Integrating Brief, Strength-based Therapy and Play (A.K.A Play! Play! We Don’t Have All Day!”) Heather Thompson Assistant Professor of Counseling Western Carolina University Context Practice • Practice • Theory Theory Research • Research Integrating Brief and Play Therapy Practice & Theory Self-concept • Trauma • Skills • Self-concept • Self-efficacy Thoughts about self Feelings about self • Mastery and competence • SFBT and Play Therapy Behaviors and Choices Research • Time • Resources • Space • CBT & SFBT • Social skills • 5-10 hours group Today’s Journey • How is play compatible? • Why integrate play? • How to integrate play and brief therapy • How to assess growth and development Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT) Non-directive play therapy (NPT) Focus on the present Focus on the present Build on strengths Build on strengths Help children experience Help children experience positive positive behaviors behaviors Build self-efficacy Build self-efficacy Compatibility Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT) Non-directive play therapy (NPT) • Establish and work toward • Promote decision-making and self- goals • Promote behavioral change responsibility • Enhance frustration tolerance • Facilitate emotional regulation & impulse control • Facilitate understanding and expression of emotions, intentions, Why Integrate Play? wants, desires • Promote understanding of the connection between emotions, intentions, reactions, and behaviors http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4ovwAdxCs0 Why Integrate Play? Evidence-based (school counseling with elementary-aged children) • 16 sessions decreased ADHD and anxiety symptoms (Ray, Schottelkorb, & Tsai, 2007) • 14 sessions decreased behavioral problems (Ray, Dee, Blanco, Sullivan, & Holliman, 2009) • 10 sessions improved internalizing and externalizing reported by teachers and parents (Flahive & Ray, 2007) • 8 sessions for academically at-risk increased academic achievement (Blanco & Ray, 2011) • 6 sessions increased self-efficacy (Fall, Balvanz, Johnson, & Nelson, 1999) • 4 sessions increased self-esteem and internal locus of control (Post, 1999) Why Integrate Play? • Developmentally appropriate – Trust, autonomy (self-control), initiative (power), and industry (confidence) – Unable to verbally express complicated emotions [guilt, shame, resentment] and how they are affected by them – Young children can feel, but they cannot analyze their feelings and thoughts – Metacognition (knowledge about our cognitive processes and how to regulate them – choosing “the right tool for the job”) is limited Why Integrate Play? • Assimilate experience through symbolic play Play + imagination = re-enactment and reorganization of the original experience Memories are altered each time they are revisited and that alteration is influenced by the impact of the present moment (Levy, 2008) Multimodal Integration Left Hemisphere Explicit Language-based Knowledge Language, speech, analytical thinking and sequential processing, and the process of creating narrative Right Hemisphere Implicit Sensory-based Knowledge Intuition, emotions, sensory, automatic skills, and creativity Various modalities by which the brain constructs and stores experiences. Play engages two main forms of cognition: explicit and implicit thought. Play accesses non-verbal sensory-based knowledge and stimulate the left and right hemispheres and integration of knowledge (Fosshage, 2004; Kay, 2009; Lyons-Ruth, 1999; Pally, 2005) Implicit Cognitions • Are not easily described with words • Occur outside of our awareness because they are not embedded in a narrative • Do not require cognitive mediation through the cortex • Are not consciously recallable until integrated with explicit cognition • Early attachment experiences become implicit memories • Become relational patterns that influence future relationships • Play allows for the restructuring of implicit attachment issues • Play facilitates integration Mirror Neurons & PerspectiveTaking Observe Neurons fire (as if) Affective resonance Empathy • Early life trauma decreases capacity for perspective-taking • Hypothesize that this may be due to failure or underdevelopment of Mirror Neurons (Fogerty, 2009 ; Iacoboni 2005; Rizzolati & Craighero 2004; Wolf et al. 2001) Brain Derived Neurotrophic Factor (BDNF) • Chemical compound that prevents cell death and facilitates growth of new neurons • Reduced by chronic stress and depression • Increased by play therapy (Gordon et al., 2003; Kolb & Wishaw 2003) Why Integrate Play? – Self-control (emotional regulation, attention control, impulse control) – Self-efficacy (self-esteem, confidence) – Social skills (consideration for others, reading social/emotional cues, perspective-taking) (Arnold, Kupersmidt, Voegler-Lee, & Marshall, 2012; Brody, Flor, & Gibson, 1999; Jimerson, Egeland, Sroufe, & Carlson, 2000; McLelland, Morrison, & Holmes, 2000; Raver & Zigler, 1997; Vidal, Rodeiro, Emery, & Bell, 2012; Vitaro, Laroque, Janosz, & Tremblay, 2001; Von Suchodoletz A, Gestsdottir S, Ragnarsdottir H, et al., 2013) Why Integrate Play • Assess real-world application • Freeze-frame How to integrate • 35 minute session • 15 structured exercise – – – – Developing goals Monitoring success Teaching skills Practicing skills • 20 non-directive play therapy – Multimodal integration – Real-world application – Freeze-frame SFBT Goals Establish and work toward goals Establish and work toward goals Promote behavioral change Build on strengths Build self-efficacy Build on strengths Build self-efficacy Promote behavioral change Build self-efficacy Promote behavioral change Corresponding SFBT Techniques Miracle question: “A miracle happens while your asleep…” Specific, concrete, behavioral goals: “What would you be doing differently if you weren’t feeling so sad?” “What would others notice if you weren’t feeling so sad?” “How would others respond to you if you weren’t feeling so sad?” Exceptions: “Tell me about a time when you experienced a small miracle?” Scaling questions: “Rate your success on a scale of 1-10.” “How come it was a 5 and not a 4?” “What can you do to make it a 6?” Positive reinforcement: Acknowledging efforts, reminding the child of past or unacknowledged successes, and encouraging child to think of ways to move up the scale – “Wow and How” NPT Goals Corresponding NPT Techniques Conscious awareness of emotions, intentions, needs, etc. Reflecting feelings, prosocial behaviors, intentions, and meaning Draw on strengths & builds self-efficacy Reflecting success, exceptions, and positive changes Build self-efficacy & enhance frustration Facilitating esteem and tolerance encouragement FEE Promote decision-making and build self- Facilitating decision-making and selfefficacy responsibility FDR Facilitate emotional regulation and impulse control & promote decisionmaking and self-responsibility Limit setting LS http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIMWOOlR_9g Play Therapy Techniques AA – acknowledging nonverbal behaviors RF – reflecting feeling, intentions, experiences, needs, wants, hopes, and desires FEE – facilitating esteem-building and encouragement FDR – facilitating decision-making and responsibility LS – limit setting Tracking - Labeling Toys • Avoid labeling toys – Reasonable to label clearly defined toys • Children will often correct you – “It’s not a dog. It’s a baby.” • Be non-gender-specific – “You’re showing it who’s the boss.” Tracking • Octavious pushes a truck across the sandbox. • Celia scoops up sand and puts it in a bowl. • Ashley gets up and begins looking around the room. Reflecting Feelings • Avoiding leading, influencing, or judging – “I wonder what would happen if the mean witch was nicer to the children?” – “You seem angry with the puppy. I wonder how that little dog feels?” – “You want other people to be nice to you when you’re sad, but you’re mean to the doll when it cries.” Reflecting Feeling, Meaning, Intentions • Ashley: Begins to write on the chalk board. “I like to draw on the board, but my teacher said the board is just for her.” – You wish you could draw on the board too. • Ashley: Looks at you with her hands on her hips and says, “We don’t get to play when we want to either. We have to do what the teacher says.” – It’s frustrating when you can’t play when you want to. • Ashley: Picks up the bubbles and smiles. She blows a bubble and laughs. – You feel happy when you blow bubbles. Facilitating Decision-making • Avoid giving advice, hints, suggestions – “Maybe if you put the other end in first it would fit.” – “I’m sure you’ll figure it out if you keep trying.” – “I wonder what would happen if you flipped it over.” Facilitating Decision-Making • Celia: Enters the playroom, looks around the room, and says: “What should I do?” – In here, you get to decide. You can play with the toys in many of the ways that you might like to. • Celia: Picks up a crayon and piece of paper and says: “I know what I can do.” – You figured it out. You know exactly what you want to do. • Celia: Begins to draw and says: “I’ll make a birthday card for Jess.” – You’ve decided to make a card for your friend. • Celia: “What colors should I use for my rainbow?” – You can choose what colors you’d like for your rainbow. • Rita washes her hands and then looks at you and says “How do I dry my hands off?” – “You don’t like it that your hands are wet and you’re not sure how to dry them off.” • Rita responds, “Can I use the blanket?” – “You think the blanket might work. You can choose to use the blanket.” • Dedra writes a word on the dry erase board and asks with a perplexed look “Did I spell it right?” – “You look confused. You’re not quite sure it’s right.” • Dedra responds “I know. Is it right though?” – “It’s important to you that you spell the word just right. In here, you can spell words anyway you want to.” • Debra says, “But is it right?” – “You really want to get it right. Well let’s see if we can figure it out together…” Facilitating Esteem • Empower children to struggle with new challenges • Help children learn to deal with frustration – “You’re trying to put those two pieces together…It’s frustrating when it doesn’t do what you want…Now you’re trying a different way…You figured it out! You feel proud.” Facilitating esteem • Do not praise or criticize the child’s play, behaviors, art, etc. – Negates internal locus of evaluation – Negates permissiveness Facilitating Esteem & Encouragement • Octavious: Builds a tall tower out of blocks and says: “Look at this. Isn’t it amazing?” – You worked hard and you’re proud of your work. • Octavious: “Yeah. But what do you think of my tower?” – You want to know what I think of your tower, but what matters is how you feel about your tower.” • Octavious: Walks over to the chalkboard and says: “I am proud of my tower. I know how to do multiplication.” • • You’re proud of your tower and you’re proud of your math skills. Octavious: Multiplies the numbers 20 times 20 and writes 400 on the board. He says, “Look at this!!” – You know how to do multiplication with big numbers and you’re excited about it. Limit Setting • Protect child, therapist, or materials • Helps child feel secure • Promotes therapist acceptance of child • Facilitates decision-making, self- responsibility, and self-control ACT Model of Limit Setting • Acknowledge the feeling, want, desire. “You really want to paint the wall.” • Communicate the limit. “The wall is not for painting” • Target acceptable alternative. “You can choose to paint the paper, or you can choose to paint on the popsicle sticks. • If you choose to paint on the wall, you choose not to play with the paint anymore today (Child paints on the wall). • I see you have chosen not to paint today. You can choose to put the paint brush on the easel or you can choose to put the brush on the shelf. Limit Setting • Jess: Picks up a dart gun and aims at you. – Looks like you’d like to shoot me with that gun, but people are not for shooting. You can choose to shoot the wall or you can choose to shoot the pillow. – You’d really like to shoot me with that gun, but… – It you choose to shoot the gun you choose not to play with it anymore. – I see you’ve chosen not to play with the gun. You can choose to put it on the table or you can choose to give it to me. • Ashley: “What would happen if I pulled the head off this doll?” • Octavious: “I don’t have any cars like this at my house. Can I take this one? I’ll bring it back next week.” Questions • Do not ask questions • Be careful how you respond to questions • Listen empathically and respond to the intention of the question Responding to Questions • “What is this?” – “You’re trying to figure out what that is.” • “Is this a real knife?” – “You’re surprised to find that in here.” • “How much time is left?” – “I’ll let you know when we have 5 minutes left.” • “Why do you talk like that?” – “You think I talk funny.” – “That’s just the way I pay attention to you.” Strength-based Assessment Strategy • How do we know if our intervention was effective? – First, we identify what it is that we wish to accomplish. – Second, we find a way to determine if our goals are being met. Strength-based Accountability Strategy • School success behaviors – Self-control (emotional regulation, attention control, impulse control) – Self-efficacy (self-esteem, confidence) – Social skills (sharing, taking turns, reading social/emotional cues, perspective-taking) (Arnold, Kupersmidt, Voegler-Lee, & Marshall, 2012; Brody, Flor, & Gibson, 1999; Jimerson, Egeland, Sroufe, & Carlson, 2000; McLelland, Morrison, & Holmes, 2000; Raver & Zigler, 1997; Vidal, Rodeiro, Emery, & Bell, 2012; Vitaro, Laroque, Janosz, & Tremblay, 2001; Von Suchodoletz A, Gestsdottir S, Ragnarsdottir H, et al., 2013) Self-control Self-efficacy Social skills • • • • • • Helping someone • Not giving up • Solving a problem • Making a good choice • Creating something • Having fun • • • • Taking turns Sharing Listening Not giving up Solving a problem Taking turns Sharing Apologizing Helping someone • Listening to others • Complimenting Strength-based, specific, and concrete behaviors Integrate because… Techniques include… Assess behavior change • • • • Evidence-based Developmentally appropriate Integration of explicit and implicit knowledge Promotes school success skills • Reflection, Facilitating Esteem, Facilitating Decision-making, Limit Setting • Self-control • Self-efficacy • Social skills Questions? Comments? Email ehthompson@wcu.edu