Interesting pop-psych articles on jealousy http://www.psychologytoday.com/node/62196 Currently the most thorough and highly regarded research based book on Jealousy: $150 to $200 @ Amazon Handbook of Jealousy: Theory, Research, and Multidisciplinary Approaches [Hardcover] Sybil L. Hart (Editor), Maria Legerstee (Editor) 2010 Through a compilation of original articles, the Handbook of Jealousy offers an integrated portrait of the emerging areas of research into the nature of jealousy and a forum for discussing the implications of the findings for theories of emotional and socio-cognitive development. Presents the most recent findings and theories on jealousy across a range of contexts and age-stages of development Includes 23 original articles with empirical findings and detailed commentaries by leading experts in the field Serves as a valuable resource for professionals in the fields of clinical psychology, psychiatry, and social work, as well as scholars in the fields of psychology, family studies, sociology, and anthropology An excerpt from the Handbook on Jealousy Chapter written by Jaak Panksepp The evolutionary sources of jealousy: Cross-species approaches to fundamental issues. Authors: Panksepp, Jaak, Washington State University, College of Veterinary Medicine, Pullman, WA, US Source: Handbook of jealousy: Theory, research, and multidisciplinary approaches. Hart, Sybil L. (Ed.); Legerstee, Maria (Ed.); pp. 101-120. Wiley-Blackw Abstract: (from the chapter) This chapter will summarize the little we know about jealousy across mammalian species. Jealousy is rarely considered to be a primary emotion, since it requires certain types of social relationships, for instance triadic conflicts of some kind, in order to be fully expressed. This does not mean that jealousy is not based on a variety of primary, genetically ingrained, emotional processes. The primary feelings experienced at the loss of a valued social relationship, as might be triggered by the conviction of a spouse's infidelity, can vary enormously among different people.Jealousy ultimately becomes that affectively complex emotion whose adaptive value is to counteract severance of existing social bonds. I would advocate the common view that an affective precondition for the emergence of human jealousy is the existence of an established social bond that is threatened by the perceived intervention of a third party—a witting or unwitting interloper. Although jealousy is not a basic emotion, it is certainly evolutionarily prepared to emerge developmentally from the types of MindBrain dynamics that can defensibly be deemed basic emotions.Jealousy, just like the many other secondary/tertiary emotions that rely on learning and higher cognitive activities, becomes manifest through existential experiences of living in social worlds. There is neither a single genetically pre-ordained evolutionary brain network nor a single emotional feeling that can define jealousy. Still, of all the socially constructed emotions, jealousy may be especially closely tethered to the basic emotional systems— more clearly "prepared" to take on its core form than other social emotions such as embarrassment, guilt, and shame, not to mention the yet higher-level social emotions such as empathy, envy, and social disgust. The intimate proximity of jealousy to several basic emotional processes may eventually allow animal models to provide robust empirical strategies to inform us about the neural underpinnings of jealousy, comparable to those that have already illuminated various basic emotions (Panksepp, 1998a, 2005a). (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved) Another book I found very interesting: The Dangerous Passion Why Jealousy Is as Necessary as Love and Sex By DAVID M. BUSS Click her to read a chapter of this book…very interesting and well written http://www.nytimes.com/books/first/b/buss-passion.html Authors: Leahy RL ; Tirch DD American Institute for Cognitive Therapy, drdennis@mac.com Source: International Journal of Cognitive Therapy (INT J COGNIT THER), 2008 Feb; 1(1): 18-32 (43 ref) Subjects: Cognitive Therapy -- Methods Jealousy Models, Psychological Jealousy is a multidimensional cognitive, emotional, behavioral and interpersonal phenomenon. Jealousy can be a destructive and often dangerous emotional and interpersonal response to threats to a valued relationship. Despite the importance of jealousy as an issue for couples, there has been relatively little attention to this problem. Jealousy is a form of angry, agitated worry, whose goal is to anticipate and avoid surprise and betrayal. A meta-emotional model is described, emphasizing the normalization of jealous emotion, distinguishing between "feeling" and "acting on" jealousy and linking jealousy to emotional processing, intolerance of uncertainty and thought fusion. Mindfulness and acceptance based approaches can be used that emphasize cultivating a capacity to distance and de-center from disturbing thoughts and feelings, overcoming attempts at experiential avoidance that may amplify jealousy, disrupting thought-reality fusion, and establishing a non-judgmental observing stance, from which adaptive behaviors may proceed. Department of Psychology, National University, Redding Academic Center, Redding, CA Source: Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy (J COUPLE RELATIONSHIP THER), 2008; 7(3): 210-29 (50 ref) Major Subjects: Interpersonal Relations Jealousy Perception Psychotherapists One-hundred and fifty-nine randomly selected members of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy responded to a questionnaire assessing perceptions of prevalence of romantic jealousy as a problem for their own clients in therapy, perceptions of contributing factors, estimated frequencies of emotions and coping behaviors of jealous clients, and open-ended suggestions of useful goals and techniques for psychotherapy of jealousy. Results indicate that jealousy was judged to be the major or a major presenting problem in about one-third of all clients who seek psychotherapy, especially for those under age 45. Therapists' suggestions for psychotherapy were reliably coded into nine different categories of intervention. Therapists' perceptions of the causes and nature of jealousy are generally consistent with results found in research on nonclinical samples. Sex differences in jealousy: a contribution from attachment theory. Authors: Levy KN; Kelly KM Author Address: Department of Psychology, Pennsylvania State University, University Park, PA 16803, USA. klevy@psu.edu Source: Psychological Science [Psychol Sci] 2010 Feb; Vol. 21 (2), pp. 168-73. Date of Electronic Publication: 2009 Dec 22. Jealousy* Object Attachment* Sex Characteristics* Adolescent ; Adult ; Biological Evolution ; Emotions ; Extramarital Relations ; Female ; Humans ; Male ; Middle Aged ; Parenting/psychology ; Social Values ; Young Adult Abstract: Studies have found that more men than women endorse sexual infidelity as more distressing than emotional infidelity, whereas more women than men endorse emotional infidelity as more distressing than sexual infidelity. Some evolutionary psychologists have proposed that this sex difference can be best conceptualized as reflecting evolution-based differences in parental investment that produce a need for paternity certainty among men and a need for male investment in offspring among women. Nonetheless, a conspicuous subset of men report emotional infidelity as more distressing than sexual infidelity. Current theorizing explains between-sex differences but not within-sex differences. We hypothesized that attachment-style differences may help to explain both betweenand within-sex differences in jealousy. As hypothesized, dismissing avoidant participants reported more jealousy regarding sexual than emotional infidelity (64.8%), and secure participants, including secure men, reported more jealousy regarding emotional than sexual infidelity (77.3%), chi(2)(3, N = 411) = 45.03, p < .001. A series of sequential logistic regression analyses indicated significant moderation of the sex-jealousy relationship by attachment style. Implications of an attachment perspective are discussed.