Sedalia Business Women February/March Newsletter Dates To Remember February 5 Business Meeting 5:15 p.m. Regular Meeting 6:30 p.m. A letter from the president Like 110 million Americans that tuned in to watch Super Bowl XLIX, I too, partook of the festivities. Surrounded by friends and family I stuffed myself on dips, March 5 chips, cheese, sausage, meatballs, Board Meeting and anything slathered in wing sauce. I 5:15 p.m. screamed at the great and not-so great Regular Meeting plays on the screen. I was even excited 6:30 p.m. to watch Katy Perry’s half-time show. But I have to admit, my favorite part of the Super Bowl has always been the commercials. I love to see the BudweisWelcome! er Clydesdales in all their radiant glory. If you are a guest, I love laughing at the Doritos commerwe welcome you cials, and counting the over-abundance and invite you to of car advertisements. But this year there join our was one commercial in the line-up that organization. will stick with me longer than the Patriots For information devastating interception of the Seahawks on the one yard line with only 20 seccontact any onds left to play. member or the Membership Chairperson, Katie Albrecht. If you have joined, we look forward to your participation in SBW! www.sedaliabwm.org Feminine hygiene products are not something that you would expect to see advertised during the most televised sporting event in American history. Yet it was a three minute commercial from Always that delivered what was arguably the most profound and poignant moment in the entire four hour event. The commercial begins by asking teenage girls to give examples of what it means to run, throw, and fight like a girl. Each of them offered up a silly, goofy, weak, and insecure version of each of these actions. A young boy, of about 10 years old, mimicked these same actions when asked what his impression of “like a girl” meant. Then we meet 10 year old, Dakota. When asked to run like a girl, she gives it all her might. With great confidence, determination, and strength Dakota, and four other young girls give examples of running, throwing, and fighting like a girl. None of these young women appeared to be insecure about their abilities as a girl. The commercial’s director then asked each of the participants what “like a girl” means. The older girls and the boy in the beginning describes “like a girl” as an insulting statement. Our 10 year old young ladies have very different impressions. One young lady says, “I’m not really sure what it means.” The youngest of the bunch replies, “it means run as fast as you can.” After more dialogue, the commercial ends with a powerful statement. “Let’s make Like a Girl mean amazing things.” As I watched this commercial, I felt my eyes get misty and my heart fill with joy. I grew up hearing this statement all the time. Whether it was shouted at me or the boys I grew up around playing soccer, I too was confused by this statement. What do you mean I run like a girl? I am a girl. How else am I supposed to run? Recently, I remember one of the instructors at my daughter’s Tae Kwon Do practice yelling at a boy who didn’t line up fast enough, “you run like a girl!” And without hesitation or a second thought Continued on Page 4 SBW News and Notes BWM Annual Conference BWM Annual Legislative Conference is March 6-7 at the Truman Hotel and Conference Center in JCMO. Registration is $45 and deadline to register is March 1. The BWM Annual Conference will be April 23, 2015 to April 26, 2015 at Harrah’s in Kansas City, MO. Deadline for registration is April 2, 2015. For more information and to register visit www.businesswomenmo.org. Please email BWM state reports to Lori Haney at lori_haney@ymail.com by 02.28.15 Member News Katie Albrecht gave birth to twins on January 21. Jacob weighed 6 lbs, 2 oz. and was 19 inches long. Kolby weighed 5 lbs, 13 oz. and was 18 inches long. Everyone is doing great. Congratulations Katie! Carolyn Kreissler will be married to Stephen Adkins on March 28 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Cole Camp. Congratulations Carolyn! Fellow SBW sister Juanita Hood passed away February 3. Condolences To Sue Parrish for the passing of her son. To Laura Taylor for the passing of her step-father. To Dianne Simon for the passing of her mother-in-law. Special Thanks to Red Purse Donors Purse donors included: Kehdes Barbeque, Comfort Inn, Genes Boots and Hats, Encore Apparel, Inc., Warehouse Tire, CASA, The Blind of Central Missouri, Third National Bank, Swords Family Pharmacy, Healthy Habbits, Goody’s Clothing Store, US Bank, Missouri Bank II, Frances Summers, Moores Green House, Handel House, McCarthy Toyota, Donna Hirner-Gardner, Simmons Bank, Vincents Footwear and Apparel, Sedalia Moose Club, State Fair Floral and Consigning Women. Total value: $740 Red Clutch donors included: Encore Apparel, Inc., The Blind of Central Missouri, Sue Parish – Applebee’s, Linda Fisher, Quick Trip, Kehedes Barbecue, Damsel in Defense and Sedalia Moose Club. Total value: $170. Thanks from Child Safe Child Safe would like to thank all those who have donated items during SBW’s monthly meetings. New items needed include NEW stuffed animals, throw blankets, office supplies and toiletries. Please bring your monthly Child Safe donations to our dinner meetings. Birthdays February 2, Judith Moriarty-Ebers February 2, Regina (Ginny) W Crow February 4, Sheryl R Heisterberg February 14, Michelle L Sparks February 22, Carla J Young March 3, Marge Lumpe March 10, Anne Hamilton March 16, Margaret A Dugan March 16, Debra J Andresen March 26, W. Arlene Wischmeier Friendship Luncheons Feb. 11 Panera Bread Feb. 18 Kentucky Fried Chicken Feb. 25 Mazzios March 4 Bandana’s March 11 Best Western March 18 El Espolan by Orscheln’s March 25 Freddy’s Burgers April 1 Applebee’s Would you like to see something listed here? Email Emily Jarrett at emjarret@gmail.com with information by the Friday before the next meeting. Iconic Women As part of her theme, “Building on Our Legacy, Keep the Flame Alive,” President Lori Haney has chosen to spotlight an iconic woman each newsletter. Mariel Hamm-Garciaparra March 17, 1972 - Mariel Margaret Hamm-Garciaparra, better known simply as “Mia” Hamm, is a retired American professional soccer player. Hamm played many years as a forward for the United States women’s national soccer team and was a founding member of the Washington Freedom. Hamm held the record for international goals, more than any other player, male or female, in the history of soccer, until 2013 when fellow American Abby Wambach scored her 159th goal to break the record. Hamm is also the third most capped female player in soccer history behind Kristine Lilly and Christie Rampone, appearing in 275 international matches. She also holds the national team record for most career assists with 144. Hamm was named the women’s FIFA World Player of the Year the first two times that award was given (in 2001 and 2002), and is listed as one of FIFA’s 125 best living players (as chosen by Pelé) being one of two women, accompanied by teammate Michelle Akers. She was inducted into the National Soccer Hall of Fame as well as the Alabama Sports Hall of Fame, the Texas Sports Hall of Fame, and the World Football Hall of Fame. Hamm competed as a member of the United States national soccer team in four World Cup tournaments: China 1991, Sweden 1995, United States 1999 and United States 2003; and three Olympics tournaments: Atlanta 1996, Sydney 2000 and Athens 2004. All together, she played in 38 matches and scored 13 goals at seven global tournaments. With her teammates, Hamm finished third at two World Cup tournaments in 1995 and 2003, second at the 2000 Olympics, and first at the four other international tournaments. Hamm helped lead Team USA to a gold medal at the 2004 Summer Olympics and was also chosen by her fellow U.S. Olympians to carry the American flag at the Athens Closing Ceremonies. After the Olympics, Hamm and her teammates went on a “farewell tour” of the United States, which ended on December 8, 2004 against Mexico at the Home Depot Center in Carson, California. In the game, which the U.S. won 5–0, Hamm assisted on two of the goals. Hamm retired at age 32 with a record 158 international goals. I shout, “And there’s nothing wrong with that!” I was a little surprised and embarrassed by my reaction, but several parents, especially the other moms, laughed and cheered me on. The instructor took it well, laughed, and apologized. Moments like these, and the Always commercial are important to consider. I think we have to call these moments out when we see them. Because it’s not just the blatant and flagrant statements of sexism, cat-calling, and gender stereotypes we are trying to overcome, but more importantly, the deeply ingrained messages that we have grown up with, that our children are growing up with. We all have heard the “like a girl” comment, and we know it is used as an insult, especially toward young men. I applaud Always for daring to question a statement that is such a part of our sub-conscious, that it’s rarely given a second thought. I applaud them for showing the absurdity of a statement like this. I further applaud them for working to redefine what “like a girl” really means. I encourage each of you to watch this commercial if you haven’t already seen it. I encourage you to challenge this statement, and other statements like it, when you hear them. Please don’t let another generation of young men and women grow up believing that “like a girl” means anything but strength and capability. I run, throw, and fight like a girl, because I am a girl. And there is nothing weak about it.