The debate on abortion by Aisake Casimira Some years back, there was a movie titled “If These Walls Could Talk”. Cher and Sissy Spacek were among the cast. The movie depicted three developments on the debate regarding abortion and provided a good backdrop to discussing the issue. The first, was centred on the reality of abortion – high-risk abortions were happening in the backyard. The second, focussed on family discussions about abortion, but more generally on sex education of young people. The third stage was the legalisation of abortion and the anti-abortionist protests. In the third stage, Cher was a doctor who ran her own abortion clinic but was having internal conflicts over the abortion stance she took. The recent tragic death of a young lady, as a result of an abortion gone wrong is indeed very sad. Yet, as the women’s organisations pointed out, this was one of many that was done privately and secretly with many risks involved. Hence, it is quite understandable that they and a relative of the deceased young woman called for the legalisation of the practice. Women who have undergone abortion, have tragic stories to tell; stories of perhaps lost opportunities, a chance to care and share love and warmth with another human being and the joy of seeing a child grow to be the person she or he is meant to be. Moreover, there are also stories of cold rejection by families, communities and society, and stories of perpetual living in shame under the unforgiving eye of family and society. In short, these are stories of shattered hopes and dreams of what could have been or could be for the mother, the unborn child and society. But such decisions are never easy for a woman to make, in light of the social consequences and the options available for the mother and the unborn child. It is always a dramatic and profound experience that leaves a deep wound on a woman, which continues to bleed for the rest of her life. Those who receive support from their families and/or partners have the opportunity to re-build confidence in life and in their own abilities to face the world again. Women who find themselves in situations of poverty would ask whether it is worth living in a social environment that is often cold and un-loving. “Is it right to subject my child to poverty and a cruel existence which she or he does not deserve? Where is the dignity in that? Would it be better for me to spare the unborn child such cruelty? Could I love and care for this child or will I hate it since my pregnancy is unplanned or a result of rape, molestation?” Hence, an abortion is not always a matter of expediency in order to promote a professional career, although there may be some cases where such is the motive. For many women, it is always a heart wrenching decision that they have to make. The point that was consistently argued by the women’s organisations is that women have the right to free choice as much as men do – the right to vote, to participate in politics, to equal opportunities to education and employment, to marry and have family, and to have sex or not. This claim can no longer be contested, except perhaps from some extreme religious elements that would prefer to limit women’s potential to housekeeping, rearing children and being subservient to men. This is a result of much hard work by women’s organisations the world over which saw the birth of the UN Convention for the Elimination of Discrimination Against Women or 1 CEDAW. The document legally recognises women as equal partners in development and in building a more compassionate and just world. Such recognition gives women the social space to help shape a society that is safe and free of violence, and a society that recognises their potential and in making a unique contribution to its development. It also affords them the political and legal space to advocate against all forms of discrimination and violence. Yet the struggle still goes on in many countries for full recognition. The other argument, which is an extension of the right to free choice, concerns the claim that women have the right over their bodies. A parallel example of this extension is the “right” to take one’s life as in the case of euthanasia. However, in this case, the claim that women have the right to their own bodies is made in the context that women are always the victims of sexual and/or physical abuse in a relationship or in the case of rape. The claim further gives them the opportunity to celebrate their femininity and their humanity, and help to dispel the myths about themselves, myths that are conditioned by a dominant male society. This claim is also extended to pregnancy where they claim the right over the body of the unborn child because it is the woman who carries the child in her body and on whom the survival of the child is dependent. Moreover, as pointed out by the women’s organisations, there is also the economic factor. They argued that for many poor women, poverty is a major contributing factor to them choosing to have high health risk abortions. It is assumed that by legalising it and making it available to all women at an affordable price, many would not have to resort to unsafe and high-risk abortions. It would seem that the objective is to provide a practice that is safe and poses less health risks for the woman. The women’s stance on the legalisation of abortion acknowledges that unsafe abortions are happening in our midst and will continue to happen and in this respect, women need to be provided with a safe and risk service irrespective of whether one condones the practice or not. This is a reality that all concerned with abortion need to acknowledge. On the other hand, there are many who believe that abortion is wrong, because it takes away a human life, which according to their cultural and religious teachings, is immoral. They would argue that irrespective of how one describes an unborn child, it is still a human being and as such has the right to protection and a safe environment to develop and grow. They would further argue that since the unborn child bears the image of God, no person or state has the right to determine whether the unborn child lives or dies. One would also argue that a distinction between the right to free choice and whether or not that right affords one to put one’s life and that of another human person in grave danger, needs to be made. But often times the two issues are considered as closely linked in the abortion debate that the right to free choice also means the “right” to abortion, although this may not be so. But the fact that there is no clear distinction leaves society and/or groups to interpret and apply to suit whatever the agenda may be. Moreover, while one would concede to the view that women may have the “right” over their bodies, it is a “fictitious right” meaning that it is a “right” that can not be legally enforced or extended to claim the right over the body of an unborn child. At best when applied to justify abortion the relationship the woman has with her unborn child becomes an abusive and violent one; one that is similar to a man who abuses the relationship he has with his children and/or wife. The point of inconsistency lies in the fact that if women condemn (and rightly so) the abusive treatment of women (which at times result in tragic deaths), what about the 2 abusive treatment of an unborn child in the case of abortion? One needs to recognise the anomalies even when one concedes to or supports the argument that women have the “right” over their bodies. Therefore, one would argue that during times of pregnancy, a woman’s right over her body may be seen as subsidiary because there are now two bodies and two lives to consider or more in the case of twins or triplets of which the woman has no right of claim over. The argument that abortion should be legalised because it would provide a safe and less-risk service to women, is less convincing. One of the unfortunate realities is that society often values and grades human life according to its economic worth and productivity. In most societies, it is normally those at the top of the economic ladder who are often looked upon as models of success and achievement. In this case, if a rich woman could afford a safe and risk free abortion, it is almost expected that women at the lower end of the economic ladder should be able to aspire to such services. However, in reality many poor women cannot afford the service even if it is legalised which raises the question on who really benefits from the service. Moreover, such an argument plays into the hands of those who uphold the view that human beings are seen purely as objects of economics – the purpose of the human person is to maximise profits. A good example of this is the cloning of the human person and the potential million-dollar industry it could create. Society is built on the hopes and dreams of people, people who aspire to be the persons they ought to be and in return leave a legacy on which future generations could build their hopes and dreams. Pragmatism is good only insofar as there are hopes and dreams to guide and give it meaning. In the case of abortion, a woman’s shatter dream and the unfulfilled hopes of an unborn child leave society poorer and the wound deeper. Society has an inherent dignity because it consists of human beings who, according to Christian teaching, bear the imprint of God. A society’s dignity refers to the care a society has for all its citizens and in seeing that its resources are shared and used for the betterment of all. It is a value in itself and the work for the promotion of that dignity should result in greater compassion, unity, justice and inclusivity. Perhaps then, the question for society, Churches, women and all those concerned with abortion is whether the dignity of women and society is promoted or demeaned. Whether abortion is right or wrong, it leaves a gaping wound in society in as much as it leaves a lasting wound in the life of the woman. The wound for society is how could it allow and/or condone conditions where many women are left with very little options but to take away a life. It is a wound of not being compassionate and understanding when needed to be and not being there for those who needed its comfort and assurance that such tragic choices need not made. In this respect, society has much to be forgiven, as to forgive because this is a gift. This may be a common ground for mutual sharing among all those who are concerned with abortion. Perhaps, in coming together to share the experience of being deeply wounded, society, the Churches and women may become deeply aware of their own human inadequacies. And perhaps become more “wounded healers” rather than “wounded aggressors” that would strike back with threats of fire and brimstone or forever live in shame and condemnation of one another. *Aisake Casimira is the Director of the Ecumenical Centre for Research, Education and Advocacy (ECREA) 3 Article first appeared in The Fiji Times, 4 April 2003 4