Coping With the Family Stress in Challenging Economic Times Nancy M. Porter, Ph.D. Deborah J. Thomason, Ed.D. • When do you feel stressed? – (keep a stress journal) • What symptoms do you feel? • What do you think triggers these feelings? 2 What is it? • • • • • • Stress Seasonal Affective Disorder Holiday Blues Grief Depression Health Related Issues 3 Everyday Blues 4 Stress High levels of stress can impact your emotional well-being. 5 Tips to Manage Stress • • • • Identify your stressors Change what you can Find a stress reliever Be flexible 6 Seasonal Affective Disorder • Symptoms • Causes • Treatments 7 Holiday Blues May be related to: • Stress • SAD • Loneliness • Post-holiday let down 8 Coping With Financial Stress • • • • • • Be realistic Avoid overspending Set priorities Focus on the present Share the load Be flexible 9 Suggestions: •Exercise •Get enough rest •Eat right •Participate in enjoyable activities •Spend time with others •Keep a journal •Positive self-talk •Meditate •Maintain humor •Get enough light •Forgive •Help others 10 Make a Plan • Choose a new technique • Write a plan (see handout) • Try it the next time you feel stressed 11 Helping Others • What has been your experience in helping others who are feeling stressed? • Is it hard to know whether to help or not? • Did you know what to say or do? 12 Help others by providing: • • • • • • Emotional support Listening ear Practical support Social interaction Optimistic outlook Encouragement to seek help 13 Emotional Support • • • • Caring Understanding Patience Encouragement 14 Listening Ear • How do you know what to say? • How do you bring up the subject? 15 Good Listeners: • • • • • Give full attention Let the person finish talking Allow pauses Facilitate discussion Validate feelings 16 Encourage Social Interactions: • • • • Maintain relationships Participate in activities Volunteer Join a support group 17 Optimism Is the glass half full or half empty? 18 Professional Help Encourage seeking professional help to get on the road to a brighter future. 19 http://dprod4.clemson.edu/olos/asp/searchresults.asp ?s=Family+Relation Deciding Which Bills to Pay First Nancy M. Porter, Ph.D. Deborah J. Thomason, Ed.D.