Trinity Bells June 2009 My Dear Trinitarians, I hope you have a blessed and wonderful summer. As we go into this sometimes quieter season, a few words about balance. You often hear the wisdom, “all things in moderation”, and that is valuable advice. However, a Christian perspective on balance is slightly different. We are called to balance our love of God, self and neighbor, and the second two (our love of self and neighbor) are meant to flow out of our love of God. This can be very challenging in several ways. First, it is easy with the pressures to succeed and the busyness of our lives to fall prey to the idea that we are indispensable and everything depends on us. This is simply not the case. God is indispensable and we play a part in carrying out God’s work in the world. The more we can really internalize this idea, the happier and more relaxed we can be. Second, after our relationship with God, nothing should take higher precedence than ourselves and our families. We naturally return to this way of being in the summer months; as we do that, let us remember that this is how we are meant to live the whole year round. Third, everything else that God calls each of us to do or to be, he also calls us to balance against this primary call of loving God, ourselves and others. If we lose sight of that we substitute our insecurity and need to be needed for God’s all embracing love. Again, as we slow down this summer, don’t neglect your relationship with God (including coming to church when you can) and take some time to reflect on how your care for yourself and your family can lead you to new and better ways of loving others in the ways that God would have us love. With love to you in Christ, God Willing and the General Convention consenting, The Rev. Lawrence C. Provenzano will be ordained Bishop Coadjutor of the Diocese of Long Island Saturday, September 19, 2009 at the Tilles Center at 11:00 am. Stay tuned for ticket information and possibilities for participating. CONFIRMATION AT THE CATHEDRAL On Saturday, April 25th, 2009 at the Cathedral of the Incarnation, the Rt. Rev. Orris G. Walker, Jr., presided over the confirmation of over 30 people. This included two of our own teenagers, Kaia deBruin and Jonathan Galati. It was a lovely service on an unseasonably warm weekend and the cathedral was looking particularly beautiful since the renovations have been completed. Even more wonderful was the inspirational sermon delivered by our own Rev. Margo! Congratulations to Kaia and Jonathan! ST. EXERTIOUS DAY On Sat., April 4, 2009 a hardy band of 9 members of Trinity Episcopal Church spent 3 hours sprucing up the outside of the church in preparation for Palm Sunday & Easter. It was the reinstitution of St. Exertious Day which, in times past, was held on a Sunday after the service. The chores involved removing the sand from the parking areas that had accumulated over the winter, weeding the flower/plant beds, and planting day lilies, Sedum “Autumn Joy” and Hosta of unknown varieties. The plants were donated by a “friend” of Trinity at no cost. She needed to divide her perennials. Many thanks (in alphabetical order) to Rennie Archibald, Bob de Bruin, Mike Evans, Isabel Glomb, Barbara Holzkamp, Laura Kavanagh, Sheila Platt and Dawn Weill. Your hard work is most appreciated. As the saying goes, “Many hands make light work”. Sarane Ross ! As a side note, Sarane has devised a chart of the church’s grounds where people can be in charge of a small “plot” of land and commit to taking care of & weeding this plot. A lovely idea is to do this In Honor of or In Memory of a loved one. Please check the chart in the church office and pick a plot of your choosing! If you have any questions, please call Sarane at 516-626-1854. ! HEALTH CARE REFORM PANEL DISCUSSION Tues., June 30, 7:00-8:30 pm Health Care is moving to the forefront of our national agenda. Here is an opportunity to inform yourself about the issues and our options, and share in the discussion, which will be held at Trinity Church (Penson Hall). Dr. Peter Kurzweil, who practices internal and geriatric medicine in Glen Cove, will lead a panel of health care providers and consumers. Please come and lend your voice! Health Care Reform needs you! Sponsored by the Long Island Citizens Concerned for Health Care Reform. For more information, call 516-676-2678. TRINITY MEMBER LEADS A FOOD DRIVE In April Jeanne Millspaugh led a food drive for Island Harvest at her office (NS-LIJ Ophthalmology). She and her fellow coworkers collected 8 boxes of food and 3 boxes of toiletries for this important non- profit organization. Congratulations Jeanne! BURNING BOOKS Our next meeting is on July 2nd at 7:30 pm at the home of Jean & Bob Henning to discuss "The Book Thief," the heart-warming, best-selling novel by Markus Zusak. It’s a story about a young German girl who is taken in by foster parents in a town near Munich in the late 1930s, as the Nazi regime increasingly asserts itself in everyday life. The summer selection for Burning Books is "The Killer Angels," the Pulitzer prize-winning historical novel by Michael Shaara, which dramatically and accurately recounts the four days of the Battle of Gettysburg. The date (in September) and location of the meeting have not been set at this time. However, that information will be available through the church office by mid-July. As always, we welcome anyone who would like to join us, for a single meeting or on an ongoing basis. John Platt Save the Date! THURSDAY, AUGUST 6th 5:30-7:30 PM (rain or shine) Trinity’s Mid-Summer’s Eve BBQ Details to follow soon… ARTHRITIS WALK UPDATE On May 16th, Ariann Forella and Kathy Mendall along with Ariann’s husband Jason and friends, participated in the Arthritis Walk 2009 sponsored by the Long Island Arthritis Foundation. The walk was held at the Belmont Lake State Park. ‘Team Marvel’ raised $1,401 to help the foundation raise awareness and funds to fight arthritis. Thanks to everyone at Trinity who donated! NURSERY SCHOOL DIRECTOR NEEDED AT ST. PAUL’S, GLEN COVE St. Paul’s seeks PT Director (25 hrs per week). School in Glen Cove currently enrolls 33 children between the ages of 2-4, with a staff of seven. Responsible for curriculum, enrollment, compliance with State and County requirements, administrative duties and liaison with parents & community. Requires 2+ yrs teaching preschool experience, NY Permanent Teaching Certificate N-6, prefer BS or MS in Early Childhood Education & strong computer skills. Salary $25 – 29K. Email resume: office@stpaulsgc.com. (EOE/M/F/D/V) St. Paul’s Nursery School – Glen Cove GOD TALK By Wesley J. Wildman and Stephen Chapin Garner One of our liberal-evangelical heroes, J. B. Phillips, once wrote a book with a title that we love: Your God Is Too Small . Phillips's message was right on target, for his context and also for ours. It doesn't matter how smart you are, how good you are, or how attractive you are. It doesn't matter how much you read the Bible, how much you pray, or how much you give to church and charity. It doesn't matter what your culture is, what your gender is, what your skin color is. It doesn't matter who your relatives are or who you know, where you went to school, or where you live. Your God is too small. Like many difficult truths, the people who cannot easily accept this fact of human life are also the people who need to hear it most urgently. Some people make God so small that God actually vanishes from their lives. These people assume that, since it seems unlikely anything conclusive could ever be known about God, if God even exists, it is best not to bother trying to get to know God at all. In Christian circles, it is more common to encounter people making God too small through believing that they fully understand God and God's motives. They create or absorb an image of God that is probably related to the Bible and reflective of their local community's culture of Christian belief. But then they allow this image to take the place of the actual God, relating to the image exclusively rather than using the image to relate to a God who breaks all images. Worst of all, they often speak proudly about who God is and what God wants, as if they were the one speaking from the eye of the storm. And they sometimes speak in a way that is desperately limited by superficial understanding of the Bible and very limited self-awareness. The Bible's striking images of God collectively express a persistent refusal that God can be captured in a consistent set of human concepts. They also affirm the spiritual practice of imaginatively engaging God through diverse images—sometimes heartwarming and sometimes disturbing. God is likened to various parts of nature such as a whirlwind, a cloud, and a pillar of fire and to such animals as a hen, an eagle, and a lion. God is pictured as a tower, a shield, and a garment. God is described using social roles and activities including creator, potter, shepherd, father, birthing mother, and bridegroom. God is assigned human qualities and responses such as intelligence, will, memory, anger, and forgiveness. God is spoken of as possessing human form, with eyes, arms, and hands, as walking around, and speaking with a voice. We are drawn to particular images at certain times and for certain reasons. There is an important difference between rigid attachment to particular God images and the changing psychological realities of the developing human life. When we are young we need concrete images of God to make the divine reality tangible; that is quite appropriate. Throughout our lives we rely on images to articulate and nurture our relationship with God. Such limitations are not a problem in themselves. Picturing God in such a way that we can relate to God is what makes religious life important. God is a loving father or mother, in that we believe we can trust ourselves to God completely. God is a friend or confidant in that we believe God knows our thoughts and needs before we utter them, and it is safe to share our deepest longings with God in prayer. God is judge and avenger, in that we believe that the sin and injustice of the world will encounter a divine reckoning. Our working images of God are tailored to our particular needs for God and to our creative, yet limited, ability to imagine that which we believe but cannot fully conceive. Thus, it is developmentally appropriate and psychologically intelligible to use God images to engage the incomprehensible and image-breaking divine reality. The problem arises when we begin to think that our favorite image of God is the only one or the best one. We lose track of the contrast between God's infinity and our finite humanity. This tendency may be part of the human condition, but it is a trap that mature Christians in every generation learn to avoid. Unfortunately, the history of Christianity is filled with examples of people, sometimes very influential people, who have not reached this level of maturity. Liberals, evangelicals, conservatives, biblical literalists, fundamentalists—all of us—tend to assume we have the inside track in a race to understand God. The Jehovah's Witnesses are certain they are right. The Southern Baptist Convention believes it has the truth well in hand. Bishop Spong knows he is right. The Jesus Seminar thinks it is right. David Koresh believed he was right. It is a common failing of liberals to feel so socially and educationally superior that any conservative who derives his or her faith principally from some external authority must be a simpleton who refuses to accept reality. Likewise, conservative evangelicals commonly regard those who disagree with their favorite image of God as spiritually defective and morally impure. We all run the risk of reducing God to a size that fits comfortably into our small lives. Liberal-evangelical theology combines humility and passion. We believe in God, and we also believe there is more to God than we could ever know. We follow Christ trusting that discipleship helps us by grace to craft lives that are pleasing to the God who is both known and unknown to us, and in fact is known partly as unknown. Our images of God are not the same as the reality that the images help us to engage. Liberal evangelicals speak passionately and openly about God, all the while actively listening and watching for how the God who surpasses all understanding does not fit our precious ideas. Liberal evangelicals treasure their God images, but they also know their images of God are too small, and they believe that God is big enough to forgive all limitations. It is important to acknowledge that we often hurt others with our small images of God. Christians have often pictured God as a man, which has reinforced sexual stereotypes and greatly retarded cultural recognition of the true equality of spiritual dignity between men and women. In fact, Christian churches needed to be rescued from this great sin by a secular liberation movement—clear evidence for Christians that the Holy Spirit works outside as well as within the churches. Similarly, white Christians have typically pictured God as white, which helped them rationalize their enslavement of black Africans. Slavery was often seen as a divinely mandated elevation of the supposedly "subhuman" estate of native Africans. It is impossible to believe that white Christians could have reasoned this way had they pictured God as black. The fact that our small images of God are so socially potent is one of the sources of great evil in the history of human civilization. It is one of the reasons why idolatry is not merely a matter of poor judgment or spiritual immaturity or theological insecurity. A lot can ride on culturally embedded idolatrous God images. Liberalevangelical Christianity is primed by its humble expectation that God surpasses all images to be alert to the terrible side effects of idolatrous attachment to any images of God. ______________________________________ Adapted from Found in the Middle! Theology and Ethics for Christians Who Are Both Liberal and Evangelical by Wesley J. Wildman and Stephen Chapin Garner, copyright © 2009 by the Alban Institute. All rights reserved. Alban Weekly, 2009-06-01 Number 253 (Reprinted by permission from the Alban Institute – Kristy Pullen) THANK YOU FROM JOAN ERNST To my Trinity Family; Thank you for the lovely arrangement of flowers you sent me after my cochlear-implant surgery. I am well and enjoying improved hearing and speech discrimination. Your prayers and thoughtfulness mean so much to me! God Bless you all! In love, Joan Sheldon Ernst EASTER AT TRINITY, APRIL 12, 2009 MAUNDY THURSDAY SUPPER MOTHER’S DAY, MAY 10 TRINITY CHOIR, MAY 17 BONGORTS ON KENNY’S B’DAY (MAY) ~MUSICAL NOTES~ MAKE A JOYFUL NOISE! From the King James translation of 1611, "Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands. Serve the Lord with gladness: and come before his presence with singing", to the wild and wonderful The Message (2005), “On your feet now - applaud God! Bring a gift of laughter, sing yourselves into His presence", we find Psalm 100 inspiring us to worship through our words and music. As we strive to live these words in our liturgy, we continue to explore various types of musical expression. The Summer Solstice Sing for Peace music on June 21st was a great corporate experience. It was inspiring to have the congregation "singing into His presence" as they entered the church to Ken and James strumming guitars and all of us lifting our voices to the strains of Blowing' in the Wind, If I Had a Hammer, Last Night I Had the Strangest Dream, Where Have All the Flowers Gone, and We Shall Overcome. On June 28th, Kathy's solo selection of contemporary Christian music (Lord of All to Me) represented another type of worship expression, and summer will bring other interesting surprises. Plans are afoot for an exciting and enriching fall, so stay tuned! We are so fortunate to be able to maintain the glorious musical traditions of our rich Episcopal heritage while exploring the broad range of musical expression available today. Some great news on the Choir front! Even as we fondly and sadly bid farewell to our wonderful tenor, Michael Fries, a delightful replacement has sung his way into our program. Andrew Cordero, who will be a junior at Post in the fall, will be joining the Choir in September. A warm welcome to Andrew! Martha Regelmann C.W. POST FILLS THE RAFTERS AT TRINITY EPISCOPAL CHURCH On Sunday, May 26th Trinity Episcopal Church showcased the C.W. Post Long Island University Chamber Singers and Chorus for their end of semester concert. The ensembles, which had recently sung at Avery Fisher Hall at Lincoln Center in Manhattan, performed a concert that was an eclectic mix of both secular and nonsecular music spanning across almost 150 years. Conducted by Dr. Mark Shapiro, the University Chamber Singers brought an international feel to the stage with the Baladilla de los Tres Rios from Spanish cultures to traditional Asian folksongs like Pungyo, Ting! and Pokpok Alimpako, among other works that were performed. The University Chorus added to the performance with the opening chorus, O Vergine Confide from the Mascagni opera in which they performed in New York entitled Il Piccolo Marat. The men of the Chorus performed Biebl’s Ave Maria made famous by the well-known male choir Chanticleer, while the women graced the audience with a set of six classic Russian Folk Songs by Liadov. The men and women of the Chorus then came together again for two beautiful American songs, Shenandoah and the spiritual, Great Day, one of them conducted by the chorus’ Graduate Assistant and Assistant Conductor, Ms. Shekinah MacMillan. The combination of talent and tone matched with the church’s ringing acoustics, made for a simply heavenly performance. The C.W. Post Department of Music would like to thank Trinity Episcopal Church for the opportunity to perform in their beautiful sanctuary and all the Trinity staff who gave their time and assistance in making the concert the success that it was. Andrew Cordero, C.W. Post Music Major TRINITY SUNDAY & RECOGNITION BRUNCH The first annual Trinity Sunday and Recognition Brunch was held on June 7. Margo and John Platt thanked Trinity parishioners who had contributed to the life of the parish in various ministries throughout the past year. These unsung heroes perform tasks on a regular basis with little or no public recognition. Some of these jobs include ushering, working on the altar guild, volunteering as coffee hour hosts, organizing a breakfast/lunch or dinner, or something as simple as weeding! Following the service was a lovely brunch and a presentation by Margo of special awards for outstanding service to Roger Gerber, Barbara Holzkamp, Karl Hansen, Mike Callahan and Don Krug. Anna Cammisa & family at Carnegie Hall On Sunday, June 3 Anna performed at Carnegie Hall. She played the piccolo for Rossini's Barber of Seville Overture, the Saint-Saens Violin Concerto and the Tchaikovsky Symphony No. 4 in F Minor as part of The Children's Orchestra Society's 15th Annual Discovery Gala. Also appearing that night as a surprise guest was cellist Yo-Yo Ma who joined his sister, Dr. YeouCheng Ma Executive Director of COS and an outstanding violinist herself, in an arrangement of a love song from the Philippines with Music Director & Conductor Michael Dadap on guitar. It was quite an evening! The COS Young Symphonic Ensemble is made up of students 12 -18 years old and they rehearse at Christ Episcopal Church in Manhasset on Saturdays. Anna has been taking flute lessons there since 2004, as well as playing in chamber groups. Anyone looking for an outstanding music program for their children should consider it, and we hope Tommy will audition and join the orchestra soon! Harry deserves special mention for attending the concert and behaving so well! It should also be noted that Martha had students performing as well, and she has played a huge role in developing Anna's potential as a musician. Betty Cammisa TAG SALE- A SUCCESS STORY Our sale on June 13, 2009 brought in thousands of items, from CDs to desks. With a bunch of willing helpers we made over $2000, which will be used by the Outreach Committee. The things that were left over went to St. Christopher's in Sea Cliff and the Lupus Foundation. Thanks to all for donating, setting up, selling, and cleaning up. RECESSION RECREATION SALE CONTINUES Back in November we started selling books, which quickly grew into including DVDs and CDs. We invited the public to participate one Saturday, and people rushed to purchase items at greatly-reduced prices…talk about low-cost entertainment! That corner of the Children's Chapel has proven very popular with our parishioners and others who use our buildings. An honor system basket remains there for people who want to buy something. Come check out the recent additions and the low, low prices. ACTIVITIES FILE DEVELOPING We have been working on maintaining files in the office for each special activity that occurs during the year. If you have been in charge of such an activity, please put the basics of how that works to make it easier for the next person who does it. These activities include, Food Pantry Delivery, Advent Preparation, Seaman's Church Institute Christmas Collection, brunches, dinners, Mardi Gras, and Trinity Sunday. Please add to the files if you are in charge of an activity. 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Flushed and fairly famished he fain would have filled his frame with foraged food from farm fodder. “My father’s flunkies fair far finer.” The frazzled fugitive forlornly fumbled. Frustrated and filled with foreboding, he fled forthwith to his father. Falling to his father’s feet he forlornly fumbled, “Father, I have flunked and frugalessly forfeited family favor.” The fugitive’s fault-finding brother frowned on fickle forgiveness, but the faithful father figure filled with fidelity, cried, “The fugitive is found. What forbids further festivities? Let the flags unfurl and the fanfares flare.” Father flagged a flunky who fetched a fatling from the flock and fixed a feast. The moral of the story is: The father’s forgiveness formed a foundation for the fugitive’s future fortitude. Author unknown. The Mission Statement of Trinity Episcopal Church Trinity Church is a community where all are welcome. We seek to love God, to learn and practice Jesus' teachings, and to answer the call of those in need. Sunday Services 10:00 Eucharist with Choir every Sunday 8:00 & 10:00 Eucharist- 1st Sunday of month The Rev. Margaret A. Peckham Clark, Rector (516) 621-7925 www.trinityroslyn.org Joan Murphy, Administrative Assistant Martha Regelmann, Organist and Choir Director Michael Callahan, Sexton Wardens Barbara Holzkamp John Platt Vestry Maryellen Hansen Robert Alexander Roger Gerber Michael Callahan Michael Rodriguez Dawn Weill Ruth Hinrichs Donald Kavanagh Ariann Forella Trinity Episcopal Church 1579 Northern Boulevard Roslyn, NY 11576 Please pray for the 76th General Convention of the Episcopal Church July 8-17, Anaheim, CA