Henry M. Carter,MBA
HOW TO DEVELOP A
WELL MADE MAN
WELL MADE MAN
Objectives
• Expose participants to the benefits of dressing for
success
• Inform participants how public speaking can be a
rewarding skill for anyone looking to improve their
career situation.
• Stimulate the appreciation of reading books that will
improve their professional and personal development.
• Promote the importance of traveling
• Provide keys to having a well-balanced life.
Statistics
• Only 41% of Black men graduate
from high school in the United
States.
Schott Foundation for Public
Education
Statistics
• Just 22 % of Black males who began at
a four-year college graduated within
six years.
National Student Clearinghouse/Study by
Consortium on Chicago School Research
at U of Chicago
Statistics
• Of Black males born this year, 29% can expect to
spend some time behind bars.
• One in 14 Black children has a parent in jail or
prison.
• One in 20 Black men is incarcerated, compared
with one in 155 White men.
Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, “Prison
and Jail Inmates at Midyear 2010,” April 6, 2011
MANHOOD
A real man cannot be defined by money,
Power and status. There are traits that
men must posses in order to be a good
Provider and Protector
MANHOOD
WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER TO
BE GOOD TRAITS OF
MANHOOD?
MANHOOD TRAITS
Courage (strengths that allow one to
accomplish goals in the face of opposition)
• Bravery
• Persistence/tenacity
• Integrity/self-reliance
• Vitality
• Organization
• Prudence(cool calm & collected)
MANHOOD TRAITS
Humanity (strengths of tending and befriending
others)
• Love
• Kindness
• Social Intelligence
• Humor
MANHOOD TRAITS
Justice (strengths that build healthy
community)
• Responsibility/Loyalty/Teamwork
• Fairness
• Respect
• Leadership
MANHOOD TRAITS
Temperance (strengths that protect against
excess i.e. moderation)
• Forgiveness and Mercy
• Humility and Modesty
• Truthfulness/Honor
• Sound Judgment)
• Self-control/Disciplining Your
Disappointments
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Dressed
Well Read
Well Spoken
Well Traveled
Well Balanced
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Dressed
• Adj.1.well-dressed - Having
tasteful clothing and being neat and
well-groomed
• groomed - neat and smart in
appearance; well cared for
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Dressed
First Impression
“You attract what you are”
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Dressed
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Read
Leaders are Readers and Readers are Leaders
• Words create thoughts and thoughts create
beliefs and beliefs create actions and actions
create RESULTS
• Thinking + Leadership = $
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Read
Well-Read - highly educated; having
extensive information or understanding;
"knowing instructors"; "a knowledgeable
critic"; "a knowledgeable audience"
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Read
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Spoken
• well-spoken adj (well spoken when
postpositive)
1. (Linguistics) having a clear, articulate, and
socially acceptable accent and way of
speaking
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Spoken
Public speaking skills
• Public speaking creates an aura of confidence
• The ability to speak in public can be a truly rewarding skill
for anyone looking to improve his or her career situation
• Public speaking teaches one how to communicate ideas
clearly
• Public speakers are uniquely situated and empowered to
make a difference in their communities
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Spoken
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Traveled
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Traveled
It's a great, big world waiting to be explored,
which should be reason enough for all men to
travel. As men, we're thrilled by the unknown.
According to recent figures from the U.S.
Department of State, only roughly 30% of
Americans have a PASSPORT.
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Traveled
Meet New People
Eat New Foods
Learn a New Language
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Well Balanced
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
MAN RULES
• Man rule: You should never try to look better than your
woman.
• Man rule: A man is judged by how well he takes care of
his family
• Man rule: A man should only set the standards in the
household when he is obedient to Creator
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Man Rules
• Man Rule: Always spend more time with your family
than your friends
• Man Rule: A man should not squander family
resources
• Man Rule: Always be a father first and a friend second
to your children
• Man Rule : Leave a legacy for your children to pass on
to their children
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
Man Rules
• Man Rule: Maintain a position of strength
because the family will feed off your
disposition
• Man Rule: Constantly improve your
intellectual prowess. It is difficult to lead
with an empty mind
• Man Rule: Must teach family to be servant
leaders. Let them see you helping others
The Five Wells of a
Well Made Man
I will see you at the top because
the bottom is too crowded
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