Hello! Welcome to: Project STIR Missouri Fall 2011 Project STIR Steps Toward Independence and Responsibility Your presenters are: Robyn Dorton Wilson Finks Kira Fisher Deb Zuver Project STIR is: A team of trainers with and without disabilities that offers hands-on training. The Project STIR team: provides self-advocacy and leadership tools for and by people with/without disabilities. A University Center for Excellence in Developmental Disabilities Education, Research, and Service :::: University of North Carolina Chapel Hill Project STIR Missouri Webinar Today we will: 1 – Introduce ourselves 2 –Try Speak-Up selfadvocacy tools. 3 – Tell about Project STIR Self-Advocacy Training. Project STIR Missouri Webinar Today we will: 1 – Introduce ourselves 2 –Try Speak-Up selfadvocacy tools. 3 – Tell about Project STIR Self-Advocacy Training. Get to Know Us: Activity! My Way/No Way What do you like? Get to Know Us: Activity! 1 – See the next slide. 2 – Guess: Is it Robyn, Wilson, Kira or Deb? My Way - No Way: Guess WHO? I LIKE: Country music Friends Cooking • • • • Robyn? Wilson? Kira? Deb? My Way - No Way: WHO? I LIKE TO: Write poetry Watch basketball Ride horseback • Wilson? • Kira? • Deb? My Way - No Way: WHO? I LIKE: Travel Reading Walking • Wilson? • Deb? My Way - No Way: I LIKE: Watching Soaps Football Computers Wilson? My Way - No Way: OR I LIKE: gardening games winter Wilson? Getting to Know You My Way/No Way What do you like? My Way/No Way How does knowing your interests help you be a selfadvocate? You can make better choices. You can be active in your community and share interests. Project STIR Missouri Webinar Today we will: 1 – Introduce ourselves. 2 –Try Speak-Up selfadvocacy tools. 3 – Tell about Project STIR Self-Advocacy Training. What is Self-Advocacy? Self-Advocacy is... Speaking up for yourself. Asking for what you need. Negotiating for yourself. Knowing your rights and responsibilities. Using resources that are available to you. What is Inclusion? Inclusion is… …people with/without disabilities participating in their community together What is a Leader? Leaders work with others for positive change Leaders: Cooperate with Advocate others Solve problems Offer support Negotiate Make plans Self-Advocate Leaders Supporters and Allies Become a Self-Advocate Steps to Speaking Up: 1. Know Yourself 2. Communicate Assertively 3. Solve Problems 4. Rights & Responsibilities Speak Up Manual : www.self-advocate.org Speak Up! Action Manual for Peer Leader Teams Speak Up! Action Manual for Peer Leaders Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate: 1. 2. 3. 4. Know Yourself Communicate Assertively Solve Problems Rights & Responsibilities Speak Up! CONTENT: For each Step: Think About – Talk About Resources Scenes Team Activities Speak Up! Four Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate 1.Know Yourself 2. Communicate Assertively 3. Solve Problems 4. Rights & Responsibilities How does knowing yourself help you be a better leader? It helps you build a strong team. Getting to know and trust one another is important. Speak Up! Four Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate 1. Know Yourself 2.Communicate Assertively 3. Problem-Solving 4. Rights & Responsibilities Speak Up! Action Manual for Peer Leaders Listening is as important as speaking Person-First Language “Dos and Don’ts” Communicating How does communicating help you be a better leader? Communicating helps you: Understand the other person Express your ideas and feelings Gain respect COMMUNICATION: Some Feelings… Annoyed Proud Overwhelmed Frustrated Worried Excited Inspired Nervous Hopeful Calm Confident Shy Disappointed Knowing Your Feelings How does knowing your feelings help you become a better leader? You can tell the difference between feelings, thoughts, actions. You care about other people’s feelings. Your feelings can help you make decisions. Speak Up! Four Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate 1. Know Yourself 2. Communicate Assertively 3.Solve Problems 4. Rights & Responsibilities Problem Solving Steps Step 1: Relax (Deep Breath) Step 2: Say Something Positive to Yourself Step 3: Identify the Problem Step 4: Think of Solutions Step 5: Pick one and… just do it! Problem Solving Steps Problem Solving Steps Problem Solving Steps Problem Solving Steps Problem Solving Steps Problem Solving Steps Problem-Solving Scene: American Idol - Basketball WHO: Ramone and Carol WHERE: At home WHAT: Disagree about TV show to watch Problem Solving Steps How do problem solving steps help us become better leaders? Problem solving helps us Identify our feelings. Take time to think. Make good decisions for ourselves AND the group. Speak Up! Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate 1. Know Yourself 2. Communicate Assertively 3. Solve Problems 4.Rights & Responsibilities Is Anybody Listening to Me? WHO: Jane Mom (wants the best for Jane) Mr. Mills (wants the best for Jane) WHAT: Before Person-Centered Planning meeting WHERE: Mr. Mills Office Some Feelings… Annoyed Proud Overwhelmed Frustrated Worried Excited Inspired Nervous Hopeful Calm Confident Shy Disappointed Rights Rights mean fairness and freedom. Rights apply to everyone! Responsibility Responsibility means we have a duty to respect the rights of others--and to have our own rights respected. We must take responsibility for our actions. Rules and Laws How do Rules and Laws help us be responsible? We know what our rights and responsibilities are to ourselves and others. We understand what we need to do to keep our rights. Speak Up! Action Manual for Peer Leaders Steps to Becoming a Self-Advocate: 1. 2. 3. 4. Know Yourself Communicate Assertively Solve Problems Rights & Responsibilities Project STIR Missouri Webinar Today we will: 1 – Introduce ourselves 2 –Try Speak-Up selfadvocacy tools. 3 – Tell about Project STIR Self-Advocacy Training. WHY Start a Self-Advocacy Group? To empower people with disabilities to speak up To involve more people with disabilities in the community How do you build a strong self-advocacy group? Share skills--Each member brings different skills. Shares tasks--Each member has different likes and dislikes. How do you build a strong self-advocacy group? Get to know each other. Build trust. Start a Self-Advocacy Group Decide: What is your vision? Who do you want to involve? When will you meet? How will you organize your group? Emerging Leaders Emerging Leaders/Agency Reps You can vote for officers for your group A good officer is a role model: President Vice-president Secretary Treasurer Group Advisors - Tips How can they support? What is helpful? Self-Determination is… Making your own life decisions. Shifting the Power Supports Follow the Money Government Local Program Case Manager YOU Service Provider Follow the Money Service Provider & Broker Government YOU Self-Determination How does self-determination help you to become a better leader? Helps you get the life you want. Helps you be a responsible citizen. Helps you move your state toward a more self-determined system. Let’s get ready for YOU to try! Project STIR Missouri Training STIR training goals are to: 1. Build your teams 2. Practice tools for speaking up 3. Plan next steps for training & leading others Project STIR Missouri Training: Talk See videos Act Out Scenes Do activities Practice Leading On Day 1 (p.m.), we will Meet :: Project STIR Team :: Project STIR Missouri trainees :: Missouri Support Allies Begin to build a team On Day 2, we will Apply 4 self-advocacy tools Learn disability history On Day 3, we will… • Plan to start a self-advocacy group • Practice the Spiral Model • Review self-determination • YOU lead activities and scenes On Day 4 (A.M.) we will... • Create a group PATH for Missouri Self-Advocate teams • Review your role • Get Ready for next steps • Review accomplishments Why this approach? Participants interact- Try out tools – not just watch/listen Support one another Work as a team. The group models inclusion Diverse abilities = diverse team strengths. Visible & invisible disabilities. Why this approach? It includes emotions and feelings Brain research: emotion is tied to memory Participants distinguish between feelings/behaviors/thoughts It puts participants in role as leaders NC Project STIR Examples: - Youths 4 Advocacy: Empowers students with disabilities to transition successfully into their communities. - Carolina Health and Transition (CHAT): Youths speak up about their health care. - Shifting the Power: Leadership training in 10 states. Project STIR Missouri Webinar Today we: 1 – Introduced ourselves 2 –Tried Speak-Up selfadvocacy tools. 3 – Told about Project STIR Self-Advocacy Training. Project STIR www.self-advocate.org Project STIR Missouri Good luck-- Make a difference for Missouri! Evaluations - Questions Thumbs Up! Thumbs Down! OR