Federated Church of Orleans P. O. Box 761, 162 Main Street East Orleans, MA 02643 508-255-3060; fax 508-255-3423 e-mail: administrator@fedchurchorleans.org Presorted Standard Non-Profit Organization Permit #41 – US Postage Paid Orleans, MA 02653 Address Service Requested Dated Material Sept. 1, 2015 Special Events in September: Guest Worship Leaders ~ Sept. 6 Rev. Rod MacDonald Sept. 13 Rev. Don Wick Sept. 20 Rev. Bob Richardson Sept. 27 Rev. Judy Thomas Choir Rehearsals Resume ~ Sept 3, 12:30 pm Handbell Choir Sept 9, 7:30 pm Chancel Choir Won’t you join us? └ Am HaYam observes Rosh Hashanah ~ Sept. 13, 7 – 10 pm Sept. 14, 10 am – 1 pm Am HaYam observes Yom Kippur Sept. 22, 7 am – 10 pm Sept. 23, 10 am – Sundown Sept. 7–Labor Day–Office Closed Sept. 20 – Rally Day! Sept. 27–Stewardship BBQ Many Thanks to: Marti Johnson Donna Sutton Chris King Dave King … and other volunteers THE PARISH VISITOR September 2015 Published monthly by The Federated Church of Orleans, Massachusetts Pastor Bob WWSD. I have been asked to contribute to our newsletter and I will offer these words for your consideration …. WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO WITHOUT SALLY?!!!! And if you were present as she was driving away for a well-deserved rest you might have heard …. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITHOUT THE CONGREGATION?!!!! The pastor-parish relationship, at first cordial and respectful, gradually evolves into a complicated (nothing is ever easy), one might even say, close or intimate relationship, mediated by the distance required to maintain the necessary professional relationship between the two. It is a very hard juggling act alongside of which a kind of co-dependency also evolves. Without going into pages and pages of psychological and theological reasoning (besides Marti would never let me get away with it) let’s just say, for all reasons, that we’re a good team; team being the operative word here. Sally may leave knowing that the congregation understands her personal and spiritual life is in need of renewal. The congregation knows that Sally understands that its' togetherness is also in need of personal and spiritual renewal. Without sounding like an All-State commercial, both of us know that we are in the good hands of our Lord as he guides us and reunites us after this brief (it’s only ‘til October) absence. In conclusion, Sally did just what Sally should have done and we will do what we must do, the both of us living the love which God gave to us. Let us then at every opportunity, praise God and give God thanks, that through the blessing of our bounties shared with a world in sore need, comfort may keep peace and justice upon the horizon of Hope. Pastor Bob Rev. Robert A. Richardson CHURCH FAIR 2015 Thanks so much to all who gave so much of their time to make our 2015 FAIR a success. In 1 and a half days we were able to raise just over $14,800 which will go to support both our church as well as many local and national outreach programs for those in need. So many within this congregation have supported our annual FAIR year after year. Some have now reached a point in their lives where they need to take a welldeserved break. In order to continue the tradition of our annual FAIR for 2016 we need volunteers to chair the following sections if we are to have a 2016 FAIR: Men's Fellowship (a yard sale on the front lawn of the church) Elegant Accessories (jewelry, handbags, and other ladies items) Books (which involves collecting, sorting, and organizing books in good condition) Children Items (which involves collecting and sorting children's toys, bikes and other items that are in good condition) At our wrap up meeting on August 20 it was decided that unless we can find volunteers to chair the sections noted above for a 2016 FAIR by December 31, 2015, we will have no choice but to either cancel the 2016 FAIR or scale it back dramatically. Please contact either Bob Wright or Bill Stoeckert if you are willing to volunteer your services for 2016. Thank you, Bob Wright & Bill Stoeckert Co-Chairs TRIBUTES The flowers and plants that are placed in our Sanctuary, on the Landing and Upper Narthex each Sunday are given in memory or in honor of others or given in celebration of special life events, and are a very special part of our worship services. The following were given during July and August: July 5 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Phil Mitchell in honor of his family and friends. The flowers on the Landing were given by Sally Norris in loving memory of her mother, Carol Dorkey,for her birthday on July 5. July 12 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Pat Bampos remembering Dave Schoeffel on his birthday. July 19 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Jill Beardsley in loving memory of Edward M. Beardsley. The arrangement on the Landing was given by Carolyn Witt in loving memory of her parents. July 26 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Marion Kennedy in memory of her good church friends. August 2 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Stewart Broatch in loving memory of his wife, Sylvia. The arrangement on the Landing was given by Jane and Don Wick in loving memory of Diane Wick and her twin sister, Joanne. August 9 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Carol Sylver in remembrance of Earl Sylver’s 101st birthday. “I Hope You Dance!” August 16 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by Pete Bampos in loving memory of Phyllis’ birthday. August 23 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given By King and Lynn Nelson in loving memory of Lynn’s mother, Harriet Pearson. The arrangement on the Landing was given by Jean Uebele in loving memory of Kurt for his birthday. August 30 The flowers in the Sanctuary were given by John Burlingame in thanksgiving for his grand and great grandchildren. The arrangement on the Landing was given by Marti Johnson in loving memory of her father, Howard Bancroft. Your Flower Committee says... You know fall is coming when chrysanthemums are for sale everywhere. Sympathy Your Flower Committee looks forward to the new season as we look back on summer and the beautiful arrangements you made it possible for our church to enjoy. We offer our deepest sympathies and prayers to the family and friends of Kirsten MacCracken, who died in California in August. Please hold her family in your prayers. Have a special date coming up you would like to commemorate? Check the list near the kitchen phone and call a committee member responsible for that month in order to make arrangements. Thank you! Martha Livingston MY TURN OR JUST GIVING BACK She never complained whether the pain was great, the experience unbearable, the comments made in haste...she knew that tomorrow held a new, albeit unknown venture treading the waters of aging paddling calmly keeping the setting sun in its rightful place as life's sextant. If only, if only I had the same discipline for life as she. The world imperceptibly continues to shrink, event invitations that we always attended go unanswered, friends from her viewpoint don't call as often, books set aside to read lay, binders unbent, and nature’s vitamin D is too hot, too muggy to sit even in shade and enjoy but the twinkle in her eyes never falters as she recounts past adventures alone, with family, with friends and with me. What a joy. Yes, the transition from DOING to reflecting on the things we DID occurs gradually and in most cases fondly realizing that those too shall pass with God’s help and understanding. HE steered us to Christian camps in Canada and the US, HE guided us working with military clergy at bases and HE was there to welcome our children into this uncertain world and HE now awaits what we shall do sharing a wonderful life together. There is a place for each of us for peace, understanding and LOVE as we traverse this final sojourn of life....WHAT A BLESSING! Jimmy Dishner, Your Moderator The September meeting of the Prayer Shawl Knitters will be held on Friday, September 18th at 11:00 am at the home of Jean Uebele, 14 Bambi Way, South Orleans. New yarn will be available. Bring your knitting and a sandwich. New knitters are most welcome. Come – it is a good group! Anita Mewherter FAIR NEWS The net profit from this year's Annual Church FAIR is currently at $14,250. This may improve to just over $14,300 as the rest of the money comes in. Great job by all for a successful summer FAIR! Bill MacLachlan Thanks to all who made the Tag Sale a success this year. Michael McDonald, Russ Stockwell, Pam and Bill Stoeckert, Maureen Vigneau, Sue Kiklis, to name just a few, made it all possible and ALL who contributed so many “treasures” to the sale – a big THANK YOU! Paul Washburn The White Elephant would like to thank Nancy Bush, Alice Weber, Jean Kuhn, Moo Smith, Shirley Smith, and Phil Mitchell our newest member for all their hard work this year. We would also like to thank all the people who made donations for the Elephant and all those who purchased the goods! We are pleased to report the hard work paid off with purchases made inside and out over the amount we made last year. Many thanks again to everyone involved. Phyllis & Suzanne Calsson, Dottie Walters A big THANK YOU to my Jewelry Committee for making our success possible this year at the FAIR. Nancy Clough, Jean Uebele, Barbara Bertram, Betsy Wagner, Dinni Goodwin, Kay Marsh, Mary Lee Mantz, Marilyn and Keith Harrison, Jan Laster, Jackie Rockwood, and Nan Cook were GREAT! Our success is also greatly due to the wonderful donations we received from YOU. Thank you so much again this year. Louise Washburn MEETING HOUSE PRESCHOOL The preschool year is about to begin; it is always tough to predict what each child will be like at the school. During my twelve years in the early childhood field I have found that each year is unique from the next. I am asked the question: “What are you planning to teach for the first month?” My answer is always the same, “Getting to Know You.” Puzzled? How can I teach when I haven’t learned? The children bring a sense of wonder and curiosity to the classroom - one may know their colors, one may know their shapes. In a way, we are learning from each other and we are getting to know each other, our likes and dislikes, our interests and our, well, academic interests, our temperament and our personality changes, the dynamics in the classroom and it is amazing to watch the transformation of the children as the year progresses. A few years ago, I had a youngster fascinated by dinosaurs. That was all he could talk about and from him I learned about dinosaurs. To this day when I see him, we have a connection of the dinosaurs and in a conversation he told me what he learned from me: “how to be a friend.” I did not have that written down in my lesson plan but somewhere, it was there. So, each year the teachers and I plan to teach the ABC’s and the 123’s, but just maybe there is a little more in the plan that we haven’t discovered. I look forward to keeping the church community up to date of all of our activities. Be sure and view our bulletin board in the Vestry. Each month we will post samples of art work, photos of the children, and special visitors, and our monthly calendar of events. If anyone is interested in volunteering their time to the preschool, please feel free to get in touch with me. I know that the children and myself would love to have a special person come in to read or do art projects with us. As always we greatly appreciate all of the support the church community provides us. Thank you! Peace & Good Health, Maureen Vigneau Preschool Director NOTEABLE NEWS The first rehearsal for the Handbell Choir is Thursday, September 3, 2015 at 12:30. We have an exciting year ahead. First, On October 3rd there will be a Handbell Workshop at the West Parish of Barnstable in Barnstable from 9:00-12:00 with two wonderful clinicians: Daniel Moore and Ed Henderson. Cost is $10.00. Secondly, we are working on a Spring Ring for the future. Our group has grown as an ensemble and I look forward to beginning a new year with them. If anyone is interested in ringing with us, please contact Bonnie Brenner at 508-945-2741. Bonnie Brenner Chancel Choir rehearsals resume on Wednesday evenings at 7:30 p.m. beginning on September 9th. Singers of all voice parts are most welcome. Justice Committee Report: An update from 2015’s Justice Letter Offerings A good number of Federated Church and Am HaYam members participated in the two letter offerings so far this year. It is important that the congregations hear of developments in the causes for which we have advocated. 1. U.S. Child Nutrition legislation (we joined with Bread for the World in this effort) — Letters were written in February U.S. Congress must reauthorize programs of child nutrition, such as federallysupported school lunches and also the summer Food4Kids program on the Outer Cape, by September 30, 2015 - in order that they may continue to receive funding. This hasn’t happened yet. Bread for the World reports that legislation is taking shape in both House and Senate, and says that this would be a good time to again contact our senators and representatives to urge full participation and funding in all programs of child nutrition. There is more information at www.bread.org. 2. Massachusetts funding for mental health programs in 2016 budget — Letters were written in May The budget which passed both houses of the legislature and was signed by Governor Baker did not have good news for mental health programs on the Cape. It called for the privatization of important services, especially the emergency intervention work (which has assisted suicidal person, those with PTSD and other conditions) staffed by statefunded personnel. Several police chiefs at our community forum in June cited the importance of continuing this work. This interruption in services was later overturned by an effort led by Senator Dan Wolf and others, and emergency services will not be privatized at this time. Our letters may have had positive impact on this development. However, we will continue to monitor state funding for mental health programs. For example, Barnstable County Human Services has had to fundraise in order to provide firstresponder training, while other MA counties have salaried clinicians for this purpose. The Justice Committee again thanks all those who responded to the Letters for Justice offerings. We expect to provide further opportunities for our congregations to witness to our faith in this way. MAKE A FREE DONATION! Our church sells food cards (after worship, in the Vestry). They cost no more than paying at the store, yet 5% goes to our local Homeless Prevention Council. You may buy food cards for Stop & Shop, Shaw’s, Friends, Phoenix, and CVS. Rod MacDonald We only have a small group of regular buyers and would like to “grow” this important program. Please try it out…you will feel really good about it. Carolyn Witt AROUND THE UCC Super Saturday October 17, 2015 This fall’s Super Saturday will be held at the Keefe Regional Parish Visitor E-mail submissions are most appreciated. This preserves the accuracy of your submission and saves a great deal of time. (We are, however, most happy to accept your hand-written articles.) Technical High School in Helpful Hints For E-mail Framingham, MA with Rev. Dr. Preparation: Marcia McFee as the featured speaker. Her faith journey has always walked hand-in-hand with her love of the arts. On Super Saturday she will share the great and wonderful hunger for learning that she has discovered among clergy and lay alike. To register, contact Andrea Bellarosa at bellarosaa@macucc.org. Articles received after this date will go in the next month’s Parish Visitor. (*no PV is published in July or December). The deadline for the October, 2015 issue of The Parish Visitor is noon, Tuesday, September 20th. Of course, we are always happy to receive your articles before the deadline Many thanks to all who participate in the publishing of The Parish Visitor. - use Microsoft WORD - use Times New Roman, Normal, Font size 12 ON THE WEB . . . Our website: www.fedchurchorleans.org Barnstable Association, UCC: www.CapeCodUCC.org Massachusetts Conference UCC: www.macucc.org National UCC website: www.ucc.org All offer a lot of good information about our denomination and the work we do as individual churches and together. - no fancy setup – especially bullets! We just have to remove them - include your name and phone number - e-mail to: fedchurch.orleans@verizon.net - deadline is 12:00 noon, 3rd Tuesday of each month (*see note) PARISH VISITOR UPCOMING DEADLINES To assist those who wish to plan ahead, the deadlines for the Parish Visitor in 2013 will be: Issue Deadline October September 20 November October 20 Dec. ‘15/Jan. ’16 November 17 February 2016 January 19, 2016 March February 16 Please submit by 12:00 noon on the days listed above. Unfortunately, late submissions can no longer be “squeezed” in, but will be included in the following month’s issue.