10: Psychological Support of Thalassaemia Why is psychological support so important? It is now universally recognized that thalassaemia, like other chronic diseases, has important psychological implications. The way in which the family and the patient come to terms with the disease and its treatment will have a critical effect on the patient’s survival. Without an understanding and acceptance of the disease and its implications by patients and family, the difficulties of lifelong transfusion and chelation therapy will not be faced, leading to an increased risk of disease complications and poorer survival. A key role for doctors and other health care professionals is to help patients and families face up to the difficult demands of treatment. Monthly contact with the thalassaemia centre allows doctors and other members of the team to act as a reference point for the patient’s overall state of health. This regular interaction also provides the doctor with a good opportunity to promote the patient’s physical, emotional and social development. Management of thalassaemia is based on the therapeutic alliance between doctor and patient throughout the course of the disease. Because of the objective and diseaseoriented emphasis of medical education, many doctors find it difficult to come to terms with the psychological demands of treating chronic inherited diseases. This can be made more difficult for the doctor because patients with thalassaemia often express strong negative feelings, which can hamper communication. Furthermore, after many years of treatment, patients and family are often better informed about the illness than non-specialist clinicians, which some doctors may feel undermines their perceived role. All of these factors can make honest, in-depth communication, which is vital to successfully coping with thalassaemia, extremely difficult to maintain. The psychology of inherited chronic disease Every genetic disease implies, regardless of its aetiology, a sense of guilt. This may interfere with the primary parent-infant relationship. As its clinical manifestations develop in the first year of life, the disease can have also a negative impact on the parent-child relationship. Moreover, the treatment is emotionally demanding, as transfusion and chelation therapy require repeated invasive procedures and hospital visits. Because thalassaemia major typically “starts” during the first year of life and requires a monthly follow up, it allows the center doctor to take on many of the characteristics of the traditional “family doctor,” as guardian of the patient’s overall wellness – both physical and psychological. Chronicity is a strong font of emotional problems that intensify at each significant developmental stage of the patient’s life. Patients can feel that they are different, limited, or isolated. Their state of mind can shift rapidly from 69 depression to anger and vice versa. The doctor must be prepared to accept this shift and to help them deal with these feelings. Communication by health care professionals with patients This should include as far as possible: Listening – to be interested in the patient’s emotional and real experiences Accepting – both respecting the patient’s point of view and being sensitive in the timing of personal communication Sharing – being consistently close to the patient’s positive and negative feelings as human being. Understanding – not simply at an intellectual level but at the emotional one Maintaining boundaries – giving help and relief, but keeping in mind his/her role as a physician Settings and methodology for discussion are important all along the course of the disease, but are mandatory at crucial milestones in the patient’s experience: diagnosis first transfusion start of chelation puberty serious complications This type of interaction can be extremely beneficial for the patient, helping him/her to cope better with thalassaemia and to maintain a sense of balance. It can also be extremely rewarding for the physician, both in medical and emotional terms. If the doctor manages to maintain a constant dialogue, s/he can often find in thalassaemic people skills greatly surpassing those of their peers when facing the great challenges of life such as birth/death, love/loneliness, and possibilities/limits. Coming to terms with the diagnosis The day of diagnosis is usually recalled by parents as shocking and overwhelming. To assist them in coping with this distressing information, communication about the diagnosis has to be done within a specific setting: The room and time should be chosen to provide an atmosphere that will sustain hopes without deluding or depressing. The doctor should discuss the diagnosis with both parents together, allowing ample time to listen to their concerns and respond to questions. 70 Information must be sincere, complete, and repeated as often as needed. The weight of negative emotions may be so great that parents may appear confused even after complete information has been given more than once. In the months following diagnosis, the discussion must be renewed, with the same attention to the setting, and preferably with the same doctor to preserve continuity. The child has to be included as soon as possible. From as early as three to five years of age, young patients begin to ask crucial questions about duration of care and possibilities of recovery. These should be dealt with sensitively and honestly. Psychological impact of anemia and transfusion Serious anemia will cause the patient to feel weak and vulnerable. Maintaining an adequate haemoglobin level through optimal transfusion therapy (see Chapter 3) eliminates these symptoms and reduces the patient’s anxiety about death. However, the decrease in haemoglobin during the transfusion interval may allow these symptoms to recur. This gives the patient the experience of instability and doubt about his/her physical capabilities. The need for periodic transfusions testifies that vital energy comes from other people, which implies dependence. This therapy does not cure; it merely compensates as a monthly “patch” for the anemia, giving life and well-being but also carrying the damaging by-products of viruses and iron, which necessitate additional treatment. This combination of advantages and disadvantages of transfusion finds a parallel in patents’ psychological reactions to their treatment. Multiply transfused patients can experience both positive feelings such as gratitude and negative ones of being contaminated or ruined. Psychology of chelation therapy The doctor should be very familiar with the emotional aspects of chelation, as compliance with therapy determines prognosis. Chelation is a psychologically demanding treatment as it is “the patch of another patch”; it partially treats the complications of another treatment (transfusion). Like transfusion, it is a reminder of one’s illness, but on a daily basis. Optimal chelation starts during the first years of life. It implies a small act of aggression, either self-directed or inflicted by the patient’s loved ones. Skin punctures from the needles cause body image damage. The patient may feel “as full of holes as a colander.” 71 Time and movement restrictions related to use of the pump generate feelings of being different and limited. Effectiveness of the drug cannot be checked quickly and directly by the patient. So compliance is a function of trust; that is to say, it reflects the quality of the doctor-patient relationship and a belief in long-term benefits. These emotionally distressing aspects of chelation may give rise to a counterproductive tendency on the part of the patient with thalassaemia, the parents, and even the treating physician to tacitly encourage non-compliance with therapy in order to avoid negative psychological states. Parents may: Not yet have overcome the shock of diagnosis. Administering the infusion can be painful since they feel responsible for their child’s discomfort. Use chelation as a control tool when the child reaches adolescence. Patients may: Realise only after many years of poor chelation how harmful iron overload can be. Allow themselves a state of ‘denial’ of the links between poor compliance and mortality. Adopt attitudes of out-and-out refusal, feeling “tortured” instead of cared for. Exploit any opportunity or excuse to skip that day’s infusion. Allow feelings of low self-esteem to harm their attitudes to self-care and self-treatment. Repeatedly select the same sites for needle insertion, allowing local reactions to become more frequent and severe. Physicians may: “Bargain” with the patient, prescribing a lower dose or frequency of desferrioxamine than indicated for the amount of iron loading. Be rigidly inflexible, insisting on prescribing and judging, reprimanding or even threatening the patient. While the underlying motivation for these reactions is generally a desire to provide relief from the patient’s discomfort and to make him/her feel better, the long term effects of such behaviour are harmful for the patient’s physical health and emotional well-being. 72 Recommendations: Define and resolve the practical aspects of optimal chelation (see Chapter 5). Pay due attention to the psychological aspects, as underestimating these undermines the effectiveness of the doctor-patient relationship and treatment failure increases. Promote the shift from parent to patient management as early as possible. Many patients with thalassaemia can begin to take control of their medication regimen from 6 years of age. The early initiation of self-management limits overprotection and stimulates autonomy in the young patient. It also gives relief to the parents and ultimately improves the quality of life of the whole family. Encourage patients to feel a sense of reward for achieving mutually agreed therapeutic goals. Remember that long-term high compliance fosters good capability and self-reliance and is a key positive factor in maintaining emotional wellbeing. Psychological impact of disease complications In thalassaemia, a serious complication such as cardiopathy or diabetes may appear during adolescence or young adulthood. The patient undergoes a period of psychological readjustment, as s/he must try to integrate the hopes, enthusiasm and wishes typical of youth with a damaged physical state and medical features typical of old age. In such a situation, the inadequately supported patient may feel “hopelessly ruined”, giving up on health and continued therapy. Even in very serious cases, it is still possible to deal with suffering by sharing and working together to find ways of accepting the new limits set by the situation. The doctor should encourage the patient to keep on caring, even when the complication suggests a poor prognosis for survival. Summary of psychological goals These are: To provide information which promotes understanding of the illness To help the patient and parents to talk and express feelings about the illness To help the patient accept the illness and take care of himself To maintain realistic hopes To facilitate a “normal” lifestyle and to encourage self esteem. 73 To put in practice these tasks, the doctor should be: Open minded about psychological aspects of having and treating inherited disease Trained in normal psychosocial development from childhood to adulthood Sensitized regarding special issues of this chronic hereditary disease Available to accompany and support the patient all along his life path. It is clearly not possible for a doctor to provide the latter support if the organisation of the healthcare system does not allow him or her the opportunity to work with patients on a long-term basis. The ‘rotation’ of experienced doctors to different centres, or the moving of patients to a different clinic at an arbitrary age, can seriously undermine a patient’s psychological well-being, treatment and prognosis. Appropriate psychological support therefore not only requires motivated and able clinicians, but also presupposes an organisational structure which allows the successful delivery of optimal and comprehensive care. 74