Disabled Spiritual Identity Development Running head: Disabled Spiritual Identity Development Spiritual Identity Disability in Israeli Religious Adolescents 1 1 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 2 ABSTRACT According to Marcia, ego identity comprises of two dimensions: commitment and exploration. Commitment refers to professional and ideological commitment. As for Israeli religious male adolescents, ideological commitment relates to spiritual identity, the later being a central factor in their identity. Foreclosure status is the closest status to diffuse identity, and to avoid it, the adolescent has to reexamine decisions he has made in childhood. This reexamination sheds doubt on various contents the adolescent has absorbed from his parents and educators, but it is essential for the crystallization of his identity. Spiritual identity is crystallized, similar to the crystallization of ego identity. In order to crystallize a mature spiritual identity, the adolescent has to reexamine his faith and behavior. Adopting an external faith layout does not allow reexamination of positions and convictions, thus constituting a deficiency in the crystallization of spiritual identity. Acceptance of the adolescent’s reexamination process by the adult and his encouragement, are essential in the crystallization of spiritual identity. Interfering with the adolescent when crystallizing his spiritual identity, could result in various difficulties and deficiencies, among them backpacker’s moratorium, joining a cult, alienation, fickleness and withdrawn behavior. EGO IDENTITY Ego identity was identified and defined by Erikson (1958) as a one-dimensional and successive variable, was expanded by Marcia (1980) as a bi-dimensional and dichotomic variable, and expanded again by Tzuriel (1984) as a multi-dimensional and successive variable. 2 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 3 According to Marcia, ego identity comprises of two elements: commitment and exploration. Of these two dimensions, Marcia created a typology of 4 ego identity statuses: crystallized identity, diffused identity, foreclosure, and moratorium. Since the purpose of this article is to shed light on the deficiency in the spiritual identity development, we will emphasize the foreclosure status. Foreclosure status Many researchers have dealt with the question, what is the adaptive development process. Waterman and Whitbourne (1982) and Archer Waterman (1983), as well as Tzuriel (1990) see adolescents as advancing from diffuse identity status towards foreclosure, from it to moratorium, and from it to crystallized identity status. The dissipated identity is considered closer to diffuse identity than moratorium. Individuals in foreclosure express decisions that have not been made by way of examination and skepticism. Their decisions are based usually on meeting parents’ or society’s expectations. These adolescents would rather have higher authority to dictate to them their way of life, and they tend to be stiff and nonflexible (Flum, 1995). According to Marcia (1994), these adolescents feel that they have adjusted to “life”, and they are able to function, as long as nothing changes in their living conditions. But if the context of their life does change, they are helpless. In his opinion, most of them will experience in the future skepticism and crises. 3 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 4 Tzuriel (1990) says that when some of the adolescents (who were in foreclosure status) discover the existence of various options (not taken before into account), or when the adolescent finds himself in stressful situation and conflict, that demand of him to stand firm while being aware of the options, they experience a crisis. Late identity crisis is usually tougher than adolescence normative crisis. Fisherman (2002a) counts three reasons for the late exploration process being harder than the normative one: 1. Exploration in adolescence is a normative process that takes place with the peers. Friends and the entire society refer to this process as normative and positive. The late exploration process is not considered normative, and society is not that tolerant towards it. 2. Experiencing exploration, the adolescent learns inquiry processes; he is not afraid of contesting the truths accepted by him in childhood. He does not necessarily look for his parents’ support, and he learns to live with doubts, realizing that these are “healthy” processes of ego identity crystallization. The adolescent in foreclosure status thinks that he does not need exploration. He is certain that he can form his identity with no contestation and deliberation, and therefore does not develop in himself inquiry and search skills. 3. When the exploration process occurs at an older age, the adult (younger or older) has to shed off himself decisions he made in the past. When he made, at an early stage, decisions that usually conformed to pressures of his surrounding, he did not regard them as temporary ones. 4 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 5 To the contrary, he was certain that these decisions would remain intact during his entire lifetime. When exposed to other options, he has to “give up” these decisions; therefore he senses loss and confusion. It seems as if Western society has undergone a development process, in which it abandoned dictating and preaching to foreclosure, and chose to attempt and educate the adolescent, to strive and form his identity by way of deliberation and exploration processes. This process is expressed, among others, by the transition from traditional maturation rituals to inquiry, deliberation and introspection. Marcia (1986) argued in this context that former transition rituals fixed the Oedipal super ego. These rituals conveyed cultural values, internalized in childhood, to the psychological “plane” fertilized in adolescence. This way society managed to continue educating its adolescents to the values they were brought up on in their childhood, but this identity fixation came at the expense of ego development. Tzuriel (1990) strengthens this argument, saying that indeed, the ego was being reinforced, temporarily, but it stiffened because it remained subjected to the tribal super ego. Transition rituals expresses, to large extent, the aspiration of society of foreclosure. Modern western society replaced the transition rituals with relatively long moratorium encouragement that renders inquiry, experience and restructuring of values legitimate. The values system that is restructured by way of deliberation, inquiry and experience, proves itself over time, and resists pressure and temptation. However, early 5 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 6 Closure that is characterized by ancient maturation ritual sometimes fails in resisting time changes, social pressures and temptation. The contribution of adults (both parents and educators) to these processes is essential (Marcia, 1993; and Tzuriel, 1990). Self-confident adults, who are confident of their identity and their ability to educate their children, can trust their children, and they allow them to perform appropriate exploration, in order to form their identity. These adults are able to convey the proper mixture of support, resolution and no interference, which is essential in accompanying the adolescent during his adolescence. Without this assistance, the adolescent could “choose” to belong to foreclosure status. In Marcia’s (1986) opinion, there are three conditions for the development of crystallized ego identity: confidence in the parents’ support, sense of creativity and reflective independent approach. Confidence in parents’ support is important, because it causes the adolescent to feel that he has someone to rely on, and that he will always be able to return to them, and will always be received with warmth and love. The sense of creativity relates to control (and more than that, to the belief in the ability to gain control) on society’s technological tools. The adolescent has to believe that he is able to control technological tools that include physical tools, mental, emotional and personality related tools. In Tzuriel’s (1990) opinion, reflective independent approach refers to internal introspection and structuring of alternatives. In Marcia’s opinion, the three conditions are built as a hierarchy, the basis being the confidence in the parents’ support; the sense of creativity is found above it, and only afterwards reflection 6 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 7 develops. Naturally, an adolescent who receives from his parents ready made and fixed future, does not need the reflective approach. The element of commitment in Marcia’s theory includes professional and ideological commitment. The ideological commitment comprises of many elements, including: political ideology, social, economic, moral ideology and more. The spiritual identity, that contains religious ideology, seems central in the ideological commitment of the adolescent, in particular that of the religious Israeli male adolescent (Bar-Lev, 1986; Fisherman, 1998, 2000). Ego identity and spiritual identity Glock and Stark (1965) created a typology, referring to religious roles. According to this typology there are five religiosity dimensions: experience oriented dimension, that relates to religious feelings; intellectual dimension, that relates to knowledge on religion; ideological dimension, that relates to convictions; ritual dimension, that relates to religious behavior; and consequential dimension, that relates to religious effects. When speaking about Israeli male adolescents, in particular adolescents who grew and were raised in the religious education, it is better to refer to the ideological and ritual dimensions (Bar-Lev, 1986; Fisherman, 1992). Observing imperatives with no formed faith layout, indicates the existence of “sociological religiosity”, that to the best is external to the personality (Beit Halackmi, 1991; Fisherman, 1998). Since this article deals with disabled spiritual identity, we have to emphasize the crystallization of faith related identity, which we will term “spiritual identity”. 7 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 8 Other researchers examined the relation between ideological commitment, in its religious context, and ego identity. Hide, Reihhide and White (1986) found no relation between religious commitment and ego identity. However, other researchers found relation between religious commitment and ego identity (Shenkel & Marcia, 1972; St. Clair & Day, 1979; Archer, 1982; and Philipchalk and Sifft, 1985). An early study (Fisherman, 2000b) examined 78 Israeli male adolescents, visiting religious high schools. The subjects received spiritual identity questionnaires and ego identity questionnaire for adolescents. A positive and significant relation was found between the spiritual identity score and the general ego identity score, and the identity dimensions dealing with ideology (meaningfulness – alienation, naturalness and genuineness, solidity and continuity). Crystallization of spiritual identity Healthy spiritual identity is crystallized after deliberations, speculations and raising doubts (Fisherman, 1998, 2000). Theoretically, it is possible to define disabled spiritual identity in three ways: A. Disabled spiritual identity crystallization process. B. Disabled spiritual identity content. C. Disabled spiritual identity consequences. Disabled spiritual identity crystallization process refers to deliberation, and to examination process of the faith related layout, and this is the process we will refer to in this article. Disabled spiritual identity content refers to a faith related layout that does not conform to the education the adolescent received. Since healthy spiritual identity is formed by way of individual deliberation, and since the adoption of values and convictions, with no deliberation, is not a healthy way to form a spiritual identity, then 8 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 9 an adolescent who formed a spiritual identity that does not agree with his parents’, educators’ or community spiritual identity, will not be defined as deficient in his spiritual identity, because it has to be his own identity, and an identity adopted from his surrounding1. Disabled spiritual identity consequences refer to a behavior that is nonnormative in the society the adolescent grew in. This behavior, though it might be absolutely rejected by some adults, is not a deficiency in spiritual identity. If spiritual identity is individual and unique to the adolescent, its consequences, even if individual and unique, and as long as they do not harm the adolescent or damage his surrounding, re legitimate, and do not indicate disabled spiritual identity. Interference with the spiritual identity crystallization process is the one to be defined as a deficiency in the spiritual identity. In a lecture delivered the Canadian Psychological Association, Marcia (1986) explained the importance of deliberation, setting that the adolescent has to crystallize his ego identity. In order to crystallize his ego identity, the adolescent has to reject his childhood identity. His parents have formed his childhood identity, therefore, the crystallization of the ego identity relates to some rejection of the identity the parents tried to form for him. Marcia also argued that there is some rejection and loss in the identity process, therefore identity crystallization is not a pleasant process. Adolescents have to be taught to raise doubts, thus they will feel less the loss in rejecting childhood identity. Raising doubts has both cognitive and emotional significance. Emotional preparedness to raise doubts is essential in consolidating the identity. It is easier and 1 See below. 9 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 10 more convenient to live without doubts; life with doubts bothers, and causes the adolescents to feel that they are not “whole” or good. This capability and preparedness has to be learned. In Marcia’s opinion, those who do not doubt, do not expose themselves to information and various considerations, and do not review their commitments or values. Still, when they encounter new information that could contradict their positions, they reject it (arguing that it does not exist), or change it (“smoothing the information”). These people choose this way in order to maintain their own self-image. In psychoanalytical terms, they refuse to risk compromising the internalization of their childhood figures (usually the parents). One may apply Marcia’s words also to the crystallization of spiritual identity. Spiritual identity evolves from childish identity to adult one. Childish spiritual identity is characterized by the adoption of values and behaviors that are external to the child. The child depends on adults to provide his physical and mental needs. This dependency creates the wish to imitate the adult’s behavior and to please him. Pleasing the adult is a natural process that is expressed in spiritual context, in behavior that agrees with norms, that include, sidelong religious behavior, also sayings on religious faith (Fisherman, 2000). These sayings are not faith related layout, because the child has not considered and examined, whether he accepts them or not. In this sense, the child tries to adopt the adult’s identity. If the adult prays, and he educates the child to pray, the child will “say a prayer”, but could we see this as a wish to connect with God? The adult demands of him to behave according to certain norms (religiously speaking), and the child behaves accordingly, not because he thinks that these norms are true, but because he imitates the 10 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 11 adult, or expects some positive reward from him. Could we argue that the child has developed a spiritual identity? A person who adopts an “external” faith related layout without doubting it, does not expose himself to new information, and does not examine the world of religious values he has been brought up on; he does not crystallize his spiritual identity, and therefore his spiritual identity is disabled. In light of this, we may say that choosing foreclosure status in the area of faith related identity is a deficiency in the crystallization of the faith related identity. During adolescence, many changes occur, relevant to the development of spiritual identity. The adolescent’s formal thinking develops and matures (Piaget, 1968). From here onward, the adolescent is able to think about abstract issues, and he is even pushed to do the same. This capability urges him to think anew about truths that were his lot during childhood. The consequences of this reexamination constitute a most important layer in his identity. His inclusive cognitive complexity capability increases, and he is able to think about contradicting ideas, and integrate them to one coherent position (Streufort & Streufort, 1978; Fisherman, 2001). Another developmental focus is the social one. Until now, the child’s main reference object were his parents, and from now onward, his main reference object are his peers (Cole & Hall, 1970). And indeed, the peers have a central role in the development and crystallization of the ego identity and the spiritual identity. Identity comprises of two main dimensions: resemblance and uniqueness. These two dimensions 11 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 12 relate to the adolescent’s group of peers. The wish to belong to a group, the wish to develop uniqueness, and the wish to balance between the two, all depend on the adolescent himself and on his group of peers (Smilansky, 1990). Another focus relates to the psychoanalytical theory. According to the psychoanalytical theory, the balance between the indefinite and the ego is broken in adolescence. The rising power of the libido at the onset of physical maturity, that precedes adolescence, causes withdrawal towards Oedipus complex. This causes anxiety that activates the ego’s defense mechanism. The healthy adolescence process ends with a balance between the indefinite, the ego and the super ego (Ormian, 1975). Erikson (1975) integrated in the eight stages theory psychoanalytical development with social development. Kaniel (2001) combines the psychoanalytical development with the social – psychological development. According to Kaniel’s approach, personal identity (including spiritual identity) is a subjective aspect, according to which the person feels continuity and conformance between various elements in the content of his personality, experience and memory. Kaniel accepts the opinion of Anderson (1993) and Estes (1991), according to which personal identity is a “super scheme” in cognition architecture, and it contains man’s super positions. Kaniel believes that crystallized identity is a highly complex scheme; and indeed, an early study (Fisherman, 2001) found positive and significant relation between integrative cognitive complexity and ego identity. These focuses relate to reexamination of “decisions” made in the past, and they are the ones to allow the crystallization of the spiritual identity. Without formal thinking, the adolescent will be unable to contest and reexamine the faith related layout. 12 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 13 Without social support for the spiritual confusion, and when ideas and ideals he has been brought up on are undermined, the adolescent will be unwilling to drop off his convenient and warm wrapping ( foreclosure), and choose doubt abundant road (the spiritual identity crystallization process). Without inclusive cognitive complexity, the adolescent will be unable to weigh ideas, oppose them, and accept some of them, within a complex array of his spiritual identity, knowing that in the future, he might be rejecting even this array that he just formed. An early study (Fisherman, 1998) found that when the adolescent feels free to deliberate, ask and experience, he considers realistic alternatives. When he feels threatened, and is expected to belong to foreclosure status, he could react reversibly2. The more independent the adolescent, so greater is the information he is exposed to, with more different models of adoption and realistic options of experiences, that could assist him in the examination of his spiritual identity. Doubting spiritual identity relates both to cognitive aspect and emotional aspect. The adolescent feels that he does not want to adhere to his parents and teachers, and wants autonomy. When he feels that the autonomy he could get in behavioral matters is too little, the behaviors he is pushed towards express rebellion, stemming from “faith related independence war”. Sometimes, when the rebellious behaviors are too subtle for the adolescent, and he behaves by religious behavior norms, only to please his parents or teachers, he could feel that he is insincere, and his sense of naturalness and About some reverse reactions see in the chapter “Consequences of deficiency in the crystalization of the spiritual identity”. 2 13 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 14 genuineness, as well as the sense of solidity and continuity in the ego identity could be undermined (Tzuriel, 1990). If the deliberating boy will find the answers to his deliberations, he might reach mature faith and moral strength. This boy will believe, and will behave by religious norms, because he accepted these norms on the backdrop of his convictions, and not because thus ordered. He will use introspective process to study himself, to examine his convictions and to clear his positions, and thus will render them substantial and immanent part of his identity. The importance of the adolescent’s reaction to his doubts Sigal (1984) ascribed great importance to the education to doubts, among children. He argued that a person becomes independent and controls more external reality, when he is able to assimilate greater parts of reality in his personality. In his opinion, the parents’ role is to encourage questions and skepticism, and prefer them to giving decisive answers. It is better not provide the children with answers all the time. They have to be left with questions and doubts, to educate them to live with questions. Marcia (1986) argues that children who have been brought up to investigate and raise questions, and not expect fast answers, grow to be identity achieving adolescents, while children who got used to receive fast answer to any question, could grow into adolescents in foreclosure status. Children who receive ultimate answers from authoritative adults, and are not encouraged to raise doubts, will adopt the identity elements provided to them in childhood. These children will grow into adolescents who use less formal thinking capabilities, when dealing with their identity. Marcia describes 14 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 15 how an adolescent in foreclosure status is able to engage in formal thinking, when he solves geometry problem, but he does not use this capability when he engages with identity related questions. It seems as if his formal thinking is curbed by authoritative adults. Compared to spiritual identity, one may argue that education towards skepticism and critical thinking could assist in the crystallization of healthy spiritual identity, while the expectation of foreclosure, and education to compliance and reciting, could lead to a deficiency in the crystallization of spiritual identity (Fisherman, 2001). Sometimes, the adolescent experiences and behaves unlike conventional norms, because he wants to see whether he could adopt these behaviors as part of his personality and identity. Sometimes these behaviors have also social nature, during recreation, social meeting or a trip, and following this behavior, the adolescent feels a tension generating cognitive dissonance. This behavior that does not agree with his convictions places both his behavior and his convictions in a test. This deliberation, and furthermore, these experiences are deemed by his parents and teachers adverse, curbing the development of faith, but to us they seem essential for the crystallization of mature conviction. Parents and teachers might pressure the adolescent to choose foreclosure status that is very convenience for them. Sometimes, the parents or teacher might deprive of the adolescent exposure to information sources, relating to the various alternatives, in order to “lock” him in decisions, close to their positions, thus perpetuating his choosing foreclosure status. One educator argued that had he had any saying in the matter, he would have put the young female adolescent to sleep in the 9th grade, and would have awakened her when she was already mother of three children. By 15 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 16 this, this person expressed his educational point of view and his fears, and he chose education to foreclosure, instead of to crystallization of spiritual identity. Some theoreticians discussed society’s desirable reaction to adolescents’ deliberations and experiences. Cote and Levin (1987) point at the importance of “institutional moratorium”. Institutional moratorium is the boundaries society sets to adolescents’ experiences. Societies are different from one another in the extent of institutional moratorium, as well as in the level of conformism they demand of their members. In the opinion of the authors, the situation in North America is non – structured, in terms of leading the individual through moratorium, towards adulthood. North America went so far with moratorium culture, that, in the authors’ opinion, it has reached anti – social moratorium, or as termed by Cote and Levin, a negative identity based institutionalized moratorium. Tzuriel (1990) suggests a balance between authority and coercion. In his opinion the adolescent has to be presented with several alternatives. Each one has to be explained and the ways chosen by the adolescent should be legitimized. This does not prevent of the adult to try and convince the adolescent, that the way suggested by him (the adult) is the right one. Tzuriel indicates that Erikson objected to the generation of deliberation and frustration free educational environment, Summerhill’s like (Neal, 1961). An entirely coercion free educational policy could be dangerous for the crystallization of healthy identity, the same way coercive policy that demands obedience and tough discipline is dangerous. Tzuriel (following Erikson) stands for a certain degree of 16 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 17 positive and meaningful frustration in education, because it presents to the adolescent challenges and the ways to deal with them. The consequences of deficiency in the crystallization of spiritual identity The transition from childish faith to the stage of deliberation is not inevitable. Many adolescents, who are not encouraged to raise doubts and questions, could suffer of an disabled identity spiritual. This deficiency could be expressed by one of the following situations: A. Diffused spiritual identity status – the diffused spiritual identity is characterized by confusion and perplexity. The adolescent in this status does not want to engage with the crystallization of his spiritual identity. Many a times he will be afraid to discuss his convictions (and furthermore, their non – crystallization), because he is afraid to deliberate, following such a conversation. B. Spiritual identity moratorium status that is expressed in “backpacking”. For the purpose of this discussion, backpacking is a trip, taken to look for a way, and search for authenticity (Cohen, Ben Yehuda and Aviad, 1987). Adolescents in this status have taken time out in the crystallization of their faith related identity. Many a times they are afraid to despair of consolidating their faith, and they escape this fear and take time out. This includes relatively long self – exploration trip to the Far East, Sinai, or South America. Backpacking is a relatively new phenomenon among adolescents who have had religious education. It is not a trip for the purpose of excursion only, or relaxation following military service. The purpose of this backpacking is to follow 17 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 18 spirituality, examine the combination of oriental doctrines with Judaism, and the possibility of “Jewish meditation”. Some of the backpackers take time out; they temporarily discharge themselves of imperatives and undergo experiences other than their education. C. Emphasizing behavior and ritual aspects – the confused adolescent who does not look for answers, and does not deliberate, could emphasize his religious behavior’s ritual and external aspects, and hold to them as if seeking for refuge. He does not define his convictions, because he did not think about them, and therefore he emphasizes ritual aspects that grant him the sense of security. He does not define his convictions, therefore he does not examine himself, and neither does he distinguish between faith principles related ideas and superstitions that sometimes relate to rituals and behaviors that have nothing to do with religious faith. To the observer (parent or teacher), this adolescent seems as if he has crystallized spiritual identity, because he observes the imperatives. His observing imperatives is a folklore – ritual matter, that allows him to feel that he belongs to society, though he has not yet decided whether he accepts the convictions and ideals society presents to him. This adolescent is “sociological – religious”, his spiritual identity is diffusive and usually also his ego identity. D. Joining a cult or self – enslavement to a charismatic leadership – the adolescent, who became part of a cult, loses his faith in favor of the group faith. The group gives his the sense of security and belonging. He does not have to find answers to his deliberations, because he has to adopt the leader and group’s answers. He does not have to think independently, and sometimes he is even forbidden to think or raise 18 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 19 questions and doubts. This adolescent sometimes reports on the sense of “divine pleasure”, “full happiness” and “finding divine truth”. He is drawn into the group or the cult and thus loses himself. Many times the group comprises of individuals, who are afraid to raise faith related questions and doubts, and they introduce tough rules of behavior in the group, to prevent doubts from being raised. Some of these groups protect themselves by withdrawal and by setting rigid limits. The group members are afraid of expressions of doubts that could affect the other members, and to prevent doubts from being raised, they withdraw into themselves. Some of them live in relatively closed places, some of them put on clothes that distinguish them from the others, and some of them have a different language, different communication and even different food. Adult group members educate their children to withdrawal, and thus they give them the feeling that every stranger is dangerous, and his purpose is to trap them and take them out of the group. The group is headed by charismatic leaders who manage to identify the adolescent (or the adult) who escapes confrontation; they offer him new – old answers and slogans, and prove to him incontrovertibly their knowledge, “their over – piousness” and their “sacredness”, and thus they sweep him into the group. They promise the adolescent that with them he will find happiness, truth and the heaven, while the others are wrong and mislead. It should be noted that not all the groups, neither all the charismatic leaders are negative, but the mere self –enslavement is the negative factor. 19 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 20 E. Group alcohol and drug abuse – escapism by way of alcohol and drug abuse is characterized by group drug abuse, group alcohol consumption and group property delinquency, adventurous and not instrumental. The group nature distinguishes between them and other drug abusers and delinquents. The group pushes the individual to smoke and drink, and it protect him psychologically. F. Alienation - an adolescent, who felt confusion in the past and could not find his way, might develop into an adult, alienated from religion and the religious public. Sometimes alienation commences with the religious establishment, the religious politicians, and is followed by alienation towards the rabbinical establishment, schoolteachers and religious people in general. Alienation is usually a result of untreated anger. Alienation is defined as the feeling of distance from the family’s, community’s and society’s purposes and norms. Rogers (1951) argues that alienated people will feel insecurity, cynicism, defensiveness, wretchedness and self – rejection. Sometimes he mocks the religious people and expresses loathing towards them and religion, sometimes he even hates them. For him alienation is a refuge from finding answers. Mockery and jeering help him to avoid deliberating on faith questions, and thus he perpetuates confusion. G. Fickleness – this person chooses a limited number of behavior norms, which he observes. He does not delve in reasons for his behavior, or in matters of his surrounding, stating that he is “religious deep in his heart”. Sometimes it is hard for him to cope and behave by the norms he decided to observe; in this case he makes his behavior more flexible, and adjusts it to the circumstances. 20 Disabled Spiritual Identity Development 21 His faith related identity is not crystallized, and his strength is not enough in case of temptation or difficulties. When he is in a religious company, he might behave according to religious behavior norms, but when in a non – religious company, he behaves according to the social norms prevailing in it. Sometimes he will justify himself and will say, “in Rome behave as a Roman”, and sometimes will find other justifications. 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