“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates Possible Topics: Youthful Rebellion Sexual exploration Quest for independence / experience Vulnerability of youth Treachery of evil Powerlessness of women trapped by vanity Theme Statements By referring to the conflicting social, mythological, and cultural influences in Connie’s life, Joyce Carol Oates illustrates how confusing growing up and finding one’s identity can be, especially in the social revolution of the 1960s when teenagers were confronted with new levels of personal liberation and, at the same time, more dangers. Joyce Carol Oates evokes the fairy tale genre and the biblical passage from Judges in her short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” to warn about the social conditions that have enslaved women throughout history and continue to endanger young women in their most vulnerable years of exploration. Joyce Carol Oates’ allegorical portrayal of Connie, as the innocent maiden, tempted by Arnold Friend, as the devil incarnate, parallel the real-world temptations and dangers of growing up when exploring one’s identity and independence is a traditional rite of passage.