1 THESSALONIANS 2:17-3:13 INTRODUCTION I want to begin, today, by asking you a question: Do you love people? I’m not talking about some general sense of loving “the world” – vaguely – but the people who are actually close to you, and in your life every day. That’s difficult! And, I want to focus particularly on the people that you know – people in your family, friend group, and church. Do you love them? Maybe more importantly, how do you love them? And, how do you know you’re loving them in the way that is most eternally good for them? Now, before we go any further, let me give you a quick word on my approach to application of passage from the Bible. Sometimes, it’s very appropriate to find ourselves (when studying and applying the epistles) with the believers in the church – receiving the apostolic gospel and the accompanying instructions. In fact, this is how we should apply the passages of the New Testament epistles most of the time! But, in this passage today, I actually want us to learn from Paul – to place ourselves with him, as we examine his immense LOVE FOR PEOPLE, in light of the gospel. We are not Apostles, to be sure, but we can evaluate our love for the people around us in light of the way that Paul loves the Thessalonian believers with deep, gospel-centered, and eternally-focused love. Now, we need to admit that this text is something – functionally. It is a letter, written to real people living at a real time and place, and it does really recount specific events – actions of Paul, and decisions that he made. Paul is, in the historical context, continuing to defend his ministry and love for the Thessalonians – especially in light of his absence from them. But, there are principles here that we need to see – and learn – from the ministry of Paul. At the heart of this passage today is an important lesson for us to learn: As God’s people, we are called to LOVE people, in light of the most ETERNAL perspective on their lives, hearts, and souls in Jesus Christ. We’re going to see this, today, in Paul’s: o ATTITUDE toward the people in this church o ACTIONS toward the people in this church o AFFIRMATION about these people in this church You see, Paul’s was not a ministry that was focused on programs or structures; Paul’s ministry was about the PEOPLE. Loving people. Calling them to love Jesus. Rejoicing in their spiritual well-being more than almost anything else, because of an eternal perspective on the coming of Jesus Christ as Savior, King, and Judge. We, like Paul, are called to love the people around us with gospel-centered love, in light of eternity. OUTLINE 1. The ATTITUDE of Paul (2:17-20) a. We see that, as Paul begins this passage, he talks about the way that he was “torn away” from the believers at Thessalonica (17). He is referring to the events that are recorded for us in the Acts 17 account; Paul and Silas were forced to exit the city quickly, because of all the persecution that the Jews were inciting against them. Paul wants them to understand two important things about his absence, though: i. First, Paul is very clear that he deeply desires to be with them in person (17). He did not want to go away from them; he wishes he could stay with them! ii. Second, Paul actually says that he was hindered by Satan from seeing them (18); we don’t know exactly what he means by this, but he certainly sees a vicious demonic attack on his life and ministry, which has prevented him from being with the church members in person. b. Next, though, Paul makes a bit of a tangential statement, which is very important. Paul wants the Thessalonian believers to know how he views them; Paul sees his people as his “crown” (sign of victory – wreath for athlete) at the last day (19-20). They are his pride and joy – even a source of boasting before God when he stands before him. c. Paul is defending his love for the Thessalonians, in the midst of his absence, by telling them his desire to see them, and the way he sees them in light of eternity. i. As we seek to apply this first point – with regard to Paul’s ATTITUDE toward the people he leads and loves – we should consider the way we pursue an eternal CROWN before God at the last day. What do we hope will be our prize when we stand before God? What will God treasure and value? According to Paul, it will be the people that we have helped and encouraged to love and know Jesus! Think about what this tells us about our commitment to people, in light of eternity. More on this in a moment. 2. The ACTION of Paul (3:1-5) a. Paul does not merely have a warm and loving attitude toward the Thessalonian believers; he also ACTS based on his love for them. Paul goes on to explain that he sends Timothy to them (1-2) because of his deep concern for their spiritual well-being. Notice that Paul highlights two aspects of this sacrifice that he makes, out of love for the believers in Thessalonica: i. First, this is clearly a sacrifice for Paul (he explains that sending Timothy meant that he was left at Athens alone). ii. Second, Paul goes out of his way to give a very noteworthy description of Timothy; he calls him “God’s coworker” – highlighting the integrity and worthiness of Timothy, who has been sent to Thessalonica. He doesn’t want them to miss how highly he values this gospel friend and co-worker. b. We then see the motivation behind Paul’s sending of Timothy to them: Paul wants them to not fall away in the midst of persecution (3-5). i. Afflictions are coming to the believers in Thessalonica, just as Paul says that he had warned them about. It could be that some of the Christians there are surprised by this; Paul is telling them that he told them this was coming! ii. Paul goes on to explain that part of what made his absence from them so difficult was that he was afraid that Satan may have used this affliction and persecution as an opportunity to take them from the faith – to tempt them toward sin, doubt, and discouragement. c. Paul is acting on his love for the Thessalonians, sending Timothy to “check in” on their faith, and see how they are holding up in light of human and demonic attacks. i. So, what does this mean for the way that we demonstrate our CONCERN for the people we love? It means that we, like Paul, are most chiefly concerned for the spiritual state of the people we love. More than anything else, we want to know that they are holding strong in their faith in Jesus, and resisting the attacks of Satan. Now, this of course doesn’t mean we don’t have concern for physical needs of people we love; it simply means that we have as our chief and most eternal concern the well-being of the state of people’s hearts and souls – just as Paul did for the believers in Thessalonica. 3. The AFFIRMATION for Paul (3:6-13) a. Now, in the final few verses of this passage, we are going to see that Paul’s joy comes from the spiritual growth and health of the believers (6-10), more than anything else. i. Timothy brings a good report to Paul; he hears that their faith has held fast, even in the midst of persecution and affliction (6)! ii. Paul is deeply moved by their faith; this brings him genuine joy (7-8). iii. Then, Paul goes on to pray for opportunities to “supply” what is lacking in their faith (9-10). 1. Perhaps he is thinking, here, about teaching them more about the resurrection and the last days (see 4:13) – having a continuing teaching role as they continue to grow more mature in their understanding of the things of God. b. As our passage draws to a close, we find that Paul prays a prayer of blessing for them (11-13). There are three main parts to this prayer; Paul prays: i. A prayer to see them soon (11) – he wants to physically be present again with them, so that he can continue to teach, lead, and encourage them in their faith. ii. A prayer to increase their love (12) – he wants the believers at Thessalonica to continue in loving one another in Christ Jesus. iii. A prayer to make them holy, in light of the coming of Jesus (13) – he wants the believers in Thessalonica to be made mature and faithful by the work of the Holy Spirit, ready to stand before Jesus Christ the Judge on the last day. c. Paul rejoices, because of his deep love for the Thessalonians, that they are walking in Christ, and holding fast to the faith – and he prays for this faith to be made complete. i. So, what does Paul’s affirmation (his deepest joy) and his prayers for the believers in Thessalonica tell us about our CARE for the people we love? It means that our CARE for people has to focus – at least in part – on their holiness and growth in faith. What makes Paul most happy is that the Thessalonians are walking in faithfulness and love for Jesus – not that they are materially prospering, or even getting married and having children. As we care for people – and about them – our CARE should focus on their holiness and godliness. This should shape the way we pray for our friends and family members too! CONCLUSION So, as we looked at Paul’s attitude, actions, and affirmation – in ministry – because of his love for the Thessalonians, we considered three ways that we can evaluate OUR love for the people around us: o Our CROWN – What are we working to present to God at the last day? o Our CONCERN – What are we most deeply concerned about in the lives of others? o Our CARE – How do we work hard to care for others in light of eternity? If you’re a Christian – you need to pursue this. And you can ONLY pursue this if you are REALLY a Christian, saved by faith in Jesus Christ! o How could you try to seek a CROWN that has to do with building up the faith of other people, if you are not assured of your own faith in Jesus Christ? o How could you be CONCERNED for the souls of others, if you have not been concerned about the state of your own, and repented of sin and trusted Jesus as Savior and Lord? o How can you CARE for the holiness and godliness of others, if you are not striving to obey and be more like Christ yourself? Give yourself to Jesus; that is the first way you can respond to this passage. But, if you have done that, seek to LOVE other people like Paul. Seek a CROWN before Jesus Christ, as you lead others to faith and love for him. Make your deepest CONCERN the eternal hearts and souls of the people around you. Pray that you will CARE most about the godliness and holiness of the people you love, and pray for them to this end.