It’s Hard Being Young, Wealthy, and Good Looking David M. Abercrombie March 20, 2003 History, Theory, and Practice of Expository Writing Introduction Near the Emory Village in Decatur live three young, wealthy, attractive men. Hayes Moody is a 24-year-old man who grew up in Decatur. He is a college graduate with his degree in history from the College of Charleston. He recently nailed down a steady job with the Coke-A-Cola Company in the advertising department. Hayes father buys, renovates, and rents houses. Hayes mother is an artist. Hayes has one brother, Miles, who lives in Atlanta and works as an insurance investigator. Hayes is single and looking. Hayes has always been well off and his father routinely deposits funds into Hayes checking account when the balance gets low. Kevin Pupuis is a 25-year-old day trader with an investment firm in Atlanta. Kevin was born in New York, attended College of Charleston, receiving a Business Degree, and moved to Atlanta while pursuing work. Kevin is in a steady relationship. While in college Kevin was on an athletic scholarship for baseball, he was being scouted by professional scouts until he blew out his shoulder. Michael Lee is a 24-year-old product rep with Muzuno, a sporting goods firm with an office in Cumming. Mike grew up in Decatur near the Veterans Administration Hospital with his sister and parents. A few years ago, Mike’s parents spit up and his father came out of the closet. Mike’s sister is in the Army and attending Georgia College and State University. Michael graduated from Western Carolina University and moved back to the Atlanta area for work. Michael is seriously dating a young lady and contemplating marriage. Of the three Michael is the closest to a self made man, he did internships with the Atlanta Braves and Carolina Panthers before working for Muzuno. These three folks spend most of their time drinking, parting, and playing PlayStation2 football. Their world is for the most part separate and walled off from the world of real people. Poor and neglected portions of our society are not their concern, for them life is simple and easy. In short they are the kings of tomorrow, those who have been groomed for success and fortune. Background The argument can be made, and made well, that these type people, rich, young, and oblivious can’t teach us anything. I say they can. They can teach us the future. President Bush, Mr. Al Gore, they both grew up in the same environment as these young men. Our future leaders will probably come from the same stock. A look at how these people grow and think is a way for us to look at how our future leaders learn and grow. Methodology To follow and get an insight on these young men I all but lived with them. I stayed at their house, I went to parties, and hung out with them. It should be said that Hayes is a good friend of mine, I hang out with these guys on a regular basis. I am close to both he and Michael. I tried to not color my representation of these folks even though I am their friend. By staying with these people I believe I got a better understanding of their day to day lives. Discoveries I learned that money, privilege, and time are deadly combinations. Hayes, Michael, and Kevin, especially Hayes are invincible. They find themselves partying and slacking and still on top of the world. I discovered that when consequences are not an issue then actions no longer are measured and thought out. Conclusion We all must play the hand that is dealt us. We can’t blam the homeless man for playing his hand and we can’t blame the rich man for playing his. I spent six days with Hayes, Michael, and Kevin. They are all playing their hands. And if I was in their situation I’m not sure if I would be all that different. I drank, talked, and played with these guys, for all their flaws, pride, prestige and stupidity they are good people. David M. Abercrombie March 11, 2003 English Field Notes Subject Introduction: Hayes Moody is a 24-year-old young man who grew up in Decatur and still lives there today. He is a college graduate with a major in history from the College of Charleston. He recently nailed down a steady job with the Coke-ACola Company in the advertising department. Hayes father buys, renovates, and rents houses. Hayes mother is an artist. Hayes has one brother, Miles, who lives in Atlanta and works as an insurance investigator. Hayes is single and looking. Hayes has always been well off and his father routinely deposits funds into Hayes checking account when the balance gets low. Kevin Pupuis is a 25-year-old day trader with an investment firm in Atlanta. Kevin was born in New York, attended College of Charleston, receiving a Business Degree, and moved to Atlanta. Kevin is in a steady relationship. While in college Kevin was on an athletic scholarship for baseball, he was being scouted by professional scouts until he blew out his shoulder. Michael Lee is a 24-year-old product rep with Muzuno, a sporting goods firm with an office in Cumming. Mike grew up in Decatur near the Veterans Administration Hospital with his sister and parents. A few years ago, Mike’s parents spit up and his father came out of the closet. Mike’s sister is in the Army and attending Georgia College and State University. Michael graduated from Western Carolina University and moved back to the Atlanta area for work. Michael is seriously dating a young lady and contemplating marriage. Of the three Michael is the closest to a self made man, he did internships with the Atlanta Braves and Carolina Panthers before working for Muzuno. Day One 2/28/2003 I arrived at Hayes, Michael, and Kevin’s house about 6:00pm. Kevin was just waking up. He goes in to work at 4 and gets off at 1, so he just goes back to the house and rests. Hayes called be and said he was running late because of traffic but he’d be there soon. Michael would be home shortly. I cracked open a beer and sat down by the TV to wait. Hayes got to the house around 7. Michael was already there and we decided to play PlayStation2 NCAA Football I was leading 23-17 when Hayes got home. Hayes jumped in the shower followed by Michael and we went to Moe’s and Joe’s in the Highlands. Moe’s and Joe’s is one of the oldest bar’s in the Highland’s, its signature beer is Pabst Blue Ribbon. It sits almost on the corner of North Highland and Virginia. As you walk into the bar a bar runs almost the entire length of the right side of the building, it’s one of those old style dark wood thick, heavy bars. About 30 beer stools line the bar, the rest of Moe’s is filled with 7 booths on the left and tables down the middle. Also a new jukebox, one of those connected to the net so any number of songs can be picked. We started to tie one on for the long haul, but we heard about a party over at Halo. So Hayes, Michael, and I finished the pitchers we were working on and found our way to the car. We were traveling in Hayes car tonight, a late 80’s Jeep with more problems than a French victory plan, but it was as reliable as a French surrender. So, we drove down to Halo, and by this time it was 10 and the crowd was just starting to get in to it. We sat around a little taking in the scenery and vibe putting a nipple on our beers. Halo is a trendy bar/club. It is built in between a hotel and a parking deck, and the bar is just fit into the space, in the right corner of the bar a set of cement stair runs up in to the ceiling. The bar at Halo isn’t that big it is more one of those bars that folks go to so that they can look good and have people look at them looking beautiful. After about an hour at Halo we decided to hit the road. We went up to Northside and I-75 to the Georgia Tech Waffle House. The GT Waffle House is just a normal Waffle House decorated in Old Gold and Blue, some of the Georgia Tech Colors. We got some nice filling sustenance and felt much less drunk. Then we walked across the parking lot to the Diamond Club, the strip club that use to be the Mousetrap. The Diamond Club is a windowless stacked stone structure. For a strip club it actually looks almost classy. As you walk in the bouncer stands in the doorway, the bar is directly behind him. It’s a short bar with just enough room for 15 folks. On the left side of the building is the private rooms and one of the minor stages. On the right is the main stage and that’s about it. It was 1:30 and the place was teaming with people. We hung around there, Michael sweet-talked the bar tender in to some free and reduced drinks, we tipped the girls and had our fun. Then at 4 we said our good byes and left. We headed back to the house and sat around for a while longer until one by one we each dosed off to sleep. I slept on the couch, which surprisingly was not too uncomfortable. Day Two 3/1/03 Hayes had to umpire a youth baseball game Saturday morning at noon. Hayes makes some extra money on the side by umpiring games, it is good money to be had if you know the rule book and he does. Baseball is a passion shared by Kevin, Michael, Hayes and myself. Hayes shook me awake at 11 and asked me to drive him out to the ball field, so I did. We took my truck. The game went well, I was told, I slept through it. We headed back to the house and when we got their Kevin and Michael were arguing. That is apparently not an unusual happening. The problem was that Kevin refuses to clean dishes. Kevin is convinced that if all the dishes in the sink aren’t his then he doesn’t have to clean. It goes so far as to after Kevin cooks, and piles the sink high with pots, pans, utensils, and dishes if Hayes or Michael puts a cup in the sink Kevin wont clean, cause he says they added to the mess. Also Kevin was going to be late by a week on the rent, which isn’t really a problem cause the house is owned by an old family friend of the Moodys. However, Kevin is late a lot, and he has the money to pay. It is just more convenient for Kevin to wait a week. So the argument started to rage, I’ve seen this before and I didn’t need to get drawn in to an argument of this magnitude. After all three guys who haven’t really ever tasted the hardships of life take stuff like dishes, and unimportant stalled rent very seriously. I grabbed my hat and said good-bye. Hayes asked if I was coming over for the race tomorrow I said yes. Day Three 3/2/03 The race was in Las Vegas. Vegas is a rather boring track, it is classified as a flat track. Now it isn’t flat, but it isn’t banked as much as places like Atlanta, Charlotte, or Texas. Because of the time difference it didn’t start until 2 so I finally got over to Hayes house at 1:30. On the way I grabbed 2 12 packs of Coors Light. I got Coors Light cause of Sterling Marlin; he drives the Coors Light Dodge. I also will drink Miller Lite, because Rusty Wallace is now in a Dodge. But during a race I wont drink Bud, Dale Earnhardt Jr. drives that car and I don’t like him. But while I’m out I will drink Bud Light cause Tim McGraw endorses that product. We sat down and started watching the race, it was just the two of us cause Michael was with his girlfriend and Kevin was with some other of his friends. Hayes and I sat in mostly silence as we are apt to do, drinking beer and watching the race. With about 100 laps left we ran to the store and got 2 6 packs and ran home. Matt Kenseth finally won. We stumbled over to the PlayStation2 ordered a pizza and played football for about 3 hours. I got up said good-bye around 11. It didn’t do much good Hayes was passed out in the chair beside me. Day Four 3/5/03 Trivia day. Hayes and I, along with a good many of our friends get together in different places on Wednesdays to play trivia. This week we played out in Douglasville at the Taco-Mac. Taco Mac in Douglasville is a sports bar. A big, great sports bar. Jerseys, car hoods, helmets, hats, autographs, baseballs, footballs TV screens, you name it they got. Even an upstairs, that’s an over 21 pool hall. Right next door is a dance club that could be in Atlanta, black lights, good dance floor but it is more likely to be playing 80’s rock and country than hip hop. Trivia starts at 9, I got there at 8 to go ahead and get a table and eat. The wings are real good. Hayes showed up around 8:45 and the rest of the crew, about 10 people, rolled in at a little after 9. We went through beer like it was water but it seems in large groups that almost always happens. At the end of the night the 13 of us knocked down 30 pitchers of beer We didn’t play very well which I’m not sure if that can be explained by the beer or such a large group. Michael got to Taco-Mac about 10:30, Kevin showed about 11. We walked next door to a dance club called Club-Mac. We danced, drank, and chilled until it closed up about 2:30. I invited Hayes and everybody to just come and crash at my house. But it turns out that Michael’s girlfriend was acting DD so we drove out to my house, dropped off the cars and they headed off. Day Five 3/7/03 I got a call at work and it was Kevin. One of Kevin’s friends was going to have a house party and he told me where it was and when to get there. Hayes called about an hour later, he asked if I would drive Michael’s car and be DD. I said I would, and so the plans were set. The party was in Lawrenceville, I got to Hayes house at 7, we proceeded to criss-cross Atlanta pilling folks into Michael’s Denali. Michael’s Denali is white with some odd looking rims. And as I found out that night Denali’s fit 12 folks comfortably. After I think we picked up half of Atlanta, we headed up I-85 to Lawrenceville. We finally got to a house that looked as if Bush heard it had oil and sent in the Army. This place was a wreck. At the party, I stood on the porch and drank coffee with the rest of the DD’s while what sounded like a great party raged behind me. The police showed up 3 times to tell us to turn it down, clean it up, and finally shut it down. One reason the DD’s were out on the porch was so that when officers showed up the few sober folks could do the talking. So at 5 I made my way through the crowd picking up the folks I remembered rode with us. Our trip back was much less crowded than our trip in. Over half our group had either gone home with other folks or had decided to spend the night at the house where the party was. That was fine with me, the less drunk people in the car the better I say. So I dropped off everybody and finally returned to Hayes house as the sun crept over the skyline of Atlanta. I was dead tired and crawled onto the couch and passed out. Day Six 3/9/03 Hayes, Michael, Kevin and I watch the race. We were going to go down to the race but couldn’t grab any free tickets. So, we held up in the house and watched the race. Kevin and Michael don’t know a lot about racing so unlike when just Hayes and I watch the race this time it was filled with chatter, Hayes and I explained what was going on and almost just kept a running commentary. We had gone ahead and gotten a keg for the race. Miles brought the keg over. About half way through the race, Michael’s girlfriend came over joined by mine. By the time the race and post game show were over, we were pretty well tanked. We set up a PlayStation2 football tournament and partied well into the night.