Report Form for Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

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Report Form for Myers-Briggs Type Indicator
The MBTI reports your preference on four scales. Each scale is independent. The scales
provide insight into your behavioral patterns in four areas:
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Where you focus your attention
How you take in information
How you make decisions
How you structure your life
The MBTI uses letters to designate your preferences in each area. The letters are used as a
shorthand for describing your approach to the world.
E
I
Focus on outer world of
people and things
Focus on inner world of
ideas, feelings, impressions
S
N
Focus on present reality and
Information from your senses
Focus on future possibilities and
the relationship between ideas
T
F
Base decisions on logic and objective
analysis; task oriented
Base decisions on personal values;
people oriented
J
P
Live life in a planned and organized manner;
Like things settled and decided
Live life in a spontaneous manner;
Like to stay open to new experiences
No one uses only one preference. We move back and forth between the eight preferences
daily. But we do have a preference and when we are living in that preference, we feel more
effective, more comfortable and more energized.
The four letters show your “type”- the combination of the preferences that you use,
Each type tends to be different in their interests, gifts and values.
For a more complete description of the theory the types and the implications of type on
leadership, team building, career choice, learning styles, parenting, and relationships:
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Please Understand Me by David Keirsey
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Developing Leaders by Catherine Fitzpatrick and Linda Kirby
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Gifts Differing by Isabel Briggs Myers
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Comparison of Extraversion and Introversion
Extraversion ________________________________________________ Introversion
Energy
directed outward toward people and
things
directed inward toward concepts and
ideas
Focus
wants to change the world
civilizing genius
wants to understand the world
cultural genius
Attitude
relaxed and confident
understandable and accessible
reserved and questioning
subtle and impenetrable
Orientation
afterthinkers
forethinkers
Work Environment
varied and action-oriented
prefers to be around and with others
interests have breadth
quiet and concentrated
prefers to be alone
interests have depth
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EXTRAVERSION - INTROVERSION
Extraversion (75% population)
(43% Cont. Ed.)
Introversion (25% pop.)
(57% Cont. Ed.)
Open, talkative, gregarious
Reserved, quiet, noncommunicative
Fascinated by outside world
Fascinated by inner processes
Actions, objects, persons
Concepts and ideas
Energized by people
Enervated by people
Loves talking to people
Likes reflection, contemplation
Likes variety and action
Likes quiet for concentration
Good at greeting people
Trouble remembering names/faces
Impatient with long slow jobs
Likes one uninterrupted project
Interested in results
Interested in idea behind the job
Acts before thinking
Thinks before acting
Relaxed and confident
Reserved and questioning
Understandable, accessible
Subtle, shy, impenetrable
Many acquaintances
A few deep friendships
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NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES OF EACH
Extraversion
Introversion
Talks too much
Stand-offish
May only give the appearance of
liking people
Hidden, sneaky, can’t tell
what they’re thinking/feeling
Want a team/committee for
everything
Want to do it all themselves
“Do it even if it’s wrong”
Won’t help others
Easily distracted from work
Poor communicators
Lack power of concentration
Impractical
Mistake-prone
Hard to get started on a job
Always pushing for cooperation
Not good with strangers
Don’t do any long-range planning
Not good with groups of
people
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MUTUAL NEEDS
Extravert needs an
Introvert to:
Introvert needs an
Extravert to:
Think through before action
Carry the message
Be careful, precise, exact
Advertise, promote
Weigh conflicting ideas
Help network
To plan thoroughly
Find external difficulties
See problems, objections
Facilitate action
Develop new concepts, ideas
Convince, persuade others
See long –range effects
Grow, expand, achieve breadth
Understand purposes
Foster cooperation
See deeply
See political/interpersonal
consequences
Achieve project concentration
Facilitate speed & efficiency
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HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH ONE’S OPPOSITE
Extraverts must:
Introverts must:
Remember that silence doesn’t mean
that the introvert is uninterested
Volunteer their ideas; otherwise
no one will follow
Try to be brief
Understand that sharing a value
important to you won’t change
an extravert’s mind
Remember to tell introverts why
they’re to do something
Remember that extraverts
respond better to the demands
of others than you, the introvert
Remember that introverts tend to
show their friendliness through
deeds, not talk.
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IDEAL WORK SITUATIONS
Extraversion
Introversion
Group, team work
Privacy
Acting, doing
Dealing with concepts, ideas
Hustle and bustle
Quiet
Interruptions OK
No intrusions, interruptions
Uncomplicated work
Complicated work
Like quick jobs
Patient with long, slow jobs
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Comparison of Sensing and Intuition
Sensing
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Intuition
Mode of Perception
“sixth sense”
(possibilities)
five senses
(experience)
Focus
details
practicality
reality
present enjoyment
patterns
innovation
expectation
future achievement
Orientation
live life as it is
change, rearrange life
Work Environment
prefers using learned skills
pays attention to details
patient with details and makes few
factual errors
prefers adding new skills
looks at the “big picture”
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MUTUAL NEEDS
Sensing needs Intuitive to:
Intuitive needs Sensing to:
Bring up new possibilities
Bring up pertinent facts
Supply ingenuity
Apply experience, history
Read signs of coming change
Read the fine print
Prepare for the future
See what’s needed now
Have enthusiasm
Have patience
Watch for new essentials
Remember essentials now
Visualize a better tomorrow
To live today
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STEREOTYPES & CONFLICTS
Sensing
Intuition
Lack imagination
Lack common sense
Materialistic
Impractical
Stuck in a rut
Head in the clouds
Don’t look ahead
Can’t see reality
Keep it the same
Change for its own sake
Doesn’t want new projects
Won’t finish old projects
Want creature comforts
Want a Utopia
No new ideas
Ideas unworkable
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COMMUNICATION WITH ONE’S OPPOSITE
Sensing persons must:
Intuitives must:
State facts as a contribution,
not a refutation or putdown
Say exactly what you’re
talking about
Lay aside your immediate impulse
to say, “It won’t work.”
Finish sentences, don’t leave
steps out
Try to think how the plan might
be made workable
Give notice when changing
subjects. Don’t talk about
several projects
Try to see the broad picture, not
just isolated details
Think of limitations,
consequences before
sharing new ideas
Avoid giving repetitive work to
intuitives
Do homework. Have a plan.
Have facts, figures, details.
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Comparison of Thinking and Feeling
Thinking ___________________________________ Feeling
Focus
logic of a situation
human values and needs
things
people
truth
tact
principles
harmony
Work Environment
brief and businesslike
naturally friendly
impersonal
personal
treats others fairly
treats others as they need to
be treated
Contribution to society
intellectual criticism
loyal support
exposure of wrongs
care and concern for others
solutions to problems
zest and enthusiasm
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THINKING-FEELING
Thinking (50% pop.)
(47% Cont. Ed.)
Feeling (50% pop.)
( 53% Cont. Ed.)
Values logic and reason
Values sentiment
Impersonal, interested in things
Personal, interested in people
Truthful
Tactful
Strong executive ability
Strong in social arts
Tend to disagree with others
Tend to accommodate others
Brief & businesslike
Friendly
Logical and organized
Rambling, repetetive
Finds solutions
Loyal, supportive
Laws, justice, policy
Interpersonal skills
Firm
Forgiving, trustful
Wary
Compassionate, gentle
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IDEAL WORK SITUATIONS
Thinking
Feeling
Objectivity valued
Persuasion valued
Dealing with principles
policy
rules& regulations
criteria
Working to create harmony
Needs for firmness
Need for empathy
Facts & Figures
Seeing others’ needs
One is treated fairly
One is praised
Where thinking is important
Where values are important
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MUTUAL NEEDS
Thinking person needs a
Feeling person to:
Feeling person needs a
Thinking person to:
Persuade
Analyze
Conciliate
Organize
Predict others’ feelings, reactions
To find flaws in advance
Arouse enthusiasm
Reform
Teach
Hold consistently to policy
Sell
Weigh evidence
Advertise
Fire or discipline
Appreciate the Thinker
Stand firm against opposition
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STEREOTYPES OF EACH
Thinking
Feeling
Impersonal
Warm fuzzy
Doesn’t like people
Doesn’t like to think
Lacks tact
Lacks logic
Suspicious
Naïve
Rigid
Inconsistent
Seen as bull-headed
Seen as week
Heartless
Soft-hearted
Cold
Lacking in firmness
Remote
Won’t take a firm stand
Intellectualizers
Too emotional
Unyielding
Break down under pressure
Unforgiving
Can’t maintain discipline
Hurt people’s feelings
Heart on sleeve
COMMUNICATION WITH ONE’S OPPOSITE
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Thinking persons must:
Feeling persons must:
Not find fault or disagree so
forcefully & blunt that
the Feeling type takes it as
a personal attack
Try to be logical and orderly
If you disagree, begin by mentioning
points you agree on
Tell thinking types how you
feel (They don’t know)
Stop and listen to the other
person’s side of the matter
Understand that enthusiasm
won’t work
Make special effort to appreciate
others’ work
Understand that reason is the
key to convincing
Recognize the Feeling person’s
need for peace and harmony
COMPARISON OF JUDGING AND PERCEPTION
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Judgment ______________________________________ Perception
Attitude
decisive
curios
planful
spontaneous
be right
miss nothing
self-regimented
flexible
purposeful
adaptable
exacting
tolerant
Work Environment
focus on completing task
focus on starting task
makes decisions quickly
postpones decisions
Wants only the essentials of the job
wants to find out all about the job
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JUDGING-PERCEPTIVE
Judging (50% pop.)
(70% Cont. Ed.)
Perception (50% pop.)
(30% Cont. Ed.)
Structured
Unstructured
Decisive
Curious
Conforming
Nonconforming
Scheduler, planner, listmaker
Non-planner
Wants control over life
Flows with experience of life
Plans, standards, customs
Unexpected
Likes matters settled, decided
Keep options open
Advice givers
Interested
Finish & complete work
Starts new work
Joy of scheduled completion
Joy in last minute panic
Purposeful
Adaptable
Exacting
Tolerant
Self-regimented
Flexible
Formal
Casual
Outcome-oriented
Process- oriented
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IDEAL WORK SITUATIONS
Judging
Perceptive
Settled, structured environment
Changing environment
Decision-making
Information-gathering
Closure needed on schedule
Open-ended
“Get the show on the road”
No decision-rushing
Clear-cut problems
Ambiguous problems
Black and white
Lots of grey
Follow a clear-cut plan
“Fly by the seat of pants”
One project at a time
Several projects welcome
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STEREOTYPES OF EACH
Judging
Perceptive
Pressured, pressuring
Aimless drifters
Only want to work
Won’t make decisions
Jump to conclusions
Indecisive
Rigid
Procrastinate, foot-dragging
Arbitrary
“Wait and see”
Controlled, controlling
“Something will turn up”
Have to be in control
Won’t take control
Compulsive
Tentative
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MUTUAL NEEDS
Judging needs a
Perceptive to:
Perceptive needs a
Judging to:
Gather more data when needed
Help push to conclusion
See more deeply, broadly
To develop a system
Look at from all angles
Provide consistency
Supply understanding
Institute order
Open-mindedness
Make plans
Provide tolerance
Set goals
Provide spontaneity
Sustain the effort
Adapt to changing circumstances
Provide will power
Provide curiosity
Get others to conform
Zest for new experience
Accept routine
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COMMUNICATION WITH ONE’S OPPOSITE
Judging persons must:
Perceptive persons must:
Explain reasons for rules,
regulations, policies, procedures
Explain logic of any changes
Gain deadline commitments from the
perceptive
Explain benefits of
delaying decisions
Avoid driving oneself and
others too hard
Always make sure the J type
“Sees the Reason” for
doing something
Try to be reasonably uncritical
Always make sure the J type
“Sees the Need,” that any
new action “Makes sense.”
Don’t burn bridges behind you
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Temperament in Leading for an SJ Manager
TRADITIONALIST-STABILIZER-CONSOLIDATOR
Focus
Needs
the hierarchy of the organization
appreciation
Abilities
Irritations at Work
establishes policies, rules, schedules
others not employing standard operating
procedures
follows through
ignored deadlines
is patient, thorough, steady, reliable
others not playing by the rules
Questions Asked
What is order?
Irritates Others by
doom and gloom positions
What is my duty?
sarcasm
Why change?
sharp criticism
How is this justified?
failure to see humor
Does it work?
Beliefs
Pitfalls as Manager
self and others must earn their keep
is impatient when projects get delayed
organization must run on solid facts
decides issues too quickly
Values
is overly concerned with dire happenings
Caution, carefulness, accuracy of work
believes hard and long work is way
to success
Orientation
product that meets standards
Appreciates in Self
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sense of responsibility
loyalty
industry
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Temperament in Leading for an SP Manager
TROUBLESHOOTER-NEGOTIATOR-FIRE FIGHTER
Focus
Appreciates in Self
the expedient needs of the organization
active orientation
Abilities
cleverness
immediate response to problems
sense of timing
open and flexible style
Needs
strong reality base
response
Questions Asked?
Irritations at Work
What is the need right now?
restrictions
What are the stakes?
being told how to work
Where is the crisis?
How soon can we go and do?
doing it “the way it’s always been done”
Irritates Others by
Beliefs
lack of follow through
the present time is the important focus
little advance preparation
organization must run to meet
current needs
carelessness and haste
Values
overlooking established priorities
flexibility
Pitfalls as Manager
change
hard to predict
taking risks
impatient with theory and abstraction
action
shoots from the hip
Orientation
ignores the past and its implications
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product that reflects current needs
for the future
Temperament in Leading for an NF Manager
CATALYST-SPOKESPERSON-ENERGIZER
Focus
The growth needs of an organization
Abilities
Communicates organizational norms
Makes decisions by preparation
Is personal, insightful, charismatic
Appreciates in Self
High energy
unique contributions
Ability to value others
Needs
Approval
Questions Asked
How does this affect workers morale?
Who needs to know?
What impact does this have on the
Organization’s principles?
What is most important to people?
Irritations at Work
Impersonal treatment
Criticism
Lack of positive feedback
Beliefs
People’s potential is organization’s strength
Organization must utilize worker’s talents
Irritates Others by
Taking emotional stands
Moralistic positions
Getting overextended
Creating dependencies
Values
Autonomy
Cooperation
Harmony
Self-determination
Pitfalls as Manager
Sweeps problems under rug
Plays favorites
Others’ priorities
before their own
Too anxious to please
Orientation
Motivated workers equal high productivity
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Temperament in Leading for an NT Manager
VISIONARY-ARCHITECT OF SYSTEMS-BUILDER
Orientation
Strategy that ensures the organization’s future
Focus
Mission and systems of the organization
Needs
Recognition
Abilities
Builds conceptual frameworks
Develops prototypes, pilots, models
Plans approaches to change
Irritated at Work by
Redundancy
Stupid errors
Illogical actions
Questions Asked
What is the system?
What is the strategy?
Who has the power?
Irritates Others by
Being skeptical, splitting hairs
Hurting feelings
Taking people for granted
Beliefs
Organization must adhere to its mission
Organization must grow and develop
Potential Pitfalls
Escalates performance standards
Annoyed by personal concerns
Values
Complexity, intelligence
Believes in competence
Appreciates in Self
Ingenuity
Logical analysis
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Appreciation According to Temperament
What Each Appreciates
What Each Does Not Appreciate
Sensing-Judging
praise for product orientation
deadlines not being met
employers who values carefulness,
caution, thoroughness, and accuracy
persons not using standard operating
procedures
commendation for their loyalty,
responsibility, and industriousness
want appreciation but not likely to show
their pleasure in receiving it
Sensing –Perceptive
commendation for grace and flair
being told hw to work
acknowledgement that process is more
important than product
standard operating procedures
having others take pride in their
boldness, bravery, endurance,
cleverness, adaption, and timing
iNtuitive-Feeling
personal expressions of appreciation
impersonal treatment
recognition as unique persons making
making unique contributions
having feelings and ideas understood
by others
iNtuitive-Thinking
being appreciated for their capailities
and ideas
someone as competent or more
appreciating them
routine task well done
things which violate logic, reason, or
principle
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rules, traditions, or biases getting in the
way of maximum results
Organizational Preferences
ST Organizations
emphasize
specific factual details
micro issues
physical features of the work environment
control and certainty
job specificity
work roles rather than the worker
organizational goals and hierarchy
value
tough-minded people who can get others to do the job
realistic
down-to-earth
economical
SF Organization
emphasize
specific, factual details
interpersonal features of the work environment
familiarity
workers first, then work and work roles
value
special people who create a highly personal, warm, human climate where people want to
come and work
set goals that are
realistic
down-to –earth
people oriented
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NF Organizations
emphasize
growth
macro issues
personal and human goals of the organization
personal and social needs of people in the organization
flexibility
wheel-like organizational structure
value
special people who work together for the good of all
set goals that provide
new lines of direction in goods and services for human or
personal needs
NT Organizations
emphasize
broad, global concepts
macro issues
efficiency
impersonal atmosphere
value
people who are problem formulators
set goals that are
innovative and create new products, horizons, and businesses
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EXTRAVERTED THINKING TYPES
ESTJ and ENTJ
Extraverted thinkers use their thinking to run as much of the world as may
be theirs to run. They organize their facts and operations well in advance, define their
objectives and make a systematic drive to reach these objectives on schedule. Through
reliance on thinking, they become logical, analytical, often critical, impersonal and
unlikely to be convinced by anything but reasoning.
They enjoy being executives, deciding what ought to be done, and giving
the necessary orders. They have little patience with confusion, inefficiency, halfway
measures, or anything aimless and ineffective, and they know how to be tough when the
situation calls for toughness.
They think conduct should be governed by logic, and govern their own
that way as much as they can. They live according to a definite formula that embodies
their basic judgments about the world. Any changes in their ways requires a deliberate
change in formula.
Like other judging types, they run some risk of neglecting perception. They
need to stop and listen to the other person’s side of the matter, especially with people
who are not in a position to talk back. They seldom find this easy, but if (repeat, if) they
do not manage to do it, they may judge too hastily, without enough facts or enough
regard for what other people think or feel.
Feeling is their least developed process. If they suppress or neglect it too
long, it can explode in damaging ways. They need to make some conscious use of
feeling, preferably in appreciation of other people’s merits, -an art that comes less
naturally to thinkers than to feeling types. Thinkers can, if they will, “make it a rule” in
their formula to mention what is well done, not merely what needs correcting, The results
will be worthwhile, both in their work and in their private lives.
ESTJ
With sensing as auxiliary
Look at things with their sensing rather
than their intuition. Hence are most interested in realities perceived by their five
senses, which makes them matter-of-fact,
practical, realistic, factually-minded,
concerned with here and now. More
curious about new things than new ideas.
ENTJ
With intuition as auxiliary
Look at things with their intuition rather
than their sensing, hence are mainly
interested in seeing possibilities beyond
what is present or obvious or known. Intuition heightens their intellectual interest, curiosity for new ideas, tolerance for
Theory, taste for complex problems, in-
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Want ideas, plans and decisions to be
based on solid facts.
Solve problems by expertly applying
and adapting past experience.
Like work where they can achieve immediate, visible, and tangible results.
Have a natural bent for business and industry, production and construction. Enjoy administration and getting things organized and done. Do not listen to their
own intuition very much, so tend to need
an intuitive around to sell them on the
value of new ideas,
sight, vision and concern for long range
consequences.
Are seldom content in jobs that make
no demand on intuition. Need problems
to solve and are expert at finding new
solutions. Interest is in the broad
picture, not in detailed procedures or
facts, Tend to chose like-minded intuittives as associates. Also tend to need
someone with sensing around to keep
them from overlooking relevant facts
and important details.
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EXTRAVERTED FEELING TYPES
ESFJ and ENFJ
Extraverted feeling types radiate warmth and fellowship. Reliance on feeling gives
them a very personal approach to life, since feeling judges everything by a set of personal
values. Being extraverts, they focus their feeling on the people around them, placing a very
high value on harmonious human contacts. They are friendly, tactful, sympathetic, and can
almost always express the right feeling.
They are particularly warmed by approval and sensitive to indifference. Much of their
pleasure and satisfaction comes not only from others’ warmth and feeling but from their own;
they enjoy admiring people and so tend to concentrate on a person’s most admirable
qualities. They try to live up to their ideals and are loyal to respected persons, institutions and
causes.
They are unusually able to see value in other people’s opinions. And even when the
opinions are conflicting, they have faith that harmony can somehow be achieved and often
manage to bring it about. Their intense concentration on other people’s viewpoints
sometimes makes them lose sight of their own. They are best at jobs that deal with people
and any situation where the needed cooperation can be won by good will. They think best
when talking with people and enjoy talk. It takes special effort for them to be brief and
businesslike.
Being judging types, they like to have matters settled and decided, but they do not need
or want to make all the decisions themselves. They have many “shoulds” and “should nots”
and may express these freely. They are conscientious, persevering, orderly even in small
matters, and inclined to expect others to be the same.
If (repeat if) they do not develop their perception, they will, with the best of intentions,
act on assumptions that turn out to be wrong. They are especially likely to be blind to the
facts when there is a situation that is disagreeable or a criticism that hurts. It is harder for
them than for other types to see things they wish were not true. If they fail to face
disagreeable facts, they will sweep their problems under the rug instead of finding good
solutions.
ESFJ
With sensing as auxiliary
Look at things with their sensing, which
makes them practical, realistic, matter-offact, concerned with here and now. Appreciate and enjoy their material possessions and details of direct experience. Like
to base plans and decisions upon known
facts.
ENFJ
With intuition as auxiliary
Look at things with their intuition
rather than their sensing, hence are
mainly interested in seeing the possibilities beyond what is present, obvious
or known. Intuition heightens their
understanding , long range vision, insight, curiosity about new ideas, love of
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Enjoy variety, but usually adapt excellently to routine.
Compassion and awereness of
physical conditions often attract them
to nursing (where they provide warmth
and comfort as well as devoted care) and
to health professions in general.
books and tolerance for the theory.
Likely to have a gift of expression,
but may use it in speaking to audiences
rather than in writing. Interest in possibilities for people attracts them often to
counseling in the fields of career choice
or personal development.
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INTROVERTED THINKING TYPES
ISTP and INTP
Introverted thinkers use their thinking to analyze the world, not to run it. They organize ideas and facts, not situations or people unless they must. Relying on thinking makes
them logical, impersonal, objectively critical, not likely to be convinced by anything but
reasoning. Being introverts, they focus their thinking on the principles
underlying things rather than on things themselves. Since it is hard to switch their thinking
from ideas to details of daily living, they lead their outer lives mainly with their preferred
perceptive process, S or N. They are quiet, reserved, detachedly curious and quite adaptabletill one of their ruling principles is violated, at which point they stop adapting.
If (repeat, if) they do not develop their perception, they will have too little knowledge or experience of the world. Their thinking will have no real relationship to the
problems of their time, and not very much will cone of it.
In the fields of ideas they are decisive, though socially they may be rather shy except
with their best friends. Their special problem is to make their ideas understood. Wanting to
state the exact truth, they tend to state it in a way too complicated for most people to follow.
If they will use simple statements, even if they think the point is too obvious to be worth
making, their ideas will be much more widely understood and accepted.
Feeling is their least developed process. They are not apt to know, unless told, what
matters are emotionally to another person. They should recognize that most people do care
about having their merits appreciated and their point of view respectfully considered. And
they should act accordingly. Both their working life and personal life will go better if they
take the trouble to do two simple things- say an appreciative word when praise is honestly
due, and mention the points where they agree with another person before they bring up the
points where they disagree.
ISTP
With sensing as auxiliary
See the realities. Great capacity for
facts and details. Good at applied science
and at mechanics and the properties of
materials and things. With nontechnical
Interests, can use general principles to
bring order out of unorganized facts. May
be analysts of markets, sales, securities or
statistics of any kind.
Likely to be patient, accurate, good with
their hands, fond of sports and outdoors,
and have a gift of fun.
Great believers in economy of effort,
INTP
With intuition as auxiliary
See the possibilities. Value facts mainly
in relation to theory. Good at pure
science, research, math, and the more
complicated engineering problems.
With nontechnical interests, make
scholars, teachers, abstract thinkers in
economics, philosophy, psychology, etc.
Apt to have insight, ingenuity, quick understanding, intellectual curiosity,
fertility of ideas about problems. More
interested in reaching solutions than
in putting them into practice, which
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which is an asset if they judge accurately
how much effort is needed, and do efficiently what the situation demands. If not,
economy of effort can be mere laziness and
little will get done.
others can do as well.
Need to check out even the most
attractive intuitive projects against the
facts and the limitations they impose.
Otherwise may squander their energies
in pursuing impossibilities.
INTROVERTED FEELING TYPES
ISFP and INFP
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Introverted feeling types have a wealth of warmth and enthusiasm, but may not show it
till they know you well. Reliance on feeling leads them to judge everything by personal
values; being introverts, they choose these values without reference to the judgment of
others. They know what is most important to them and protect it at all costs. Loyalties and
ideals govern their lives. Their deepest feelings are seldom expressed, since their tenderness
and passionate conviction are masked by their quiet reserve.
Their feeling being introverted they conduct to their outer lives mainly with their
preferred perceptive process, either sensing or intuition. This makes them open-minded,
flexible and adaptable-until one of the things they value most deeply seems in danger-at
which point they stop adapting. Except for the sake of their work they have little wish to
impress or dominate. The friends who mean most to them are the people who understand
their values and the goals they are working toward.
They are twice as good when working at a job they believe in; their feeling puts added
energy behind their efforts. They want their work to contribute to something that matters to
them- human understanding or happiness or health, or perhaps to the perfecting of some
project or undertaking. They want to have a purpose beyond their paycheck, no matter how
big the check. They are perfectionists wherever their feeling is engaged and are usually
happiest at some individual work involving their personal values.
Being idealists, they measure their accomplishments against an inner standard of
perfection, instead of what is actually possible. They may suffer from too great self-demand,
feeling that the contrast between their inner ideal and outer reality is somehow their fault.
They need to find something they really care about, and then work to achieve it. With an
ideal to work for, and good development of perception to help them recognize realistic
difficulties and possible solutions, they can achieve a high degree of self-confident drive.
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