MODELS OF SINGLE ADULT AND YOUNG ADULT MINISTRY EXPLORING THE OPTIONS… DISCOVERING WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOUR MINISTRY Dennis Franck – Consultant/Speaker Franck Insights www.franckinsights.com www.singles.ag.org Springfield, MO www.youngadults.ag.org www.singles.ag.org ASK/ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS! What is your mission statement? Who are we trying to reach? (Age group/type) Why are we trying to reach them? (evangelism, discipleship, social) What are the demographics of your church? Take a written survey Consult church data base What are the demographics of your community? Obtain from the county courthouse www.census.gov – your state and county DESIGN MINISTRY BY AGE AND/OR NEED GROUPS BY AGE… 18-25-College age 20’s & 30’s BY Married Single Parents & children -Pre-school -Elementary -Jr/Sr High Divorce Care & children -Age groups Widowed 30+Single/single- again (35+ if have 20’s & 30”s) 55+ “Mature” Single NEED…. MINISTRY GROUP MODELS DESIGN YOUR MINISTRY BY PURPOSE/MISSION… OUTREACH DISCIPLESHIP DISCUSSION EDUCATIONAL SOCIAL/RECREATIONAL SMALL GROUPS CONTEMPORARY SERVICE COMBINATION OUTREACH Topical teaching on personal -life issues Discussion opportunities – small/large group Informal seating - tables & chairs best Extended fellowship time (15-30 minutes) Light, short praise & worship Refreshments provided - helpful to fellowship Many people involved in the meeting Prayer - short times of - few involved Attracts mature, immature Christians and unbelievers Attracts visitors Functions well in neutral, non-threatening settings Frequency - weekly to monthly DISCIPLESHIP - CLASS Bible-study/Bible books & spiritual topics Discussion-small and large group Praise & worship – extended time for Prayer-various types & much time for Group interaction with teacher Shorter fellowship time Attracts strong & maturing Christians Does not attract many visitors or unbelievers Refreshments-May be provided, but not as necessary Location-church, home or other Frequency-weekly to monthly DISCUSSION http://singles.ag.org/leadership/ministryhelps/ideas/ 1 Topic - All groups have the same topic 7 - 8 people per group - tables & chairs or chairs only in small circles Form # of groups by dividing attendance by 7 and counting off Make every group BOTH males & females – allow guests to sit with hosts Discussion leaders facilitate the discussion NO teaching, facilitators LEAD the discussion Discussion time - 1 hour with possible large group wrap up Prayer - short prayers at end of discussion in small groups or large group Attracts visitors and non-Christians Attracts immature & mature Christians Location - church rooms & neutral settings Frequency - weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly Refreshments following - helpful for fellowship EDUCATIONAL Workshop/seminar format Praise & worship-light & brief Teaching (spiritual and personal topics – Concentrated for a period of time – Half day to day-and-a-half OR 3 - 8 week series Personal and spiritual topics Discussion-large & small groups Prayer-short & brief, one or two involved Attracts visitors Attracts immature & mature Christians Location-church rooms/neutral locations Frequency – 2 - 4 months Refreshments - helpful for fellowship SOCIAL/RECREATIONAL Many types of social/recreational events Teaching-rare, devotional type if ever Prayer-minimal if ever Praise & worship-rare if ever Discussion-rare, if ever Location-various settings and types of Frequency-weekly to monthly Consider cost & target age Refreshments - usual and often Attracts unbelievers, immature & mature Christians Attracts visitors SMALL GROUPS BIBLE STUDY/DISCIPLESHIP » Praise & worship maybe extended time for » Prayer time maybe extended time for » Discussion about teaching in large and small groups » Time allowed for praise reports & prayer requests » Teaching topics - Biblical/Spiritual issues - Personal issues » Attracts immature & mature Christians » Retains Christians who want to grow » Does not attract unbelievers » Location - Homes/church/other » Frequency - Weekly to monthly » Refreshments - Helpful but not necessary » Spiritual growth, maturity atmosphere SMALL GROUPS PRAYER AND SHARE – – – – – – – – – – – Teaching brief, informal - Personal topics Praise & worship short & light Extended time for discussion Extended time for praise reports & prayer requests Prayer time extended, light, many participants Attracts unbelievers, immature & mature Christians Retains unbelievers, immature and mature Christians Location - Home/church/other neutral locations Frequency - Weekly to monthly Refreshments helpful Supportive, seeker atmosphere CONTEMPORARY SERVICE Informal or formal seating Praise & worship-partial to full band-maybe extended time Prayer time usually short-one or several involved Teaching/preaching-spiritual growth & personal topics Use of video, drama, power point, visuals, high tech toolsMany people involved - new songs Discussion/group interaction limited unless seating allows Attracts immature & mature Christians Attracts young adult unbelievers more easily than older unbelievers Frequency - weekly to monthly Refreshments & fellowship time beneficial CONTEMPORARY SERVICE Authentic, fun, intentional environment Relational, spiritual environment Location-church or other Use of new terms instead of “Christian - ese”… – – – – – – Programs vs. Bulletins Guests vs. Visitors Podium vs. Pulpit Message vs. Sermon Auditorium vs. Sanctuary Audience vs. Congregation DEVELOP SEVERAL MODELS… PLAN A TOTAL MINISTRY BUILD IT IN STAGES… WAIT TILL YOU HAVE LEADERSHIP WAIT TILL YOU HAVE RESOURCES – – – – – Vision Room (s) Finances Teaching materials Other materials ON CHURCH GROUNDS - BENENFITS 1) More people from your church exposed to ministry 2) Less storage problems 3) Less set up, clean up - tables, chairs, props, materials etc. 4) More access to tables, chairs, props etc. ON CHURCH GROUNDS BENEFITS 5) Less time finding a meeting room 6) Usually less risk of losing the meeting room 7) No cost 8) Fewer requests to announce other churches' events OFF CHURCH GROUNDS, CONSIDER… AREA FOR FELLOWSHIP IN ROOM COST OF ROOM FLEXIBLE SEATING POSSIBLE DAYS ROOM NOT AVAILABLE IMAGE OF THE BUSINESS LOCATION OF THE BUSINESS STORAGE OF MATERIALS CHILDCARE NEEDS – – – – – Age grouping of children Children’s leaders and workers Program to use for children Transportation to church for classes (if available) Snacks OFF CHURCH GROUNDS ROOM IDEAS RESTAURANT ROOM MOTEL MEETING ROOM COMMUNITY ROOM APARTMENT COMPLEX BOWLING ALLEY MEETING ROOM BANK ROOM SERVICE CLUB ROOM OTHER OFF CHURCH GROUNDS BENEFITS 1) More community exposure 2) Attracts more unbelievers due to neutral setting 3) Attracts more believers who do not have a ministry at their church 4) Attracts more children of single parents to take to your church if on Sunday (classes, kids church) 5) Easier to build a city-wide influence and image OFF CHURCH GROUNDS BENEFITS 6) Easier to build relationships with other pastors 7) Less denominational hang ups in peoples' minds due to the neutral setting 8) More flexibility with schedule 9) Any size church could sponsor the ministry 10) Easier for several churches to sponsor together SPONSORING CHURCH (ES) OR MINISTRY (IES) IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A SPIRITUAL COVERING – – – – – – Protection from accusations Financial backing Advice when needed Spiritual/Moral support when needed Identity of the sponsoring church/ministry Security of the sponsoring church/ministry SPONSORING MODELS One church-Leader from this church Two or more churches of same denominationLeaders from both Two or more churches - different denominationsBoth should be alike in basic beliefs (evangelical) Independent organization-(not a church)-Seek a pastor(s) and/or church board(s) to support you One or more individuals- Seek a pastor(s) and/or church board(s) to support you FUNDING THE MINISTRY Any ministry worth having is worth funding! INCLUDED IN A CHURCH BUDGET TWO OR MORE CHURCHES GO TOGETHER REGULAR OFFERINGS IN THE GROUP – – – – People will give to the cause Keep towards expenses Run through church budget Tax deductible if written to church Discussion 1. Which model(s) resemble what you are doing now? 2. Which model do you think would attract the most people? Why? 3. Which model(s) best express your philosophy of ministry? 4. What are the benefits of being intentional in designing ministry to reach specific types of people? 5. Which model would you want to begin first? Why? 6. Which models would you want to add later? Why? 7. What, if anything, would you like to adjust/change in your ministry as a result of understanding these models? www.youngadults.ag.org www.singles.ag.org