LeadStrong Diversity Leadership Retreat – Student Reflections What have you learned about yourself or others as a result of this experience? Many organized behavior Not take things for granted Our differences, but yet how similar we all are I’ve learned that others are open minded Where I stand I relation to others I definitely appreciate what I have now and I want to thank my parents Don’t judge people and just be aware of everyone around you I learned how it feels to be someone else Not to be judgmental, accept others as they are That I should work more on school because I am only 1% of the world I learned and saw proof of the people with different backgrounds We are who we are. Whether we are poor, rich, lower in status, etc. we should appreciate ourselves There is so much diversity even among my close friends that isn’t apparent on the outside How different our backgrounds are I made new relationships with people I hadn’t really interacted with before My ignorance is not a good thing. Awareness fixes things I realized that no matter how underprivileged I may feel, there’s others worse off than myself There are so many unique people in this group and we all come from different backgrounds I’ve learned a lot, actually, especially to understand that people are diverse and that you should realize and embrace these differences I learned that I’m not the only one who feels that diversity is important How naïve I am People in leadership positions are all of different backgrounds I have learned I want to be more diverse in my knowledge about cultures We have a lot of similarities as well as differences That I can help our campus grow in many ways Be open and listen That I’m pretty lucky to be where I am at today Nothing I didn’t learn in elementary school We have a variety of differences…you have o admit biases and prejudices of our own I’m lucky and blessed I am and how you can not judge a book by its cover That I am not proactive enough- not confident Cross cultural communication Even if it doesn’t change in one day, it’s worth it, some people do try to embrace diversity That so many people at school come from different places and surroundings that come to such a small school I made more friends and in turn became open That I am really open minded for the other cultures beliefs Everyone is different and comes from various backgrounds, perspective determines how and where you put yourself and shapes your attitude We are all different but shave so much Diversity is beautiful That a lot of people are interested in getting diversity to our campus I learned that our campus is a lot more diverse than I thought and that we all have many talents and abilities to share with one another Everyone is open and wants to help diversity That there are more people at CLU who care about this (diversity) than I thought I have learned about leadership traits and how to be a leader, respect Many different backgrounds compose CLU I am discriminated for my gender, I don’t really feel it but lots of other girls do I learned a lot about the various backgrounds of students at CLU I learned a lot but it wasn’t “painful” in a lecture style but I learned things in the scenarios without realizing it I am very hesitant to voice my opinion when I am not confident of my knowledge on the subject at hand I’ve learned that even though I consider myself open-minded I still have prejudices of my own We are all loving people, just need to check in sometimes Uneasy about speaking in large groups That I have some work to do on expecting other people to understand where I’m coming from before telling them about myself- people aren’t mind readers Even though we have different backgrounds we all need an equal opportunity of excelling and achieving the best in life I’ve learned that some issues relating to diversity make me uncomfortable because I’m not very knowledgeable about many issues- but I’ve learned ways to improve that and I’m looking forward to expecting that There’s both more and less diversity than we think. I am more aware than I thought and more educated than others That everyone is different and we need to come together There are many people on this campus as concerned about improving diversity on our campus as I am Not much. Most of the information was not new. It was nice to have discussions with other participants and know they face the same frustrations that I do at CLU I’ve become culturally aware, and also aware of issues that need to be addressed on campus I learned that I have more prejudices then I had originally believed I’ve learned that everybody no matter what race has struggle in their life The value of tolerance and acceptance Myself and others have many biases ‘To be more respectful toward others and realized that if a would be that I could learn a lot about myself and we would accomplish more as a group We are all alike and different in so many ways, which makes us all wonderful I learned that there are others in my situation that are not of my race I learned how privileged and somewhat biased I am. I learned a lot of people feel the same as me. I learned that we are all the same no matter what background we come from How to include diversity through programming That those who actually prosper are those of the powerful families but know your sources Problems can be solved without violence Many white students fear interacting with those who are different than them, and visa verse I learned to be more acceptable to others’ views and really take into consideration their story Being open-minded and aware is key There are many differences among similar people Be open to others’ ideas and beliefs that are around me That we do have a problem on this campus How will this retreat enhance your ability to lead on a diverse campus? Take risks and step out Hope to work with other organizations like the RA’s to put together great functions Will be able to bring diversity into my leadership skills Know others perspectives Definitely be more aware of my language and others Can accept others better without judging I’m more aware so I can make more change To be more proactive It will help a lot in the future to become a strong leader Have everything we learned in mind and share it with others It taught me a lot bring into certain situations on campus Be more open to interacting with others The skills I learned here withhold and carry over to school Make me think more about my actions It will help me approach students and get out of my comfort zone More diverse programs I will definitely remember the things I learned today I can share with various people It really opened my eyes to the uniqueness of the school and how different people are I’ll be more aware Make me feel much more at ease in knowing that others want diversity as well I will have more allies to help me spread today’s messages It will help me spread what I learned today to the people who couldn’t be here I met a lot of people that I am now more comfortable talking too It will help me focus on ethnicity more Encourage diversity on this more than usual It won’t, don’t make it mandatory, it just makes us resent coming! It has motivated me further to step outside my comfort zone and maybe go to some club meetings like BSU, LASO, etc. To appreciate others differences and to make an effort to connect Meet new diverse people and connections were made Stronger, more proactive person/leader Ability to interact freely Don’t know It will help me to continue my efforts in improving diversity coming together and making others welcome Be more open minded and excited to spread the word I will be more comfortable and I will be able to take charge on leadership Understanding of others thoughts and opinions About the same as before, because I already do Understanding and addressing sensitivities of different cultures By having more confidence to lead people towards diversity The retreat helped me to see the importance of being aware of others. I will take greater responsibility to more inclusive Welcome more people and talk to those I meet today It had refreshed my perspectives It will help me to reach out to other students, know how to create activities on campus that can make our campus more diverse It gave me some good ideas about programming Be aware of others thoughts It has made me aware of the seriousness of the lack of integration at CLU Make me more aware, more desire to take chances I will more aware of the thoughts and perspectives of minority students I think I’ll be better able to address issues as I them arise I am not alone, I have a different perspective that is much needed at CLU It helps me to remember that diversity is not just by race or ethnicity Know how to approach people in a less offensive manner, know how to embrace diversity It has made me so much more aware that I’m not the only one who things a certain way and that so many others on this campus are as excited as I am to learn about differences, than we can all learn from each other Not too much, it was like an intro course when many of us could have facilitated such a retreat. To be effective for the self selecting attendees of such trainings, we need to go more in depth and be give realistic applications and examples of how to implement them It will make it better to enhance experience on campus Knowing more people and knowing more about people can help me network This retreat has encouraged me to be a stronger leader and to speak up about issues I have with diversity and the awareness of it. I will be more willing to step out of my comfort zone even if it is a smile towards a stranger I will try to sit with someone outside my race Made me more aware, more familiar Give me a broader perspective on different people’s lives and how to react towards them Maybe make me step out from my safety box Break down barriers By learning to take others opinion into consideration when talking about issues This will help me cross cultural barriers It introduced me to other people on campus; this would be a good program for all freshmen to participate in before school begins. Gave me insight and great ideas on how to include diversity in my activities Learn to keep quiet be careful what you say In unwritten ways I will be more open It made me not just think of what I can do but want to take action Connects me to others that are interested in taking diversity awareness back to campus Opened my eyes and shown ways to connect Make a better person I don’t think it will, just made me more aware