Author Title Publisher ISBN A. Jayne Major Ph. D., Ronald M. Supancic, CFLS, and Thomas W. Rincker “Winning the Custody War without Casualties” FaFFamilies Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is Abigail Garner No ISBN Harper Paperbacks; 978-0060527587 The Lesbian and Gay Parenting Handbook: Creating and Raising our Families Harper Perennial, New York: 1993 April Martin Arbinger Institute Archibald Hart, Benjamin Sells Bernie Mayer Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict Helping Children Survive Divorce, What to Expect; How to Help The Soul of the Law Beyond Neutrality: Confronting the Crisis in Conflict Resolution Berrett-Koehler Publishers Word Publishing, 1996 Vega Books (June 2002) San Francisco: Jossey-Bass/Wiley Bernie Mayer The Dynamics of Conflict Resolution: A Practitioner’s Guide San Francisco: Jossey-Bass/Wiley Bert Hellinger Loves Hidden Symmetry: What Makes Love Work in Relationships 978-0060969295 978-1576753347 978-0849939495 978-1843334620 978-0787968069 978-0787950194 Zeig, Tucker & Theisen (May 1998) Return to the Heart; 2nd edition (January 1999) 978-1891944000 Bill Ferguson Boyan and Termini How to Heal a Painful Relationship The Psychotherapist as Parent Coordinator in High Conflict Divorce; Strategies and Techniques Carol Ann Wilson Cate Cochran The Financial Guide to Divorce Settlement Traders' Library (September 1, 2000) 978-0789022158 978-1883272821 Reconcilable Differences: Marriages End. Families Don’t Collaborative Practice Materials: A Resource Manual for Collaborative Professionals and Clients Second Story Press 978-1-897187-29-6 Catherine Ann Conner and Margaret L. Anderson 978-1878410252 self published, 2004. Made to Stick Chip and Dan Heath RH Books (1996, Conflict Resolution Resources) Mediation Center, Inc Simon & Schuster; 1st Firesi edition (January 1991) Harper Paperbacks (1998) Chip Rose, J.D. Collaborative Family Law Practice Claire Berman, Constance Ahrons Adult Children of Divorce Speak Out The Good Divorce We're Still Family: What Grown Children Have to Say About Their Parents' Divorce Harper Paperbacks (2005) Bringing Peace into the Room: How the Personal Qualities of the Jossey-Bass; 1 edition (September 30, Mediator Impact the 2003) Constance Ahrons Daniel Bowling & David Hoffman IACP Forum Booklist 978-1400064281 978-0671731496 978-0060926342 978-0060931209 978-0787968502 Page 1 David Cooperrider, Diana Appreciative Inquiry Handbook Whitney, Jacqueline Stavros David Hall David Strah Debbie Ford Deborah Lynn Zutter Deborah Moskovitch Deborah Tannen Deborah Tannen Deborah Tannen, Dennis Stolle Diana Whitney Amanda Trosten-Bloom The Spiritual Revitalization of the Legal Profession: A Search for Sacred Rivers Gay Dads: A Celebration of Fatherhood Spiritual Divorce: Divorce As a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life Preparing for Mediation: A Dispute Resolution Guide The Smart Divorce: Proven Strategies and Valuable Advice from 100 Top Divorce Lawyers, Financial Advisers, Counselors That's Not What I Meant!: How Conversational Style Makes or Breaks Relationships You Just Don't Understand The Argument Culture: Moving from Debate to Dialogue Practicing Therapeutic Jurisprudence Lakeshore Communications 978-1893435179 Edwin Mellen Press Tarcher/Putnam, New York: 2003 978-0773460157 HarperOne; 1 edition (October 24, 2006) 978-1585423330 978-0061227127 Abundance Solutions, Inc., 978-0-9783272-0-0 Chicago Review Press Ballantine; 1st Ballantine Books Trade paperback ed edition (1992) Harper Paperbacks (July 24, 2001) Random House, 1998 Carolina Academic Press 1556526725 No ISBN 978-0060959623 978-0679456025 978-0890899410 The Power of Appreciative Inquiry Berrett-Koehler Publishers, Inc. 9781576752265 Dorothy R Freeman, Couples in Conflict Open University Press 978-0335094226 Douglas Stone, Esq. & Bruce Patton (1999, Difficult Conversations Penguin 978-0140277821 Talking about Divorce & Separation: A Dialogue Between Parent & Earl Grollman Child Centering Corporation (September 1, 2005) 978-1561231553 Eckhart Tolle New World Library The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment 978-1577314806 Evan Imbar-Black Gail Shapiro Gary Craig Jason Aronson; New Ed edition (February Rituals for Our Times 28, 1998) Peaceful Colors--How to Prevent and Resolve Everyday Conflicts Using True Colors True Colors Inc., Publishing www.emofree.com EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) 978-0765701565 978-1893320314 No ISBN Gary Direnfeld Raising Kids Without Raising Cane Secrets of the Trade 1-895853-05-2 Gerald Monk , John Winslade, Narrative K. therapy in practice: The archaeology of hope Crocket, & D. Epston IACP Forum Booklist Jossey-Bass 978-0787903138 Page 2 Gerald Monk, John Winslade, & S. Sinclair New directions in multicultural practice HarlHarlyn Aizley, editor ConConfessions of the Other Mother: Nonbiological Lesbian Moms Tell All! Sage BeaBeacon Press, Boston: 2006 978-0807079638 Isolina Ricci Isolina Ricci James A. DiGabriele, Ed. Janet M. Wright Janet P. Brumley John Winslade & Gerald Monk Jon Kabat-Zinn Joy S. Whi tma n, Cyn dy J. Boy d, edit ors Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for your Child Mom’s House, Dad’s House for Kids Forensic Accounting in Matrimonial Divorce Lesbian Step Families: An Ethnography of Love Fireside; Revised edition (November 18, 1997) Fireside RT Edwards, Inc. Harrington Park Press, New York: 1998 978-0684830780 978-0743277129 978-1930217126 Divorce Without Disaster, Collaborative Law in Texas PSG Books, Dallas, TX 978-0789004369 978-0965927376 Narrative Mediation: A New Approach to Conflict Resolution Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life Jossey-Bass. 978-0787941925 Hyperion Books 1401307787 The Therapist’s Notebook for Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Clients: Homework, Handouts and Activities for Use is Psychotherapy The Haworth Clinical Practice Press, New York: 2003 978-0789012524 “Culture Change? A Tale of Two Cities and Mandatory CourtJulie Macfarlane Connected Mediation” Julie Macfarlane “The Merging Phenomenon of Collaborative Law” Julie Macfarlane The New Lawyer Karen Fagerstrom, with Diana Wild, Peggy Thompson, Rodney Nurse, Milton kalish, Nancy Ross & Thomas Wolfrum Divorce: A Problem to be Solved, Not a Battle to be Fought IACP Forum Booklist 2 Journal of Dispute Resolution (2002) 241 No ISBN (Dept of Justice Canada 2005) No ISBN (UBC Press 2007) No ISBN Brookwood Publishing (1997) 978-0965751940 Page 3 Karen Kahn Wilson Katherine Stoner Kenneth Cloke. Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler. L. Michelle LeBaron & Venashri Pillay LeBaron, Michelle and Venashri Pillay. (2006). LeBaron, Michelle. (2002). Transformational Divorce Divorce Without Court: A Guide to Mediation and Collaborative Divorce The Crossroads of Conflict: A Journey Into the Heart of Dispute Resolution New Harbinger Publications (October 2003) 978-1572243415 (Nolo, 2006) 978-1413304947 Janis Publications 2006 978-0973439694 Crucial Conversations McGraw Hill: 2002 978-0071401944 Conflict Across Cultures Conflict Resolution Across Cultures Intercultural Press 978-1931930222 Yarmouth, Maine: Intercultural Press. San Francisco: Jossey Bass Publishers. 978-1931930222 Bridging Troubled Waters: Conflict Resolution from the Heart 978-0787948214 San Francisco: Jossey Bass Publishers. LeBaron, Michelle. (2003). Bridging Cultural Conflict: A New Approach for a Changing World Leonard L. Riskin and James E. Westbrook. Dispute Resolution and Lawyers - American Casebook Series West; 3 edition (October 15, 2005) Women don’t ask: The high cost of avoiding negotiation - - and Linda Babcock positive strategies for change Bantam M. Rosenberg Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life Puddle Dancer Press Back Bay Books of Little, Brown and Company Malcolm Gladwell Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking Back Bay Books of Little, Brown and Company Malcolm Gladwell The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference The Art & Science of Coaching: The Inner Dynamics of Marilyn Atkinson Transformational Conversations Marshall B. Rosenberg and Arun Gandhi Melinda Blau Michael P Nichols Micki McWade Micki McWade Micki McWade Nancy Cameron IACP Forum Booklist 978-0787964313 978-0314253071 978-0553383874 978-1892005038 978-0316010665 978-0316346627 NonViolent Communication: A Language of Life: Create Your Life, Puddledancer Press; Second edition edition Your Relationships, and Your World in Harmony with Your Values (September 1, 2003) Families Apart: Ten Keys to Successful Co-Parenting Perigree Publishing, 1993 The Lost Art of Listening: How Learning to Listen Can Improve Relationships Guildford Press Daily Meditations for Surviving a Breakup, Separation or Divorce Sourcebooks, Inc. Getting Up, Getting Over, Getting On: a Twelve Step Guide to Divorce Recovery Sourcebooks, Inc. Healing You, Healing Me: A Divorce Support Group Leaders Guide Sourcebooks, Inc. Collaborative Practice: Deepening the Dialogue The CLE Society of British Columbia 978-1892005038 978-0399521508 978-0898622676 978-1891400322 978-1891400131 978-0877934837 1-55258-351-1 Page 4 Norman Fischer (one of our presenters) Pauline H. Tesler Pauline Tesler and Peggy Thompson Taking Our Places: The Buddhist Path to Truly Growing Up Collaborative Law: Achieving Effective Resolution in Divorce without Litigation Harper One 978-0060587192 American Bar Assn 978-1570739316 Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure HarperCollins Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with your Life 978-0061148002 When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times Pema Chödron Phil Penningroth Phyllis Beck Kriteck, (1994) Rabbi Sanford Seltzer Shambhala A Healing Divorce: Transforming the End of Your Relationship with Ritual and Ceremony Author House (January 1, 2001) Negotiating at an Uneven Table, A Practical Approach to Working With Difference and Diversity Jossey-Bass; 1st edition (March 1996) When There Is No Other Alternative: A Spiritual Guide for Jewish Couples Contemplating Divorce Urj Press (October 1, 2000) Richard Shields, Judith Ryan, Collaborative Family Law: Another Way to Resolve Family Victoria Smith Disputes The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions Robert Emery so You and Your Children Can Thrive Beyond Winning: Negotiating to Create Value in Deals and Robert H. Mnookin, Esq. Disputes How to Win Any Argument Without Raising Your Voice, Losing Robert Mayer Your Cool or coming to Blows Roger Fisher & Daniel Shapiro Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as You Negotiate Roger Fisher and Scott Brown Getting Together: Building Relationships as We Negotiate 978-1570623448 978-1587217937 978-0787902544 978-0807406465 Thompson Carswell 978-0459240431 Penguin Publishers LTD, 978-0670032877 Belknap Press of Harvard University Press 978-0674012318 Career Press 978-1564149206 Viking 0670034509 Penguin 978-0140126389 Roger Fisher, Esq.& William Ury Ronald M. Supancic with Dennis L. Baker Ronald M. Supancic, CFLS Sheila Gutterman Sherrie R. Abney Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement without Giving In Houghton Mifflin; 2 edition (April 30, 1992) 978-0395631249 “When All Else Fails: The Real Cost of Ending a Marriage” Win-Win Custody Agreements” Collaborative Law: a New Model for Dispute Resolution Avoiding Litigation, A Guide To Civil Collaborative Law 1986; Fleming H. Revell Company 0-8007-1474-1 E-Book 978-1883726959 978-1412074230 Bradford Publishing Co (2004) Trafford Publishing The Queer Parent’s Primer: A Lesbian and Gay Families’ Guide to New Harbinger Publications, Inc., Oakland: Navigating the Straight World 2001 Stephanie A. Brill Stephen Lewis IACP Forum Booklist Race Against Time House of Anansi Press 978-1572242265 978-0887847332 Page 5 Steven Keeva Stuart Webb & Ron Ousky Transforming Practices: Finding Joy and Satisfaction in the Legal Life McGraw Hill (2002) Hudson Street Press The Collaborative Way to Divorce Thin Book of Appreciative Inquiry Sue Annis Hammond Susan Belgard 978-0809225088 978-0452288355 Thin Book Publishing Company; 2nd edition (November 1998) 978-0966537314 “Creating Sustainable Positive Change: A Micro-training in Appreciative Inquiry”—1 hour CD+ notes (self-published) Susan Boyan Suze Orman Thich Nhat Hanh Cooperative Parenting and Divorce; A Parent Guide to Effective Co-Parenting Women and Money Creating True Peace: Ending Violence in Yourself, Your Family, Your Community, and the World Appreciative Intelligence: Seeing the Mighty Oak in the Acorn Tojo Thatchenkery and Carol Metzker Active Parenting Publishers Spiegel & Grau (February 27, 2007) Free Press of Simon and Schuster New York 978-1880283264 978-0385519311 Berrett-Koehler Publishers (May 2, 2006) 978-1576753538 978-0743245203 Mind Mapping Tony Buzan Vicki Carpel-Miller Vicki Carpel-Miller Wexler & Winick William Eddy William Eddy William Ury William Ury IACP Forum Booklist BBC Active Day After Day: The Price You Pay, Managing Your Second-Hand Janis Publications Shock 978 -0563520344 Second-Hand Shock Workbook Janis Publications 978-0-9815090-1-3 Carolina Academic Press Janis Publications 978-0890894088 0-9734396-4-5 Eggshells Press No ISBN (1993, Bantam, Doubleday Dell Pub) Bantam 978-0553371314 978-0553384260 Judging in a Therapeutic Key: Therapeutic Jurisprudence and the Courts High Conflict People in Legal Disputes Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist Getting Past No, Negotiating Your Way From Confrontation to Cooperation The Power of a Positive No: How to Say No and Still Get to Yes 978-0-9815090-0-6 Page 6