A Journaling Workshop - Washington Traumatic Brain Injury Council

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Caring for Yourself, too: A

Journaling Workshop

Washington State 2011 TBI Conference

April 28, 2011

Joan Jaeger, MSPA, CCC-SLP

Session Goal

To introduce journaling techniques and other methods that caregivers can use for improved self-care and resiliency.

Agenda

Journaling Exercise #1: Three Words

Why should caregivers journal?

What is self-care?

Journaling Exercise #2: Self- Care

What is resiliency?

Journaling Exercise #3: Resiliency

Journaling Exercise #4: Three words

Journal Exercise #1:

Three Words

• Write three words describing how you are feeling write now.

The Power of Words

• http://youtu.be/Hzgzim5m7oU

The potential benefits of journal writing are many, including opportunities to:

process emotions

unleash creativity

relieve stress

lift your spirits

heal wounds

enhance mental stability

sort out experiences

solve problems

consider varying perspectives

examine relationships with others

reflect on personal values, goals, and ideals

Writing works!

more robust immune system

fewer trips to the doctor

lower levels of pain

use fewer medications

function better in day-to-day tasks

score higher on tests of psychological well-being

James Pennebaker: Opening Up (Guilford Press, 1997)

What type of writing works best for therapuetic journaling?

It's not:

fiction

poetry

daily data entries

It best when:

- writing about stressful or traumatic events

What is self-care?

• Decisions and actions that an individual can take to cope with a health problem

• Takes time, effort and practice

• Requires maintenance and balance in life

• Self-care is crucial to avoid “burn out”/ “compassion fatigue”

“Top 5 pieces of general advice” from “Mindstorms” by John W.

Cassidy

• Take one step at a time.

• Don’t expect any guarantees – Good or bad

• Remember that you and your loved one are unique

• Avoid isolation and take time for yourself

• Live in the moment

Self-care Slogans

Self-Care for Caregivers by Pat Samples, Diane

Larsen, & Marvin Larsen.

Keep It Simple

One Day at a Time

Easy Does It

This Too Shall Pass

Self-Care Approaches

• Meditation

• Relaxation

• Affirmation

• Recreation

• Prioritization

• Nutrition

• Rest

• Sleep

• Exercise

• Medical Care

• Ask for assistance

• Take a “news” break

• Seek information

• Breathing

• Journaling

• Others…..

The Relaxing Breath

"Practicing regular, mindful breathing can be calming and energizing and can even help with stress-related health problems ranging from panic attacks to digestive disorders."

Andrew Weil, M.D.

Journaling Exercise #2: Self-Care

“Before I became a caregiver, I used to care for myself by___________________”

“Some of the things I do now to take care of myself are_______________________”

“I usually fall apart if I don’t____________”

“I want to care for myself and so I will

______________”

Al Siebert, PhD, author of

The Resiliency Advantage

• Some caregivers are more resilient, hardy and stressresistant than others.

• Some hold up well under pressure and even gain strength from the difficulties and strains.

• Resilient people find meaning, purpose and value in difficult circumstances.

• We humans are born with the ability to be made better by life’s difficulties.

Features of Resiliency

Be Positive - See life as challenging, dynamic, and filled with opportunities.

Be Focused - Determine where you are headed and stick to that goal so that barriers do not block your way

Be Flexible - Open yourself to different possibilities when faced with uncertainty.

Be Organized - Develop structured approaches to be able to manage the unknown.

Be Proactive - Look ahead, actively engage change, and work with it.

Journaling Exercise #3: Resiliency

I know I have always been a resilient person because ___________________”

“My resilience has never been that strong and I know this because

____________”

“I want to become more resilient and so

I will___________________________”

Journaling Exercise # 4: Three Words

• Now write three words that describe how you are feeling right now

• Compare these words to the three words you wrote at the beginning of the session.

Resources We Use

Journaling Books and More

• Larsen, D. & Larsen, M. Self Care for Caregivers. Center City,

Minnesota: Hazelden Foundation, 1991.

• Goodwin, Lynn B. You want me to do what? Journaling for caregivers.

Oklahoma: Tate Publishing & Enterprises LLC, 2009

• Pennebaker, James PhD. Opening Up. New York: Guilford Press, 1997.

• Stahura, Barbara & Schuster, Susan B. After Brain Injury: Telling

your story. A Journaling Workbook. Wake Forest, NC: Lash &

Associates Publishing/Training Inc, 2009.

Journaling Internet Sites

Breathing exercises http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/ART00521/threebreathing-exercises.html

Internet site & Book - Sue Meyn, JOURNAL POWER, http://www.toolswithheart.com/journalcoach/index.html

Article about journaling - http://stress.about.com/od/generaltechniques/p/profilejournal.htm

Article about journaling Alabama Cooperative Extenson

System/Urban/MetroNews--The Healing ...

Barbara Stahura http://www.barbarastahura.com

Certified instructor,

Journal to the Self®, blog: Journal After Brain Injury

.

http://www.journalafterbraininjury.wordpress.com

Books about TBI

• Cassidy, John W., MD. Mindstorms. Cambridge: Da Capo Press, 2009.

• Jameson, Larry & Beth. Brain Injury Survivor’s Guide. Denver:

Outskirts Press, Inc, 2008.

• Leider, Richard J., Shapiro, David A. Repacking your bags. San

Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, Inc., 2002.

• Schwarz, Shelley Peterman. Memory Tips for Making Life Easier.

Verona, Wisconsin: Attainment Company, Inc., 2006.

• Sullivan, Cheryle, MD. Brain Injury Survival Kit. New York: Demos

Medical Publishing, LLC, 2008.

Personal Stories of TBI

• Cromer, Janet M. Professor Cromer Learns To Read. Bloomington: Author House, 2010.

• Fahl, Joyce Little. TBI: Shaken, But Not Stirred. New York: iUniverse, 2009.

• Long, PJ. Gifts from the Broken Jar. Culver City, CA: EquiLibrium Press, Inc., 2005.

• Osborn, Claudia L. Over my head. Missouri: Andrews McMeel Publishing, 2000.

• Schutz, Larry E. & Schutz, Michael E. Head Injury Recovery In Real Life. San Diego:

Plural Publishing, 2010.

• Selak, Joy H., Overman, Steven S. You Don’t Look Sick. New York: The Haworth Medical

Press, 2005.

• Stahura, Barbara. What I Thought I Knew. Wake Forest, NC: Lash & Associates

Publishing/Training Inc, 2009.

• Woodruff, Bob & Lee. In An Instant. New York: Random House, 2007.

Workbooks about TBI

• Long, PJ. Brain On A String. Culver City, CA:

EquiLibrium Press, 2006.

• Mason, Douglas J. The Mild Traumatic Brain

Injury WORKBOOK. Oakland: New Harbinger

Publications, 2004.

• Powell, Trevor & Malia, Kit. The Brain Injury

Workbook. UK: Speechmark Publishing, 2003.

Internet Sites about TBI

University of Washington TBI http://depts.washington.edu/uwtbi/Education/newsv9.1.pdf

TBI Resource Line - 877-824-1766 http://biawa.org/

Young Adult Stroke Group www.SeattleYASS.weebly.com

Brain Injury Association http://www.braininjurywa.org/supportgroups

UW TBI Model System http://msktc.washington.edu/tbi/factsheets/index.asp

TBI Clubhouse clubhouse@provail.org

National Aphasia Association www.aphasia.org

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