BASICS Basics Session 8 Character and Integrity Participant Guide Table of Contents Introduction and Objective ........................................................... 3 Religion vs. Relationship:................................................................. 4 Character Valued........................................................................... 5 Character Studied ..................................................................... 6 - 8 Character Contrasted .................................................................... 9 Character Personified .................................................................. 10 Application Points ......................................................................... 11 In Conclusion… ............................................................................. 12 2 Basics Character and Integrity Introduction Basics 8 - Why do people shop for “name” brands? Why do they go to Sears for tools or to Home Depot for building supplies? Why the FTD florist? It is because they trust the brand. They trust the reputation for a particular product. This trust is earned through personal experience, through recommendations of trusted sources, and years of good general reputation. This lesson is focused on giving you an understanding of the importance of good character, reputation and integrity from the perspective of scripture. Our objective today is to learn to be more like Christ by exhibiting Godly character and integrity. Objective - Learning to be more like Christ by exhibiting Godly character and integrity. ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 3 Basics Religion vs. Relationship: Does it please God to simply “go through the motions”? You know - the church routine; doing the “Sunday” thing; praying before meals; giving a few bucks to the church on occasion? On Monday through Saturday, is there any difference between you and the person who claims no faith at all? Do the traditions and routines of religion please God if they are not genuine and do not represent an inward change of the heart? Do we proclaim His name on Sunday and then act dishonestly at work on Monday? Really look at your heart and ask God to reveal to you any areas where your integrity and character could be questioned. Remember, He wants your heart. Once He has it, you will want to honor Him by living your life in a way that glorifies only Him – with character and integrity. ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 4 Basics Character Valued Read Proverbs 22:1 1. Why is this verse true today? __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ 2. How is it played out in our daily lives? __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ 3. Why is someone’s reputation so important? __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ 5 Basics Character Studied Pray, Observe, Interpret, Apply, Do King Solomon was considered to be the wisest man in the world during his time. His words still resonate today. Before reading what he wrote on the subject of integrity, Pray that God will reveal something about Himself to you. Pray that He will reveal something about yourself and what you need to do. Read: Proverbs 10:9, 11:3, 13:6, 29:10 Write down your observations. What do these passages say? What is their context? Who are they written to? What are their main points? Answer the questions - who, what, when and where? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 6 Basics Make interpretations based on your observations. What do these passages mean? What are they saying to its readers? Why is it significant? Answer the question, “Why?” Why was it written? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ Make application points. Based on what I have observed and interpreted, how does this apply to me today? What does God want me to do based on what I have read? Make it personal and measurable. ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 7 Basics Now…Do them. Don’t just be a hearer of the Word, but a doer. What are you going to do? When are going to do it? Who will help you be accountable? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 8 Basics Character Contrasted Define Integrity. What are its benefits? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ Define Duplicity. What are its consequences? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 9 Basics Character Personified Read Mark 12:13-17 In what ways did Jesus lead a life of integrity? How did he show His true character? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ If you were to ask your spouse, children and good friends to describe your character, what do you think they would they say? ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ 10 Basics Application Points What is something new that you learned about God today? ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ What is God telling you to do with this new knowledge? ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ How can what you learned today help you in your daily life? ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ 11 Basics In Conclusion… Ask your spouse or a close personal friend to give you an honest assessment of the kind of person you are. Where areas are identified that do not line up under God’s will for your life, seek Godly counsel to correct them. Ask God to continue to form Godly character in you and allow others to hold you accountable to that. 12 Basics