was content to be at home David’s second attempt also failed This time he got Uriah drunk, hoping that he would allow his convictions to fall under the influence and thus give in and enjoy his wife Once again, Uriah held true to his convictions and slept with the servants David realized that his plan wasn’t going to work He also knew the pregnancy wasn’t going away and he had to do something before the truth was exposed Drastic times call for drastic measures David, the chosen king of Israel, the one who had enjoyed God’s blessings, promises and protection, the man after God’s own heart falls so low that he stoops to 1st degree murder in order to cover his sin The Murder of Uriah (11:14-21) David drafts and order to Joab which essentially orders him to put Uriah in a place when he would be killed Anyway you slice it, it was an order to have Uriah murdered The worst part, was that Uriah hand delivered his own death warrant No doubt he thought they were orders from the king for the battle I never crossed his mind that it was his execution orders Joab did as instructed and Uriah was killed Notice that verse 16 says Uriah was placed with the valiant men, men of courage, convictions and honor David was anything but valiant in his actions Notice that in verse 17, other servants were killed – not just Uriah David has much innocent blood on his hands Joab then sends a messenger to tell David the news Joab is smart as he anticipates the king’s reaction He knew David would be upset with such a poor battle plan How could Joab allow the people to get so close to the wall so that the archers could shoot them? 4 Verse 21 refers to a story in Judges 9 where Abimelech comes too close to a tower he is attacking when a women drops a millstone on his head and kills him Joab says if the king questions the battle, tell him that Uriah is dead I believe that Joab is washing his hands of the whole matter He’s saying I did what you told me The covering up of his sin had cost innocent lives Joab is making sure David understands that the death of Uriah and the others men rests squarely on his shoulders David Gets the News (11:22-27) Notice David’s response He takes it all matter-of-fact-ly, Oh well, these things happen He dismisses the report as a normal course of war This is the same man who wouldn’t dare raise a hand against Saul Now he casually dismisses murder Inside I believe David was elated He has succeeded in covering his sin – so he thinks When Bathsheba hears the news she mourns I believe that she really did care for her husband She is grieving for her loss Once the official grieving period ended, David moves in and marries her After all, it would raise questions if she gave birth only a couple of months after marrying the king David was on a strict time table – no time to lose if he wanted to avoid suspicion David thinks he’s in the clear Notice the last sentence In man’s eyes he may be free and clear but not in God’s eyes We forget that there is a silent witness to all we say, do, think or feel God sees, there is no escaping that God gives him room to repent, a whole year When he doesn’t, God confronts him Remember we may think we get away with our sins, but never fully Heb 4:13 “And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.” Conclusion My how far the king has fallen In this 1 act and the subsequent cover up David broke 7 commandments He coveted his neighbor’s wife - #10 Next he committed adultery - #7 He then lied to cover it up - #9 He then had Uriah murdered - #6 Ultimately he stole Uriah’s wife - #8 Finally he brought a reproach upon his parents and the name of the Lord - #5 & 3 7 out of 10 in one fell swoop This story encourages us not to get too comfortable, to complacent in our walks We must always be alert, sensitive and in close communion with the Lord 1 Peter 5:8 “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour” 5