UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program UCLA Department of Psychology Megan E. Daly Infant Development Program Parent Handbook 1 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program TABLE OF CONTENTS General Description ............................................................................................................................................................ 2 Group Care .................................................. 3 Research ..................................................... 3 Staff ............................................................. 3 Accredidation .............................................. 3 Program ....................................................... 3 Summary ..................................................... 3 Statement of Philosophy .................................................................................................................................................... 4 Guidelines and Procedures for Admission .......................................................................................................................... 6 Tuition Policy ...................................................................................................................................................................... 7 Hours ........................................................... 7 Payment ...................................................... 8 Fees ............................................................. 7 Late Fees: Tuition ....................................... 8 Financial Assistance ..................................... 7 Late Fees: Pick-Up ...................................... 8 Registration Fee .......................................... 7 Drop-In Care ............................................... 8 Deposit ........................................................ 7 UCLA Affiliation ........................................... 8 Absences and Refunds ................................ 8 Calendar .............................................................................................................................................................................. 9 Daily Health Check ............................................................................................................................................................ 10 Medication Policy ............................................................................................................................................................. 11 Emergency Policies and Information ................................................................................................................................ 12 Medical Emergency Policy ......................... 12 Earthquake Policy ..................................... 12 Fire Policy .................................................. 12 Your Child’s Earthquake Kit .............................................................................................................................................. 12 Nutrition ........................................................................................................................................................................... 13 Storing and Preparing Expressed Breast Milk ................................................................................................................... 14 A Day at IDP ...................................................................................................................................................................... 15 Daily Schedule ........................................... 15 Daily Routines for IDP Parents .......................................................................................................................................... 16 Sign-in/Sign-out ......................................... 16 Picking Up Your Baby from IDP ................. 16 Saying Goodbye to Your Baby at IDP ......... 16 Words to Avoid with Infants and Toddlers: Enhancing Self-Esteem ................................................................................ 17 IDP, A - Z............................................................................................................................................................................ 18 Absence ..................................................... 18 “A Notebook for Two Voices” ................... 20 Birthdays and other special events ........... 18 Parent Board ............................................. 20 Caregivers .................................................. 18 Parent-Teacher Conferences .................... 20 Charts ........................................................ 18 Parking Permits ......................................... 20 Circle Time ................................................. 18 Primary Caregivers .................................... 20 Clothing and Diapers ................................. 19 Today We… ............................................... 21 Kitchen ...................................................... 19 Toddler Curriculum ................................... 21 Naps .......................................................... 19 Walks ........................................................ 21 Parent Participation .......................................................................................................................................................... 22 Ages and Stages ................................................................................................................................................................ 23 What do young infants do at IDP? ............ 23 What do older infants/toddlers do at IDP?23 What do mobile infants do at IDP? ........... 23 Discipline Policy ................................................................................................................................................................ 24 Kick Off Your Shoes! .......................................................................................................................................................... 25 Expectations for Ethical Conduct ...................................................................................................................................... 25 Grievance Procedures ....................................................................................................................................................... 26 2 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program GENERAL DESCRIPTION IDP Executive Director: Address: Phone: Email: Fernald Site Director: Address: Phone: Email: Teaching Staff: Helen Davis, Ed.D, M.S. in Ed. 1611 Franz Hall Los Angeles, CA 90095-1563 (310) 267-4993 (310) 206-5895 fax hmdavis@psych.ucla.edu Alma Cortés, M.S. in Ed. 320 Charles E. Young Drive North Los Angeles, CA 90095-1563 (310) 206-0633 (310) 206-0827 fax acortes@psych.ucla.edu Cynthia Chen B.S., Biology, Minor in Applied Developmental Psychology, UCLA IDP Fernald Intern Courtney Kumar M.S. Child Development, UC Davis B.A. Child Development, Minor in Psychology Lauren McCulloch B.A., Psychology, UCLA Minor in Applied Developmental Psychology IDP Fernald Intern Eileen Santos AA Santa Monica College 10 years of experience Tracy Zieve M.A., Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University B.S., Psychobiology, Minor in Applied Developmental Psychology, UCLA IDP Fernald Intern Linsee Crowley M.A., Child Development, Pacific Oaks College B.A. California State, Sacramento Child Development Major, Psych Minor Web site: http://www.psych.ucla.edu/Centers_Programs/idp/ 2 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program The Infant Development Program (IDP) is operated by the Psychology Department at the University of California, Los Angeles. The IDP has two primary functions: 1. to offer quality group care for infants and toddlers of the students, staff, and faculty of the Psychology Department and other departments on the UCLA campus, and 2. to serve as a teaching and research facility for the Psychology Department and UCLA community. GROUP CARE The program accommodates approximately 20 children (full-time equivalents), from 3 months to 3 years of age, at two sites. The IDP operates year-round from 7:30 am to 5:30 pm, Monday through Friday. It is closed for University administrative holidays. There are full-time (Monday - Friday) positions and part-time (2-day or 3-day) positions available. There is a substantial waiting list and faculty, students, and staff in the Psychology Department are given priority. Parents are advised to apply early (parents may apply as soon as they know they are pregnant). STAFF IDP has 8 staff members: one executive director, one site director, five full-time teachers, and one floater teacher. Each has extensive training and experience in early childhood education and developmental psychology. Additional staffing is provided by student interns. IDP has an unusually favorable adult: child ratio of 1:2 or better. PROGRAM The program is designed to benefit each child’s development. Although child development is often divided into categories of cognitive, social, emotional, and physical, in practice all these aspects are inextricably intertwined and must all receive careful attention. The child’s physical well-being, health, and safety are of first importance. Routines have been established to promote primary care. RESEARCH The IDP facilities are specifically set up to accommodate research and observation. There are observation rooms with one-way glass. The program is designed to accommodate both cross-sectional and longitudinal investigation of infants, toddlers, their parents, and caregivers. In enrolling their children in the program, parents agree to be available for research and teaching for a few hours a month. All research or teaching involving interaction with the infants requires specific consent from the parents. ACCREDIDATION In May 1996, IDP Franz became the first UCLA child care program to receive accreditation by the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC), in recognition of our high quality. IDP Fernald became accredited in January 2006. SUMMARY Since the IDP was established in May 1983. We served approximately 25 children and their parents each year and has trained an average of 30 students per quarter. The facility has also been used by instructors for demonstrating principles of developmental psychology in action and by researchers to study child development. The program has grown in its provisions for the children, and parents have shown their satisfaction and active support for the IDP. Students have also been excited about the opportunity to transfer book knowledge to real situations, and researchers have availed themselves of the accessibility of the facility. The advisory committee, together with the staff and parents, are continually working to refine the quality of the children’s program, and the teaching and research use of the IDP. 3 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program STATEMENT OF PHILOSOPHY This is an outline of the philosophy and goals of the UCLA Department of Psychology's Infant Development Program. Child development is often broken down into categories of cognitive, social, emotional, and physical, but since in practice these areas are inextricably intertwined, IDP focuses on all these aspects. Supporting the child's development by responding to her needs extends beyond the bare physical necessities. The adult makes faces at the baby and talks to her, responding to her faces and "talk". With an older child, the adult engages in more complex play and can help direct her to the solution of some problem she has encountered. All the while, the child is learning how she can control cause and effect in the physical and social universe. She also develops a sense of who she is, what qualities she has, through her interaction with what is outside herself. The emphasis again is on responsiveness rather than directiveness. This emphasis is not only founded on psychological research which indicates that the child has a strong natural motivation to understand and manipulate the things of her world, and to develop her potential skills; it is also founded on a non-selfish personal orientation, which looks to the child's own needs and self-identification, as they come from herself. A child's physical well-being and health are extremely important. The parents or caregivers must assure before all else that the child is safe and healthy. No development can occur without this. Moreover, the child has a very physical sense of the world. On such physical events as receiving nurturance, comfort, and safety and being held and cuddled a baby bases his development of trust and love, the beginnings of his personality and social development. The very small child's cognition is also tied to the concrete and physical. He develops a sense of the physical order of the universe, and forms his ideas of the rules and categorization of time, space, and objects. Hence safety, predictability, and order of the child's environment are particularly important. The physical setup of the IDP, the play equipment and the curriculum, are according to the idea of providing opportunity for selfmotivated growth. Play equipment is plentiful, various in color, texture, size and shape, and susceptible to varied and imaginative uses. The natural world--plants, earth, and the water-provides endless and excellent play possibilities. Providing children with the opportunity for growth means providing them with the appropriate activities and equipment at the right time. A child who shows by his selfassigned tasks during play that he is on the verge of mastering relative sizes of objects can be offered a nesting toy, but in a simplified form, giving him only three containers, the smallest, the largest, and an in-between. Mastering the art of providing the next-needed This good physical support base for the child's development is provided by people. People supply the nourishment, the protection, the holding, and the physical comfort that are so especially salient to the young child and infant. Caregivers who handle children well have developed an expertise in identifying a child's needs, according to the child's individuality, and fulfilling them quickly. They maintain an attitude of supporting the child's development, not providing it. 4 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program task for the children takes training and experience. It requires scientific attention to the small interim steps in a developmental sequence. Attention to these steps, however, also produces a genuine appreciation, even awe, of the triumphs achieved by the child. So the adult is Philosophy able to share with the child, not just through empathy but with a knowledgeable appreciation, his delight in his discoveries and accomplishments. of rules by themselves; other times the rule has to be given by the adult. In any case, finding a way to get along with others while respecting their own wishes is the principal aim, rather than the rule itself. Finding this way takes years, and like other aspects of development, it takes an individual path for each child; it cannot be forced. In sum, the basic principle of the IDP philosophy is that while children need a great deal of care and help, they are hardly helpless. They are largely self-motivated and self-directed in their development. They are naturally social, and naturally intelligent. They seek out tasks to develop their own skills. The adults' role is to provide the trustworthy, secure physical and emotional base from which the children conduct their reaching out into the world, and to offer them appropriate stimulation to growth. Opportunity for growth also comes very much from the children's spontaneous interactions with each other. Very young children show a high degree of social interest in each other, and anyone who has worked with them can cite examples of even a small baby "talking" with another child for a sustained period of time. This socialization can be encouraged by, first of all, recognizing its prevalence and importance. In small babies it is fostered by a general atmosphere of relaxation and enjoyment, and by free and warm interactions between babies and their adult caregivers. In older children, the above also holds true, but socialization can further be encouraged by presenting social opportunities: singing, music, story-telling, group snacks, housekeeping, building with blocks. Older children also need specific help with social skills. They need to be protected from situations which would lead to fights, such as pervasive over-excitement, tiredness, lack of toys, lack of adult attention, competitive games. They need to feel safe from being hurt or really exploited by another child. They need to be given the rules which people use to get along, such as waiting to use a toy until another child has finished with it, or sharing a toy, such as a box of crayons, which can be used by several children at the same time. Sometimes children will work out these kinds 5 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program GUIDELINES AND PROCEDURES FOR ADMISSION GENERAL GUIDELINES The Infant Development Program serves the functions of a research and teaching facility. The success of the program depends, in large part, on the parents and infants who participate. The goals of the program require: A. Parents who are sympathetic and supportive of the research and teaching activities of the IDP. Parents must understand that teaching and research are integral to this program. B. Parents who can participate actively in the program. Both teaching and research will be enhanced by frequent contact between parents and children in IDP. C. The stability of the cohort of children in the program is important. IDP will be operated on a yearround basis, and it is assumed that children accepted to IDP will participate for at least a year. D. A balance will be maintained in the age and gender mix of children in the center. Ethnic diversity is seen as desirable. To increase the total number of children participating in IDP, both full-time and part-time care will be available. E. A child will be placed on the waitlist by date of application. Priority is given to Psychology faculty and staff. SELECTION PROCEDURES Prospective parents will attend an orientation tour, during which an information and application packet will be distributed. Tours are held on the third Tuesday of the month, 9:45am -11:15am, and are open to a maximum of eight families. Advance sign-up is required online at http://www.uclaidp.info/. After the application fee is submitted, interested families may complete an application form online asking detailed questions about their child and their childcare needs. The application materials will explain the research and teaching goals of the program and will outline the requirements for parental participation in IDP. When an opening becomes available, eligible parents will be identified from the application records. When a child is admitted to IDP, parents will be provided with additional material about the program, and will be asked for additional information about the social and health history of their child. 6 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program TUITION POLICY HOURS IDP is open on weekdays from 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Children cannot be accommodated before or after operating hours. IDP is closed at the following times: University administrative holidays and UCLA closure days Three professional development days including the annual conference of the California Association for the Education of Young Children (CAEYC) for one staff planning day each quarter for one day in the fall for incoming ADP student orientation FEES Tuition is an annual fee that is divided into 12 payments for parents’ convenience. Children can enroll for full-time or part-time care. Fees are as follows: Hours of enrollment 9/2008 – 6/2009 Full-time 5 days/wk (M-F, 7:30 - 5:30) $1591/month Part-time 3 days/wk (M,W,F, 7:30 - 5:30) $1113/month Part-time 2 days/wk (T,TH, 7:30 - 5:30) $875/month While every effort is made to keep tuition at a reasonable level, parents should expect an annual increase each July. FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE The Megan Daly Memorial Scholarship is awarded by the IDP Advisory Committee to a family who demonstrates financial hardship. The recipient of this scholarship is selected by the committee and receives an award that is applied directly towards tuition at the IDP. the program. Parents are required to give 30 days’ written notice when they intend to leave the program. The deposit then serves as the last month's payment. If parents cannot give the full 30 days' notice, the deposit may be refunded in part if the child's place can be filled within the 30 days. REGISTRATION FEE A non-refundable registration fee of $100 is due at the time of enrollment. DEPOSIT A deposit equal to one month's fee is required at the time of enrollment, prior to beginning 7 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program Late arrivals are charged $15 for each 15 minutes or fraction thereof. IDP/Franz uses the time displayed on the clock on the wall in the big room, and IDP/Fernald uses the time displayed on the clock on the wall in the potty room; family members are strongly encouraged to synchronize their watches and clocks accordingly. Late pick-up fees are payable at the time of pick-up, in cash, to the closing staff member; parents will be asked to sign a late pick-up slip. ABSENCES AND REFUNDS IDP operates year-round, and monthly fees must be paid regularly even if absences (due to illness, holidays, or family vacations) occur. Children cannot substitute different days or times to make up for times missed and children cannot be substituted for one another. PAYMENT The first month's payment is due at the time of enrollment, prior to beginning in the program. Subsequently, payment is due on the first of each month. Because there are no provisions for keeping a child after closing hours, consistent lateness will be cause to ask a parent to withdraw his/her child from IDP. All checks or money orders should be made payable to "UC Regents". Any check returned by the bank will result in a $10 surcharge. DROP-IN CARE Drop-in care is available to children currently enrolled at IDP when space permits. The rate for drop-in care is $10/hour. Advance notice is required. LATE FEES: TUITION Tuition that is received after the 9th of each month will incur a late fee of $10 for each calendar day that tuition is overdue. Late fees are due at the time tuition is paid; until the balance is paid in full the account is considered overdue, and late fees will continue to accrue. UCLA AFFILIATION IDP parents must be able to demonstrate that they are able to make at least a one-year commitment to the IDP from the time that the child is enrolled. The parent must show that he/she is able to (and reasonably expects to) maintain the affiliation that made it possible for his/her child to be admitted to the IDP. Parents will be required to provide verification of that affiliation annually. Failure to pay tuition by the 15th of the month will be considered a sign of intent to terminate and should be discussed with the Director. LATE FEES: PICK-UP IDP operating hours are Monday through Friday, 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Parents are requested to pick up their children promptly by 5:30 as children cannot be accommodated after closing. 8 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program CALENDAR Infant Development Program Calendar, Academic Year 2009-2010 13 green: UCLA holiday 6 purple: Teacher vacation days 8 yellow: regular calendar IDP closure day (teacher work day; no children) 27 Total closure days An "X" on each day indicates the days we will be open for service. SEPTEMBER 2009 SU M T W 1 2 6 7 8 9 13 14 15 16 20 21 22 23 27 28 29 30 TH 3 10 17 24 F 4 11 18 25 SA 5 12 19 26 19 Days of Operation: 09/07/09 Labor Day 09/21/09 Staff Development Day 09/22/09 Intern Orientation Day DECEMBER 2009 SU M T W TH F SA 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 Days of Operation: Winter Break Planning Day MARCH 2010 SU M T W 1 2 3 7 8 9 10 14 15 16 17 21 22 23 24 28 29 30 31 Days of Operation: Cesar Chavez Day Planning Day JUNE 2010 SU M T W 1 2 6 7 8 9 13 14 15 16 20 21 22 23 27 28 29 30 Days of Operation: 234 OCTOBER 2009 SU M T W 4 11 18 25 5 12 19 26 6 13 20 27 7 14 21 28 TH 1 8 15 22 29 Days of Operation: Staff Development Day JANUARY 2010 SU M T W TH 3 4 5 6 7 10 11 12 13 14 17 18 19 20 21 24 25 26 27 28 31 13 Days of Operation: 12/21-12/31 Winter Break 12/18/09 Martin Luther King Day APRIL 2010 TH F SA SU M T W TH 4 5 6 1 11 12 13 4 5 6 7 8 18 19 20 11 12 13 14 15 25 26 27 18 19 20 21 22 25 26 27 28 29 21 03/26/10 03/25/10 TH 3 10 17 24 F 4 11 18 25 SA 5 12 19 26 21 Days of Operation: Staff Development Day JULY 2010 SU M T 4 11 18 25 5 12 19 26 6 13 20 27 W 7 14 21 28 TH 1 8 15 22 29 Days of Operation: Staff Development Day Fourth of July 9 F 2 9 16 23 30 SA 3 10 17 24 31 21 10/30/09 F 1 8 15 22 29 SA 2 9 16 23 30 19 1/1/10 01/18/10 F 2 9 16 23 30 SA 3 10 17 24 NOVEMBER 2009 SU M T W 1 2 3 4 8 9 10 11 15 16 17 18 22 23 24 25 29 30 TH 5 12 19 26 TH 4 11 18 25 F 5 12 19 26 W TH F 6 13 20 27 7 14 21 28 21 04/09/10 2 3 4 5 9 10 11 12 16 17 18 19 23 24 25 26 30 31 Days of Operation: Memorial Day F 2 9 16 23 30 AUGUST 2010 SU M T W 1 2 3 4 8 9 10 11 15 16 17 18 22 23 24 25 29 30 31 SA 3 10 17 24 31 20 07/02/10 07/05/10 Days of Operation: SA 6 13 20 27 19 02/15/10 Days of Operation: President's Day MAY 2010 SU M T SA 7 14 21 28 18 11/11/09 11/26-27 Days of Operation: Veteran's Day Thanksgiving FEBRUARY 2010 SU M T W 1 2 3 7 8 9 10 14 15 16 17 21 22 23 24 28 F 6 13 20 27 SA 1 8 15 22 29 20 05/31/10 TH 5 12 19 26 F 6 13 20 27 SA 7 14 21 28 22 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program DAILY HEALTH CHECK IDP can care for children who are “mildly ill.” Children who are not feeling up to participating in IDP’s day, who have a temperature over 100.5, or who have potentially contagious symptoms will need to be picked up from IDP. Director/Teacher notes any unusual redness, irritation, or patchiness of throat. Check for swollen glands by gently touching the child's throat and neck with the fingertips. Swollen glands may indicate an oncoming illness or may be the result of having recently been ill. If no other symptoms are present, the child will not be sent home just on the basis of slightly swollen glands. But the parents will be alerted and both parents and staff will observe the child closely for a couple of days and ensure that the child has sufficient rest. Body temperature and general disposition are checked. Note is also taken of the color and condition of the child's skin, eyes, and overall appearance. Noncomprehensive lists of symptoms that are potentially contagious are: * Watery, inflamed eyes or crusty eyes or eyelids * Glazed appearance of eyes * Deep cough * Inflamed nostrils * Heavy nasal discharge * Unusual irritability * Rash sores, flushed appearance, clamminess, pallor, or other unusual conditions of skin * Contagious diseases * Fever over 100.5 without medication * Diarrhea or unusually loose bowel movements * Unusual vomit 10 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program MEDICATION POLICY Please note: this medication policy applies to sunscreen and diapering ointments, as well as prescription medications. Please ask your pediatrician for a prescription if you would like us to apply sunscreen (after the age of 6 months) and/or diapering ointments at IDP. We prefer that, whenever possible, parents personally administer medications to their children. However, the Infant Development Program will administer prescription and non-prescription medications (including sunscreen and diapering ointments) under the following conditions: 1. All prescription and nonprescription medications shall be centrally stored in accordance with the requirements specified below. A. Medications shall be kept in a safe place inaccessible to children. B. Each container shall have an unaltered label. C. A refrigerator shall be used to store any medication that requires refrigeration. 2. All prescription and nonprescription medications shall be maintained with the child's name and shall be dated. 3. Prescription medications may be administered if all of the following conditions are met: A. Prescription medications shall be administered in accordance with the label directions as prescribed by the child’s physician. B. For each prescription, the licensee shall obtain, in writing, approval and instructions from the child’s authorized representative for the administration of the medication to the child. 4. Nonprescription medications may be administered without approval or instructions from the child's physician if all of the following conditions are met: A. Nonprescription medications shall be administered in accordance with the product label directions on the nonprescription medication container(s). B. For each nonprescription medication, the licensee shall obtain, in writing, approval and instructions from the child’s authorized representative for the administration of the medication to the child. 5. When no longer needed by the child, or when the child withdraws from the center, all medications shall be returned to the child’s authorized representative or disposed of after an attempt to reach the authorized representative. State of California-Department of Social Services-Community Care Licensing Division-Manual of Policies and Procedures-Title 22, Division 12, Chapter 1, Section 101226 11 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program EMERGENCY POLICIES AND INFORMATION 2. MEDICAL EMERGENCY POLICY 1. Dial 911 on campus phone, briefly state emergency, and give campus location (1615 Franz Hall). 2. Call parent(s) to inform of medical emergency (phone numbers listed by phone). Procedure: A. When shaking begins, caregivers will protect infants from falling items and glass breaking. Caregivers will cover children with their bodies, then cover own head and neck. B. When shaking stops, teachers will check children and caregivers for injuries. FIRE POLICY C. Teachers will call 911 if assistance is needed. 1. Caregivers will receive a copy of Fire Policy and will D. Emergency supplies kept in sleeping rooms and kitchen. walk through a fire drill once a month. E. Stay calm! 2. Undergraduate Advising Office phone numbers are posted near the phone. YOUR CHILD’S EARTHQUAKE KIT 3. Procedure: A. At alarm, caregivers remove all children to assembly area north side, Inverted Fountain). Exit route will be determined by teachers. In case of earthquake or other disaster, IDP keeps emergency supplies on hand. An evacuation crib is located inside each nap room (closest to the door); in the event that it should become necessary to evacuate the premises each crib can hold 7 children and be wheeled to the evacuation site (inverted fountain). B. Teachers will call Advising Office for back-up help in evacuation. C. Teachers will report fire by alarm box (opposite fountain in lobby) in call 911 to campus police. As a supplement to the supplies that IDP provides, we would like each child to provide his/her own earthquake kit. D. Helen and teachers will sweep area to check for any remaining babies and caregivers. Earthquake kit: Please place the following items in a large zip lock bag: E. Teachers will evacuate and close all doors. F. Report incident to Helen Davis, Executive Director (x74993). Relocate to Psychology Clinic if necessary. EARTHQUAKE POLICY 1. Caregivers will receive a copy of the Earthquake Policy and will walk through an earthquake drill once a quarter. 12 1 complete change of clothes Hat 6 diapers Travel wipes Photo of family A favorite toy, book, or blanket Pacifier Nonperishable snack and small water. UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program NUTRITION Parents of young infants should provide all of the food their children will require during the day (e.g., breast milk or formula, cereal, baby food). For infants and toddlers who are able to eat finger foods, IDP provides a morning snack at 9:15 am and an afternoon snack at 4:00 pm. We strive to provide a variety of snacks from diverse culinary traditions and whenever possible, we avoid bleached flour, refined sugar, added salt, and processed foods. When developmentally ready, children are encouraged to sample each day's snacks, and teachers will work with families in introducing new foods. We will accommodate allergies or individual dietary restrictions to the extent possible, but parents are also invited to supplement IDP snacks with special foods their child may enjoy or require (e.g., cereal for infants). Parents and teachers will consult together to determine when children are developmentally ready to sample each day's snacks, and to develop a plan for introducing new foods (e.g., introducing one new food at a time, offering food in small pieces for young children). IDP provides organic, whole milk with morning and afternoon snacks. Soy milk is provided for children who require it. Filtered water is offered at lunch and throughout the day. A sample menu follows: Morning Snack Afternoon Snack quesadillas homemade bread & fresh fruit or vegetable milk milk Tuesday chicken noodle soup & homemade bread & fresh fruit or vegetable matzo milk milk Wednesday brown rice & black beans homemade bread & fresh fruit or vegetable milk milk Thursday corn muffins & peaches homemade bread & fresh fruit or vegetable milk milk Friday pasta w/tomato sauce homemade bread & fresh fruit or vegetable watermelon milk milk Parents provide lunch. Lunch preparation required should be limited to microwave or toaster oven use. Parents are requested to provide nutritious foods and to save "junk" food (e.g., candy, chips, soda) for home. Some sample foods children often enjoy: Monday -yogurt or applesauce -fresh fruit (please cut, peel, etc at home; please cut grapes in half) -pasta with butter or tomato sauce -cottage cheese -fresh vegetables (raw or cooked—no raw carrots, please) -cheese Parents provide formula, bottles, and any other special foods or beverages. IDP provides cups, plates, bowls, utensils, and bibs. Parents are invited to bring in any other special eating equipment. Children who may not drink milk must have a doctor’s approval on file at IDP. 13 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program STORING AND PREPARING EXPRESSED BREAST MILK IDP supports and encourages parents who wish to breast feed and/or provide expressed milk. Please talk with your primary caregiver or the director about how we can help you with setting up a feeding schedule for your child, finding a comfortable place for you to nurse, etc. For storage and use of breast milk we follow the guidelines of the American Academy of Pediatrics. If you will be bringing expressed milk to IDP we will provide you with a refrigerator and/or freezer tray with your child’s name on it. Please note that each container of milk you provide should be clearly labeled with your child’s full name and the date the milk was expressed. 1. Always wash your hands before handling breast milk. 5. Do not add fresh milk to already frozen milk in a storage container. 2. Be sure to use only clean containers to store expressed milk. Try to use screw cap bottles, hard plastic cups with tight caps or special heavy nursery bags that can be used to feed the baby. Do not use ordinary plastic storage bags or formula bottle bags for storing expressed milk. 6. You may thaw milk in the refrigerator or you can thaw it more quickly by swirling it in a bowl of warm water. 7. Do not use microwave ovens to heat bottles because they do not heat them evenly. Uneven heating can easily scald your baby or damage the milk. Bottles can also explode if left in the microwave too long. Excess heat can destroy important proteins and vitamins in the milk. 3. Use sealed and chilled milk within 24 hours if possible. Discard all milk that has been refrigerated more than 72 hours. 4. Freeze milk if you will not be using it within 24 hours. Frozen milk is good for at least 1 month (3 to 6 months if kept in a 0° freezer). Store it at the back of the freezer and never in the door section. Make sure to label the milk with your child’s full name and the date that you freeze it. Use the oldest milk first. Freeze 2 to 4 ounces of milk at a time, because that is the average amount of a single feeding. However, you may want some smaller amounts for some occasions. 8. Milk thawed in the refrigerator must be used within 24 hours. 9. Do not re-freeze your milk. 10. Do not save milk from a used bottle for use at another feeding. Taken from the American Academy of Pediatrics web site: http://www.aap.org/family/brstguid.html 14 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program A DAY AT IDP Life at IDP is filled with excitement, discovery, wonder, and fun! Daily schedules and activities are carefully planned with each child’s specific developmental needs in mind. Although individual babies’ experiences may vary greatly, these descriptions will give parents an idea of IDP’s general goals and daily patterns. DAILY SCHEDULE This is IDP’s general daily schedule, which is set up to provide the babies with some predictability. However, babies nap and eat according to individual schedules which are established by the parent(s) and IDP staff. Whenever possible, individual needs are accommodated and modifications are made to the daily schedule. 7:30 am IDP opens 9:00 – 9:30 AM snack Diaper changes, potty sits, sunscreen 10:15 Morning walk 11:30 Return to IDP and wash hands for lunch Lunch time Diaper change or potty sit after lunch 12:00 noon Play time / naps 3:30 pm Fresh bread of the day & afternoon snack Play time 4:45 Diaper changes if necessary 5:00 Closing circle 5:30 IDP closes: see you tomorrow! 15 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program DAILY ROUTINES FOR IDP PARENTS tears of sadness or anger. You should feel free to watch through Observation Room or call us when you get to work to check on your child. SIGN-IN/SIGN-OUT Parents must accompany children directly into IDP and sign them in and out each day. The signin/sign-out sheet is posted inside the front door. Please write the time you drop off/pick up your child and sign your full name. This sheet is the legal transfer of responsibility so it is essential that parents sign in and out daily. At the beginning and end of each day, please leave a few extra minutes to touch base with your child’s primary caregiver or another member of our full-time staff. During this time we may exchange information about your child's routine, daily activities, etc. Daily changes in routine (e.g., a diaper rash that needs Desitin) can be posted on your child's chart by your primary caregiver or another member of our full-time staff. Post-Its notes for this use are available by the charts, by the telephone, and by the microwave. PICKING UP YOUR BABY FROM IDP When a parent walks into the room at the end of the day, it is important to remember that your child looks first at your face. You may have had a long day and feel tired, but a tired look may be confused for an angry look. Try to have a smile and a welcome greeting. Don't be surprised, however, if your child is too busy with a project to give you an immediate second look. As with leaving your child in the morning, allow a few minutes to play with or just sit near your child. You child may be in the middle of an important activity and may not be ready to drop everything immediately. Say "hello" and let your child know that soon it will be time to go. Only persons with prior written authorization will be allowed to visit a child at IDP or pick up a child from IDP. All authorized persons who are not parents will be asked to present a picture ID before a child is released to them. Children are not allowed out of the center grounds unless accompanied by an approved adult. SAYING GOODBYE TO YOUR BABY AT IDP It is important to establish a routine with your child when leaving your child at IDP. A routine will help your child know what to expect and feel secure with daily transitions. Please do NOT sneak out on your child without saying goodbye. You may want to change your child's diaper or help with toileting, especially if you have had a long commute to IDP. Nursing or giving your child a bottle is a nurturing and personal way to ease daily transitions. Sharing a book or working a puzzle are other ways of gently moving your child between home and school. When you are ready to leave, please feel free to enlist the help of your primary caregiver. We will tell your baby that Mommy or Daddy is going to work and will come back later. Please make eye contact with your child, smile (it matters!), say goodbye once, and walk out the door. The caregiver will handle any 16 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program WORDS TO AVOID WITH INFANTS AND TODDLERS: ENHANCING SELF-ESTEEM To help our new caregivers learn about working with and talking to young children, we provide a list of “words to avoid”. For parents’ reference a modified list follows. WORDS TO AVOID No You can't do that; stop that; don't touch that be careful Share pretty, cute, adorable, smart Good job it's okay; you're okay; don't cry bad girl/bad boy; big girl/big boy nice; kind; mean; It's not nice to... naughty if you do....then I'll give you... (conditionals) ______ is bigger than you are words that favor one child over an other WHY? Give more information or acceptable alternative; save “no” for emergencies so children will not habituate to it. Be more specific (“that” = ?); give an acceptable alternative or modify the environment. Be more specific; describe the danger so the child knows what to look out for. Infants and toddlers are egocentric—not ready developmentally to share. Instead redirect the other child to a different toy and say “When she is finished it will be your turn”. Exception: a group of objects that can be used by several children at once (e.g., a large basket of crayons). We don’t value children for their physical appearance. Not enough information; instead say “I like the way you put all of the balls on the shelf” or “I notice that you used red and green on your art project”. Children should do things for their own pleasure, not our approval. Instead say “I know that was really scary when you fell” or “I know you are sad when Daddy leaves but he will come back at the end of the day”. We don’t discourage crying. Help children identify, label, express, and validate their feelings. Never label a child. Instead explain why a particular action may be inappropriate, and why. Instead say “She doesn’t like it when you take her toys” or “I think it made him happy when you hugged him.” Caregivers must be able to enforce rules or set limits without resorting to bribery. Never compare children. ** Remember, when talking to a child always get down at his/her level and make eye contact. Avoid yelling their name across the room when you want their attention. ** Allow the children to answer for themselves and do things for themselves (be patient and give them more time than you allow for adults). ** How you say something is just as important as what you say. Show respect when talking with children. Always keep body language in mind when talking with a child. 17 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program IDP, A - Z ABSENCE When your child will be absent or late, please call IDP (inside line) as early as possible. If your child has a contagious illness, let us know so that we can alert other parents to look for symptoms in their children. Please notify us of extended absences (e.g., vacation) in writing. BIRTHDAYS AND OTHER SPECIAL EVENTS Parents may choose to celebrate their child's birthday (or other event) at IDP. Please ask the Director for guidelines in advance. Please do not bring latex balloons to IDP because they present a choking hazard; however, you are welcome to bring mylar balloons. CAREGIVERS IDP has student caregivers per quarter who participate in the IDP teaching program through an internship. They spend 8 hours per week working with the babies (under the supervision of our permanent teaching staff) and are enrolled in a lecture + discussion course. “First quarter” caregivers (Psychology 134A) are new to IDP. “Second quarter” caregivers (Psychology 134C) have completed one quarter of training at IDP. “Third quarter” caregivers (Psychology 193) have been at IDP for at least two quarters and have been invited to complete a third. “Volunteers” have completed two or three quarters of training at IDP but are no longer receiving course credit for their IDP participation. Parents are strongly encouraged to get to know the student caregivers. A caregiver photo board or book is provided to help parents get acquainted with names and faces. Various social events are planned throughout the year to invite parent-caregiver interactions. Student caregivers are very important in the lives of IDP babies and enjoy building relationships with IDP parents. CHARTS Each child has a weekly information chart that is posted on the bulletin board near the potty room. These charts list food, naps, and diapering for the day. Parents are invited to record relevant information about their child’s night or morning and to read their child's chart daily. An additional category provides space for caregivers to list a favorite activity, a new food, or a book that the child read. CIRCLE TIME Every afternoon at 5:00 we have circle time, a time when all children are invited to join together for singing, finger play, puppets, stories, etc. Together time is child-directed; particular songs and activities are chosen by the children and the length of together time varies, depending on the children's interest. 18 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program Any child who prefers not to participate in together time is encouraged to participate in any other non-disruptive activity. A caregiver or parent will accompany that child in the activity of his/her choice without disrupting the children who are still enjoying together time. Adults who are present during this time are asked to participate in order to fully enhance the children's enjoyment and participation. A songbook is available for parents who are interested in learning the words to popular together time songs. CLOTHING AND DIAPERS Your child will get “dirty” and “messy” at IDP because that is the essence of play and learning! Please do not send your child to IDP in clothes that must stay clean and spotless. We believe that children must be uninhibited in their exploration and discovery; although smocks and other cover-ups are provided, they are not required. Children are never required to keep themselves from getting messy in the course of play. No child will be prohibited or restricted from participating in activities in order to keep clothes clean. At least two changes of clothing, including underwear and socks, should be kept at IDP at all times. All clothes sent or worn to IDP should be labeled with the child's name. Each child has a special cubby to hold personal belongings. Parents are responsible for providing diapers and diaper wipes, as well as any other diapering items, for their children. We welcome cloth diapers. KITCHEN IDP provides a morning and afternoon snack daily; a monthly snack menu is distributed to parents. Organic, whole milk is provided at morning and afternoon snacks. Filtered water is available at lunch and throughout the day. Parents provide lunch, formula, and other special dietary requirements. Containers and bottles should be labeled with the child’s name. Glass bottles and jars are not used for feeding at IDP. NAPS A rest period is required for all children who spend most of their day with us. Naps will be implemented according to the individual needs of the children, following a plan developed by the parent(s) and caregiver(s). We recommend the “back to sleep” sleeping position (see Consumer Product Safety Alert which follows and enclosed “Back to Sleep” brochure). In order to provide a sense of familiarity and security, each child sleeps in the same crib or cot every day. Fulltime children have their own cribs/cots while part-time children share a crib/cot with the “alternate-day” child. When a child is ready, (s)he may move to a cot for nap time. Parents are asked to remember that the nap rooms are not soundproof and that talking should be kept to a minimum. Doors should be closed slowly and quietly. 19 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program IDP provides and launders sheets and blankets for naps daily for infants and weekly for toddlers. Parents are welcome to bring from home any additional sheets, blankets, security objects, etc. that will help make nap time more comfortable. Personal items are not laundered at IDP. “A NOTEBOOK FOR TWO VOICES” The full-time staff keeps regular, written observation journals of each child. Journals track children's development, behavior, and interests, and are an important professional development tool. They are kept in individual folders. Parents are invited to read or write in their child’s journal at any time. PARENT BOARD The parent board contains information about upcoming IDP events, community events/resources, announcements, opportunities for parent involvement, etc. The IDP/Franz parent board is located on the window by the front door, while the IDP/Fernald parent board is located next to the kitchen door. PARENT-TEACHER CONFERENCES Formal parent-teacher conferences are offered twice a year, in the fall and in the spring. These conferences take place between the child’s parent(s) and the primary caregiver and provide an opportunity to share information about the child’s development, favorite activities, peer relationships, etc. Parents and teachers also use this opportunity to plan together in setting short-term and long-term goals for the child, and discuss any areas of concern. Since we believe that it is preferable not to discuss a child in the third person in his/her presence, we ask that children not attend parent-teacher conferences. Parents are welcome to request formal parent-teacher conferences at any other time during the year, and teachers will make every effort to communicate informally with parents daily about their child’s development and education. PARKING PERMITS For IDP parents without campus parking permits, temporary parking in the loading zone is available while dropping off or picking up children. There is a 20-minute limit for loading zone parking. Parking permits are available yearly in June from the classrooms teacher; please read the guidelines on the permit. PRIMARY CAREGIVERS Each IDP baby is provided with a primary caregiver. The primary caregiver (PC) is the person who provides or coordinates most of that child’s care, and communicates with parents about each child’s development. This relationship helps IDP babies form strong relationships with a caregiver while they are away from their parents. Additionally, the PC system allows parents to have a clear, systematic line of communication about their child. Each PC has four “primary babies” per day. Care is often delegated to student caregivers, under the PC’s close supervision. Although each child has a PC, all PCs have significant relationships with all IDP babies and 20 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program families, and share duties or cover for each other frequently (during lunch breaks, vacations, etc.). This team approach allows for the smooth and consistent care of every child. TODAY WE… “Today We…” is a written description of daily morning walks. It is posted on the curriculum board (Franz) or on the parent board (Fernald) for parents and caregivers to read. TODDLER CURRICULUM Older infants/toddlers (approx. 2 to 3 years) are invited to participate in daily toddler curriculum activities. These projects are designed to meet the special needs and abilities of IDP’s oldest children. Sample curriculum categories include: cooking, gardening, science, dramatic play, etc. In order to provide appropriate and challenging experiences for our oldest toddlers, younger children do not participate in toddler curriculum until they seem developmentally prepared. Teachers will discuss with parents when a particular child appears ready to begin participating in toddler curriculum. Often, a child who is just on the brink of readiness will participate in some toddler curriculum activities but not others. Parents and caregivers are asked to help younger children respect this special time for older toddlers by giving them space and privacy. WALKS IDP babies may go on a daily walk from 10:00 to 11:30 am. The children walk or ride in strollers or wagons to the daily walk destination on campus (e.g., the Bear, Sculpture Garden, Royce quad). Once there, the children spend time exploring the environment, and developing their gross motor skills. The adult: child walk ratio is 1:2. Parents who prefer that their children remain at IDP during walk should inform the Director so that arrangements can be made. We try to maintain a relatively tight morning schedule in order to make sure that the children have enough time to play outside on walk and still return to IDP in time for lunch. Parents are asked to phone the IDP staff if they will be arriving later than 9:45 am. A caregiver can be kept back to wait for a late child and take him/her to meet the others on walk, allowing that particular child to have ample time for transitioning without disrupting the activities of the other children. 21 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program PARENT PARTICIPATION Parent participation will focus on daily living. Contributing to the everyday events that build our community will allow parents to catch a different glimpse of how life happens at IDP. Parent participation is a crucial component of any child care program for several reasons: 1. Children benefit by seeing that their parents are interested and involved in their experiences at IDP. Children take pride in having their parents contribute to the “school” environment. Children build trust in their caregivers when they see that their parents trust and respect their caregivers too. The bridge between home and IDP is built. Parent participation has many direct, positive effects on children’s experiences in child care: cleaner facilities, more resources, multi-cultural and multi-generational interactions, etc. 2. Parent involvement provides resources and opportunities that are not otherwise possible for IDP, which is a small, self-supporting program. 3. Parent involvement provides great opportunities for parents to network with caregivers and other parents. It gives parents a chance to try something new—learn about fund raising, build equipment, lead story time, get silly with lots of infants and toddlers! 4. Parent involvement validates IDP staff by showing them that IDP parents support their work with children and want to help make IDP the very best it can be. 5. It really does take a village to raise a child. 6. Together we are better! IDP has many opportunities for parent involvement and parents are encouraged to participate whenever possible. Some of the possibilities are: classroom participation room parent host a “happy hour” contribute morning snack work days fund raising toy repair animal care Caregiver Appreciation committee share a family tradition Parents are invited to contribute their own ideas for participation. We want every parent to feel comfortable getting involved at IDP so we welcome your suggestions! 22 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program AGES AND STAGES WHAT DO YOUNG INFANTS DO AT IDP? As a primary objective, young infants at IDP learn to build close, secure relationships with one or more caregivers. The security of these relationships provide the foundation of trust and confidence which encourage the young baby to engage in daily activities. The young infant curriculum includes reading, singing, music, conversation, various sensory experiences, and interactions with natural elements. Young infants at IDP follow individual, natural patterns for eating and sleeping. The children are exposed to language through stories, songs, chants, and conversation. Toys are easily manipulated and mouthed, and disinfected after each use. WHAT DO MOBILE INFANTS DO AT IDP? Mobile infants build upon the rapidly changing developmental milestones which took place in young infancy. The close relationships with caregivers which were started in young infancy are cultivated and further nurtured. As their physical strength increases, mobile infants develop confidence in their abilities and feel comfortable exploring to a greater degree. Teachers continue to support and encourage developing physical abilities while providing an environment that is physically and psychologically safe for exploring children. Teachers provide physical support for each child’s level of physical development while mobile infants are encouraged to practice their developing gross motor skills such as sitting, pulling up, and cruising. Mobile infants experiment with different art and sensory materials such as paint, glue, salt, play dough, etc. With guidance from teachers, mobile infants learn to interact with their peers. Individual routines such as eating and sleeping may be modified to meet each child’s changing developmental needs. WHAT DO OLDER INFANTS/TODDLERS DO AT IDP? Older infants are encouraged to further develop their cognitive and physical abilities. They learn to become socially competent and emotionally secure. Toddlers are encouraged to identify, explore, and express their feelings, which are validated by teachers. Teachers respect older infants’ need to experiment with independence while still remaining dependent on their caregivers. A sense of control, predictability, and consistency in setting limits help older infants feel that they can master their environment. Older infants at IDP are provided with opportunities to meet their unique developmental needs and abilities: sleeping on cots with peers, participating in developmentally appropriate “toddler curriculum” activities (e.g., science, cooking, visits to the library), chances for imaginary play, etc. 23 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program DISCIPLINE POLICY IDP's philosophy of discipline focuses on the importance of treating young children as individuals, with widely differing personalities. Our goal is to maximize growth for each child while protecting every member of the group. of the children. Teaching and learning modes change as children mature, and this applies equally to the teaching and learning of positive behavior. The effective uses of explanation and reasoning increase with the age of the children, as does a child's ability to consider others. Teaching that does not account for these differences will be unsuccessful. Staff members are educated in child development so that instances of non-compliance are understood from a developmental approach. Staff members are also trained in methods of discipline which aim to resolve or alleviate conflict while helping the child understand, to the best of his/her ability, why a particular behavior is unacceptable. The Director will hold weekly discussions with caregivers to address issues of discipline and compliance and to offer assessments of staff behavior in instances requiring discipline. In addition to keeping regular written journals for each child, and Director and/or Head Teacher will have informal daily consultations with parents to understand the history and context of a particular behavior. When a child behaves in an undesirable manner, positive alternatives are always offered as a way of channeling a child's energy into another, more acceptable activity. When redirection is ineffective, or when the problem behavior is extreme or dangerous, the teacher discusses the behavior with the child, age permitting. Teachers emphasize that certain behaviors are not acceptable at IDP and pose alternative activities while validating the child's thoughts and emotions. We regard discipline as the teaching of appropriate behavior, not as punishment. Staff are encouraged, whenever appropriate or necessary, to seek assistance from other caregivers. Under no circumstances is it acceptable to use corporal punishment or any other form of discipline which violates the personal rights of any individual. Each child shall have personal rights which include, but are not limited to, the following: “To be free from corporal or unusual punishment, infliction of pain, humiliation, intimidation, ridicule, coercion, threat, mental abuse or other actions of a punitive nature including but not limited to: interference with functions of daily living including eating, sleeping, or toileting; or withholding of shelter, clothing, medication or aids to physical functioning. [State of California-Department of Social Services-Community Care Licensing DivisionManual of Policies and Procedures-Title 22, Division 12, Chapter 1, section 101223(a)(3)] Positive expectations, adequate attention, and appreciation of good behavior work wonders. Occasionally, a separation from the rest of the group can help a child regain control. It is important this strategy not be overused, either in frequency or duration. Children who are frequently or severely punished think badly of themselves and often enter a problem spiral of punishment and negative attention seeking. In the event of acute or chronic misbehavior, parents are consulted without delay. When IDP proves to be unable to meet a child's needs, alternative services are recommended. This philosophy is consistent for all ages of children attending IDP. Specific interventions are adjusted to match the developmental and understanding levels 24 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program KICK OFF YOUR SHOES! EXPECTATIONS FOR ETHICAL CONDUCT IDP is a “shoe-free” zone—when entering, we ask that you remove your shoes and, if barefoot, wear a pair of socks that are available for your convenience. IDP works towards providing a warm, familylike atmosphere where children, parents, and staff feel valued and supported. At the same time, we recognize that we deal with issues which may be personal or confidential in nature. There are many good reasons to kick off your shoes! In many cultures, it is customary to remove your shoes before entering a home, for spiritual or practical reasons. Staff is trained to keep information about children, families, and associates confidential. They refrain from commenting about children or families in the presence of others. It is also a good way to reduce the amount of dirt or pesticides that get tracked in. In a publication about lead exposure, the Environmental Protection Agency specifically recommends leaving your shoes outside to avoid tracking in lead from soil. Staff and parents should remember that at all times they are role models for children, families, and associates, and behave accordingly. At all times, IDP children, staff, and families are expected to treat others with respect and to create a sense of community. Policies set forth in our discipline policy and guidelines for ethical behavior apply to interactions between: Slipping out of shoes serves as a simple but mindful ritual to let go of the outside world as you cross over the threshold into IDP—a baby place where we slow down, watch, wonder, listen, and reflect. child and child adult and child adult and adult. So, we invite you to unwind, relax, and wiggle your toes with us! 25 UCLA Department of Psychology Infant Development Program GRIEVANCE PROCEDURES The goal of the UCLA Infant Development Program is to promote a harmonious and professional working relationship between parents, staff, and the IDP Advisory Committee. In some cases, however, grievances may arise and it is the program’s policy to facilitate the resolution of such complaints. IDP parents who wish to express a grievance about the program’s policies may do so, in writing, to any of the following: A. the IDP director B. the IDP Advisory Committee, via 1. the elected parent representative 2. the committee chair IDP parents who wish to express a grievance about the program staff may do so, in writing, to the director. Grievances about the director may be addressed to the Department of Psychology Executive Officer. This policy was written with the support of UCLA Campus Human Resources. 26