Remembering
Names
Soft Skill Builder For
The Workplace And Life
Question?
Have
you ever run into someone that
you have met before and can't
remember that person's name?
It can be an awkward situation for
both you and the other person.
Reason
When
We're telling him, "you're important."
When
we remember someone,
we forget a person,
We may leave the opposite impression.
Think…
You
want great service at a restaurant?
Call the waitress by name when you place
your order.
Want
to be the center of influence at a
party?
Introduce people you just met to others at
the party.
People
love to hear their own name.
“A person's name is to that person, the
sweetest most important sound in any
language."
Dale Carnegie, (1888-1955),
Author and motivational speaker on
self-improvement, salesmanship,
and corporate training
How To Remember
1.
Look and Listen—
Look at the person.
Get a strong mental image of the person.
What characteristics make the person unique?
Is the person large, small, tall, thin, lots of hair,
no hair?
Listen clearly to the name.
Ask the person to repeat his/her name if
you do not hear the name clearly.
How To Remember
Mind
Picture—
Associate the person's name with a picture
that is easy to recall.
The full name should create ONE picture.
The person whose name you have made a
picture of should be in the picture.
Difficult names may need to be broken down
into syllables to create memorable pictures.
Example: Staneart (Stan-irt)-Picture me
STANding up to my waist in dIRT.
How To Remember
Exaggerate—
The more exaggerated and colorful the
picture, the easier it will be to remember.
Make the picture larger than life.
Make it funny.
Add a little danger.
Repeat—
Repeat the name silently to yourself a
few times.
Try to use the name in conversation.
Introducing the person to others can be
an easy way to repeat the name without
drawing attention.
Remembering
Names
Methods
are fairly simple and obvious, but
are quite powerful.
Association either with images of a name or
with other people can really help recall of
names.
Repetition and review help it to sink in.
An important thing to stress is practice,
patience, and progressive improvement in
remembering names.