Herbert George Cheverton 1907-1993 Summary of Significant Events Profession: Gardener. Dob. October 19th 1907 Married: Violet Isobel Ralph June 18th 1938 Children: Keith Bernard Gwyneth Anne Died: September 16th 1993 Personal Chronology 1907 1920 1920-1923 1923-1926 1926-1927 1927-1929 1929-1930 1930-1932 Born 19th October. Llanwenog, South Wales. Left school at age 13 years. Worked in the gardens at ‘Highmead’ Llanybyther For three years with his father William Henry Cheverton Snr. Worked at ‘Summerlands’ under Brig Gen Ricketts for two and a half years. Continued at ‘Summerlands’ under Brig Gen Crosbie. There appears to be a gap here in the history. Worked at ‘Brockhurst’, East Grinstead. Trained at the Royal Horticultural Society at Wisley. During this time he lodged with his prospective mother-in-law Agnes Katherine Ralph (Big Granny) at Cobham, and met her daughter 1 1932-1935 1935 1936-1946 1938 1939 1946-1951 1950 1951 1952-1955 1955-1960 1960-1972 1972 1979 1993 Violet Isobel Ralph who was to become his wife and my mother. Sometime during this period following his training he appears to have broken off his relationship with my mother and went to sea aboard the ‘Mauretania’ as a cook. He travelled to New York twice by this means. By this time he had returned from the sea, and was living with his mother Al;ice Isabell Cheverton (Little Granny) and sister Ellen Mary Cheverton (Auntie Nen) at ‘Ashtead’ in Surrey (File No.22), and had renewed relationships with my mother with an ultimate view to marriage. Worked at various locations for Mr Hewitt. Married my mother 18th June. Birth of first child March 2nd – Keith Bernard Cheverton. Worked for Lord & Lady Myddleton at Chirk Castle,North Wales. Birth of second child February 26th – Gwyneth Anne Cheverton. Worked for a short time at Llynclys, Oswestry for a commercial garden firm. Worked for Mr Mechenzie at ‘Pantiles’, Denham, Bucks. Worked for Mr Byrnes at ‘Penn Pitts’, Wincanton, Somerset. Worked on an estate at Maiden Bradley, Wiltshire. Retired to a cottage in Warminster, Wiltshire. My mother died on May 14th. Following this loss father sold up and went to live with my sister, now Gwyneth Burden at Dartmouth, Devon. Later they all removed to Rhos-on-Sea, North Wales. Died 16th September at Rhos-on-Sea where he was buried. 2 Detailed History As you will observe from the accumulated material contained in the large folder, there is a wealth of information about my parents here. In order to supply a comprehensive understanding of this material I think I will commence with these files and then move on to the photographs later. Files 1 - 13 are love letters written by my mother to my father probably from Easter 1935 to the back end of that year. From the contents of these letters it will become clear that there had been a serious breach in their relationship, but that had now been repaired with the help of my grandmother. Following this breach, my father made a decision to go to sea on the Southampton - New York run on board the ‘Mauretania’ as a cook. This ship was withdrawn from service in the New York/Southampton run in 1934 and scrapped in 1935. The reasons for my father’s decision to go to sea you must judge for your selves by reading the relevant correspondence. There will be a couple of postcards in the album from New York during this period of time - page 31. By 1936 he had acquired employment again with a Mr Hewitt, who spent a considerable amount of time moving around the south country avoiding wartime bombs. My father worked for him during 3 this period as a gardener/handyman/chauffeur and moved with him to Slapton in Devonshire, Send, near Guildford, Copthorn and finally ending up at Lowfield Heath, near Crawley. In Devonshire I think that they probably stayed in a small bungalow right on top of the cliffs overlooking the bay at Start Ridge however, before they moved into their home, a rented cottage called‘Barn Cottage’, in the centre of the village of Slapton. My father married my mother in 1938. My mother talks about the ‘threatened invasion’, and I think that was a threat raised in 1941. There are many interesting references to their experience of World War 2, and the letters were written, it appears,on the occasion of mother coming to stay with my grandmother Agnes Katherine Ralph who was ill. My father remained living at Slapton in Devon during this period. The next group of files cover letters (Nos 19 - 26) probably written during 1944 - it appears I had started school, a small ‘kindergarten’ at Cobham. I remember it well! My mother seems to be staying with my grandmother once again, and probably for the same reasons as before. She obviously has a supply of Slapton notepaper with her! The final letters are no.26, which was written by ‘Little Granny’ and my Auntie Nen sometime at about 1943, and No.27 written by my mother from a spell in Crawley Hospital, she was knocked down by a Greenline Bus and broke her ankle if my memory serves me correct - I was there! Files 28 - 37 are an extraordinary collection of personal references from my father’s employers, and make fascinating reading, giving quite an insight into his character as a young man. The final group of files contained in the large folder concerning my father are as follows: 38 39 40 41,42 — 43 – 44 – Birth Certificate. Marriage Certificate. Death Certificate. Burial details. Medical Card. National Identity Card. 4 Wedding photograph of Mother and Father 18th June 1938. William Henry Cheverton (ID 23) conducted the wedding. Rev Here we have a wedding photograph of the happy couple! 5 Personal Reminiscences of my Father. The photograph on the first page is of my father as a very young man, probably taken around the 1930s before his marriage if you compare his marriage photograph with this one. The next photograph is of my father as a member of the Royal Horticultural Society football team 1931-1932. He can be seen back row, fourth from the right. Sometime during the 1930s my father had a motorcycle accident that resulted in the loss of his curls. Mother tried all sorts of potions to get his hair growing again, but all to no avail. She finally in the 1940s tried a wicked brown ointment, but that just resulted in a short fuzz being created which looked worse than just plain baldness. Perversely, he was always known by my mother and by our friends as ‘Curly’! Within his own family he had been known as ‘Bid’ a shortened form of ‘Herbert’. During the time of his horticultural training at the RHS he lodged with my grandmother Agnes Katherine Ralph, and made acquaintances with my mother Violet Isobel Ralph. It must have been pretty cramped for I understand from mothers letters that Jack Youden was a lodger there at the same time. They were living at ‘Rest Harrow’, Tartar Hill, Cobham, Surrey. It was the first semi-detached house on the top side of the common on the left going up the hill. The first house was occupied by ‘Tim Edser’ (Doc.No.23). He was an elderly man who looked after himself, but if he needed help he would bang on the adjoining wall over the fireplace with a poker to summon my grandmother to his aid! The house must have been pretty old or else it stood on the site of a much older house, for my grandfather found an 1806 George 3rd penny in the garden while digging potatoes one day. I still have this coin; it should be in the box with the family 6 effects. The two postcards shown on page thirty-one in the photographic album were brought back from New York by my father. It appears that sometime during 1932 - 1935, having completed his horticultural training, he left his lodgings and joined the merchant navy, serving on board the ‘Mauretania’ on two occasions as a cook. It appears he loved the sea but did not fully appreciate the company he was obliged to keep! On returning from sea he went to live with his mother and sister at Ashtead in Surrey, and renewed his acquaintance with my mother. Details of these events can be gleaned from the letters my mother wrote to him around 1935. Throughout his life my father was quite happy to tell me about his sailing days, but would never disclose his reasons for going to sea. I suggest you draw your own conclusions after reading the full set of letters written by my mother. On the 18th June 1938 my parents were married. If you examine the marriage certificate - document 39, you will see that my Uncle Willie - William Henry Cheverton Jnr, married them. This was again in accordance with my mother’s wishes as indicated in her letters. The witnesses were Agnes and Herbert Ralph my mother’ s parents, and Alfred and Nen Cheverton. The odd thing about this event is that Uncle Willy was the Vicar of St.Barnabas Church, Emmer Green, Oxford, at the time of the Wedding and yet we find that he sends them a congratulations telegram from Kilnhurst, in South Yorkshire. See Doc 47. Following their marriage and my own birth they moved to Slapton in South Devon, where they remained in ‘Barn Cottage’ opposite the village shop until the whole village was evacuated (including all the farm animals) in preparation for the Normandy landings, June 4th 1944. During this time my father was an active member of ‘Dad’ s Army’ the Home Guard, and saw considerable action from downed aircraft, and local bombing raids. Some of the trauma of war can be gleaned from Mother’s letters, for she was in the thick of flying bomb country as she visited her sick mother at Cobham on at least two occasions during this period. The photograph below left shows father in his army uniform with myself in a kilt! This kilt is mentioned in the letters. I do not remember the kilt but I certainly remember the sporran, for mother kept it for many years in her drawer. 7 I have scattered memories of this period myself. For example I remember the ‘Slapton Lea’, a strip of freshwater lakes that separated the beach and the road from the mainland for a few miles. It was in this Lea that father said a downed German pilot was drowned after baling out of his plane. Apparently a ‘diviner’ who was ‘dowsing’ the lake looking for the site of the fallen aircraft found him at a later date by the metal buckles on his parachute harness! I can also remember watching a group of youths playing football on the beach, the ball strayed into the fenced off minefield that covered most of the beach, and they lost their ball. This beach was obviously very important for the preparations for the Normandy landings and coming ‘D’ Day. The reason was that it is a very steep beach with deep water within a few feet of the tide line, and thus enabled large navel vessels to anchor right up to the shore line, and land craft directly onto the beach. The events related to me by my parents of their experiences during this time are legion. The events related by mother in her letters during this time are particularly vivid, especially the bombing raids. Even now, sixty years later, I find myself feeling quite upset when I hear the sirens from the war time era on the television. I well remember spending nights in the cupboard under the stairs that was used as a makeshift shelter, or else at a later date, actually spending nights in an Anderson Shelter. This was a corrugated iron shelter half buried in your own back garden. It smelt terrible and was very damp, but more about this in its proper place. 8 This next photograph shows father at work pushing my cousin Pat and myself in his wheelbarrow which of us are which I do not know. Pat was the daughter of my mother’s brother Cyril and his wife Peggy. They lived at Leatherhead, and you will find details of their plans for marriage and also of Pat in mother’s letters. The photo was taken in the nursery belonging to his current employer Mr Hewitt just outside Slapton. I remember that Pat stayed with us for some considerable while during that period, and was even with us one Christmas eve. We shared a bed together, and I remember actually talking with her and wondering if a certain light upon the wall of our bedroom was a sign that Father Christmas was coming that night! Following the evacuation from Slapton, my parents moved back to live for a short while with my Grandmother at Cobham, and then, still in the employ of Mr Hewitt, they moved to an estate at Send near Guildford. They lived in a large house called ‘Send Barn’. It was right in the middle of the ‘doodle bug’ zone (Flying bombs – Vis), and we used to spend night after night in the Anderson Shelter. Details of this period in the life of my parents and myself are to be found in my own biographical record. From there we moved to Copthorn near Crawley, into a furnished house. This was when Grandma Ralph came to live with us on a permanent basis. This would have been occasioned by the death of my Grandfather Ralph (Doc 59) in 1944, following which she eventually would have sold up and made the decision to come and live with us. She remained with us right up to her own death in 1955. After Send we moved to Lowfield Heath near Crawley, just down the road from a wartime aerodrome that has now grown into Gatwick airport. During this period I commenced school at Hawley, and it was here that I remember coming home terribly excited to tell my mummy that the war had ended. Apparently my teacher had given me this information, and I thought that I was the first one in 9 the family to hear the good news. It was here also that I remember the Ariel motorbike and sidecar that father used. I used to ride in the sidecar and blow my windmill out of the front in the wind. Chirk Castle Here we leave the war years behind and move to Chirk Castle in Denbigh, where my parents moved in 1947. We lived on what was then known as ‘Home Farm’, about three miles up into the Berywn Mountains. chrysanthemum. He was also a highly the occasion of the death of the old a six foot high wreath in the form work of art to look upon. From that getting orders for wreath making. My father was head gardener here, developing a considerable reputation for his expertise in growing early strawberries, mushrooms and skilled wreath maker, and on Lord Howard de Warden, he built of a cross that was truly a point onward he was forever My parents seemed to hold a fair amount of status on the estates, my mother being made responsible for organising the annual Christmas party for all the children from about six local farms. This event was held in the great hall of the castle with an enormous Christmas tree that reached right up to its vaulted roof. The Myddleton family owned the castle and six thousand acres of farms and estates. I used to play with their youngest son Hugh during the school holidays from Eton College exploring the fantastic playground that the castle made for two small boys who had complete freedom to roam where they wished. The history of the castle and its gates can be read in the accompanying book on the subject contained in the box. That first winter that we were there (1947) was terrible. The farms were all cut off by a six-foot fall of snow. (Details of these events are related in my own biographical chapter. During this period of their lives my parents finally left their association with the Church of England following an altercation between my Mother and the Vicar of Chirk, who 10 disapproved of mother starting a religious meeting for the women of the farms. As a consequence of this altercation he publicly called her a heretic! I well remember mother’s offence at this label, and so from that point onwards they both began to attend on a regular basis the Brethren Assembly at Willow Street, Oswestry. The top photograph shows the members of this little Assembly. It must have been taken by my mother for she is not on the photo, but I am situated front - third from the left, and father is right at the back -just the top of his head showing - seventh from the left. The lower picture on the left shows the Assembly Sunday School at an outing. I am arrowed and father is circled just to my left. My mother and grandmother are seated at the back just right of centre and both circled. The right hand picture is taken outside the farmhouse at Chirk Castle and shows father holding baby Gwyneth, my new sister, born February 26th 1950. I think that this may be an appropriate time to insert the 11 following comments concerning my father and mother and their lifelong commitment to the work of the Lord. There are many who over the years have had the great joy and privilege of witnessing the life and ministry of these humble children of God. They may even have had the great privilege of coming to know Christ through their personal ministry. My father came to know his Lord as his personal Saviour in the late 1930s, probably during his courtship of my mother. If you read her letters you will find frequent references to her personal faith and the encouragement she gave my father to find Christ for himself. It would appear that his conversion to Christ came as a result of a tent mission at Cobham in Surrey. Following this mission it would appear that a work was commenced there by the Brethren, and my parents identified themselves with this work, and for the rest of their lives continued to be faithful to that particular cause when opportunity availed itself. My earliest memories of their work for the Lord came during the late 1940s when they were living at Chirk Castle in Denbighshire and attended the Oswestry Brethren Assembly. Both my parents during this time commenced a lifetime commitment to work with children and young people. I well remember their first Sunday School on the farm where we lived in the Berywn mountains. It was a collection of farm children gathered Sunday by Sunday to hear the Word of God in our living room around the large dining room table. Mother also commenced a work at this time with the various women on the farms round about. Later, possibly early in 1950 they commenced a young people‘s work in Oswestry itself for teenagers during a weeknight. Between 1952 and 1955 there were two further moves, one to Llynclys, North Wales, the other to ‘Penn Pitts’ at Higher Denham in Buckinghamshire. ‘Penn Pitts’ however, was to be our home for the next five years. The major work undertaken for the Lord by this couple came when they had moved to Penn Pitts in Somerset, and while associating with the Brethren Assembly at Castle Cary, they commenced a work for the Lord in a disused Baptist Chapel in the village of Bourton in Dorset just over the county border. Here they opened up the work and commenced what amounted to a small mission work, where the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ was preached regularly every Sunday to a small group of villagers for about fifteen years. They also commenced a work with children - a Sunday School and what they called a Sunshine Corner on Thursday evenings. 12 This was indeed the most fruitful period of their lives, and there are many young people, who, as a direct consequence arising from the ministry of my parents, were converted, and by the grace of God entered missionary service, and the work of the Gospel ministry, becoming elders, deacons and workers with young people in a wide variety of situations and churches. To those of us who observed this work and perhaps were involved in it in some measure, it appeared - certainly now on looking back on these events, as if the Lord had raised my parents up for this main task of ministering to just one generation of children over a span of fifteen years. Certainly John 15:16 seems an appropriate comment on their life and ministry: “... I have chosen you, and ordained you, that you should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain.....” Due to circumstances beyond their control the work at Bourton came to a conclusion after fifteen years of ministry one whole generation of children. Following that period my parents spent the remainder of their ministry fostering children in their small cottage home at Warminster. My father was not a great scholar or preacher - he told me this himself, his ministry was a simple one - he was a gardener, his life was totally absorbed with the wonders of His Lord’s creation. These wonders he could not fail to talk about in his pulpit ministry, he made the works of creation live as he sought to reveal to his small congregations the love he had for his Lord. “The parable of the Vine” was his favourite passage from the Scriptures - I have forgotten just how many sermons I heard him preach on that subject alone. The Cottage at Penn Pitts This photograph shows our cottage in 1955 at ‘Penn Pitts’, about four miles from Wincanton in Somerset. Here my parents began the major work of their lives at the little Baptist Chapel of Bourton in Dorset, about three miles away. During this period they attended the Brethren Assembly at Castle 13 Cary in Somerset. Their main efforts were towards the children of the village of Bourton, the adults, apart from a faithful few, in the main being totally uninterested in the cause of the Gospel. This photo shows the view from the top of the cottage which was situated in quite an isolated situation in the middle of a wood with this beautiful view covering the county of Dorset in front of the windows. These woods were well known for their quite remarkable displays of wild bluebells in the spring, and also for their ‘pitts’. These were stone age flint mine pits, of anything up to 30 foot deep, and covered the floor of the little wood end to end for a couple of miles. The photograph below on the left is of the woodlands belonging to Mr. Byrnes, my father’s employer at Pen Pitts, showing some of the grounds that father cared for. While he worked on this estate he specialised in the propagation of shrubs for the local woodlands. In the spring these woodlands, which belonged to the estate, were a blaze of colour. It stood just behind our cottage and the view at bottom of the previous page is taken from its veranda. Sir Arthur Bliss the composer originally built this house, which also had a music room built on stilts located in the woodlands at the back of the property. 14 The photograph below left is of the woodlands belonging to Mr. Byrnes, my father’s employer at Pen Pitts, showing some of the grounds that father cared for. While he worked on this estate he specialized in the propagation of shrubs for the local woodlands. In the spring these woodlands, which belonged to the estate, were a blaze of colour. It stood just behind our cottage and the view at bottom of the previous page is taken from its veranda. The photograph left is of my parents behind their cottage at Warminster. Behind them you see the little greenhouse that was Mother’s pride and joy. The other photo (right)appears to be the occasion of my sister’s wedding in 1971. They were married in the little Baptist Chapel in Bourton by one of the elders of the Castle Cary Assembly. This Chapel has now closed, been sold and has been converted. Following the period at ‘Penn Pitts’ they had moved for a time to Maiden Bradley, few miles away, only into a tied cottage again. Here on the left we see father in one of his beloved greenhouses. I am not sure where this was taken, but it was obviously towards the end of his working life. Shortly after this they bought a small cottage at 55, Woodcock Road, 15 Warminster, Wiltshire, at which point in 1972, father retired. Once again you will notice, the greenhouse figures prominently in their lives. The following comments on these latter years of their life together are a very personal view, and may not be shared by my sister who was living at home with them during the early years of their retirement before her marriage to Trevor Burden. Over the years my father had often expressed the hope he had that on the occasion of his retirement he would have the opportunity to spend more time in the work of the Christian Ministry. This, however, was not to be. Following their move to Warminster they explored two little Brethren Assemblies, one at Frome which they did not like at all, the other at Crockerton, a small village just outside Warminster. The chapel had a history going back to Puritan times, and had an outside baptistery between the chapel and the road - just right for public baptisms! It also had a quite remarkable carved pulpit that dated right back to mid 17c. However, Mother decided that she did not wish to continue in fellowship there and associated herself with the General Baptist Church at Warminster. Father refused to associate with this Church. He still held very strong views with regard to the established ministry consistent with his Brethren background, and he never relented from these views, consequently he and mother began to drift into different spheres as far as their Christian fellowship and ministry was concerned. Mother began to get very involved in working with the women of the Church, and became their ‘president’. Father never did give his innermost views upon this matter. One thing I did note about him over the years, if he disagreed with mother, he would never criticise her to a third party. He kept such views, and opinions to himself and maintained a strict loyalty. A second cause of sorrow to my 16 father during these years (yes, it was sorrow, for mother told me so!) was my mother’s total commitment to fostering a number of children during this period right up to the tine of her death. She expressed to me that father saw this work as a major factor in restricting his wider involvement in the work of the ministry. During this period of time Gwyneth married Trevor Burden, and they moved to Oulton Broad at Lowestoft where Trevor worked as a chemist. Following the death of my mother, father moved eventually to live on a permanent basis with Gwyneth and Trevor at the home for the elderly that they ran together at Rhos-onSea, Colwyn Bay. Photo on left is of my sister Gwyneth. Following the death of her husband Trevor she married again to Phil Craker. She still lives in North wales in a small cottage hidden away in Abergele, Conwy. Following the death of my mother, he came to live with my sister and her husband Trevor, initially while they lived at Dartmouth in Devon and later following their removal to Rhos-on-Sea in North Wales. During this latter period of time, while living in my sister’s ‘Home for the Elderly’, he associated with the Brethren Assembly at Rhos, but constantly complained at the increasing age of its members and their increasing limitations to minister the Gospel effectively and with power. While with my sister he took responsibility for the care of the grounds of the house, even up into extreme old age. He continued to show a constant interest for his little greenhouse, and supplied the residents with the fruit of his labours. As he became increasingly more frail he constantly expressed his longing for glory and union with His Lord. His conversation and preoccupation during his latter years was with the things concerning His Lord and the glory of His work in this present age. Father had his own room in the home where he gathered all the mementos and furniture from his past around him. It was a lovely little room and well depicted the quiet and peaceable life this child of God had led for the past eighty odd years. He obviously missed mother terribly, and felt very keenly his increasing loss 17 of functional abilities as the years rolled on. My father never however lost his love for motorbikes, and during his final years with Gwyneth and Trevor he acquired a small scooter. It was bright pink, and very soon he acquired a name and reputation among the locals as the ‘Pink Panther’! He was riding this right up into his 80s, even after coming off on one occasion and ending up in hospital with a broken rib. He was never one to let little difficulties get in is way! After he sadly relinquished the scooter, he got himself an invalid carriage, one of these little electric battery cars that go at about six mph. This he continued to use up until just a few days before his death. I regularly at least during the early years of his residence there, used to fetch him over the Chapeltown for long weekends. It was very noticeable that during these visits he was very preoccupied with his concerns for his greenhouse at Rhos, and his personal sorrow that he was no longer able to actively participate in Christian ministry as he used to love doing. He became very attached to the work that was being pioneered here in Chapeltown, and this was obviously a constant source of conversation with his Christian friends back in Rhos. - As time began to draw to a close, his frailty increased, though he still managed a limited amount of involvement with his beloved garden and greenhouse, but I no longer felt happy with bringing him over to Chapeltown. During this time he injured his arm in a fall. This injury was never properly repaired, and was a constant source of irritation to him, severely limiting his functional abilities. Here we see father with a friend in happy retirement at Ross. Bottom - in a more somber mood in our rocking chair at our home at Chapeltown, Sheffield on a brief visit. 18 Here we see father frail but happy not long before his death. For a little while immediately prior to his death he complained of problems with his bowels. He was eventually admitted to hospital and underwent an operation for ? appendicitis. From this he never recovered, dying peacefully in his sleep on 16th September 1993. Bottom photograph the flowers on his grave at Rhos. - He was buried in the little cemetery at Rhos-on-Sea directly under the shadow of the Great Orms Head. The funeral was held at the little Brethren Chapel in Rhos where he worshipped for the last few years of his life. The photograph on the following page is of his grave stone in that little cemetery and finally we have what I regard as my favourite photograph of him. It was taken in 1986 when he was 78 years of age. Here we see the gravestone erected over my father’s grave in Conwy, North Wales. The inscription states ‘For me to live is Christ but to die is gain’. 19 Herbert George Cheverton 1907- 1993 20