Tips For Form Prayer Time It is important that prayer time takes place in school every day. Twice a week this takes place in assembly, but on other days, this takes place in form time. There are many ways which form tutors choose to make form prayers. Here are some ideas below: Begin and end your prayers by making the sign of the cross. Always insist on silence. It might help to get the pupils to close their eyes or bow their heads. Special intentions – once a relationship is built up within your form and you have created an atmosphere of trust, you can ask the students for their own special intentions to pray about during prayer time. Invite students to offer up anything that is happening in their lives at the moment that they would like to pray about. Students could also offer up ideas for prayers on a local community scale, or on a worldwide scale. Examples that come from students could include a sick relative, a brother/sister doing exams, a parent going on a trip, a pet going to the vets etc. Ask students if they have seen the news or read a newspaper with an example of a global issue, war, poverty, disaster, racial prejudice, murder, ecological disaster, pollution etc. Once the students have offered up what they would like to pray about that day, ask everyone in the form to picture in their head someone they would like to pray for that day, and then all say together the Hail Mary or the Our Father, and end with the form tutor asking Mary, the Mother of Jesus, to listen to all our special intentions, and take our prayers to God. AMEN Have a rota in the form for each pupil to choose the prayer for the day from the form prayer book, or to bring in one of their own. Only say prayers when you have the time, never rush them. Don’t use prayers as just a tag on to the end of form time. You can use prayer time during morning registration or during form time. Make sure that the form understands that prayer time is special, and is part of our communication with God. Prayers said, can be asking prayers, thanking prayers, sorrowful prayers or adoration prayers. Make sure that if special intentions are used, the form understands what is talked about in the form, stays within the form. Form prayer time is part of building a form special relationship between one another, and learning a respect for one another. At the back of this prayer book there are blank pages for you to stick in prayers, which you come across, or prayers brought in by your form. You could also ask your form to write their own prayers and then stick them in to the back, to use during prayer time. -2- Traditional Prayers The Lord’s Prayer Our Father, Who art in Heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come Thy will be done On earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day Our daily bread, And forgive us our trespasses, As we forgive those Who trespass against us, And lead us not into temptation, But deliver us from evil. AMEN Hail Mary Hail Mary, full of grace The Lord is with thee, Blessed art thou amongst women, And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, Pray for us sinners, Now, and at the hour of our death. AMEN The Memorare Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, That never was it known, that anyone who fled to your protection, Implored your help, or sought your intercession and was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly unto you, O virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word incarnate, despise not my petitions, But in your mercy, hear and answer me. For The Faithful Departed Eternal rest, grant unto them/him/her, O Lord, And let perpetual light, Shine upon them/him/her. May they/he/she, rest in peace. AMEN Prayer To The Holy Spirit Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful, and enkindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your spirit and they shall be created. And you shall renew the face of the earth. Let us pray, O God, who has taught the hearts of the faithful by the light of the Holy Spirit, that, by the gift of the same spirit, we may be always truly wise and ever rejoice in his consolation. -3- Hail, Holy Queen Hail, Holy Queen, mother of mercy; Hail our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To you we cry, poor banished children of Eve; To you we send up our sighs, Mourning and weeping in this vale of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, Your eyes of mercy towards us; And after this, our exile, Show to us the blessed fruit of your womb Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary. Pray for us, O holy Mother of God, That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ. AMEN Prayers To God God Be In My Head God be in my head, and in my understanding: God be in mine eyes, and in my looking; God be in my mouth, and in my speaking; God be in my heart, and in my thinking; God be at mine end, and my departing. Book of Hours (1514) Prayer Of Dedication Lord Jesus, I give you my hands to do your work. I give you my feet to go your way. I give you my eyes to see as you do. I give you my tongue to speak your words. I give you my mind that you may think in me. I give you my spirit that you may pray in me. Above all, I give you my heart that you may love in me, your father, and all mankind. I give you my whole self that you may grow in me, so that it is you, Lord Jesus, who live and work and pray in me. The Lord Our Shepherd The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need. He lets me rest in fields of green grass and leads me to quiet pools of fresh water. He gives me new strength. He guides me in the right paths, as he has promised. Even if I go through the deepest darkness, I will not be afraid, Lord, for you are with me. Your shepherd’s rod and staff protect me. You prepare a banquet for me, where all my enemies can see me; you welcome me as an honoured guest and fill my cup to the brim. I know that your goodness and love will be with me all my life; and your house will be my home as long as I live. -4- The Gate Of The Year I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year, ‘Give me a light that I may tread safely into the unknown’. And he replied – ‘Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the hand of God. That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way!’ So I went forth and finding the hand of God, trod gladly into the night. And he led me towards the hills and the breaking of day in the lone east. M.L. Haskins (1875-1957) Prayer To Our Father Father, give us your help, whatever life is like. In difficulty, keep us from discouragement, and in failure, from despair. In joy, help us never to forget to sympathise with others who are sad, and in sorrow, help us to cope for the future as well as remember the past. In success, keep us from conceit, And when things go well, keep us from thinking that we do not need you. Help us to remember that there is no situation in which you cannot help us, and no time in which we do not need your help. Morning Prayers Morning Prayer Lord, a new day is beginning with its joys and difficulties, with its successes and defeats. My mind is filled with projects and my heart is filled with love. I know, having had it happen so many times, that I will not realize half my plans nor will I love half as much as I would like….. Bless all that I might do and forgive my indolence or my too great ambition. May the love that I’ll give today be unselfish and forgive me, in advance, the weakness of my feelings. Give me enough faith to see in You, in my brothers and sisters and give them enough hope to seek You in me. Let me be, today, an instrument of your peace, that I may work for You in all I do and say. Lord, bless my day. A New Day Thank you Lord, for this day; For the dawn which is a sign of the sureness of your love, your presence, your forgiveness, your companionship, All the days of our lives. -5- Be With Us Lord Accompany each of us. Let us be friendly with everyone we meet. Let us also be open to you, Lord, during this day, because you, Lord, come to us, every day of our life! Reflection For The Morning From behind the clouds the morning sun appears, and light begins to shine on a new day. God of the Covenant, I am glad to be able to start, today, a new task, to start all over again, in health and good spirits. I bless you, my God, for the great will to love and because you accompany me, guide me, direct my steps, and give me faith. I am grateful to you for the miracles we discover at each moment that helps us to live and to use the works of your creation. Praised be you, my Lord, for this new day that is born. Give me your help and guidance. Guide me with your inspiration, benevolence and blessing. Help me to fulfil my duties, and to achieve my aims. May your light, the divine light, continue to shine upon me. May this new day be for me and for everyone, another day of your glory and a day of peace and happiness. Amen. Good Morning, Lord Good morning, Lord. Thank you for bringing me to this day. I put myself into your hands for today. Direct all my thoughts, words and actions, so that they will be in accordance with your will, and for your honour and glory. I start this day in trust in you, Lord. It may be ordinary, A day of work or study, I give it to you. I offer you the hours of this day, That now, or later, they may be in your service. I pray for those I meet. May I bring, in some small way, A dawning of peace in their lives. Prayers For The Day Sent Every Day In the rushing hours of daily lives, you send us, Lord, to create the joy, of being together, and sharing our friendship. In our everyday tasks, you send us to do things and say things, which bring happiness and do away with indifference. In our everyday meetings, You send us to give a sign of welcome to everyone, to overcome the pride which divides, and to build bridges of friendship between people. You count on each one of us, to sow the Good News of your love in people’s lives today; you need our hands, our eyes, our lips, our minds. With the light of your Word and the strength of your love, we are ready to proclaim, that you are here, in people’s lives, like a loving parent. Prayer Almighty God, you are with us always, though we are often blind and deaf to your presence. Help us to see you and hear you in our lives, through Jesus Christ your Son. AMEN -6- An Everyday Prayer O Lord, my Father, my Creator, my Friend, thank you for this new day. Thank you for those who love me and care for me. Thank you for the wonder of my being, for gifts of mind, heart and body. Thank you for all the good things I enjoy and the trials which make me strong. Help me O lord, to make the best of every hour of this day. Save me from fear, selfishness and greed. Help me to enjoy the love I receive, and to share my love with a glad and generous heart. May no one suffer today because of me. May no one go hungry because of my greed. May no one be lonely because I do not care. May my heart be open to those who need me. May I grow in strength, in joy, in love today. May I seek what is true, noble and pure. May I begin and end this day in your presence and walk through my life secure, for I am never alone. Thank you Lord, for your love, presence and protection. Thank you for guarding me as the apple of your eye. On This Day Mend a quarrel. Search out a forgotten friend. Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust. Share some treasure. Give some answers. Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in a word or deed. Keep a promise. Find the time. Forego a grudge. Forgive an enemy. Listen. Apologise if you were wrong. Try to understand. Flout envy. Examine your deeds on others. Think first of someone else. Appreciate, be kind and gentle. Laugh a little more. Worship your God. Take pleasure in the beauty of the earth. Prayers For A School Day At The Start Of The Term Father, we ask you to bless us as we take a new step in our lives today. Keep in us a sense of wonder at the marvels of life. Help us to be keen to explore the world of knowledge. Lead us to make good use of our talents and work well with others. Bless us that we may grow strong in your love and in concern for the good of all people. May we learn from each other and grow in friendship with Jesus, your Son. AMEN For Our School Community Father, we thank you for our school community, knowing that we can learn from each other and grow in faith. We pray for all involved in our school, that all of us may grow as the people you call us to be. AMEN Growing In Faith, Confidence And Respect For Others Father, enable our young people to live the vision that you have for each of them, and lead them to grow in confidence in who they are, and in the faith that you call each of them by name. Show them how to live in such a way that they respect others for who they are. Inspire them to be generous in praising other people, and in showing appreciation for the efforts and achievements of others. AMEN -7- Wisdom, Talents, Service, Priorities Lord, you have enriched our lives in many ways. Give us this day the wisdom to recognise which things are important and which are not. Show us how best to use the time and talents you have given us. Help us to use all opportunities wisely that we may give in service to others the good gifts we have received from you. AMEN Treating People With Respect, Care And Understanding Lord, we ask for the power of your spirit in our school, so that adults and young people alike may always see the need to treat others generously, with respect and courtesy, and care and understanding. As you cured the people who were blind, lead us to focus on the positive rather than the negative, so that we may all bring out the best in one another. AMEN Reaching Our Potential Lord, may we all respond well to your invitation to live fully and make the best use of our skills and talents. Show us that rather than draw comparisons with others, each of us is called to look at our own potential. Inspire us all to be generous in praising others for the good use of their abilities – looking not so much at the degree of achievement – but at the efforts put in. AMEN A Student’s Prayer Teach me, Lord, how to learn wisely and well. Help me to master the subjects I need to study and never give in to despair or boredom. Help me to remember how fortunate I am to be able to study, to grow in knowledge. Give me wisdom that I may treasure knowledge. May I use my opportunities gratefully, develop my talents responsibly, and put my learning to the service of truth and justice. Make me to be wise and strong, that I may learn from life itself, and never turn away from you. AMEN Prayers For Exams When You Are Doing Exams We pray that in the coming exams you will keep each of us calm and bring back to our minds all that we have learnt. AMEN Dear Lord, Help me when I feel panicky about my exams. Help me to realise that it only matters if the mark is good for me, not for anyone else. Wish me luck. AMEN Lord, My heart is pulsating and my tummy is quivering and my mind is whirring. Oh please, refresh me with your peace. I pray, dear God, that as my exams approach, I may feel calm, Let your peace shine through me, that others may glimpse the serenity within me, and want to discover its source. Please remove the ominous, depressive cloud which seems to hover over exams, and replace it with sunshine. Let me look forward to my exams, seeing them as a time when I can share my knowledge of things. Please help me not to worry Lord, for worrying solves no problems. If my marks are good, please help me not to rest on my laurels. If my marks are bad, please help me not to despair. You love me Lord, and I love you. That is more important than any exam result. Thank you for hearing me. AMEN Dear God, Please help me in my exams. Help me to understand the questions. AMEN Dear God, Please help me through my exams. Stop me from cheating which wouldn’t be right. I feel hopeless at the moment, but would be more assured if I can send this prayer. AMEN -8- Father, I thank you that you are always with me, especially when I am in difficulty. Guide and help me through these exams so that I may do justice to all I have learned. I dedicate them to you and pray that I do them for your glory and not my own. I pray for everyone doing exams and that you may guide and help all of them. Help us to keep their importance in perspective Lord, and to use them to draw closer to you. AMEN Dear God, Help us through this difficult time of exams. Help us to do as well as we can so that we can obtain qualifications we need to do what you have in mind for us. We know that even if we do not do as well as we expected, you still love us and still have a purpose for us. Perhaps you are teaching us patience by getting us to retake them, or perhaps you have something entirely different in mind. If we do as well, or better than expected, then we must remember that without you we would have got nowhere, whether we acknowledge it or not, because without your gifts of life, intelligence, a conscience, and of course, a soul, we are nothing. We pray that you may relieve the exam stress that affects so many people so that we can do our best. Thank you O God. Dear Lord, When I take exams, let me go the extra mile with revision. I know that if I fail, you will be there to say I haven’t. When I’m feeling down about exams, help cheer me up. Thank you Lord. AMEN Lord, we pray for those about to sit exams that they may remain calm and at peace so that they may be able to make the best use of their talents and the study they have done, and the education they have been given. Let nothing prevent them from doing as well as they deserve, and may they be ready to support and encourage one another. For our own talents and the education and support that we receive, we give thanks. AMEN Prayers For Making An Important Decision Eeney meaney miney mo, Help me find the way to go. AMEN Father, You know that I am afraid, and I don’t know which way to turn. Please Lord, come down and comfort me, and help me make the right decisions. Please Lord, help all those who are going through the same experience as I am. Give them strength through your Holy Spirit. Lord, I ask this in your name, AMEN Lord, When we have a difficult or important decision to make, please help us to make the best and wisest choice. If the decision is going to hurt others, let us forget about it, or if it is good for others, let us stick to our decision through to the end. AMEN O Lord, We pray that you will be with us to help and guide us whenever we have an important decision in our lives. We know that we can trust you to be by our sides, to give us the strength and help that we so often need. We also ask that you will help us to be grateful and cheerful for all the wonderful things in life that you have given to us, but we so often take for granted. Help us to remember that you are always there when we need help and that you know which is the right road for each one of us. Lord hear our prayer and always be by our side. AMEN Dear Lord, Making decisions can be very lonely and difficult. May we have the courage to use what talents we have wisely, and live this day to the full. AMEN Please Lord, This decision could be a turning point in my life. Shine your light to show me the right path to take. I know that you will show me the way. I know that you will always be with me, loving me, and I trust you to show me the right path. AMEN Lord God, We are making decisions every day. Important decisions can often tell you where your life is going to lead. Help us to make the right decisions Lord, so that we may follow you in the ways of your Son. AMEN -9- Choices Reflection Lord, in the Bible, you tell me to choose life and not death. Inspire me in the choices I make today – that I may choose what is positive and life-giving and good. So help me to protect and defend myself from influences that are not good. Keep me on the right path to choose values that are lasting and beneficial. Keep my eyes open whenever there is injustice, that I may be willing to stand with those who are treated unfairly, and defend those who need support. Deliver me from evil. AMEN The Road Not Taken Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveller, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sight Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, And I took the one less travelled by, And that has made all the difference. The Rich Young Man Mark 10:17-22 And there was a man who came to him and asked, ‘Master, what good deed must I do to receive eternal life?’ Jesus said to him, ‘Why do you call me good?’ Jesus asked him. ‘No one is good except God alone. You know the commandments: do not commit murder; do not commit adultery; do not steal; do not accuse anyone falsely; do not cheat; respect your father and your mother.’ ‘Teacher,’ the man said, ‘ever since I was young, I have obeyed all these commandments.’ Jesus looked straight at him with love and said, ‘You need only one thing. Go and sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have riches in heaven; then come and follow me.’ When the man heard this, gloom spread over his face, and he went away sad, because he was very rich. Prayer Lord, I want to be responsible for my own life, and I want to make positive choices each day. Inspire me to get my priorities right and be generous in my care and concern for others. In busy days and casual days remind me, too, of my basic human need for personal time and quiet space, and lead me to respect the personal needs that others also have. AMEN Father, Inspire us to make our choices well and understand our responsibilities and the consequences of what we do. Help us to make good use of the opportunities that come to us. Let us be positive in our attitude, that we may work well with others and live this day to the full. AMEN - 10 - Our Hopes and Dreams Believe It, Achieve It In the Star Wars movie, ‘The Empire Strikes Back’, Luke Skywalker flies his X-Wing ship to a swamp planet on a personal quest. There he seeks out a Jedi master named Yoda to teach him the ways of becoming a Jedi warrior. Luke wants to free the galaxy from the oppression of the evil tyrant, Darth Vader. Yoda reluctantly agrees to help Luke and begins by teaching him how to lift rocks with his mental powers. Then, one day, Yoda tells Luke to lift his ship out from the swamp where it sank after a crash landing. Luke complains that lifting rocks is one thing, but lifting a star-fighter is quite another matter. Yoda insists. Luke manages a valiant effort but fails in his attempt. Yoda then focuses his mind, and lifts out the ship with ease. Luke, dismayed, exclaims, “I don’t believe it!” “That’s why you couldn’t lift it,” Yoda replied. “You didn’t believe you could.” Prayer Dear Lord, When we are worried and afraid of the future, not knowing where we are going to go, or what we are going to do, please guide us along the right path and reassure us that you will look after us, whatever happens in the dangerous road of life. Help us to keep faith in you, and know that we will always have a place in your heart. AMEN Dear Lord, Please help us when we are afraid of the future, to be guided by your word to walk ahead with confidence into the darkness. Give us the courage to carry on and the strength to take step after step until we emerge on the other side with a greater love of you. AMEN - 11 - I Have A Dream M.L.King The following is an extract from a speech made by Martin Luther King on 28 August 1963 about his dream for the future. I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave-owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood. I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the colour of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today. I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together. Prayer Dear Lord, When we are afraid of the future, strengthen our hearts and minds, and give us courage to face up to whatever lies ahead. Let us remember that you will always be there with us shining your light before us. AMEN Friendships Prayer God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, you are the example of perfect love. Help us to learn from you, the meaning of true friendship. Thank you for the friends we have, and help us to be loyal and caring toward them. Give us the courage to be kind and gracious even to those we can’t call ‘friend’. Always be with us to guide us. AMEN Friendship The greatest happiness we can experience is to know that we are loved for ourselves, just as we are, with all our faults and oddities. When someone is our friend we feel completely at home with them; we know we haven’t got to pretend to be someone else – we can just be ourselves. To have friends is a great gift and happiness; and, conversely, to be without friends can be a very great suffering. Sometimes we are not friendly because we are impatient, or unsympathetic, or prejudiced, or selfish, or insensitive, and so on. It takes two people to make a friendship. In a friendship the two people both give and receive, and by sharing with each other, come to appreciate each other more and more. Thank You For Friends Friends are to be trusted, Friends try to be kind. I thank you Lord for friends. Friends are to be treated nicely, and not to be hurt or insulted. I thank you Lord for friends. Friends are more important, than personal belongings. Friends are worth more than money. I thank you Lord for friends. - 12 - A Few Good Friends Thank you God, for all the gifts you have given us, especially the gift of friends. Some of us have many friends, and some of us have only a few. Remind us that the numbers are not important, But that the quality of friendship is. We need to learn how to be loyal and generous friends, And how to give only good example. Those of us who are quiet and shy need to learn how to make new friends. Help us not to miss the opportunities you give us. To reach out to others in love and friendship. Thank you for loving us and believing in us. Scripture Reading (various Proverbs, paraphrased) Friendship is a great gift, One we should never take for granted. These passages from Proverbs praise this great gift. One who is a friend is always a friend, and is like a brother or sister to us when times get hard. Some friends bring ruin on us, but a true friend is more loyal than our closest relatives. Many try to be friends with those who are popular or rich, and they try to avoid those who have nothing to give them. The person who is a true friend, is always a friend, and such a one is like a brother or sister in times of stress. A good name is better than the greatest riches, and the esteem of friends is better than silver or gold. Do not become friends with bad tempered persons, or with ones who do evil things. You might soon imitate them and cut yourself off from what is right and good. Friendships Friends A friend is like a tower strong; a friend is like the joyous song that helps us on our way. When golden ties of friendship bind the heart to heart, the mind to mind, how fortunate we are! For friendship is a noble thing; it soars past death on angel’s wing into eternity. God blesses friendship’s holy bond both here and in the great beyond: a benefit unpriced. Then may we know, that wondrous joy, that precious ore without alloy; a friendship based on Christ. When We Are Grateful To Our Friends Lord, thank you for my friends. Thank you that they are always there when I am in trouble and need help, or when I need a shoulder to cry on. Help me to be loyal to my friends and to give them as much love and support as they give me. Lord, I thank you for my friends. When I am confused they give me wisdom. When I feel sad they help me smile. When I feel worthless they share their love. Lord above all this, I thank you that you are my friend forever. Sorry Dear Lord, When we are spiteful and nasty to our friends, help us to tell them how sorry we are, for where would we be without friends? We would be lonely and unhappy. Jesus had lots of friends, even the outcasts. As you will always be our friend, let us love you as we love ourselves. And let us be happy. AMEN Prayer Lord God, because you love us, you invite us to be your friends and to share in your life; help us to realise that our friendships will only ring true if we give ourselves unselfishly to each other as your Son gave himself to us. - 13 - Dear Father, I thank you for all the friends you have blessed me with. I am grateful for their witness of you, their support, and love in times of suffering and despair, and for their presence to share in times of joy. Thank you God for friends. Friends who stand by us in times of trouble, who guide us through difficult decisions. Friends who tell us things that we should not do, and tell us when they don’t like the things we are doing. Lord, help us to accept our friends as they are, with all their faults. Help us Lord to forgive our friends who have wronged us or hated us. Help us to share the gifts and things we have, with others, as well as our problems, as friends can prove very helpful and understanding. O Lord, help us not to be jealous of others and the friendships they have. Make us grateful for what we have. AMEN Dear Lord, We thank you for the friends we have and all the love and joy we share. May we learn how to be the best friends possible, and never expect too much from others. Thank you for being our greatest friend, Lord. Prayers For Young People Clothes You do understand, don’t you God, that kids can’t be happy these days unless they have a lot of clothes and other things. Our parents don’t understand. They think that we should make do with the clothes, the jewellery, the shoes, the haircuts, the CDs, and the computer games that we already have. But things keep changing so fast, and we need to keep up – at least we think we do. Maybe that’s just the problem. How can we learn to feel comfortable with our lives the way they are? How can we learn to feel content with the little things all around us, without wanting more and more? This is a real problem for us and we really need your help, God. Instead of judging people by their clothes, their shoes or their haircuts, help us to notice their smiles and to listen to what they are saying. Help us to believe, God, that we don’t need more things in our lives. Help us to see the beauty all around us. Instead of choosing friends based on the clothes they wear, help us to listen to their interests and concerns and to share and enjoy them. Help us to believe, God, that we don’t need more things. Help us to see beauty all around us. AMEN Prayer You remind us, loving God, that you give us many gifts, but we forget to look for them. Keep reminding us from now on. Remind us that there are many beautiful things that money can’t buy. - 14 - God Fashions Us Into Something Beautiful A woman dropped a beautiful orange vase on the kitchen floor; it splintered into dozens of tiny pieces. She swept the pieces up and threw them into the bin. An hour later, she discovered her little daughter had retrieved the pieces from the bin and had pasted them on a piece of white card. Then, using a green crayon. The little girl had drawn stems and leaves on each piece, converting them into a beautiful bouquet of orange flowers. The woman was moved to tears. Her daughter had seen something in the broken pieces that she had not seen. Where she had seen trash, her daughter had seen treasure. From what she had considered to be something ugly, her daughter had fashioned something beautiful. God does the same thing with people. God retrieves us from the wastebasket of sin and fashions us into something beautiful. St Teresa Of Avila Christ has no body on earth now but ours: no hands but ours, no feet but ours. Ours are the eyes through which Christ’s compassion is to look upon the world. Ours are the feet with which he is to go about doing good. Ours are the hands with which he is to bless others now. Peace Prayer For Unity Lord Jesus Christ, who said to your apostles: “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you”, look not upon our sins, but upon the faith of your Church, and grant her that peace and unity which is according to your will; who lives and reigns for ever and ever. Poppies For Peace Poppies covered the killing fields of the First World War as a result of the bombing and fighting. The poppy seed has a hard shell, which needs to break to germinate. The violence and vibrations of the fighting helped to break the seeds. The red field poppy is a frail flower. If picked, it quickly dies. It grows in the poorest of conditions, at roadsides and where the soil is thinnest. Yet this flower has the loudest voice. It is worn every year. It cries PEACE! John 14:23-27 We would all want to banish fear, ignorance, hunger, thirst and pain, and would want goodness and justice to rule men’s hearts, so that there should be peace. But peace in the world is only brought about by peace in ourselves, so let us begin our prayer by reflecting on the peacefulness – or lack of it – in our own lives. Moreover, peace and happiness spread from one person to another; they are contagious qualities of life. Jesus promised to pass on his peace to his friends; he called it his own peace, ‘A peace the world cannot give.’ What is special about it? It is the peace that comes from the perfect relationship of the Son with the Father. We will find that sort of peace if we are able to accept God as Father, from whom all our gifts come. In other words, it comes from having complete trust and confidence in God. If we are like that, it is unbelievable what peace and happiness we can bring to others. Philippians 4:4-9 Justice is a hard word because we tend to associate it with a strict balance. It would be better to see it as that which enables us to be happy with God and our fellow men. Happiness is the key, and in this reading from St. Paul’s letter to the Christians at Philippi, we hear Paul’s recipe for happiness and peace – tolerance, lack of worry, gratefulness and truth. It is a recipe worth thinking about. Peace Is Jesus’ Easter Message Later on, on the same day that the friends had discovered the empty tomb, they locked themselves in, because they thought the soldiers might come looking for them. During the evening, Jesus came into the room and said, ‘Peace be with you.’ The friends were really pleased! Jesus said again, ‘Peace be with you.’ Taken from Welcome! By Jenny Pate - 15 - Prayer Lord God, our Father, it is your will that justice and peace should embrace. We pray that we may discover the thirst for justice that brings peace in its train. We make this prayer with the Man of Justice and Peace, Jesus Christ, our Lord. Peace Prayer Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me. Let there be love on earth and let it begin in my heart. Let there be miracles on earth and let them begin with my faith. Let there be a future and let it begin with my action. I Had A Paint Box I had a paint box but it didn’t have the colour red for the blood of the wounded, nor white for the hearts and faces of the dead. It didn’t have yellow either for the burning sands of the desert. Instead it had orange for the dawn and the sunset and blue for new skies and pink for the dreams of young people. I sat down and painted peace. Thought We do not always choose the peaceful way of life. We can pass on gossip, make unhelpful remarks, and do something that we know will offend. Two small sisters had an argument, which developed into a fight. Their mother pulled them apart and sent them to separate rooms. Later that day when one of the sisters saw the television news and saw the awful pictures of people injured in a war, she asked why countries fought one another. Her mother replied, ‘For the same reason you and your sister fight.’ - 16 - A Courageous Response To Violence “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.” Today, it is very difficult to be a peacemaker. Violence surrounds us on every side Jesus asked his followers to love their enemies when the enemy was Rome and Roman soldiers marched in the streets of Jerusalem. He told Peter to forgive those who harmed him as often as forgiveness was sought. He included in his command to love even those who consider us as enemies. By his death and resurrection, he renounced the power of violence in favour of the power of sacrificial love. Prayer Teacher of peace, we live in a world of violence. Free us from the need to control and dominate one another. Free us from the poison of revenge, from the failure to find acceptance, which leads to violence. Free us from the need to hate and support us in our efforts to love. We pray, seeking your peace. This prayer was left beside the body of a child in the women’s concentration camp at Ravensbrook. O Lord, remember not only the men and women of good will, but also those of ill will. But do not remember all the suffering they have inflicted on us; remember the good that has come – thanks to this suffering – our comradeship, our loyalty, our courage, our generosity, the greatness of heart, which has grown out of all this. With Jesus we say – Father Forgive Them. Pope John Paul XXIII Peace must be based on truth, built on justice, supported by love and created in an atmosphere of freedom. Prayers Of Sorrow When You Want To Say Sorry Lord, Help me to know when I am wrong and give me the strength and courage to say that I am sorry – three words that so often we find hard to say, but can make such a difference to both our lives and to those we love. Help me to realise that our life on earth is far too short to argue with those we love and care for and that we should all have the compassion for others that you have for us. Forgive me Lord for all my wrongdoings, and help me to be a better person. AMEN Dear God, I’m sorry for all the times I do the things that I know you wouldn’t want me to do. When I think or say something to hurt someone; when I fail you and fall short of your expectations. Help us to be more like your son, Jesus, every day. AMEN Oh Lord, It is so difficult to say sorry to anyone, and even more so to say sorry to you. It is impossible to find the words to express exactly what we feel, but I pray that you will read our hearts, rather than our words, and hence discover our true sentiments, so that you may know how sorry we are, Lord, for everything sinful in our lives. AMEN - 17 - Difficult To Live With O God, forgive us for the faults, which make us difficult to live with. If we behave as if we were the only people for whom life is difficult; If we behave as if we were far harder worked than anyone else; If we behave as if we were the only people who were ever disappointed, or the only people who ever got a raw deal; If we are far too self centered or far too full of self pity: Forgive us, O God. If we are too impatient to finish the work we have begun; If we are too impatient to listen to someone who wants to talk to us, or to give someone a helping hand; If we think that other people are fools, and make no attempt to conceal our contempt for them: Forgive us, O God. If we too often rub people the wrong way; If we spoil a good case by trying to ram it down someone’s throat; If we do things that get on people’s nerves, and go on doing them, even when we are asked not to: Forgive us, O God. Help us to take the selfishness and the ugliness out of life and to do better in days to come. For The World The Environment Lord, Help us to be more sensible about how we travel. Give wisdom to those who are in positions of power, so they can do something to help. Stop us polluting the atmosphere even more, just because we are too lazy to think of an alternative. Dirty footmarks spoil the seat on the train. An empty beer can rolls sadly around as the train rattles along. Graffiti splatters the vast grey buildings outside. Bulging dustbins spill their contents on to the grimy streets. Children and dogs play amongst the filth and litter. Please Lord, help us to clean up our towns and cities. Give people respect for where they live. Let’s clean up the world. AMEN Psalm 8:3-9 When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, mankind that you care for him? You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honour. You made him ruler over the works of your hands; you put everything under his feet: all flocks and herds, and the beasts of the field, the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea, all that swim the paths of the seas. O Lord, Our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! In Thanks Of Creation Thank you, Lord God, for the stunning colours of nature. Thank you….. for the rich brown of the earth and the soothing greens of grass and leaves. Thank you…… for the vibrant, golden yellows of flower petals and the gentle pink of frothy blossom. Thank you…….. for the clear, cool blue of the sky and the warm glow of a red sunset. Thank you…… for the inky blackness of the night sky and the sparkling white light of the twinkling stars. Thank you, Lord, for your glorious creation. Prayer Grant that, this day and every day, we may keep our shock of wonder at each new beauty that comes upon us as we walk down the paths of life. AMEN - 18 - Prayers For The Poor Survival Women fetching water always look full of grace, creating an idyllic picture of rural calm. This is not leisure, but survival; so is the graceful posture. Water must be found, dug for, lifted, carried far, and its essential weight will break the back of those who do it wrong. God give the women strength each day to carry survival to their homes. Children Who Work Below the level of my sight, We find the lowly tasks are done not just by those who are poor, but by the children – responsible, serious, shouldering the adult burden before they are fully grown. God give them time to play, and live, and dream, as we are free to do. Landmines God our protector, watch over us all, and set our feet on the right path. Walk with the children who cannot trust the ground beneath them; give courage to those who seek out the hidden danger; and strengthen the injured to live and work again. Children Christ Our God, you too were born a child not free into our world: subject to poverty, harassment by foreign powers, and dangers to your health. In your name Let us cry freedom for your children Now, at this time, And through all generations Harvest Let us bless the Lord, who has not given all places the same ground, or all plants the same growth: for seeds that know their soil, poor as it is; for fruits that can flourish where they best belong; for the harvest that can be gathered around a settled home. Education O God, deliver our world from the recurring conflicts that close borders, close schools, close minds, and shut off the future. Give the children freedom to learn from their heritage, read their own language, and take pride in their people. Forgotten Communities God give strength to those who are passed over for the necessities of life. For you have always chosen those who are called to nothing, of no account, officially not there – and with them fashioned your will for our world. War God of peace and plenty, you cherish all that gives life. May we see our instruments of war rust with irrelevance, our children dream their future, the earth produce its food, and the people flourish. - 19 - Prayers For The Poor Water Wells Come to the waters, all you who are thirsty: children who need water free from diseases, women who need respite from labour and searching, plants that need moisture rooted near the bedrock, find here a living spring. O God, may we thirst For your waters of justice, And learn to deny no one the water of life. A Simple Tap A simple tap. Water that is reliable, clean, there. O God, whenever we drink or clean our teeth, or take a bath, water the garden, wash vegetables or clothes, remind us to give thanks, wholeheartedly, for the freedom that surrounds us – and we hardly notice it. Communities Let us bless the Lord for strong communities, battered by war, deprived of the basics, but connected by courage and hard work, determined to live. Let us celebrate those who had nothing, but put their backs into it to renew their water, to renew their health, to renew their children’s hope. Nutrition God of the desert places be with those who wait, queuing for water and food watching their little children lose energy to play, looking for rain, for work and health and harvest. In their time of waiting, Be their hearts’ courage And their souls’ hope; Make their desert bloom. Fair Trade God of the just weight and the fair measure, let us remember the hands that harvested our food, our drink, not only in our prayers but in the marketplace. Let us not seek a bargain That leaves another hungry. The Homeless O Lord, you had nowhere to lay your head. Remember all those on this earth who sleep by the roadside, who have no place to stay, no patch of ground to call their own. Give them a secure space, where no one may remove them: a place to work and raise children, hang out the washing, and be at home. Fundraising Let us find it in us to give our money as we do in hospitality – courteously: wanting to treat our guests the best we can afford, finding pleasure in providing, hoping to build up a friendship; learning to give as God gives, with all our heart. - 20 - Love St Paul (First Letter To The Corinthians) Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous; love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offence, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but it delights in truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Dear God, the source of all love, you have shown us that true love exists in serving others, and commanded us to love each other with your selfless love. Give us, we pray, that same love with which Jesus served humanity, and in which he lived and died. AMEN Mother Teresa Let no one ever come to you without going away better and happier. Let there be kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes. Prayers Father, pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you above all things, may obtain your promises which exceed all that we can desire. AMEN Lord, help us today, to be aware of other people’s need for love, just as we need love ourselves. Help us to remember that we cannot treat people as objects, without both them and us becoming less than human. AMEN Lord, grant us your love, that we may rejoice with the glad, and sympathise with the sad; That we may always look for the best in people, and never become too wrapped up in ourselves. Help us to become more loving, by sharing our love with others. AMEN - 21 - Love From God Kindness, loving kindness, motivated by my love, is a mark of my grace in you. Be kind to one another and let others show kindness to you. I am kind to you all without favour or reserve. My wonderful kindness to you is like the blue of a fair day, like the soft rain in the growing season. It is the touch of one who loves you, the smile of one who cares for you. In my kindness there is nothing violent, nothing abrasive, but I give out my kindness with open handed gentleness. Kindness is at first in your hearts, then in your words and deeds. Be kind to one another. Be open to give and receive kindness. Christmas Luke Chapter 2 Now at this time Caesar Augustus issued a decree for a census of the whole world to be taken. This census – the first – took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria, and everyone went to his own town to be registered. So Joseph set out from the town of Nazareth in Galilee and travelled up to Judaea, to the town of David called Bethlehem, since he was of David’s house and line, in order to be registered together with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. While they were there, the time came for her to have her child, and she gave birth to a son, her first born. She wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger because there was no room for them at the inn. Thought If our greatest need had been information, God would have sent us an educator. If our greatest need had been money, God would have sent us an economist. If our greatest need had been technology, God would have sent us a scientist. If our greatest need had been pleasure, God would have sent us an entertainer. But our greatest need was forgiveness, So God sent us a Saviour. Prayer Father, We praise and thank you this Christmas time, for your love towards us and that you have shown your love in the gift of your Son Jesus, who came to be our Saviour. Help us to show our gratitude and our love for you as we behave in a loving, caring, thoughtful way to other people. May the love which came down at Christmas, be spread throughout the whole world. AMEN - 22 - Thought If Jesus was born today it would be in a downtown motel marked by a helicopter’s flashing bulb. A traffic warden, working late, would be the first upon the scene. Later, at the expense of a TV network, an eminent sociologist, the host of a chat show and a controversial actor would arrive with their good wishes – the whole occasion to be filmed as part of the ‘Is this the Son of God?’ one hour special. Childhood would be a blur of photographs and speculation dwindling by His late teens into ‘Where is He Now?’ features in Sunday magazines. Steve Turner Prayer Lord, Help us to look beyond the tinsel and the presents, to the true meaning of Christmas. AMEN Lord, Just as all people were welcome into the stableshepherds and wise men – help us to remember that it is in the ordinary things in our lives where we meet you. And just as you were approachable, help us to be more approachable this Christmas. AMEN Lord, help us to think today of what we can do to make Christmas special to those around us. AMEN