New York Times Feb 4, 1988 Ruling Hailed By Opponents of Surrogacy By Stacey Okun LEAD: Opponents of surrogate motherhood applauded the New Jersey Supreme Court's ruling in the Baby M case, saying it had confirmed their views on the dehumanizing nature of surrogacy contracts. Opponents of surrogate motherhood applauded the New Jersey Supreme Court's ruling in the Baby M case, saying it had confirmed their views on the dehumanizing nature of surrogacy contracts. ''I think this points us in the direction of legislation across the nation to discourage baby brokering,'' said Jeremy Rifkin, co-chairman of the National Coalition Against Surrogacy. ''The court has acknowledged that women's bodies and wombs can't be rented or leased.'' However, William Handel, director of the Center for Surrogate Parenting in Los Angeles, said that even if other legislatures took a cue from the New Jersey decision, which has found commercial surrogacy illegal, it had become a fact of life in the United States. ''Now that the technology is readily available,'' he said, ''childless couples are recognizing that it works and is necessary. It certainly does not stop people from coming in to the centers.'' Decision Called Balanced Amid the opposing views, legal experts, psychologists and advocates of children's rights said the court's decision was balanced, because it invalidated the controversial contract between William Stern and Mary Beth Whitehead-Gould but affirmed the parental rights of both. They also expressed concern for Melissa Stern, saying the 22-month-old child at the crux of the case is a victim of a custody battle between parents whose only bond was a financial deal now gone sour. ''The decision is pointing us back to where the fundamental moral issues lie,'' said Daniel Callahan, director of the Hastings Center, a research institute on biomedical ethics in Westchester County, ''and they lie with the welfare of Melissa and the tons of children born of surrogate contracts, not love, who will face similar problems in their growing up. It's up to the legislators now to come up with something appropriate and something fast.'' Jordan Lorence, the attorney who represents Concerned Women for America, a group that opposes surrogacy, said the court's decision to invalidate the contract would make couples who contemplated surrogacy insecure. ''Anyone thinking of entering into this kind of situation will now say, 'Why should I hire a surrogate mother when there's no guarantee I will end up with a child?' '' he said. ''Psychologically this was being viewed as a test case of legitimacy. Women are going to change their minds in these situations because they can't possibly project their feelings from the sale of conception to the moment of birth.'' Feminists Are Pleased Feminists said they were thrilled that Mrs. Whitehead-Gould's parental rights had been restored. Her visitation rights with the child she still calls Sara will be determined by a lower court. ''One of the things that has driven me crazy all along is that the real mother is being called the surrogate mother,'' said Marilyn French, a feminist author who opposes new reproductive technologies. ''I think there's something profoundly wrong with saying to a mother who has just given birth, 'You have to do today what you said you would six months ago.' '' Several legal scholars praised the court for giving the Sterns custody and for permiting women to volunteer for surrogacy if it is understood that they can change their minds about giving up parental rights. ''One might do it out of love, for one's sister,'' said Angela Holder, a professor of law at Yale University, ''but it's a whole different matter when you do it for someone down the street.'' Copyright © New York Times