FUNERAL INFORMATION St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church NAME: ___________________________________________________________ DATE OF BIRTH ________________DATE OF DEATH ______________AGE _________ DATE OF BAPTISM ________________________________________________ ********** DATE AND TIME OF FUNERAL __________________________________________________ PLACE AND DATE OF BURIAL/INURNMENT_______________________________________ VISITATION AT FUNERAL HOME _____________VISITATION AT CHURCH _____________ LUNCHEON? Y/N Number planning for at luncheon _____________ ST. ANDREW’S LUNCHEONS ____ ham sandwiches ____ potato chips OR _____ hot potatoes ____ baked beans Pickle spears, coffee and cakes $2.00 per plate suggested donation to the women’s organization ********** BIBLE READINGS (as many as you wish) Suggested Bible passages printed on following pages 1. __________________________________ 2. __________________________________ 3. __________________________________ CONGREGATIONAL SINGING (Hymns) Suggested hymns printed on following pages ORGANIST/PIANIST: ______________________ 1. Near beginning _________________________________________________________ 2. After Message ________________________________________________________ 3. At end ______________________________________________________________ 4. other ? ______________________________________________________________ SPECIAL MUSIC (music appropriate for a worship service, with God or praise of God as focus) NAMES OF SONG(S) MUSICIAN/VOCALIST(S): 1. ___________________________________________________________________ 2. ___________________________________________________________________ 3. ___________________________________________________________________ FAMILY/PERSONAL REFLECTIONS (one-two page typed reflections/memories/or a good-bye letter.) This really personalizes the funeral service of worship, and allows the message to focus on the proclamation of the Gospel, and words of comfort and hope from God’s word. BY WHOM? 1. ______________________________________________ 2. ______________________________________________ COMMUNION – Y____ N ____ Receiving the true presence of Jesus in the bread and the wine can be a source of comfort for those mourning. Communion is also a “foretaste of the feast to come” – and is therefore both a way of claiming and proclaiming the promise of eternal life, as well as a means through which we are united with those who have died in the faith. SERVERS _______________________________________________________________ PASTORS’ ROLES: At St. Andrew’s both pastors typically participate in all funerals, including meeting with the family for support, prayer and comfort, engaging in family “re-membering” and to plan the funeral service of worship. Both want to establish or continue a pastoral relationship with you. One will preach the sermon, the other preside at worship. If you have a preference as to which pastor does what, we will try to accommodate that. PRESIDING _____________________ PREACHING __________________________ SUGGESTED SCRIPTURE READINGS FOR FUNERALS OLD TESTAMENT Verses Job 19:23-27 Proverbs 31:10-31 Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 Isaiah 25:6-9 Isaiah 35:3-10 Isaiah 40:1-11 Isaiah 40:27-31 Isaiah 43:1-3, 18-19, 25 Isaiah 55:1-3,6-13 Isaiah 61:1-4,10-11 Isaiah 65:17-25 Jeremiah 31:31-34 Zechariah 8:1-8 Theme My Redeemer lives Portrait of a godly woman For everything there is a season God will swallow up death forever The ransomed shall return He shall feed his flock They who wait for the Lord I am going to do a new thing God’s gracious covenant The Spirit of the Lord is upon me A new heaven and a new earth Written on the heart Children at play in God’s city PSALMS Verses Psalm 23 Psalm 34:1-8 Psalm 42:1-6a Psalm 46 Psalm 90:1-6,10,12-17 Psalm 91:1-2,9-12,14-16 Psalm 103:1-5,10-18 Psalm 116:1-9,12-15 Psalm 121 Psalm 130 Psalm 139:1-12,23-24 Psalm 143 Theme The Lord is my shepherd Taste and see that the Lord is good As the deer longs for flowing streams God is our refuge and strength So teach us to number our days In the shadow of the Almighty God’s steadfast love Precious is the death of his saints The Lord will keep you Out of the depths Pursued by God Hear my prayer, O Lord NEW TESTAMENT Verses Romans 5:1-11 Romans 6:3-9 Romans 8:14-23 Romans 8:31-35,37-39 1 Corinthians 13 1 Corinthians 15:12-19 1 Corinthians 15:51-58 2 Corinthians 4:7-14 2 Corinthians 5:1-10 Theme While we were yet sinners Baptized into Christ’s death. Joint heirs with Christ Who shall separate us? But the greatest of these is love Assurance of resurrection O, death, where is thy sting? Perplexed, but not in despair A house not made with hands Philippians 2:5-11 Philippians 4:4-9 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 Hebrews 12:1-2 1 Peter 1:3-9 1 John 1:1-7 Revelation 7:9-17 Revelation 21:22-27 Revelation 22:1-7 GOSPEL READINGS Verses Matthew 5:1-10 Matthew 11:25-30 Matthew 18:1-5,10-14 Matthew 25:31-40 Mark 10:13-16 Luke 23:32-43 Luke 24:1-5, 9-14 Luke 24:13-35 John 1:1-5, 9-14 John 3:16-21 John 5:19-29 John 6:37-40 John 10:7-16 John 11:17-27 John 14:1-7 John 14:25-27 He emptied himself Rejoice in the Lord The comfort of his coming again A cloud of witnesses Born anew to a living hope Walk in the light A great multitude in white robes The heavenly Jerusalem The Lamb of God and the Tree of Life Theme Blessed are those who mourn Easy yoke, light burden Become like children You gave me food Let the children come to me Today I will be with you in Paradise The resurrection of Christ Known in the breaking of the bread The light shines in the darkness God so loved the world The Son gives life The Bread of Life The Good Shepherd I am the Resurrection The Way, the Truth, the Life Peace I leave with you POSSIBLE HYMNS FOR CONGREGATIONAL SINGING AT FUNERALS FROM EVANGELICAL LUTHERAN WORSHIP (ELW) HYMNAL Hymn #629 “Abide with Me” Hymn #779 “Amazing Grace, How Sweet the Sound” Hymn #890 “Battle Hymn of the Republic” Hymn #838 “Beautiful Savior” Hymn #338 “Beneath the Cross of Jesus” Hymn #793 “Be Thou My Vision” Hymn #732 “Borning Cry” Hymn #781 “Children of the Heavenly Father” Hymn #790 “Day By Day” Hymn #787 “Eagles’ Wings” (aka “You Who Dwell in the Shelter of the Lord”) Hymn #756 “Eternal Father , Strong top Save” Hymn #422 “For All the Saints” Hymn #733 “Great Is Thy Faithfulness” Hymn #612 “Healer of Our Every Ill” Hymn #856 “How Great Thou Art” Hymn #619 “I Know That My Redeemer Lives!” Hymn #661 “I Love To Tell the Story” Hymn #324 “In the Cross of Christ I Glory” Hymn #628 “Jerusalem My Happy Home” Hymn #836 “Joyful, Joyful We Adore Thee” Hymn #697 “Just a Closer Walk With Thee” Hymn #592 “Just As I Am, Without One Plea” Hymn #881 “Let All Things Now Living” Hymn #660 “Lift High the Cross” Hymn #765 “Lord of All Hopefulness” Hymn #767 “Lord, Take My Hand and Lead Me” Hymn #631 “Love Divine, All Loves Excelling Hymn #597 “My Hope is Built on Nothing Less” Hymn #627 “O Day Full of Grace” Hymn #818 “O Master, Let Me Walk with You” Hymn #787 “On Eagle’s Wings” Hymn #858 “Praise to the Lord, the Almighty” Hymn # 773 “Precious Lord Take My Hand” Hymn #623 “Rock of Ages, Cleft for Me” Hymn #789 “Savior, Like a Shepherd Lead Us” Hymn #502 “The King of Love My Shepherd Is” Hymn #824 “This Is My Father’s World” Hymn #613 “Thy Holy Wings” Hymn #742 “What a Friend We Have in Jesus” Hymn #666 “What Wondrous Love is This” Hymn #853 “When Morning Gilds the Skies” Hymn #785 “When Peace Like a River” FUNERAL SERVICE OF WORSHIP for _____________________________________________________________________ St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church with options Prelude - clergy and family walk in during prelude INTRODUCTION _____OPTION A: Welcome in the name of Jesus Welcome in the name of Jesus, the Savior of the world. We are gathered to worship, to proclaim Christ crucified and risen, to remember before God our sister/brother name, to give thanks for her/his life, to commend her/him to our merciful redeemer, and to comfort one another in our grief. ______OPTION B: Blessed be the God and Father Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the source of all mercy and the God of all consolation, who comforts us in all our sorrows so that we can comfort others in their sorrows with the consolation we ourselves have received from God. THANKSGIVING FOR BAPTISM A thanksgiving for baptism follows. As a sign of being clothed with Christ in baptism, a pall is placed on the coffin ______OPTION A: When we were baptized in Christ Jesus When we were baptized in Christ Jesus, we were baptized into his death. We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might live a new life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we shall certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. ______OPTION B: All who are baptized into Christ All who are baptized into Christ have put on Christ. In her/his baptism, name was clothed with Christ. In the day of Christ's coming, she/he shall be clothed with glory. HYMN/SOLO ACCLAMATION Eternal God, maker of heaven and earth, who formed us from the dust of the earth, who by your breath gave us life, we glorify you. We glorify you. Jesus Christ, the resurrection and the life, who suffered death for all humanity, who rose from the grave to open the way to eternal life, we praise you. We praise you. Holy Spirit, author and giver of life, the comforter of all who sorrow, our sure confidence and everlasting hope, we worship you. We worship you. To you, O blessed Trinity, be glory and honor, forever and ever. Amen. GREETING The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all. And also with you. PRAYER OF THE DAY . ______OPTION A: O God of grace and glory Let us pray. O God of grace and glory, we remember before you today our sister/brother, name. We thank you for giving her/him to us to know and to love as a companion in our pilgrimage on earth. In your boundless compassion, console us who mourn. Give us faith to see that death has been swallowed up in the victory of our Lord Jesus Christ, so that we may live in confidence and hope until, by your call, we are gathered to our heavenly home in the company of all your saints; through Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord. Amen. ______OPTION B: Almighty God, source of all mercy Let us pray. Almighty God, source of all mercy and giver of comfort, graciously tend those who mourn, that, casting all their sorrow on you, they may know the consolation of your love; through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. ______OPTION C: At the death of a child Let us pray. Holy God, your beloved Son took children into his arms and blessed them. Help us to entrust name to your never-failing care and love. Comfort us as we bear the pain of her/his death, and receive us all into your everlasting arms, through Jesus Christ, our Savior and Lord. Amen. HYMN/ OR SPECIAL MUSIC (optional) READING OF OBITUARY FAMILY/PERSONAL REFLECTIONS HYMN OR SPECIAL MUSIC BIBLE READINGS AND MESSAGE HYMN OR SPECIAL MUSIC APOSTLE’S CREED PRAYERS OF INTERCESSION WORDS OF INSTITUTION (optional – if communion will be served) LORD'S PRAYER DISTRIBUTION OF COMMUNION (optional) COMMENDATION Let us commend name to the mercy of God, our maker and redeemer. Into your hands, O merciful Savior, we commend your servant name. Acknowledge, we humbly beseech you, a sheep of your own fold, a lamb of your own flock, a sinner of your own redeeming. Receive her/him into the arms of your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light. Amen. BLESSING Almighty God, Father, + Son, and Holy Spirit, bless you now and forever. Amen. TABLE GRACE If there is to be a luncheon Following the funeral service AND/OR committal service HYMN DISMISSAL Postlude Let us go forth in peace, in the name of Christ. Amen. Clergy walk out ahead of casket/urn; family follows